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| Through the Lens: Enneagram 458 | 03 Aug 2026 | 01:31:31 | |
As the first episode in the series "Through the Lens", Kristen and Emeka look at the enneagram trifix 458. The hosts dive straight into the art and lives of the artists that are typed with this trifix, trying to bring language to the portfolio and collage of this specific energy. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Leave a comment, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Series intro and 458 trifix 04:42 - Mythology vs reality in an individual 12:42 - Humanity's chaos and artistic expression 22:24 - Unique perspectives 32:42 - Innovation and deconstruction in art and film 42:22 - Depiction of human psyche during disaster #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram8 #enneagram5 #enneagram4 #trifix #personalitytypes #typology #psychology | |||
| The Creativity of Instinctual Stackings | 27 Jul 2026 | 01:11:41 | |
How does each instinct stacking make art? Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) explore the strengths and weaknesses of the creativity of each stacking. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Get Typed @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 0:08 Instincts And Creativity Intro 3:47 Why Instinct Collages Typing Works 8:40 SP Creativity Strengths And Weaknesses 10:43 The Worldbuilding And Craft Of SP 14:13 SOC Creativity Strengths And Weaknesses 16:45 Social First Is Drawn To Concepts And Ideas 21:08 Social Overemphasis On Identity And Messaging 23:44 SX Creativity Strengths And Weaknesses 29:39 SX Raw Charged Moments Of Tension 33:57 Kubrick’s Non-Submersible Units 39:35 SX Blindspot Creativity 46:49 SP Blindspot Creativity 51:26 SO Blindspot Creativity 1:01:04 SP/SO VS SO/SP Ft. George R.R. Martin | |||
| Enneagram 9: "i'm fine" (we all know you aren't fine) | 20 Jul 2026 | 00:58:30 | |
On this next Never Ending 9 Episode, Kristen and Sammy (both core 9w1's) are here to talk about the phenomenon of enneagram type 9 and why they all claim they're fine when they obviously aren't. This topic stretches into personal experiences in relationships, choices, and the energetic movement of a 9 versus the reality they're dealing with at any given moment. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with type 9, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram9 #typology #psychology #shadowwork #carljung #marionwoodman | |||
| The GeoEnneagram | 13 Jul 2026 | 00:54:33 | |
Each place has a temperament. Emeka and Kristen type the personality of the United States and its different regions. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Get Typed @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 0:08 Each Place Has A Type 3:02 Typing The Aggro NorthEast 6:52 Typing The SouthEast 8:12 The NPC Triangle 10:05 Southern Charm And The Florida Man 13:48 The Mid Midwest Bermuda 15:28 The Plain Plains 19:08 West Coast Airheads 20:22 Doom And Gloom Northwest 23:25 Typing New York / Jersey / Philly 31:06 Chicago, Illinois Enmeshments 35:27 Don’t Mess With Texas Meats 38:26 Oregon & Washington Granola Hipsters 40:46 New Orleans & LA Wild Cards 43:38 What Happens In Vegas Can Be Used Against You 46:32 Typing America As A Whole | |||
| The Somatic Intelligence of the Enneagram | 06 Jul 2026 | 01:40:20 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Ruth (sx/so 9w1 973) discuss how learning the enneagram as a functional pattern can actually help release fixed and narrow perceptions of self and reality. The two hosts talk about their personal experiences with their enneagram types causing limitations, and flavor their practices with backgrounds from the Diamond Approach and Jungian work. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with your enneagram type, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Object relations and perception 08:57 - Animal instincts in emotional regulation 17:49 - The nervous system and regulation 31:55 - Depersonalization / Derealization 43:55 - Relationships and regulation 56:31 - Self-preservation and personal validation 01:05:47 - The limitations of personality systems 01:13:32 - Imaginary and sensory realms: trusting the body 01:27:06 - Emotion-infused perspective 01:33:55 - Connecting between self and others 01:37:44 - Loving your animal #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #diamondapproach #jungianpsychology #psychology #depthanalysis #individuation #somatichealing #somaticintelligence | |||
| THE HEART VS SOCIAL | 29 Jun 2026 | 01:12:03 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dissect the differences between the heart/image center and social. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 3:41 Most People Don’t Curate Their Self-Portrait 5:02 Heart Center Vs Social Comparisons 8:26 Social Narratives Vs Heart Self-Curation 9:24 Kanye Vs Meghan Markle 11:41 Social Blind Heart Types Vs Heart Last Social Types 13:18 Heart Type Self-Branding Vs Social Implications 20:04 Heart Center Framing Scenes All The Time 23:05 The Advantages Of Being Heart-Last 25:20 Nostalghia Vs Billy Corgan 38:11 Social Is Outside-In, Heart Identity Is Self-Referential 43:11 Lenny Kravitz Vs Arsenio Hall 46:26 What Each Heart Type Is Inspiring 50:54 Soc-Blind Image Spectacle Vs Social First World Building 54:56 Withdrawn Social Vs Heart Self-Identity 1:00:47 The Camera Is Always Watching Heart Types | |||
| Kurt Cobain sucks (and so do you) | 22 Jun 2026 | 01:00:26 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963), Emeka (sx/sp 8w7 854) and David (sp/sx 9w1 974) talk about the phenomenon of Kurt Cobain (and Courtney Love). Was there a collective identity projected onto him that deeply skewed the reality of who he really was day to day? With an accurate understanding of the Enneagram types, we can confidently say - yes. This topic discusses personality patterns, idealizing character traits, and seeing the edges and stark differences of the Enneagram. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment what you think, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Identity and idolization 11:15 - Seeing the shiny celebrity vs personality struggles 29:34 - Chaotic energy in the sexual instinct 35:02 - The preciousness of identity in typology 44:30 - Complexities and contradictions of human experience and personality patterns 52:25 - Understanding personality fixation 56:18 - Allowing disillusionment and differences 59:46 - The enneagram beyond definitions #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagraminstincts #kurtcobain #typology #courtneylove | |||
