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Exploring different kinks, sugar dating fails, motherhood shifts, and sex in love and lust—Sage opens up about reclaiming pleasure, healing from shame, and exploring sex, love, and power through every stage of life.

📈 STATS | 28 straight white female, she/her pronouns, slut, mom, healing from sexual assault, in a monogamous-for-now relationship, full-time animal science student, certified astrologer, ranch worker, based in Sacramento.
 

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00:00 Rediscovering sensuality as a new mom, sex after childbirth, and teaching partners about kink

05:32 What she finds sexy: sapiosexual attraction, mental stimulation, confidence, and embodied vibes

07:39 Parenting and passion: foreplay as extended buildup while raising a toddler

11:18 Adventurous touches, exhibitionism, outdoor sex, and the thrill of getting caught

19:18 Astrology in the bedroom: Leo energy, brat play, and the brat-to-sub dynamic

23:51 Safer sex practices: STI testing, condoms, health conversations, and consent communication

26:00 Opening kink conversations on dating apps, BDSM tests, and sexting initiation

29:12 Early sexual awakening: masturbation, bathtub orgasms, practice kissing, and first intercourse

36:00 Virginity loss, assault trauma, shame, and reclaiming her sexual identity

44:00 First kinky experience: choking, collars, primal sex, and unexpected orgasmic intensity

52:18 Four-hour marathon sex, dominance, restraint, and push–pull power play

56:20 Spiritual sex: long-term love, psychedelics, Kundalini awakening, and eye-contact intimacy

1:01:14 Threesomes, girl-on-girl pressure, and hetero expectations

1:15:15 Double penetration fantasies, two-men threesomes, and balancing desires with fairness

1:18:42 Lust versus love: erotic passion compared to slow, vulnerable, emotional sex

1:22:18 Why sugar dating and failed sugar babying experiences didn’t work for her

1:30:20 Bratting, dom/sub shifts, BDSM dynamics, and partner-specific power exchanges

1:35:39 Public play stories: car hookups, concert fingering, camping sex, and party escapades

1:42:29 Motherhood and libido: breastfeeding, body changes, dryness, and shifting turn-ons

1:51:15 Future hopes: farm life, family, community living, and ongoing sexual exploration

1:54:59 Designing her dream pleasure palace: textures, restraints, toys, and sensual spaces

2:07:00 Spreading love through compliments, affirmations, and astrology chart readings

🤩 TOPICS | Abortion experience, accidental bathtub orgasms, ADHD absent-minded lovers, animal science student, astrology chart readings, astrology certification, baby interruptions, BDSM kink test, body positivity, book-keeping satisfaction, bratting dynamics, car hookups, child custody battles, childhood masturbation, choking kink, club hookups, communication boundaries, concert fingering, consent conversations, cucumber-cool lovers, cum play curiosity, daddy energy, dating app sexting, dry responses turn-off, emotional healing, emotional safety, energetic foreplay, erotic astrology, female friendships, fingering in theaters, fire sign friends, first masturbation faucet, forest hikes sex, friend betrayals, girlfriend practice kissing, high sex drive, hotbox car sex, intimate eye contact, jealousy in relationships, Kundalini awakening, late night sexting, lesbian curiosity, long-distance engagement, lust fantasies, Mars Venus Lilith in Leo, masturbation massage wand, messy sugar daddies, molly party sex, monogamy negotiations, mothering body changes, movie theater hookups, mushroom sex, natal chart insights, natural lube issues, nervous system healing, OnlyFans curiosity, orgasmic summer romance, outdoor camping sex, overbearing partners, parental interruptions, plan B failure, poly dynamics, porn documentaries, primal lovers, public oral, pussy confidence, religious shame, safe container conversations, Scorpio moon partners, semen retention, sex in creek beds, sex on cars, shower vibrator, single mom dating, sleepover hickeys, slut reclamation, stepdad interruptions, sugar dating disappointments, therapist support, threesome negotiations, trauma healing, trust rebuilding, Tumblr porn discoveries, vibrator discovery, Virgo Mercury communication, Waldorf school sex ed.

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Luna shares her approach to supporting virgins of all ages and genders through their partnered sexual debuts at the ranch. She explores the many definitions of virginity, offers detailed session types tailored to different needs and goals, and reflects on the joy of co-creating confidence-building, pleasure-filled first experiences. Plus: double-virgin stories, consent frameworks, and masturbation meditation prep tips!

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Fetish porn, healing retreats, pegging joy, and spiritual connection—Shay Sights shares how she built a life of creativity, sensuality, and unconditional love while rebuilding a beach resort and exploring gangbangs.

📈 STATS | 51 bisexual single woman, she/her pronouns, holistic healer, porn star,  property manager, Vancouver native, Los Angeles-based, into: twisted mommy talk, adventure, connection, pushing the envelope, fetish play, taboo play, ramping up energy with partners, originality, and coming up with creative content ideas to turn other people on, building things, gardening, animals, and remote places.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Meet Shay: holistic healer, porn star, and beach resort rebuilder

02:10 Pajama joy and the thrill of canceling a shoot

03:08 Buying land in Mexico based on intuition and kombucha

07:08 Construction as spiritual healing and creative expression

10:00 Why quiet energy and solitude are essential to her joy

12:54 Future retreats and transforming a falling-down property into magic

13:25 Self-care, saying no to toxicity, and letting people help

16:12 How sex work, healing, and hospitality all help people connect

21:28 Behind the scenes of porn health and safety practices

27:48 Personal sex life and upholding industry standards

28:18 Toilet fetishes, stepmom porn, and freedom from shame

31:51 Cringing at judgment, not at her own choices

33:20 What makes someone sexy? Amazing energy over appearance

35:48 Learning sex through sex work, and connection through spiritual growth

42:49 Onscreen vs. real-life sex: entertainment vs. intimacy

47:19 Porn as curated emotional performance

49:58 Bloopers, realism, and letting audiences see the effort

51:33 Shay’s slutty fun list: pegging, gang bangs, and mommy talk

56:09 Aries sun, Scorpio rising, and the archetypes of porn

57:40 Clit-sucking toys and sensation preferences

59:14 Favorite sex lesson to teach: communicate everything

1:01:31 Why every body—and every day—is different

1:03:09 Consent and connection protocols on porn sets

1:04:17 Favorite partners, flogging, and flog-worthy memories

1:04:55 Still on her list: a five-guy gangbang

1:07:53 Sex in Mexico: beach shoots and rooftop fantasies

1:09:34 What we need for a more loving world: unconditional love

1:10:39 Karma, the Golden Rule, and living as an example

1:11:53 Reflections on love, shame, and human connection

🤩 TOPICS | Abraham hicks, age and sensuality, airbnb landlord stories, amateur porn realism, angel investing intuition, architecture preservation, artisan tile details, bisexual female performer, blood and urine testing, body-safe toys, business-minded porn stars, Caribbean dive culture, childhood sex education gaps, clitoral stimulation toys, communication in adult scenes, content creator bloopers, creative real estate, deep energy sensitivity, direct German yoga teachers, DIY home restoration, emotional fluidity in sex, ethical adult filmmaking, fetish curiosity, finding kombucha in small towns, French decorative influence, full moon rituals, gang bang choreography, holistic hospitality, hot milf persona, industry compliance standards, jungle building logistics, kinky latex fashion, love-based living, Mexican construction permits, ocean-view roof decks, palm tree privacy, pegging with passion, personality integration, porn career longevity, professional dominants, property zoning in Mexico, quiet nightlife preferences, reality vs fantasy in porn, remote living joy, roof deck sex, Scorpio rising porn stars, sex and spiritual integration, sexual archetypes, sexual energy healing, short film porn scripts, social media expectations, spiritual sex exploration, spoken consent videos, strap-on adventures, tropical solitude, vaginal vs anal testing, voiceover vignette scripts, water sign placements, women-led retreats, and yoga contractor networking.

🔗 SHAY LINKS | shaysights.com / OF / @shaysighstofficial / x / tiktok

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Luna shares her three-step lover invitation framework for turning nervous, shy, or hesitant partners into confident, creative lovers. With real scripts, personal stories, and juicy practicals from her work as a legal courtesan, this episode covers everything from desire check-ins and genital inspections to safe-touch communication and transforming don’ts into delicious do’s. A deeply detailed how-to for co-creating extraordinary sex that feels amazing for everyone involved.
 

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Butt rub orgasms, week-long sexting, and a love of blowjobs—Lady C shares how open communication transformed her long-term relationship into a kinky, pleasure-filled partnership.

📈 STATS | 30 straight female, she/her pronouns, in a relationship of 7 years, production planner, from Tennessee, into: giving blowjobs, anal, sending her significant other sexy photos and naughty videos, getting choked, being held down, days-long foreplay, and is curious about bondage.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Lady C’s current sexual shame level
01:33 A one-night stand in a balcony closet
02:49 Comfort and open communication with her partner
04:15 Sexy conversations as foreplay and podcast-inspired curiosity
06:04 First exposure to porn and early sex education gaps
08:25 Bed-corner masturbation and losing her virginity
10:38 Disappointing first partnered sex and craving more
11:44 Teenage friend group, social vibes, and curiosity
13:11 College exploration, pregnancy, and single motherhood
14:25 Horny while pregnant but no sex
15:43 Post-baby body image and a year of no sex
17:11 First orgasm from penetration with a coworker
18:41 First anal experience—planned, communicative, and orgasmic
20:32 Struggles with anal and a very girthy partner
22:10 Anal fantasies, DP brainstorms, and new toy ideas
23:29 Anal curiosity and sexual openness with women
24:59 Clitoral masturbation preferences and low solo desire
25:34 Dating app hookups and emotional disconnection
27:17 Relationship origin story and deep erotic bond
27:57 Playing with foreskin and blowjobs as her favorite thing
29:15 Deep throating while high and learning each other’s angles
30:37 Sexual timeline of their seven-year relationship
31:00 Fingerplay details and being choked with trust
33:56 Toys, vibrating rings, and week-long foreplay
36:39 Opposite schedules, sexy video exchanges, and weekend reconnection
39:18 Orgasm from butt massage—accidental and amazing
41:20 Full-body massages, nipple play, and preferred touch
42:39 Being held down, bondage fantasies, and trust blocks
44:28 Running from orgasm and wanting to be held in place
45:37 Erotic overstimulation, surrender, and varied body reactions
47:36 Watching porn separately and what types she prefers
49:32 Homemade blowjob videos and OnlyFans curiosity
50:31 Naughty videos she sends and his reactions
51:35 Why she loves blowjobs and teasing him post-orgasm
52:55 Exploring new ball play and clit-focused oral sex
55:24 Surprise analingus and loving it
56:10 Curious about manual anal play but haven’t tried
57:22 Interest in threesomes and how to find a second partner
59:09 Enthusiastic about pleasing her partner and willing to try
1:00:14 Bondage preferences and playroom dreams
1:01:56 Love and sex go hand in hand
1:02:44 Naked dancing as self-love
1:03:24 Pleasure palace wishlist: wax, whips, a pole, and mirrors
1:04:49 “Let people be great”: her motto for a more loving world
1:06:00 Compliments, kindness, and spreading ripples of love

🤩 TOPICS | After-sex touch, ass obsession, ass teasing, baby weight and self-image, being face down and melting, big hand kink, blowjob technique with foreskin, body chemistry, body complex, butt cheek spreading, cancer zodiac personality, clit toy solo video, comfort with long-term partner, consent conversations, couch christening, day shift sex planning, dick sensitivity play, dick sucking while high, early porn exposure, erotic tension during sexting, female-led pleasure teasing, fingering and humming combo, flexible sexual identity, foreskin teasing tips, front-to-back licking, girthy penis challenges, hands-over-head restraint, headspace and surrender, homemade sex tape ideas, intimate long-distance foreplay, internal stroking with fingers, late-in-life confidence, lingerie photo sharing, mirror dancing naked, mommy mode vs sex mode, morning-after cuddles, neck pressure play, nipple pulling, NSFW work distractions, oil on breasts, open to pegging, oral feedback and coaching, partner-first mentality, porn curiosity with partner, postpartum sexual reconnection, pussy slaps to reset, receiving instructions during oral, rough teasing after climax, running from climax, safe word practice, sexting routines, shared masturbation videos, slippery stroke tricks, solo play discomfort, spontaneous oral, teasing the tip, thick dick strategies, titty oil massage, trust in submission, turning pain into pleasure, under-the-influence blowjobs, unfiltered sex stories, unlearning shame, visual turn-ons, weekend-only sex life, work spouse flirtation.

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In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna Robbe gives a detailed, candid overview of the activities available at legal brothels like Sheri’s Ranch. From classic offerings to specialty parties, she breaks down her stackable menu, shares personal insights, and emphasizes safety, communication, and consent. This episode is packed with practical info, sexy possibilities, and Luna’s signature curiosity and care.
 

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In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna shares detailed email etiquette tips for contacting legal courtesans in Nevada. She outlines respectful communication practices, common pitfalls to avoid, and ways to foster real human connection while navigating the professional boundaries of sex work. Whether you're curious or planning a visit, this guide helps ensure your message lands with kindness, clarity, and purpose.

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In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna shares practical, heart-centered negotiation tips for legal brothels in Nevada. With a focus on calming the nervous system, valuing human connection, and co-creating satisfying intimate experiences, she walks listeners through her relational negotiation style—from feelings check to final agreement. Whether you're a first-time visitor or curious about the process, this guide offers clarity, compassion, and a few juicy behind-the-scenes stories.

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In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna breaks down the realities of pricing at legal brothels in Nevada. She explains why prices can’t be shared ahead of time, offers analogies to help listeners understand the wide range of experiences and costs, and emphasizes the importance of generosity, consent, and respectful connection. Whether you're budgeting for a quickie or dreaming of a luxury weekend, this episode helps you prepare mindfully and legally.
 

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Luna shares practical, heartfelt etiquette tips for guests visiting legal brothels in Nevada. From politeness and professionalism to consent, clarity, and generosity, she explores how mindful behavior enhances connection, safety, and mutual enjoyment. This guide offers a loving, detailed roadmap to co-creating respectful, sexy experiences.

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Luna Robbie shares a comprehensive, heart-forward guide on how to prepare for a visit to a legal brothel. From emotional readiness and communication tips to hygiene, budgeting, and etiquette, she offers practical advice to help curious clients co-create luxurious, satisfying, and respectful experiences. Whether you're planning your first trip or returning for more, Luna invites you to follow your heart—and follow your parts.
 

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Luna offers a candid, detailed introduction to the world of legal brothels in Nevada, sharing personal insights from her experience as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch. She covers everything from what makes a brothel legal, testing protocols, and negotiation logistics to emotional safety, etiquette, and common misconceptions. It's a compassionate, stigma-busting overview designed to inform and empower curious listeners.

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Luna raves about daily sex and her Superbrothel, Kimberly reaches new sexy heights with hands, plus a lot of WOO HOO wins and smile-inducing stories from sweet listeners in this update and mailbag episode.

00:00 Overview + Kimberly’s masturbation wins!!!

13:14 Why Luna LOVES multiple days of sex in a row!!!

29:36 Q: I *almost* fractured a penis—will it happen again?

41:56 Q: Advice for a sexless married guy?

44:17 E’s heavenly erotic experience + an original poem

52:06 Falling down the woo rabbit hole and a photoshoot suggestion

55:40 Q: How can a partner share their kinks + ANOTHER vacuum fetish story!

1:05:56 Under-the-table foot play at dinner

1:10:06 Embracing delayed ejaculation and celebrating dating as a “senior citizen”

1:16:40 Sweet messages + a midnight moonlight jaunt on a golf course

1:21:00 VOICE MEMOS!!!

1:37:06 Kimberly looks forward to a new level of partnership, Luna can’t stop dreaming about Museums of Original Creativity and Superbrothels.

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Chatter by Ethan Kross

Whole Brain Living by Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor

Come Together by Emily Nagoski

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Luna shares why she loves being a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel near Las Vegas. She reflects on her personal journey, creative fulfillment, and the clarity, connection, and community that sex work brings into her life. With humor and honesty, Luna invites listeners into the magic of her chosen path.
 

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29 bisexual woman, she/her pronouns, ex-Mormon, ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, in a committed relationship, porn star, content creator, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, originally from Utah, Vegas-based, into: extended vanilla deliciousness, all things sensual, deep human connection, exploring power play, interesting experiences off- and on-camera, and exhibitionism.

Topics mentioned:

Abstinence education, adult film industry, adult modeling, aftercare, alienation from religion, anal sex, arm fetish, arousal, authenticity, AVN, baking, BDSM, being objectified, bisexuality, blowjob technique, body image, body worship, brothel, camming, car sex, champagne gun, clitoral orgasm, client experiences, cock slapping, cock worship, communication, connection, consent culture, content creation, courtesan work, cuddling, custom videos, deep throat, desire, digital sex work, dirty talk, dominance, ethical non-monogamy, ethical porn, exhibitionism, exploration, eye contact, fantasies, female ejaculation, female pleasure, fetish play, fingering, foreplay, free use kink, girlfriend experience, giving head, group sex, hookup culture, hotwife, human connection, IUD, intimacy, intimacy coordination, kink, kissing, legal brothel, lesbian porn, lingerie, masturbation, military clients, missionary position, Mormon shame, multiple orgasms, mutual respect, nipple play, non-monogamy, objectification, OnlyFans, open relationships, oral sex, orgasm techniques, outdoor sex, parasocial relationships, pegging, performance sex, physical affection, porn, porn performance, power dynamics, power play, pussy eating, real orgasms, Reddit nudes, roleplay, rough sex, safe sex, safety protocols, same-gender exploration, self-pleasure, self-worth, sensuality, sex education, sex industry, sex on camera, sex outside, sex parties, sex positivity, sex toys, sex work, sexual agency, sexual boundaries, sexual confidence, sexual curiosity, sexual empowerment, sexual expression, sexual healing, sexual identity, sexual liberation, sexual shame, sexual trauma, sexting, SextPanther, Sheri’s Ranch, slow sex, solo play, STI testing, submission, subspace, supportive partners, swinger stereotypes, taboo, talking dirty, teenage sex, testing requirements, threesome play, tit play, toe sucking, topping, trust building, vaginal orgasm, vibrator play, vulva, webcam shows, worship kink.

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33 bisexual sapiosexual genderfluid woman, she/they pronouns, polyamorous, situationally monogamous, submissive brat, poet, pole dancer, in recovery from sexual assault-related PTSD, wrote their Master’s thesis on the poetry of rape trauma, Pākeha New Zealander, into: exhibitionism, soft touch, bullet vibrators, 69ing, powerful poetry, dirty talk, and sex by the sea.

Topics mentioned:

Aotearotica, affirmation, arousal, being adored, bisexual, bisexual exploration, body literacy, bullet vibrators, chronic PTSD, clitoral stimulation, cock, co-creation, communication in relationships, condom negotiation, consent, contraception, creative expression, cunt, dirty talk, dominant with women, emotional safety, erotic imagination, erotic literature, erotic writing, eroticism, exhibitionism, exhibitionist, family planning, felt safety, first time sex, frottage, garden sex, gender fluid, grinding, group sex, humping, IUD, journaling, love languages, matching lingerie, masturbation, masturbation as inspiration, masturbation memories, mental health, monogamy, motherhood and sexuality, mutual desire, narrative sex, New Zealand sex culture, non-penetrative pleasure, outdoor sex, oxytocin, parenthood, penetration, pillow humping, poetry, pole dancing, postpartum depression, praise kink, pregnancy sex, public sex, queer sexuality, romantic gestures, safe word, sapiosexual, school sex education, self-advocacy, self-exploration, self-love, sensuality, sex by the sea, sex positivity, sex with women, sexual assault recovery, sexual autonomy, sexual empowerment, sexual shame, sexual storytelling, shame, shame-o-meter, situationally monogamous, slut-shaming, small press erotica, soft touch, spoken word, STI safety, stop as a safe word, swing sex, threesomes, touch, trauma healing, vibrator, zines.

🔗 JANE LINKS | @eroticajane

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36 bisexual non-binary human, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, artist sex worker, indie content creator, porn performer, from Chicago, based in Los Angeles, into: cosplay, monster horror, smell, spit, all things sloppy, big tits, and getting into pain.

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Adult feature, alien, BDSM, body fluids, bondage, boobs, Burning Man, cam model, clothespins, collab, content creator, consent, costume, cuck queen, cum, deep throat, electro, fetish, film, grinding, gremlin, hair bondage, horror, humping, improv, indie, kink.com, masturbation, needle play, nipples, nipple play, orgasm, pegging, performance, porn, prosthetics, pussy, rimming, roleplay, safe sex, sci fi, script, sensation, sex work, sloppy, smell fetish, spit fetish, STI, studio, submission, suspension, tits, titty fucking, topping, vibrator, zine.
 

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33 queer transgender man, he/him pronouns, single, gay, ethically non-monogamous, barber, from Massachusetts, based in California, into: daddies, bottoming, switching, giving oral, licking, biting, spanking, exploring, and hiking.

Topics Mentioned:

Adrenaline bonding, adventurous dates, anal play, armpit sex, art as healing, ball sucking, blowjob, body autonomy, car sex, communication in relationships, consent, daddy play, dating, direct communication, discovering trans identity with a partner, dildos, enthusiastic consent, evolving relationships, exes who transition, exploring with cis men, exploring with trans men, face slapping, finding love after transition, gag reflex, gay desire, gender dysphoria, gender euphoria, gender exploration, group sex curiosity, hiking sex, hookup culture in LA, jawlines and eyebrows, kink, kinky sex, makeup and masculinity, masculine presentation, masturbation, multiple orgasms, nipple play, nonbinary partners, oral sex, pleasure, polyamory, queer hookup culture, romance, romantic gestures, safe words, scruffy men, self-care, self-love, sensual exploration, sensual touch, sexually active trans men, sex in the rain, sex outside, sexual liberation, sexual shame, slow-down words, STI testing, strap-ons, testosterone, thigh sex, threesome curiosity, titty fucking, topping, transmasculinity, vibrators, words of affirmation, and worshiping men’s bodies.

🔗 NOLAN LINKS | @nolanthebarber13

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46 straight-but-interesting cis white male, 15 years of solo-poly, relationship anarchy experience, teacher, artist, entrepreneur, parent, kind and gentle and very kinky, from BC, Canada, into: power play, practices and teaches shibari workshops, learning and practicing healthy poly dynamics, journaling, meditation, personal development

Topics mentioned:

Polyamory, solo poly, relationship anarchy, non-monogamy, open relationships, kitchen table polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, shame, sexual shame, sex positivity, kink, BDSM, power play, daddy play, shibari, rope bondage, CNC, begging play, spanking, flogging, wax play, erotic torture, orgasm control, edging, threesomes, group sex, sexual communication, negotiation, boundaries, safe words, aftercare, sexual variety, responsive desire, anticipatory desire, sex toys, sensation play, erotic massage, fetishes, sexual transgression, relationship anarchy smorgasbord, taboo, romance, relationship labels, sexual identities, queer, homosexuality, bisexuality, heteroflexibility, internalized homophobia, cock worship, blowjobs, cunnilingus, fingering, fucking.

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36 bisexual woman, she/her pronouns, single unicorn, onlyfans creator, performer, US Midwest, into: unicorning, exhibitionism, sensual partnered experiences, senior citizens (including nursing homes), creating content with fans, anal gang bangs.

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Anal gangbang, arousal, ass, authenticity, bisexual, blowjob, butt plugs, Chicago, cock, connection, content creation, creampie, creativity, curiosity, deep penetration, exhibitionism, fan interaction, fetlife, group sex, kissing, kink, love, nursing home sex, octogenarian lovers, older men, OnlyFans, orgy, relationships, self-care, self-love, senior citizen sex, sensations, sex ed, sex positivity, sex work, sexual exploration, sexual health, sexual shame, silly, spit roast, STI testing, threesome, trust, vagina

🔗 TIFF LINKS | wisconsintiffxxx.com

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55 straight man, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, married for 25 years to a woman 15 years his senior, dating girlfriend of eight years, athlete, lover California-based, into: living in the moment, older women, pleasing, worshiping, lingerie, role play, outdoor sex, communication, sharing fantasies, hands-on sex education, learning languages, traveling the world, moving his body.

Topics mentioned:

Age gap relationships, open relationships, polyamory, group sex, threesomes, sex games, liar's dice, mannequin and flashlight, public sex, exhibitionism, sex on first date, period sex, bloody sword, oral sex, cunnilingus, fellatio, squirting, female ejaculation, sex education, sexual communication, confidence, self-love, lingerie, glow-in-the-dark clothing, butt plug, anal sex, anal licking, rimming, prostate stimulation, sex in water, jacuzzi sex, cold plunge pool sex, car wash sex, casino sex, hotel sex, sex in every hotel on the Vegas strip, car sex, ski sex, Paris sex, orgasms, multiple orgasms, French lover, porn for technique, sexual consent, sexual availability, sexual health, STI testing, sex positivity, sexual fantasies, sexual fetishes, foot fetish, sexual energy, sexual chemistry, sexual arousal, erogenous zones, sexual touch, intimacy, sexual techniques, sexual positions, Eiffel Tower position, sexual stamina, sexual adventures.

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36 straight Canadian woman, she/her pronouns, monogamous, naked news anchor and adult content creator from Toronto, Canada, into: nudity, public sex, flashing, massage, connection, eye contact, fitness, love and romance.

Topics mentioned: 

Nude modeling, sexual shame, Flex Appeal (naked news workout segment), healthy lifestyle, feeling sexy, hardworking men, farmers, construction workers, sweaty men, handy men, first blowjob, losing virginity, promiscuous, wild years, parents open about sex, Kama Sutra, masturbation, remote control sex toy, sex education, nude workout videos, naked cooking show, jealous boyfriends, exhibitionist, flashing, public urination, sex clubs, massage porn, lesbian porn, female-friendly porn, monogamy, vanilla sex, threesomes, girl-on-girl, sex toys, public bathroom sex, hospital sex, movie theater sex, cheating, voyeurism, anal sex, cum walk, facials, custom videos, fetish videos, naked workouts, banana crushing fetish, tomato crushing, OnlyFans, ManyVids, erect penis on camera, uncircumcised penis, lube, sex in nature, mile high club, hot air balloon sex, sex tape, livestreaming blowjob, normalizing nudity, nude beach, topless, free the nipple

🔗 EILA LINKS | loveeilaadams.com / @flexapeeler / x

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A total power exchange with his wife, partner-focused pleasure, and exploring piss play—Steve shares how his 20-year vanilla relationship transitioned into a consciously designed, mutually nurturing connection.

00:00 Scalding hot baths, outdoorsy adventures, and grounding in himself

06:16 A magnetic spiritual connection with his partner and how they balance their disparate relationship needs

12:17 How a 24/7 dynamic with contracts and monthly meetings helped him connect more fully with his partner

19:59 Protecting mental well-being + preparing safety measures following sub drop and top drop

24:56 CUM PLAY!!!

26:59 Growing up feeling like an outsider with Protestant, Catholic, and Jewish influences

32:43 Condom lessons from his classmate’s nurse mom, detailed anatomical drawings, and watching a graphic sex ed video with his family

37:38 How a book from his grandfather led to his first masturbation session

42:57 Why pleasing his partner is always his focus

44:16 Early masturbation exploration, bedsheet burns and baby powder on private parts

47:49 AOL phone sex adventures with “hot babes” to practice flirting

54:43 Rediscovering his innate confidence through Dominance and plans for writing smut

58:01 Early softcore and R-rated film influences on his sexuality

1:02:53 Making classic movie moves on a first date and his first sexually exciting touch

1:08:33 His first time fingering and revisiting sexy shared memories during sex

1:11:41 An absolute love of blowjobs and navigating his “unreasonable” shameless desire with partners

1:16:41 How a mismatch of communication and sexual needs led to consciously designing a D/s dynamic

1:23:32 Breaking out of the relationship rut of a rare sexual “rewards” system to embrace explorations like watersports and cum play

1:29:19 Daddy Dom bedtime rituals and his ongoing Domination development

1:34:46 Piss play and watching his partner pee

1:38:14 How a college class helped him talk openly about sex and why he thinks everyone is sexy

1:42:52 Looking forward to progressing as a Dominant, building community, and working through mutual jealousy to ultimately add more play partners

1:48:15 Shared desire for accessible sex ed + teaching that it’s okay to explore and break out of expected “norms”

📈 STATS | 40 heteroflexible Dominant white dude, he/him pronouns, monogamous, 24/7 power dynamic, married with kids, works in education, US east coast, into: spanking, cum play, watersports, and his submissive

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Mermaid roleplay, creating sexy safe spaces, and de-stigmatizing sex work—Kaylani shares how working at a legal brothel has led her down a path of self-discovery, independence, and deeper human connection.

00:00 Why sex work is “intimacy therapy”

03:20 Community, conquering shame, and feeling empowered as a legal courtesan

09:15 Creating safe judgement-free sexy spaces that allows lovers to express their vulnerability

12:51 Mermaid role play and fulfilling partners’ fantasies

17:19 Client success stories and the magic of changing mindsets

19:21 Why do people go to the legal brothel?

23:45 Noticing relationship patterns and what she’s learned from toxic partnerships

27:26 Growing up boy crazy with mixed sex ed messaging

30:13 A long-time lesbian porn fantasy come true

33:28 All-girl orgy configurations

34:43 How she goes deep with clients

36:47 Virgin parties, foreplay tips, and teaching partners how to make her cum

39:05 Why she likes to connect with words before connecting physically

42:51 Feeling supported by her partners and debunking the “transactional” nature of sex work

45:38 Consistent self-care routines and staying curious

48:45 A future of intimacy coaching and helping women leverage sexual energy into financial freedom

51:44 How she’s spreading happiness, acceptance, and compassion

📈STATS | 32 heteroflexible multicultural female, she/her pronouns, single, elite companion, Las Vegas-based legal courtesan, into: meeting new people, deep conversations, spending time with partners, initiating the inexperienced, playing with lady friends, role play, and creating safe spaces for partners

🔗 KAYLANI LINKS | @xoxokaylani

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Voyeurism, non-monogamy, and exploring partner-specific kinks—Nico shares deep noodles on the power of permission and how he’s fortifying humanity through the gift of his own personal “medicine.”

00:00 Hedonism, collective enjoyment, and connecting with animals

05:20 How granting himself permission to be “selfish” allows him to experience what he loves and consciously gift himself to others

10:12 Practicing balance in all things and reflecting on past experiences to shape his future

15:44 Why he loves being asked to share present moments with others

17:40 Generosity tattooed on his soul and the gift of sharing “medicine”

23:46 Intense moments and out-of-body experiences for him and his partners

26:45 Laughter and communal joy that lead to intimacy

29:36 the ways he grounds himself in everyday moments and connecting with others during hard times

32:44 Eye gazing as his ultimate connector

39:20 Layering sensory pleasures and empowering humanity to find his own nirvana

42:51 Ego death and the cyclical nature of destruction and creation

47:26 Joyful non-monogamous explorations and preferred relational structures

53:50 Balancing his all-or-nothing tendencies and investing in his needs

1:02:14 Scandinavian influences: sex ed, a taboo-free night of freedom, and his first cougar encounter

1:10:36 How “self-preservation” and a fear of rejection in his early 20s led to pursuing older women

1:13:46 Public libraries, pin-up porn, and photographic voyeurism

1:19:05 Ambidextrous masturbations, scramble porn, and erotic supermarket magazines

1:23:35 Teasing and denial kink origins + an unexpected first handjob

1:31:07 Why he initiates sex with enthusiastic oral + pros and cons of being performance-focused

1:38:06 Energetic erogenous explorations and sharing sex-inspired creativity

1:46:20 Why he loves satisfying divorced women and the unparalleled pleasure in permission to pour his passion into lovers

1:51:10 Enabling his most Dominant self with his submissive Good Girl partner

1:55:13 How non-monogamy helps him discover the different sides of himself and noodles on “mating for life”

2:01:11 Sharing sensuality and embracing wildness

2:03:06 Swedish orgies and finding kinksters wherever he goes

2:06:50 Voyeurism and double-teaming at a sex party

2:09:39 Subtle voyeuristic dreams and why he wants everyone to discover their North Star

📈 STATS | 39 straight Scandinavian-American, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, film professional, California-based, world traveler, into: sensual self-discovery, sexuality and brain chemistry, hedonsim, reinvention, ethical non-monogamy, kink, partners’ pleasure, emotional sensuality, existentialism, non-attachment

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Sensual touch, blowjobs, and authentic connection—Allissa shares how being a reiki practitioner and Highly Sensitive Person help her deeply connect with lovers both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch.

00:00 Her journaling practice and managing self care time

03:04 What she needs in connections and the importance of paying attention to details

06:15 Loving without judgement + experiencing a wide array of people and cultures

08:39 How working at a legal brothel helped reduce her shame and unleash her hidden sex kitten

11:57 Erotic talk, teasing, and tickles

14:09 “Mom what’s a blowjob?” + snooping around her older brother’s dirty magazines

17:27 Frozen hot dog blowjob lessons and sneaking out to fool around

20:30 Discovering legal sex work, up-leveling oral pleasure, and the exciting applications of honey

22:19 Her first ever threesome + what she loves about nuru massage and exploring the S&M room

25:23 What IS a Girlfriend Experience (GFE)?

28:21 Dungeons, bachelor parties, and overnight orgies

30:54 Sex swings + tantra chair face-sitting

34:18 The life changing magic of spending a hot week with someone she just met

36:44 Slip and slide bubble baths and little spoon snuggling

37:59 Energetic connections with lovers and her reiki practice

41:41 “Hot and cold french” blowjobs, slow sensual kissing, and ear play

44:57 Foot worshippers, sensitive erogenous zones, and tickling as turn-on (sometimes)

47:06 Anticipating lovers’ needs, guiding new lovers during sex, and the soft arousal of nipple play

49:48 Personal life pegging, prostate massage, and playing with balls + Luna’s “bitejob” experience

53:48 Nose play and embracing spontaneous experiences

57:56 Getting along sexually with other ladies, helping shy clients get comfortable, and her favorite part of working at the legal brothel

1:00:43 Excited for travel, water sex, and MORE ORGIES!!!

1:02:46 Spreading love with an open mind, open heart, and congratulating each other

📈 STATS | 37 queer-friendly femme sex worker, she/her pronouns, single, bartender, Las Vegas-based legal courtesan, into: dating, massage, sensuality, blow jobs, pegging, energy exchange, giving and receiving attention, girlfriend experiences, orgies, and delicious worship

🔗 ALLISSA LINKS | sheri’s ranch profile / OF / @allissa4you / x

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Hollywood in the era of free love, cunnilingus joy and expertise, and reflections on relationships over his eight decades on this planet—Bernie shares how creativity flows through all aspects of his life as an Indigenous storyteller and generous lover.

00:00 Enthusiastic creativity and why writing is the “hardest artwork there is”

02:37 The intimacy of reading someone a movie and what he loves about being close to a woman

04:27 Falling in love with himself over and over through the process of writing

06:48 What he loves in a woman and his natural generosity

10:23 Tips on how to kiss and his introductory experiences with physical intimacy

14:35 Connecting through humor and why he always prefers talking over texting

19:12 The unique chemistry of every relationship and knowing when the energy isn’t a match

23:44 How there can still be deep love even with a lifestyle mismatch

29:16 Hollywood free love in the 60s, handjobs on acid, and yelling “fire” to interrupt an assault

33:00 Teaching a girl how to give the best blowjobs

35:37 Eyes, tits, nipples, and clits + his favorite ways to make partners cum

38:28 Turn-ons from partners’ reactions and why he rarely edges women

42:31 Go-to masturbation habits and being okay with taking a long time to orgasm

44:53 How he plays with pussies and his hands-on sex education

48:59 Passed around from friend-to-friend and free love hippies

51:19 Five girls in one week and the benefits (and drawbacks) of being a word-of-mouth lover

55:44 What it’s like being with three girls at the same time

57:22 Spiritual relationship needs and cumming through jeans

1:02:57 How to give a great foot massage with cowboy boots on

1:05:39 Car sex, sensitive thighs, and anal play preferences

1:10:12 Creative condoms and the clap

1:11:27 Preferring “natural toys” during sex

1:13:30 Why cowgirl is his favorite sexual position
1:15:56 Three-hour phone sex sessions and face-sitting surprises

1:19:18 How a brain operation and a blitzed-out Halloween experience led to a substance-free lifestyle
1:24:08 Spreading love and embracing Indigenous sovereignty instead of war

📈 STATS | 76 straight Indigenous Native human, he/him pronouns, single, writer/director, from Southern California, into: female orgasms, kissing, receiving head, humor, writing

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Uninhibited horniness, dirty talk, using the stoplight system (red yellow green), and connecting through information exchanges with fellow sex nerds—Jess shares how her love for learning and deep communication fuels authentic connections both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan.

00:00 Investing in connection and being a “huge nerd”

02:54 Growing up in a Chinese-American household where “food is care” + nostalgic dishes she loves to make

05:23 The continuous process of learning self love and why she wants to go to a head spa

08:15 Auralism, naked couch time, and feeling valued through shared experiences

11:37 Why she talks through TV shows and movies

18:06 The importance of feeling valued + ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and brothel health and safety practices

21:56 Using the red, yellow, green safeword system and all the ways she likes to communicate with partners

26:06 Her introduction to sex through Tamora Pierce books and Harry Potter fanfiction

31:03 Exploring her own body, scant sisterly sex advice, and a secret make-out with a cute Italian boy

34:16 Blowing ten guys at an uninhibited high school house party

37:09 Being SO horny and what she loves about penises

40:26 How oral turned into early kink explorations with trusted partners

45:45 Creating sex contracts in high school and how she healed after an assault

50:29 Popping her cherry after six hours of warm up

53:46 Tight, wet, and being stretched

56:09 ORGASMS! Clitoral quickies, g-spot squeezes, and orgasmic neck kisses

57:53 Sapiosexuality and how she can cum from talking and reading

1:01:35 Impact play, restraints, and extremely sensitive skin

1:04:25 Masturbating in a circular bed for an audience

1:07:06 Exhibitionism origins and how many orgasms she can have in 30 minutes

1:10:31 Queer identity evolution from label-free to "definitely not straight"

1:12:01 How being a legal courtesan is a perfect fit + her favorite brothel discoveries

1:15:35 Helping a grieving widower reconnect with himself

1:19:30 Excited for an overnight with Luna, playing with more couples, and exploring other ladies (+ their friends!)

1:21:30 Her personal pleasure palace: a bed as a stage, shibari instructors, one way mirrors, and more

1:25:56 Practicing community, spreading communication, and more kissing

📈 STATS | 30 pansexual American-born Chinese female, she/her pronouns, ethically non-monogamous, sex nerd, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch near Las Vegas, from the East Coast, into: authentic connection, sapiosexuality, auralism, sensory play, MFM FFM threesomes, dicks, behavioral economics, ancient Greek history and literature

🔗 JESSICA LINKS | sheri's ranch profile / @jessicaxie_OXO

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Boldness, banter, boundaries and mental stimulation plus her very own reverse harem—Clara is a big dick magnet, proudly facilitates puddles of cum, and shares her reflections on love and what she needs in relationships.

00:00 Emotionally guarded but open to imperfect love

03:21 How she honed her practice of patience and positive self-talk

05:45 Dreams of ink therapy, self-care maintenance, and what she loves about getting tattooed

08:42 Words backed by actions, being prioritized, and the need for mental stimulation

12:50 Reading people and how she knows when they’re hiding themselves

15:18 Playful banter and needing to be seen as a whole person

17:32 How working with a queer youth group led to preferring repeat sexual partners

20:20 Harem origins, enforcing strong boundaries, and a very hungry vagina

24:48 Getting past the honeymoon phase and growing together from a firm foundation

31:56 Knowing what she wants and giving no fucks

34:41 Early introductions to sex and navigating relationships after multiple assaults

39:00 How she found healthier ways to heal herself and the power of forgiveness

43:57 Her first time: on halloween, in a graveyard—and the benefits of period sex

47:41 Experimental 20s: corsets, BDSM, and learning via sex shop mystery bags

53:45 How gaining comfort in her body led to enjoying cunnilingus and embracing empowered pleasure

57:52 Clara's tips for giving the best blowjob

59:35 FFF threesome learnings

1:04:24 Squirt revelations and learning about her body through partnered play

1:06:13 Deep throat training and finding edges of her limits

1:12:21 The sensual joys of making out and getting thrown around like a ragdoll

1:15:06 Different orgasms she can have AT THE SAME TIME

1:18:49 Anal as dessert and how she can tell who has a big dick

1:22:15 Playing with butts, squirting from anal, and entering Domme mode when pegging

1:25:56 Raising anticipation through sensory deprivation and extending sexual experiences through teasing

1:30:30 Solo play: cockrings on clits, vibrating dildos, shockers, suckers, and other favorite sex toys

1:37:19 Plans for pansexual explorations and inviting deeper emotional attachments

1:41:00 Dreams of dungeons and why monogamy isn't for her

1:45:39 The importance of communication, advocating for yourself, and daily laughter

📈 STATS | 41 white, pansexual, she/they/any pronouns, polyamorous, US midwest, into: teasing, (reverse) harems, kissing, pussy worship, giving and receiving head, corsets, hard sex, pegging, threesomes, mental stimulation and getting what she wants

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Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers.

00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits

06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant

09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo

14:25 Why his masculine role models are the “cowboys of porn” and the different sides of his Self

18:30 Directing a dominatrix during a shoot and how his shame changes based on his active persona

21:23 Reflections on the social construction of taboo and becoming desensitized to what was once “forbidden”

26:21 Photography origins: surveillance-style photography, gonzo journalism, and erotica

30:38 Voyeuristic inspiration from David Lynch’s Blue Velvet and learning as self love

35:25 Feeling disconnected and experiencing social intimacy through information exchanges

38:31 His analytical approach to human connection

44:28 Pinning down what excitement actually is and how learning is always in support of his actions

47:12 The secret to being a good voyeur and physiologically reactionary sexual attraction

51:21 Ultimate voyeurism dreams + hypocritical health, safety, and consent practices

54:35 Following assumptions and social scripts to achieve his desires

56:15 Big reactions to his art and being shunned for documenting subjects on the edge of society

59:32 Signaling shame and using context clues to assume peoples’ lines

1:02:23 Being ostracized by clowns for his provocative work

1:05:37 Approaching life with humor and why he likes being a "nice sociopath"

1:08:15 Desires informed by Greek classics and the sexiness of androgynous femininity

1:12:10 Putting on personae and his day-to-day asexuality

1:15:48 Preferring exercise to ejaculation and post-photography masturbation

1:18:29 How weightlifting leads him to easier arousal

1:20:21 Enjoying sensations of lips and softness on his balls

1:24:46 Discovering his queerness with the local puppy play coalition + his take on the Erotic and Eroticism

1:28:58 Turned on by extremes as a photographer and a hands-on dildo experience

1:32:27 An anonymous open-door fisting session and hiding in a makeshift gloryhole

1:35:22 The thrill of documenting unpredictable situations and his "cognitive basis for morality"

1:39:48 His most shocking stories and writing vignettes of each encounter

1:44:17 Dreams of sissy porn, capturing the feminine mystique on film, and leaving space for the unknown

1:48:46 Ideological lines, normalizing taboo desires, and why he wants to know what drives you

📈 STATS | 33 heterosexual queer Chinese man, he/him pronouns, monogamous, freelance photographer, classics scholar, lifer, from Las Vegas, into: sex, sexuality, voyeurism, documenting sexual experiences, philosophy, nihilism

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Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism.

00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors

07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual?

12:38 Flogging tips for beginners

14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy

18:34 Open to orgies with friends and why you should NEVER bite a clit without consent

21:50 A field trip to a San Francisco sex club

23:03 Having a threesome with a pregnant woman and her husband who are beautifully in love

28:50 Educational squirting experience with a big double-ended dildo

31:34 Discovering a more recent preference for penetration and staying connected post-threesome

35:45 First time pegging a dude and future harness explorations

40:32 Sleeping with her dentist and a mouth full of pubes

44:53 A sixth sense for what a dick will look like before seeing it

47:30 Navigating a mismatch of sexual rhythms and why they always do a debrief after sex

54:01 Underwater hot tub blowjobs and a partner losing his shorts

56:51 Excited for double penetration, dating more women, and for their sex life to keep getting better and better

1:00:06 How YOU can help research the huge overlap of autism and kink

1:02:52 Realizing that her PhD in human sexuality is only the beginning

Jack’s episode from October 2019 | The Ooey Gooey Game

📈 STATS | 31 genderfluid autistic human, she/they pronouns, single, sex educator, sex researcher, into: sensations, impact play, human sexuality, squirting, sex parties, underwater oral

🔗 JACK LINKS | survey screener / jmurphy@mymail.ciis.edu

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Lesbianism, radical self-care, a nurturing marriage with kink dynamics, and a sex-inclusive love of romance novels—Elizabeth shares stories of self-discovery and how it led to a marriage that embraces submission, pleasure, and mutual growth.

00:00 What she loves about romance novels and the importance of feeling chosen

05:54 Reflections on asexual relationships and knowing what kind of sexual connection she needs

08:36 How her wife’s grand romantic gestures help her feel seen and appreciated

12:55 Discovering the perks of a mutually “selfish” marriage

15:02 Figuring out how to romance her wife with enthusiastic support

19:35 Building trust through consistent, conscientious care and deep gratitude

22:16 Polyamory almost-explorations and why she doesn’t recommend serial monogamy

24:46 How transitioning led to more communicative and emotionally present relationships

27:49 Finding space for solo time to enjoy romance novels, old sci-fi, and TTRPGs

31:08 Experiencing constant crushes and being open to relationships unfolding naturally

35:18 How physical safety allows her to take big emotional risks during sex

36:48 Self-censorship and the value of privacy

44:36 Discovering the rhythms of a stable relationship and exploring submissive fantasies

48:34 The sexual effects of transitioning from testosterone to estrogen

50:56 Early fact-based book learnings and how her masturbation practices have changed

55:48 Experiencing urgent gender feelings and when she stopped following the heteronormative script of p-in-v sex

59:01 Lesbian "Bed death" and how her first time with another queer partner helped her break sexual patterns

1:03:39 How kink allows her asexual wife to enthusiastically engage in sex

1:07:05 Why she needed to understand her lesbianism before she transitioned

1:10:18 How Buffy the Vampire Slayer inspired her gender journey

1:12:51 Relaxing into the safety of submission: edging, hypnosis, and anal

1:16:12 Her favorite ways to dirty talk and receive impact play

1:20:11 Building stability: artistically, socially, and professionally

1:22:47 Playing with strap-ons and supporting her wife in receiving

1:24:51 The societal importance of loving and helping men

1:28:01 Spreading love with genuine curiosity and small acts of kindness that help people feel chosen

📈 STATS | 39 lesbian white trans woman, she/her pronouns, submissive, monogamous, married to partner of four years, into: D/s, impact play, hypnosis, role play, TTRPGs, game design, writing, romance novels

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Nude car shows, sex toys, and swinging—BJ returns to share his recent explorations and his discovery of a new kink.

00:00 The importance of always having a towel at a nudist car show

05:37 Heightened sensuality in nudity and the different types of nudism

12:19 Expanding his sexual tool shed with FirmTech’s data-collecting TechRing and Performance Ring

17:44 Reclaiming his sexuality post-injury through prostate play and his new favorite cock ring

23:53 Reflections on perfectionism and pursuing excellent ongoing connections

28:45 Exploring a clothing compersion kink and appreciating mutual nurturance

34:01 Post-divorce swinging experiences and getting back into the swinger lifestyle

38:27 Cultivating open-mindedness to live a better, happier life

41:58 Excited for meditative knitting and serving the kink community through leather work

BJ’s episode from October 2024 | Sexagenarian Sexologist

📈 STATS | 60s non-monogamous cis male divorcé, retired protestant pastor, American Midwest, into: nudism, new sex toys, swinging lifestyle

🔗 BJ LINKS | vvrc / sexuality resources

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Easily adaptable, a passion for travel, and the realities of working in adult PR in an increasingly censored society—Brian shares good vibes and loves of work and play.

00:00 How staying active and going with the flow fuels his happy workaholism

04:40 Romanticizing his work + the pros and cons of easily accessible porn

10:40 The joys of dry humping and being grateful for discovering masturbation “late”

14:20 Offending people in the name of supporting his clients and de-stigmatizing sex

17:16 Daily censorship battles and the power of Big Tech

21:55 Why he always has his next vacation planned and enjoying every little win

24:32 PR work origin story and constantly testing his (really good) people skills

28:27 Reflections on generational communication styles when it comes to dating apps, texting and phone calls

33:29 Surprise joys of solo travel

36:19 Finding the balance of giving and receiving in relationships + the sexiness of the unknown

43:17 Sex ed moments burned into his memory and the two movies that taught him about sex

46:58 Early days of not understanding homosexuality as a straight choir boy

51:38 Acrobatic sex, a Narcos-style party, and Playboy Mansion experiences

56:34 The best New Year’s of his life and a long distance office surprise

1:00:26 AVN Expo experiences and enjoying the unknown

1:04:43 Where he finds clarity and the grounding necessity of hugs

📈 STATS | 49 straight dude, president of BSG PR, into: work, music, travel

🔗 BRIAN LINKS | @bsgpr / X

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Next-level self-love, playful acts of service, and a praise kink—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life, her favorite types of dirty talk, the connections that make touch tantalizing, how she discovered her desires, and the ways she wants to give and receive

00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself

03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers

08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of self-love

11:38 The difference between romantic, platonic and self love

13:38 A love of linguistic specificity and astrological geek-outs

16:46 Communicating clearly as a Black woman and being born into a state of receiving

21:43 Allowing others to nurture and how it differs from self-care

26:45 Desiring romance that begins with connected conversation and exploring partners’ passions

30:13 How Olivia’s love languages stem from what she wanted more of growing up

33:07 Cultivating fulfilling relationships of mutual care

36:26 A baseline of taking care of herself in order to be of service to others

41:11 The everyday pleasures of walking her dog, experiencing the arts, and breathing fresh air

44:33 Opportunistic friend sex and wanting to be enthusiastically desired

51:19 The hotness of emotional intelligence and genuine kindness plus meeting people where they’re at

55:18 Needing mental, emotional, and physical stimulation for the energetic exchange of sex

1:00:46 Practicing dirty talk, loving praise while riding, and being turned on by doing a good job

1:05:39 Fueling partnered pleasure via real-time feedback

1:12:33 A love of sucking dick and doggy style

1:15:34 Open to receiving oral and anal in a safe, enthusiastic connection

1:18:53 Redirecting partners from cunnilingus and advice for fingering

1:24:47 Safety tips for impact play and intuiting types of touch needed

1:29:03 When she likes playing rough, hair pulling, and a hand on her neck

1:31:19 Very sensitive nipples and wanting to savor sex

1:33:57 Erogenous zones all over and a surprisingly sweet act of intimacy

1:38:12 Learning about sex from talking with women rather than getting a formal education

1:42:03 Unlearning what porn taught her and navigating unhelpful educational tools

1:46:19 Confidence and explicit direction about how to be touched

1:47:45 How her brother’s friends helped her be open with herself and others about sex

1:53:08 The sexual blueprint of what she wants to pursue in connections and knowing what she doesn’t want

1:56:34 Desire for playful sex that allows for the full emotional experience (including giggling while cumming)

2:03:06 Building trust, needing mental stimulation and a gradual pace when it comes to sex and relationships

2:09:10 Enforcing boundaries and why WE LOVE CONDOMS!!!

2:15:28 Looking forward to a partner who is as passionate about her as she is about herself

2:20:43 Wanting a long-term, ravishing connection with exciting experiments and open communication

2:23:41 Thoughts on sex with other women, FFM, FMF, MFM, and MMF threesomes, and double penetration

2:30:12 Approaching sex as an act of service from a selfless place

2:36:03 Spreading love by being kind and receiving people as they are in any given moment

2:38:42 Reconnecting to her artistry, sharing her natural gifts by educating others, and reflecting the kindness she’s received out into the world

📈 STATS | 28 straight (so far) sapiosexual demisexual Black/African American cis woman, she/her pronouns, single, celibate, thinking about dating, monogamous, threesome-curious bad bitch good girl with a praise kink into: compliments, intimate sex, foreplay, dirty talk

🔗 OLIVIA LINKS | @livvcarter / @livvonfilm / @notoliviabenson

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The fun of telling your top NO, sexual fluidity, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited.

00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship

06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness

13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving

15:42 The magic of instant chemistry and self awareness of her relational needs

23:31 Expectationless expectations, partnership evolutions, and staying open to exploration

26:00 How having a bi partner helped her discover more about her own sexuality

28:00 Swinger parents influence on judgement-free love and open relationships

36:02 Learning how to process and communicate big emotions with a partner

38:10 Navigating social expectations around jealousy, internalized assumptions, and different communication styles

43:09 Knowing herself and noticing the patterns she received from trauma

44:59 A new era of non-monogamy and the roller coaster of dating on apps

50:10 A barroom quickie, a ghost, and setting goals for first dates

56:13 Best friend sexsplorations and learning different sides of herself come out with different partners

1:00:42 Needing an emotional connection for sex and the bests and worsts of online dating

1:04:17 Playful power dynamics and wanting partners to take control

1:09:36 Embracing and understanding her brattiness

1:17:20 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality

1:21:01 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts

1:24:44 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn

1:28:33 Exploring her queerness and relationship through nude self portraiture

1:32:14 Understanding non-monogamous sexual attraction and navigating societal expectations of envy

1:36:31 Threesomes with her husband and best friend and the joy of being the center of attention

1:41:48 Reflecting on internal jealousy and creating the right circumstances for physical intimacy

1:46:44 What she finds hot in fiction vs turn-ons in real life

1:49:15 Favorite positions and how she hits on her partner

1:55:51 Embracing overstimulation and the magic of air sucker clit stimulators

1:59:20 Exploring restraints and where she likes being bitten

2:06:50 Playful brattiness and subverting gender roles in the bedroom

2:09:39 Favorite adult toys, a love of edging, and pillow humping preferences

2:13:49 Reverse harem and overstimulation dreams

2:16:30 Open to more: sex parties, hot accents, and dating women

2:20:19 Spreading love via clear expectations, RPGs with friends, and thoughtfully connecting with every person she meets

📈 STATS | 32 bisexual white Latina cis woman, she/her pronouns, in an 8 year relationship (married for 2) and actively dating, polyamorous, brat, into: talking about relationships, power dynamics, fluid sexuality, sensory stimulation, long-term connections, and never-ending evolution

🔗 AVALON LINKS | @bellanaris.art

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BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more.

00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community

02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn

05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners

07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play

11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase full of safety

15:23 Discovering sex, reclaiming their body, and post cum clarity

19:56 Survival sex work, living in a cage, and unlocking sexual freedom

26:06 Dominance, secrecy, and tips for topping

31:08 Turned on by dancing for money and attention

34:30 What Spike loves about carnal and casual intimacy

36:36 Highly sensitive nipples and tender sensuality

41:01 Spit, self-flagellation, and casting spells

44:01 Solo toy explorations, strokers, and masturbation climaxes

46:56 Personal and pro partnered play

52:36 Foot play, power dynamics, and leather

58:15 Drag shows, male attention, and trying new things

1:00:52 Loving community, communication, and consent

📈 STATS | 37 queer polyamorous gender nonconforming latinx human, they/them/he pronouns, married to partner of 13 years, artist, producer, entertainer, performer, gogo dancer, onlyfans creator, Southern California, into: feet, spit, cages, BDSM, Dominance, submission, drag

🔗 SPIKE LINKS | @spikeprinceofcats / @spikesauce7 / OF

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Luna revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.
 

00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

15:20 Understanding rejection and communication

18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth

35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting

41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences

47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent

52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs

1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"

1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time

1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships

1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices

2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together
 

🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Come Together by Emily Nagoski

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

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A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Luna for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings.

00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection

10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex

17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself

23:48 What Luna has learned about herself

31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward

41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play?

53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more?

1:01:39 Q: How do we keep the honeymoon phase?

1:11:08 Q: I am exploring BDSM and power exchange relationships with my partner for the first time—where do I start?

1:19:54 Q: How do I support my wife in feeling empowered and comfortable with her sexuality?

1:24:53 A noodle on three types of love

1:31:02 Vacuum fetish follow-up

1:35:08 A celebration of cum shots and facials

1:38:38 The email that saved the podcast and sweet messages

📚 BOOKS MENTIONED |

Range by David Epstein

Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott

Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley

Come Together by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Come As Your Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Sex Talks by Vanessa and Xander Marin

The Men on My Couch by Dr Brandy Engler and David Rensin

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Playing Well With by Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

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I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues

00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play

10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing

18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension

20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation

27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves

32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and fluids

37:53 Oral sex and nonverbal communication

46:10 Rimming and 69ing

48:28 Learnings about mobility and partnered play

51:35 Creating caring sexual spaces

55:09 The configurations of group play

58:21 Bathing and body explorations

1:03:03 Playing with ice cubes, hot stones, silk, and more

1:07:39 Massages, foot worship, and hair care

1:12:37 Tantric breathing, reading erotica, and mirror play

1:18:55 Organizing, AI inaccuracies, and edurotic creation dreams

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BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.

00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again

06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter

10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners

15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys

22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true

24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out session

28:47 What it’s like to be a Domme married to a Dom in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

34:55 Finding fellow lifestyle FemmeDommes and creating safety for male submissives

39:44 Priorities in polyamory, community, and playing without her husband

48:40 Studying BDSM formally and expanding play into work as a ProDomme

54:10 Building Lifestyle relationships with clients

58:26 Creating physical fantasy spaces, meeting desires in surprising ways, and intentional healing

1:05:35 Aftercare, favorite toys, and synchronized heartbeats

1:09:36 Parenting while kinky and the positive effect of openness to questions

1:16:30 Coming out as a ProDomme to her kids

1:22:21 How she aspires to create community and spread ethical Dominance

1:24:46 Staying curious and how to find your “real true Domme”

📈 STATS | 50 demisexual Jewish woman, she/her pronouns, ENM, married in a relationship of 30 years, Los Angeles based, into: Dominance, BDSM, group play, lifestyle Domination
 

🔗 MISS BUTTER LINKS | supersweetbutter.com

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Camming, pornography, and indulgent edging—Mia shares how she went from repressed Catholic schoolgirl to sexually liberated professional girlfriend.

00:00 Practicing safer sex and why she always carries a wide range of condom sizes

06:44 Hands-free masturbation and sex beyond genitals

09:00 What Mia loves about sex

10:55 Shooting porn and risk aware play

14:18 How Catholic private school made her a “repressed slut”

18:15 Discovering partnered pleasure through a double-ended dildo

20:59 Cam girl origins

24:23 Fostering relationships and intimacy with clients

29:53 How sex work influences her personal life

33:28 JOIs, immersive cum denial, and how to edge your partner

40:14 What Mia’s pussy loves and communicating what she needs to lovers

46:07 The realities of camming and making joke porn

50:13 Competitive squirting and specialty dildos

54:07 Anal and orgies in a party hostel

58:43 Dreams of church threesomes and a world without stigma

📈 STATS | 35 bisexual white cis femme, she/her pronouns, single, monogamous, polyamorous, professional girlfriend, Orlando based, into: cum denial, edging, mutual worship, vacation sex
 

🔗 MIA LINKS | miafiorelli.com / OF / @realmiaxo / @miafiorellixo

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Polyamory, stripping, exhibitionism, and bisexuality—Miss Tori is a mum of eight who talks openly with her kids about her active sex life and is constantly making new discoveries.

She is joined by her daughter Bebe Bubbles (eps 280 & 282) for an in-depth look at her sexy evolution!

00:00 Accidentally forming a throuple and why she’s always been open about sex

04:55 Bisexuality, figuring out communication, and creating a safe gathering space

12:59 What Miss Tori learned from Bebe about sex

15:49 How being open about sex with Bebe and her friends turned her into the “cool” mom

21:52 The intricacies of Domme-ing

24:56 Wanting to be dominated by women

30:59 Bratty discoveries and magical feminine energetic connections

34:48 Discovering her power over men, attraction to women, and the joys of sneaky beach sex

41:16 How becoming a stripper balanced out her good girl tendencies

45:51 Poly communication wins

48:53 Navigating marriage, a new girlfriend, and shifting desires

53:15 Experiences with women and new levels of sex

56:48 Changing attractions, attachment struggles, and living for herself 

1:04:19 Exploring kink and learning to squirt

1:08:00 Jealousy, the hotness of meeting needs, and how Bebe's experiences mirror her mum's

1:15:55 How orgasms are different with other women

1:21:16 Exhibitionism and threesome strapping dreams

1:25:12 Miss Tori's Unicorn Cuck Room

1:32:34 Why she surrounds herself with artists

📈 STATS | 48 queer bisexual Australian woman, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, bratty switch, married 10 years, dating 9 months, mother of 8, works with disadvantaged youth, former stripper/model, into: women, swinging, exhibitionism, submission, festivals

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Threesomes, non-monogamy, and a money kink—Nikole shares about maximizing pleasure for partners and the power in being fully yourself.

00:00 How she went from 100 to 0 on the shame-o-meter

05:12 Exploring her own body through OnlyFans and why she desires pleasure from partners

11:26 Blowing minds with transcendent sexual experiences and erotic sex ed live-streams

17:20 Empowered by OnlyFans and selling panties

21:41 Being the ultimate sugar baby

30:10 Money kink: communicating what matters and the importance of boundaries

38:43 Why premarital sex is a requirement

43:17 Sex worker sex ed tutorials, playful partnered explorations, and discovering queerness

47:05 How non-monogamy helps her fall more in love with her primary partner

50:56 Looking forward to Oprah-levels of success and a world full of orgasmic bliss

📈 STATS | 40 queer woman, married, non-monogamous, onlyfans creator, life coach, mom, into: money, playing with couples, sugar dating, selling panties
 

🔗 NIKOLE LINKS | @mitchellnikole / OF

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Cervical orgasms, sex vacations, and submission—Sarah shares about stepping out of religious shame and embracing her own pleasure.

00:00 Learning how and when to talk about sex

04:06 Risk aware play and leaving space for adjustment

08:15 Checking in with her high libido demisexual self and asking for what she needs

14:50 Navigating purity culture and discovering the mechanics of sex growing up

23:21 Religious loopholes and feeling the freedom to finally explore

28:32 A seven inch dildo and erotic photography on a solo sex vacation

36:04 Celebrating the return of easy orgasms and Sarah’s favorite ways to cum

40:12 Dating online and in Los Angeles

46:58 Creating safe, intentional, and caring connections

53:18 Being queer and eating pussy for the first time in a threesome

57:53 Enjoying pain, sucking cock, and spit play

1:04:29 Seeking a queer Dominant to explore what she needs as a submissive

1:09:04 Casual non-monogamy explorations

1:11:22 Discovering desires on-camera

1:15:48 Turned on by the novelty of new spaces

1:19:04 Helping partners receive pleasure and the joys of listening to her body

📈 STATS | 36 bisexual white femme, sub-leaning switch, ex-Christian, single, non-monogamous, actor, singer, writer, instructional designer, Los Angeles-based, into: sensation play, stimulation, touch, hot words, photography, film, environments
 

🔗 SARAH LINKS | @sarahekarnes / skarnes.substack.com

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Glory holes, gay porn, deep throating, and phone sex Domination—Sydney shares how she’s letting go of perfection, embracing her full self, and satisfying her intimacy needs.

00:00 FaceTime dating wisdom

5:40 Shame squiggles and what she needs to feel safe

14:00 Adult bookstores and glory hole dick sucking

20:29 Discovering the joys of fucking everywhere at any time

27:45 Balancing her needs for comfort, safety, and connection

34:10 Why effort feels sexy and the perks of hotel sex

38:03 Phone sex mistress and a fuckboy toy submissive

43:09 The hotness of hiring a sex worker

47:30 Holy grail gangbang and craving caresses

49:41 Chasing the drug of genuine intimacy

56:55 Shower sex: getting ravished and vulnerable golden showers

1:04:06 Enforcing boundaries and reclaiming her home

1:08:17 Mutual choking and making out

1:11:33 Constantly evolving and finding what feels good

1:16:40 Exploring trans-friendly BDSM spaces, international sex, and kitchen table poly

1:22:22 Craving mutual vulnerability and the pleasure of exciting partners

📈 STATS | 40s Trans Black Femme, power bottom, single-but-dating, Los Angeles-based, into: kissing, dirty talk, equality in bed, open sex talk, gangbangs

🔗 SYDNEY LINKS | @missbarbieqla

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Bebe is back to talk all about love and being her own muse.

00:00 The many forms and feelings of love

05:00 Accepting bisexuality, queerness, and discovering non-monogamy

14:10 Getting turned on by applause and the importance of saying “I love you”

19:12 Connection revelations and the trickiness of reading people

23:32 Noticing and changing dating patterns

28:54 How recovering from gonorrhea led to deeper feelings for a partner

31:42 Ways Bebe feels loved

40:42 Reconnecting with her body through burlesque

45:28 Photoshoots! Loving her body through nudity and the artistic lens

51:45 How she’s inspiring love, creativity, and body positivity

📈STATS | 27 bisexual plus-sized femme, switch, non-monogamish, partnered 9 months, disability support worker, Australian, into: Dominance, submission, new experiences, restraints, cock and ball torture, crafts, burlesque
 

🔗 BEBE LINKS | @bebe.bubbles

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Bebe returns to continue her story: Ho Phase 2.0, exploring non-monogamy, orgasmic nipple play, CBT, and her new Best Sex Ever phase.

00:00 Reframing unhelpful tendencies and learning to respect her own boundaries

6:03 Plus-sized spanking perks and the importance of permission when leaving marks

10:11 Safety tips for breath play

12:20 Recognizing patterns and replacing period shame with pleasure

18:24 Gaining self-acceptance and new language to communicate needs

22:16 Teenage bucket list dream: complete!

25:06 Healthier perspectives on self-esteem, self-love, and communication

28:11 Reflecting on assumptions and instant deep connections

32:44 Details of her longest relationship and embracing bisexuality through group make outs

36:12 The contrast between supportive, creative queer community and a partnership that no longer meets her needs

38:12 Why queer femmes are the best and getting off birth control

42:50 Navigating sex parties, coming out, and non-monogamy

51:02 Unpacking self-blame patterns and the need to feel needed

55:53 A romantic afternoon delight, fucking three people in one day, and discovering D/s power exchange dynamics

1:00:40 Car sex: best and worst

1:07:58 Kink, BDSM and sensory explorations with a sex toy lover

1:12:12 Nipple play and practicing degradation

1:16:47 Cock cages!

1:19:06 How she likes to Domme: extended play, impact, and aftercare

1:24:11 Excited for vaginas, non-monogamy, and kinky furniture

📈STATS | 27 bisexual plus-sized femme, switch, non-monogamish, partnered 9 months, disability support worker, Australian, into: Dominance, submission, new experiences, restraints, cock and ball torture, crafts, burlesque
 

🔗 BEBE LINKS | @bebe.bubbles

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Fantasies, fleshlights, courtesans, and surprisingly sexy minister training—BJ shares how he’s satisfying his curiosities and connecting enthusiastically with partners.

00:00 Embracing his shame-free 60s and recalling early experiences

07:01 Encyclopedia sex ed and filling in the gaps with imagination

12:24 Teaching his gym teacher about sex

19:14 Discovering self pleasure in a dark closet

24:03 Heavy petting and a cycle of guilt in college

27:07 Becoming a minister, explicit films in seminary, and sexuality in the old testament

34:31 Connecting with his wife through sensual massages and fantasy suite experiences

37:22 Playing with fleshlights, prostates, and lube

42:33 Satisfying his legal brothel curiosity

46:01 More love, less war, and pumping gasoline as a turn-on

56:07 Sex work fantasies and craving clothing optional spaces

📈STATS | 60s heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous,  divorced, sexologist, retired pastor, musician, based in American rural midwest, into: connected touch, eye contact, nipple play, receiving blowjobs, painting his toenails
 

🔗 BJ LINKS | vvrc / sexuality resources

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Bebe—breaker of panties—talks about endless orgasms, staying grounded as a switch, and how she spreads ripples of love.

00:00 What it’s like to be a really easy cum

05:41 All the ways she can orgasm

11:00 Her sexy morning ritual, edging experiments, and anal explorations

16:26 Staying grounded, navigating subspace, and when she needs more aftercare

24:36 Early feelings of being “too sexual” and how she learned about sex

27:56 Breaking underwear, humping pillows, and bed frame masturbations

33:17 Exciting early porn discoveries, magazine sex ed, and figuring out how to ask questions

40:00 Supporting siblings in their sexual journeys

48:06 Seeking new experiences and overcoming the struggles of connecting with people in person and online

57:06 Recovering from self-destructive thrill seeking and embracing risk aware explorations

1:00:34 Consensually crawling into the back of a guy’s van and a fisting adventure!!!

1:07:08 Loving every iteration of herself and staying curious

📈STATS | 27 bisexual plus-sized femme, switch, non-monogamish, partnered 9 months, disability support worker, Australian, into: Dominance, submission, new experiences, restraints, cock and ball torture, crafts, burlesque
 

🔗 BEBE LINKS | @bebe.bubbles

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