Language is more than vocabulary. It's memory. It's culture. It's prayer. It's the voice your child hears when they need comfort.

This conversation explores what it looks like to raise children in more than one language—not from a place of pressure, but from purpose. The beauty of giving your child access to grandparents' stories, to worship in two tongues, to Scripture that sounds different but carries the same truth.

There's honest here too. The fear that you're not doing enough. The worry that mixing languages will confuse them. The tension of wanting your child to "fit in" while also wanting them to fully know where they come from.

Bilingual parenting takes intention. It takes repetition. It takes patience when little ones answer you in English after you've asked the question in Spanish — again.

But language is connection. It builds bridges across generations. It keeps culture alive at the dinner table. It allows faith to be spoken in the heart language of your home.

 And children are more capable than we think.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:38 Growing Up Between Cultures

00:05:30 Multigenerational Communication

00:08:35 Becoming a Bilingual Family

00:12:04 Strategies for Raising Children in a Bilingual Home

00:16:15 More than Linguistics

00:20:01 The Richness of Biculturalism

00:23:57 No Language Barrier in the Faith

00:27:25 Challenges of Maintaining Two Languages in the Home

00:35:22 "Thy People Shall Be My People"

00:37:28 Introducing Faith Vocabulary to Children

00:43:50 Discipling Bilingual Children in the Church

00:50:56 Assessing and Addressing the Needs of Children

00:52:00 Learning Together

00:53:21 Reflection

00:59:00 Closing & Prayer

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Homeschooling isn't just an educational choice — it's a way of doing life together.

This conversation brings together two homeschool moms at different stages of the journey, reflecting honestly on what homeschooling is, what it isn't and how it shifts across seasons. From early uncertainty and learning curves to freedom, flexibility, and the confidence that comes with time, Ashley Grant and Sabrina Sinks center their discussion on listening to God, knowing your limits, and responding to what your children actually need.

They talk through practical realities — laws, structure, cost, socialization, working while homeschooling — but always return to the deeper question: What is God asking our family to do in this season? With Grace and clarity, they name that homeschooling is not the "better" choice for every family, nor is public or private school a failure. Faithfulness sometimes looks like holding on and sometimes letting go.

For parents considering homeschooling, currently in it, or discerning a transition, these reflections offer reassurance, wisdom, and permission to pivot — without guilt.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Why Homeschooling Feels Overwhelming at First

00:03:00 Laws, Flexibility, and Finding State-Specific Guidance

00:05:30 Curriculum, Structure, & the Freedom to Pivot

00:08:00 Knowing When You're Called — and When You're Not

00:10:30 Academic Struggles, One-on-One Learning & Prayerful Goals

00:12:30 Socialization, Community, and the Role of the Church

00:16:00 Cost, Budgeting, & Creative Approaches to Learning

00:18:30 Multiple Ages, Independence & Shared Learning

00:22:00 Redefining "School" through Everyday Life

00:26:00 Working Parents, Single Parents & Making it Workable

00:31:00 When Homeschooling Isn't the Right Fit

00:35:00 Prayer for Families Discerning Their Next Steps

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Prayer is powerful—but sometimes, it can feel overwhelming to know where to begin. In this episode, Elly Marroquin sits down with Nonda Houston, National Director of AG Women, to talk about what it really looks like to be a praying mom in everyday life.

From school drama and family challenges to the weight of injustice and discouragement, Nonda shares honest stories and practical ways to lift our children up in prayer. Together, they explore the beauty of praying Scripture, the importance of standing in the gap, and the strength that comes from pray groups and community. 

If you've ever wondered if your prayer matters, this conversation is a reminder that even small beginnings can leave a lasting legacy.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:01:06 Meet Nonda

00:03:02 Why Matters

00:04:05 Conversations with God

00:04:44 Praying Scripture Over Our Kids

00:07:40 Knocking on Heaven's Door

00:09:07 Praying through School Drama

00:13:07 Standing in the Gap

00:18:05 What Does a Praying Mom Look Like?

00:20:56 Conquering False Expectations

00:24:55 Finding Strength in Prayer Groups & Partners

00:28:49 When You Feel Defeated or Discouraged

00:34:15 Teaching the Next Generation to Pray

00:37:37 Small Beginnings, Lasting Legacy

00:42:15 Closing                                                                              

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Parents and grandparents, your influence can shape faith for generations to come. In this uplifting episode, host Elly Marroquin sits down with Bob Cook—who, together with his wife Sherilyn, leads Senior Adult Ministries for the Assemblies of God (Springfield, MO). With honesty and heart, Bob shares the biblical calling of grandparents, why staying spiritually strong matters, and how to stay engaged with both children and grandchildren. Through stories that will make you smile and moments that may move you to tears, you'll be reminded of the lasting impact of love, connection, and faith. Whether you live close or far from family, this conversation will encourage you to leave a legacy that truly matters.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:05:16 Biblical Role of Grandparents

00:09:25 Grandparent Responsibilities in Faith

00:17:39 Leaving a Lasting Legacy

00:23:05 Connecting Across Distance

00:28:21 Sharing Your Faith Story

00:34:22 Loving Across Generations

00:38:21 Highlight from Bob's Journey

00:43:38 Final Thoughts and Closing                                           

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The first day of school—especially in a brand-new setting—can bring a swirl of emotions. In this encouraging episode, Elly Marroquin sits down with educator Laura Mooney to talk through how to approach the back-to-school season with calm, confidence, and faith. You'll hear practical tips for easing transitions, creating a peaceful rhythm at home, and helping your child feel seen and supported. No matter if you're sending off a kindergartener or a high school senior, this conversation is a gentle reminder that you're not alone—and that your presence matters more than you know.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:02:11 Preparing for the First Day of School