| Backrooms Is Really About A Sad Angry Enneagram 9 | 15 Jun 2026 | 00:55:02 | |
[SPOILERS] Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dive into enneagram themes in the Backrooms movie. House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 0:17 Backrooms Is Really About Enneagram 9 3:04 Virtual Life Obsessions Of 9 6:45 9 Self-Fragmentation In The Backrooms 8:21 9 Feeling Stuck Disowning Their Autonomy 13:31 5 Fix Vs 6 Fix Storytelling 18:54 Comparing The Backrooms To The Shining 20:47 Body Types Are Great At World Building 25:00 Thoughts On The Reception And The Ending 29:23 The 20 Year Old Director Who ‘Made It’ 35:41 5 Deconstructing Reality 42:54 ‘We Don’t Have To Change’ Backrooms Of The Psyche 45:45 SX Middle Tension In Films 48:44 Attachment Types Being Insufferable 50:41 Hexad Vs Attachment Entities 53:19 3 Vs 4 Fix Storytelling | |||
| SHADOW SERIES: Type 7 | 08 Jun 2026 | 01:00:20 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) is moving on with the shadow series to the Hexad types of the Enneagram (1, 2, 4, 5, 7, & 8) by starting off with everyone's favorite entertainer; Type 7. Kristen breaks down some of the more common personal shadows a 7 might have, and then pivots to the shadows we typically collectively project onto the type. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with type 7, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro to Enneagram Type 7 09:46 - Disclaimer 10:35 - Shadows Within: HEXAD 15:14 - 'Navigation' 16:06 - Positive / Assertive / Frustration 22:42 - Fear & responsibility 25:41 - Unprocessed emotions 29:15 - 'Character' 29:38 - Keeping energy 'up', idea generator 32:12 - Performing heart for others, emotions are for fun/entertainment 35:02 - Self-interested, cheap stimulation 37:36 - Collective Shadows 38:11 - 'Mind' 38:30 - Creativity, the disappointment of reality 41:15 - Addiction/self-interest scapegoat 45:14 - Gambling, risks, chance 47:54 - 'Personhood' 48:30 - Life is playful, seeking spark, what 'lights you up' 53:25 - 'Resilience' 56:27 - Wide/deep spectrum of elated emotions, collective cheapens/mutes these experiences 59:32 - Conclusion #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram7 #enneagramtype7 #shadowwork #psychology #typology | |||
| you’re not social blind | 01 Jun 2026 | 01:41:13 | |
And you don’t really get what it is. Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dive into what is most misunderstood about social blindness. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 0:18 People Not Getting What Social Blindness Really Is 2:52 Kristen Mistyping As A Social-Blind 6:15 Social Blinds Don’t Frame Their Character Contextually 8:56 Everyone Thinks They Suck At Social 13:15 What Hooked Emeka Into The Enneagram 16:23 Social Blinds Are Missing The “Our Story” Tab 23:17 Social Blinds Haven’t Confronted The Context Of Their History 30:11 Social Is Having A Relationship With Your Personhood 34:52 Why People Mistype As Their Blindspot 38:00 SX Is A Very Small Part Of Evolution 40:56 The Craziness Of SX Being A Person’s Day To Day Fixation 44:56 Social Blinds Not Having Empathy For Other People’s Personhood 51:23 Social Blinds Not Signaling If They Like You Or Not 59:58 A Social Blind’s Cave 1:04:41 SP/SX VS SX/SP Energy 1:19:53 Social Blinds In Dark Rooms As A Baseline 1:26:31 Social Blind Objectification Feels Vampiric 1:29:17 SX Chasing Euphoria 1:33:06 The Social Blind Death Drive | |||
| THROUGH THE LENS: Trifix and Art | 25 May 2026 | 00:44:48 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) presents an idea to Emeka (sx/sp 8w7 854) and David (sp/sx 9w1 974) about the value that is deep within the nature of art and artists. Kristen references J.F. Martel's book 'Reclaiming Art in the Age of Artifice' to lay out the topic and discuss how this may show up within or limit certain Enneagram type structures. This is the beginning and setup of the series 'THROUGH THE LENS' - a creative deep dive into the 'art' that illustrates a trifix (or vice versa). Reclaiming Art in the Age of Artifice: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/j-f-martel/reclaiming-art-in-the-age-of-artifice/9781541607248/?lens=basic-books If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your ideas of art or artists, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Exploring the intersection of personality and art 06:03 - Type and artistic expression 09:50 - "AI Slop" 15:45 - Art v Artist 32:35 - Objectification within art 40:11 - Artistic identity and context #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagraminstincts #psychology #art #artists #critique | |||
| ATTACHMENTATIONS | 18 May 2026 | 01:26:16 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) pick apart various attachment and social enmeshments and the expectations that come with them. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 0:07 Let’s Talk About Attachment 1:46 Kristen’s Impressions Of The Social Hexad and SP/SX Attachment Pods 2:57 Social Creates Virtual Characters Of People 7:09 Humanity Is Built On Attachment Enmeshment 10:17 Attachmentation #1 - ‘Making It’ 16:33 The Attachment Of Family Traditions And Expectations 22:56 Attachmentation #2 - Going Along To Get Along 29:45 Everyone Is Performing Personhood 35:05 Attachmentation #3 - Tall Poppy Syndrome 42:16 The Nature Of Fandom And Social Projections 46:21 Attachmentation #4 - Keeping Up With The Jones 50:18 Collective Labels Are Attached To Everything 1:03:08 Parent-Child Projections Are The Ultimate Attachmentation 1:04:57 The Spectrum Of Social Blindness 1:09:55 We Get Archetypes From Social And Attachment 1:12:43 The Obsession With Curating A Virtual Self 1:22:57 Attachment Anticipating Ostracization | |||
| run ratrun rat run: $ELF-PRES | 11 May 2026 | 01:18:21 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Maggie (sp/sx 7w6 794) talk about the garbage can of the Enneagram instincts - Self-Preservation. Why does everyone hate it? Why does everyone have it? Is it really about workouts and supplements? If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with self-preservation, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Self-Preservation = garbage can 05:39 - Unhealthy aspects of SP 12:42 - Scarcity vs. Abundance 21:07 - Lessons from rat studies 35:06 - The cycle of rote behavior 40:57 - Fear and control in SP 45:05 - The illusion of "self-care" 51:29 - Dynamic engagement with life 01:12:35 - Consumerism in modern life 01:15:14 - Kurt Vonnegut's 'Breakfast of Champions' #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagraminstincts #personalitytypes #selfpreservation #typology #objectivepsychology | |||
