Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain
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| Why It's All in Your Body, with Dr. Sula Windgassen | 29 Jun 2026 | 00:52:23 | |
If you've ever been told your symptoms are "all in your head," this episode is for you. Today I'm joined by health psychologist, cognitive behavioral therapist, EMDR therapist, and author Dr. Sula Windgassen to discuss her incredible new book, It's All in Your Body. Sula has become one of my favorite educators in the mind-body space because of her unique ability to explain the science behind chronic symptoms in a way that is both accessible and deeply validating. Together, we explore why symptoms that often feel random, confusing, or "unknowable" are actually incredibly understandable when you begin to view the body as one integrated system. Whether you're living with chronic pelvic pain, bladder symptoms, recurrent infections, or another chronic condition, this conversation will help you better understand what's happening in your body and why healing is possible. In this episode, we discuss:
Resources Mentioned It's All in Your Body by Dr. Sula Windgassen Follow Dr. Sula Windgassen:
Ready for the next step? The doors to Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain reopen in July. Inside BCPP, I'll teach you exactly how to apply these mind-body principles to your own healing through structured lessons, live coaching, and practical tools that help you change your relationship with symptoms, create safety within your nervous system, and get back to living your life. 👉 Join the waitlist here! | |||
| Why "Just Allow" Isn't Working | 22 Jun 2026 | 00:13:09 | |
One of the most common pieces of advice in the mind-body healing world is: "Just allow the sensation." But what if allowing feels impossible? What if a large part of you is screaming that this isn't okay, that you want the symptoms to stop, and that you wish things were different? In this episode, I'm sharing why allowing symptoms often feels so difficult and the missing piece I see over and over again with my clients. The answer isn't forcing acceptance. The answer isn't convincing yourself you're okay. The answer isn't suppressing the part of you that hates what's happening. It's facilitating grief. In this episode, I discuss:
If you've been trying to force yourself into acceptance and it isn't working, this episode is for you. Remember, healing is possible for you. You've got this. Rooting for you, Always 💜 Connect with Rachel: Get on the waitlist for Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain (doors opening again this summer) Book A Pelvic Pain Strategy Session Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Lagging Results: When the Work Is Working (But You Can’t Feel It Yet) | 02 Apr 2026 | 00:17:20 | |
If you’ve been doing the work: ✅Regulating your nervous system, ✅Responding to symptoms with safety ✅Practicing self-compassion …but you’re still not feeling better yet, this episode is for you. Because one of the hardest parts of the healing journey isn’t learning what to do.It’s continuing to do it when it feels like nothing is changing. In this episode, we’re talking about lagging results — the experience of doing the work without yet seeing symptomatic change. And more importantly… how to stay in the process without spiraling, doubting yourself, or giving up. Inside this episode, we cover:
The core message: You are not doing it wrong. The work is working. The results are just lagging. A reframe to take with you: Healing is not like flipping a switch. It’s more like planting a seed. For a while… nothing looks different. But underneath the surface, everything is changing. Reflection questions to support you:
Want guidance and support? If this episode resonates and you want guidance and support learning how to consistently ground back into what’s actually in your control, so your energy is moving in the direction of healing, Rachel would love to support you inside her coaching program, Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain. Inside the program, you’ll get a self-paced curriculum grounded in modern pain neuroscience and specifically tailored for healing chronic pelvic pain, along with weekly live group coaching calls where you can ask questions, get clarity, and receive support applying this work to your real symptoms and your real life. You don’t have to do this alone anymore.You deserve to live a life beyond chronic pelvic pain. 👉 Learn more about the program here Rooting for you, always 💜 Rachel Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Why Fun, Play, and Joy Are Essential for Healing (with Lauren Garchow, LCSW) | 26 Mar 2026 | 00:53:40 | |
If you’ve been approaching your healing like something to figure out, fix, or do perfectly… this episode is for you. In this conversation with psychotherapist and mind-body coach Lauren Garchow, we’re talking about something that doesn’t get nearly enough attention in the healing space: that fun, play, joy, and lightness are POWERFUL healing modalities. We explore why so many of us struggle to access these states (especially if you’re driven, analytical, or used to pushing through), how pressure builds in the body and contributes to symptoms, and why expanding your life is actually part of how you heal, not something you wait to experience once you’re symptom-free. This is a grounded, practical conversation that will likely shift how you think about “doing the work.” Together, We Cover:
You don’t have to wait until you’re symptom-free to start living your life. Even small moments of joy, presence, or lightness are doing something meaningful in your nervous system. This work isn’t about forcing yourself to feel good.It’s about slowly expanding your capacity to experience more of the good. If fun feels far away right now, start small:
Every little bit counts. About Lauren: Lauren Garchow, LCSW, is a psychotherapist, mind-body coach, and speaker based in Los Angeles, CA. Her own chronic pain healing journey revealed the mind’s powerful ability to change and adapt, igniting a deep passion to support others in their mind-body healing. As the owner of Lauren G therapy, she focuses on helping women feel at home in their bodies and has guided numerous clients through diverse chronic symptom challenges, including pelvic pain. Her work connects physical symptoms with the broader context of a person’s life, including their experiences, relationships, and identity—empowering clients to explore their minds and bodies with curiosity and compassion. Lauren deeply values balance in her life. In order for her to show up whole-heartily in this work, she prioritizes having a full life outside of it. A key part of her healing journey was learning to have more FUN and lighten up on herself. She brings this perspective into her work, encouraging clients to cultivate play, creativity, and connection as part of their healing process.
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| The Thoughts That Keep You Stuck vs. The Ones That Move You Forward | 19 Mar 2026 | 00:15:39 | |
In this episode, Rachel introduces a powerful framework: Stop Healing Thoughts vs. Keep Healing Thoughts You’ll learn how to identify the thoughts that pull you out of the process of healing, and how to gently shift into thoughts that help you stay in it long enough for healing to actually happen. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Your Takeaway Practice: Take a few minutes and write down:
This awareness alone can change everything. Want Support Applying This Work? If you’re listening and thinking, “Okay, I get this… but how do I actually apply it to my symptoms and my life?” You don’t have to figure that out alone. Inside my Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain Healing Program, I walk you through exactly how to do this work step-by-step, with guidance, structure, and support. You’ll learn how to:
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| Why Time (Alone) Doesn’t Heal Chronic Pelvic Pain | 12 Mar 2026 | 00:25:33 | |
Many people living with chronic pelvic pain hold onto the hope that if they just wait long enough, their pain will eventually just go away. You rest. You avoid certain activities. You give it time. But months pass. Sometimes years. And the pain is still there. In this episode, Rachel explains why time alone doesn’t heal chronic pelvic pain, and what actually creates healing. If you've been stuck in the frustrating cycle of waiting and hoping things will improve on their own, this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening in your body and why a different approach is needed. Chronic pain isn’t simply a matter of tissues needing more time to recover. When chronic pelvic pain persists beyond normal healing timelines, it often means the nervous system has learned a protective pattern that continues to generate symptoms even when the body itself is safe. True healing happens when the nervous system begins to receive new signals of safety. In this episode, Rachel breaks down the three key areas where safety must be rebuilt in order to retrain the nervous system and move out of chronic pelvic pain. If you’ve been waiting for time to heal you, this episode will help you understand why that hasn’t worked and what can. And most importantly, it will remind you that healing is still possible. In This Episode
Mentioned in This Episode Listen to the Understanding Pain Series (Episodes 2–6) for a deeper explanation of pain science and neuroplastic symptoms. Ready to Go Deeper? If you’re ready to stop waiting for your pain to go away and start actively retraining your nervous system, Rachel invites you to join her coaching program: Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain This 4-month coaching container helps you:
The program includes a structured curriculum plus weekly live coaching calls with Rachel for guidance and support as you apply this work to your own body and life. Connect with Rachel Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Everything You Weren't Told About Endometriosis (with Jill Mueller PT) | 05 Mar 2026 | 01:20:11 | |
This is a special episode. It's the first time I've had a guest on the podcast. I sat down with Jill Mueller, a pelvic health physiotherapist with over 20 years of experience, whose own journey with endometriosis, period pain, and fertility challenges led her to dedicate her career to this work. Jill brings together pain science, nervous system education, and deep clinical expertise in a way that I find genuinely rare in this space. If you have endometriosis, suspect you might, or have had a procedure and are still in pain, this conversation is for you. We talk about what endometriosis actually is, why diagnosis is so difficult to access, what surgery can and can't do, and what else beyond the tissue may be driving your pain. We also talk about lifestyle, nervous system regulation, the role of emotional health in healing, and Jill's incredible interdisciplinary program, Endometriosis360. I hope this episode gives you clarity, and most of all, hope. In This Episode We Cover: What endometriosis actually is, and why it's so often misunderstood The different types of endo and where it can be found in the body Why diagnosis is so hard to access, and what to look for in a provider Imaging vs. laparoscopy: what the updated guidelines now say Ablation vs. excision surgery, and why it matters Why pain can return after surgery, and what that actually means The role of the nervous system in driving endo-related pain Conditioned responses, sensory remapping, and how the brain maps the body Why support groups can sometimes increase distress rather than reduce it Lifestyle factors, nutrition, and nervous system resilience The Endometriosis360 interdisciplinary program Why hope is not naive. It's necessary. Resources Mentioned: Endometriosis Network of Canada: find a provider in Canada I Care Better (US): find a provider in the US David Butler's Pin Box demonstration on YouTube (sensory motor dysregulation) Inside Out 2 (genuinely assigned homework from both of us) About Jill Mueller: Jill has been a physiotherapist since 2001, but her passion for pelvic health was born from personal experience. After years of struggling with period pain and fertility challenges due to endometriosis, she shifted her focus to understanding and addressing the complexities of this condition. Through deep dives into pain science and endometriosis research, Jill recognized a significant gap in education and practical support for those living with endo. Whether working one-on-one, leading group programs, or speaking internationally, she is dedicated to empowering people with pelvic health conditions and equipping healthcare practitioners with the knowledge needed to provide better care. Jill is also a founding member and lead physiotherapist of Endometriosis360, an innovative interdisciplinary virtual group program designed to help individuals with endometriosis. Connect with Jill: Instagram: @endotogether | @endometriosis360 | @oakvillephysio Websites: www.endotogether.com | www.endometriosis360.ca | www.hbpw.ca | |||
| The Real Reason You’re Afraid to Hope | 19 Feb 2026 | 00:17:02 | |
Hope can feel almost dangerous when you’ve been living with chronic pelvic pain for months, years, or even decades. If you’ve been dismissed.If you’ve been misdiagnosed.If you’ve been told your condition is “chronic” (and framed as permanent). Then… Of course hope feels naive. Of course it feels embarrassing.Of course your brain wants to protect you from getting your hopes up again (and potentially being disappointed or devastated…again). That makes sense. And also, we need some hope in order to do the work of healing. So, in this episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, I’m breaking down: Why your resistance to hope makes sense How hopelessness becomes a nervous system protection strategy The real reason your brain avoids hope (hint: it’s not about symptoms) What’s actually required to allow hope back in Why hope isn’t magical thinking or forced positivity How hope directs your brain toward safety and possibility Because the truth is: Hope isn’t being delusional. It’s being directional. What part of you isn’t allowing you to take your next step? What is that part afraid will happen? • What is it trying to protect you from? What would it need to know in order to soften, even slightly? Can you promise yourself self-compassion no matter how this goes? Because here’s what I truly believe: It is safer to allow hope and try, than to deny yourself hope and the possibility of change. If you’re listening and thinking: “This makes sense… but how do I actually live this?” This is exactly why I created Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain. Inside the program, you’ll learn how to: Understand your pain through a pain science lens Partner with your nervous system Build emotional capacity Stop symptom spirals Reclaim movement, pleasure, rest, and your LIFE. This isn’t about enduring pain. It’s about teaching your nervous system that you no longer need it. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Reflection Questions from This Episode Want Support Applying This? Healing is possible for you. You’ve got this. And I’m rooting for you, always | |||
| The Tools that Actually Help You Heal Chronic Pelvic Pain | 12 Feb 2026 | 00:30:16 | |
What’s the best tool for healing chronic pelvic pain? Is it journaling? Somatic tracking? Pelvic PT? Breathwork? Visualization? If you’ve spent any time in the mind-body healing world, you’ve probably heard someone confidently say: “This is what healed me.” “This is the thing.” “If it’s not working, you’re not doing it right.” And it’s confusing. In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth: All tools can work. And none of them are magic. Because it’s not about the tool. It’s about the intention behind the tool and the level of safety you’re building in your nervous system. When chronic pelvic pain is neuroplastic, it’s not about damaged tissue. It’s about a nervous system stuck in protection mode. The practices themselves don’t heal you. What heals is the shift in meaning, fear, and internal safety that those practices create. In this episode, we explore: Why the healing industry often markets one tool as the answer The 3 categories of safety required for lasting symptom resolution When I look at healing chronic pelvic pain through a mind-body lens, I see three core areas that must be addressed. ✨ Safety in your body Understanding pain science. Reappraising symptoms. Learning that pain does not automatically mean damage. Teaching your nervous system that you are physically safe and your body isn’t broken. ✨ Safety with yourself Building self-trust. Allowing emotions instead of suppressing them. Practicing uncertainty tolerance. No longer abandoning yourself when symptoms spike. Reducing perfectionism and internal pressure. ✨ Safety in your life Looking honestly at boundaries, stress, relationships, work, routines, and alignment. Making your life feel authentically safe to live. You likely don’t need more tools. You likely need a framework that helps you systematically build safety in all three areas. If you’re ready to stop piecing this together on your own, I’d love to support you inside my four month coaching container: Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain Healing Program Healing is possible for you. You’ve got this. Rooting for you, always 💜 Rachel | |||
| Radical Responsibility: What Changes When You Stop Outsourcing Healing | 05 Feb 2026 | 00:15:50 | |
This episode covers one of the most important and most resisted concepts in healing chronic pelvic pain: radical responsibility. This is not about blame, fault, or doing everything on your own. It’s about what shifts when you stop waiting for someone or something outside of you to fix this, and take the lead in your own healing. If you’ve been holding out hope for the next doctor, test, medication, procedure, or protocol to finally be the thing that saves you, this episode gently but honestly explores why outsourcing can keep you stuck, and what becomes possible when you claim radical responsibility for your healing. Please note: This episode may feel activating. If you’re not in the place to hear this message yet, that’s okay. You can come back to it when you’re ready. In this episode, we cover: What radical responsibility actually means (and what it does not) Why outsourcing healing reinforces waiting and helplessness How the Western medical model conditions us to look outside ourselves The grief that comes with accepting no one else can do this work for you Why healing must happen inside your own nervous system Reflection questions to help you apply this shift to your own healing Reflection Questions from the Episode Where am I still waiting for someone or something to fix this for me? What am I afraid will happen if I fully stop outsourcing my healing? What feels unfair about having to do this work? What grief have I not yet allowed myself to acknowledge? If I stopped waiting today, what would I do differently today, this week or this month? You Don’t Have to Do This Alone Even though no one can do this work for you, you don’t have to do it alone. If you want guidance, structure, and support applying this work to your specific symptoms and your life, Rachel offers a coaching program designed specifically for healing chronic pelvic pain. ✨ Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain includes: A self-paced curriculum grounded in modern pain neuroscience Weekly live group coaching calls for support and clarity A grounded, compassionate space to stop waiting and start healing 👉 Learn more about the program here Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How to Reclaim Your Power: What’s in Your Control vs. What Isn’t | 29 Jan 2026 | 00:13:01 | |
If you’ve been feeling powerless or stuck on your healing journey, this episode is for you. In this episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, Rachel talks about one of the most important shifts you can make when healing chronic pelvic pain: learning how to tell the difference between what is and isn’t in your control, especially in moments when symptoms are loud. When so much of your energy goes toward trying to change symptoms in the moment, it’s easy to feel exhausted, frustrated, and defeated. This episode helps you understand why that happens, and where your real agency and power actually live. • Why trying to control symptoms in the present moment often backfires • What is not in your control when symptoms flare (and why that matters) • What is in your control, and how focusing there supports healing • How redirecting your energy helps rewire your nervous system over time • Why this shift is hard, and why it gets easier with practice This episode isn’t about giving up or accepting a life with pain. It’s about stopping the fight that keeps your nervous system stuck in threat and redirecting your energy toward what actually moves healing forward. If this episode resonates and you want guidance and support learning how to consistently ground back into what’s actually in your control, so your energy is moving in the direction of healing, Rachel would love to support you inside her coaching program, Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain. Inside the program, you’ll get a self-paced curriculum grounded in modern pain neuroscience and specifically tailored for healing chronic pelvic pain, along with weekly live group coaching calls where you can ask questions, get clarity, and receive support applying this work to your real symptoms and your real life. You don’t have to do this alone anymore. You deserve to live a life beyond chronic pelvic pain. 👉 Learn more about the program here: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/healing-program Rooting for you, always 💜 Rachel Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treat | |||