00:07:46 Back-to-School Transitions

00:12:18 Senior Year Parenting Tips

00:18:33 Supporting School Success at Home

00:24:08 Timing Tough Talks Thoughtfully

00:28:54 Starting Day with Blessings

00:37:41 Empowering Children in Faith

00:39:49 Biblical Truths for Parenting

00:47:46 Final Thoughts and Closing                                           

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Single parenting can feel like a heavy load—but you don't have to carry it alone. In this heartfelt episode, Elly Marroquin sits down with Ashley Grant with Compact Family Services, to talk about the honest, everyday struggles solo parents face—many of which often go unseen.

From custody exchanges and emotional overwhelm to self-care and boundary-setting. Ashley offers practical advice rooted in grace and faith. If you're walking this road, this conversation is a reminder that God sees you, love you, and is with you every step of the way.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:03:57 Adjusting to Parenting Alone

00:05:48 Realities of Parenting Alone

00:08:32 Finding Time for You

00:10:40 Pushing through the Hard Moments

00:12:46 Managing Child Custody with Grace

00:15:24 Speaking Wisely About Co-Parent

00:17:29 Supporting Children Through Disappointment

00:20:32 Finding Healing for the Single Parent

00:22:51 When the Co-Parent Moves On

00:25:15 Avoiding Child Co-Dependency

00:30:30 Final Thoughts and Closing                                           

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Ever catch yourself snapping, shutting down, or spiraling—and wonder where did that come from? You're not alone.

In this compassionate episode, Elly sits down with Dr. Vanessa Snyder, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, for an honest conversation about how our own unhealed wounds and emotional blind spots can shape the way we show up as parents. Together, they unpack what it means to be "The Person of the Helper"—and how to carry that role with wisdom, humility, and growth.

Whether you're parenting toddlers or learning to release adult children, you'll find practical guidance on emotional regulation, power vs. control, and how to parent with grace even in the messy middle. This episode is a gentle reminder that healing isn't just for us—it's how we love our kids better, too.

Dr. Vanessa Snyder is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, master traumatologist, an AAMFT approved supervisor, and approved clinical supervisor from Georgia.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:02:34 Understanding "Person of the Helper"

00:08:42 Recognizing Our Parenting Blind Spot

00:11:28 Mastering Your Emotional Response

00:21:57 Past Wounds, Present Parenting

00:24:21 Parents Using Power Tactics

00:30:15 Parenting When Children Become Adults

00:32:16 Final Thoughts & Closing                                               

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Foster parenting often involves stepping into a child's story mid-chapter — one that may include wounds of sexual trauma or confusing, sexualized behaviors. In this compassionate grace-filled conversation, Elly welcomes back Dr. Vanessa Snyder, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to help foster parents navigate these deeply sensitive moments with wisdom, grace, and clarity.

Together, they explore God's design for sexuality, the significance of safe and respectful body language, and how to build a home where trust can flourish. Dr. Snyder unpacks common behaviors—like self-stimulation, sexting, or exposure to pornography—and shares how these may be linked to natural curiosity, development stages, or past wounds.

You'll walk away with practical tools to: respond calmly and with discernment, protect and support every child in your care, reinforce healthy boundaries and body safety, and stay grounded when navigating digital exposure and tough conversations.

This episode reminds foster parents that while the road may be complex you are never alone. Healing is possible—and your care can be the start of a new story rooted in trust, safety, and restoration.

Dr. Vanessa Snyder is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, master traumatologist, an AAMFT approved supervisor, and approved clinical supervisor from Georgia.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:04:17 Understandings God's Design for Sexuality

00:06:19 Body Vocabulary Builds Safety

00:08:23 Acknowledging Trauma-Driven Behavior

00:11:03 Caring for Sexual Trauma Survivors

00:13:56 Responding Calmly to Behavior

00:17:35 Creating Safety and Trust

00:23:37 Projecting Pain Through Behavior

00:27:12 Protecting Siblings Amid Challenges

00:32:19 Addressing Self-Stimulation in Children

00:35:15 Managing Digital Sexual Exposure

00:38:51 Final Thoughts and Closing                                           

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Raising kids in today's hypersexualized culture can feel daunting—but you don't have to do it alone. In this insightful and compassionate episode, Elly is joined by Licensed Marriage Family Therapist Dr. Vanessa Snyder for an honest conversation about childhood sexuality and how parents can respond with calm, confidence, and care.

Together, they break down what healthy sexuality looks like, how to use correct body terminology, and when to spot red flags. From talking about pornography and sexting to navigating self-stimulation, Dr. Snyder shares trauma-informed advice to help you build trust, safety, and open communication in your home. 

If you're a parent looking for clarity and tools—not fear or shame—this episode offers the guidance and encouragement you need. 