| Do Social Hexads GAF?! | 04 May 2026 | 01:12:35 | |
The Social Hexads are here. Luther (SO/SP 5w6), Vinny (SO/SP 7w8), and Micaiah (SO/SX 7w6) are hosted by Emeka (SX/SP 8w7) to unravel the mysteries of social hexad in this edition of Hoes Mostly Dark. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 1:27 Social Hexad Intro 1:59 When Did You Realize You Were Different? 6:42 Has There Been Any Issues Navigating People’s Expectations? 10:08 What’s Your Relationship To Togetherness 15:15 What Does Mirroring Mean To You? 20:08 What Are You Wanting From Other People? 20:55 Luther’s Twenty Plus Minute Voice Messages 24:50 How Do You Feel About Having Limited Connection And Loneliness? 29:06 Describe Your Ideal Your Social Fantasy 31:52 How Differently Do You Think You Engage With Different People? 34:55 Do You Keep Your Social Groups Separate? 38:28 Are You Aware Of Needing Others To Regulate? 44:43 Do You Have Anything That Could Be Described As Social Anxiety? 49:27 What’s Your Relationship To Social Judgement? 52:59 What About The Fear Of Ostracization? 54:33 What Don’t You Relate To About The Way Social Is Talked About? 59:11 What Would You Say Being Social First Makes You Great At? 1:03:03 What’s The Worst And Best Parts Of Having A Social Hexad Brother? 1:08:48 What’s Your Social Nightmare? | |||
| READ BETWEEN THE LINES: Speculative Typing | 27 Apr 2026 | 01:22:46 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sammy (sp/so 9w1 954) go through several letters from past notable figures. Since there are no videos to properly type these people objectively, the hosts play with speculative typing through tone and character. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with speculative typing, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Why can't we land on a solid type purely through reading a letter? 04:14 - Tchaikovsky 09:23 - Franz Kafka 23:24 - Ernest Hemingway 28:48 - Beethoven 44:23 - Charles Darwin 53:01 - Oscar Wilde 01:03:07 - Emily Dickinson 01:13:08 - Ben Franklin #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #tchaikovsky #kafka #hemingway #beethoven #charlesdarwin #oscarwilde #emilydickinson #benfranklin | |||
| RITES OF INSTINCT | 20 Apr 2026 | 01:20:19 | |
Dive into the cultural rituals and rites of each instinct with Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854), Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963), and Sammy (SP/SO 9w1 954). This week we’re exploring how cultures around the world perform rituals honoring the needs and deities of self-pres, social, and sexual. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks Show Notes 1:09 Self-pres Rituals Intro 3:32 The Mamoiada Ritual 6:30 We Make Deities Into Our Instincts 7:35 Druids Human Sacrifice 14:51 Mami Wata Deity Of Wealth And Transformation 17:16 Sammy’s Self-pres Rituals 20:56 Temples Of Asclepius 24:47 Social Rituals Intro 26:36 Scarification Practices 29:26 Biblical Ritual Of Scapegoats 35:19 SO/SX Mardi Gras Indians 39:07 The Value Of Social Ceremonies And Being Witnessed 45:31 SX Rituals In Church and Dionysus 48:15 Thaipusam Hindu Trance Ecstatic Dance 56:36 Drama And Theater As Cathartic SX Ritual 57:35 Kokou Possession Ritual 1:02:26 The Raw Magic Of Duende 1:08:09 Holy Ghost Praise Breaks 1:09:46 Mami Wata Possession Ritual 1:13:11 SX Is Everywhere 1:15:44 Each Instinct Bears A Cost Links Crop sacrifices / fertility rituals / farming - Mamoiada https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsvRNEnzjEI Pagan ceremonies / Druids (sacrifices) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKLjjxLSbhc 12:29 - 15:00 Mami Wata Divinity of Fertility And Prosperity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3gjL6Oo3Fk Temples of Asclepius https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A14ewB4-L5E 7:20 Scapegoats - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fssPmwOhRf0 Scarification / rites of passage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jn_tlq40Auc SO/SX? New Orleans / Mardi Gras - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1RiLC0MwV0 Hindu trance / ecstatic dance, playing out god dramas, combination of human and divine - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_x67MVdCMbc - 2:48 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGFnYOFVxnk Kokou From Dark Tourist Season 1, Episode 7 ("Africa") https://www.netflix.com/title/80189791 Flamenco Duende https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzlJMnsDnVw https://youtu.be/6cWR4iBhGcU?si=iptCPPs8zhNVNEhL&t=737 12:17 Holy Ghost Praise Breaks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gpxuMkYgbI https://www.youtube.com/shorts/laoK8wkG3KQ Mami Wata Possession | |||
| THE SOCIAL INSTINCT: the wonderful wizard of ostracization | 13 Apr 2026 | 01:34:06 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Alice (so/sp 9w1 973) talk about the social instinct. The hosts explore their own personal experiences of being social first, contemplate the through-line of so/sp and so/sx, and zoom out to see the social instinct in a larger context of how society is or isn't handling it very well. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with the social instinct, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - What is an instinct? 16:38 - Complex social interactions 23:02 - Narcissism, projection, and performance 40:10 - The grief of unmet needs 45:47 - Social "identity" 48:19 - Paying for instinctual needs 50:45 The Challenge of Self-Regulation 57:29 Creative Metaphors for Self-Reflection 58:22 Engaging with Inner Artistry 01:01:18 - Flattening social interactions 01:16:15 - 'Attention' in social 01:24:36 - Social wounds 01:31:50 - Embracing vulnerability and depth in relationships #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #socialinstinct #enneagraminstincts #typology #psychology #shadowwork | |||
| s p / s x a t t a c h m e n t i s s t r a n g e . . | 06 Apr 2026 | 01:33:52 | |
