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| 278 You're Allowed to be Messy!! Interview with Stacy Scott | 27 Aug 2024 | 00:51:43 | |
Stacy Scott is a feng shui practitioner and decluttering expert who has so much wisdom to share about how our environments impact our self-concept and personal growth. You won’t want to miss this transformative conversation! | |||
| 277 Conquering Your Email Inbox and Using ChatGPT for the ADHD Brain with Paula Engebretson | 20 Aug 2024 | 00:53:17 | |
Join me in welcoming my friend and colleague, Paula Engebretson! In this episode, we dive into productivity strategies, managing emails, and how tools like ChatGPT can make a difference in our daily lives. Paula’s focus on productivity and my passion for personal growth blend perfectly in this engaging and insightful conversation.
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| 268 The Relationship Hack That Will Change Your Life Forever | 18 Jun 2024 | 00:41:10 | |
Discover the distinct difference between neurotypical and ADHD brains in terms of ranking priorities, and understand why learning to prioritize relationships can drastically improve your social life. | |||
| 185 The ADHDers Guide to Achievable Goals with Michelle Carter | 15 Nov 2022 | 01:01:50 | |
Big, impossible goals are sexy. That’s what the world wants us to think. We have to do all of the things and be great at each one. But unrealistic goals are a challenge for adults with ADHD, and they set us up for failure. | |||
| 184 How to Find (and Keep) a Hobby | 08 Nov 2022 | 00:38:33 | |
If you're an adult with ADHD who struggles with hobbies, all I have to say is, "SAME!" I find that a lot of us ADHDers struggle to rest and play, and we have all the drama about participating in activities that are not 'productive.' Want to stop over-working and actually get a hobby? I've got 7 doable steps for you! You'll learn why we struggle to have hobbies and how to go out and actually find something that you enjoy doing (and yes, I include a LONG list of hobbies for you to try!).
Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 183 ADHD and Relationships Part 6: Self Trust with Dr. Russell Ramsay | 01 Nov 2022 | 00:57:41 | |
We end our relationships series by circling back to the most important relationship: the one we have with ourselves. Dr. Russell Ramsay is here with us to chat about why self trust is especially difficult for adults with ADHD, and what we can do to build it. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 182 ADHD and Relationships Part 5: How to Say NO | 25 Oct 2022 | 00:57:01 | |
Saying no can be very difficult for any human, but I believe it's especially hard for adults with ADHD. In this episode you'll learn:
ADHDer, the more you say no when you want to, the more you are in the driver's seat of your own life. Enjoy! Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 181 ADHD and Relationships Part 4: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab | 18 Oct 2022 | 00:47:08 | |
ADHDers are notoriously bad at setting boundaries. So many factors go into this, but I believe it’s mostly because we feel poorly about ourselves, we don’t have a lot of self-trust, and we are embarrassed about our annoying ADHD symptoms. The result of this is that we ADHDers often don’t believe we even deserve to set boundaries. Additionally, many of us were not raised in families that talked about or even allowed boundaries to be set…so, it comes to boundaries, most of us are floundering. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 180 ADHD and Relationships Part 3: Safe vs. Unsafe People | 11 Oct 2022 | 00:39:36 | |
We are on a mission to improve all of our relationships, and today we discuss the difference between someone who is safe verses someone who is unsafe. This has been a critical (and truthfully, painful) exercise that I have gone through in my own life that has improved my experience of every single relationship that I have. Tune in to hear why it's important to understand safety in relationships and exactly what makes someone relationally safe verses someone who is relationally unsafe. Click here to read the Psychology Today article that I reference in this episode. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 179 ADHD and Relationships Part 2: Show Up to Meet Others' Needs | 04 Oct 2022 | 00:35:45 | |
In this episode, we talk about surrounding ourselves with people who are willing and able to meet our needs. AND we talk about the importance of being willing and able to meet THEIR needs, too. It's both/and. You'll learn my 4-tier system for prioritizing relationships and I'll give you permission to let some relationships go. If you want to take these concepts deeper, join my coaching program FOCUSED. | |||
| 178 ADHD and Relationships Part 1: Identifying and Meeting Your Own Relational Needs | 27 Sep 2022 | 00:37:56 | |
Most ADHDers struggle with relationships, and I am no exception to this. In the last 3 years, I've done a TON of work in therapy and in coaching, and I've really changed the way that I view relationships. In this 4-part series, I'll share everything I've learned about healthy relationships with you so that you can change your relationships, too. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 177 How to Set Realistic, ADHD-Friendly Goals | 20 Sep 2022 | 00:29:04 | |
It's that time of year when I want to set 100 goals. BIG GOALS. I want to do all the things and I want to do them all perfectly. On today's episode, we talk about why ADHDers struggle to set realistic goals, and how to make sure that we don't set ourselves up for failure by setting outlandish, unreachable goals. You'll walk away with a more grounded sense of how to set goals that you can actually accomplish! Let's go. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 176 So You Want to be an ADHD Coach...Part 3: Interview with 3 Focused ADHD Coaches | 13 Sep 2022 | 01:09:21 | |
Today you'll hear from 3 of the coaches that I trained this year. They tell you about their experience, why they decided to become coaches, and what they loved/hated about my program. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 267 Why Are Relationships SO DANG HARD for Adults with ADHD? | 11 Jun 2024 | 00:48:37 | |
Living with ADHD can often feel like navigating a minefield, especially when it comes to relationships. Impulsivity, distractibility, memory issues, and struggles with self-reflection can create a myriad of obstacles. | |||
| 175 So You Want to be an ADHD Coach...Part 2 | 06 Sep 2022 | 00:25:03 | |
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| 174 So, You Want to be an ADHD Coach....Part 1 | 02 Sep 2022 | 00:34:33 | |
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| 173 ADHD Coaching: Knowing What You Want, The Hard Parts of Your Job, Deciding to Put Yourself First | 23 Aug 2022 | 00:45:47 | |
This episode is a compilation of a few coaching conversations I’ve had in the last couple of weeks in my coaching program, FOCUSED. I am sharing it with you because I truly believe that while you listen, you will relate to each person I speak with and you’ll be able to have life-changing transformation. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 172 How to Be Productive | 16 Aug 2022 | 00:59:59 | |
Today's episode is one that every ADHD needs: a fun and simple lesson in how to be productive. I'll take you through the 5 steps that I teach all of my clients when we talk about productivity: Constrain your list down to just 1 or 2 things, decide ahead of time what you're going to do, schedule everything on your calendar, take massive action (no more researching!), and then evaluate how you did and make any adjustments for tomorrow. It may sound complicated, but really these steps are simple if you're willing to feel terrible and TRUST yourself to implement the steps. Buckle up for an episode that just might change your life forever. Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 171 Should You Tell People About Your ADHD? | 09 Aug 2022 | 00:20:33 | |
It can be hard to decide whether or not you should share your ADHD diagnosis with the people in your life. Is it their business to know? Will it help or hurt the relationship? This is one of the questions that we get asked most often, and so I wanted to share some tips to making the decision! Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 170 How to Stop Self-Sabotaging | 02 Aug 2022 | 00:50:04 | |
If you feel like you're always taking 2 steps forward and 3 steps back, this episode is the antidote to that. In it, I teach you WHY ADHDers often self-sabotage, and exactly how to stop. You're not going to want to miss this life-changing episode! Hang out with me on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 169 How to Get Your ADHD Ass to Bed ON TIME! | 26 Jul 2022 | 00:33:11 | |
If you have ADHD, you struggle to go to bed...it's a whole thing for us. This episode will provide you with 10 doable tips for getting your sweet little ADHD butt to bed at the time that you SAY you're going to go to bed. | |||
| BONUS: Special Invitation for Established Entrepreneurs | 21 Jul 2022 | 00:06:33 | |
ADHD entrepreneurs face a specific set of challenges, and I know exactly what it takes to run a successful business with a distracted brain. Spoiler: It doesn't take being consistent! I've created a mastermind group for established ADHD entrepreneurs who want to grow their businesses without being shamed for how their brain works. | |||
| 168 How to Organize with ADHD | 19 Jul 2022 | 01:00:02 | |
We all know that getting and staying organized is a MAJOR challenge for adults with ADHD. This is like saying the sky is blue or the grass is green. In this episode, you’ll learn exactly why organization is hard for us, why it’s so important we divorce our ability to organize from our self-worth, how our spaces are a direct reflection of our minds, and exactly HOW to organize. | |||
| 167 How To Make Decisions | 12 Jul 2022 | 00:33:32 | |
Adults with ADHD struggle to make decisions. We don't trust ourselves and we tell ourselves that we don't know what to do. When it's time to make a decision, we often spin out in confusion and overwhelm. We delay and procrastinate and don't think things through clearly, and this makes it so that we struggle move forward in our lives. THIS EPISODE IS THE ANTIDOTE TO THAT. In it, I give you 6 solid tips on how to make a decision that feels good to you and is in line with your values. I teach you how to do this quickly and in a way that is not paralyzing. The best part? I will teach you how to make a decision that you don’t beat yourself up for – no matter what the outcome. This episode will help you to become a decision-making MACHINE. Enjoy! | |||
| 266 Breaking Free from Masking: ADHD and Authenticity in Relationships | 04 Jun 2024 | 00:45:22 | |
In this episode, we’ll explore what masking is, how it impacts our relationships and self-perception, and why it’s so crucial to create spaces where we can be our authentic selves. | |||
| 166 Let Go Of The Past So You Can Have A Better Future | 05 Jul 2022 | 00:59:10 | |
Raise your hand if you still beat yourself up for things you did DECADES ago. Most ADHDers shame themselves relentlessly, and on today's episode I am going to teach you how to let go of your past mistakes. Ironically, holding onto the past is one of the best ways to REPEAT the past (ever feel like you make the same mistakes over and over??). In order to move into a different future, you've got to unshackle yourself from the past, and that's what this episode is all about! | |||
| 165 ADHD Entrepreneurship Part 4: Pay Yourself and Prioritize Profitability with Mike Michalowicz | 28 Jun 2022 | 00:39:05 | |
If you're an ADHD Entrepreneur who struggles to understand your business's finances (raises hand) and conceptualize what EXACTLY to do with your revenue (raises both hands), this episode is going to rock your world. Mike Michalowitz is a highly successful entrepreneur who is here to share the brilliance from his best-selling book Profit First. This book changed my life, and I think it'll change yours, too! | |||
| 164 ADHD Entrepreneurship Part 3: Honoring Your Capacity So That You Can Rest with Africa Brooke | 21 Jun 2022 | 01:02:13 | |
In this DELICIOUS episode you will learn how rest and play are connected to your business's bottom line $. Africa Brooke is a coach, consultant, strategist and seasoned entrepreneur...and did I mention she's MY coach? She's here to teach you all of the things I've learned from working with her over the last year. | |||
| 163 ADHD Entrepreneurship Part 2: Lean into Your Zone of Genius | 14 Jun 2022 | 00:30:01 | |
ADHD entrepreneurs are BRILLIANT...but are you spending the majority of your time and energy in your zone of genius or are you wasting your time trying to fit into a neurotypical box? Today's episode is all about ditching society's expectation of you so that you can lean into your secret sauce and 10x your business revenue. | |||
| 162 ADHD Entrepreneurship Part 1: 5 Ways to Make Your Business More ADHD-Friendly | 07 Jun 2022 | 00:34:38 | |
Oooooo baby get ready because we're doing a 4-part series on ADHD + Entrepreneurship! | |||
| 161 The Most Underrated ADHD Skill Ever (Constraint) | 31 May 2022 | 00:31:53 | |
I promise you, constraint is SEXY...let me convince you in this 30 min episode!! Stop cheating on your dreams with one-night-stand ideas, join me as I persuade you to become an essentialist: someone who knows exactly what's important and is willing to go after it! | |||
| 160 Binge Eating and ADHD | 24 May 2022 | 00:58:27 | |
Did you know that ADHDers are very likely to struggle with binge eating? Find out why on today's episode! Registered Dietitian Becca King is here to explain what binge eating is, why it is so prevalent among ADHDers, and how we can stop. Get ready for a shame-free, judgement-free discussion around eating, intuition, and ADHD management. [CONTENT WARNING: Disordered eating, binge eating, bulimia] Learn more about Becca here! Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources! Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 159 10 Tips to Getting and Staying Focused | 17 May 2022 | 00:28:32 | |
Every ADHDer wants to focus...but HOW!? Today's episode is exactly what you need when you're feeling scattered, lost, or overwhelmed. Kristen covers 10 practical steps to getting focused that you can implement NOW and use over and over again. Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 158 ADHD and Imposter Syndrome | 10 May 2022 | 00:27:05 | |
Raise your hand if imposter syndrome holds you back from living your life to the fullest. I see you! This week's episode is all about what Imposter Syndrome is, why we experience it, and how to manage it. Here's a great article written by Dr. Russell Ramsay on the topic. Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 157 Unwrapping the Gift of ADHD with Dr. Ned Hallowell | 03 May 2022 | 00:36:07 | |
ADHD legend Dr. Ned Hallowell (Driven to Distraction, Delivered from Distraction, ADHD 2.0) is here today to share his infinite wisdom on all things ADHD. You KNOW I don't think ADHD is a gift, but Dr. Hallowell so beautifully articulated his perspective on this topic that I really wanted to share it with you. Find more from Dr. Hallowell here Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 265 Travel Smarter: 5 Essential Tips for ADHD-Friendly Vacations | 28 May 2024 | 00:38:17 | |
Welcome to the episode where we dive into making vacations enjoyable and low-stress, especially if you have ADHD. Today I’m sharing my personal experiences and practical advice on how to manage ADHD during your travels. Here’s what we cover: 1. The Importance of Rest and Planning Ahead
2. Avoiding Overload
2.1 Mindful Financial Planning
3. Prioritizing Individual Needs and Comfort
4. Essential Travel Tips
5. Disconnecting from Work
Join us as we explore these tips and more to ensure that your next vacation is both enjoyable and manageable. Let’s make sure you come back feeling relaxed and grateful! | |||
| 156 How to Stop Looking at Porn | 26 Apr 2022 | 00:52:03 | |
Some ADHDers struggle with Problematic Pornography Use, and that's what we're talking about today...GET READY! My guest, Danny Poelman, is a certified life coach who helps people stop looking at porn in a sustainable (and enjoyable!) way. If you are feeling powerless in the area of porn or ANY unwanted habit, this episode will be so encouraging and helpful to you. Learn more about Danny here! Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources. Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 155 What Is ADHD And How Do I Explain It? | 19 Apr 2022 | 00:32:54 | |
Are you stumped when someone asks you to define ADHD? Do you either give them a super basic answer OR totally over-share? On today's episode, I intend to solve that problem! We discuss what is ADHD exactly, and how to explain it to someone without getting too lost in the weeds. Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 154 ADHD Coaching: Why You're Stuck, Long Term Goals, and Maybe You're Not the Problem | 12 Apr 2022 | 01:02:05 | |
Today’s episode is a powerful coaching call that I hosted inside of my Focused ADHD coaching program a few weeks ago. As soon as the call ended, I knew I wanted to share it with you on this podcast so that you could benefit from the transformations. I truly think this is going to blow your mind. www.ihaveadhd.com/webinar to sign up for my webinar on releasing money shame! Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources. Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 153 Sex Therapy and ADHD with Ari Tuckman | 05 Apr 2022 | 00:54:22 | |
Let's talk about S E X, shall we? Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST is a psychologist and certified sex therapist specializing in diagnosing and treating people with ADHD, as well as couples and sex therapy. Join us as we discuss his most recent book, ADHD After Dark, the ways that ADHD impacts sex, and how to improve your "after dark" relationships. Find more from Ari Tuckman on his website here Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 152 My Top 10 Takeaways from International (ADHD) Women's Month | 29 Mar 2022 | 00:40:19 | |
The last 4 episodes were dedicated to honoring the female ADHD experience. Join me today as I synthesize what I learned this month and show you how you can apply it to your life in tangible ways. So you don't do that thing where you hear something awesome and then forget about it entirely and never actually do anything with it. Or is that just a me thing?! Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram: @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 151 ADHD Women and Radical Acceptance | 22 Mar 2022 | 00:59:08 | |
Sari Solden is a PIONEER when it comes to women with ADHD, and she's here today to talk about the intricacies of the struggles that women with ADHD face. From masking, to internalized social norms, to hiding, and brain shame, I predict that this episode will connect with you on a very deep level. Join me as I chat with Sari about how we can learn to embrace our differences and live authentic lives as women with ADHD. Check out Sari's books: Women with Attention Deficit Disorder and A Radical Guide to Women with ADHD (which she co-authored with Michelle Frank).
Visit www.ihaveadhd.com/focused for more resources
Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 150 Motherhood and ADHD | 15 Mar 2022 | 01:04:51 | |
Yakini Pierce is here to share with us her expertise on all things being a mama who has ADHD. We talk about the highs and lows of motherhood and what amazing transformations can take place in your home when you honor your own ADHD and make space for yourself to have flaws. Yakini is a late diagnosis woman with adhd. She's a mom of 2 amazing ADHD kids and host of the ADHD Love Parent Talk Podcast. Yakini shares her wisdom on Instagram @adhdlove2020 and YouTube. Go check her out! Visit www.ihaveadhd.com for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 149 Women with ADHD: How Estrogen Impacts Our Symptoms | 08 Mar 2022 | 00:59:31 | |
Dr. Patricia Quinn is here to share her expertise on ADHD as it relates to PMS, PMDD, pregnancy, postpartum, perimenopause, and menopause. I learned SO MUCH from speaking with Dr. Quinn, and am forever grateful to her for the decades of work she has done with ADHD women and girls. Speaking of, go buy her book 100 Questions and Answers About ADHD for Women and Girls. | |||
| 148 Honoring the Female ADHD Experience | 01 Mar 2022 | 00:57:51 | |
March is International Women's Month, and we're dedicating all 5 weeks to honoring the female ADHD experience. Tune in today to hear from Paula Engebretson and Meagan Vigil, two women with ADHD who also coach women with ADHD. It's a casual and fun conversation that will open your eyes into some of what it's like to be a woman with ADHD. Learn more about Paula here Learn more about Meagan here | |||
| 147 How to Prioritize and Make Decisions | 22 Feb 2022 | 00:56:07 | |
If you have ADHD, then you struggle to prioritize and make decisions. In this episode, we'll work on accepting our ADHD brains and begin to develop the skill of turning UP the volume on what's important and turning DOWN the volume on what's not as important. And of course, we'll chat about how to even decide what's important in the first place. Visit www.ihaveadhd.com for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||
| 264 Feeding the Mind: Debunking the Diet-Only ADHD Management Myth | 21 May 2024 | 00:33:43 | |
Today we delve deep into the complex and often misunderstood relationship between diet and ADHD symptoms. I’m bringing you a topic that’s close to my heart, sparked by my own journey and curiosity about the potential of nutrition in managing ADHD. But, as we’ll explore, it’s not as straightforward as it may seem. I’ve always been fascinated, and admittedly a bit skeptical, about how what we eat impacts our mental health, especially when it comes to ADHD. With a rise in functional medicine practitioners advocating for diet as a panacea, I felt compelled to take a closer look. Can dietary changes alone truly manage ADHD without medication? It’s a question that many of us grappling with ADHD have pondered. From personal experience, I can tell you that managing a strict diet can be a Herculean task for someone with ADHD. We’re talking about a condition that inherently makes planning, prioritizing, and resisting impulses more challenging. Yet, there’s this growing narrative suggesting that if we just ate the right foods, we could overcome these hurdles on our own. But what does the research say? In today’s episode, we’ve dug into the studies and found a sobering lack of substantial evidence supporting the idea that diet alone can significantly alter ADHD outcomes. While no one denies the benefits of improved nutrition on overall health, suggesting it as a standalone solution for managing severe ADHD is not only misleading but potentially harmful. The conversation around diet and ADHD doesn’t stop with us adults. There’s immense pressure on pregnant mothers with ADHD, bombarded with claims about how their diet could impact their child’s health and potential ADHD. It’s a heavy burden, rooted in the oversimplification of ADHD’s causes. Today, we debunk some of these myths, emphasizing ADHD’s complexity and how it’s shaped by a tapestry of genetic and environmental factors. Another critical issue we tackle is the widespread misinformation about ADHD medication. It’s alarming how non-medical professionals feel emboldened to make broad claims, contributing to the stigma and confusion surrounding these evidence-based treatments. Despite our critique of oversimplified solutions, we acknowledge the undeniable role of a healthy diet in enhancing well-being. But to suggest it can ‘cure’ ADHD? That’s where we draw the line. As we wrap up today’s episode, I want to remind everyone that while diet is important, managing ADHD is a multifaceted journey. This is why I’m excited to introduce our coaching membership program FOCUSED designed for adults with ADHD. Our program recognizes the value of a comprehensive approach, incorporating medication, lifestyle changes, and personalized support to navigate the complexities of ADHD together. Here is the study that I mention in this episode: Nutrition in the Management of ADHD: A Review of Recent Research | |||
| 146 5 Reasons Coaching Works for Adults with ADHD | 15 Feb 2022 | 00:28:22 | |
If you've wondered if you should give coaching a try, or if it even works, this episode will give you all the clarity. Hear my hot take on coaching, and what type of coaching I feel is most effective for ADHDers. After coaching over 1,000 people with ADHD, I have lots of thoughts to share with you! Click here to sign up for my webinar on procrastination! Visit www.ihaveadhd.com for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram! | |||
| 145 ADHD's Impact on Sex | 08 Feb 2022 | 00:41:02 | |
Certified sex educator Cate Osborn is with us today to talk about all things sex as it relates to ADHD. Get ready for a fun and enlightening episode about how ADHD affects sex and intimacy, and how you can begin to overcome these challenges so that you can reach your potential ...even in the bedroom (too far? Sorry). Learn more about Catie: Podcast - Catie and Erik's Infinite Quest
Visit www.ihaveadhd.com for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram | |||
| 144 Problematic Positive Thinking | 01 Feb 2022 | 00:26:38 | |
"This will just take me 5 minutes" or "It'll be fine" or "It'll be different this time" are examples of potentially problematic positive thoughts. Positive thinking isn’t always helpful, and maladaptive positive thoughts can get us into a lot of trouble. In today’s episode, I’m going to help you to identify your own problematic thinking and give you strategies on how to combat it. Visit www.ihaveadhd.com for more resources Hang out with me on Instagram @i.have.adhd.podcast | |||