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Ozzy and Tuck chat with author Lee Arden (any) about friendship, Quakerism, the "annoying to me personally" z-axis, and Ursula Le Guin's communal pickle barrels. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of friendship advice questions, zines & indie publishing, prude-slut solidarity, Margaret Thatcher, and more! 

The Politics of Lonely is available via Fernwood Publishing and Bookshop.org. Find Lee's zines at SheerSpite.ca.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with writer and nurse M. K. Thekkumkattil (they/them). Topics include:

• Envisioning a future without hospitals 
• Do medical kinks hit differently as a nurse?
• Bringing your book tour to the salmon :)
• When yr doctor realizes that you're medically transitioning before you do…
• Plus: We return to Drew's Giving Poppers to Cis Women, M. K. explains why sepsis is femme, and Tuck does a pronouns crime to Ms. Blood

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Recovery Demystified and Bruno George.

Find M. K. at thekkumkattilmk.com, on Patreon, and @thekkumkattilmk on IG. The Sexuality of Care is available now, as is their chapbook Weaving Liberation and the collection In The Future There Are No Hospitals. 

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including our chat with Jeanne Thornton, M. K.'s editor!

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb) & DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) 

Tuck chats with Katherine Packert Burke about All Us Saints and the cis gaze; why Narrow Rooms is more affirming than coming-out stories; and whether Tehching Hsieh is the only true artist. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of competitive bisexual erasure, ghosts, Colombo, Vegeta, "Sapphic new releases for May," KPB's book list, and a special message for our 11 or 12 cisgender listeners. 

All Us Saints is available in bookstores now. Find Katherine at katherinepackertburke.com, @katpburke on twitter, and ofc @vegetasackvillewest on IG.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Ozzy chats with piercer Lynn Loheide (they/them). Topics include:

• How horny leather queers launched the modern US piercing industry
• Genuinely surprising ways that a genital piercing can be gender-affirming
• Using matching nipple rings as thruple wedding bands :)
• What to know before splitting your tongue(!!!) 
• Plus: the "gay ear," HRT's effects on piercings, and inventing a trans shibboleth? 

This Week in Gender: Take the Gender Census and explore the Nonbinary Name Survey Results (and send Tuck yr cool name!)

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Kay Pickering. 

Find Lynn at LynnLoheide.com, @lynnloheide (IG) and @Lynn_Loheide (YT).

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes.

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "On Three Legs" by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb) & DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) 

In this bonus episode, Tuck chats with poet Eli Tareq El Bechelany-Lynch (they/them) about what's going on over at Metonymy Press. Topics include:

• Metonymy's role in launching the careers of trans writers 
• Advice for trans people considering their own small press
• What Metonymy is looking for in its current open submissions
• How Tuck keeps messing up on dating apps :) :) :)
• Plus: Teaching Hanif Abdurraqib & summoning Elliot Page??

Support Metonymy via their GoFundMe and shop their existing titles at MetonymyPress.com. Eli Tareq's newsletter is at slowsyrup.substack.com; Knot Body and The Good Arabs are available now.

Take the 2026 Gender Census here.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder

Tuck chats with physicist and writer Karmela Padavic-Callaghan (they/them) about science writing, quantum hacking, union organizing, and why quantum physics is sooooo queer. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear about Tuck being hospitalized in the multiverse, vegan restaurant hot takes, how Tumblr impacted our college experience, and more. 

Send questions for Karmela via our advice/AMA form.

Find Karmela karmelapadaviccallaghan.com and sign up for their newsletter, Ultracold. Entangled States is available in bookstores now.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with author Julián Delgado Lopera (he/him). Topics include:

• Why Julián chose to focus on a closeted travesti in his new novel 
• Creating intergenerational trans friendships and navigating inevitable conflict 
• Protesting in Bogotá and navigating Colombian gender bureaucracy 
• Untranslatable Spanglish, transsexual grammar, travesti poetics, and the beautiful transfemme tradition of lying-i-mean-myth-making :)
• Plus: Alison Bechdel vs Carson Kressley in Provincetown?! 

This Week in Gender: We hear from a friend and supporter of Amber Kim.

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Jaman Dunn-Danger.