Enter the strange world of SP/SX attachment, with Elisa (SP/SX 3w2 378), Sara (SP/SX 6w7 614), and Kat (SP/SX 9w8 936) in this first edition of Hoes After Dark. Hosted by Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854). If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks Show Notes 1:00 When Did It Hit You That You Were Social Last? 3:35 The Not Giving A F**k Of SP/SX vs Hexad 8:06 Are There Clear Ways You’ve Noticed You’re An Attachment Type? 10:04 Navigating Social As A SP/SX Attachment Type 25:53 Can You And Do You Cosplay Social? 30:34 How Do You Notice Your SX Instinct Showing Up? 36:13 Hating On “Empowerment” As Soc-Blinds 39:16 Social Shame As A Blocker Of Eroticism 42:14 What Gets Projected On You As A SP/SX? 51:48 Being Stigmatized By SX-Blind Women 56:03 Motherhood As A SP/SX 1:01:52 Navigating Social Disconnects With SP/SX 1:07:35 Devouring and Being Devoured 1:12:02 How Do You Decide Whether Someone Is Good or Bad? 1:25:14 Being Comfortable In The Dark Shadows Of Humanity | |||
| SHADOW SERIES: Type 6 | 30 Mar 2026 | 00:55:55 | |
The shadow series is an attempt at looking at several layers of shadow within one enneagram type - personal shadows a type may constantly confront, and shadows that the collective might have on the type itself. Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) pulls the most expected unconscious tendencies for Type 6 and expands on them to give a comprehensive view of the type's mechanisms. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with type 6, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps;00:00 - Examples of type 6 06:17 - Intro to type 6 08:07 - Disclaimer 09:30 - Shadows Within 09:55 - Navigating Authority and External Influences 12:23 - Externalizing Authority 16:48 - Fear and Reactivity 20:34 - Open Attachments 24:47 - Character 25:09 - Self-deprecation, power dynamics 29:44 - Obsessive need for 'truth', going over same territory 32:57 - Language carries daggers, Loses sense of play 35:32 - Collective Shadows 35:43 - Mind 37:04 - 6 on 6 violence, needing discourse, external concepts 40:21 - Reactivity as a bridge, active communication 43:40 - Collective agreement 46:18 - Personhood 46:33 - Real change, sounding the alarm 48:45 - Responsibility for worry/reactivity 50:51 - Unafraid to expand/contract as needed, more dynamic, villain and prophet #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram6 | |||
| SX ISN’T SEXY | 23 Mar 2026 | 01:25:40 | |
Emeka and Kristen are back to pull apart the destructive edge-seeking nature of sexual, and how ‘sexy’ misses its darker motivations. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks Show Notes 0:30 The Edge-Seeking Crashout Of Sexual 7:31 SX Charge Is Required To Break Out Of Child-Parental Dynamics 13:23 We Treat Our Blindspot Like An ATM 14:59 We’re Not Conscious Of All Three Instincts 20:56 The Chemical Objectification Of Sexual 22:53 The Body’s Role In The Energetic Intercourse Of Sexual 25:46 SX Tension Undermines Any Stable Sense Of Sexiness 32:11 SX Risks Transgressing Edges Between Turn Ons And Turn Offs 33:21 The Narcissism And Self-Interest Of SX 36:56 Heath Ledger’s SX Immersion Into The Joker 39:46 The SX Risk Of Being Consumed And Torn Apart 42:49 The Mental Illness And Wounds Arising From Each Blindspot 51:45 Takanakuy As Dionysian SX Festival 57:15 SX Blood Letting Ritual To Exorcise Trauma 1:01:08 Michaela Boehm’s SX Non-Linear Movement 1:05:54 Masculine Feminine Polarity And Tension Within The Self 1:09:09 SX Spill Can Be Performative And Not Vulnerable 1:16:07 The Problem Of Being Stuck In The First Two Instincts 1:19:59 SX-Blinds Obsess Over Relationships Because SX Is Triggered There | |||
| Convening with the Underworld in 'Spirited Away' | 16 Mar 2026 | 01:06:20 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sam (sp/so 7w6 712) use the film 'Spirited Away' to talk about journeys to the underworld, relationships, and insatiable hunger. With two opposing views on the film, the hosts make jokes and relate their ideas they find within the story and characters to personal experiences in an Enneagram context. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your impressions of the film, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Critique of Spirited Away: A Love-Hate Relationship 09:06 - Value and Identity 11:59 - No-Face 14:50 - The Underworld vs Personal Growth 23:30 - Scarcity Mentality and Instincts 28:01 - The Bathhouse as an SP Hell 33:02 - Dreams and the Underworld 37:25 - The Monster Within 40:41 - Discernment in Relationships 45:21 - The Drug of Intensity in Relationships 50:42 - Cultural Expectations of Romantic Relationships #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #spiritedaway #moviereview #typology | |||
| SX IS NOT ATTRACTIVE | 09 Mar 2026 | 01:36:23 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dissect the untamed spill of the sexual instinct and how ‘attraction’ isn’t really what it’s going for. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks Show Notes 0:27 SX Is Not Attractive Intro 3:15 ‘Attraction’ Brings Sexual Into the Social Realm 4:38 The Messy Cracks And Spills Of Sexual 9:24 Everyone Has An Instinctual Need To Get Loose And Spill 12:16 SX Is Allowing Yourself To Be Possessed By Your Unconscious 15:13 What Is Sexual Without A Romantic Object? 17:02 Youtuber Describes Sexual In Marvin Gaye 26:10 Your Sexual Instinct Is Very Individual To You 30:01 SX/SO Patti Smith’s Weird Spills 37:28 SO/SX Jeff Goldblum’s WTF Jazz Fest 40:59 SX/SP Bjork’s Out Of Context Whims 48:42 SP/SX Kanye’s Unhinged Cringe 57:54 The Creative Spill Of SX Without Sexual Orientation 1:02:35 SX Is Opening Wounds And Spilling Shadow Impulses 1:08:27 Everyone Has Their Favorite SX Blanket 1:12:54 SX Wants To Engulf With Raw Vulnerable Spill 1:22:04 Every Relationship At Some Point Requires A Raw Spill 1:29:00 Why SX Leaks Are A Threat To Social 1:34:06 The Unresolved Question Mark Of SX Spill https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUKyRXv_dRE&list=LL&index=2 | |||
| “HOW AM I THAT TYPE?”: AP Retype Crashout | 02 Mar 2026 | 01:14:24 | |
Rob of AP (attitudinalpsyche.com) and Emeka discuss the recent AP retyping drama and the enneagram-AP insights that emerged. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks Show Notes 0:08 Rob’s Retyping Overhaul Intro 5:03 The Terror Of The Last Attitude 9:29 4E And Attachment Types Are The Most Common 10:56 The Curious Case Of Volition First Nines 14:38 4E Runs Away From Personally Specific Value Judgements 18:03 Evaluators Vs Experiencers And Hexad Vs Attachment 24:20 4L Fantasizers Refuse To Make Rules 33:08 4E Baiting And Outsourcing Reactions 38:11 When Your First Attitude Is Their Fourth Attitude 48:18 What It Feels Like For Emeka To Have Both Evaluators First 52:35 4F Obsessives Not Processing Experiences And Physical Limitations 1:04:37 4V Momentizers Don’t Care About Causality | |||
| Enneagram Meta-Analysis | 23 Feb 2026 | 01:10:27 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sammy (sp/so 9w1 954) review old enneagram material as a way to relate it to the current understanding of objective enneagram typing. This is a loose discussion accompanied by a very light search of different sources to comment on. Resources mentioned: Carl Jung's 'Psychological Types'https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/the-basic-structure-of-protoanalysis https://www.scribd.com/doc/258057465/Naranjo-Subtypes https://oceanmoonshine9.wordpress.com/intro-to-instinctual-subtypes/ http://fitzel.ca/enneagram/ https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with old enneagram type material, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Diving into Enneagram Sources and Influences 05:07 - Personal Journeys into the Enneagram 08:09 - The Importance of Accurate Type Descriptions 11:05 - Critiquing Common Misconceptions in Enneagram Descriptions 18:41 - Subtypes 24:22 - Enneagram Complexity 33:39 - Self-Preservation and the Yearning for Land 42:42 - Duality of Instincts in Personality Types 49:23 - The Trap of Ego Vengeance 55:35 - The Melancholy of Four 01:01:02 - The Harmlessness of Self-Preservation 01:04:58 - Enneagram Fan Fiction #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram9 #enneagram8 #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enenagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 | |||
| SHADOW SERIES: Type 3 | 16 Feb 2026 | 00:56:32 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) is continuing the shadow series with Enneagram Type 3. In the realm of the image center, shadows start to form around shame, identity, and persona. Kristen explores different ways we can identify and have a relationship with this living material by looking at both the personal and collective shadows of type 3. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your own 3 shadows, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cUnrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinkshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps;00:00 - Introduction to the Shadow Series & Type 308:32 - Disclaimer10:29 - Shadows Within12:09 - Persona Vs. Identity15:58 - Value Vs. Productivity19:59 - Shame and Self-Monitoring24:51 - Character; attachment to success, blank slate, overly related to28:31 - Performance based on collectively agreed upon characteristics, productivity, and status30:09 - Non-Attachment Demonizing; Work-In-Progress32:28 - Collective Shadows33:16 - 'Heart'33:31 - Fake, shallow, deceitful38:54 - Assertive/Competent heart43:00 - The Golden Shadow46:21 - Personhood; necessity of persona, constantly marked by life50:22 - Perpetuating shame-based narratives52:20 - Mirroring, understanding responsibility and values#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #typology #enneagramtype3 #enneagram3 #shadowwork | |||
| How To Torture Each Instinct Stacking | 09 Feb 2026 | 00:52:50 | |
How would you torture each instinct stacking? Comment with your most diabolical takes for a chance to win a prize. Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) is joined by Valentino (SO/SX 9w1 973) and Moses (SO/SP 5w6 513) to brainstorm the most torturous hellscapes for each instinct stacking. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 0:08 How To Torture Each Instinct Stacking Intro 0:57 The Hopeless Romantwinks Podcast 3:04 Torturing Type SO/SX 10:53 Torturing Type SX/SO 18:08 Torturing Type SO/SP 27:32 Torturing Type SP/SO 36:31 Torturing Type SP/SX 43:45 Torturing Type SX/SP | |||
| Channel Surfing the Cognitive Functions | 02 Feb 2026 | 00:54:43 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963), David (sp/sx 9w1 974), and Moses (so/sp 5w6 513) engage in a discussion about Jung's cognitive functions along with other elements of typological systems and personality. The conversation eventually derails into many different channels of the topic as the hosts deal with technical issues and general dialogue shifts. Enjoy! If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment your thoughts on the cognitive functions and their overlap with the enneagram, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Timestamps: 00:00 - Understanding Cognitive Functions 29:38 - Masculine vs. Feminine Modalities 35:51 - The Connection Between Images and Experience 43:16 - Exploring the Ego-Self Axis and Dreams 47:16 - Multiplicity vs. Singularity in Dream Interpretation 50:22 - The Apollonian and Dionysian Dichotomy 53:23 - Future Conversations and Unfinished Business #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #typology #carljung #jungianpsychology | |||
| ABYSS II: The Backrooms Of Consciousness | 26 Jan 2026 | 00:59:33 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) continue the abyss series with an attempt at making sense of their adventures into the backrooooms of consciousness. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 0:14 What Was Your Experience Of The Backrooms? 6:44 The Backrooms As A Formless Abyss 8:58 4-5 Area As Severed Impersonal Consciousness 11:34 Perceiving With Imaginal Senses 14:15 4-5 Severing And Depersonalization 16:16 8 vs 9 Reactions On The Creativity Of Misery 19:30 Surrendering To The Depersonalization Of The 4-5 Abyss 27:13 Dreams Are Inherently Tied To Death 31:09 The 4-5 Space And The Name That Nobody Knows 36:23 Confronting Mortality And The Collective Unconscious Of 9 44:33 Confusing Unconscious Material With The Other World 48:25 The Backrooms As Theater Of The Unconscious | |||
| WRATH: Superego & the "Karen" Archetype | 19 Jan 2026 | 01:11:42 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Celia (sp/so 6w5 613) discuss the idea of wrath in the language of the Enneagram with forces such as frustration, reactivity, or rejection driving the expression and interpretation of anger. The two hosts talk about feminine anger being conflated with the 'Karen' archetype, further distorting the personal and collective understanding of rage. Personal experiences, varying collective conversations, and systemic issues are all explored in this conversation, making it an expansive understanding of how this energy moves through us as human beings.If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with superego, wrath, or the 'Karen' archetype; we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Anger and wrath07:17 - Witnessing brokenness and grief10:24 - Righteous indignation13:25 - Cultural narratives and personal anger28:23 - The nature of destruction and repair41:42 - Misogyny and the perception of angry women52:12 - Superego 58:00 - Integrity and personal autonomy01:01:01 - Navigating anger and mistrust#enneagram #enneagramtypes #anger #personalitytypes #wrath #karens #superego #psychology | |||
| Who Is The Enneagram For? | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:45:56 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Moses (SO/SP 5w6 513) dig into the internet culture of the enneagram, Gen Z, and who or what the enneagram is really for. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=7b82ff544ae74405 Show Notes 0:08 Introduction To Who Is The Enneagram For 02:51 Gen Z And Self-Typing As Identity Cosplay 07:52 Cultural And Life Stage Reasons For Mistyping 11:06 Typology Suffers From Confusion and Misunderstanding 15:25 Gen Z VS Millenials VS Boomers 18:27 The Progressive VS Conservative Split In Gen Z 20:21 Generation Shifts And Sexual Culture 24:48 Who The Enneagram Is For 27:36 Gen Z’s Skepticism Of Spirituality And Mysticism 29:23 The Enneagram As A Poison Pill Filter 36:08 Rigid VS Fluid Thinking In Typology 41:30 The Fallacy Of Type Compatibility | |||
| SHADOW SERIES: Type 9 | 05 Jan 2026 | 01:03:18 | |
Today's host, Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963), discusses the different types of flavors of shadow for the Enneagram Type 9. She first looks at the personal shadows that seem to be common themes for type 9; choices, autonomy, anger, etc. and illustrates how 9s could be cutting valuable parts off from their sense of self to be 'put in' the shadow. Kristen then looks at the collective shadows that are put on type 9, and how as a culture we twist and shape our idea of personhood by putting different parts of a type into our own societal shadow. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your own 9 shadows, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction to the 'Shadow Series'09:28 - Shadows within Type 942:58 - Collective shadows of 9#enneagram #enneagramtype #personalitytypes #enneagram9 #shadowwork | |||
| The Instincts of Aging Ungracefully | 29 Dec 2025 | 00:47:17 | |
How does each instinct stacking age horribly?Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Joseph (SO/SX 4w3 461) roast each instinct stacking as they get old. Comment with your stacking and what scares you about aging. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=7b82ff544ae74405 Show Notes 0:08 Introduction to Aging Ungracefully 01:11 SO/SP 08:57 SP/SO 17:01 SO/SX 23:07 SX/SO 31:03 SP/SX 38:27 SX/SP 46:17 Key Takeaways | |||
| 'The Man of Few Words'; Dreams of a Type 7 | 22 Dec 2025 | 01:12:40 | |
Sam (sp/so 7w6 712) and Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) look at the images of one of Sam's dreams to talk about the psyche of our enneagram type. Sam's dream brings up topics of frustration, blindspots, and relational vs identity struggles that the two hosts explore. This conversation allows the realm of dreams to expand the nuances of typology within the personal unconscious. Images give greater depth and insight to the enneagram in ways descriptions aren't always able to. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with dreams and typology, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Setting the stage for dreams and the enneagram04:54 - James Hillman and dream work10:45 - Analyzing a significant dream22:54 - Type structure in relationships29:08 - The weight of self-criticism42:31 - Connection, grounding, and communication50:42 - Stones58:45 - Patterns of emotional turmoil01:10:44 - Holding competing truths#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #psychology #dreaminterpretation | |||
| ABYSS: The Black Hole Of The Enneagram | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:51:22 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Sammy (SP/SO 9w1 954) explore the abyss void of the enneagram and how the withdrawn types orient to it. And what it represents symbolically, personally, and collectively. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 1:00 Enneagram Abyss Intro 3:01 Overview Of The Abyss Of The Enneagram 4:48 4, 5, and 9’s Relationship To The Abyss 7:27 The Void Is A Space Of Transformation 10:04 4 And 5 Are The Furthest Away From Embodiment 12:02 The Sunlight Metaphor Of 9 vs 4-5 15:32 Near Death Experiences And Birth 19:50 The Void Of The Unknown In Creativity 21:53 The Double Slit Experiment and 9-5-4 28:43 9’s Positive Outlook Spiritual Bypassing 30:59 Contrasting 954 vs 854’s Orientation To The Abyss 38:09 The Slippery Intuitive Mist of 5-4 43:00 The Collective Relationship To The Abyss Unknown | |||
| Upsetting But True Enneagram Facts You Haven’t Heard of | 08 Dec 2025 | 00:46:36 | |
Emeka and David riff on where to start with our material and upsetting but true insights from our approach to the enneagram. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 1:37 NotA4 And SX Is About Sexual Attraction 3:05 Naranjo And Other Legacy Teachers Being Wrong 8:40 Instincts As Elements And The Collage Exercise 15:35 Contraflow/Synflow 20:33 “Only You Can Know Your Type” And Enneagram Typing 32:17 Shadow Material And The Hell of Personality | |||
| The Neverending 9 Episode: Dispersion | 01 Dec 2025 | 01:01:05 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Alice (so/sp 9w1 973) return for a second take of 'The Neverending 9 Episode'. This time, the hosts discuss the idea of 'dispersion', and not just for 9s but for the attachment types in the other two centers. Type 9 have their 'integration/disintegration' "lines" to 6 and 3, so no matter the full typing, all of the attachment types 'disperse' in one way or another. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with type 9, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Timestamps: 00:00 - Discussing each attachment center's strategy of 'dispersing' 08:02 - Personality vs. Survival 15:46 - Finding identity in the external 27:53 - Superego and answering to an 'authority' 45:38 - Coping with fear/certainty in the personality 53:03 - External judgment's impact on our concept of identity #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram9 | |||
| Leveling Out the Instincts | 24 Nov 2025 | 01:08:19 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) returns with her host ChatGPT (sp/so 9w1 963) to look at how the collective frames the instincts of the Enneagram. This episode turns into a deep dive of the instincts as Kristen looks at their shadows, strengths, and needs. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with the instincts, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps: 00:00 - Intro to Enneagram Instincts 06:59 - Bringing Instincts to Consciousness 18:00 - Self-Preservation 35:03 - Social 49:05 - Sexual 55:26 - Individuation #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagraminstincts #personalitytypes | |||
| TYPE SUPREMACISTS - 9 vs 8 | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:49:55 | |
A head to head debate-roast off between a type 9 supremacist (Kristen) and the reigning champion type 8 supremacist (Emeka). Only one type reigns supreme. Let us know who you think won and what match-ups we should do next. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 3:32 Type Supremacists 9 vs 8 Intro 5:37 Round 1 - Self-respect, Boundaries, And Personal Sovereignty 14:50 Round 2 - Pushing The Edges Of Human Consciousness 23:07 Round 3 - Conflict And Crisis Resolution 31:47 Round 4 - Impact And Influence On Culture, Art, Aesthetics 40:47 Final Round - Is It Better To Be A Fierce Animal Or The Universe? | |||
| Wings & Things | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:36:39 | |
What exactly is a wing, and how much influence does it have on our psyche? How does the overlay manifest? Joseph and Michael explore the basics with a fresh approach. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 00:00 The Invisible Player 09:13 Inherent Contradictions 21:00 The 18 Type-Wing Combinations | |||
| JERRY SPRINGER: Doomscrolling Type 8 Lifeforce | 03 Nov 2025 | 01:16:07 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dive into the crashout insanity of the Jerry Springer show and the compelling gravity of 8 lifeforce and shadow material in culture. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 00:08 The Jerry Springer Show Phenomenon 05:31 How 8’s Create Containers Of Raw Lifeforce 08:51 You Have A Devil In You 11:40 Amoral Chaos And Amplified Shadow Material Of 8 21:33 Disowning Your Shadow And Lifeforce 24:09 SP 8 vs SOC 8 vs SX 8 Lifeforce 27:54 The Void That 8s Fill And Why It Galvanizes People 29:52 8 Rejection Has To Demonize In Order To Go Against 37:10 Trump and 8 Putting Everything In Survival Mode 45:02 Predator/Prey Dynamics In 8 Othering 48:04 Polarized Narratives To Recognize The Enemy 50:49 Making Microaggressions Macroaggressions 53:15 The Rise Of Spirituality During Trying Times 59:35 Reactive Types Exorcising Poison 1:06:52 8 Dictators Creating Collective Dictators | |||
| THE TRICKSTER and the Attraction of Mimicry | 27 Oct 2025 | 01:02:21 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963), David (sp/sx 9w1 974), and Moses (so/sp 5w6 513) talk about the idea and appearance of mimicry in animals, how it pertains to our further understanding of the Enneagram instincts, and where the archetype of the Trickster takes a notorious role in our lives. The video Kristen references on Mimicry in Animals; https://youtu.be/GrtKxfATyTw?si=m1hlERrG9to35DJk If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment your thoughts and ideas, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Timestamps: 00:00 - Mimicry in Animals 12:33 - Instincts and Mating Behavior in Animals 21:19 - Masculinity, Femininity, and Human Attraction 28:59 - Unconsciousness and Sexual Instinct 34:52 - Myth and Archetypes in Sexuality 41:48 - The Masks We Wear in Relationships #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes | |||
| What Everyone Gets Wrong About the Enneagram Types | 20 Oct 2025 | 00:58:45 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and her Bermuda Queen host ChatGPT (sp/so 9w1 963) spontaneously engage in a refinement process of the Enneagram types. Kristen talks about what gets lost in the symbol and language of the Enneagram to help an individual better understand where and how the Enneagram lives externally and internally. This video starts that conversation by looking at what language ChatGPT uses for the Enneagram as Kristen mainly focuses on Type One and Type Nine, differentiating the 'hexad' types that have been written with 'attachment' type lenses. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with Enneagram language out in the world, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction to the Enneagram and AI Collaboration08:13 - Exploring the Enneagram Types and Their Depth13:47 - Refining Personality24:18 - Understanding Attachment and Identity29:17 - Philosophies of Life: Attachment Types vs. Hexads36:29 - "Embodiment"56:14 - Reflections#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #psychology #philosophy | |||
| Instinct-Trifix Tension | 13 Oct 2025 | 00:51:34 | |
What happens when your stacking and trifix are diametrically opposed? Watch Joseph and Michael use their expertise and relationship experience to highlight how stacking and trifix energies interlock. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... Show Notes 00:00 Intro 00:49 Stacking vs. Trifix Colliding Energies 01:48 Boring DJ 09:23 Fun Buzzkill 14:46 Social Awareness vs. SP/SX 19:47 SP-middle boundary vs. SX-middle rawness 31:08 Collages 35:12 Fi self-absorption 39:10 Leather vs. Raw skin | |||
| 9 Types of Dying Alone | 06 Oct 2025 | 00:51:20 | |
How would each type end up dying alone? Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Joseph (SO/SX 4w3 461) roast the worst most alienating qualities of each type. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=7b82ff544ae74405 Show Notes 00:00 Introduction to the Nine Types of Dying Alone 02:48 Type Nine: Waste Filtration Ghosts 07:21 Type Eight: Kill Shots 13:11 Type Seven: Party Crash-out 18:02 Type Six: Fabricating Problems 23:05 Type Five: Alien Robot 28:33 Type Four: Disgust 33:38 Type Three: Commodification 39:37 Type Two: Emotional Invasiveness 45:05 Type One: Old Testament God | |||
