Hello Hayes is a podcast about the work of becoming — honest, layered, and always evolving. Whether she’s navigating a creative block, untangling relationship patterns, or rethinking ambition, host Hayes (Alexandra Hayes Robinson) invites you into her own process and encourages you to explore yours.
Originally known for her advice column on TikTok, Hayes brings a clear, curious, and emotionally intelligent voice to long-form audio. Her work — featured in BuzzFeed, The New York Times, and CBS — explores the questions beneath the surface: Who am I, really? What gets in the way of that? And how do I keep showing up as someone I recognize?
This isn’t about self-help shortcuts or expert advice. It’s about asking the right questions, honoring your process, and knowing you’re not alone in it. Whether you’re navigating a major life shift or craving more clarity in the everyday, Hello Hayes is here to help you feel supported, capable, and curious about who you’re becoming.
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"I Feel Like a Liar. Am I Marrying the Wrong Person?"
mardi 10 septembre 2024 • Durée 34:44
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Today’s episode is all about the thrilling yet sometimes messy and confusing world of crushes. We’ve got three letters:
"I have a pattern of falling for people who are unavailable. Should I tell my new friend that I have a crush on her, even though she's in a longterm relationship?"
"I told my coworker I had feelings for him. I think he has feelings for me too but...he has a girlfriend."
"I'm engaged to my boyfriend of 7 years, but I have a relentless crush on someone new. Should I still get married?"
Send your letters to hellohayesadvice@gmail.com.
0:00 What to expect in this video
00:47 This week’s letters
1:22 Letter 1: “Can I be friends with my crush?”
2:50 Response to Letter 1 begins
4:43 How we use B&W thinking to protect ourselves
9:00 Failure is not regression
12:21 Script: “We can’t be friends”
13:02 Letter 2: “I’m in love with my co-worker”
14:45 Response to Letter 2 begins
15:55 What’s spiking my Hayesy senses
18:30 Stop hoping he’s going to change
20:59 Finding the love you deserve
21:31 Letter 3: “I’m not sure I want to marry my fiance”
22:43 Response begins
24:45 Pros of couple therapy
25:41 Hayes’s thoughts on “forever”
27:25 “Relationships are hard”
28:00 What your crush means
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"Should I Go To The Event By Myself?"
mardi 3 septembre 2024 • Durée 34:14
What do you do when you're invited to an event with a plus one...but you have no one to bring? Is it better to go alone or to bring a friend? On this week’s episode of the Hello Hayes podcast we’re chatting going to events solo, finding confidence in yourself, and doing the hard thing because you can. I also share the story of how I embarrassed myself in front of my work hero a couple of weeks ago...and how I'm reframing it so I don't obsess about this any further!
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Should I Confront My Work Bestie?
mardi 25 juin 2024 • Durée 36:02
Today's episode covers work friendships, the pitfalls of perfectionism, the merits of over-communication, what I wish I knew when I started working, how to have awkward conversations with work besties, and probably more. Who knows where this brain will go!
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"Can My Relationship Survive Social Media?"
Saison 1 · Épisode 15
mardi 18 juin 2024 • Durée 42:39
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"My girlfriend and I have different relationships with our appearances, and social media is a part of that. We’re both girls in our early 20s and this is my first serious relationship. She loves to get dressed up and take photos and videos of herself to post, whereas I don’t really post selfies at all. What a silly thing to worry about, right? And yet, I find that I continue to struggle with it."
Welcome to Hello Hayes, an advice podcast where we don't claim to have all the answers, but we do try to find them. Together. In today's episode, we're talking about how to handle social media in relationships -- specifically when one person likes to post selfies and the other doesn't.
You can find me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/afhayes
Follow along for more episodes of Hello Hayes: https://www.youtube.com/@alexandrahayesrobinson?sub_confirmation=1
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10,000+ Hayeselnuts and curious thinkers read my weekly(ish) newsletter on Substack, where I publish my most personal writing and advice columns. All content is free, but paid subscriptions are available to those who are able to support my work financially! You get bonus audio episodes and a "cut the line" pass to my advice column. 5/month or 50/year! Subscribe: https://hellohayes.substack.com/subscribe
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Finding Motivation in Hard Times
mardi 11 juin 2024 • Durée 41:36
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In this episode, Hayes celebrates getting her motivation back and shares the top 10 tips that have helped her this year.
👋 SUBMIT AN ADVICE LETTER 👋
Send your letters to Hayes at hellohayesadvice at gmail dot com. Pro tip: Use "YouTube subscriber" in the subject line, plus a few words that describe your story. Like this: "YouTube subscriber + Why do I feel so sad around the holidays?"
✍️ LIKE TO READ? ✍️
Join the 10,000+ Hayeselnuts and curious thinkers who read my weekly(ish) newsletter on Substack, where I publish my most personal writing and advice columns. All content is free, but paid subscriptions are available to those who can support my work financially! You get bonus audio episodes and a "cut the line" pass to my advice column. 5/month or 50/year!
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"No More Small Talk" (aka, How to Connect With New Friends)
Saison 1 · Épisode 13
mardi 4 juin 2024 • Durée 19:56
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In this week's episode of the HELLO HAYES podcast, I answer an advice letter about how to deepen connections with new friends in a new city.
Send me your letters at hellohayesadvice at gmail dot com.
Listen to Carlye's podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/show/6aarIjhCYglA4gn8e1H2nl
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The Friend Who Feels Excluded
Saison 1 · Épisode 12
mardi 28 mai 2024 • Durée 54:12
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Today I'm answering two letters from our community about feeling excluded: one takes place in a wedding (bridesmaid stuff), another in a group chat. I also give the full backstory on the Reese Witherspoon story I shared on my Instagram (@afhayes) last week, and why that moment feels so important for me.
Listen to my conversation on The Bright Side here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tlanMiHjaYTFMk6bktrRj
Timestamps:
:00 - Introducing episode theme
1:12 - Why this episode is a little different
2:40 - The Bright Side podcast interview
3:28 - My fear of interviews
5:57 - The advice I gave myself before the interview
10:27 - Eating too much of a gummy
11:20 - REESE WITHERSPOON!!!!
13:10 - My break from TikTok
14:29 - The takeaway for all of us
16:49 - Bemused Bridesmaid: "My Friend Isn't a Bridesmaid and Feels Left Out" (Letter 1)
19:00 - My response to Bemused Bridesmaid
31:37 - Ousted: "My Friends Don't Respond to Me in the Group Chat"
33:33 - My response to Ousted
47:40 - Lonely: "My OG Besties Went on Vacation Without Me"
49:40 - Questions for YOU to answer in the YouTube comments!
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Why We Cry On Our Birthdays
jeudi 28 mars 2024 • Durée 29:46
[video available on YouTube] Today on the pod I talk about turning 31 and unpack all the complicated and contradictory things I feel about my birthday. Then, around 15 minutes in, I do a rapid fire Q+A of some of YOUR questions about birthdays, including (but not limited to): Is it fair to expect my partner to throw me a birthday party? Why am I always disappointed even though I expect NOTHING on my birthday? How do you (me, Hayes) feel about physically aging? AND MORE! There's no longform Hello Hayes advice column this week, just the two of us chatting. I hope you enjoy the change of pace, it was nice to just sit and reflect with you. See you next time!
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A Conversation with Shame
Saison 1 · Épisode 9
mardi 13 février 2024 • Durée 18:41
In this episode, Hayes writes a letter to IMPENDING 50-YEAR-OLD-VIRGIN, who is in her mid-20s and feels embarrassed...about everything. We talk about shame and how to wrangle it, and model what a truly loving conversation with yourself feels like. Thanks for listening!
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Hayes Gets Advice From Happiness Expert (and Bestie) Stephanie Harrison
Saison 1 · Épisode 8
mardi 30 janvier 2024 • Durée 01:08:45
This week on the show, for the very first time, Hayes sits down to get advice from her dear friend and author of NEW HAPPY, Stephanie Harrison. We talk about everything from how to support friends during a tough season of their life to Hayes's very personal (and hopefully relatable!) struggle with work.
Pre-order Stephanie's book here.
Follow The New Happy here.
Follow Stephanie here.
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