Dr. Vanessa Snyder is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, master traumatologist, an AAMFT approved supervisor, and approved clinical supervisor from Georgia.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:03:03 Understanding Healthy Sexuality

00:10:56 Teaching Accurate Body Terminology

00:12:56 Spotting Red Flags & Responding

00:22:07 Responding Calmly with Care

00:26:46 Addressing A Child's Sexual Behavior

00:30:44 Managing Child's Pornography Exposure

00:39:57 Teaching Healthy Physical Boundaries

00:46:06 Knowing When to Seek Help

00:49:12 Addressing Sexting with Your Child

00:53:01 Final Thoughts and Closing                                           

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Painful experiences often leave lasting marks—shaping how we parent and connect with our children. Licensed Professional Counselor Heather Bixler and Licensed Master Social Worker Leah Musacchio share clinical insight and practical tools for recognizing unresolved trauma, managing triggers, and setting healthy expectations.

We explore how trauma can be passed down through generations, and how healing begins with self-awareness, grace, and a heart open to growth. With faith as a foundation, this conversation offers encouragement, hope, and guidance for building a more compassionate, trauma-informed home. 

Whether you're on a personal healing journey or supporting others, this episode is full of wisdom, hope, and guidance for creating a more mindful, trauma-informed home.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

00:00:43 Trauma

00:02:31 Unresolved Trauma's Impact on Parenting

00:05:45 Signs and Symptoms of Unresolved Trauma

00:09:15 Importance of Healing Unresolved Trauma in Parenting

00:11:06 Avoiding Intergenerational Trauma

00:16:46 Self-Care and Balance in Parenting

00:21:19 Managing Trauma Triggers and Relieving Discomfort

00:24:52 Scriptures for Healing from Trauma

00:28:47 Trauma-Informed Parenting

00:33:15 Realistic Expectations in Healing

00:39:33 Power of Parental Apology

00:48:22 Final Thoughts                                                                 

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Have you ever struggled with feeling disconnected in your relationships, battled low self-worth, or found it hard to set healthy boundaries? You're not alone. In this heartfelt episode, Heather Bixler, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Leah Musacchio, Licensed Master Social Worker, sit down to talk about the "mother wound" – what is it, how it shows up in our lives, and why it matters.

Together, they unpack the signs, like emotional neglect and people-pleasing, and how this wound can shape our attachment styles, relationships, and even the way we parent – often in different ways for women and men. You'll also hear real, practical steps for beginning your healing journey, avoiding re-traumatization, and breaking free from old patterns. 

Heather and Leah weave in scriptural encouragement to support spiritual healing and highlight why having a supportive community around you is so important. 

Grab a cozy seat and join us for a compassionate, honest conversation about healing, hope, and growing into the person you were created to be.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

00:00:54 Defining the Mother Wound

00:05:26 Signs and Symptoms of a Mother Wound

00:09:50 Understanding Your Coping Attachment Style

00:12:26 First Steps to Healing the Mother Wound

00:16:19 Mother Wound's Impact on Women v. Men

00:21:48 First Steps to Healing the Mother Wound

00:24:37 Mother Wound's Impact on Marriage & Relationships

00:28:21 How the Mother Wound Affects Parenting

00:33:39 Gentle Healing Without Re-Trauma

00:39:24 Safeguards to Break Repeating Patterns

00:42:28 Scriptural Guidance for Healing the Mother Wound

00:46:56 The Role of Healthy Community in Healing

00:50:55 Healing Wounds You May Have Caused

00:53:59 Final Thoughts and Closing                                                                                                      ----------------------------------------------

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Join us as we welcome back Dr. Jimmy White, his wife, Renata, and their three kids—Jocelyn, Jordan, and Jathan—for an engaging discussion on the joys and nuances of being grandparents. Hear their personal stories about becoming first-time grandparents and the importance of clear communication about parenting preferences. They also explore the unique dynamics of adopted and blended family grandparenting, the beauty of an organic approach, and how grandparents can actively participate in the spiritual formation of their grandchildren. Discover practical tips for engaging with parents and staying relevant across generations. Tune in for heartfelt insights on building a lasting legacy of love and faith.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:53:00 Becoming First Time Grandparents

00:02:13 Parenting Preferences & Communication

00:05:02 Adopted Grandparents

00:07:07 Organic Parenting Style

00:08:25 Honoring Parenting Preferences

00:11:21 Grandparents Being Part of the Spiritual Formation

00:19:26 What God's Word Says about Grandparenting

00:21:01 Staying Relevant to Future Generations

00:23:12 Grandparents Engaging with the Parents

00:25:15 Blended Family Grandparenting

00:28:41 Closing

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A year ago, there was anticipation. Now there's a baby crawling across the floor and a mom reflecting on what she didn't see coming.

In this conversation Amy Flattery sits back down with Emmy Nolasco for a one-year follow-up after welcoming baby Ezra. They talk honestly about the emotional whiplash of the first year — how big joy and big overwhelm can exist in the same moment. The newborn trenches. The guilt. The sleep deprivation. The realization that asking for help isn't weakness — it's wisdom.

Emmy shares the rhythms she's built into her days: intentional family time, slow showers without guilt, calling grandparents, and praying over Ezra each morning—even before he can fully understand words. There's something powerful about speaking identity and fruit of the Spirit over a child from the very beginning.

They talk about daycare guilt, teamwork in marriage, learning to communicate differently as parents, and the importance of taking care of your own soul so you can pour from something healthy.

There's practical wisdom here too—baby proof earlier than you think, stop comparing milestones, and let the dishes wait if it means you get one more moment on the floor with your baby. 

The first year is exhausting. It stretches you. It exposes insecurities. It teaches you to release your child to the Lord again and again.

