When a baby dies, everyone understands that a family is grieving.
But somewhere in our healthcare system, we often forget something incredibly important:
Someone still gave birth.
Their body is still postpartum. Their hormones still change. Their milk may still come in. Their family still has to figure out how to go home, care for other children, return to work, navigate relationships, and somehow live inside a reality they never expected.
And too often, professional support ends at discharge.
In Episode 97, I'm introducing the next chapter of this podcast, and the reason Pregnancy, Loss and Motherhood has become the Grief-Informed Perinatal Care Podcast.
This isn't simply a podcast about my story anymore.
It's about the practice.
It's about what doulas, nurses, midwives, therapists, newborn care specialists, chaplains, hospital teams, and other perinatal professionals can do differently when grief enters the room.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why grief-informed care and trauma-informed care are not the same thing
- The massive gap between hospital bereavement care and what happens after discharge
- Why postpartum care cannot disappear because a baby died
- What it really means to provide family-centered care after pregnancy or infant loss
- Why partners, siblings, grandparents, and the larger family system matter
- The importance of continuity of care from hospital to home
- Why professional grief, secondary trauma, and burnout belong in this conversation
- What my own stillbirth experience taught me about the enormous impact one provider can have
- The difference between providers who avoided my grief and the ones who helped me survive it
- One question every professional should answer before a bereaved family leaves their care
Your Grief-Informed Takeaway
Before the next bereaved family leaves your care, ask: