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Don’t Get Got09 Sep 202601:06:00

Dating red flags, relationship scammers, social media personas, and trusting your intuition. Erica and Milah are breaking down how to spot the signs before you get got.

This week, the Good Moms get into Erica’s return to dating, the lessons she’s already learning as a newly single mom, and whether men and women can really have platonic friendships. Then it’s time for the “news of the Instagrams,” including the fake NFL player accused of scamming women, Yada Awakening, performative relationships, internet experts, and the danger of believing everything someone sells you online.

Plus, Erica and Milah react to Raven-Simoné and get into interracial relationships, cultural understanding, and what it means to be with someone who may never fully understand your lived experience.

The lesson this week? Stop being a slave to the image, trust your gut, strengthen your “real nigga radar,” and sometimes… get off the internet and touch some grass.

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Reparenting Yourself While Raising 5 Kids02 Sep 202601:26:34

Divorce, single motherhood, dating after marriage, and rebuilding your identity after becoming a wife at 18—Kristel David is getting honest about starting over as a single mom of five.

Kristel joins Erica and Milah to talk about becoming an NFL wife at 18, making over $400K teaching relationship advice centered around keeping men happy, and eventually confronting her own “pick me” beliefs. She opens up about decentering men, dating after divorce, reparenting herself while raising five daughters, and temporarily changing her custody schedule so she could rebuild mentally, emotionally, and financially.

Plus, Kristel shares what it was like becoming the “Disneyland mom,” the guilt mothers carry when they need a break, and why sometimes putting your own mask on first is necessary.

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Single Moms Are Back Outside!26 Aug 202600:51:55

Erica and Milah talk about single motherhood, dating, raising daughters, and parenting in the age of social media. As their girls get older, the Good Moms are officially entering their “stern mom era” and questioning how much parents should push their kids to succeed while still giving them space to become themselves.

They get into kids and technology, education, social media, and beauty standards for young girls after seeing a second grader wearing a lace front. How young is too young for wigs, nails, and grown-up beauty trends? And what are moms unintentionally teaching their daughters through the way they talk about their own bodies?

Then Erica is officially back outside. She joins Raya, accepts the Slutty Summer Challenge, talks about navigating dating as a single mom, and reveals why her daughter has decided her mother should remain a “Single Pringle.”

In this episode:

  • Single motherhood, dating, and getting back outside
  • Erica joins Raya
  • Raising confident, independent daughters
  • Kids, social media, technology, and education
  • Second graders, lace fronts, and beauty standards
  • Body image and what mothers model for their daughters
  • Dating someone your friend has already dated
  • The Slutty Summer Challenge
  • Bad Choices of the Week
  • Tarot Time

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Talking to Kids About Sex19 Aug 202601:04:56

Welcome back! Erica and Milah are officially entering a new era of motherhood: raising daughters through middle school, puberty, changing bodies, and conversations about sex and consent.

As their girls grow up, the Good Moms unpack what it means to parent differently than they were parented. They talk about body autonomy, boundaries, pleasure, sexual shame, safety, and how to have honest, age-appropriate conversations with your kids even when you don't have all the answers yourself.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Milah’s emotional first middle-school drop-off

• Navigating puberty while co-parenting

• Why you might need to be your kid’s first “gentle bully”

• Teaching kids about consent, boundaries, and unsafe behavior

• Why “stranger danger” doesn't tell kids the whole story

• Raising girls without shame around their bodies and sexuality

• Talking about crushes, pleasure, and self-exploration

• Breaking generational patterns around sex and womanhood

• Why boy moms need to be having these conversations too

• Back-to-school baby daddy drama, middle-school memories, and gray pubes

Because the “sex talk” isn't really one talk, and waiting until your kids are ready to have it might mean waiting too long.

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Probably Don’t F**k Your BD12 Aug 202601:07:53

Happy Hump Day, Tribe 💛

After being on the road for over a month, the Good Moms are finally recording from the comfort of their own homes, and they have A LOT to catch up on. Erica and Milah settle back in, decompress from a very eventful summer, and get into all the weird, wild, vulnerable, and hilarious things that happened while they were away.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Erica’s haunted hotel experience in Ohio + the vivid dreams that followed

• Feeling unprotected by men in spaces where you thought you were safe

• Learning to speak up for yourself, your safety, and your body

• Why you probably shouldn’t f**k your baby daddy

• Erica considers officially entering the foot pic economy

• Milah and Orlando contemplate a very NSFW retirement plan

• Milah survives camping with kids, bears, and 100+ degree weather

• The kids are heading back to school and entering new chapters

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REPLAY - Co-Parenting Forever feat. Jess Hilarious 05 Aug 202601:12:34

This week, Good Moms are joined by comedian, digital creator, host on the syndicated morning radio show "The Breakfast Club", and author Jess Hilarious. The ladies talk about navigating co-parenting with exes, setting boundaries in new relationships, and balancing independence with partnership. They also get into communication, accountability, and recognizing patterns in both parenting and dating.

You can expect to hear:

  • Accountability and recognizing personal patterns in love and parenting
  • Gender roles and shifting expectations in modern relationships
  • Parenting styles, discipline, and raising kids with structure vs flexibility
  • Protecting children while still allowing them to grow and learn
  • The influence of social media on relationships and parenting decisions
  • Public perception vs real-life identity
  • Managing privacy while living a public-facing life
  • Emotional awareness and maturity in adult relationships
  • Healing from past relationship experiences
  • Lifestyle habits, including health, wellness routines, and body maintenance
  • Financial responsibility and stability within relationships
  • Friendship dynamics and support systems
  • Navigating trust, loyalty, and respect in partnerships
  • A listener story focused on relationship decision-making and consequences

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Summary: 

Before Jess Hilarious ever had dreams of telling jokes in front of sold-out arenas across the country, being featured on Wild-’n-Out, or becoming a cohost on The Breakfast Club, Jess dreamt of marrying her high school sweetheart and raising a family together in their hometown of Baltimore, Maryland. In hopes that having her partner’s child would solidify this outcome, Jess became pregnant at nineteen but begrudgingly learned that the vision she had for her life—as a wife and mother—would have to be reimagined.

After multiple attempts at a relationship between her and her son’s father failed, Jess accepted that, while they would never get married, they were forever linked by the lifetime commitment of raising a child together. With her trademark wit and perspective, Jess shares her experiences with valuable and vulnerable insight for coparents who struggle with what it means to put their children first while protecting them from the ups and downs of adult relationships. ’Til Death Do We Parent is an inspirational journey to coparenting with ease and humor.

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Pretty and Petty 29 Jul 202601:29:56

Happy Hump Day, Tribe! We're coming to you from the heart of Costa Rica, where we're in the middle of hosting our 22nd Good Vibes Retreat. Surrounded by nature and our incredible community, this conversation is an honest reflection on healing, heartbreak, friendship, and giving yourself permission to grow. So settle in, take a deep breath, and join us for another Jungle Edition of Good Moms Bad Choices.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

  • Behind the scenes of the 22nd Good Vibes Retreat
  • Heartbreak, healing, and "crashing out"
  • Why shame steals joy—and how giving yourself more grace changes everything
  • Learning to trust yourself instead of living in fear
  • How constantly saying "be careful" may be limiting our children
  • The importance of speaking life into other women instead of tearing them down
  • This week's Bad Choices, Tarot, and more

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More Than Just a Mom ft. Aazhia22 Jul 202601:32:33

It's HUMP DAY and the Good Moms are joined by artist, fashion designer, creative director, and single mother Aazhia for a raw conversation about motherhood, femininity, ambition, and refusing to lose yourself after becoming a parent.

Together, they unpack why women are expected to sacrifice their identity for motherhood, how single moms navigate dating and independence, and why being a great mother doesn't require becoming a smaller version of yourself. From ADHD and creativity to relationships, sexuality, and raising sons, this conversation is an honest reminder that women deserve to be fully expressed in every season of life.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

  • Why motherhood shouldn't cost you your identity
  • Dating as a single mom and choosing yourself
  • The pressure women feel to sacrifice for relationships
  • Raising sons while embracing your femininity
  • Creativity, entrepreneurship, and building your own path
  • ADHD, mental health, and finding your flow
  • Why women are conditioned to shrink themselves
  • Learning to love being single
  • Balancing sensuality with motherhood
  • Bad Decisions, dating horror stories, and teenage chaos

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MINISODE- BODY COUNT 16 Jul 202600:04:24

Body count. It's one of the internet's favorite debates—but who actually benefits from the conversation?

In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts unpack the double standards behind "body count" culture, why women continue to be shamed for their sexuality, and how that stigma distracts from what really matters: safe sex, honest conversations, and knowing your status.

They share personal experiences with sexual shame, challenge outdated ideas about purity and worth, and remind listeners that confidence, consent, and sexual wellness will always matter more than a number.

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The Internet Is Ruining Us15 Jul 202601:25:46

This week, the Good Moms are joined by comedians, creators, and Dam Internet, You Scary! hosts Patrick Cloud and Tahir Moore for one of the funniest episodes of the season. The four dive into internet culture, conspiracy theories, dating, polyamory, strip clubs, masturbation, marriage, fatherhood, and the wild rabbit holes that somehow become everyday conversations.

What starts as a conversation about building a podcast from two iPhones quickly spirals into hilarious debates about aliens, OnlyFans, red flags, church's chicken, and why the internet has everyone questioning reality.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

  • How Patrick & Tahir built Dam Internet, You Scary! from scratch
  • The craziest internet rabbit holes they've fallen into
  • Aliens, conspiracy theories & the Mandela Effect
  • Polyamory, open relationships & modern dating
  • Honest conversations about marriage and commitment
  • The funniest strip club stories you've ever heard
  • Masturbation, sex toys & guilty pleasures
  • Trigger Roulette: rapid-fire takes on feminism, patriarchy, fatherhood, cannabis & more
  • Why the internet is both entertaining and absolutely exhausting
  • Horror stories that prove truth is stranger than fiction

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MINISODE - IN YOUR 20s 09 Jul 202600:05:08

Your 20s are full of lessons—but some don't have to be learned the hard way.

In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts share five things they wish they had known in their 20s. From learning the power of saying "no" and recognizing what low self-esteem really looks like, to rethinking hypersexuality, honoring your body, and understanding that you're already enough, this conversation is packed with honest reflections and hard-earned wisdom.

They also discuss why knowing your HIV status, getting tested regularly, and understanding prevention options are essential acts of self-love—regardless of your relationship status. Whether you're in your 20s or simply reflecting on the journey, this episode is a reminder that healing starts with knowing yourself, trusting your voice, and choosing yourself first.

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Bad Girls. Good Moms. Ft. BTL (Winter + Chy)08 Jul 202601:09:30

It’s hump day and the Good Moms are joined by Winter Blanco and Chy Fontenette, hosts of the Behind the Likes podcast, for a hilarious, unfiltered conversation about friendship breakups, unexpected pregnancy, sex, cheating, boundaries, and why women will fight harder for a man than they will for their female friendships.

The four get into the six-month fallout that almost ended Winter and Chy's relationship, whether men and women can actually be "just friends," pregnancy hormones, porn, Plan B, and what it takes to build a successful business without losing your best friend in the process.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

  • The friendship breakup that almost ended Behind the Likes
  • Why women give men more grace than their female friends
  • Winter's unexpected pregnancy and the conversations that changed everything
  • Can men and women ever really be just friends?
  • Porn, pregnancy hormones, sex, and dating while your life is changing
  • Building a business with your best friend without ruining the friendship
  • Trigger: rapid-fire takes on friendship, motherhood, relationships, and more
  • Bad Choice of the Week + Tarot + Affirmations

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The Patriarchy is Failing Men Ft. Deante Kyle01 Jul 202601:33:46

This week, the Good Moms are joined by Deante' Kyle, creator and host of the Grits & Eggs Podcast, for a conversation that challenges everything we think we know about masculinity, patriarchy, fatherhood, accountability, and modern relationships.

From breaking down why "red pill" content has taken over the internet to discussing why boys are often deprived of affection, Deante offers a perspective that is thoughtful, funny, and guaranteed to spark conversation. The group dives into gender roles, religion, power, emotional intimacy, and what it really means to raise emotionally healthy men in today's world.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

 

  • Why Deante believes patriarchy hurts men just as much as women
  • A powerful conversation about fatherhood, emotional intimacy, and raising boys
  • Why accountability feels so rare in modern relationships and society
  • Religion, power, and the stories we've inherited about gender roles
  • Red pill culture, dating discourse, and why outrage keeps winning online
  • The surprising connection between affection, masculinity, and how men learn to love
  • Trigger: rapid-fire takes on feminism, religion, fatherhood, accountability, and more
  • Bad Choice of the Week: relationship dilemmas, parenting questions, and navigating difficult conversations

This episode doesn't aim to settle the debate—it invites one. Tune in for an honest, nuanced conversation about modern masculinity, healthy relationships, parenting, and the cultural narratives shaping the way men and women relate to each other.

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🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

Connect with us:

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I Used To Be A Pick-Me Ft. Via24 Jun 202601:28:54

This week, the Good Moms sit down with creator and liberated baddie, Via, for a raw, hilarious, and deeply healing convo on pick-me culture, sex work, motherhood, and becoming the main character in your own life.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • How Via went from “pick-me” dating advice to empowering women online
  • The connection between trauma, sex work, and calling dissociation “empowerment”
  • Why leaving a mentally abusive relationship unlocked her feminine rage
  • How acupuncture + somatic therapy changed everything!
  • The truth about performative sex, porn, and what she actually wants now
  • Why safe female friendships can feel more protective than a man
  • Reparenting yourself while parenting your child
  • Via in the Trigger hot seat plus a very on-brand “bad choice” at the spa

 

Via opens up about growing up without much guidance, entering sex work at 20, and how her journey helped her walk away from toxic love, reparent herself, and choose herself for the first time. The ladies get into safety, patriarchy, friendship, pussy power, and why sometimes your whole life changes after one needle and one breakup. Tune in to hear how this week’s tarot card pull (hello, Nine of Pentacles) affirms the entire conversation!

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Pussy Healing in the Patriarchy17 Jun 202601:20:31

Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules?

The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who “don’t see color” but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle
  • How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men
  • The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy
  • Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules
  • Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents’ mistakes
  • Feeling “over-inspired and under-nourished” by the internet and seeking solitude
  • How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release
  • The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing

 

This episode is for women in their “I’m overwhelmed but still evolving” era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead.

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🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈

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Good Mom's be Gay(ish)11 Jun 202601:13:52

This week, the Good Moms are asking a very important question: Are you a lesbian for real?

 

Erica and Milah get into everything from Daphne Joy’s leaked sex tape to bisexual flirting, Milah’s affinity for soft studs, and why women seem to get crucified forever for choices they made years ago. The moms unpack the internet’s obsession with tearing down beautiful women, why society gives men a pass while women become cautionary tales, and whether technology has made public humiliation a form of entertainment. The ladies also talk about how to navigate having conversations with your kids about Pride and all things LGBTQ+, and their own queer escapades.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why people seem to love watching beautiful women fall from grace

• The double standards facing women like Nia Long, Vivica Fox, and Daphne Joy

• Why drugs, bad decisions, or messy relationships never justify exploitation

• The risks and realities of filming sex tapes, sending nudes, and navigating intimacy in the digital age

• A conversation about "high value" men, baby mama stigma, and why every woman deserves dignity regardless of her relationship status

• Milah's latest encounter with a soft stud and why flirting with women can be harder than flirting with men

• Why Erica might be gay... until the real lesbians show up

• Why the Good Moms proudly identify as toxic bi's

• Chavaunist pillow princess jealous bisexuals

• Talking to kids about Pride and all things LGBTQ. When do you do it? 

 

Bad Choice of the Week: When a hookup (or lack thereof) with a podcast guest doesn't exactly go according to plan.

 

Tune in for a hilarious and honest conversation about sexuality, public judgment, internet pile-ons, old Hollywood, modern dating, and why women deserve more grace than the internet is willing to give them.

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🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

 

Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈

https://theplay.la/apply/

 

Connect with us:

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The Kids Are Fine! 03 Jun 202601:35:52

This week on Good Moms Bad Choices, Erica and Milah are talking mom guilt, summer pressure, and the realization that the kids are probably doing just fine.

As summer approaches and the kids invade the house 24/7, the Good Moms unpack the reality of modern motherhood: trying to create “core memories,” keep up with overachieving moms, manage work, relationships, and still remember to feed yourself (and maybe smoke a little weed in peace).

They get raw about comparison culture, over-scheduled childhoods, and how the shit we went through as kids quietly creeps into how we parent today. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough, this one’s for you.

You can also expect to hear

  • Why Erica says mom guilt is made up by the patriarchy
  • The pressure to create “magical summers” and core memories (and why that’s exhausting as hell)
  • How comparison culture, school moms, and social media are making parenting feel like a never-ending performance
  • Moms who are running themselves into the ground trying to do it all (STEM camps, activities, enrichment, all of it)
  • The radical idea that the kids are probably doing just fine
  • Bad Choice of the Week: Falling for yet another love-bombing white man.
  • Whorie Time: A threesome of chaos: Larry, his brother, and the broker — an intertwined hoe-tale you don’t see coming.

 

Tune in for a funny, honest, slightly high conversation about motherhood, mom guilt, summer expectations, race, dating, and giving yourself a lot more grace. Perfect for single moms, co-parents, conscious parents, gentle parents, and retired whores raising humans who just want to feel less alone.

 

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Limited time discount on our Good Vibes Retreat when you use promo

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈

https://theplay.la/apply/

Connect with us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

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Stop Shaming Single Moms, Sarah27 May 202601:05:42

This week, the Good Moms are calling BS on the internet’s obsession with shaming single moms.

 

Erica and Milah tap in about Dr. Sarah and all the “high value” think pieces that act like a woman’s worth is measured by how many kids she has and whether somebody’s calling her “wife.” They break down why that mindset is dangerous for Black single moms especially, how it keeps women stuck in trash relationships, and why your value has nothing to do with your relationship status.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Why single moms are not the problem, no matter what the algorithm says
  • The difference between holding your friends accountable and publicly clowning women for clicks
  • How fear of being a “single mom” keeps people in relationships they should’ve left five years ago
  • Real talk on baby daddies, boundaries, and loving yourself more than you love the potential
  • Bad Choice of the Week: macro shrooms in the desert, calling for backup on kid pickup, and making a new plug friend
  • Whorie Time: a sunrise threesome, one condom left, and two very enthusiastic cannabis kings
  • Why “Don’t Be a Dumb Bitch” is less an insult and more a love note and lifestyle

 

Tune in for a raw, hilarious episode about calling out single‑mom shame, making “bad” choices that still lead to growth, and redefining your worth in love, sex, and motherhood.

 

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Limited time discount on our Good Vibes Retreat when you use promo

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

 

Connect with us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@MILAH_MAPP

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Girls Who Like Girls & Playing it Small Feat Bre-z20 May 202601:08:37

This week on Good Moms, Bad Choices, we sit down with Bre-z, the multi-hyphenate artist, actress, barber, and breakout star from All-American. She opens up about the unplanned audition that landed her on Empire, what it means to "become smaller" when you become bigger, and why she's finally stepping into who she was meant to be at 38. From Atlanta's underground lesbian club scene to Hollywood's brightest stages, Bre-z gives us the raw truth about representation, identity, and reclaiming your power.

 

You can expect to hear:

  • How a random client phone call led to Empire and completely shifted her life trajectory
  • Transitioning from a barber with 20 years of clientele to full-time acting
  • The unique pressure and paranoia that comes with unexpected fame
  • Finding groundedness when you enter Hollywood at the highest level
  • Black lesbian representation on television and the responsibility that comes with it
  • Stepping out of the masculine closet and reclaiming her authentic identity
  • Dating, relationships, and planning a future with intention as a same-sex couple
  • The healing power of water, nature intimacy, and listening to your body
  • How being present and intentional actually changes what shows up for you
  • Self-care rituals: baths, walks, probiotics, and intentional Coca-Colas
  • Why Atlanta lesbians were incredibly cliquish (and still kind of are)
  • Coming into her sexuality without shame or apology
  • Her upcoming music and why she's saving her sluttiest stories for the album
  • Tarot readings, the Seven of Cups, and what the universe was trying to tell her

 

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Bad Dates & Being a Good Mom in Hollywood feat. Chelsea Tavares13 May 202601:42:36

This week, Good Moms are joined by actress, singer, and valley girl through and through, Chelsea Tavares. The ladies talk about navigating single motherhood, dating as a recognizable face in Hollywood, and what it really means to protect your peace — and your kid — while still living your life. They also get into the ever-present bitch-ass nigga epidemic, the Met Gala, and why LA beaches are simply not it.

You can expect to hear:

  • Growing up in the industry and transitioning out of teen roles into adult ones
  • The unique pressure of being a Black actress in Hollywood's casting machine
  • Dating as a single mom — opportunists, love bombers, and the ones who leave you in Paris
  • Why actors (especially the aspiring ones) might be undateable
  • Raising a boy as a single mom and navigating co-parenting with intention
  • Protecting your child's emotional world while still modeling real relationships
  • The "BAN" epidemic and why we need to stop teaching girls to be careful and start teaching boys not to harm
  • Auditioning in the age of self-tapes vs. the magic of being in the room
  • Creating your own content and building confidence as a public figure
  • Coachella, the Met Gala, and the performance of culture vs. actual culture
  • The beauty and exhaustion of being an ambitious, dreaming woman
  • Tarot, mushrooms, and finding gratitude in your own bathtub

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Therapy Wasn't Enough Feat. Inayah06 May 202601:19:12

This week Erica and Milah are joined by Southern songstress, mom, and soon-to-be-bride Inayah. The ladies chat about retired sugar daddies, meeting her Jamaican fiancé at her baby daddy's house, and the near-death birth story that lives at the heart of her new album Therapy Wasn't Enough.

The three chat about what a "soft life" actually feels like in the nervous system once you finally arrive in it, the difference between liking and loving your partner, why you need somebody who can "struggle well," and the work it takes couples to continue to choose each other.

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Co-Parenting Forever feat. Jess Hilarious 29 Apr 202601:12:34

This week, Good Moms are joined by comedian, digital creator, host on the syndicated morning radio show "The Breakfast Club", and author Jess Hilarious. The ladies talk about navigating co-parenting with exes, setting boundaries in new relationships, and balancing independence with partnership. They also get into communication, accountability, and recognizing patterns in both parenting and dating.

You can expect to hear:

  • Accountability and recognizing personal patterns in love and parenting
  • Gender roles and shifting expectations in modern relationships
  • Parenting styles, discipline, and raising kids with structure vs flexibility
  • Protecting children while still allowing them to grow and learn
  • The influence of social media on relationships and parenting decisions
  • Public perception vs real-life identity
  • Managing privacy while living a public-facing life
  • Emotional awareness and maturity in adult relationships
  • Healing from past relationship experiences
  • Lifestyle habits, including health, wellness routines, and body maintenance
  • Financial responsibility and stability within relationships
  • Friendship dynamics and support systems
  • Navigating trust, loyalty, and respect in partnerships
  • A listener story focused on relationship decision-making and consequences

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Summary: 

Before Jess Hilarious ever had dreams of telling jokes in front of sold-out arenas across the country, being featured on Wild-’n-Out, or becoming a cohost on The Breakfast Club, Jess dreamt of marrying her high school sweetheart and raising a family together in their hometown of Baltimore, Maryland. In hopes that having her partner’s child would solidify this outcome, Jess became pregnant at nineteen but begrudgingly learned that the vision she had for her life—as a wife and mother—would have to be reimagined.

After multiple attempts at a relationship between her and her son’s father failed, Jess accepted that, while they would never get married, they were forever linked by the lifetime commitment of raising a child together. With her trademark wit and perspective, Jess shares her experiences with valuable and vulnerable insight for coparents who struggle with what it means to put their children first while protecting them from the ups and downs of adult relationships. ’Til Death Do We Parent is an inspirational journey to coparenting with ease and humor.

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Only Child Energy Feat. Tim Chantarangsu22 Apr 202601:23:42

This week, the Good Moms sit down with podcast host and OG YouTube creator Tim Chantarangsu. The three chat about growing up an only child, building a career from the internet before it was even a “career,” and what it really looks like balancing marriage, s*x, and parenting when you’re exhausted. Tim gets honest about long-distance love, why scheduling sex might actually save your relationship, and how becoming a dad shifted his priorities completely.

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Loving Hard vs. Loving Properly Ft. Teedra Moses15 Apr 202601:23:44

This week, the Good Moms celebrate 420 with Grammy-nominated artist, songwriter, and lioness Teedra Moses.

Teedra opens up about becoming a young single mom of twin boys and raising them into men while figuring life out in real time. The ladies talk about toxic relationships, self-worth, and relationships today, and not settling.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • What raising twin boys taught her about love, discipline, and herself
  • Why “luxury only” applies to more than just lifestyle (yes, even sex 👀)
  • Letting go of expectations around marriage, dating, and living together
  • The difference between loving hard vs. loving properly
  • Rebuilding self-worth after toxic relationships
  • Why being alone can be a power move
  • Bad Choices of the week
  • Teedra in the hot seat for a Trigger round that gets a little wild.

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Post S*x Regret ft. Jst Us Pod08 Apr 202601:12:06

This week, Good Moms are joined by Amber and Jacob from the Jst Us Podcast. The four get into everything from breaking celibacy for the wrong person (and instantly regretting it), to friendship loyalty, late-night link-ups in questionable locations, and what it really means to be honest with your people… even when they don’t want to hear it.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • What breaking celibacy too soon can teach you
  • When (and how) to tell your friend their man isn’t it
  • Why women tend to forgive men faster than their friends
  • Navigating friendship, business, and growing pains
  • Weight loss, discipline, and slipping up
  • Dating in L.A. and the struggle to find something real
  • Sugar daddy eras, independence, and leveling up
  • If you want, I can make it even tighter or give you a more personality-heavy version too.

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When Your Kid Gets Caught01 Apr 202601:10:11

Who Raised These Kids? Oh… Us 😭

 

This week, Erica and Milah talk about identity and alter egos, parenting in the age of TikTok, and the reality check that comes when your kids start acting… a little too grown.

 

They get into the group chat drama that unfolds when kids get caught doing something they shouldn’t, and the tough (but necessary) conversations that follow. From questioning the idea of “bad influences” to learning how to guide kids without losing trust, this episode feels especially real for parents navigating this digital era.

 

You can expect to hear conversations about:

  • Letting go of control as your kids become their own people
  • How social media is shaping behavior earlier than expected
  • Being honest with your kids about the internet and its consequences
  • Health spirals, colonics, and questioning everything we eat
  • A surprisingly passionate whore tip you probably weren’t ready for
  • A listener story that proves revisiting exes is… usually not the move
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Disrupting Wellness & Owning Your Identity ft. Jungle Johanna25 Mar 202601:30:30

This week, Good moms are joined by Miami-based enterTRAINER and wellness instructor Jungle Johanna to chat about Johanna's journey through sobriety and self-discovery, challenging stereotypes in Pilates, and becoming the business woman and educator she is today.

 

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Love is Revolutionary Feat. Supernova Slom 18 Mar 202602:07:59

This week Good Moms are joined by minister, combat veteran, and holistic educator, Supernova Slom. The three talk about modern relationships, radical accountability, the power of the “hug and hold” method, and why Supa Nova believes that the ultimate thing a partner can bring to the table isn't just great sex, but genuine, undeniable peace

Pre-order the expanded re-release of Supa Nova’s book, Man Heal Thyself: The Wellness Warrior's Guide to Self-Mastery in 12 Weeks and Beyond.

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Friendships Need Therapy Too11 Mar 202601:51:42

Our podcast turned 8 years old this week!!!!

In this anniversary episode, Erica and Milah take a moment to reflect on the journey from recording their first episodes on an iPhone to buying a studio space, growing a business, become published authors, and cultivating the community/tribe that they have today.

They ladies chat about what it’s really like building a life and brand together as friends, navigating business, therapy, growth, and the work it takes to maintain a relationship that’s both personal and professional. The number 8 keeps showing up for them lately, symbolizing power, abundance, and new beginnings!

In this episode they also share:

• A road trip story involving a diesel fuel mix-up and a reminder to trust your intuition about people

• Honest reflections on adult friendships and why community matters more than ever

• Stories from retreat attendees and listeners that show how powerful their tribe really is

• Dealing with validation, rejection, desirability, and Bad Choices of the Week from Discord

 

Thank you for all of our tribe members who have been rocking with us! We love and value your support more than you know!

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Managing Motherhood and Mono Polyamory Feat. Abby De La Rosa 05 Mar 202601:45:04

Happy Hump Day!

This week on Good Moms Bad Choices, Erica and Milah are joined by radio personality, DJ, mama of three, and certified Scorpio, Abby De La Rosa.

Before the world knew her as part of a headline, Abby was grinding in radio for nearly a decade street teams, voice work, overnight shifts, Starbucks side hustles, and building her name from the ground up. She opens up about carving out her identity in an industry that told her she didn’t “have the face for radio,” choosing her voice anyway. The three also chat about navigating a very public relationship dynamic, what people misunderstand, and what it feels like to step into a new season in life.

You can expect to hear conversations about:

  • Cutting your hair and reclaiming your power
  • The grind of radio life and building a career before podcasts were a thing
  • Getting pregnant after being told you couldn’t have kids
  • Back-to-back babies, twins, and adjusting to motherhood in the spotlight
  • Growing up deeply religious and redefining partnership on your own terms
  • Imposter syndrome, identity loss, and rebuilding confidence after pouring into everyone but yourself
  • Preteen daughters, Philly parenting moments, and when gentle parenting goes out the window
  • Why women need space to be wild, sensual, and taken care of

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Daddy Issues and Bad Bunny Feat. Eric Dickerson 25 Feb 202601:43:24

Happy Hump Day, Tribe ! 

This week, Good Moms welcome a very special guest, Erica’s dad, NFL Hall of Famer Eric Dickerson. The three talk about love, legacy, and the beliefs we inherit.

Eric shares his old-school views on dating, masculinity, cheating, and how society views single mothers. Erica and Milah listen, challenge, and respond, creating space for a respectful but honest generational exchange.

In this episode you can expect to hear:

• Generational perspectives on relationships and gender roles

• A conversation about infidelity and double standards

• The judgment single moms face in dating

• “Bad Choice of the Week”: Advice for a stay-at-home mom feeling disconnected and tempted by her ex

• A father-daughter exchange about accountability, politics, and public platforms

• Reflections on apology, forgiveness, and rebuilding trust within family

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The Green Flags of Cheating Feat. Marcus Black21 Feb 202601:06:24

 The Black Effect Presents... Good Moms Bad Choices!

💘 It’s Valentine’s Week Tribe!

This week, Erica and Milah sit down with relationship coach and author Marcus Black. Marcus breaks down his “Bulletproof Love” philosophy, what real accountability looks like after betrayal, and the difference between love that’s convenient… and love that costs you something.

You can expect to hear:

  • What “Wild Woman” actually means (and why some men get triggered by it)
  • The truth about submission + why it can take practice even with the right partner
  • How trust is built (and how it gets destroyed)
  • The green flags to look for if you’re considering staying after betrayal
  • Emotional safety from a man’s perspective (and what NOT to do)
  • Religion vs spirituality + why the institution has cooked so many of us

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5 Dating Tips for Single Parents18 Feb 202600:55:56

Happy Hump Day, Tribe. This week, Good Moms talk about what dating actually looks like when you’re a parent (the boundaries, the red flags, the late-night texts). The balance between protecting your peace and still wanting to feel something.

Erica and Milah share five dating tips for single parents, not from a rule book, but from lived experience. If you’re outside, cautiously outside, or just thinking about stepping back in… this one’s for you.

In this episode the ladies talk about:

  • Why dating to be “saved” always backfires
  • Learning how to be alone (and why it becomes fun when you make it a vibe)
  • Being honest from the start and dating from a friendship-first foundation
  • How to spot double standards, and red flags before you’re attached
  • Why you should never blend families too fast or “play house” too soon

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Buckle Up Buttercup: America is a hell of a drug 04 Feb 202600:51:28

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Manifesting A Revolutionary Partner Feat. Lizzy Jeff 28 Jan 202601:29:22

In this episode, Erica and Milah sit down with Lizzy Jeff. The ladies talk about what it’s like to build something over a long period of time, how priorities change as you get older, and the quiet shifts that happen when you stop forcing yourself into certain timelines.

The conversation moves through aging, work, creativity, femininity, and cannabis culture, with Lizzy sharing stories from her 10 years building Zen & Kush and what she’s noticing now about rest, embodiment, and how her body plays a role in decision-making. They also touch on relationships, partnership, and how being clear about what you want can look different in each phase of life.

 

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

  • What it actually takes to sustain a creative project over a decade
  • Conversations about getting older and rethinking timelines around success and life
  • How femininity, leadership, and sensuality can exist at the same time
  • Cannabis as part of ritual, culture, and community
  • Thoughts on rest, embodiment, and listening to your body
  • Reflections on love, dating, and clarity around relationships

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Spiritual STD's and Jumping Timelines21 Jan 202601:24:38

Can a toxic ex leave you physically itchy?

In this episode of Good Moms talk about energy transfer, "spiritually transmitted demons", and what it takes to reinvent yourself when the old version of you no longer fits. From de-centering men (and why that conversation is misunderstood) to centering yourself in a way that finally feels grounding, the girls unpack how survival identities can overstay their welcome.

The girls talk honestly about watching close friends finally leave relationships that no longer serve them, how one big decision can completely change your timeline, and why telling your friends the truth (even when it’s uncomfortable) can be an act of love.Erica shares a vulnerable mushroom realization that made her understand why an old, hyper-guarded version of herself needed to be laid to rest, not erased, not shamed, but honored and released.

Growth is messy, honesty matters, and sometimes the bravest thing you can do is let go of what once kept you safe.

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April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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From Hoe to Housewife: Milah Gets Married 14 Jan 202600:53:13

This week, Good Moms return from a surprise elopement weekend in Las Vegas that included mob wives fits, drunk zip-lining, stripper heels at the altar, joint bachelor/bachelorette shenanigans, and decisions that absolutely lived up to the podcast name! 

This is your reminder that being authentic does pay off! Cheers to Milah & Orlando! The Tribe loves you both very much! 

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This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be. 

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat 

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica 

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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Too Healed to Hoe07 Jan 202601:10:44

Happy New Year Tribe, 

Erica and Milah are happy to be back but are easing into the new year! The ladies chat about Milah's bachelorette party and how she's "retiring" from lesbianism (for now), insecurity vs. preference, UN-learning saving people, and why sometimes you just want snacks and molly water lol. 

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

  • Why January doesn’t need to be about grinding, optimizing, or reinventing yourself and how slowing down can actually be the most aligned choice
  • Are mirrors, selfies, and self surveillance aging us faster?
  • How Milah and Orlando are going to celebrate their Bachelor/ Bachelorette
  • What it means to be “too healed to hoe,” and how sexual freedom can evolve without shame
  • Letting go of the savior complex and learning that not everyone is yours to rescue
  • Why guilt shows up when you rest and how to release it without explaining yourself
  • Trusting your body, intuition, and nervous system over social pressure and internet noise

This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be. 

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (3 LEFT) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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The MAGA Hat in Bali17 Dec 202501:29:21

Happy holidays tribe!

In the last episode of the year, Good Moms reflect on what they will and won't carry with them into 2026, how doom-scrolling quietly messes with your mood, and why anxiety can show up even when life is “fine.” They open up about guilt of doing well while the world feels heavy, parenting in a hyper-digital world, and admitting you don’t actually have it all figured out! 

In this episode you can expect to hear: 

  • Erica’s pool-side Bali experience with a woman wearing a MAGA hat and how it reminded her to protect your energy
  • Taking your children’s phone away, opening an honest conversation about technology, trust, safety, and how childhood conditioning influences parenting decisions.
  • Erica and Milah talk about feeling stretched thin while trying to show up for work, kids, partners, family, and friendships and realizing that spreading energy everywhere isn’t sustainable.
  • Why you need to go further in your boldness
  • How Good Vibes retreat has cultivated real community and lasting friendships
  • Intuition, mushrooms, listening to the body, and discerning what information and energy to trust.
  • Relying less on the internet and more on inner knowing.
  • The episode closes with intentions around release, presence, and entering the next chapter with clearer boundaries, stronger discernment, and a commitment to boldness.

 

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (1 more spots left)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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Is Santa A Dominatrix?10 Dec 202500:50:08

If you’re managing kids, traditions, expectations, and still trying to find a moment for yourself... WELCOME TO THE TRIBE!

This week, Good Moms chat about their Crenshaw mall holiday pictures with Black Santa, mom gift-buying guilt,  their "I still dont like YOU!" list  and some HO-HO-HOLIDAY WHORIES.

You can expect to hear: 

  • Family Pictures with Black Santa at the Crenshaw mall 

  • The pressure to buy the “right” gifts, the procrastination that always wins, and raising kids who suddenly dress like mini adults

  • Why psilocybin, Christmas lights, and budget décor somehow feel like self-care this time of year

  • Go-to holiday DRANKS (coquito, eggnog + Henny, whiskey season) for when bedtime can’t come fast enough!

  • Their holiday alter-egos, from leather-and-lipstick Santa fantasies to “baking in lingerie” energy

  • Holiday party stories that prove moms were out here living long before mom life

  • A Tarot pull that brings in balance, patience, and choosing the high road… even when it’s hard

  • Check out our merch store!!! Holiday gifts for literally everyone you may know: Good Mom, Dad, Kid, Auntie...etc. Use code CYBERMONDAY for 40% off at checkout. 

If you’ve ever felt torn between loving the season and being overwhelmed by it, this episode will make you feel seen, supported, and part of a community that gets it. Share it with a friend though<3! 

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💰🧢👚 40% OFF GMBC MERCH 🧢👚💰

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! You might as well get your holiday shopping out of the way now and buy a mom, dad, auntie, or kid some cuteeee merch from our fully owned and operated BLACK BUSINESS!!! We have something for everyone.

🛫🏝️ 20% OFF GOOD VIBES RETREAT 🛫🏝️

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! We have 2 upcoming trips and only a few more spots left

🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (2 more spots left)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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PATREON

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Shocked In Bangkok03 Dec 202500:59:42

Hey Tribe, Good Moms are back from hosting their 19th retreat in Bali! It's crazy the things that can happen when you listen to your intuition! Right now you can get 20% off the upcoming Good Vibes Retreats in Costa Rica and Jamaica , details at the bottom of the description!

This week the ladies recap their Bali retreat, their "chaotic" experience in Bangkok, and the importance of SLOWING DOWN.

You can expect to hear:

  • The spiritual softness of Bali and the influence it had on the pace of life
  • What it's like raising preteens and the realization that their babies are actually growing up!!
  • Bangkok's " red-light district"
  • Bangkok Ping-pong shows and the grossness of White Men
  • The airport luggage fiasco story

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💰🧢👚 40% OFF GMBC MERCH 🧢👚💰

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! You might as well get your holiday shopping out of the way now and buy a mom, dad, auntie, or kid some cuteeee merch from our fully owned and operated BLACK BUSINESS!!! We have something for everyone.

🛫🏝️ 20% OFF GOOD VIBES RETREAT 🛫🏝️

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! We have 2 upcoming trips and only a few more spots left

🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (2 more spots left)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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Your Pre-Holiday Grounding Session Feat Lizzy Jeff26 Nov 202500:49:44

This week, Good Moms are resurfacing an episode we know you probably need right now.

As the holidays creep in with family drama, emotional burnout, pressure to “be on,” and zero time for yourself, we wanted to bring back a conversation that helps you slow down and remember your power before the season sweeps you up.

We’re revisiting our episode with the magical Lizzy Jeff because it’s grounding, soothing, and low-key a whole self-care ritual in audio form. If you’re already feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or like you need a little feminine reset…this is the one.

You’ll hear:

  • What “toxic goddess culture” looks like in real life (and why you don’t have to be perfect to be in your goddess bag)
  • How to reconnect with your feminine energy on the days you don’t feel divine at all
  • Simple rituals, herbs, roses, and sensory practices that help you get back into your body
  • How to deal with emotional sensitivity without spiraling
  • Why your perception of yourself matters more now than ever
  • How to actually use your “goddess toolbox” when life gets chaotic

We brought this episode back because it genuinely brings you back to you, your softness, your intuition, your pleasure, your peace. And with everything this season demands, you deserve a reminder that you’re allowed to slow down and honor yourself too.

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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Why You Need To Stop Apologizing Feat. Mel Robbins19 Nov 202501:31:13

This week, Good Moms resurface an important conversation with international best-selling author and wellness thought leader, Mel Robbins. The ladies talk about why saying "i'm sorry" is annoying, weakens your power, invalidates your needs, and denies the support that you deserve. Mel leaves us with some science based tips/tools to soothe the nervous system, and gain our power back.

You can expect to hear:

  • How replacing “I’m sorry” with “thank you” shifts responsibility and restores confidence
  • Anxiety in the body: how it starts, how it travels, and what actually helps calm it
  • The story behind Mel’s “High 5 Habit” and the science that makes it work
  • Why taking up space feels uncomfortable for so many women
  • The moment Mel gathered us about “disrespecting our business” and leveling up systems
  • Childhood patterns, internal voices, and how they follow us into adulthood
  • What it looks like to build something out of passion before realizing it’s a real business
  • How saying no can be a power move in negotiations and life
  • Navigating self-doubt, self-rejection, and why affirmations sometimes fall flat
  • The connection between trauma, survival mode, and daily overwhelm
  • Tools like high-fiving your heart to soothe the nervous system
  • Why celebrating yourself, even for the small things, matters more than you think
  • Parenting, identity, and watching our children grapple with the same insecurities we once had

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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My Life & Kid Feat. Parker McKenna Posey12 Nov 202501:25:04

This week Erica & Milah sit down with Parker McKenna Posey AKA Katie from My Wife and Kids about growing up in Hollywood, motherhood at 25, body confidence, birth trauma, and why Parker’s mantra is “I',m a Good Mom first, and a bad btch immediately after.”

 

You can expect to hear:

  • The truth about being a child star turned mom + artist
  • Body image after fame & motherhood
  • Speaking your truth even when it makes people uncomfortable
  • Sex, weed & wellness confessions
  • Patriarchy, pleasure, and the power of women who refuse to shrink

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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Is Every Woman A Witch? Feat. Jessyka Winston05 Nov 202501:42:15

This week Good Moms are joined by founder of Haus of Hoodoo Jessyka Winston to chat what it really means to be a modern day "witch" and why maybe, just maybe, it’s not as scary (or sinful) as they told us in Sunday school!

 

The three unpack how you're the architect of your reality, what it means to “jump timelines,” and why your vibration might be the only protection spell you actually need. Listen, even the baddest witches still need a reminder to believe in themselves!!

 

You can expect to hear:

  • What the hell is a “fixed candle”?
  • The truth about ancestral veneration (and nosy spirits lol)
  • Mommy guilt & mystic grace
  • Why healing isn’t cute but it’s necessary
  • How to stop letting “belief” block your blessings
  • Affirmation: “I am the architect of my own reality.”

 

Light your incense, grab your drink, and remember sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do… is make a “bad” choice. 

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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Christian Witches Do Exist29 Oct 202501:12:43

Happy 7th Halloween with Good Moms!!!

This year Erica and Milah talk about how Christianity scared them out of celebrating Halloween as a kid, discovering that the church has its own "rituals" but condemns "witchcraft" , and respond to some listener horror stories. (The real horror is... people aren't having s*x anymore) 

You can expect to hear:

  • Halloween & witchy protection
  • Bad choices & divine intervention
  • Christians can be witches too
  • Why men can own their Whoredom and women need a "co-signer"
  • Netflix should add a new category called "Whites That Want To Do Better"
  • Listener horror stories: ghosts, stalkers & threesomes
  • Tarot Segment: Eight of Pentacles
  • Affirmation: It’s Scorpio season B*tch"

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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She was a fairy Feat. Flyana Boss22 Oct 202501:26:45

This week Good Moms, are joined with Flyana Boss, the pink-haired, elf-eared duo who met on Hollywood Boulevard, dropped out of music school, and built a non-traditional sisterhood and a career together.

From following Swedish boys to opening for Janelle Monáe; Join the ladies as they talk about fentanyl birth balloons, fake Karens, buffet religions, and share some of their bad choices.

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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Power over Dick Feat. We Talk Back Podcast 15 Oct 202501:01:57

This week, Erica and Milah link up with their Black Effect Network cousins, AJ and TamBam from We Talk Back Podcast, for a conversation about dating YNs, ghost sex stories, living with your partner, and how to stop settling for bullshit.

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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Love, Labels, and Motherhood Feat. The Thick Podcast08 Oct 202501:05:31

This week, Good Moms sit down with Tabria Majors and Mindy from The Thick Podcast and talk  about evolving through different seasons of life. 

Mindy opens up about overcoming religious and cultural guilt to embrace her sexuality, while Tabria shares what motherhood has taught her about balance, body image, and letting go of perfection.

Timestamps:

(08:20) Mindy on coming out and shedding Christian and Caribbean guilt

(9:00) Dating soft men and the double standard around sexuality

(18:22) Making out with your friends

(24:00) Tabria on postpartum, motherhood, and identity after modeling

(30:34) Bad Choice of the week, setting emotional boundaries with friends

(40:00) Navigating conflict within friendships

(45:00) White grandma gets 3 monkeys tattooed on herself to represent her mixed-race grand children

(55:23) Whorie Segment

(58:00) Tarot Segment: Six of Wands

(1:02:12) Affirmation:

  • Don't stress over the things you can't control
  • Scrub A Dub, Double Scrub, leave me the fuck alone
  • Everything I desire, desires me

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Good Moms Bad Choices: Misconceptions of a Wild Mom04 Oct 202501:26:37

The Black Effect Presents... Good Moms Bad Choices!

Motherhood doesn’t mean losing your identity, your sensuality, or your freedom.

This week, Erica and Milah confront the outdated “perfect mom” stereotype and challenge the idea that motherhood means: dressing conservatively, hiding your sex life, or being ashamed of smoking weed.

This episode is a reminder that you can be a loving, responsible parent and still show skin, smoke a blunt, and have good sex. It’s not about being reckless, it’s about being real.

You can expect to hear:

  • The biggest lies society tells about “wild moms”
  • Why it’s perfectly fine to smoke weed
  • How to survive your hoe phase after motherhood
  • The importance of showing kids how to properly clean themselves, even if you need to include props and Nutella
  • Why Banana Republic and kitten heels might be a crime against moms everywhere
  • The line between freedom and “put some damn clothes on, mom!”

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