But when Jesus is invited into the process, survival slowly becomes something closer to thriving.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome Back One Year Later

00:02:30 Asking for Help & Releasing Guilt

00:04:00 Family Rhythms & Praying Over Your Baby

00:08:00 Daycare Guilt & Trusting God

00:09:00 Marriage Shifts & Teamwork

00:12:00 Milestones & Comparison Pressure

00:14:00 Boy Mom Emotions & Trusting the Lord

00:15:00 Self-care Without Guilt

00:16:30 Calling Grandparents & Building Support

00:19:00 Scriptures for the Newborn Trenches

00:22:00 Letting the Dishes Wait & Being Present

00:25:00 Final Encouragement

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Growing up as a preacher's kid comes with added pressures, such as the expectation of perfection, constant observation and evaluation by church members, and boundary ambiguity. Listen in as Dr. Jimmy White, his wife Renata, and their three children—Jocelyn (Hampton), Jordan, and Jathan—engage in a candid and humorous conversation about growing up in a pastor's home. They reveal the unique pressures, benefits, and life lessons learned from their upbringing. Expect plenty of laughs as they explore how these experiences inform their current parenting, providing insights into faith, family, and navigating life in the spotlight. 

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome and Introduction                                             

00:01:49 Growing Up in Ministry

00:05:46 Balancing Truth and Protection in Church

00:09:26 Serving Together in Church

00:13:19 Values Pastor's Kids Share Forward

00:16:17 Parenting in the Digital Age

00:24:47 Sibling Spacing: Benefits and Challenges

00:25:40 Parenting Advice: What I'd Share

00:30:59 Closing

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As the old saying goes, "opposites attract," and while that may not always be true, we can be confident that every couple will encounter moments when they have different ways of thinking and opinions. Dr. Jimmy White, National Adult Discipleship Director for the Assemblies of God, and his wife, Renata White, candidly share insights into their 35-year marriage, highlighting key differences they've navigated. Join us as Jimmy and Renata trace the evolution of their relationship, from newlyweds to parents, sharing insights on love patience, and the shifting dynamics of family life. Their honest reflections offer valuable advice and practical wisdom for parents, illustrating how love, resilience, and mutual respect have sustained them.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:00:43 Different Upbringings

00:04:21 Children's Temperament Types

00:10:37 It's Going to be Okay

00:12:02 Navigating Holiday Traditions

00:14:07 Disciplinary Practices

00:15:23 Money Management

00:16:59 Final Thoughts

00:18:38 Closing

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Description: What happens when your child's neurodivergent diagnosis turns your understanding of parenting upside down? Join Elly Marroquin in this warm and inviting episode as she chats with Julie Pratt, the Assemblies of God Director of Children's Discipleship. Together, they share an honest and heartfelt conversation about Julie's journey as a mom to her wonderful son, Sam, who is autistic. Julie opens up about the ups and downs of parenting, from the early signs of difference to navigating the diagnosis process. With vulnerability and strength, she shares her experiences advocating for Sam in a world that can sometimes feel misunderstood. Tune in to hear how this journey has not only transformed her family but also enriched her faith in beautiful ways!

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome 

00:00:56 About Julie Pratt.

00:02:26 Defining Neurodivergence

00:05:11 Discovery Process

00:08:47 Overcoming the Shame to Ask Questions

00:11:06 Grieving and Processing the Diagnosis

00:14:32 Finding Community for Support

00:21:24 Balancing Needs of Siblings

00:24:26 Being Your Child's Advocate

00:29:03 Combatting the Loneliness

00:33:55 Discussing the Diagnosis with Your Child

00:28:30 Exploring Educational Options

00:42:26 Wrestling with the Why

00:45:56 Closing

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As a parent, learning to navigate the pressure of parenting in a world full of social media judgment, screen time struggles, and handling your child's faith struggles can be difficult. Join host Josh Wellborn, National Young Adult Director of the Assemblies of God, and guest, Austin Westlake, National Youth Director of the Assemblies of God, in this engaging episode as they dive into real-life parenting topics. They discuss navigating parental anxiety, handling judgment from social media, and finding the balance between screen time for themselves and their kids. This conversation also touches on the importance of leading by example, being the kind of parent they want their children to become, and sharing hilarious stories from their own parenting journey. Tune in for relatable insights, plenty of laughs, and practical tips for today's parents.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome

00:00:39 About Josh Wellborn & Austin Westlake

00:03:54 Calling Out the Leader in Your Child

00:07:17 Coping with Parental Anxiety or Judgment

00:11:02 Navigating Digital Responsibility

00:21:21 Leading by Example

00:25:36 Relating to Children's Faith Struggles

00:31:58 Pressures of Social Media and Parenting

00:42:51 Instilling God's Word

00:47:06 Camp Chaos, Mistake 911 Call

00:48:37 Closing

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The pain of watching a loved one face an unexpected diagnosis is profound, but when it's your own child, the grief is unimaginable. In this heartfelt episode, Mike Rakes, President of Evangel University, and Darla Rakes, Ambassador to Students and Donors at EU, join us to share their deeply personal journey of receiving a terminal diagnosis for their daughter Whitney. Mike & Darla open up about the emotional rollercoaster of navigating the stages of grief as they came to terms with the reality that healing would not come on this side of heaven. Despite their heartbreak, they also share the profound hope that sustains them. Join us for an inspiring conversation about faith, resilience, and the unwavering hope that endures even in the most challenging circumstances.

Download a free copy of Flourishing Through Adversity: A Guide on Navigating Grief by Dr. Mike Rakes: https://www.evangel.edu/griefguide/

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome

00:00:47 About Mike & Darla Rakes

00:06:59 Impact of Unexpected Diagnosis

00:10:11 What Faith Looks Like in Grief

00:13:18 How to Help Siblings Cope with Grief and Faith

00:20:24 Stages of Grief

00:27:39 Balancing Reality and Hope

00:31:47 Comfort in Scripture

00:41:07 Protecting Your Marriage While Grieving

00:46:02 How Can Other's Help Those Hurting

00:50:25 Self-Care for Parents and Family

00:52:34 Resources for Single Parents Walking Through Loss

00:54:40 The Great Hope

00:59:10 Prayer & Closing

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Pregnancy can be both thrilling and daunting, as the journey ahead brings a whirlwind of changes and challenges. In this exciting episode, Amy Flattery sits down with Emmy Nolasco to explore the highs and lows of pregnancy. From the first signs of motherhood to the emotional and physical shifts, Emmy opens up about her personal experience in navigating this transformative journey. Tune in as she shares her raw, unfiltered thoughts on what pregnancy really feels like, what it looks like, and the preparations she's making for the arrival of her highly anticipated little one. Whether you're expecting, planning, or simply curious, this conversation offers valuable insights into the beautiful rollercoaster that is parenthood—with plenty of laughs along the way!

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:01:02 About Emmy

00:02:39 Parenting Expectations

00:04:24 Children Change You as a Person

00:07:36 Measuring Your Success as a Parent

00:10:59 Parenting through Scripture

00:13:00 Importance of Community

00:16:45 Identity as a Mom

00:19:04 After Delivery Rewards

00:22:00 Leaning on Jesus

00:24:26 Pregnancy Realities and Fears

00:27:53 Encouragement from One Pregnant Momma to Another

00:32:16 Closing

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Drawing from her academic research and her own eleven-year journey out of transgender desires and same-sex attraction, Dr. Linda Seiler, executive director of ReStory Ministries and National Chi Alpha Field Specialist in Applied Theology & Culture, joins Elly Marroquin to discuss what the Bible says about sexual orientation and gender identity, and how Christian parents/caregivers can navigate conversations with their children who are questioning their sexual orientation.

It's an episode you can't afford to miss!

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:02:50 What It Means That We Are Created in God's Image

00:04:49 How Sex Plays a Role in Our Understanding of God's Image

00:05:57 Key Talking Points for Parents to Discuss Gender & Sexuality

00:08:58 Three Key Things When a Child Is Questioning Their Gender

00:25:52 How the Bible Defines Sexuality

00:31:04 Talking Points for Parents to Discuss with Their Children

00:37:03 Steps for When Your Child is Questioning Their Gender

00:40:35 Affirming Your Child in Their God Given Identity

00:44:14 Closing

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Every child craves love and stability, especially those in the foster care system. But what does being a foster parent look like realistically? Whether you're a foster parent, church leader, or someone with a heart to make a difference, there is something for everyone in the church to do. Join us as Jessica Jimenez, devoted foster mom, and Jackie Underhill, pastor at Springdale First Assembly (Springdale, Arkansas), explore the complexities of loving and caring for a child who may or may not be in your home for an extensive amount of time. Through authentic and candid conversations, they share insights into the emotional, practical, and spiritual struggles faced by foster families. Together, they highlight the vital role the church can play in supporting these families, offering hope, encouragement, and actionable ways to create a nurturing and healing environment for vulnerable children.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:04:00 The Call to Foster Care

00:05:55 Foster Attachment and Grief

00:10:14 Ways the Church Can Get Involved

00:15:30 Building a Supportive Community

00:17:33 Releasing Children Back to Their Bio Families

00:21:37 Positive Impacts on Foster Children

00:24:36 Realistic Expectations of Fostering

00:29:58 Final Thoughts

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Can science and Scripture co-exist? How can we as parents' guide our children in understanding that what the Bible says is true, even when it may conflict with some of the scientific concepts they encounter in school. Dr. Jim Bradford holds a Ph.D. in Aerospace Engineering and now serves as the lead pastor of Central Assembly in Springfield, Missouri. Join us as Dr. Bradford shares practical insights for parents on navigating conversations about science from a Biblical standpoint. Learn how to address challenging questions, foster a sense of curiosity, and encourage critical thinking in children while maintaining a strong foundation of faith.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome

00:01:06 About Dr. Jim Bradford

00:02:47 Can Science and the Bible Agree

00:07:43 Biblical Creation vs. Scientific Reasoning

00:09:21 A Child's Identity is Foundational

00:16:39 Validating Questions

00:27:42 Science is Interpretive

00:33:34 Resources for Children

00:35:50 Respecting Different Viewpoints on Science

00:42:13 Utilizing Reinforcing Voices

00:46:00 Closing

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Raising responsible teens in today's culture can feel like an uphill battle. With constant online influences, peer pressure, and ever-changing societal norms, guiding our tweens and teens to make good choices and develop strong values isn't easy. Through real stories, Jay & Laura Mooney, share a bit of their journey in raising teens in this culturally crazy world. With a dash of wisdom, a sprinkle of humor, Jay & Laura unpack practical ways of raising faith-filled, resilient teens.

Jay Mooney, AG Chief Ministries & Resources Officer

Laura Mooney, dedicated educator of 30+ years

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:06:17 Heartwarming Rewards of Parenting

00:09:12 Intentionally Investing Time with Your Kids

00:11:37 Stay Authentic While Adapting Culturally

00:15:30 Utilizing the Teachable Moments

0:16:36 Supporting Responsible Decision-Making Skills

00:20:11 Scriptures for Parents

00:26:22 Modeling Responsibility and Repentance

00:33:17 Positively Affirming Children

00:39:05 Encouraging Children to Take Personal Responsibility

00:45:00 Preparing Your Teens for Adulthood

00:49:37 Social Media Influence

00:57:16 Closing

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Not everyone has biological family close by—emotionally, physically, or spiritually. And even when we do, sometimes there are gaps.

In this episode, Elly Marroquin sits down with Ecclesia Weltman to talk about building spiritual family—the kind that shows up, speaks life into your kids, answers late-night calls, and becomes "aunties," mentors, and spiritual grandparents along the way.

Ecclesia shares from personal experience of moving often, navigating relational rifts, and intentionally planting roots in new church communities. They talk about starting with one person, asking for help, protecting your children with wisdom and discernment, and healing from church hurt so it doesn't define your future relationships. 

Community doesn't form overnight. It takes initiative. It takes patience. It takes courage.

It's hard work to build. 

But it's worth it.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meeting Ecclesia Weltman

00:04:00 Starting Over in New Places

00:08:30 Building Connection One Person at a Time

00:13:00 When Family Isn't Spiritually Present

00:17:30 Why Kids Need a Village

00:22:00 Spiritual "Grandparents"

00:26:00 Safety, Boundaries & Discernment

00:31:00 Finding the Right Church Fit

00:37:00 Healing from Church Hurt

00:42:00 Closing Prayer

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The rates of anxiety, depression, and stress affecting our children at younger ages is alarming. Join us as Heather Bixler, licensed trauma specialist in the state of Arkansas dives into how you can be an advocate for your child's health and help them thrive in today's complex world. In this episode, Heather offers actionable strategies for parents to recognize early warning signs, open healthy communication channels, and seek professional help when necessary. Drawing on her expertise and personal experiences, Heather provides a compassionate and insightful discussion on how to create a supportive environment for your child's emotional and mental well-being.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:07:28 Recent Rise in Mental Health Crisis Among Adolescents

00:11:58 Contributors to the Climbing Mental Health Crisis

00:14:17 Post COVID Mental Health

00:16:02 Symptoms in Children

00:19:49 How Parents Can Be Better Listeners

00:21:42 Steps to Help Your Child Cope

00:25:04 Discussing Mental Health with Children

00:27:38 Combining Scripture & Mental Health

00:30:32 Tools & Tips for Parents

00:34:21 Resources for Parents Who Are Struggling Personally

00:39:39 Emergency Red Flags to Watch Out For

00:44:28 Connecting Intentionally with Your Child

00:46:55 Disclaimer

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Who will take a stand? We know that every Bible-believing Christian wants to follow the command to care for those that feel orphaned. If the church doesn't take a stand for these children, then who will? Join us as Alan Bixler, Executive Director of COMPACT Family Services, discusses the foster care system, the difference between having a rescue mentality v. a redemptive mentality, and how the capital C church can do their part.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:01:06 What is COMPACT

00:02:12 About Alan Bixler & His Family

00:03:36 The Birth of AG Foster Care Network

00:05:46 Snapshot of What Foster Care Looks Like

00:07:47 Rescue Mentality v. Redemptive Mentality

00:13:58 Stats & Facts on Foster Children

00:15:29 The Language of Foster Care

00:17:52 What the Bible Says About Foster Care

00:20:19 Common Foster Care Myths

00:24:22 How the Church & Individuals Can Help

00:25:44 How to Start a Foster Care Journey

00:28:41 Three States COMPACT Is Currently In.

00:29:39 How to Prepare Your Children When Taking in a Foster Child

00:30:45 The Language of Trauma with Foster Children

00:32:00 How to Prepare Spiritually When Taking in a Foster Child

00:34:37 The New Mission Field is the Family

00:35:00 How Pastors & Church Members Can Help

00:40:40 The Foster Care Network

00:43:30 Closing Prayer

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"Here's the story…" Bringing a blended family together is no easy task — even for sitcom families like The Brady Bunch. Setting up a home and creating a positive environment for both spouses and every child is difficult. So, how do we blend through a Biblical lens? Join us as Amy Flattery, AGUSM Director of Operations, and Mark Flattery, CEO of Network 211, share a bit of their journey bringing their two families together and all the laughs along the way.

It's an episode you can't afford to miss!

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:01:29 Mark and Amy's Love Story

00:05:46 Biblical Principles That Apply to All Families

00:08:36 What They Wish They Would Have Known

00:12:47 Funny Memories

00:18:37 Navigating Grief and Loss as a Couple and as Parents

00:22:35 Helping Your Child Cope When Blending

00:27:52 Healthy Communication with the Other Parent

00:29:51 Things to Consider Before Blending Families

00:34:55 A Note of Hope for Blended Families

00:40:09 Closing

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Have you ever wondered if having a Bible time with your teen is really that important and if it is, who has time for that? Join us as Holly Davis, Assemblies of God Director of Team Advancement, sits down with Elly Marroquin, and her daughter, Carolynn, address this very topic. In this episode, the mother daughter duo discusses how they manage to make devotional time a priority and how that time has enriched their relationships as a family and in their own personal relationship with God. Hear first-hand from a teen herself what it's like to have intentional devotional time with her mom. 

It's an episode you can't afford to miss!

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:02:29 Importance of Family Devos with Older Kids

00:06:47 What Devo Time Looks Like

00:08:41 Implementing Devos with Reluctant Older Kids

00:10:31 Advice to Teens from a Teen

00:12:02 Taking Time to Conversate with Your Teen About Their Day-to-Day Life

00:18:41 Devo Resources for Parents

00:22:17 Impact of Devos from a Teen

00:32:27 Closing

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Most parents know that taking time in the Scripture with your children is important, but finding the time and know how can be overwhelming. Especially if you yourself were not raised in a home that made devotions a priority. Join us as Elly Marroquin, and Dr. Melissa Alfaro, Assemblies of God Executive Presbyter and Co-Pastor of El Tabernaculo (Houston, TX), discuss why having devotional time with your smaller children is important to their own walk with God. Melissa's stories of her own children will be an encouragement to you as she offers wisdom and tools to help you on your own family discipleship journey.

It's an episode you can't afford to miss!

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Guest Intro

00:01:50 Why Is It Important to Have Devo Time with Your Children

00:05:42 What Does a Devotional Time Look Like

00:13:22 Simple Steps to Change the Trajectory of Future Generations

00:19:09 Important Topics to Discuss with Your Children

00:29:00 How to Encourage Resistant Children

00:31:22 Closing Prayer with Dr. Melissa Alfaro

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Welcome to Ignite Podcast. Research shows that parents are the single most influential and impactful people in a child's life. Join us as Elly Marroquin, National Director of Christian Education & Discipleship, sits down with the Assistant General Superintendent of the Assemblies of God, Rick Dubose and his wife, Rita, to discuss why it is important for parents to be intentional about handing down their faith to their children. Together they will explore and unpack practical ways and tools for parents to disciple their children in a culturally crazy time.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome

00:00:56 Guest Intro

00:02:23 The Importance of Parents Handing Down Their Faith

00:05:10 Practical Ways to Disciple Your Children Well

00:08:44 When Should Parents Start Discipling Their Children

00:10:19 Rita Shares a Funny Story

00:12:17 How Can Churches Come Alongside Parents to Help Them Disciple Their Children

00:19:02 The Vision of Ignite Parenting

00:25:05 Bible Engagement Project as a Tool for Parents

00:27:44 Ways to Disciple Children Regularly

00:33:56 How to Affirm Your Child

00:43:35 Closing Prayer with Rick DuBose

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Parenting moves in seasons. Some arrive gently. Others come with disruption, questions, and a quiet sense of letting go. 

Holly Davis joins Pastors Rick and Susan Ross to reflect on what it means to parent through change—when routines shift, roles evolve, and children step into new stages before we feel ready. Drawing from decades in ministry, 46 years of marriage, and life with adult children and grandchildren, they speak with honesty about releasing control, trusting God's timing, and staying anchored in faith.

Whether the next transition is approaching or already unfolding, these reflections offer steadiness, perspective, and reassurance that grace meets us in every season. 

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meet Rick & Susan

00:03:45 Parenting Through Seasons of Change

00:07:20 Releasing Children and Trusting God with Transition

00:12:05 Scripture, Discipline, & Teaching Responsibility

00:18:20 Pray, Mentors, & the Role of Spiritual Community

00:25:00 Marriage, Parenting Styles, & Navigating Tension

00:31:10 Supporting Single Parents & Non-Traditional Families

00:35:15 Loving Well through Presence, Conversation & Play

00:38:40 Prayer for Families Facing Transition & Closing Thoughts 

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Parenting comes with pressure—from culture, from comparison, and from our own expectations. In this episode, Josh Wellborn, National Director of Young Adults, sits down with John, National Director of Called, and Alicia Zick for an honest conversation about what intentional, Holy Spirit guided parenting really looks like.

Together they share the joys and challenges of becoming young parents, navigating school choices and discipline, finding identity in "the hidden years," and building real community—especially for moms and families far from home. Their stories highlight the beauty of small, everyday moments and the importance of praying through decisions unique to each child.

If you've ever wondered whether you're doing enough, this episode is a reminder that God leads, equips, and fills in every gap.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meet John and Alicia

00:01:15 Becoming Young Parents & Feeling Unprepared

00:03:40 Marriage, Moves, & the Early Years

00:05:18 "My Life Is Over?" — Honest First-Time Parent Feelings

00:07:20 Identity, Motherhood, & Beauty of "Hidden Years"

00:10:15 Cultural Pressure vs. Holy Spirit-Led Parenting

00:11:55 School Choices: Public, Homeschool, Christian

00:13:55: Discipline, Consistency, & Prayer Led Decisions

00:18:15 Finding Community as a Young or Single Parent

00:22:50 Mom Groups, Vulnerability & Building Deep Friendships

00:25:35 Daily Rhythms: High/Lows & Ignite Conversation Cards

00:27:58 Modeling Ministry & Encouragement for Other Moms

00:29:55 Fighting for Community in a Post-COVID World

00:31:30 Connecting with your Kids After School & At Bedtime

00:34:00 Small Moments, Big Conversations

00:36:10 Each Child is Unique: Parenting with Sensitivity

00:37:55 Overstimulation, Teamwork & Encouraging Each Other

00:38:55 Prayer as the Foundation of Parenting

00:40:45 Closing Thoughts & Authenticity in Parenting

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When you say yes to foster care, you're saying yes to uncertainty—and to love anyway. In this episode, Mark &Janine Forrester share their honest, faith-filled journey through fostering and adoption: the emotional highs and lows, the waiting seasons, and the ways God showed up in every unknown.