Find Julián at juliandlopera.com and @juliandlopera. Pretend You're Dead and I Carry You is available now (and on sale on Bookshop!)

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes.

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb) & DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) 

Last chance to save 50% off Gender Reveal patreon subscriptions and Girl Dad Press books with code "PRIDE" (!!!)

Tuck tackles more advice questions with BFF of the show Mckenzee Griffler. Topics include why becoming a beautiful woman is like riding a motorcycle, how to handle intrusive questions from other trans people, and how we can support our friends when they make decisions we hate.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of immaculate conception mpreg Mario, ovo-lacto parkour, unappreciated Mulan jokes, and why it's so important to make a transphobic group chat. (Plus: Will trans solidarity save Tuck when he lies to the dermatologist??)

Submit advice questions or AMA prompts via our new form for a future episode like this one.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with I Saw the TV Glow actor Jack Haven (they/them). Topics include:

• Wearing an A/C unit on your head, both literally (in Camp Miasma) and figuratively (at Cannes and elsewhere)  
• Chasing shame and embarrassment as the most intense and therefore realest emotions 
• Filming an improvised movie guerrilla-style with friends & family
• Jack's grandmother falling in love with another nun and living an amazing life :)
• Plus: Little Death, actual death, Leatherface, Kate Berlant, Paul Preciado, bouillon chunks, a tour of Jack's tattoos, and a surprising amount about Nuts4Nuts 

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Zap Daddy Electrolysis.

Find Jack on YouTube @JackHaven42. Read Waif Magazine at iswaif.com, and watch October Crow on Vimeo. 

Get 50% off Gender Reveal patreon subscriptions and Girl Dad Press books with code "PRIDE" all June! 

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Special thanks this week to Lola and to Frankie Ferrari!
Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) 

Every 100 episodes, we demand that Lola Pellegrino—a nurse practitioner who specializes in gender-affirming care and gynecology, mostly for trans people—answers our medical questions. Topics include:

• Exciting new developments in PrEP! 
• Will crossfading hormones werewolf a doll?
• How important is freezing your eggs/sperm prior to HRT? 
• How does testosterone affect menopause?
• Plus: "Weird/bad vagina things," AOL, and the Mucinex guy jerking it?

This Week in Gender: Nicole Kelly highlights Trans Florida Resources, one of the 2025 Gender Reveal grant recipients. 

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Jaman Dunn-Danger.

Get 50% off Gender Reveal patreon subscriptions and Girl Dad Press books with code "PRIDE" all June! 

Submit advice questions or AMA prompts for Mckenzee (and other future guests) via this form.

Here is Lola's important meme.

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Save 50% off Gender Reveal patreon subscriptions and Girl Dad Press books with code "PRIDE" all June! 

Tuck challenges Sabs (How Far the Light Reaches), Calvin (Several People Are Typing), and Alma (Picnic Magazine) to draft the best bookshelf of trans literature. Along the way, we become cool bus perverts, travel to the Swiss Alps, and discover which recently published books are about Calvin :)

Patrons can listen to the full, 8-round draft and then vote on the winner of the episode! Wow! 

Find Alma's work at linktr.ee/PicnicMagazine, Sabrina's work at defector.com, and Calvin's work at Kasulke.co.

Tuck chats with author and organizer Bobuq Sayed (they/them). Topics include:

• How Bobuq's novel No God But Us addresses shortcomings in other immigrant lit
• Writing representation for white trans guys with a savior complex who are bad at poly :)
• How living in Turkey changed Bobuq's relationship to the pride flag 
• How Writers Against the War on Gaza combats the media ecosystem's rightward drift
• Plus: Mx. Potato Head, mommy issues, and Jenna Bush Hager?

This Week in Gender: Nicole Kelly highlights Colectivo Mariposa, one of the 2025 Gender Reveal grant recipients. 

Bobuq's book No God But Us is now available for preorder. 

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Under, Over, and Through and TRANSplants Collective.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including our recent advice episode with Mattie & Calvin!

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Tuck teases a very personal recent Gender Conceal episode and a big, exciting upcoming experiment. Then, Ozzy chats with Tempest Creation (she/her) about her short film Birth of the Hive Queen. Topics include how to cast moths for a movie, why Tempest's films all have "hooker brain," and whether trans cinema has a coherent aesthetic beyond being dark and crazy :) :)

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear Tempest discuss alienating her YouTube transition vlog audience, choosing her name, and being banned by the Library of Congress?!

Find Tempest at tempestcreation.com and @tempestcreation. Birth of the Hive Queen is available to watch on our Patreon through May.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with Violet Allen (she/her), author of Plastic, Prism, Void. Topics include:

• Incorporating 40+ fonts, multiple languages, three timelines, a theme song, and approx. one trillion references into one sci-fi romantasy novel
• Violet's personal beef with Joyce Carol Oates?! 
• Tuck & Violet's shared grievance against contemporary fiction 
• Channelling all your evil into books :) :) 
• Plus: CATS, Sailor Moon, Girls, Rejection, fanfic, heterosexuality, and the worm from Dune 

This Week in Gender: Nicole Kelly highlights Best Practices Policy Project, one of the 2025 Gender Reveal grant recipients. (Transcript here.)

Find Violet at violetallen.love and on Bluesky. Violet's new book, Plastic, Prism, Void, is now available for preorder. 

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including our recent advice episode with Mattie & Calvin!

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Happy Trans Eve of Snack! Tuck chats with Mattie Lubchansky & Calvin Kasulke about how to know whether you're on a date, deal with ambivalence towards certain HRT effects, and cope with the fact that you didn't transition earlier. (Also: trebuchets, glory holes, and nonbinary Donald Duck.)

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear us discuss whether you should tell your husband about your affair(!!), whether you should flee the country(!), and how to explain FFS to your cis wife. We also share our favorite memories from the Gender Ordeal tour, including the time we met a piss ghost(!!!). 

Find Mattie on No Gods No Mayors and Temporal Culture War. Find Calvin around town idk.

Submit advice questions or AMA prompts via our new form for a future episode like this one!

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with scholar Marquis Bey (they/them). Topics include:

• If we abolish gender, what will happen to sex changes?
• Is nonbinary bourgeois?
• Learning about nonbinary from incarcerated queer studies students
• If neither of us care about gender, then what are we doing on this gender podcast?! 
• Plus: Burner genders, replacing "community" with "swarms," and pushing back against the assimilation of they/them 

This Week in Gender: Nicole Kelly spotlights QueerSouf, one of the 2025 Gender Reveal grant recipients. (Transcript here.)

Find Marquis at marquisbey.com. Marquis's new book, Nonbinary Life, will be released on April 16.

Planning a Trans Day of Snack event? Apply for a microgrant at bit.ly/TDOS2026. 

Save $5 on Sex Change and the City in the Girl Dad shop with code SNACK!

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including our upcoming advice episode with Mattie & Calvin!

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb)

Tuck outlines two options for this year's Trans Day of Having a Nice Snack festivities.

Want to plan your own Trans Day of Snack event? Apply for a microgrant at bit.ly/TDOS2026. 

A full transcript of this episode (and all of our TDOS episodes) is available on our website.  

Submit questions for our upcoming Gender Conceal episode with Mattie and Calvin at bit.ly/GCadvice. 

Donate to the microgrant fund via PayPal.me/TWoodstock or @Tuck-Woodstock on Venmo.

Read more about Trans Day of Snack's history here and here. 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with the internet's own AK (they/them) about baseball disease, fantasy hockey shows, and the most iconic scene from Twilight.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of the Phillies' horrible bodily fluids, Happy Feet-related top surgery, and AK's journey to becoming a jumpsuit influencer on January 6. (Plus, more baseball!)

Find AK @dumplingmenace on IG and Bluesky.

Submit advice questions or AMA prompts via our new form!

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with trans studies scholar and Minneapolis resident Aren Aizura (he/him). Topics include:

• How a protest camp in the Australian desert helped free dozens of immigrant detainees(!!)
• How Aren's kids are reacting to ICE occupying their neighborhood 
• How Twin Cities organizing has remained leaderless and decentralized 
• Being subjected to archaic HBIGDA "true transsexual" guidelines and a political background check while trying to access top surgery!?
• Plus: Australian hippies, tear gas, Tim Walz, the YMCA sauna, and audio of a baby talking to a cat in a bag :)

Through The Wire, a 10-min independent documentary about the 2002 breakout from Woomera Detention Center, is available to stream here. (cw: incarceration, injury, police violence) 

Find Aren on Bluesky @incommensurati. Aren's book, Mobile Subjects, is available from Duke University Press.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes.

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Tuck chats with human rights advocate and organizer Ash Tifa (she/her). Topics include:

• Do human rights laws actually ensure our rights?
• What media coverage is missing/misunderstanding about what's going on in the Twin Cities 
• Are Black leaders and queer people being intentionally targeted for arrest? 
• Plus: Ireland vs US immigrant detention, living in a post-constitutional state, and keeping your nose warm in a Minnesota winter 

[Note: This episode was updated on 02/17/2026 to remove a question per Ash's request.]

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Roguish Goblin Stories.

Find Ash at ashtifa.com and outfront.org.

Order Sex Change and the City or catch Tuck on book tour in Baltimore on Feb 12. 

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including last month's episode with Encanto's Jess Darrow.

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck chats with Encanto actor Jess Darrow (they/them) about working with Disney as outspoken queer person, singing the transest possible song for their Encanto audition, being queer-awakened by a certain Disney couple, and declaring pole dancing the most they/them hobby. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear how Tuck and Jess met via goofing off on Letterboxd… plus Jess coming into their queerness while making Encanto; their mission to make Captain Hook gay; their big discovery about comedians; their takes on RATS and GREECE; their hot take on cishet relationships; and much more!!!

Find Jess at @jessdarrow_ on IG and on IMDb.

Find Tuck on book tour in Baltimore on Feb 12: RSVP here.

Submit advice questions or AMA prompts via our new form!

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with author Megan Milks (they/them). Topics include:

• The queer and trans potential of milk
• Writing fantastical slug erotica and bull insemination scenes 
• Dating and writing advice from Samuel Delany
• What even is a kink, you know?
• Plus: New Narrative, the "overwhelming influence of The Argonauts," and finally getting out of high school

This Week in Gender: Tuck reads their favorite book review of 2025.

Find Megan @sklimnagem and meganmilks.com. Mega Milk is available now. 

Order Sex Change and the City or catch Tuck on book tour in Baltimore on Feb 12. 

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including last month's episode with Alma Avalle.

Submit a piece of Theymail.

Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

TGIJP's Zen Blossom chats with historian, artist, and organizer Andrea Horne for the California Report Magazine podcast. 

Photos(!) and a full transcript are available at KQED.org.

For more conversations with trans youth, plus a bonus chat with artist and activist Donna Personna, check out the California Report Magazine's Love You For You series. 

Tuck chats with writer and union organizer Alma Avalle (she/her) about the Transparent finale, Trader Joe's dream to destroy the NLRB, and Alma's experience getting very publicly fired from Condé Nast in an egregiously illegal instance of union retaliation!

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of Emilia Perez, paywalled Condé gossip, "Anna Wintour's elite fiefdom rocked by woke soap opera," and much more!

Find Alma at @goodbyealma across platforms and @picnic_mag on IG. 

Download issue 1 of Picnic Magazine for pay-what-you-want, and don't forget to sign the petition to reinstate the Fired Four.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with cartoonist Lee Lai (she/her) about gossip, projection, emotional journalism, toxic relationship dynamics, annoying transmascs, the hazards of being overly self-reliant, and more. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of puberty 4, comic-reading etiquette, she/her mustache, maladaptive trans coping mechanisms, creative dialogue bubbles, and whether hormones physically relocate your feelings in your body. 

Find Lee Lai at lee-lai.cargo.site, on IG @_leelai, and on Patreon.

Find Tuck on book tour in Portland on Dec 19! (For real this time.) RSVP here. 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with artist Barry Lee (they/them). Topics include:

• Creating an oracle deck that doesn't shy away from difficult emotions 
• Why Barry has moved away from mural-painting (and bisexuality lol)
• The toxic positivity and individualism of mainstream self-help tools
• Eugenics, limited autonomy, and other enemies of trans & disabled people
• Plus: Atlanta, Keith Haring, Strega Nona, noses, and queer Muppets 

Find Barry @barryleeart and barryleeart.com. 

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Emmeline.

