Tim & Craig chat with Sir Leo who shares his journey into using BDSM as trauma therapy, both for him and his submissives.

Tim & Craig chat to Adam Fitzgerald, an American intimacy and relationship coach about open relationships, polyamory and our uniquely queer experiences. For more info on Adam you can checkout his website here

  Australia has been experiencing a PrEP shortage, with essential HIV prevention medicine in very low stock in pharmacies across the country. Tim is in the drivers seat, with Michael wearing his community advocacy hat to share what has been going on with PrEP, why we have such low stock, and different ways to buy PrEP to keep protected - and some other tips and tricks for navigating the PrEP shortage. Until more PrEP is widely available and in stock check out these resources for understanding the shortage and where to go for more info Buying PrEP online from an international pharmacy Information on the shortage from PAN including the PrEP map locator Michael's PrEP shortage episode of Well Well Well (also here on JOY!) with Cal and Rachel Information from our friends at Emen8 Thorne Harbour Health's PrEP shortage info   Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

This week, Chief Underwear Thief Craig invites our Mr Vicbears 2024 Joenas into the studio to talk about the upcoming Underwear Auction at the Laird Hotel. The event is Joenas' title year charity fundraiser, raising money for Pride Foundation Australia - and giving thirsty punters the opportunity to buy the underwear right off the models backs (and fronts) Tim and Craig chat with Craig about underwear fetishes, and Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

  Melbourne Rubber is bringing you a SLICK Week to remember in 2024. We bring you all the goss from Bec, John, and FFunOtter who spill the lube on everything happening this week.   Remember every SLICK event this year is 18+ gender inclusive! Check out https://www.melbournerubber.com/ https://www.instagram.com/melbournerubber/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/melbournerubbermen/about https://x.com/RubberMelbourne Find out about all of the people and groups bringing SLICK to life including: Eagle Leather, the Laird, Barba, City of Yarra, Down an' Dirty, Boot Co Brisbane, Drip Lube, Deanation, Ethikink, Hanky, The Eagle Sydney, Kink Projects, Fan Daddies, SNKR Bar, Winden Photography, House of Ma' Jaw, Kink.Ed, HDG Image, Sinnovator, Lux Latex Care, Pig AF, Nourish Collingwood Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ We mentiuned on the show that you may have noticed Jon's voice missing from the show the last couple weeks. Jon has had to step back from his Sexpert duties to focus on his next adventures with all things work and play. Jon has been a regular part of the team since 2020 and will be missed on the show. We wish Jon all the best in his sexcapades and you can follow them at @barbarylion This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

  Recently, men have fallen victim to homophobic violence perpetrated by groups targeting users of dating apps like Grindr. Men are lured into vulnerable settings and abused, assaulted, and demeaned - violently in some cases. We through this quickie (also available on Well Well Well) to speak to police about what is being done to protect queer men using apps. Jeremy Oliver (they/he) is the LGBTIQA+ Communities Portfolio Manager with Victoria Police and spearheading the investigation into Grindr and app related safety Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ For more information and support on this topic head to thorneharbour.org/appsafety https://www.police.vic.gov.au/LGBTIQA-liaison-officers Call 000 in an emergency Contact the non-emergency line to report non emergency or life threatening incidents on 131 444 Visit the safety commissioner website https://www.esafety.gov.au/ Report an incident online https://www.police.vic.gov.au/report   * This special quickie episode was released Thursday, September 5th 2024 exclusively to podcast on JOY * Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Image this week by Hide and Seek This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Shaun and Dean from Gay Fathers Worldwide step into the studio to share about connecting men who have kids from past heterosexual relationships. Now reaching almost 1000 members, the global group supports men to talk about their same sex attraction, and unravel what it means to (potentially) start a new life with a queer identity. We talk conversion practices, faith, and coming out to partners and kids.   Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/   Find Gay Fathers Worldwide on Facebook Connect with Bent Couch Counselling and the Community Couch Conversations Chat with likeminded guys and find resources on DALE dale.org.au/ If you need to talk to someone about your mental health, or suicide ideation contact Rainbow Door MensLine Lifeline 13 11 14 or Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467 Men's Line 1300 789 978 Opening Hours 24 hours a day, 7 days a week * This episode originally aired Tuesday, September 3rd 2024 on JOY * Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Image this week supplied by Shaun This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    We sit down with Tom Boye, masseur, sex worker - and all round good person to talk about the art of erotic massage, fantasies, and supporting DL guys to connect sensually with other men.   Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ Follow Tom Boye on X at @tomboyemassage. or find his online services at via All My Links   * This episode originally aired Tuesday, August 27 2024 on JOY * Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Image this week supplied by Tom This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Resident bear, kink, and daddy expert Craig joins us to explore guys in the fetish world who love to strike up a cigars for social and sexual pleasure. We explore scarification and branding, ash play, subs and does in the leather community, and how we reduce harms associated with smoking if engaging in smoke play. Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing  Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ Follow Craig at @bear_overboard Melbourne Cigar Men website: https://melbournecigarmen.wordpress.com/ Melbourne Cigar Men on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/uyMcYeGZzDKLjLeB/?mibextid=K35XfP Check out Quit Victoria's latest LGBTIQA+ smoking cessation campaign at https://www.quit.org.au/articles/lgbtiq  Touchbase's tobacco information for mixing and matching drugs, and the LGBTIQA+ community https://touchbase.org.au/drug/tobacco/  * This episode originally aired Tuesday, August 20 2024 on JOY * Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Image this week supplied by Craig This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Grab your joystick and get ready to game, boy. In the biggest crossover event since Super Smash Bros, Luke and Elliot from the team at Checkpoint port over to the naughty side on Hide and Seek. Giving a 1-up to gaming, Checkpoint is JOY's weekly show for for game news, reviews, interviews where you can catch all the latest releases and big discussions as we break down the most popular and constantly evolving medium in the world, from a uniquely queer perspective. This week, we're exploring the world of gaming, hot gay nerds, sex tech and teledildonics for games - and what is happening in the industry for forward momentum of telling queer stories in gaming. We chat about community building with platforms like Twitch and Discord, through to romanceable vacuum cleaners, and our sexual awakenings in video games... and of course horny Bowser art. Find Checkpoint's award winning reviews and game features at checkpointgaming.net and listen live on Saturdays at 2pm, or grab the podcast from your favourite podcast app. Checkpoints many awards include: Winner of CBAA 2019 Community Radio Award for Excellence in Innovative Programming & Content Winner of 2020 Addam Stobbs Award for Broadcasting Excellence FeedSpot's #1 Australian Gaming Podcast of 2024 Winner of 2024 IT Journalism Awards for Best Independent Coverage Find your gaymer community Melbourne Gaymers - facebook.com/MelbourneGaymers Sydney Gaymers - facebook.com/SydneyGaymers Australian Gaymers - gaymers.org.au * This episode originally aired Tuesday, August 6 2024 on JOY * Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Image by freepik This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Laird Leatherman 2024 Jay returns, bringing along Brett from the Laird to chat about the upcoming A Week of Leather events. We chat about Jay's charity, Rainbow Railroad, and supporting community abroad and in our own leather backyard. Brett shares a little about the history of AWOL and what we can expect, what to wear to what events, and connecting with our leather community.   Jay was recently up in Sydney for Sydney Leather Week - and massive congrats to Sydney Mr Leather 2024 in Timo and Sydney Ms Leather 2024 Lani.  More about all the AWOL events at aweekofleather.com Monday: MEET MARKET / HAND JOBS (leather and fetish encouraged) Tuesday: SESSIONS (leather and fetish encouraged) Wednesday: JOCK PARTY (leather and fetish encouraged) Thursday: HIGH SHINE (dress code enforced) Friday: KINK WARS (leather and fetish encouraged) Saturday: THE HUSTLE (dress code enforced) Sunday: HAPPY ENDING (leather and fetish encouraged) Follow Jay on Laird Leatherman 2024 on Facebook and @jockbox on Instagram Regular goings on at the Laird Hotel via lairdhotel.com Jay's charity Rainbow Railroad supporting LGBTQI+ people who face violence and oppression around the world   Hide and Seek now airs Tuesdays at 9pm on JOY 94.9 in Melbourne and surrounds, iHeart Radio and streaming at joy.org.au     This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. * This episode originally aired Tuesday, July 30 2024 on JOY * Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