| Uncertainty Tolerance: The Skill That Allows You to Move Forward | 22 Jan 2026 | 00:12:01 | |
In this episode, I’m talking about uncertainty tolerance, why your brain hates it so much, and why learning to tolerate uncertainty is actually one of the most important skills required to heal chronic pelvic pain. If you deal with anxiety, OCD tendencies, reassurance-seeking, flare fear, or constantly wondering “What if this doesn’t work?”, this episode is for you. We’ll talk about: Why anxiety and OCD are really attempts to create certainty Why your brain keeps searching for guarantees (and why that never works) How intolerance of uncertainty keeps your life smaller and more fear-driven What uncertainty tolerance looks like in both the long-term and the day-to-day Why allowing the possibility of a flare is part of how healing actually happens What most people are missing when fear spikes and symptoms return I’ll also share why so many people feel like they’re “starting over” again and again, and how having a clear framework for moments of fear and uncertainty changes everything. If healing has been feeling like two steps forward and one step back, and every flare makes you feel like you’re starting over, Rachel invites you to join her free live workshop: How to Stop Starting Over 🗓 Monday, January 26th ⏰ 12 PM Eastern In this workshop, Rachel will: Help you understand what’s actually happening in your nervous system during flares Show you how to respond differently in the moment of fear or symptom spikes Introduce the Rewiring Recovery Roadmap, her framework for building and sustaining momentum even when symptoms fluctuate Help you assess what’s been working, what hasn’t, and what to do next You’ll leave with clarity, direction, and tangible next steps. Healing is possible for you. You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep starting over. Learn More About My New Coaching Program: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/healing-program Add Yourself To The Waitlist For My New Coaching Program: https://thepelvicpaincoach.myflodesk.com/m4wq35ssfl
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| How to Keep Going When Healing Takes Longer Than You Want (with Sarah) | 19 Jun 2026 | 00:49:26 | |
What do you do when healing is taking longer than you want? When you're doing the work, showing up consistently, making progress... and you're still not where you want to be yet? In today's episode, I'm joined by my client Sarah, who shares her experience healing her chronic pelvic pain through a mind-body approach. Sarah lived with pelvic pain for over 20 years. Along the way, she received multiple diagnoses, tried countless treatments, was prescribed medications, and was even told she should consider a hysterectomy. When she found this work, she wasn't looking for just another treatment. She was looking for a different way to move forward not only in her healing, but in her life. In this conversation, Sarah shares what has helped her stay in the process, continue expanding her life, and keep moving forward even when healing hasn't happened on the timeline she would have preferred. We discuss:
One of my favorite parts of this conversation is that Sarah isn't sharing from the finish line. She's sharing from the middle. She's still healing. She's still learning. She's still working through challenges. And she's also living a bigger, fuller life than she was when she started. If healing is taking longer than you want, I hope Sarah's story reminds you that progress is still progress. Sometimes the most important work isn't learning how to heal faster. It's learning how to keep going. Connect with Rachel: Get on the waitlist for Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain (doors opening again this summer) Book A Pelvic Pain Strategy Session Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Why Accepting a Neuroplastic Diagnosis Can Feel So Hard (Especially for Women) | 15 Jan 2026 | 00:21:25 | |
Accepting a neuroplastic or nervous system based explanation for chronic pelvic pain isn’t just intellectually challenging, it can be emotionally loaded, especially for women who have already experienced medical gaslighting, dismissal, or invalidation. In this episode, Rachel explores why resistance to a mind-body approach makes so much sense, and why difficulty accepting a neuroplastic diagnosis is often not about disbelief, but about self-protection. Rachel shares her own journey of initially feeling defeated and offended by the idea that her pain could be related to her nervous system, and unpacks how black-and-white thinking, medical trauma, and systemic failures in women’s healthcare can make neuroplastic explanations feel threatening rather than empowering. This episode is for you if: ● You’ve ever bristled at the suggestion that your pain might be “your nervous system” ● You’ve felt angry, resistant, or shut down when mind-body work was mentioned ● You worry that accepting a neuroplastic explanation means your pain isn’t real ● You’ve been stuck cycling between medical testing, alternative treatments, and self-doubt ● You want validation and real answers, not dismissal In this episode, we cover: ● Why mind-body explanations can feel emotionally unsafe after medical gaslighting ● How black-and-white thinking keeps people stuck between “it’s structural” vs “it’s all in my head” ● The very real impact of historical and societal dismissal of women’s pain ● What neuroplastic pain actually is (and what it is not) ● Why ignoring psychosocial context is not ethical care ● How validation and accurate pain science can and should coexist ● Why choosing a mind-body approach is not giving up, but moving forward ● The hidden fear many people carry that “if it’s neuroplastic, I have to heal alone” Free Workshop Invitation If healing has been feeling like two steps forward and one step back, and every flare makes you feel like you’re starting over, Rachel invites you to join her free live workshop: 🗓 Monday, January 26th ⏰ 12 PM Eastern In this workshop, Rachel will: Help you understand what’s actually happening in your nervous system during flares Show you how to respond differently in the moment of fear or symptom spikes Introduce the Rewiring Recovery Roadmap, her framework for building and sustaining momentum even when symptoms fluctuate Help you assess what’s been working, what hasn’t, and what to do next You’ll leave with clarity, direction, and tangible next steps. Healing is possible for you. You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep starting over. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| This Is Part Of It | 08 Jan 2026 | 00:10:45 | |
When you’re healing chronic pelvic pain, there are moments that feel terrifying, discouraging, and defeating, moments where it feels like you’re back at square one and nothing is working. In this episode, I share one simple phrase that carried me through countless moments of panic and despair on my own healing journey: “This is part of it.” This phrase helped me stop interpreting flares, fear, and doubt as signs of failure, and instead see them as a predictable part of the healing process. In this episode, I walk you through: • How “this is part of it” interrupts the spiral into urgency and despair • Why outsourcing reassurance never actually brings relief • The powerful shift from asking “What if I can’t do this?” to “What do I need to support myself through this?” • How to move from self-doubt into self-support during hard moments If you’re in the messy middle of healing and questioning whether you’re still on track, this episode is for you. Nothing has gone wrong. You can get there from here. 👉 Sign up for the free workshop here: How To Stop Starting Over Other Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach.myflodesk.com/painflareplan 🎧 Recommended Listen: “This Is the Part Where” by Kara Lowentheil on the Unf*ck Your Brain* podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How To Stop Starting Over (A New Year, New Approach to Healing) | 01 Jan 2026 | 00:15:35 | |
If New Year’s feels more devastating than hopeful, this episode is for you. For many people living with chronic pelvic pain, January 1st doesn’t feel like a fresh start. It can feel like a painful marker of how long you’ve been in pain and how much you wish things were different. In this episode, I talk about why arbitrary time points like New Year’s often work against your nervous system, and how to reflect on your healing journey without turning it into proof that you’re behind or failing. We cover:
If you’re tired of feeling like every flare means you’re back at square one, I want you to know you’re not doing this wrong. What’s usually missing isn’t effort, it’s clarity. I also share details about my new FREE live workshop, How to Stop Starting Over, where I’ll teach you how to respond to symptom spikes without spiraling and how to create and sustain momentum in your healing. 👉 Sign up for the free workshop here: https://thepelvicpaincoach.myflodesk.com/r3freayg1g You deserve a life beyond chronic pelvic pain. I want to help you get there. Rooting for you, always 💜 Other Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach.myflodesk.com/painflareplan Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Why Healing Can Feel Unsafe at First | 11 Dec 2025 | 00:19:23 | |
If you’ve ever started healing work and felt more anxious, activated, or symptomatic, this episode will help you make sense of that experience. We’re talking about why healing can feel unsafe at first — and why an increase in symptoms or discomfort doesn’t automatically mean something has gone wrong. In fact, it’s often a sign that your nervous system is changing. You’ll learn the five phases of nervous system rewiring, why awareness can initially amplify symptoms, and how rest, joy, and pleasure can feel threatening when you’ve been oriented to urgency or pain for a long time. We’ll also talk about the “push–pull” phase and what it really means when your system tries to pull you back toward the familiar. If you’re in a season where things feel loud or confusing, this episode will help you understand what’s happening — and how to support yourself through it. In this episode you'll learn:
Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get your free Pain Flare Plan: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/painflareplan Learn more about my course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Why Pelvic PT Didn’t Work (And why you can still heal) | 28 Nov 2025 | 00:19:51 | |
Rachel explains why pelvic PT often calms symptoms for a short period, but rarely resolves chronic pelvic pain long term, because most treatment focuses on the physical response rather than the nervous system state driving the patterns. This episode validates why relief fades, helps you make sense of the gap, and reinforces that healing is still absolutely possible. In this episode you’ll hear: Why pelvic PT isn’t trained to address nervous system drivers Why tight muscles are a response, not the root cause Why pain isn’t a reliable guide in chronic symptom rehab How pelvic PT works best when paired with a mind-body approach Course Discount Podcast listeners receive fifty dollars off the course with code BEYOND50 before December 3rd, 2025. Learn more and purchase at: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Links: Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Why Chronic Pelvic Pain Is Different (and Why It’s Not) | 20 Nov 2025 | 00:27:53 | |
In this episode, Rachel talks about a belief that keeps so many people stuck. The idea that pelvic pain is different from every other type of chronic pain. She shares why pelvic pain really does feel uniquely heavy for many people, and also why it is not different in the ways that determine your ability to heal. Rachel explores the shame, isolation, fear of infection, medical dismissal, and impact on identity and relationships that often come with chronic pelvic pain. She also explains why the nervous system works the same way no matter where symptoms show up, which means neuroplastic pelvic pain can be unlearned. Course Discount Podcast listeners receive fifty dollars off the course with code BEYOND50 before December 3rd, 2025. Learn more and purchase at: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Links Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| When Healing Feels Urgent (and What to Do About It) | 06 Nov 2025 | 00:20:17 | |
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I should be further along by now” or “I just need this pain to go away,” this episode is for you. Rachel dives into one of the most common emotional hurdles in mind-body healing: the urgency to heal. That deep, desperate feeling that you need to be better now. You’ll explore where that urgency really comes from—the fear that this might never go away, the grief for time and experiences lost, and the belief that your life can’t move forward until the pain is gone. Through compassion, honesty, and practical tools, Rachel helps you: Understand why your urgency is valid and where it stems from See how urgency actually keeps your nervous system stuck in protection mode Learn how to relate differently to the “urgent” part of you with compassion instead of pressure Shift into safety, trust, and patience so your body can finally do what it’s designed to do—heal You’ll also hear how adopting the mindset “it takes as long as it takes” can calm your nervous system and speed up the healing process by releasing pressure and fear. If you’ve been feeling behind, pressured, or afraid you’re running out of time, take a deep breath before you listen. You’re not behind. You’re not out of time. It’s safe for this to take as long as it takes. 💜 Resources & Links: Rachel’s self-paced course, Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain, which walks you step-by-step through her mind-body framework for healing. This course will only be available for independent purchase until December 3rd. After that date, it will only be offered through group or 1:1 coaching. Use code BEYOND50 for $50 off before December 3rd: thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| When You’re Scared It’s an Infection (and How to Move Through It) | 30 Oct 2025 | 00:20:29 | |
Have you ever felt that sudden spike of fear — what if this time it’s a real infection? If you’ve been on a mind-body healing journey and experienced this worry, this episode is for you. Rachel shares her personal experience navigating infection fears (especially around UTIs) and the framework she now teaches clients for handling those moments with clarity and self-trust instead of panic. You’ll learn how to tell when to seek medical care, how to support your nervous system (no matter what’s going on), and how to stay grounded in a mind-body approach — even when there’s a possibility of a true infection. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why the fear of a true infection can feel so traumatic — especially if your symptoms started after one How to tell the difference between a neuroplastic flare-up and a possible infection Why infections and mind-body healing are not mutually exclusive The 4-step process for navigating infection fears Why nervous system regulation supports your immune system and can reduce true infections over time Key Takeaway: A true infection doesn’t mean you’re going backward. It doesn’t invalidate your progress or your mind-body approach. You can handle it, care for your body, and continue healing — with calm, clarity, and self-trust. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How to Keep Going When You’re Struggling To Believe You Can Heal (Belief Series Part 2) | 16 Oct 2025 | 00:30:43 | |
What if belief itself feels like the barrier? In this part two of the belief mini series, Rachel shares how to move forward even when you’re filled with doubt. You’ll learn how to take action without certainty, work through fears that something was missed medically, and make peace with not being “100% certain” — while still healing. In this episode: The two layers of belief: symptoms vs. self Why waiting for 100% certainty keeps you stuck How to move forward with doubt (and still make progress) Listen if you’ve ever thought: “I want to believe I can heal... but I’m just not sure.” Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Believing You Can Heal (Part 1 — Why Belief Matters and How to Build It) | 09 Oct 2025 | 00:22:18 | |
If you’ve ever struggled to believe that healing is possible for you, this episode is for you. In Part 1 of this two-part series, we’re talking about why belief matters in the process of healing chronic pelvic pain — and how to start building it, even when you don’t feel anywhere close to believing right now. We’ll explore the neuroscience behind belief (and how your brain literally filters your world through what you already believe), how doubt and skepticism are actually signs of protection — not failure — and why belief isn’t something you have to “just have.” It’s something you build. If you’ve ever felt like belief was another thing you were “not doing right,” or that you needed perfect belief to heal, this episode will help you reframe what belief really means — and how to begin cultivating it in a way that feels possible for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: ⭐ Why belief plays such a powerful role in neuroplastic pain and healing ⭐ How the Reticular Activating System (RAS) filters your reality based on what you believe ⭐ What “belief perfectionism” is and why it keeps so many people stuck ⭐ How to begin building belief even while scared, skeptical, or uncertain Belief isn’t all or nothing — and it’s not pass/fail. It’s a practice. And you don’t have to do it perfectly to heal. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Sex, Intimacy, and Chronic Pelvic Pain: The Conversation We Need to Have (with Vanessa Blackstone) | 05 Jun 2026 | 01:16:30 | |
Let's talk about the part of chronic pelvic pain that doesn't get discussed nearly enough. Sex. Intimacy. Navigating Relationships. The fear that your partner might leave. The pressure to push through discomfort. In this episode, I'm joined by my friend and colleague Vanessa Blackstone, Executive Director of the Pain Psychology Center, for an honest and nuanced conversation about sex, intimacy, chronic pelvic pain, and healing. Together, we explore the ways shame, cultural conditioning, people-pleasing, and nervous system patterns can shape our relationship with sex and our bodies. We also explore: • Why conversations about sex are often missing from the chronic pain and mind-body healing space • The cultural messages many women receive about sex, pleasure, and their bodies • How people-pleasing and perfectionism can impact intimacy • Why creating safety with yourself matters before creating safety with a partner • Dating and navigating intimacy while living with chronic pelvic pain • Rebuilding trust with your body after years of symptoms This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt disconnected from their body, afraid of intimacy, or unsure how to move forward when pain has impacted their relationship with sex. You are not broken. You are not alone. And there is another way forward. Connect with Vanessa: Vanessa’s Substack: https://substack.com/@vanessablackstone Connect with Rachel: Book A Pelvic Pain Strategy Session Get on the waitlist for Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain (doors opening again this summer)
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| Your Pain Flare Pep Talk | 02 Oct 2025 | 00:07:17 | |
If you’ve ever found yourself in the middle of a pain flare—overwhelmed, distressed, and just wishing someone could remind you that you’re okay—this episode is for you. In today’s episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, I’m offering you a short pep talk you can come back to again and again. These are the reminders I wish I’d had in my own hardest moments This pep talk is designed to support you when you need it most: ✨ During high-sensation, high-distress moments ✨ When fear and frustration feel overwhelming ✨ When you need a reminder that your healing journey is still unfolding Remember, flares are a normal part of healing. How you move through them can shift how your brain and body respond in the future. This episode will help you practice meeting flares with self-compassion, validation, and safety — because you don’t have to navigate them alone. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How to Navigate Pain Flares: Stop Fixing, Start Soothing | 25 Sep 2025 | 00:25:53 | |
If you’ve ever been in the middle of a pain flare, you know how fast the fear, urgency, and “I need to fix this right now” thoughts can take over. But here’s the truth: Flares don’t mean you’re failing, and they don’t mean you’re going backwards. They’re actually a normal part of the healing process. In this episode, I’ll invite you to consider a new way to approach flares — one that doesn’t rely on scrambling to urgently fix your symptoms (which never worked in the first place), but instead helps you soothe your nervous system and move through flares with more safety and ease. Here’s what you’ll learn: ✨ Why flares happen (and why you don’t need to figure out the “why” in the moment) ✨ The difference between “fixing” your pain vs. “soothing” your nervous system ✨ How to create your own individualized plan to navigate future flares with less fear and more ease ✨ A powerful reframe that helps you see flares as opportunities, not setbacks Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Outcome Independence Explained (and How to Actually Practice It) | 18 Sep 2025 | 00:21:12 | |
One of the most requested topics I get when it comes to healing chronic pelvic pain is outcome independence. In this episode, I share: What outcome independence is and why it matters for healing Why it feels so hard to practice (and why that’s completely normal) How radical acceptance and self-compassion are the essential tools that make outcome independence possible You’ll hear me share my own story of resisting self-compassion, why it felt so uncomfortable at first, and how it ultimately became the key to creating safety with myself and teaching my nervous system that pain was no longer needed. Listen in and learn how to: Stop measuring your progress only by whether symptoms change Practice radical acceptance Practice self-compassion Build a safe and secure relationship with yourself, no matter what your symptoms are doing. Because the point of this work isn’t to get better at enduring pain — it’s to teach your nervous system that you no longer need it. ✨ Tune in now and start practicing outcome independence with more compassion and ease. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| The Mind-Body Approach: Your Path to Healing Chronic Pelvic Pain (Understanding Pain Series Ep 5) | 11 Sep 2025 | 00:22:17 | |
What exactly is a mind-body approach to healing chronic pain In this episode, I break down: Why separating “mind” and “body” in Western medicine has left so many people stuck How pain becomes chronic, and why fear of pain fuels the cycle The role of chronic stress, trauma, and self-abandonment in keeping your nervous system on high alert Why pain is a form of protection (not proof of damage) The four steps of my Pelvic Pain Freedom Formula—a practical framework to help you partner with your nervous system and heal Here’s the key takeaway I want you to leave with: If pain is danger, the solution is safety. This episode will help you understand what a mind-body approach really means—and why it’s the missing link in healing chronic pelvic pain. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Become Your Own Symptom Detective: How to Spot Neuroplastic Pain (Understanding Pain Series Ep. 4) | 04 Sep 2025 | 00:32:40 | |
How do you know if your pain might be neuroplastic? That’s the focus of today’s episode, because understanding this difference is one of the most important steps in healing. If your pain is nervous system-generated rather than structural, that means there is so much more hope for your healing. You don’t have to be 100% certain right now. Think of this episode as helping you gather clues, like symptoms detective, so you can start to build your case. In this episode, you’ll hear: The most common times neuroplastic symptoms begin (stress, trauma, after procedures, or following infections) Dr. Howard Schubiner’s FIT Criteria—Functional, Inconsistent, Triggered—and how they help identify nervous system-driven pain Why physical findings like tight muscles or trigger points are real, but most often NOT the root cause How to reframe common pelvic pain diagnoses through a neuroplastic lens Why pain is always real, and determining the type of pain you have helps to guide your approach to healing If you recognize yourself in even a piece of what I shared today, I want you to know: there is real hope for change. You and your body are always on the same team. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How Pain Becomes Chronic: Why Your Brain Can Learn Pain… and Unlearn It (Understanding Pain Series Ep. 3) | 28 Aug 2025 | 00:27:20 | |
In this episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, I explain how pain becomes chronic, and why neuroplastic pain is the most common cause of ongoing symptoms. You’ll hear: The 3 types of pain, and why neuroplastic pain is different The two main pathways into chronic pelvic pain — (with real-life examples) How the pain–fear cycle wires pain into the nervous system Why the brain can learn pain (and also unlearn it) By the end, you’ll understand: Chronic pain does not always mean tissue damage Fear is fuel for pain — but safety is fuel for healing If the brain can learn pain, it can unlearn it Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Pain Science 101: The Basics You Need to Know (Understanding Pain Series Ep. 2) | 21 Aug 2025 | 00:17:30 | |
In this episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, I explain how pain works when we do have tissue damage, and how we can also have pain without any tissue damage. You’ll learn why pain is always about protection, not just injury, and how this changes the way we must approach healing. You’ll hear: How the brain decides whether to create pain (and why context matters more than you think) How tissues heal reliably within predictable timelines Examples of pain without damage By the end, you’ll understand: Your pain is always real, even if it isn’t coming from damaged tissues Fear and belief play a powerful role in how pain is created and felt If you’ve ever wondered how you can still hurt after “everything looks normal,” this episode will give you a new, science-backed lens — and more hope than you’ve likely been given before. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach.myflodesk.com/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Rethinking Pain: A New Model (Understanding Pain Series Ep. 1) | 21 Aug 2025 | 00:13:47 | |
Most of us were taught the old model of pain: that it always starts in the body and reflects tissue damage. But science has moved far beyond that — and the old model is outdated, incomplete, and often misleading. In this episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, I break down why the old model leaves so many people stuck, scared, and without real answers. Then I introduce the new model of pain: one that recognizes pain as a protective response generated by the brain, not just a signal from the body. My hope is that this episode gives you a fresh framework for understanding pain — and reassurance that healing is possible, even if past treatments haven’t worked. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How I Got Here: My Journey of Healing Chronic Pelvic Pain | 21 Aug 2025 | 00:41:56 | |
Chronic pelvic pain can take over every part of your life — physically, emotionally, mentally, and socially. For years, I lived in constant fear, chasing answers that never seemed to fit, and wondering if I’d ever get my life back. In this first episode of The Heal Your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast, I share my personal healing story — from the first confusing symptoms and endless rounds of tests, to the treatments and approaches that didn’t work, and the turning point when I finally discovered the mind-body approach that changed everything. Whether you’re brand new to the mind-body approach or have been piecing it together on your own, my hope is that this story offers clarity, validation, and hope that healing is possible for you too. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach.myflodesk.com/painflareplan Learn more about my self-paced course Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/course Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| The Heal your Chronic Pelvic Pain Podcast Trailer | 13 Aug 2025 | 00:03:12 | |
You’re not broken — and you can heal from chronic pelvic pain. I’m Rachel Gofman, pelvic pain coach and physical therapist who’s been where you are. After years of searching for relief and navigating misdiagnoses, I found lasting healing through a mind-body approach, and now I help others do the same. In this podcast, you’ll learn how to partner with your nervous system, understand the science behind your symptoms, and use practical tools to move from fear and frustration to safety and confidence. Whether you’re brand new to a mind-body approach or have been exploring it for a while, this show will give you the clarity, tools, and hope you need to get unstuck and return to living a full and empowered life while you heal. Your next step toward healing starts now — subscribe and join me each week. Want my FREE Pain Flare Plan to help you feel more in control during symptom spikes? Grab it at: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/painflareplan Please Remember: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| How To Trust Yourself (with Anna Holtzman) | 22 May 2026 | 01:01:06 | |
In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and colleague, Anna Holtzman, for a conversation about self-trust, visibility, nervous system healing, and what happens after symptoms stop being the center of your life. We talk about the often-overlooked phase of healing where life starts opening back up again… and how terrifying that can feel when your nervous system has learned to associate visibility, expansion, creativity, and authenticity with danger. Together, we explore:
This episode is for anyone who feels stuck between wanting more for their life and feeling terrified to fully step into it. About Anna: Anna Holtzman is a licensed therapist and coach who helps high-achieving women move through the fear of visibility and emerge into a truer expression of their work and identity. After 15 years in TV and publishing, Anna experienced firsthand how burnout, chronic pain, and repeated self-silencing can arise when success is driven by pressure rather than self-trust. Her own healing led her to nervous-system-informed tools that helped her reconnect with her voice and show up more honestly in her work. Now she supports other women in doing the same, melting through imposter syndrome, bringing their most authentic visions to life, and allowing themselves to be seen without performing. She lives in Queens with her husband, stepdaughter, and three orange cats, and hosts the podcast How to Trust Yourself. Connect with Anna:
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| Client Story: Shawna's IC symptoms had her frozen in fear. Now she's training for a ballroom competition. | 15 May 2026 | 01:04:29 | |
Shawna spent nearly three years doing everything right. She saw the specialists. She did the rounds of antibiotics (eight of them). She cut out every food on the IC list and tracked her symptoms by the hour. She had a compassionate pelvic PT in her corner. She had done everything she was supposed to do. But she was still having debilitating symptoms. And she was still terrified. Her healthcare providers were doing their absolute best, but they were running out of new ways to help her. So her pelvic PT referred her to me. Now, Shawna is training for her next ballroom competition in August. She took three international trips in three months. She is setting boundaries, speaking up for herself, and she often forgets she ever had symptoms at all. In this episode, Shawna shares her full story. The diagnosis that changed how she thought about her body. The way dance, her biggest passion, became her biggest trigger. The loneliness of living with symptoms that the people in your life can never understand. And how she got to where she is now, living her life beyond chronic pelvic pain. I am so grateful to Shawna for being willing to share her story so openly and honestly. It takes courage, and I know it's going to mean so much to the people listening. We talk about:
If you've been told your pain is something you just have to live with, this episode is for you. Resources & Links:
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| Your Future Self (Part 2): The Practice | 01 May 2026 | 00:22:51 | |
Last week I talked about the concept. This week, I'm giving you the practice. The Future Self Visualization is a guided imagery practice that up until now has only lived inside my program, Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain. It was a big part of my own healing. I listened to some version of this almost every single day for years. Until I healed. Until I became my future self. In this episode:
Before you press play: find somewhere safe to sit or lie down where you won't be disturbed. You'll want to close your eyes for part of this. Ready to stop just visualizing your future self and start becoming her? That’s what I help you do inside Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain. Doors Close TONIGHT 5/1 at midnight. When doors reopen at the end of June, the price goes up. Resources & Links: Follow me on Instagram: @thepelvicpaincoach Get Your Free Pain Flare Plan (download): https://thepelvicpaincoach/painflareplan Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| Connecting with Your Future Self (and Becoming Her) | 24 Apr 2026 | 00:24:45 | |
There's a version of you who has already healed. Who feels safe in her body. Whose life is no longer consumed by pain. Who is living the life you've been dreaming of. And, she's closer than you think. In this podcast episode, I discuss practice that changed everything for me in my own healing: connecting with your future self. Not as a theoretical concept. As a decision-making tool. Because when you're in pain, everything narrows down to: how do I feel better right now? And that urgency keeps you stuck in the same patterns that created the pain in the first place. What shifted things for me the most was learning to ask a different question: If I knew I was going to get there... what would I do right now? In this episode, I walk you through how to actually start thinking and making decisions from that place. And I share a deeply personal moment where this practice carried me through one of the hardest days of my healing journey.
If you’re ready to stop doing this alone and actually start becoming her, I’d love to support you inside Beyond Chronic Pelvic Pain.
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| Why You’re Still In Pain and What To Do About It (Free Masterclass) | 17 Apr 2026 | 00:05:53 | |
If you’ve been doing everything right… and you’re still in pain, this episode is for you. In this short episode, I’m directing you to a free masterclass I created: “Why You’re Still In Pain, And What To Do About It.” What you might be missing So when nothing shows up on testing, or your symptoms continue after something has been treated, you’re often left without real answers. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t answers.
Watch the Free Masterclass 👉 Click here to watch If you’re feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, this is your next step.
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||
| The Validation Trap: A Hidden Block to Healing Chronic Pelvic Pain | 10 Apr 2026 | 00:16:03 | |
In this episode, I’m talking about something I see all the time with my clients, and something I personally experienced for a long time: The push-pull between validation and empowerment. And how the very thing that once helped you survive… might now be covertly blocking your ability to move forward. In this episode, we talk about:
Or in a way that keeps you stuck, cycling through how hard and unfair this is?
Inside the program, you’ll learn how to:
You don’t have to figure this out alone. 👉 Learn more here: https://thepelvicpaincoach.com/healing-program Doors are currently open, but enrollment is closing at the end of April. Healing is possible for you. Rooting for you, always 💜 Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. | |||