Order Sex Change and the City today, or catch Tuck on book tour in Portland on Dec 19.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including last month's episode with Lee Lai.

Our mailing address is PO Box 50297 Brooklyn NY 11205 :)

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Ozzy and Tuck chat with activist and G.L.I.T.S. founder Ceyenne Doroshow (she/her). Topics include:

• Memories of Ceyenne's mother, Miss Major 
• Ceyenne's 3-hour meal with Zohran Mamdani
• Lessons learned from a career in sex work 
• Providing safe housing and asylum assistance through G.L.I.T.S.
• Plus: Riis Beach, a St. Bernard named Thor, and a revenge trip to Puerto Rico? 

Find Ceyenne and support her crucial work at glitsinc.org.

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from Organize Your Library!

Order Sex Change and the City today, or catch Tuck on book tour in Seattle, Oakland, and more.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including last month's episode with Cassius Adair.

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Tuck announces new book tour events, including a '90s-themed lit party and a trans band debut/reunion(!?!). Then, Tuck chats with Cass about the state of trans studies and why podcasts are over. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear Cass and Tuck discuss talking to kids about gender, making friends in Minnesota, wearing one hat for 15 years, projecting your brain problems onto your baby, and much more. 

Catch Tuck on book tour in Philly, Brooklyn, Chicago, Minneapolis, Seattle, Portland, Oakland, and on Zoom! Sex Change and the City is available now in the Girl Dad Press shop.

Applications are now open for our 2025 grant program thru 10/31. 

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with writer Zefyr Lisowski (she/her). Topics include:

• How horror helps us explore what we owe others in the wake of pain
• Zefyr's delicate decision to do a ~gender reveal~ in Uncanny Valley Girls 
• Managing harm in t4t and crazy4crazy relationships
• How the Great Dismal Swamp informs Zefyr's thoughts about race and class 
• Plus: Grave robbers, werewolves, Pisces poetics, and a musical based on The Ring. 

This Week in Gender: Applications are now open for our 2025 grant program! Please help us spread the word to trans folks of color doing rad organizing / art / community work around the world. 

Find Zefyr at zefyrlisowski.com and @zefrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Uncanny Valley Girls is on sale tomorrow, Oct. 7!

Submit a piece of Theymail here.

Preorder Sex Change and the City today, or catch Tuck on book tour in Chicago, Seattle, Oakland, and more.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including our upcoming episode with Cassius Adair.

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Tuck chats with author Denne Michele Norris (she/her) about the future of trans publishing — is this year's trans lit boom just a outlying blip? — and why violas are the most trans instrument, among other topics. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of transitioning alongside your novel's protagonist, working on a novel for 15 years, and editing stories of trans trauma without re-traumatizing anyone. Plus: Is it possible to deadname a fictional character? Is time linear? And why does Denne Michele suspect that you wouldn't survive publishing a book??

Find Denne Michele at dennemichele.com as well as episode 102 (Live in NYC) of Gender Reveal and S1E5 (Becoming the First of Your Name) of Gender Conceal.

Save 25% off two copies of Sex Change and the City in the Girl Dad Press shop thru 10/1 with code TWOSHOES.

Join our Patreon before October to get your free month of the Batting Around Patreon and all of their bonus podcasts! 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with activist Isa Noyola (she/her). Topics include:

• What are the top priorities for trans immigrant communities and orgs?
• How can we best show up for our immigrant neighbors?
• Watching trans folks flee from the US while others flee to the US
• The power of Translatina (one word!) as an identity and community 
• Plus: Beyoncé, Burger King, and a secret meeting with the Dept. of Homeland Security?!

This Week in Gender: We dig into the newest demographic data regarding trans adults and children in the United States. 

Learn more about Isa's work at borderbutterfliesproject.com.

Claim a free Gender Reveal Patreon subscription by clicking here or here.

Submit a piece of Theymail here.

Preorder Sex Change and the City today!

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, plus a free month of the Batting Around patreon!

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Hope and the Forester" by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Tuck chats with filmmaker Kani Lapuerta (he/him) about his new feature-length documentary, Niñxs. Topics include trans rights in Mexico, the increased popularity of gender-neutral Spanish, collaborating on a film with a literal child, and what makes a film ~trans~. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of spiritual gentrification in Tepoztlán, masculinity in prison, inserting Mean Girls-inspired fantasy sequences into a documentary, whether it's inherently trans to make a funny movie, and more.

Find Niñxs at ninxsdocumental.com.

Full episode transcript available at genderpodcast.com.

Save 10% off in the Girl Dad Press shop today (9/1/25) with code STEVE :)

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

This week, we're sharing an episode of Love in a F*cked Up World, a new podcast hosted by our friend Dean Spade. In this episode, Dean chats with Tourmaline and Morgan Bassichis (our guest from last week's episode) about the many lessons they've learned from each other over the course of multiple decades of friendship, collaboration, and trans abolitionist organizing.

Find transcripts and more info at deanspade.net/podcast. 

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Sex Change and the City is available for preorder now btw! 

Tuck and Ozzy chat with comedian, organizer, and writer Morgan Bassichis (they/them). Topics include:

• Whether a comedy show is a good use of time in this Political Moment 
• Lessons from Lavender Hill commune and The Faggots & Their Friends... 
• Why "Free Palestine" is directly relevant us as trans & queer people
• Why are there so many trans Jews, btw?
• Plus: Personalized bar mitzvah boxers, the Gay Who Cried Wolf, voting gay people back into the closet, and an erotic sexual relationship with a ghost?

This Week in Gender: The 2025 Gender Census is open! Plus, new books by Denne Michele Norris, Lee Lai, Gretchen Felker-Martin, Hal Schrieve, Rose Dommu, Grace Byron, Zefyr Lisowski, and LittlePuss.

Find Morgan in Can I Be Frank? and at morganbassichis.com. 

Preorder Sex Change and the City today!

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from J Warren and et al. Scholars

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Little or Nothing" by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

This week, we're sharing the first episode of Afterlives: Marsha P. Johnson, a limited-run narrative series hosted by our friend Raquel Willis. 

Find Afterlives wherever you listen to podcasts, and find incredible archival images from Marsha's life at @afterlives.pod. 

Tuck and Mal chat about how 2010s Brooklyn hurt Mal's relationship to masculinity, whether reading a book would help kids understand song lyrics, and why Mal is putting "he" pronouns in timeout until you all earn them back.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of Geminis vs Cancers, personal gossip, new transmasc slurs, Hatchet (1987), stolen transfeminine valor, TikTok, touring, getting physically cut out of childhood photos, and deciding how mean and messy to get in a breakup album. Plus, Tuck tells Mal a secret they've been holding for five years wow. 

Find Mal on tour now! Mal is also at malblum.com and ffm.bio/malblum. 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Mal Blum

Ozzy chats with Whit Washington (they/them), senior attorney for the Nonbinary & Transgender Rights Project at Lambda Legal. Topics include:

• Why the Skrmetti decision isn't as broadly damaging as we might think
• Becoming a lawyer because you're inspired by Kimberlé Crenshaw and also nervous about math :)
• The enormous impact of queer legal scholar Pauli Murray and trans jailhouse attorney Dee Farmer
• Can you use the law to abolish the law?
• Plus: Dazed and Confused, Nathaniel Bacon, and listener advice

This Week in Gender: Should you update your passport right now? (Plus, resources for sharing Know Your Rights info; finding someone arrested by ICE; combatting workplace ICE raids;  adopting a day labor corner; helping immigrant rights orgs; and supporting immigrant communities.)

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Kiwifruit Coaching and Well Beings News.

Find Whit's work on the Lambda Legal blog.

Tuck and Mattie Lubchansky are chatting live in Astoria, Queens, on July 29! Tickets available now.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) 

Tuck chats with Sawyer K. Kemp (they/them) about the news that Ian McKellan is involved in an all-trans staged reading of Twelfth Night. Topics include whether Twelfth Night is trans, what baseball and Shakespeare plays have in common, and what prison has to do with any of this. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of West Virginia, trans cringe, 17th-century trans intra-community conflict, which Shakespearean role Shohei Ohtani would play, and whether acting is good or bad :)

Find Sawyer at sawyerkkemp.com and at Queens College.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with Niko about coming out as a grocery store cashier, deterring ghosts and bears, writing memoir with a bad memory, and misspelling Neko Case's name on your bloody arm. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear Tuck and Niko's favorite musical covers, plus discussions of Wilco, Meg 2, Ohio for girls, Canada's Boston pierogi pizza, Guy Fieri sparkling water, Yukon tourism, trans buffer names,  and childhood autism lore.

Niko's book The Dad Rock That Made Me a Woman is on sale now.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with cartoonist Alison Bechdel (she/her). Topics include:

• Which Dykes to Watch Out For characters are canonically t4t-married, top surgery'd, or in a nonbinary asexual polycule 
• What did Alison do with that MacArthur genius grant money?
• Did we successfully convince Alison that DTWOF's Stuart is an egg?!
• Dyke vs. lesbian vs. gay woman: which one is "coy and ridiculous"?
• Plus: Alison's relationships with Marx's Capital, the 1980 Michigan Womyn's Music Festival, Sex and the City, and the American Heritage Dictionary

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Queering the District Podcast and the Trans Mag.

Find Alison at linktr.ee/alisonbechdel. Spent is available now at your local bookstore. 

Tuck and Mattie Lubchansky are chatting live in Astoria, Queens, on July 29! Tickets available now.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX.

Tuck chats with writer Harron Walker (she/her). Topics include:

• Sleepaway Camp (1983) vs They/Them (2022)
• Making sense of GSA Day of Silence circa 2007 
• Advice for women who keep accidentally dating eggs
• Ways that even "supportive" adults influence trans kids' genders
• Plus: The Marshafication of Cecilia Gentili, Bill Clinton's death in a tragic saxophone accident, and three tips for being normal :) :) 

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Eliot West Editorial and Chrysalis Magazine.

Find Harron at harronwalker.com and @harnwaw. Aggregated Discontent is available at thisistrans.info and your local bookstore. 

You can find Harron's profile of Cecilia Gentili on Vulture and read the full interview transcript via the Poetry Project. 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck and Mckenzee chat about the big knife in Moonstruck (1987), pizza mnemonics, blue foods, trans vibing, and the special cat that David Lynch invented for Dune (1984).

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear additional movie reviews and recommendations, plus our medical histories(?!), cat updates, lite gossip, tips for being normal, and much more. 

You can follow Mckenzee & Tuck on Letterboxd if you're into that sort of thing.

Come see Gender Ordeal in Brooklyn on May 9, which is your last chance to see our little trans comedy show!!!!!!! Tickets at genderpodcast.com/live.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with author Caro De Robertis (they/them). Topics include:

• Caro's oral history work with trans, genderqueer, and two-spirit elders of color
• Why Spanish can be more gender-affirming than English 
• How Caro's knowledge of South American dictatorships informs their perspective on US politics 
• Why Black trans women were encouraged to detransition during the AIDS crisis (and other stories from elders)
• Plus: Butch babies, genderfuck, and staying free (!)

Gender Ordeal be in Chicago (4/24), Minneapolis (4/25) and Brooklyn (5/9) and then we're done forever! Grab your tickets at genderpodcast.com/live see u soon!!!

This Week in Gender: We share info about US border crossings. 

• How to enter the US with your digital privacy intact (Wired)
• Tracking the foreign nationals detained by ICE as tourists or U.S. residents (Axios)
• What green-card and visa holders should know before traveling abroad (NPR)
• Can Border Agents Search Your Electronic Devices? It's Complicated. (ACLU)
• Countries issue advisories about trans people traveling to the United States (CNN)

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's message was from the Dancing Rabbit Ecovillage.

Find Caro at caroderobertis.com. So Many Stars is available for pre-order now.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Huffalo" "Four Count" & "Nine Count" by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Happy Trans Day of Having a Nice Snack! In this bonus episode, Tuck and Ozzy chat with author Jeanne Thornton (she/her) about '90s chatrooms, masking quizzes, community open mics, second-person narration, a possible Plot Conflict Trans Misery Industrial Complex, and hidden crossover events in the Jeanne Thornton literary universe.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of Topside Press goss, job interview horror stories, trans motherhood advice, Jeanne & Anton's friendship origin story, and whether the ending of A/S/L is "ontologically evil" lol.

Grab our Trans Day of Snack graphic here. 

Find Jeanne @jeanneticallymodified and at jeannethornton.com and instarbooks.com, and at World Transsexual Forum every fourth Monday at Franklin Park. A/S/L is available from Soho Press.

Come see Gender Ordeal on tour in Chicago and Minneapolis in April! 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Ozzy and Tuck chat with philosopher Talia Mae Bettcher (she/her). Topics include:

• Creating a theory of trans oppression beyond the "wrong body" and "beyond the binary" accounts 
• How clothing can be part of an abusive system of forced disclosure 
• "Let's meditate on genitalia if we can for a moment"
• Why are there so many terfs in philosophy?? 
• Plus: Phoria, apparitionals, moral sex, and other fun new vocab 

This Week in Gender: Updates on Trans Day of Having a Nice Snack community events! Apply for funding at bit.ly/tdos2025 or donate at @Tuck-Woodstock & PayPal.me/TWoodstock.

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Queer Third Space and Voces Language Club.

Find Talia's work here and here. Beyond Personhood is available from University of Minnesota Press.

Gender Ordeal is coming to Chicago and Minneapolis! Grab your tickets quickly at genderpodcast.com/live.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Kickstep" by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck explains this year's Trans Day of Snack celebrations — which includes the opportunity to organize a Gender Reveal-funded gathering! — before chatting with Seattle Trans Joy's Jerika Che (they/them). Topics include:

• How do I organize a Trans Day of Snack event in my area?
• How do I choose a location?
• How can I spread the word?
• What safety measures might be helpful?
• Plus: Trans vegan donuts, potlucks, and emotional support cis?

For more organizing tips and stories, listen to last year's episode with Jerika. Learn more about Trans Day of Snack via these PopSugar and Vice articles. (We also chatted with TDOS co-founder Lilith on Gender Conceal.)

Organizing your own Trans Day of Snack event? Apply for a small grant at bit.ly/tdos2025. (Folks can send donations to @Tuck-Woodstock or PayPal.me/TWoodstock)

CHICAGO! Gender Ordeal is coming to you! Tickets on sale now, please come hang out! 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Beignet" and "Palms Down" by Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with Palestinian activist Yaffa (they/she) about their experiences with last year's student encampments, their belief in collectivism, and their journey to mononymity. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear what Yaffa learned about gender from Palestinian elders, among other topics. 

Find Yaffa @yaffasutopia across platforms, and at themasgd.org and merajpublishing.com.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with writer Vera Blossom (she/her). Topics include:

• Being the hottest girlie at the men-only bathhouse
• Writing a memoir-grimoire complete with magic spells
• What did estrogen teach Vera about the life cycle of pigeons???
• Is Shrek the ideal man? (And are straight roommates queer-coded?)
• Plus: Las Vegas, Pokemon boarding school online role-play, and the ghost of the gay guy who previously owned Vera's bread machine 

This Week in Gender: We revisit past interviews with Dean Spade and Chase Strangio and recommend reading "literally what can we do."

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from et al. Scholars and Max Burns UX.

Find Vera @cuteflesh and at howtofucklikeagirl.com. How to Fuck Like a Girl is available now at bookshop.org. 

We're on tour this week! Any tickets left are at genderpodcast.com/live. 

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Additional help from Lil Gael Montevecchi
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Spinning Meter" by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck, Mattie (she/they) and Calvin (he/him) attempt to answer two questions: 

1. What is Gender Ordeal?
2. Why are they doing it?

Along the way, we also reveal the amount of time that Tuck can be emotionally available on a plane, and how many years you have to stay married before you earn a watch. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of gender-swapped holes, erotic landlord chocolate, a new definition of bi vs gay, the world's largest ball of sisal twine, furry-owned pants stores, Mattie's secret tour talent, puppy girl representation, and what gay guys are doing over there. 

Find us on tour! We're in DC THIS FRIDAY and on the west coast Feb 10-12. Come have fun for an hour why not?

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

We're celebrating Gender Reveal's seventh anniversary by journeying into a little galaxy of gender futures. 

Join our Patreon to access Gender Conceal and discover even more futures of gender. Find episode transcripts at genderpodcast.com.

Sound Design: Arlie Adlington
Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Theme: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions