Parents want to take away pain. We don't want our kids to suffer. But when our children make remarks out of frustration or fear, should we rescue them? Today we share how to shift our response from erasing pain or providing instant reassurance to stepping through questions that lead us to think with biblical and eternal perspective with our kids so they can do the same.

In a world where society promotes self-interests above all else and encourages doing "what feels good" and "living  your own truth," it's imperative that children have intimate knowledge of God's Word. They must be able to center His wisdom on the foundation in which they measure and assess cultural messaging, personal feelings, or emotions. In order to raise kids who think critically and biblically, parents must possess this ability. We must live with a biblical worldview for children to witness and be taught with intention moment by moment.

Are you caught in a spiral of guilt or shame from something in your past? Or in your present? You can live with joy that is present despite circumstances. You can live with strong identity in and through Christ – free from guilt and shame. Today we discuss moving forward in forgiveness and truth and how to stop living in bondage that steals the joy God intends for your life.

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Life seems to move more quickly every day. Sometimes you simply have to stop and make spontaneous choices to play. God created you for more than a work routine. Often, the simplest life brings the most joy.

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Sitting in boredom is a skill your child must learn to embrace. Today we discuss the importance of allowing your child to be bored and how it can bring them closer to you and Christ.

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On a recent walk with my teen daughter, I asked her to share the top three things she believes I did well when raising her. I hope her thoughts encourage you to seek God in all things and look to Him for wisdom when raising the precious children He entrusted to your care.

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The pace of life will never slow down unless you force the change. Are you feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or irritable? There is one cure for all feelings. Today we discuss summer changes for the podcast and the ultimate method for rest that lasts.

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 God created the heart of your child to seek Him and hear His sense of right and wrong. When left unheeded, God's voice becomes quieter until it becomes imperceptible. Before worldly deceptions and cultural values become the guide your child follows, there is a way to lead them to listen for the voice of the Savior.

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The biggest indicators of the condition of your child's heart are the words they speak, the actions they take, and the way they respond to you. If your child cannot respect and respond to your authority, they may never listen to God. Listen to this episode for tips and Scripture for equipping your children to listen to the wisdom God gifts to you, so they will invite His wisdom into their life.

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Parents can't be held accountable for whether our children decide to follow Christ, but we are responsible for growing them in the fullness of knowledge of the Lord. Our walk with Christ and the way we allow Him to carry and create us anew daily will attract our children toward Him. Listen today for tips on creating this atmosphere in your home.

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In a world that seems to be drifting father from the truths of God, what can we do to ensure that our children walk in truth? Today we discuss the top way to shine Christ into the lives of our children, and we are reminded that instead of viewing specific moments in which to try to influence our children for Jesus, our entire life is an opportunity to make Him known.

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A mother's pursuit of a deeper personal walk with Christ can set the tone and temperament of the household. As we mentor Jesus through a life of purity and dignity, our children learn to desire and live above reproach by following the standards established by God. Listen today for scriptural, practical tips to raise a child with a heart set for eternity.

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What a precious gift we offer our children when we teach them to seek and hear God like Jesus. The closest mentor they have will be a parent who lovingly guides them to the feet of Jesus. Will that be you? Listen today to hear truths and tips to guiding your child to see and hear our Heavenly Father like Christ.

https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent%2Fconnected-child-podcast-episode-026---teach-your-child-to-seek-and-hear-god-like-jesus

Do you realize your behavior attracts, or turns your children away from Christ? The small and seemingly insignificant decisions you make can turn them toward - or away - from the life of purpose God has for them. Today we discuss how to determine where you're building your foundation, how it affects you and your children, and what you can do to ensure you each form godly habits that honor and please God.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast-episode-128---how-to-help-children-form-godly-habits

Have you ever felt stuck or overloaded by personal issues that get in the way of parenting the way you want to? In this episode, we discuss Scripture and targeted questions designed to help you move nearer to Christ and parent with freedom and connection.

https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent%2Fconnected-child-podcast-episode-025---facing-hard-stuff-to-become-a-godlier-parent

Memories, trauma, or lack of experience can cause inappropriate behaviors families struggle to resolve. These may be exhibited by the child, or the parent may also have unresolved needs. How can you connect with a hurting child or maintain connection throughout your parenting years? What are ways to build strong attachment? Today we discuss steps to grow these important skills.

https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent%2Fconnected-child-podcast-episode-024---biblical-parenting-through-hard-places

Have you ever stopped to think about what you actually expect from school? Is the institutional public education system in America meeting your expectations and the needs of your unique child? Today we explore the option of homeschool and learn tips on how to begin to establish education at home for your child and family.

https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent%2Fconnected-child-podcast-episode-017---purpose-of-school

Have you ever tossed a desperate bargain to the Lord? In 1 Samuel 1, we learn how Hannah, in despair, muttered a promise that would affect her future and that of her child. Listen today to discover how this lesson teaches us to be stronger examples of Christ for our children and strengthens our walk with God.

https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent%2Fconnected-child-podcast--episode-016---parenting-for-god

The immorality, chaos, and disorder we see in our culture stems from the absence of God's morals within the hearts and minds of society. What happens when parents do not seek the wisdom of God? What happens when generations do not abide by or teach God's truths and morals to those behind them? Today we look at the days of Noah and see that each parent must ask what kind of future they want to leave their children and act before it is too late.

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We live in a time of rapid moral decline when many proclaim that truth is relative. How do parents help children build a strong relationship with Jesus and live by His truths? How do we keep them from following everything the world professes as good and right? Listen today to hear tips and truths to teach your children that God's truth is the only moral compass to follow for true peace and joy.

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What we are today shapes who our children become tomorrow. Today we begin a summer scripture series beginning in Proverbs that will help establish or grow the roots of your child or grandchild to become steadfast, strong followers of Jesus.

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As God created the "inmost" being and knitted your child together, His actions were exclusive, complex, and completed with purpose. God, the Author of Life was involved in planning and forming each inmost area and outer detail of your child's soul and body. Today we share how to recognize helping our child recognize the ways they are unique, but most importantly, how to use their giftings, talents, and interests for God.

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If you yearn for deeper connection to Christ and your child or are ready to stop reactive parenting and focus on the precious and unique child God has entrusted to your care, join me as I share the reason for this podcast. Mothers must purpose to know , love, and follow Jesus, to clearly show Him to our children, or the world will direct them away from Christ. Let's stand together now to protect our children for eternity.

It's true that in the beginning when God created, He exclaimed that what He made was good. However, God proclaimed His creations are good, not that we individually or collectively are. Our human goodness isn't enough for a holy God. So how do we become a godly mom with a life that honors God? How do we achieve Christlike character we can mentor to our children? Whether your children are tiny, teens, or grown, there's one key that fits each heart.

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Just like adults, children have a tipping point. How many times have you put up with being over-tired, but pressed on? Or maybe you had to attend an event you weren't thrilled about, but you went anyway? Perhaps you had to run a last minute errand you weren't physically, mentally, or emotionally prepared to complete, but you couldn't get out of it. Life can feel like this for children, but they don't have a say in what we spring on them. Listen today as Terri shares practical ways to set your kids up for success, not tantrums.

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Does paying your kids to do chores benefit them, or are you keeping your children from learning about hard work and responsibility? How do kids really learn the value of money and respect for family, property, and privileges? Today Terri answers the question of how their family handles chores, whether her kids receive an allowance, and what has worked in their home.

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Every job you hold has a description. If you are a mother, none of the jobs you've held have been as impactful or important as raising a child for Christ. You greatest goal should be to raise children who love, follow, and obey Jesus. Today we discuss the how's of this holy job description.

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Today we discuss one secret to connecting with your kids. Here's a hint…while I usually say to make strong eye to eye contact, this tip is the opposite. Listen closely to hear an easy answer to the question of how to get your children to open up.

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Did you know that children learn better, build stronger connection with you, release fears, and learn to work out problems through one easy activity? Play is one of the best investments you can make for both of you. Today we discuss activities to do with your child from infancy to adulthood.

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Most women strive to be good mothers raising good kids. However, the term "good" can be described a number of ways in society. Words like honorable, responsible, or well-behaved are among the most popular. But our Heavenly Father doesn't require goodness. In fact, God calls us to something much different. Listen today to see what is better than raising good kids.

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Do you know the key to helping your children rely on Scripture? Ensure that you are reliant on God's Word. Just as you teach them to eat healthy foods and how to respectfully respond in words and actions, your purposed practice of Scriptural prayer will influence the way they view prayer and God's Word. Today we'll search Scripture and craft prayers using God's Word so you will master the art of teaching your child to rely on Scripture.

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Whether you loved or hated Charlie Kirk, he carried one crucial ability every Christian child must possess. The ability to think critically and biblically. Today we discuss several ways parents must raise kids in order to equip them to live in the world, but not be controlled by it.

Have you considered how your behavior attracts your children to – or away from Jesus? How well do you guard your actions, mind, heart, and reactions daily through the power of the Holy  Spirit within? Just as an athlete develops discipline through intentional daily training, you must be attentive to the coaching of the Lord within you. As you invite Him to guide and guard your responses and actions, your family will see the work He is doing and trust Him to do the same within them.

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Developing a biblical worldview will shape your personal identity and belief system, becoming an unwavering internal compass that leads your thought, actions, and reactions. Just as important, your biblical worldview shapes the lifestyle and viewpoint of your child. Today Terri shares 5 important tips that show you how to help your kids develop biblical worldview.

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One Bible verse is often quoted to back pro-spanking parents. Proverbs 13:24 says, "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them." Yet, if we look at this verse with an observant heart, take thoughts captive for Christ, and prayerfully seek God's wisdom in this area, we find evidence that may lead to a different conclusion about spanking.

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Do you play favorites with your children? Do you children think you play favorites? If they do, those thoughts turn into feelings that could rule their actions. The truth is that you'll never be a perfect mother, but you can place safety rails on the track of your relationship with your children. Listen today as we discuss eight tips to give your children assurance that you don't favor a sibling over them.

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Have you ever done something in your life that you knew was in direct disobedience to God? Or maybe you didn't know at the time, but later your heart was pierced with grief at the way you sinned against Him. Perhaps you knew you were sinning, but you chose to rebelliously walk in your way. Guiding your child to Jesus begins with mentoring how to have a changed heart that will turn from sin and to God's grace.

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As long as you believe you're a follower of Christ, why does it matter whether you're fully submitted? What does fully submitted even mean? Unless you're "all in" with your life for Christ, you won't continue to deepen godly maturity. When you stand in front of God one day, longing to hear, "well done my good and faithful servant," you don't want to be surprised to hear, "I never knew you." Your submission to Christ will determine the extent of how intentionally you're able to mentor Him to your children.

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When we look at phases of human development, we see many similarities between the toddler and teen years. Are you aware that the way you parent your toddlers can help set your teens up for failure or success? Today we examine ways parenting toddlers can build a firmer foundation for your teens to build and maintain a lasting house of faith.

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Your home is the key to safeguard your children and protect innocence in childhood. Are you disgusted with book illustrations that honor darkness, not light or promote deceit instead of God's truths? Your home can be a place of refuge or risk. You can ensure it's filled with light and love or darkness and deceit. Today we honor the beauty of childhood and remember God entrusts us to protect innocence in His children.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast-episode-112---how-to-protect-innocence-in-childhood

Healthy homes need healthy moms. Are you tired of battling with weight loss or do sugar cravings and unhealthy eating habits keep you chained? Are you lacking energy or focus? You're not alone, but God CAN empower you to break free from the sugar shackles and become a wellness warrior. Today, Christine Trimpe, a certified Christian Health and Wellness Coach shares her transformative journey from being weighed down to claiming a physical, emotional, and spiritual health victory. Whether you're living in the sugar shackles or you want to keep your children from bondage, you'll find encouragement and tips in this episode.

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Christian moms want to show their child Christlike behavior every day, but getting lost in the endless routines of life and unexpected situations can shift our focus to be far from godly. The truth is that you are a living example of Christ. How are you representing Him? Today we discuss ways to ensure you attract, not repel, your children to Jesus and learn how to stay intentional in the process.

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Emotional demands of motherhood can drain the strongest of women. It's not only the responsibilities we face; it's the fact that we continue to take more on while in the midst of wondering how we're going to get what we're already committed to accomplished. That's when anger, resentment, sadness, or depression can overtake joy we thought we'd experience, even when all we ever wanted to do was be a mother. If you're feeling unappreciated or unseen, and daily responsibilities turned joy you thought you'd carry into overwhelm you can't escape, this episode is for you.

Are you tired, stressed, or irritable after working all day? Don't you wish you had the key to maintaining an even disposition and constant joy? It might just be that your productivity is holding you back. Listen today to see how Jesus mentored rest and how solace in the presence of God (the way Jesus taught) brings spiritual healing.

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Home should be the place your children find refuge. It's the place they should lovingly learn about Jesus from godly parents who mentor Christ intentionally with grace, joy, and patience. Yet parents are human. Life isn't perfect. Days flash by. Schedules get changed. Emergencies happen. Still, in the midst of tragedies, trials, or triumphs, parents are still responsible to safeguard the heart of children. Today Terri shares nine examples you can use to begin building a foundation that safeguards your children moment by moment, day by day.

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Are you a mom who loves the Lord, but gets sidetracked and distracted from intentionally teaching your child about Christ? Do you wonder how you became a good mom who unintentionally values the world more than the Word? You're not alone. Seven in ten mothers are concerned about their children's spirituality, but most don't have a purposed plan to lead them. Today Terri offers simple truths you can easily weave into conversations with your children to undergird the foundation you will learn to intentionally build on Christ.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast--episode-107---why-it's-important-to-teach-your-child-to-prioritize-jesus

How blessed humans are that God gave us the intelligence and capacity to speak. We can formulate and share thoughts, ideas, express opinions, love, and emotions. Yet, with the ability to speak, share, and feel, an alarming percentage of teens feel unheard by parents. Twenty-seven percent of teens feel like parents don't listen, and yet seventy-one percent of parents believe they're supporting their teens in the way they need. How does your teen feel? How can you establish strong communication with your younger children? Today Terri shares seven ways to help you form a pattern of listening so your children feel heard.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast-episode-106---how-to-listen-so-your-child-hears-you

Being a mother can be frustrating and fulfilling simultaneously! Everyday tasks like work, caring for the kids, meals, cleaning, errands, chores, and making time for spouse and God can easily bring anxiety. Because moms are the emotional gauge of the home, it's essential that you are armed with biblical strategies to protect your mind, heart, and home. Today Terri will discuss ways to avoid mom guilt and move from overwhelmed to overjoyed.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast-episode-105---how-to-move-from-overwhelmed-to-overjoyed

Jesus understood how open children are to the love and teachings of God. Sometimes watching the actions of your kids will give clues as to how you may shape their love and understand of God in deeper ways. Today we discuss four ways to mold the heart of your children to better reflect God's love language and you'll hear how my daughter showed me God's love language.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast-episode-104---how-my-daughter-showed-me-god's-love-language

How ironic it is that mothers need godly patience to parent, but we refine patience while doing the job. That is, if we submit to God and ask Him to grow that beautiful fruit of the Spirit within us. If you want to experience the power of teaching patience to your child as you parent for the future, not the moment, listen today for seven steps that will refine the way you and your children react with patience.

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https://www.terrihitt.com/items-1/purposed-parent-connected-child-podcast-episode-103---the-power-of-teaching-patience-to-your-child