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In this episode, we’re joined by TikTok creator Jen who turned heartbreak (and a spreadsheet of 50 dates) into a viral online sisterhood.

Jen shares what modern dating has taught her and what she wishes she’d known sooner.

From situationships with avoidant partners to learning how to trust her gut and reconnect with her inner child, this is an honest and reflective chat about the realities of dating today.

It’s one for anyone who’s ever felt disheartened, hopeful, or somewhere in between.

Ever felt like all the good ones are taken? Or like this is as good as it’s going to get? That’s scarcity mindset talking and it’s a sneaky saboteur in your dating life.

In this episode of Help Me I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam unpack what scarcity mindset actually is, how it shows up in dating (hi, situationships and anxiety spirals 👋), and why it often has more to do with self-worth than statistics.

They get into childhood conditioning, the fear of being alone, and how past relationships might be fuelling that “I have to settle” feeling. Plus, Sam shares practical ways to shift into an abundance mindset — where you start to trust that love is available, and you are already enough as you are.

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Think you can read between the lines of a guy’s dating profile? This week, Joanna and Sam break down the subtle (and not-so-subtle) clues hidden in men’s bios—from vague non-committal energy to straight-up red flags.

We’re also talking:

• Real-life dating prompt answers
• A game of Guess Who? Where we analyse mystery dating bios—can you figure out who they belong to?

Swipe right on this episode for laughs, dating wisdom, and a reality check on those profiles filling your feed.

At first, it feels like a fairytale - intense affection, grand gestures, and promises of forever. But when the honeymoon phase fades, love bombing can leave you feeling confused, drained, and questioning everything.

In this episode, Joanna and Sam break down:

• What love bombing really is (and why it feels so addictive).
  
• The hidden motivations behind it—beyond just narcissism.
  
• How to spot the warning signs before you get swept away.
  
• What to do if you’re the one love-bombing without realising it.

Plus, we talk about how attachment styles play a role, the love bombing cycle, and practical ways to protect yourself. If you’ve ever felt like a relationship was moving too fast but didn’t want to slow it down, this episode is for you.

One minute, everything’s great - texts flying, dates planned...then suddenly, he’s distant. Slower replies, shorter messages, and now you’re overthinking everything. Sound familiar? In this episode of Help Me, I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam break down why men pull away, what it really means, and how to respond without losing your power. You’ll learn: The real reasons men pull away (it’s not always about you!) How to tell if he’s just busy or genuinely losing interest. What to do and what NOT to do when this happens How attachment styles influence your response Whether to let him back in if he returns If you’ve ever found yourself anxiously waiting for a text, questioning everything, or debating whether to reach out then this one’s for you. Stay in your power, don’t chase, and let his actions tell you everything you need to know. Listen now and share with a friend who needs to hear this!

In this episode of Help Me, I’m Dating, Joanna gets real about the biggest lessons she’s learned from her own dating experiences. From ignoring red flags (we’ve all been there) to the surprising power of silence, she shares the ups, downs, and ‘oh no’ moments that come with modern dating. She also talks about why boundaries matter, how to actually trust your gut, and why self-love is the real game-changer. Plus, we’ve got some listener stories that prove just how important it is to know your worth. Grab a cup of tea (or something stronger) and let’s get into it!

In this episode we talk about the dating truth no one wants to hear but everyone needs to. If you’ve ever found yourself over analysing texts, making excuses for his behaviour, or waiting for him to finally commit, this one’s for you. We break down the classic signs that he’s just not that into you, why we sometimes ignore them, and most importantly, what to do about it. Plus, we discuss the importance of healthy boundaries in dating, the dangers of limiting beliefs, and why having a fulfilling life outside of dating changes everything. If you’re tired of mixed signals and ready to date with confidence, this episode is a must-listen.

Who should pick up the tab on a date? Is it about money, values, or expectations? In this episode, we talk about one of modern dating’s most debated topics: should you go 50/50? We take a look at the history of dating and gender roles, exploring how traditional norms have shaped our views on paying for dates today. Is it just an outdated custom, or does it still carry significance in today’s relationships? We also discuss what paying (or not paying) says about interest and effort - does splitting the bill signal a lack of investment, or is it about financial independence? Finally, we explore how the 50/50 debate changes in long-term relationships. Does financial equality still hold, or do things shift as careers, responsibilities, and family life come into the picture?

In our first episode, we explain why loving yourself is the foundation for healthy dating and fulfilling relationships. ✨ What is self-love, really? ✨ How does it shape your dating choices? ✨ And how can you start nurturing your own self-worth today? Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode will give you practical tips to build a stronger, more loving relationship with yourself.

Is he emotionally distant, overly dependent, or struggling with trust? You might be dating a man with mummy issues. In this episode we break down the signs of unresolved mother wounds in men, how they can impact relationships, and what you can do about it. From trust issues to unhealthy relationship patterns, we’ll explore expert insights, real-life examples, and practical advice for navigating these dynamics with compassion - while protecting yourself.

Tired of chasing after people who give you the bare minimum? In this episode of Help Me I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam break down the difference between genuine effort and performative effort in relationships. Learn how to spot breadcrumbing, set boundaries, and ensure your energy is matched by the people you date.

The holidays can be a challenging time for singles, but it this episode Sam and Joanna are here to help you thrive. From practical tips to emotional growth, they share everything you need to make this Christmas merry, bright and full of self love. Whether you're reflecting on past relationships, boosting your confidence, or treating yourself to some well deserved pampering. this episode is your ultimate holiday survival guide.

Joanna and Sam tackle the weight of societal pressures and encourage listeners to reclaim their own love stories. Discover how to flip the script by celebrating your singlehood, setting personal goals, and rejecting outdated expectations.

In this episode, Joanna and Sam explore the complexities of trust - what it means, why it's challenging, and how to rebuild it after heartbreak. They share personal insights, practical strategies, and interactive exercises to help listeners foster trust in themselves and others. From defining trust as a spectrum to addressing protective behaviours, this episode offers actionable advice for creating stronger, more secure connections.

As the chill of cuffing season sets in, it’s easy to feel the pressure to pair up—but how do you avoid getting cuffed to the wrong person? In this episode, Joanna and Sam dive into the art of dating with intention during the holidays. They explore how to communicate your relationship goals, whether you're looking for a winter cuddle buddy or something more long-term. Plus, they share tips on resisting the seasonal pressure to settle and the importance of staying true to your values.

In this episode, Joanna and Sam dive into the all-too-familiar "nice girl" syndrome—why being overly accommodating in dating can hold women back and how breaking free can lead to healthier, more authentic relationships. They explore the difference between being "kind" versus "nice," the societal pressures women face, and why setting boundaries isn’t just empowering—it’s essential for safety and self-respect.

In this episode, Joanna and Sam dive into a common but crucial challenge in dating—seeking validation from others. They explore the difference between external validation (relying on others’ approval) and internal validation (trusting your own worth). The duo shares personal experiences, psychological insights, and practical tips to help you build self-worth from within. Whether you're navigating new dates or seeking deeper connections, this episode will help you find the confidence to validate yourself first.

In this empowering episode of Help Me, I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam dive into a topic that so many people, especially women, struggle with in the dating world: the fear of being "too much." Have you ever felt like you had to shrink yourself, tone down your personality, or hide your passions just to make someone else comfortable? Well, it’s time to break free from that mindset. Joanna and Sam unpack where this fear comes from, why society often tells us to "tone it down," and how to stop dimming our light. They share tips for embracing your full, authentic self—no apologies necessary. From setting boundaries to getting comfortable with rejection, they offer practical advice for stepping into your power and attracting the right person who loves you for you. Tune in for a dose of confidence and real talk about why being "too much" is actually a superpower!

Sam and Joanna look into the concept of feminine energy and its impact on dating and relationships. They break down what feminine energy really means - covering aspects like receiving energy, letting go of control, and embracing flow. Whether you’re looking to create deeper connections or simply enjoy dating with less pressure, this episode offers practical ways to lean into your feminine energy and let attraction unfold naturally.

In this Halloween special, we take a look into a scary side of dating: ghosting! Sam and Joanna discuss why people vanish without a trace, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how to cope if it happens to you. Plus, they share chilling stories of ghosted dates gone wrong from listeners. Whether you're a ghosting survivor or just love a good ghost story, this episode has all the tricks and treats for navigating the dating world’s scariest pitfalls.

In this episode, Joanna and Sam dive into why people often chase emotionally unavailable partners. They explore key reasons - like low self-esteem, attachment styles, and validation seeking - that keep us stuck in these patterns. They share relatable stories and practical advice, including setting boundaries and matching energy instead of over-investing.

In this episode of Help Me, I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam dive deep into those sneaky self-limiting beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life without you even realising it. From unrealistic rom-com expectations to societal pressures and past heartbreaks, we explore how these beliefs shape our dating patterns and how to break free from them.

In this episode of Help Me I'm Dating, Joanna and Sam dive into the importance of setting healthy boundaries in the dating world. They discuss why boundaries are essential for creating respectful, balanced relationships, and how establishing them early on can protect your emotional and mental well-being.

In this episode, Sam and Joanna dive deep into the beauty of singlehood and why it’s so much more than just a waiting phase. It's all about personal growth, freedom, and living your best life solo. Whether you're single by choice or circumstance, this is your time to focus on YOU. Being single isn’t about what’s missing - it’s about thriving and embracing the journey!

In this episode, Joanna and Sam talk about how to "date with intention" They explain the importance of knowing your long-term goals and values before dating and how this can help you find a more meaningful connection.

In Episode 3 of Help Me I'm Dating, Joanna and Sam dive into one of the toughest parts of dating: rejection. Whether it’s ghosting, being told directly that you’re not a match, or navigating the friendzone, rejection can sting - but it doesn’t have to define you.

In this episode we dive into a topic that every dater knows all too well—dating anxieties. From fears of rejection and first-date jitters to the modern-day worries of being catfished, they explore how anxiety can show up in the dating world and how to handle it with confidence. Joanna shares a personal story about a recent awkward encounter, while Sam dishes out tips on building confidence, mindfulness techniques, and knowing when you're overthinking versus spotting real red flags.