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Over the past (almost) 10 years, creating the podcast has been an incredible journey.

Connecting with you, sharing actionable tips, and diving deep into topics that matter has been an adventure!

But today, I want to share a personal update: I've decided to take a pause from the podcast.

This wasn't an easy decision, but it's one I made after reflecting on my priorities and goals. Right now, my energy is focused on Ascend Fitness and Lifestyle, that demands my full attention. As much as I love podcasting, I've realized that it's not aligned with my current goals, and taking a break will allow me to show up more fully in other areas of my life and work.

One thing I've learned about myself is that I don't thrive when I'm juggling too much. When I spread myself too thin, I feel overwhelmed, burned out, and less present in the things that truly matter. This break is a way to honor my boundaries and prioritize what's most important right now.

That said, I'm not saying this is goodbye forever! If and when the podcast aligns with my goals, I will be THRILLED to be back.

In the meantime, there are MANY past episodes for you to revisit each one packed with practical advice and tools to support your health and fitness journey.

If you'd like to stay connected, there are plenty of ways to keep in touch!

• Join my email list for regular updates, tips, and inspiration (www.tanjashaw.com)
• Follow me on Instagram or Facebook (www.instagram.com/Tanja_Shaw www.facebook.com/TanjaShaw)
• Work with me 1:1 or in group programs by booking a call at www.tanjashaw.com/apply.
• Sign up for Morning Mindset Messages to receive short, uplifting voice notes from me, email tanja@tanjashaw.com to get started.

Thank you for being part of this journey with me.

This is a pivot, not an end, and I look forward to connecting with you in new ways or perhaps even here again someday.

Tanja x

As the year draws to a close, we're gifted with a unique opportunity to pause, reflect, and set the tone for the months ahead. The turning of a calendar page offers a fresh start—a chance to write a new chapter in the story of your life.

For me, this isn't just a routine; it's a ritual. Every year, I set aside an entire day to review my businesses, assess what's worked, what hasn't, and plan for the year to come. Personally, I also dedicate time to reflect on my life and set intentions, both individually and with my family.

This practice isn't just about goal-setting—it's about reconnecting with what matters most and ensuring the path forward aligns with your values and vision.

In this week's episode of the Fit in Real Life Podcast, I'm sharing my process for:
✔️ Reflecting on the past year with honesty and grace
✔️ Setting meaningful goals and intentions that inspire action
✔️ Creating a framework for a year that feels fulfilling and aligned

Whether you're looking to make big changes or simply want a more intentional approach to your year, this episode is for you.

🎧 Join me as we step into 2025 with clarity and purpose.

Let's create a year worth remembering, together.

-Tanja x

What Are Some of Your Top Book Recommendations?

This year, I read more fiction than usual, thanks to joining a book club and exploring different genres... and I ALSO read quite a few non-fiction books.

Whether it's listening to a book on Audible during a walk or settling in with a physical book and my cats curled up beside me, reading has become an even bigger part of my routine this year.

In this episode, I'm sharing my favorite non-fiction reads from 2024, along with insights and takeaways from each one. Even if you don't end up reading them, I hope you'll get something meaningful from the discussion.

For more book-related content, you can revisit some of my earlier episodes and posts:

• 11 Books That Will Change Your Life: tanjashaw.com/fvy214
• 3 Books to Fire You Up for 2022: tanjashaw.com/3-books-to-fire-you-up-for-2022/
• 7 Books You'll Want to Read: tanjashaw.com/fvy262
• The Best Books I Read in 2023: https://www.tanjashaw.com/fvy370/

Whether you're looking for a gift idea or simply need an excuse to slow down and enjoy some quiet time, I hope this list inspires you to pick up something new.

Here's my list for 2024:

God on a Harley by Joan Brady
Pleasure Activism: The Polictics of Feeling Good by adrienne maree brown
Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliot
Drop the Armor by Christine Line
The Language of Emotions by Karla Maclaren
Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

*Contains affiliate links. There's no cost to you but if you do choose to follow the link to purchase, I get a few dollars 🙂

Have you heard the claim that oatmeal is the same as candy? Or that eating bread is like spoon-feeding your body sugar?

These bold (and frankly, misleading) statements inspired this week's episode of the Fit in Real Life Podcast.

We're diving into the nitty-gritty details of carbohydrates, sugar, and how they're metabolized in the body—cutting through the confusion and busting some major myths along the way.

Here's a sneak peek at what you'll learn:

• The science of what carbohydrates are and how they're digested.
• Why glucose is essential—and why not all sugars are created equal.
• The differences between refined carbs and whole, nutrient-dense options.
• Whether eating carbs really "causes inflammation."
• Practical advice for including carbs in a healthy, balanced diet.

Join me for a no-BS breakdown of the facts, so you can make informed choices without fear or confusion.

Listen now wherever you get your podcasts!

If you have questions, please send me a dm on Instagram (@tanja_shaw) or send me an email (tanja@tanjashaw.com).

Thanks for listening!
Tanja x

Protein is a hot topic, and it seems like everyone has a different opinion. Should you be eating it at every meal? Is protein powder as good as chicken or beans? And what happens if you're under your protein goal for the day—should you force down some egg whites even if you're not hungry?

If you've ever had these questions, this week's episode is for you.

Here's a quick preview of what I cover:

• How much protein you actually need for your goals—whether it's general health, building muscle, or weight loss.
• Protein myths debunked: "More is always better" and "Too much protein will hurt your kidneys."
• Is protein powder worth it? (Spoiler: Yes, but with caveats.)
• Balancing animal and plant-based proteins—and what that means for your health and the environment.
• Practical tips for hitting your protein targets without overcomplicating your meals.

This episode is packed with no-nonsense, science-backed advice to help you cut through the confusion and make protein work for your lifestyle.

If you're ready to simplify your nutrition and feel confident about what you're eating, give this one a listen!

Thanks for tuning in!

-Tanja x

If you're like most people, you've set goals in the past, maybe even started strong, but then somehow drifted away from them.

You try to eat healthier, to lose weight, to be more consistent… but something always seems to get in the way. Sound familiar?

In the latest episode of the Fit in Real Life Podcast, I dig into those subtle yet powerful obstacles that keep you from making the changes you want.

Sometimes, it's not the big, obvious challenges but the tiny, overlooked mindsets that throw us off course.

That's exactly what I'm unpacking this week.

❤️ I talk about why we keep ourselves "stuck" and how to identify the hidden traps in our language, thinking, and approach to change. 

❤️You'll walk away with actionable insights on making a real commitment to your goals, starting with small, intentional steps that make lasting change feel possible—and maybe even easier than you thought.

Whether you want to be healthier, get stronger, or just be more consistently, this episode is for you.

Thank you for listening!

-Tanja x

Ever hit that point where you just don't want to go?

You've been working hard, but suddenly, the motivation's gone, energy is low, and you're not sure what to do next.

This happened to me last week, and it inspired this week's episode.

I share exactly what to do when the motivation dips and energy is nowhere to be found.

Here's a quick preview of what I cover:

• Why feeling unmotivated sometimes is totally normal
• The importance of planning for low-energy days
• Tips on taking a "deload week" and what that really means
• Fresh ways to bring energy back into your workouts
• How to find a balanced approach to keep making progress

If this sounds like what you need, join me for practical, no-nonsense advice on staying consistent when things get tough.

Thanks for listening!

-Tanja x

Is cardio really making you gain weight?
Why isn't your low-calorie diet working?

In this episode of the Fit in Real Life podcast, I'm joined by Ashley Fillmore, a leading expert in sustainable weight loss, founder of Metabolic Fix™, and host of the Cheers to Your Success podcast. With nearly 20 years of experience, Ashley helps women heal their metabolism and balance their hormones for lifelong body transformation.

Here's what we dive into:

Is Cardio Sabotaging Your Fat Loss?
Is cardio good for you? Does burning more calories lead to faster weight loss? Or, could your workout routine be holding you back? Ashley shares the nuances of finding the right workout plan for your body.

The Key to Metabolic Health
What does it really mean to be metabolically healthy? Hint: It's not just about cutting calories or exercising more.

Why Low-Calorie Diets Can Fail You
Are you eating less but still not losing weight? Ashley shares why cutting calories is not the answer, and what to do instead.

This episode is packed with game-changing insights to help you become the live a healthy life.

ENJOY!

-Tanja

Here's how to get in touch with Ashley:
Website: metabolicfix.purfitstudio.com/one
Podcast: https://metabolicfix.purfitstudio.com/podcasts/cheers-to-your-success
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashley_fillmore1/

It's almost a year since my breast explant surgery.

I'm sharing what the journey has really been like, from redefining my own version of femininity to discovering that confidence comes not from changing my body, but from accepting it as is. 

We often measure ourselves by our perceived "imperfections"—whether it's our stomach, arms, skin, or scars—forgetting that we're so much more than a sum of individual parts. If you've ever found yourself replaying that background noise of self-criticism, this episode is for you.

In this episode I talk about:
✨ Redefining femininity: it's personal, and it's empowering.
✨ Body confidence as is—embracing where I am now without striving for perfection.
✨ The value in letting go of "standards" that were never really ours to begin with.
✨ How self-acceptance can open up new freedom, connection, and even joy.

Thank you for listening, and I hope you find encouragement here to love and accept yourself fully and completely.

-Tanja x

For years, I was chasing that elusive goal of being in the best shape of my life... which, in my mind, meant effortlessly running up a long hill looking graceful—and without my thighs chafing.

But lately, my goal has changed. Now, it's not about being in the best shape OF my life, but in the best shape FOR my life.

What does that even mean?

It's about looking beyond the here and now. Sure, I still want to feel strong and confident, but now I'm also thinking about things like:

• Strengthening my body so I can hike and climb stairs and play well into my 80s and 90s
• Prioritizing my joints so I can keep doing the things I love (like hiking adventures 🏔️)
• Thinking about my hormones so that I ACTUALLY can sleep at night and don't burn myself out

And sometimes, the best thing I can do for my health is REST.

So, if you're curious about how this mindset shift can help YOU live a strong, active, and vibrant life for years to come, tune in to my latest podcast episode: "The Best Shape for Your Life." 

I'm so glad you're here!

-Tanja x

Do you ever find yourself going to the gym but wondering if you're actually making progress?

🙋‍♀️ If so, you're not alone! (Trust me, I've been there too... at least walking laps of the gym counts toward my daily steps... 🤔)

In this week's episode of Fit in Real Life, I'm breaking down how to get the MOST out of your strength workout—because if you're going to spend some time at the gym, you might as well get something for your effort!

Here's what we're diving into:
✔️ How to warm up so that you don't tweak your back on the first setp 
✔️ Why having a plan isn't just for vacations and home renovations
✔️ The magic of tracking your progress—because, yes, those extra 5 lbs are a big deal! 
✔️ How to activate the correct muscles 
✔️ And, of course, the key to getting stronger: progressive overload—also known as the art of not staying comfy with those 10-lb dumbbells forever. 😉

So, if you're ready to level up your strength workouts, hit play and give this episode a listen! 🎧

Let's work hard and have some fun along the way 💪

-Tanja x

Social media is FULL of the latest fitness hacks, challenges, and quick-fix solutions.

One minute you're told you need to lift heavy like a powerlifter, and the next you're wondering if dry brushing your thighs will magically burn off that last bit of fat (spoiler: it won't).

It's hard not to get swept up in all the promises of "rapid results" or "the one thing you need" for fat loss, strength, or wellness.

But how do you know what advice is worth following—and what might just leave you sore, confused, and still craving cookies?

In the latest episode of the Fit in Real Life podcast, I'm diving headfirst into the chaotic world of 2024 fitness trends to figure out which ones deserve a spot in your routine—and which ones should stay in your feed.

From lifting heavy weights to the endless list of wellness "hacks" that sound more like part-time jobs, I'll give you the lowdown on what's backed by science, and what's backed by... well, nothing.

Press play to get the tools you need to make smarter choices. Listen wherever you listen to podcasts (and if its in your Infared sauna... no judgment!).

-Tanja x

Are you tired of feeling stuck when it comes to your health and fitness goals? Do you ever wonder "why is it so hard to change when I know I need to?".

It's probably because you're asking yourself the WRONG questions—and those questions could be the very thing keeping you from making real progress.

In the latest episode of Fit in Real Life, I dive into the surprising power of the questions we ask ourselves every day. 

Whether you're trying to lose weight, build strength, or simply take better care of yourself, the way you talk to yourself matters.

In this episode, I'll show you how to flip the script with a few simple mindset shifts. We'll go over some common (but unhelpful) questions that so many of us ask and explore better ways to reframe them so you can actually move forward.

If you're ready to break out of your old patterns and create lasting change, this episode is for you.

Take a listen!

I'm glad you're here.

-Tanja x

I want to be real with you today. 

For years, I thought I didn't need therapy. 

I would tell myself, "I already know what to do… I just need to do it" and "I'm not so bad" and "what would I learn that I don't already know?"

Maybe you've had those same thoughts, too?

It took me a long time before I actually took that step to talk to someone.

And even when I did, I went in thinking I just needed a little nudge in the right direction—a reminder of what I already knew.

In short, therapy has been LIFE changing and LIFE giving.

In this week's podcast I'm sharing my FIVE most valuable takeaways from working with my therapist that have helped me feel more peaceful and more WHOLE.

-Tanja x

Ever find yourself in a late-night snack battle? You know, where you promise you'll stop after a few bites... but suddenly you're elbow-deep in chips or cookies?

Me too.

But here's the thing: it's not just about resisting the urge—it's about being intentional with how you end your day.

In my latest podcast episode, I share one simple evening affirmation that's been a game changer for me and my clients when it comes to beating those nighttime cravings.

It's not just fluffy words either. This affirmation is backed by action. And it's not just about stopping the snacking; it's about how you want to wake up tomorrow—energized, proud, and excited.

I also walk you through two more practical steps to help you rewire those nighttime habits for good.

Press play and join me on this week's episode of the Fit in Real Life Podcast. 🎙️

Im glad you're here!

Tanja x

P.S. Here's the other podcast I mentioned on Nighttime Eating.  

When it comes to fitness, having a structured workout plan can make all the difference. It's not just about showing up at the gym—it's about knowing what to do, why you're doing it, and how to make progress.

In this week's podcast, I share exactly how I design my workout plans to help you build strength, prevent injury, and create long-lasting results.

Whether you're just starting out or looking to fine-tune your routine, I'll walk you through the key movements, why they matter, and how to create a plan that fits your life.

Here's what you'll learn in the episode:

1. Why strength training is so important (and often misunderstood!)
   • Strength training goes beyond muscle—did you know it also boosts your immune system and supports mental health? I break down the lesser-known benefits that make it essential for long-term health.
2. The key movement patterns you should focus on
   • Push, pull, squat, lunge, hip hinge, core work, and rotation. These movements cover every major muscle group and help you move better in everyday life. I also share how to correct imbalances for a stronger, more resilient body.
3. Full-body workouts vs. split routines
   • I explain why I prefer full-body workouts over splits and how you can get great results with just 3 strength sessions a week. (Spoiler: you don't need to spend hours in the gym to see progress!)
4. How to track your progress and why it matters
   • Tracking your workouts helps you see where you're improving and where you can push harder. It also makes it easier to stay consistent and motivated over time.
5. The power of finishers for a metabolic boost
   • Finishers are quick, intense bursts of activity that I add at the end of my workouts to increase calorie burn and improve endurance. I'll share some of my favorites and how you can add them to your routine.

Whether you're a beginner or more experienced, this episode will give you the tools to build an effective, balanced strength training plan that supports your goals.

Ready to take your training to the next level? Start with small steps.

Whether it's adding strength training for the first time or refining your technique, remember that consistency and progress are what matter most.

-Tanja x

P.S. If you'd like to see my exact workout routine, send me an email: tanja@tanjashaw.com

Have you ever...

...eaten ALL. THE. CHIPS. because your kids opened the bag?
...polished off 3 glasses of wine because, well, it was a gift?
...blamed stress when you 'fell off the wagon?'.

It's easy to feel like the world (and people around us) are conspiring to derail our goals, but here's the truth: it's not about them. It's about YOU.

Let this week's podcast be your kick in the butt to start OWNING your choices and to stop letting feelings and circumstances dictate your choices. 

If you've ever said, "This is just the way I am" or "It's too hard to change," this episode is for you. Change starts when you recognize that YOU have the power to shift your life, one choice at a time.

You can control what you do. And in any situation, there is a choice.

As always, I'd love to hear your thoughts. What's one area where you can start taking more responsibility for your actions today?

To your success,
Tanja x

What do headaches, fatigue, insomnia, sugar cravings, and weight loss resistance have in common?

Well, besides that they are all unpleasant experiences, they are also all signs of blood sugar dysregulation.

And while eating more protein and less sugary carbs can help, changing your diet might not be enough to stabilize blood sugar, reverse insulin resistance and lose weight.

This week on the Fit and Vibrant You Podcast, I am joined by Danielle Hamilton, a Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner and a renowned blood sugar expert.

In this episode, we dive deep into the science about circadian rhythm, and how light impacts our metabolic health, gut and hormones.

Danielle breaks down the different kinds of light, how they affect us, and why it is important, and simple strategies to implement in your life.

You are going to LOVE this episode!

Danielle "Dani" Hamilton is a Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner and a renowned blood sugar expert specializing in hypoglycemia, and reactive hypoglycemia. Her journey into this specialized field was fuelled by her personal battle with PCOS, which she successfully reversed after learning that blood sugar issues and insulin resistance were at the root.

From overcoming PCOS, hypoglycemia, cystic acne, PMS, and weight loss resistance, Dani realized the power of stable blood sugar and its vital role in overall health. This drives her mission to empower others to recognize and remedy their blood sugar issues, even when the early signs are often dismissed or misdiagnosed.

ENJOY!
-Tanja x

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellehamiltonhealth
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daniellehamiltonhealth
Website: https://daniellehamiltonhealth.com/
Podcast: https://unlockthesugarshackles.buzzsprout.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH9oPLW019uqEZc_Ftvyn5Q
Blood Sugar Mastery Waitlist: https://www.daniellehamiltonhealth.com/blood-sugar-mastery

I have a love-hate relationship with tracking habits and activities.

I wish I could get results and make great choices without tracking, but if I'm honest with myself, I'm WAY more consistent and focused when I do.

Tracking makes me more aware of my habits, and when you measure something, you naturally try to improve it.

As James Clear says, "You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems." It's those small, daily actions that lead to the big changes we want to see.

Here are a few things I've learned about habit tracking:

• Don't Overtrack. I used to track EVERYTHING—from dates with my husband to calories and the number of times I went live on Facebook. I spent more time curating the perfect life than living it. Now, I focus on the most important habits. Remember, just because you're not tracking something doesn't mean you're not doing it

• Performing the Habit Might Not Be Enough.
  This is especially true for activities like dates with your spouse. You can go through the motions just to tick the box, or you can be more intentional and present.
  
  
• Assess Progress Toward Your Goal.
  If you're tracking calories and workouts, make sure to check your progress occasionally—whether through a weigh-in or a body composition check—to ensure your habits are moving you toward your goals.
  
  
• Be Specific with Your Goals.
  If your goal is mindful eating, for example, make it specific: aim to eat mindfully for at least one meal a day.
  
  
• Take Out the Drama!
  Tracking habits is all about DATA. Ditch the shame and guilt when you're not perfect. You'll find you're WAY more consistent when you approach tracking this way.
  
  
• It's OK to Take Breaks.
  I don't always track if I'm away or if it would be super inconvenient. Sometimes, I take weeks or even months off, and that's perfectly fine.
  
  

To make habit tracking easier, I've created a Google spreadsheet that helps me track my daily habits.

Send me a dm or email me: tanja@tanjashaw.com to download it!

Take a listen to today's episode and I'd love to hear how it's working for you and what habits you're focusing on!

Tanja x

SO MANY people swear that meal prep and planning will revolutionize their lives, make things easier, and dramatically improve their eating habits (and it's true, it will)... but then, they just don't do it.

Why not, you ask? Well, it turns out there are quite a few hurdles:

• Bandwidth to Get Started: We all have a million things on our plates, and starting something new can feel overwhelming.
• Perfectionism: The belief that everything needs to be perfect right out of the gate.
• Limiting Beliefs: Thoughts like "I'm just not good at this" or "I don't have time."
• Overcomplication: Making it more complex than it needs to be.
• Time: The eternal struggle of finding enough of it.

The quickest way forward isn't to DO more, but to BREAK THROUGH these barriers.

In this week's podcast, I'm diving into how we can SIMPLIFY meal prep and planning. We'll explore practical tips and tricks to save time in the kitchen and finally banish the dreaded "What do I eat?" question for good.

Here are a few tips to get you started:

1. Start Small: Don't try to plan every meal for the week. Begin with just one or two meals.
2. Batch Cooking: Cook larger portions and freeze leftovers for those busy days.
3. Keep It Simple: Stick to recipes with minimal ingredients and prep time.
4. Use a Planner: Write down your meal plan so you're not scrambling at the last minute.

Ready to make your life easier and your eating habits healthier? Tune in to our latest podcast episode and let's simplify meal prep and planning together!

I'm so glad you're here!

- Tanja x

P.S. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed and stressed out? It's that moment when everything seems too much to handle.

You might feel the urge to numb out, cry, give up, or reach for comfort food. Perhaps you're even tempted to skip your workout because you're just too busy.

I can relate! That's why I've put together this podcast on 7 powerful questions you can ask yourself when you're in such situations.

And please, don't get overwhelmed by the number of questions. Simply choose one or two that resonate with you and focus on practicing them.

Because, friend, you deserve to feel good. You deserve to find calm in the chaos.

I am so glad that you're here. Hit play, and let's talk!

-Tanja x

Over 300 episodes ago (episode 103), I recorded a podcast called The Diet "Rules" that are Actually Worth Following. 

It was one of my most popular podcasts, and this week I'm doing an updated version.

My goal is to simplify nutrition. To throw out the dogmatic cult like approach and start to explore what works for you, while allowing some flexibility so that you can still make progress while enjoying life.

There's no doubt, nutrition matters. What you put into your body will affect how you feel, how your body looks and how your body functions. One of the question I get asked ALL the time is "what should I eat?".

If you rely on Dr. Google for your answer, you'll find a spectrum of answers, from Atkins to the Zone Diet (and everything in between), all backed by hundreds of success stories and before and after pictures.

They all work… For somebody. And they all work, usually for at least 4-6 weeks.

We keep searching for the 'best diet' or diet hack that will easily help us shed pounds, have more energy, or reach any other goal we desire.

But the truth is, there is no "best diet". There's only the best diet for YOU. And I believe that's one that you can stick to. 

However, there are a few basic rules that are ACTUALLY worth following.

And that's exactly what I share on this week's podcast.

Press play and take a listen!

-Tanja x

Have you ever been intrigued or perhaps confused by the sensational health claims you see on social media? Whether it's the latest superfood, a miracle supplement, or a new diet trend, understanding the truth behind these claims can be challenging.

What should you believe? How much evidence is enough to change your habits?

I'm excited to share with you the latest episode of the Fit + Vibrant You Podcast, where I explore the limitations of health studies and provide examples of how these sensational health claims are often not relevant in real life.

In this episode, we delve into:

• The critical difference between correlation and causation in health research.
• How to discern between statistical significance and clinical significance – and why it matters to you.
• What to look for when learning about studies.

The internet is FULL of comments from people who really don't understand science. The goal of THIS podcast is to help all of us become critical thinkers so we can understand what the science ACTUALLY tells us.

Curious to know more? Tune in and empower yourself with the knowledge to navigate the complex world of nutrition and health studies.

Your journey to informed health decisions starts here. 

-Tanja x

Everything was going well in her life… except her weight. She was a smart, successful, driven person, why couldn't she lose weight?

Can you relate?

I am thrilled to share a very real conversation with Michelle Pfile. We decided to let the conversation unfold naturally and I'm so glad we did.

Michelle is a former Top 100 Aveda Salon and Spa owner who pivoted everything at the height of her career to find true fulfillment and purpose by helping women find freedom through health and wealth.

Today we discuss:

⭐️ The pivotal moment that lead Michelle to lose 80 pounds and change careers in her 40s

⭐️ How she swung into being obsessed with food and weight loss. finding the middle ground, and what she's learned from the journey

⭐️ How Michelle handled weight loss plateaus, even for months at a time

⭐️ Why it's so important to start listening to your own body, as hard as that may be

⭐️ How Michelle stays committed to taking care of her health and keeping the weight off.

I can relate to so much of what Michelle has to say in our conversation. I found myself nodding along as Michelle shared her relatable, real, and powerful story.

So, go out for walk or grab a warm beverage and listen in. You'll be glad you did.

-Tanja x

Connect with Michelle:

http://michellepfile.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsmichellepfile/ 

Two months ago, If someone asked me if I take care of myself, I would answer yes.

I strength train 2-3 x per week and hike or run the other days. 
I stretch and go for a walk most days.
I journal most mornings and practice gratitude.
I mostly choose healthy foods.
I drink very little alcohol (and now not at all)
I mostly enjoy my work.

But then I read the book God on a Harley, and now I'm not so sure.

In the book, God, who takes the character of the motorcyclist Joe, gives the main character six commandments to live by. 

One of them was to take care of yourself, first and foremost.

He said to the main character "you spend 40 hours a week at a job you think you hate, and you spend the rest of your waking hours lamenting over how imperfect you think your body is and how lonely you are without a man in your life".

Oh. That.

Let me ask you... are you taking care of yourself?

Join me in this week's podcast as we expand the definition of self care beyond health practices and spa treatments. 

The new definition includes things like:

🧠 Mindful Self-Talk

🚧 Setting Boundaries

🚫 Avoiding Comparisons

⏳ Slowing Down

💖 Embracing Emotions

Take a listen and let me know what you think!

-Tanja x

Autumn was told that her autoimmune condition would affect her ability to have another baby.

She was told that it was incurable.

But Autumn was determined to find another way forward.

When you Know Better, You Do Better.

That's the name of her podcast, and Autumn McLees is on a mission to share an alternative to traditional practices in health care the food industry, dentistry, childbirth and beyond. and equip others to explore holistic health.

Some of the key points from our conversation:

• The infomercial that changed her life

• How she healed an autoimmune disease with holistic health care

• That healing means figuring out what's causing the INTERFERENCE with your health, removing it, and supporting the body's ability to heal

• The specific protocols and modalities Autumn used to heal

• How to make simple swaps to remove the stressors to your body

Enjoy!

-Tanja x

Download Autumn's Clean Swap Guide here: https://know-better-do-better.ck.page/fd698ea11c

The Book "Self Heal by Design" that was mentioned: https://www.selfhealbydesign.com/

Autumn McLees challenges the status quo, equipping women to explore alternative/ holistic  health paths. After overcoming a life-altering autoimmune disease naturally, she's now pioneering her way on an unbeaten path that few, if any, have attempted when battling Hepatitis C.

Autumn spearheads a top-rated podcast, "Know Better | Do Better," dedicated to advocating for holistic health awareness. As a certified high-performance coach and multifaceted entrepreneur, Autumn has earned recognition through awards, TV and radio appearances, magazine features, news articles, and multiple certifications. For nearly 9 years, Autumn has been the driving force behind a multimillion dollar wellness enterprise, and she is celebrated as a top achiever in her field. Many are eagerly awaiting the launch of her "Holistic Compass for Health & Healing" online course, which unveils the 7 key areas for optimizing your wellness.

Connect with Autumn online:

Website: https://www.autumnmclees.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/autumn.mclees?igsh=YzAwZjE1ZTI0Zg%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
FB: https://www.facebook.com/autumn.mclees/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@autumn.mclees?_t=8loBgSgQBNS&_r=1

I talk A LOT about mindset… but if you're trying to fight your physiology with mindset or willpower, you're going to lose. 

In this week's episode I go over 3 hormones you MUST pay attention to if you want to get the body, and life you want. We'll dive into WHY they matter, and most importantly WHAT TO DO to balance hormones so you can get to your happy, healthy body weight AND love the journey.

Press play, better yet, go for a walk and press play, and join me on the Fit + Vibrant You Podcast!

When you're ready to take the next step, here's how I can help.

Are you feeling burned out?

Are you chasing success but feeling unfulfilled?

Do you feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders?

My friends, I am deeply honoured to have my good friend, Christine Jewell, on the Fit + Vibrant You Podcast.

I personally get so much out of my conversations with Christine, whether as a guest on the podcast, or when we do our 'walk and talks'. Christine is not only a true friend, but mentor and role model.

In this podcast Christine shares:

💎 The  moment everything changed her life and what it actually looks like to walk through a season of being lost and finding your true calling.

💎 The importance of giving ourselves permission to rest. Unlearning the messages of striving and pushing and to reset your nervous system.

💎 The truth about people pleasing, even if it seems to come from a good place.

I highly encourage you to order Christine's book, Dropping the Armor to unlock the fulfilling, passionate, purposeful life you have always known was possible.

Christine Jewell is an author, keynote speaker, and faith based executive coach with  over 25 years of experience in the fields of Health + Peak Performance, Entrepreneurship + Human Behaviour . She is also the host of the Breaking Chains Podcast.

As the Founder of Warriors Of The Heart, she specializes in guiding highly successful CEO's and Impact driven leaders to break out of the superficial "life" they've built, redefine success and step into a whole new playing field grounded in eternal, life giving principles.

As a mother of 6, ages 6-20, through a blended family, a wife, high level athlete, multiple business owner and entrepreneur since her 20's, she is intimately familiar with the overwhelm and burnout that can come when building a 'dream' life, as well as what's possible on the other side.

Through years of trials, burning things down and rebuilding from the ashes of her past, she has ditched the rules of this world, following the calling on her heart to cultivate a life of total alignment - where there is more than enough time for her most meaningful work, extraordinary relationships, a legacy of impact - and plenty of rest!

Connect with Christine online:

Website: https://www.thechristinejewell.com/
Podcast: https://pod.link/1579338652
Linkedin: https://www.instagram.com/thechristinejewell/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechristinejewell

Exercise. 
Diet.
Have a positive mindset.

That pretty much sums up what most of us are taught about weight loss. 

And it can work... until it doesn't anymore.

Join me on today's podcast as I share 5 things I wish more women knew about weight loss.

If your goal is weight loss (or weight maintenance), this podcast is for you.

And, if you're looking for help, I have a 12 week coaching program to coach women 40+ to  end the struggle with food so they can lose weight without the obsession and feel free in their body and their life.

Go to www.tanjashaw.com/apply to book a time to chat.

You deserve to feel good,

-Tanja x

Greta had struggled with food for decades.

She could stick with it for a while, but then would fall off the 'wagon'.

And now, she's feeling FREE with food. 

She takes care of her health with joy. She no longer sneaks food. She is excited to go on vacations knowing she can enjoy herself AND feel good about her choices.

And she's losing weight.

So what does is really take to end the struggle with food?

Join my conversation with my amazing client, Greta, as she shares the mindset shifts and strategies that worked for her.

If you have been struggling with food and weight for too long, let's chat.

I have a 12 week coaching program to coach women 40+ to  end the struggle with food so they can lose weight without the obsession and feel free in their body and their life.

Go to www.tanjashaw.com/apply to book a time to chat.

You deserve to feel good,

-Tanja x

Do you want to live a fit, vibrant life for many, many years?
Do you want to ENJOY those years?
Do you want to do it without following complicated or arduous plans?

If so, you are going to LOVE my interview with Celine Vadam.

Celine Vadam, is a holistic health and lifestyle coach, yoga teacher and host of Blue Zones Retreat.

Join our conversation as we discuss:

• The 9 health practices for longevity

• The power of community and connection on our health and enjoyment of life

• Simple nutrition principles to follow

• What are Blue Zones

• How to curate an environment that makes health living EASIER

• Whether we really need as much protein as 'they' say we do

• How to get started

• The importance of looking at wellness on a more holistic perspective (not just diet/exercise/supplements)

I would love to hear what YOUR biggest takeaway was from the conversation or from watching the documentary on the Blue Zones.

-Tanja x

Get in touch with Celine and learn more about the Blue Zones:

http://www.bluezones.com/retreats
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluezones/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/celinevadam/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/bluezones/mycompany/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/celine-vadam/

In the last few months, I have been eating more plant based meals, and less meat, dairy and eggs. 

When I learned about a local plant based cooking class (that included a lot of tasty samples), I said YES PLEASE!

At the beginning of the class, one gentleman gave a presentation on the benefits of plant based meals. What piqued my interest more than the benefits of eating more fibre and veggies, was what he said about creating CHANGE.

Whether you are working on eating less sugar, more plants, less alcohol, exercising more or ANYTHING at all, this podcast is for you.

In fact, even if you're not working on anything at all, this podcast is still for you ❤️

Press play and let's chat!

-Tanja x

If this podcast helps you in anyway, I would love for you to help me spread the message by:
1. Leaving a review on iTunes or wherever you listen to podcasts,
2. Share this podcast with a friend
3. Take a screenshot of the podcast (or a pic of you listening to it!) and share it to social media. Tag me in it so I can celebrate you!

LINKS:

• Schedule a 45 minute call to learn more about working together: www.tanjashaw.com/apply

• Free Quiz: Uncover Your weight Loss roadblocks: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/63113287ad02da00168262be 

• Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanja_shaw/ 

• Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tanjamshaw 

Eat less. Move more.

Count your calories. Or points. Or macros.

Eat at much protein and fat as you want but avoid carbs and sugar.

Eat anything you want as long as it fits your macros.

Just follow this simple meal plan.

Only eat within a 8 hour window.

Stop eating after 7.

How many of these have you tried to lose weight?

How is it working for you?

You might have heard someone argue that you shouldn't cut carloies, you should just avoid carbs instead. Or that instead of restricting calories, just focus on the TIME you eat. That weight loss has nothing to do with calories, just hormones.

Someone else says that you should cut meat and all animal products. And that you NEED breakfast and that fasting will tank your hormones.

And perhaps BOTH can be right for somebody, but the real question is...

Why are you going to food when you're not hungry?

Learning and focusing on nutrition is both necessary to lose weight AND a distraction from working through your emotional eating, all or nothing thinking, binge eating, perfectionism, people pleasing and feelings of unworthiness.

You might not believe it, but you do deserve to feel good.

Press play and let's chat!

-Tanja 

If this podcast helps you in anyway, I would love for you to help me spread the message by:
1. Leaving a review on iTunes or wherever you listen to podcasts,
2. Share this podcast with a friend
3. Take a screenshot of the podcast (or a pic of you listening to it!) and share it to social media. Tag me in it so I can celebrate you!

LINKS:

• Schedule a 45 minute call to learn more about working together: www.tanjashaw.com/apply

• Free Quiz: Uncover Your weight Loss roadblocks: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/63113287ad02da00168262be 

• Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanja_shaw/ 

• Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tanjamshaw 

Most women I work with are either in perimenopause, or are postmenopausal (makes sense as I work with women in midlife and beyond, and menopause is technically just one day).

They tell me "what worked before is no longer working… it's my hormones."

It's TRUE that hormones change and that hormones can absolutely affect your weight loss. 

But so often we focus so much on the fact that our hormones are changing that it distracts us from the thing that is actually getting in our way, which is our basic habits.

Things like…

✨constantly being on your phone

✨not prioritizing sleep

✨not getting enough movement 

✨not getting enough sunlight

✨having a to-do list of 37 things that you're never getting done

✨your negative self-talk

✨eating carb heavy meals or not enough protein + fibre

✨the extra-curricular eating that 'doesn't count'

So yes, hormones can change, and they can affect weight loss, but start with the foundations.

Press play on today's episode to dive into the foundational habits to improve your energy, lose weight, and simply feel GOOD in midlife and beyond. 

-Tanja x

P.S. If this podcast helps you in anyway, I would love for you to help me spread the message by:
1. Leaving a review on iTunes or wherever you listen to podcasts,
2. Share this podcast with a friend
3. Take a screenshot of the podcast (or a pic of you listening to it!) and share it to social media. Tag me in it so I can celebrate you!

You WANT to lose weight. You WANT a healthier relationship with food. You WANT to get off the on-again-off-again diet cycle.

I believe you.

And yet... you still don't put in the effort. You don't get help. You let life get in the way.

What gives?

Press play and join me to discover the five most common roadblocks to losing weight.

If you this message resonates with you and you are ready to OVERCOME your roadblocks to weight loss, let's chat. Go to www.tanjashaw.com/apply to book a 45 minute call to learn more about working together. 

I'm so glad you're here!

-Tanja x

P.S. If this podcast helps you in anyway, I would love for you to help me spread the message by:
1. Leaving a review on iTunes or wherever you listen to podcasts,
2. Share this podcast with a friend
3. Take a screenshot of the podcast (or a pic of you listening to it!) and share it to social media. Tag me in it so I can celebrate you!

"Less stress, more calm" is one of my goals. And it's been a goal for the past 6 years.

Some days I live into that goal. I feel joyful. Light. Present. Grateful. Calm.

Many days I don't.

And while I KNOW that a meditation practice would help… and yet as I write this I am wildly inconsistent.

Five weeks on. Four months off.

Three days on. Two years off.

I know I'm not alone. And that's why I'm thrilled to have Jeff Patterson on the Fit and Vibrant You Podcast.

Jeff Patterson has over 36 years of experience, practicing and teaching the meditative and martial arts. As the founder of Northwest Fighting Arts/Portland Tai Chi Academy, where he emphasizes the transformative power of meditative and martial arts practices, particularly the yielding concept.

In this podcast, Jeff shares

• Why meditation is beneficial (and why it might initially be hard to get started)
• The three types of meditation and finding the best meditation practice for you
• Common myths about meditation that might lead you to believe 'you're doing it wrong'
• Simple tools to get started

If you want less stress and more calm in your life, press play and take a listen to my conversation with Jeff Patterson.

-Tanja x

Get in touch with Jeff:

https://www.theyieldingwarrior.com/membership/
https://www.theyieldingwarrior.com/book
https://portlandtaichiacademy.com

You asked, I answered!

Today's podcast comes from questions asked in the Fitness, Nutrition and Weight Loss Support for Women 40+ Facebook Group.

Today's questions:
1. I don't look at my body in the mirror. How can I get over my body image issues?

2. In a society that idealizes youth, how can I embrace aging?

3. I'm new to strength training! How can I get started?

4. What are your thoughts on Ozempic and similar weight loss drugs?

This is YOUR show. If you have a question or topic suggestion, DM on Instagram or Facebook, email me at tanja@tanjashaw.com or ask in the Facebook group.

-Tanja x

P. S. Have you registered for the LIVE training on the 5 Critical Mistakes Women 40+ Make When Trying to Lose Weight? You can register for FREE here. 

Should you train fasted or is it wise to eat before you train?
What should you eat after your workout?
Is low carb the best method for weight loss?

With the vast amount of information out there, my conversation with Philip Pape offers much-needed simple and practical guide to improve your fitness and physique without needing a science degree or making it a fulltime job.

Philip Pape is a high-performance nutrition coach, physique engineer, and host of the Wits & Weights top 25 nutrition podcast. Through his personal transformation to become the strongest, leanest, and healthiest version of himself, Philip understands the effectiveness of using strength training and evidence-based nutrition to enhance your physique and finally "look like you lift." Philip helps lifters with demanding lifestyles achieve a more defined, muscular, leaner physique without wasting time. He works with clients to do more with less, break through plateaus, fuel their performance, and optimize their metabolism, energy, and health without feeling restricted. Philip is passionate about helping you get unstuck inside and outside the gym to discover the knowledge and confidence to reveal your ideal physique.

Connect with Philip online:

Wits & Weights Podcast: https://bit.ly/witsandweightspodcast
IG: https://www.instagram.com/witsandweights/
FREE Muscle-Building Nutrition Blueprint: https://witsandweights.com/free/muscle-building-nutrition-blueprint

Over this past spring break, I spent some time at a bookstore. As a health professional, I was drawn to the wellness section, and found myself lost in a maze of information. It's no wonder so many people tell me they are confused by all the conflicting information!

I believe that simplicity is the cornerstone of sustainable health and fitness. It's easier to stick to AND delivers great results.

Let this podcast episode be a breath of fresh air as we cut through the noise and get back to the foundations so that you can have more energy, eat foods you love and feel good in your body. 

Hit play as I share:
✔️Why the information is not as conflicting as you might think
✔️How to determine what plan is best for you
✔️Why all the different options to lose weight and improve your health is actually a good thing
✔️Two resources to get started on the foundations for weight loss and healthy living

If this podcast helps you in anyway, I would love for you to help me spread the message by:
1. Leaving a review on iTunes or wherever you listen to podcasts,
2. Share this podcast with a friend
3. Take a screenshot of the podcast (or a pic of you listening to it!) and share it to social media. Tag me in it so I can celebrate you!

I'm so glad you're here!

-Tanja x

Ever feel like taking care of yourself goes to the bottom of your list?

Your workouts happen if there's time (after kids, grandkids, parents, work, volunteer, and other hobbies). Or maybe you squeeze in your workouts and always have healthy meals prepped, but you never give yourself time to do something just for fun.

If you ONLY needed to focus on you, it would be pretty easy.

But you are human, and you have other priorities in life.

Join me in this episode for an important mindset shift (and strategies to practice it) to put being the best version of YOU on your priority list everyday.

I am so glad that you're here. Hit play, and let's talk!

P.S. I would LOVE your help to reach out to more women so they can hear this message and get off the self-loathing diet cycle too. Here's how you can help:

• Share a screenshot or a link to the podcast on social media and tag a friend (be sure to tag me too so I can say thank you!)
• Leave a review on iTunes
• Subscribe to the podcast

You are the author of your story; you are not a character. How do you want this next chapter of your life to go?

You might have a clear vision, or you might feel a bit stuck. You're not sure what you want, or what is even possible for you? Either way, this week's episode is for YOU. Be prepared to be inspired by the amazing Wendy Battles who works for Yale University by day and hosts the empowering podcast, Reinvention Rebels by night.

The podcast is Wendy's platform to pursue her passion of celebrating, illuminating and elevating midlife and older women. In the interview we discuss how to navigate your own reinvention, whether you are approaching midlife, or well into your 90s.

Some of my highlights from the episode are:

• How to overcome the fears of the 'what if's' with Wendy's favourite 'kick fear to the curb' question

• The refreshing truth about success, and what it takes to be successful

• The mindset shift to develop unshakable belief in yourself at any state in your life

• Wendy's own personal story of reinvention and learning how to live on purpose, embrace failures, and experience more joy

Connect with Wendy:

Website: reinventionrebels.com
Instagram: @‌reinventionrebels
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ReinventionRebels
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyabattles/

• You feel uptight in your body.
• You feel disconnected.
• You are in your head.
• You KNOW you should be grateful, but you can't seem to feel it.

I used to be overwhelmed all the time. My tendency towards perfectionism didn't help. 

I have decided that I will no longer tolerate the feeling of overwhelm, but that doesn't mean I don't get challenged from time to time.

Join me today as I share the exact mindset shifts and strategies (right from my journal!) that I used to work through my most recent episode of the whirl of stress, fear, doubt and "I have too much to do" feelings.  

Let me ask… how's your stress level?
Do feel present and calm in life?
Or do you feel a bit on edge… and perhaps you find yourself reaching for something to nibble on just to take the edge off?

If so, you're not alone. And essential oils can help.

I personally am brand new to essential oils, so I invited Kari Davis onto the podcast for a 'how-to' for those of us who are new-ish to using them.

In our thirty-ish minute conversation, you'll walk away knowing…
❤️ How essential oils helped her through the loss of her husband
❤️ How to get started with essential oils without the overwhelm
❤️ The specific essential oils that can help reduce stress, cravings and emotional eating

Kari Davis (The Well- Health and Wholeness Podcast), is founder of http://thewellteam.com and a certified Holistic Life Coach and an essential oils educator.   Kari is passionate about empowering women with the tools they need to reclaim their life through self care, health and finding their identity while embracing the idea of a natural and non-toxic lifestyle in their products and mindset.  Kari and her husband, Bobby, live in Naples, Florida with their combined five children.

Connect with Kari:

Facebook Community: http://www.bit.ly/thewellfbgroup

http://www.thewellteam.com

Instagram @‌karidavis_thewell

Morning Routine Download:

www.thewellteam.com/morningroutine

For 8 months, my Apple Watch has been living in my bedside drawer. And I am happier.

And for 5 or 6 years, I dutifully wore my device. I charged it at night, closed my 'rings' and liked the data. I liked knowing I burned 300 calories in my strength workout.

I liked knowing how far I ran, or how fast I ran.

And I especially liked being able to click a button to play a sound on my phone (I used that function many times a day).

In this week's podcast I share WHY I decided to retire my watch, but I'm not saying you should do the same.

Like any tool, whether it be the bathroom scale or a kitchen knife, it depends on how it's used.

A knife, for example, can create an amazing dinner for your family, or it can evoke serious harm.

To use your tracker well, it's important to understand its uses and limitations. And that's exactly what I share in today's episode.

If you're tempted to skip it because you don't want to give up your watch, this episode is especially for you. And once again, I'm not going to suggest you give it up.

I will suggest that you reflect on your own relationship with your device and to assess if it is helpful for you. 

Press play and join me for this chat!

I'd love to know your thoughts... do you love your tracker? Do you have a rocky relationship with it?

Always listening, 
-Tanja x

Ah… Consistency.

You may not see it as the 'secret' to losing 20 pounds on the cover of Women's World, but we both know that it is THE KEY to long term, lasting change.

So how do we do it?

That my friend, is exactly what this podcast with special guest, Kelly Howard, is all about.

Kelly Howard is a Fitness Consistency Expert with a touch of Adventure and the author of FIT: Active & Ageless for Life. For over 25 years Kelly has helped thousands of women prioritize their fitness so they can feel great and have more fun in this second half of life.

Tune in for these gems to crack the code on consistency…

❤️ WHY small changes actually create results FASTER than starting big
❤️ The 4 myths of fitness that keep you from reaching your goals (are you doing them?)
❤️ How layered accountability can be the missing link to sticking with your goals for the long term

Enjoy my conversation with Kelly!

-Tanja x

Connect with Kelly online:

Website: https://fitisfreedom.com/
Facebook Page: https://web.facebook.com/FITisFREEDOMNow/
Facebook Group: https://web.facebook.com/groups/kellyhoward
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fit_is_freedom/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-howard-fitisfreedom/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fitisfreedom216
Kelly's eBook: https://fitisfreedom.com/ebook-free

Fit is Freedom Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fit-is-freedom-with-kelly-howard/id1433779759

Are you great at losing weight... but not so great at keeping it off?

Most women never figured out how to live life after losing weight. Keeping it off is harder than losing it in the first place and without a plan in place, this will be a lifelong struggle. 

In today's episode, I uncover 5 common reasons behind weight gain, and more importantly, what to do instead to end this frustrating cycle. 

Press play because you deserve to feel good!

-Tanja x

P.S. Registration for the 5 Day Foundations of Fat Loss Challenge is now open. To sign up for FREE go to www.tanjashaw.com/challenge

Have you ever wondered what your purpose is?
Have you ever felt off purpose, or lost after your kids leave the house, you retire, or other major life change?

No matter where you are in this journey of life, you're going to LOVE my conversation with Gina Farrar.

Gina R. Farrar is a wife, mom, artist and podcaster with a passion to empower women to live vibrantly in midlife and beyond.

In this episode we explore:

• The secret to finding your purpose so that you feel more fulfilled in life

• The most common beliefs that get in the way of living a purposeful life (and how to change them)

• Key strategies, routines and mindset shifts to navigate the different seasons of our life with joy and gratitude

I'm so glad you're here and I hope you enjoyed my conversation with Gina!

-Tanja x

Connect with Gina online:
http://www.feminineroadmap.com
https://www.instagram.com/feminineRoadmap
https://www.facebook.com/feminineRoadmap

Are you eating well, but the scale still won't budge?

I used to think that you're overweight because you overeat. I now know better as I work with many women who struggle with weight loss resistance and eating less is NOT the answer.

However, for many people, the reason weight is a struggle is actually because they are eating too much. 

Despite our best intentions, humans have a tendency to underestimate their food consumption.

Join me as I break down three common reasons you might be overeating without knowing it... and what to do about it.

Press play and let's go!

-Tanja x

Self-care isn't selfish and people pleasing is.

Yep, you read that right.

And while you might know it's true intellectually, are you ACTING like it?

Do you try to appease everyone else at the detriment of your wellbeing?
Do you worry about your grown up kid's challenges like they're your own?
Do you 'just want your kids to be happy'?

If you're a parent, grandparent, step-parent or are in anyway somewhat responsible for another human beings upbringing, you'll want to tune into my interview with Pam Howard.

Pam Howard is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, former K-8 School Counselor, and Master Life Coach for high-achieving moms who want to feel as successful in their parenting as they do in other areas of their lives. She helps them feel calm, confident, and connected to their kids so they can find peace and joy in motherhood.

In this episode we explore:

• The common beliefs that are keeping you from having a more joyful and close relationship with your kids (such as "I just want them to be happy"

• What it actually looks like to set boundaries in your life

• Why you are the best mom for the job

• The power of the word 'AND'

Through her #1 bestselling book, engaging weekly podcasts, practical strategies, and laser-sharp coaching, Pam helps women get unstuck and feel like rockstar moms—while making it all feel like they're talking with a trusted friend and mentor.

Her advice has been featured on HuffPost Parents and StepMom Magazine, and clients have described her coaching sessions as "life changing" and "more effective than years of therapy."
When she's not supporting women to show up as the moms they most want to be, you can find her hanging out with her own amazing teens, singing and dancing to Meghan Trainor songs in the kitchen, and savoring squares of 88% organic dark chocolate.

Connect with Pam:
http://www.lessdramamoremama.com
IG - @‌lessdramamama
FB - @‌lessdramamoremama