| Silence of the Lambs: An Enneagram Analysis | 29 Sep 2025 | 01:25:40 | |
David (sp/sx 9w1 974), Alexandra (so/sp 9w1 963), and Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) are back for another movie analysis - Silence of the Lambs. This classic film has been seen through the lens of many forms of critique, but the hosts decided to tackle it from the angle of the Enneagram, which poses the question on an archetypal degree - what is personality type? Hannibal Lector may be reflecting more about us than just our craving for human flesh, and this discussion is willing to listen to the screaming lambs to hopefully begin to understand. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your impressions of the movie, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro to Silence of the Lambs 13:40 - Innocence and Inner Predators 17:06 - Taming the Beast: Transformation and Wildness 25:13 - The Art of Crime: Serial Killers and Creativity 37:44 - Mastery and Containment in Masculine Energy 50:46 - Evil and Typology 01:06:01 - The Dark Allure of Hannibal Lecter 01:14:57 - Unpredictability in Human Nature #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes | |||
| SX in the Body-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody | 22 Sep 2025 | 01:03:56 | |
Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and DG’s (SP/SX 9w1 974) body type jam session on the serpentine mystery of the sexual instinct and its non-romantic layersss. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=7b82ff544ae74405 Show Notes 0:08 Intro About Our Mythical Conversation About SX 5:15 The Unpredictable Instability Of Sexual Magnetism 11:02 SX As Chemical Reactions And Drug Signatures 12:32 Raw Instinctual Desire You Can’t Control 15:54 SX Turn-ons Are Surprising Aberrations 19:27 SX Is Getting Naked Revealing What’s Underneath 23:19 SX In The Body Center Is Elemental Beingness 25:47 Differences Between Charisma and Sexual Magnetism 30:15 SX In The Body As Non-Verbal Experiential Pheromones 33:19 Dance And Music As SX Co-regulation and Chemistry 40:49 Creating A New Third And Making Babies And Moments 42:53 Non-Romantic SX Seeking Your Own Edges 47:23 Being Compelled By The Mystery And Fluidity Of Your Own SX 49:53 Flipping Polarities And Creating Inner Tensions 53:57 How To Integrate SX | |||
| Instinctual Cycles: Synflow / Contraflow | 15 Sep 2025 | 01:27:21 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and David (sp/sx 9w1 974) decide to start the conversation on what synflow and contraflow are as concepts in the Enneagram instinct stackings. They decide to come from an angle of observing individuals with these fixed directional movements, but also as a collective or human experience. To see if they are able to feel where these directions live in artistic expression, the hosts watch movie clip examples; one from a synflow director and one from a contraflow director. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your impressions of the instinctual cycles, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to synflow / contraflow 25:58 - Personality's nature 57:36 - Chaos and structure dynamics 01:06:21 - Vulnerability in connection 01:13:31 - Desire / addiction in relationships 01:15:12 - Analyzing film narratives 01:18:06 - Synflow vs Contraflow dinner scenes 01:21:35 - Understanding artistic intentions and communication through art #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #psychology | |||
| How To Torture Each Enneagram Type | 08 Sep 2025 | 01:03:55 | |
How would you torture each enneagram type? Comment with your most diabolical takes on hell for each type for a chance to win a prize. Vinny (SO/SP 7w8 793) joins Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and David (SP/SX 9w1 974) to brainstorm the most torturous hellscapes for each type. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=7b82ff544ae74405 Show Notes 0:08 How Would You Torture Each Enneagram Type Contest 2:45 Torturing Type 9 9:30 Torturing Type 8 16:36 Torturing Type 7 24:16 Torturing Type 6 31:30 Torturing Type 5 37:55 Torturing Type 4 44:29 Torturing Type 3 51:28 Torturing Type 2 57:28 Torturing Type 1 | |||
| When OPS Met Enneagram | 01 Sep 2025 | 01:15:05 | |
What happens when you mix OPS and enneagram together? Watch Joseph and Michael use their expertise and relationship experience to highlight how these systems interact to create compatibility/conflict. 461 vs. 973... too deep or too chill? If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) / @theenneagramschool Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=7b82ff544ae74405 Show Notes 0:00 Intro 1:34 Gut Boundaries: 9w8 vs. 1w9 09:41 Head Orientation: 7 vs. 6 15:08 The Hexad vs. Attachment Delusions 18:13 Heart: 4w3 vs. 3w2 30:16 Di 4 vs. De 9 40:46 Positive vs. Reactive 44:38 Feminine Te Saviour vs. Masculine Te Demon 46:07 Masculine vs. Feminine Fi 53:47 Stubborn 9's with masculine Di 1:01:28 Saviour Te 1:11:50 Types of 9's and 6's in OPS 1:14:15 The future | |||
| Enneagram Typing: Instincts | 25 Aug 2025 | 01:31:45 | |
Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) is joined by the Enneagrammer typing team; David (sp/sx 9w1 974), Emeka (sx/sp 8w7 854), and Joseph (so/sx 4w3 461) to discuss the art of Enneagram typing. In this episode, they focus on the instincts and especially the 6 instinctual stackings that appear within an individual's enneagram type structure. The hosts explore the instincts as a theory and on their own before watching video examples of the instincts at play. To refer to the original Enneagram Typing video; https://youtu.be/paj7BDBP8YsTo watch more about observable typing, subscribe and get yourself officially typed; www.enneagrammer.comIf you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with the instinctual stackings, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.comDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Intro: Instincts in the Enneagram06:07 - Instincts in the Personality12:17 - Instinct Stackings and Dynamics14:50 - Self-Preservation Instinct17:46 - Social Instinct26:38 - Sexual Instinct37:44 - sp/so44:49 - sp/sx52:01 - so/sp01:00:11 - so/sx01:06:39 - sx/sp01:18:51 - sx/so#enneagram #enneagraminstincts #enneagramtypes #enenagramtyping | |||