They talk about how community makes all the difference, what it means to advocate for a child's best interest, and how to hold onto hope when the process feels heavy.

Because foster care isn't about having it all figured out—it's about showing up with open hands and a willing heart.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meet Mark & Janine

00:02:06 Why Foster Care Was Always Part of Their Story

00:04:40 Starting the Process & Getting Licensed

00:08:45 Letting Go of Control & Trusting God

00:10:28 Faith, Family, and the Power of Love

00:13:29 Preparing Your Family for a New Child

00:17:00 Finding Support & Building Community

00:22:28 The Gift of Respite Care

00:25:28 Pitfalls, Grace & Growth Along the Way

00:26:38 Scriptures That Anchored Their Journey

00:29:27 When You Feel Like Giving Up

00:32:51 Adoption as a Reflection of God's Grace

00:36:39 Strengthening Marriage & Serving with Compassion

00:38:37 Prayer for Foster & Adoptive Families

00:40:57 Closing Thoughts

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Foster care and adoption are beautiful callings—but they're also marked by heartbreak, hope, and holy surrender. In this deeply moving conversation, Elly Marroquin sits down with Dr. Allen & Rhonda Tennison to talk about what it truly means to love children for a season and trust God for their future.

Dr. Tennison, who serves as the Theological Counsel for the Assemblies of God, and his wife Rhonda draw from years of ministry and personal experience as they open up about their journey through respite care, fostering, miscarriage, and failed adoptions—sharing how loss became the doorway to compassion and purpose. They unpack the differences between fostering, fostering to adopt, adoption, the vital role of the local church in supporting families in crisis, and the spiritual and emotional preparation needed to open your home—and heart—to a child.

Whether you're exploring foster care, adoption, or simply want to better support those who do, this episode will remind you that every act of love plants seeds of healing that God will grow in His time.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meet Allen & Rhonda

00:03:42 How Loss Opened the Door to Foster Care

00:04:40 Discovering Together for Good and the Power of Respite Care

00:06:40 Fostering vs. Adoption: Understanding the Difference

00:08:46 Why the Church Should Be at the Center of Foster Care

00:13:40 When Adoption Plans Fall Through

00:18:53 Healing After Heartbreak & Finding Hope Again

00:24:40 The Cost of Loving Deeply: "Parenting Is Choosing Heartbreak"

0027:05 Trusting God When You Have to Let Go

00:31:22 Saying Goodbye: The Bittersweet Side of Reunification

00:37:10 Preparing Spiritually and Emotionally to Foster

00:42:43 Partnership in Marriage: Knowing Each Other's Strengths

00:45:53 Preparing with Intentionality & Creating Moments of Connection

00:52:53 The Church's Call to Step Into the Gap

00:54:36 Closing Prayer for Families & Future Foster Parents                                                                                                            

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Conflict happens—in our workplaces, our homes, and even in our churches. But how we handle it makes all the difference. In this insightful conversation, host Elly Marroquin welcomes back Brenda, a high school student navigator and longtime behavioral specialist, and Troy Renter, a lead pastor, licensed therapist, and network KidMin director. Together, they unpack what healthy and unhealthy conflict looks like, why some disagreements feel "real" to one person and not the other, and how bitterness can quietly take root when conflict goes unresolved.

Drawing from their experiences in Ministry, therapy, and working with at-risk youth, Brenda and Troy share practical wisdom on navigating hard conversations, breaking unhealthy cycles, and teaching our children how to manage emotions with grace. This episode will remind you that healthy conflict isn't about who's right—I's about choosing understanding, forgiveness, and love that heals instead of wounds.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meet Troy & Brenda Renter

00:04:54 Defining Conflict: What It Is and What It Isn't

00:08:35 Understanding Emotional Detachment

00:12:20 Hitting Pause: How to Step Back Before You React

00:15:29 Handling Conflict the Biblical Way (Matthew 18)

00:16:56 When Conflict Is Just a Misunderstanding

00:17:43 "Slow and Low": A Healthier Approach to Conflict Resolution

00:20:45 Teaching Age-Appropriate Conflict Resolution

00:28:10 Using Restorative Circles to Build Understanding

00:30:27 The Healing Power of Forgiveness

00:43:18 Final Takeaways & Gold Nuggets

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What every child longs for is to be seen, heard, and valued. Troy and Brenda Renter know this firsthand—Brenda as a high school student navigator and longtime behavioral specialist, and Troy as a lead pastor, licensed therapist, and district KidMin director. In their conversation with Elly Marroquin, they share how parents can build lasting trust and attachment with their kids by slowing down, listening deeply, and being present. From reframing "wild" as "energetic" to creating simple moments of connection, the Renters remind us that it's not about perfection or quantity of time, but the quality of presence that helps children of every age feel secure, understood, and loved.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00:00 Welcome & Meet Troy & Brenda Renter

00:07:52 Why Connection Matters Most in Parenting

00:10:57 How Parents Can Validate and Affirm Their Kids

00:18:56 Finding Time to Connect as a Single Parent

00:19:58 Sunshine Circles: Simple Activities to Build Stronger Bonds

00:25:58 Biblical Examples of Connection and Relationship

00:28:20 Parenting Priorities: "Jesus and Java Are My Joy"

00:33:35 Staying Connected with Adult Children

00:39:17 The Power of Encouraging Notes and Handwritten Cards

00:40:31 Final Words of Wisdom for Deeper Connectio           

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