  Michael is back from his Hot Girl European Summer to spill the beans on beach bears, european sex clubs, and nearly getting arrested at the airport. We also share what's news with Mpox with cases on the rise - and what to look out for, particularly if you've just returned from your own hot girl european summer.   Resources Victoria Thorne Harbour Health Mpox info Better Health Channel Mpox info NSW ACON Mpox info  Tasmania Sexual Health info from TasChard Western Australia WAAC Mpox info NT NTAHC Mpox info Queensland QPP Mpox info South Australia SAMESH Mpox info Emen8's finding a clinic service This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Tim & Craig chat to Adam Fitzgerald, an American intimacy and relationship coach about how people can improve their sex lives through masturbation, open relationships and stopping those recurring arguments. Adam also shares his own journey of recovery, detailed in his book "Recovering from Recovery". Are 12 steps programs the only way to recover and can these programs be detrimental to some queer men? All this and more this week! For more info on Adam you can checkout his website here

      Tim and Jon journey through the world of sex and disability with CJ and Grant. We talk about accessibility in kink spaces, and navigating sex and kink with our mental and physical limitations. We talk getting inventive with flashcards, pro dommes, and the occasional apparatus for enhancing pleasure. Podcast photo by SHVETS production on Pexels * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Tim and Jon take a peek behind the fur with content creator, dancer, model and comic, Gabe Woods. Gabe tells us about his journey as a content creator, his experiences with censorship, being part of a new art exhibition and branching out into adult comedy. Plus, we find out just what happened with Sophie Ellis Bextor. Gabe Woods can be found on Instagram, TikTok or on his website * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 18 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In the final part of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Super Immersive 3D Holographic Streaming Journey, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig talk about their journeys with JOY and Hide and Seek, and why they each use the platform to promote sex and kink positivity. Plus a special listener wins a prize as part of JOY Radiothon 2024! Craig was last on Hide and Seek in the Summer as a special guest host from Episodes 153 - 160. CJ last appeared during our Episode 122 - Hurts So Good * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In part 7 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Grand Gallery Exhibition, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig discuss the world of adult art with Laird Leatherman 2017, Jim Addinsall. Jim was last on Hide and Seek in Episode 18 Look Good In Leather * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In part 6 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Live Concert World Tour, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig hear from Demasque Magazine's very own Star! Star is the founder of Demasque Magasine and organises events and education to connect newcomers to the world of kink! * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In part 5 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Stadium Extravaganza, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig bring back the always amazing Spencer Colt. Spencer previously joined the team for Episode 151 You’re a Big Boy Now and Episode 137 Spice Guys * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In part 3 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Saga, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig meet the dominatrix who teaches others how to do it, Mistress Electra. Mistress Electra has been a professional dominatrix for over 30 years, and teaches skills to people entering the industry. * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In part 3 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Cinematic Universe, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig catch back up with Odus Moore to talk mooore about Sexual Health advocacy. Odus originally appeared on Hide and Seek in Episode 166 PEP Talk * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    In part 2 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Saga, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig get Joenas Galinato back in the hotseat to talk about Southern Hibearnation, and the Bear community in the Philippines. Joenas originally appeared on Hide and Seek in Episode 157 Who Bears Wins * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig launch into the start of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Spectacular * This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

At age 60, after being outed as gay and HIV positive Daddy Dan decided to go on a worldwide trip of sexual adventure and self-discovery, meeting some interesting men in the process both in and out of the bedroom. His podcast "1in4marriedmen" discusses the concept that "one in 4 married men are either gay, bi or love a bit of dick" as he chats to married men and others during his two year journey around the world. For more Daddy Dan, including his podcast head to his Linktree

    Michael, Tim and Jon talk all things travel and the do's and don't's of taking kink gear, medication and more when you travel. What should you do about your PrEP? What sort of gear travels well? What should you find out about the places you visit before you go? Later, the team talks about the latest on MPOX cases and vaccination, and keeping informed about travel alerts. Hot stuff Down an'Dirty's Kink on a Budget video, with ideas for travel friendly kink Southern Hibearnation - June 8th to 16th  Mpox vaccination information form Emen8 Budget announcement covering all things HIV   * This episode originally aired Tuesday, May 28 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Pup Wolf joins us to share a litte about the new VIC-PAH event, Bark After Dark - the group's first event with a sex focus. Wolf shares a little about the pup community, finding safe spaces online and in person, and supporting the pups to get... connected. Later, Michael and Jon talk about news improving HIV prevention programs in the Federal Budget, and the latest on MPOX cases and vaccination Hot stuff Victorian Pups and Handlers Bark After Dark Tickets - Saturday 25 May  Mpox vaccination information form Emen8 Budget announcement covering all things HIV   * This episode originally aired Tuesday, May 21 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Sir A and FFunotter join the show to talk about lockdown (no, no, not that!) We are exploring chastity, cages, and restricting or delaying gratification. We're here to unpack (pardon the pun) what devices work for what anatomy, some tips for travel, and finding other... activities to do while locked up.     This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

      Time for a pep talk, well, a PEP talk that is. We are joined by queer content creator Odus Moore to share a little about self advocating in healthcare settings as an LGBTIQ+ person. Recently, Odus needed to access PEP - medication to prevent HIV after a recent exposure - and was met with some perceived queer phobia and didn't walk away with the medication they needed. PEP can be taken to prevent HIV after a recent exposure - but needs to be taken within 72 hours. And, the earlier the better. Odus shares what happened when they visited a public hospital and had a negative experience, which they turned into a training and capacity building experience for clinicians at the hospital - but not before being bullied and gaslit online! Plus, we chat about mpox and preventing it by getting vaccinated!   Here's some stuff we mentioned this week...   PEP information GetPEP.info  https://what-works.org/pep/  https://endinghiv.org.au/stay-safe/pep/  PEP Guidelines, for clinicians: https://ashm.org.au/resources/australian-pep-guidelines/  If you are diagnosed with HIV, you can connect with your local state based HIV organization    Training and capacity building https://rainbowhealthaustralia.org.au/training-programs Pride in Diversity: https://www.prideinclusionprograms.com.au/about-pid/  Training and Professional Development from Queerspace at Drummond Street https://www.queerspace.org.au/training-education/    MPOX What is MPox? https://emen8.com.au/health/sexual-health/get-your-monkeypox-shot-what-you-need-to-know-about-the-monkeypox-vaccine/ New Mpox cases: https://www.starobserver.com.au/news/new-mpox-cases-vic/230357  Where to go: Melbourne Sexual Health Centre Thorne Harbour Health Northside Clinic Collins Street Medical Centre Prahran Market Clinic No Medicare? https://oshcaustralia.com.au/  Some pharmacies that operate late or 24 hours. Call ahead or double check as some of these may have changed! https://13sick.com.au/late-night-pharmacies/melbourne-extended-hours-pharmacies/  And https://doctordoctor.com.au/patient-advice/24-hour-pharmacies/   This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

    Here to talk affirming trans consent, Michael and Jon are joined by Starlady, the Program Manager at Zoe Belle Gender Collective! With a passion for social justice and a commitment to equity, Starlady tackles discrimination head-on through advocacy, education, and community development. Starlady has worked with remote Indigenous communities and appeared on ABC’s trans focused episode of “You Can’t Ask That”  Zoe Belle Gender Collective recently launched new 18+ resources discussing sex and consent for both trans and gender diverse people and their partners. Find resources including the new Gender Diversity, Sex & Consent on the Zoe Belle Gender Collective resources hub Some other fantastic resources supporting trans folk include Say It Out Loud - sayitoutloud.org.au ACON's TransHub - https transhub.org.au Qlife - qlife.org.au Additionally, some of the art from the ZBGC resources is from artist @noahdeaart on X,  @noahdea.art on Instagram * This episode originally aired Thursday, April 23 2024 on JOY * This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

  Content creator Down Under Bri returns to Hide and Seek to recount his journey to the JustForFans conference. Bri shares some of the more titillating panels and plenaries on everything from adult performer taxes, collaborating, and building networks in the world of spicy content. Bri uncovers some of the pomp and circumstance behind content creation, and some of the more prolific creators being more shy than you'd anticipate! Bri travelled through LA and even made a stop at the Trixie Motel, meeting a few key collaborators on the way   Bri last joined us on the episode 135 Bri Hard talking about his content creator journey as well as our two part content creators panel Spice Guys Side A and Side B Brian is @downunderbri on just about everything where you can find all his spicy links Twitter – twitter.com/downunderbri Instagram – instagram.com/downunderbri TikTok tiktok.com/discover/Down-under-bri …and Guy Films Guy on Twitter – twitter.com/guyfilmsguy This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Open relationships? For gays? Groundbreaking. Michael, Tim, and Jon explore what it means when your relationship is flexible. As all three of us are in open relationships, we discuss the pros and cons of exploring sex, intimacy, and love with more than one person - be that casual or in a polyamorous situation. We overcome jealousy, and increase communication, communication, communication! We also congratulate the newly sashed Mr International Puppy, Pup Jaxx - who traveled to Chicago to the International Pup and Trainer Competition and returned with the top nod. Congrats, Jaxx, save some time for us when you get home. Photo by Polina Tankilevitch from Pexels This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Globetrotting twink and certified smol boi Benny Fox aka @melbournetwink returns to share his experiences of sex work, content creation, and sex worker safety when travelling. We discuss all things from chemsex for content creators, open relationships, and travelling solo in conservative US states. Find and follow Benny on all manner of social media and spicy sites via linktr.ee/melbournetwink Benny last joined us on our episode Sex Shooter to talk about sex worker legislation and decriminilisation This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

This week is the return of Tim! Yes, we're recapping Tim's hot girl summer with some Tim Tales. We've got a little something for everyone with tales of fisting, getting caught on a country road, and understall in the uni toilets. Share your hot girl summer action and activities with us via our socials or shoot us an email! This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut-Weelam Clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

  This episode is the tits, literally! As we look forward to Dark Pink Hanky party in April, we explore nipple fanatics, tit torturers, and those who flag dark pink. We also explore some of the more problematic (and thankfully retired) hanky codes. Jon, Michael and Craig explore their own hanky faves - and get into the nitty gritty about the titty. Hanky code info taken from The Saint Foundation Check out Emen8's guide on The gay handkerchief code and its unusual origins Find your favourite hanky to flag online What's your favourite hanky? Got a story about a flagging mishap or your favourite kink? Share it will us! email hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Daddy Dan has had an interesting life and it seems, in many ways that his story is just beginning. At 62 years of age he is only two years out of the closet. A father to 3 girls and previously married he's spent most of his gay life in secret. After being outed as gay and HIV positive, Dan finally decides he can be his true authentic self with a two year worldwide trip of self-discovery, leading him to a new career in adult entertainment and content creation. This guy has a story, and he wants to tell it! For more Daddy Dan head to his Linktree

Newly sashed Laird Leatherman 2024 Jay joins us to talk about the dust settling on his competition night. We talk about our formative leather experiences, opening our community up to more diverse communities, and leading with kindness in the community. Jay reflects on his exceptional stage presentation including milk and hotdogs, Madonna, and money! A massive shout out to the four other competitors, Alex, Angelo, JJ, and Sir Z who all put themselves forward. We extended out chat after the boradcast, so be sure to dial in to the Sextras (Side B) of this episode! Find Jay at @jockbox on instagram or pop down for a chat to him and fellow sash bearer Joel at Eagle Leather The Laird Hotel and Laird Leatherman histroy can be found at https://www.lairdhotel.com/laird_leatherman.php  Find more about the Rainbow Railroad and the Australian Queer Archives This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukit-Willam Clan of the Boon Wurrung Peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Laird Leatherman 2024 Jay hangs around after our episode went to air for the Sextras, our podcast exclusive content. We chat about Eagle having two title holders on staff, Craig having a sash son, representing community internationally, and supporting disadvantage or displaced queer people overseas. Another massive shout out to the four other competitors, Alex, Angelo, JJ, and Sir Z who all did an amazing job. Don't forget to tune in to the main episode (Side A) Find Jay at @jockbox on instagram or pop down for a chat to him and fellow sash bearer Joel at Eagle Leather The Laird Hotel and Laird Leatherman histroy can be found at https://www.lairdhotel.com/laird_leatherman.php  Find more about the Rainbow Railroad and the Australian Queer Archives Events we mentioned! Down an' Dirty's Sounding workshop at the Laird - this Saturday, 17 February which JUST sold out!  Unfortunately Fair Day for Mardis Gras has been cancelled, so keep up to date with what the kink and fetish communities on Gadigal land (Sydney) are up to by following https://www.instagram.com/fetishaustralia/ Thursday Sunday 22 Feb - International Mr Leather Marcus Barela will be at the Burdekin Hotel for Around the World with IML 45: Destination Sydney Saturday 24 Feb Melbourne Leather Social (in part hosted by contestant JJ!) are having a Leather Picnic in Alexandra Gardens 14 MArch - Victorian Pride Awards 22 March - Hanky, Restraint  26 April - Hanky Dark Pink  This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukit-Willam Clan of the Boon Wurrung Peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

We discuss the recent poop related incident at the Beef Dip party in Puerto Vallarta, and how one comes to be stuck in a pool with an uninvited floater in the mix - and what the fuck you do in such a situation. Photo by Hannah Pemberton on Unsplash This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Stu and Rob join us to talk about beats and the art of cruising. We chat about why cruising is important to queer men, what makes a visit go right, and keeping safe while frolicking about town. Beat safety and health info can be found at downandirty.org and whereversexhappens.org This weeks episode image provided in part by Photo by Marco Chilese on Unsplash This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Jon and extra special guest Craig are joined by our newst bear title holder, Joenas - Mr Vicbears 2024. Joenas shares with us why he wanted to step up and put his best paw forward to represent his bear community, and what it means to share brotherly love amongts bears. Special shout out to Scott, Nick, Cam, Morgan, and Mr Congeniality Justin for an incredible comp and doing their community proud. And stepping down, but not forgotten  - our outgoing Mr Vicbears 2023 Jonny who joined us last year for the episodes Ep 117 – Bear In There & Ep 130 – Bear With Us If you missed it, our episode Ep 142 – Kink Looks Better In Colour unpacks more about racism and people of colour in our kink and fetish community Get more of the Vicbears on facebook   Find your tribe in... Victoria: Vicbears facebook.com/VicBearsInc instagram instagram.com/vicbearsinc and web at vicbears.org.au South Australia: Bear Men of Adelaide WA: Bears Perth NSW: Harbour City Bears - and the Bear Essentials events 18 Feb - 3 March QLD: BrisBears and QLD Camping Bears     This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Laird Leatherman Craig, our special guest, returns to join us in exploring what it means to exist as non-binary individuals in spaces traditionally defined by gender. We're also joined by Haydan from Eagle Leather and Melbourne Rubber for this insightful conversation. During our discussion, we delve into topics such as cis-presenting privilege within our transgender community, the vital aspect of radical visibility, and the implications of gendered titles like 'LeatherMAN' for individuals who don't align with traditional gender identities. Our conversation extends to the efforts made by some of our communities to create more inclusive spaces for non-binary individuals. We also reflect on the necessity of recognizing our own limitations, biases, and comfort levels when navigating gender-segregated environments, whether it's dance parties, sex parties, or venues. In addition, we have an exciting announcement from Melbourne Rubber, exclusively for our podcast listeners! Regarding Episode 155, we encountered technical issues while recording our discussion with Jasper about Vac Play and restrictive bondage play. Unfortunately, the audio became corrupted due to gremlins in our sound desk. Rest assured, we are actively working on re-recording that episode with Jasper and plan to release it soon!     This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Award wining sex worker Ally Love joins Tim and Jon to explore some of the experiences of trans sex work, safety, how to book or connect with a sex worker - and how to get 'the girlfriend experience' Links we talked about this week... Scarlet Alliance - scarletalliance.org.au Resourcing health & Education (RhED) - sexworker.org.au Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP) - swop.org.au Vixens - vixen.org.au Spice Guys - OnlyFans Content Creator Panel podcast  And get more of Ally at: AllyLoveTS2.0 instagram.com/allylovets2.0 @thetransbarbie twitter.com/thetransbarbie And all of Ally's links at AllyLoveTS.com This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

It's a big one this week! We've got a massive show for you this week, so loosen up! This past weekend Mr Australian Leather 2023 Shane @leatherman_shane hosted the Title Holder Q &A Panel at the Laird Hotel. The event aimed to  dispel myths and misconceptions about running for a title in our local community - and to impart some wisdom from current and former title holders to the next generation. The panel included Mr VicBears 2023, Jonny @mrvicbear2023 Ms Melbourne Rubber 2022 Delsi @delsicat Mr Australasia Bear 2022, Damien @sailor_bear_86 Melbourne Rubberman 2023 Joel @rbrjoel International Ms. Leather 2018, Sir Ang @thegirlang and Shane’s cohost with the most Laird Leatherman 2021 Craig Burnett @white.dragon.339 Thanks to the Laird Hotel for hosting this event, and for letting us tap into their AV system! The event also hosted a raffle and auction, which the team from Hanky took out - securing the denim vest owned by Patrick Brookes which he wore when he won  IML -  becoming the first and only male Australian International Mr Leather in 1980. Huge shout out to the Hanky team for raising $4100 for the David Williams Fund! This episode was recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au  

Michael and Jon look back on the year that was, and what's on the Hide and Seek roster in 2024. We've got a gangbang of a show coming up in 2024 - so share your tips, tricks, and loads with us! email hideandseek@joy.org.au to tell us what you want to hear on the show this year. Michael's favoutite episodes of 2023 No Biggie - Small Penis Size Just A Hole, Sir - Glory Holes That's So Haven - Haven, Alex, and Queer Trans Men Jon's favourite episodes of 2023 Kink Looks Better In Colour - Racism in Kink and Fetish Communities Ageing Disgracefully - Older Men Up To Scratch - the Australian Pup and Handler Competition Events coming up! Titleholder and Competition Q&A @ The Laird (all genders) Sat 13 Jan Midsumma Carnival Sunday 21 Jan Victoria's Pride Street Party (Vicky P!) Sun 11 Feb Hanky Party (all genders) Sat 22 Mar Trough Pride - Sat 20 Jan   This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au  

Body dysmorphia affects queer men in nuanced ways, and while we can't unpack every single element - we're going to give it our best shot! Some guys experience body dysmorphia through muscle dysmorphia - sometimes called 'bigorexia' where the adoration of bigger bodies can become more than a erotic fascination, but a driver in how we perceive ourselves - sometimes with negative consequences. Spencer Colt rejoins us to talk about his experience, and how our image can sometimes be tied to schoolyard bullies, and if we push ourselves beyond our limits we could just find ourselves halfway up Mt. Fuji with a double patella dislocation. Now, not all experiences of body dysmorphia are under this umbrella - so we want to hear from you. If you've experienced some form of body dysmorphia we'd love to hear form you. Be that slender guys, chunky boys, tall or short guys - anyone who feels their body doesn't match up with what their brain thinks it should be. Spencer last joined us during our OnlyFans content creator episode Spice Guys and the Sextra episode that followed We talk in non-explicit terms about domestic and intimate partner violence, so if you need some support head to joy.org.au/support Thorne Harbour's ReVisioning and No To Violence's resources on men's behaviour change programs might be useful, and check out Safe Always supporting LGBTIQA+ people experiencing violence Spencer is online over at Instagram at @spencercolt_ This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses themes relating to sexualised drug use. In this episode, Tim Little delves into the complex and sensitive topic of "chemsex" with psychotherapist and chemsex therapist Stu Fenton. We explore what chemsex is, why people engage in it, and the differences between its prevalence in Australia and Europe. Stu shares insights from managing an LGBTIQA + rehab in Thailand, discusses the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on chemsex practices, and compares harm reduction services in Berlin and Melbourne. We also touch on Stu's recent research on chemsex among queer immigrants in Berlin and the unique challenges they face as well as an overview of support services available in Australia and the common reservations people have about joining groups like NA or AA. For support please head to http://joy.org.au/support

Break out the non-brand named vegetable shorting product and open wide! We're going deep into the recesses of Tim's descending colon in an exploration of fisting as Tim goes bravely into the farthest reaches of his digestive system. Yes, Tim is attempting to take a little more than a knuckle sandwich - and we're helping out (or being entirely unhelpful - you decide) in helping him get all the way there. Tim, Michael and Jon are all fists on deck to share some tips, tricks, and tid bits about the art of handballing. We chatted about Fisting with Michael / FFunOtter earlier in the year on My Left Fist and with Anthony back in 2020 on the episode Fist and Shout Need some help yourself? Check out Fisting on Down an' Dirty [NSFW] SFAIDS' 8 steps for first-time fisters The Sacred Art of Fisting by Larry Shockey - some great tips but this one needs a refresh if you're thinking about HIV prevention as it's now a bit dated and doesn't include PrEP, PEP and U=U info :-) This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Oh, did we mention? We are winners! We were so chuffed to be the recipients of the 2023 Addam Stobbs Award for Broadcasting Excellence at the JOY AGM! Addam was a longtime presenter of Allegro Non Troppo at JOY until his passing in 2010 and this award is named for him. At a time when our community is attacked, called groomers and pedophiles by hate commentators simply for daring to be their authentic selves- it's truly an honour for us to be able to have the trust of JOY to present a show on broadcast radio about queer sex. Our sex lives form an important part of our lives, and queer pleasure is something we'll fight tooth and nail to celebrate. So, thank you to the entire team at JOY for acknowledging us this year. Most imortantly, thank you to all our amazing guests who have candidly shared their thoughts and often intimate personal experiences of sex. Here we have a really quick reflection on the night and winning the award. Don't worry, the real episode for this week is coming tomorrow. This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Michael shot off to Adelaide for GEAR'd, Adelaide's annual multi-day event hosted by Adelaide Leather & Fetish Inc (AL&F). GEAR’d has become recognised across Australia, and internationally, as its own community haven and an event not to be missed on any kinky calendar. As well as hosting Mr and Ms Leather and Adelaide Rubber titles, a week of workshops, kinky cabaret, and fetish markets was on display. Thanks so much to the GEAR'd team for throwing a fantastic series of events, and congrats to Mr Leather Adelaide - Storm, Ms Adelaide Leather 2022 - Delinda for your continued reign, Adelaide Rubber 2023 Miss Behavin', and to the newly sashed Australian Bootblack Soveryn. Timestamps for your nerves Storm: 01:33 Sharon (Miss Behavin') 07:03 Dr. George 24:00 Skye 36:14 We discuss suicide from the 55 minute mark until the end of the episode. Links Skye's One Last Look Photography on Facebook and Instagram Find Sharon via Piercing Perfection on Instagram Keep an eye on Adelaide Leather and Fetish and Gear'd socials for more on Storm's title year! You can find more on Dr. George Forgan-Smith and his many ventures by banging him into your search bar, or heading to painfreeanal.com Need some support? LGBTQIA+ SPECIFIC Qlife (3pm till midnight) - 1800 184 527 & Switchboard's Rainbow Door CRISIS LINES - 24/7 Life Line - 13 11 14 Suicide Call Back Service - 1300 659 467 Mental Health Triage (SA Crisis Line)- 13 14 65 Beyond Blue - 1300 22 4636 Mens Line - 1300 78 99 78 SA Police Welfare Check - 131 444 or 000SA BASED LOCATIONS Urgent Mental Health Care Centre - 8448 9100 215 Grenfell St, Adelaide CBD. Open 24/7 Royal Adelaide Hospital ED - North Terrace, CBD This episode was recorded and produced on the lands of the Kaurna people, the Wurundjeri people, and broadcast from the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Find all our links, ask a question, or subscribe linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy

Michael Tim and Jon sit down for a Hot Topic sharing session. What have we been doing, what's been going on, what's it all about? Think of it like a slutty pot luck. We chat cruising and beats, dungeon setup safety, and sexting and consent. Delicious! Cruising safety guide here> https://downandirty.org/app/uploads/2022/12/CRUISING-GUIDE.pdf This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Find all our links, ask a question, or subscribe linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy