Part 4 of our conversation with Zeke Mercer dives deep into personal evolution, self-awareness, and the courage to reassess life’s direction. Zeke candidly discusses recognizing when wrestling — something she deeply loves — has become “one of the weeds,” using the metaphor of “planting flowers and pulling weeds” to frame growth and change.

Jim and Zeke explore how “things work until they don’t,” the nature of ignorance (both willful and systemic), and the importance of developing critical thinking skills. The conversation expands into individuality versus group identity, referencing themes echoed in 1984 and Fahrenheit 451, and how society often claims uniqueness while gravitating toward conformity.

The episode closes with a powerful message from Zeke about being yourself, questioning your choices, and understanding that nothing is permanent. This discussion is about reflection, transitions, and knowing which weeds to pull in your own life.

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In Part 3 of our conversation with Zeke Mercer, we dive deeper into themes of identity, perception, and personal growth. Zeke discusses healthcare bias, longstanding societal beliefs, and how misinformation shapes real-world experiences.

The conversation explores the dangers of bitterness and resentment, the balance between ego and skill, and the importance of cultivating environments where people can truly grow. Drawing parallels between wrestling and life, Zeke shares insights on authenticity, competence, and self-respect.

This episode is a reflective and honest exploration of mindfulness, awareness, and the courage to live truthfully.

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This holiday message from Fishing Without Bait is a moment of pause and gratitude.

Jim Ellermeyer shares a short reflection for the season — acknowledging the challenges and emotions that often come with the holidays, while offering encouragement, mindfulness, and compassion. Whether the holidays are joyful, difficult, or somewhere in between, this message reminds us to stay present and gentle with ourselves.

Thank you for listening, for growing, and for being part of this community. We’re grateful to walk this journey with you.

In this thought-provoking episode of "Fishing Without Bait," host Jim Ellermeyer welcomes guest Mike Oglesbee for a deep dive into personal transformation, the significance of setting boundaries, and the liberating power of choice. Oglesbee shares his profound journey of overcoming family estrangement and the challenges of growing up in a toxic environment, highlighting the pivotal decision to stand up for himself and the ensuing path to self-discovery. This episode sheds light on the destructive nature of imposed identities and societal expectations, especially on young women, and offers a fresh perspective on embracing imperfections and redefining personal success.

Listeners will gain invaluable insights into dealing with low self-esteem, breaking free from toxic situations, and the importance of nurturing one’s mental health. Oglesbee emphasizes the role of self-awareness, the necessity of conscious decision-making, and the concept of time as our most valuable asset. Through a blend of personal anecdotes and professional wisdom, this episode encourages a shift towards a more objective and truthful understanding of oneself and the world.

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In this episode of "Fishing Without Bait," host Jim Ellermeyer is joined by Mike Oglesbee, a seasoned mindset coach and hypnotherapist. They delve into the transformative power of the mind and the journey to self-improvement through full impact mindfulness. Mike shares his path from curiosity in psychology to becoming a hypnotherapist, emphasizing the importance of self-talk and the conscious effort needed alongside hypnotherapy for lasting change. They discuss the crucial role of love in personal growth, the impact of emotional needs, and strategies for breaking negative self-talk and emotional impulsive decisions. The conversation also covers the significance of self-concept, self-esteem, and the fundamental human rights in relationships. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on unlocking your potential by aligning your subconscious and conscious minds through mindfulness and self-compassion.

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Jim Ellermeyer, a behavioral health therapist, explores the transformative concept of full impact mindfulness and living without definitive expectations. The podcast delves into the intricacies of personal and professional life, emphasizing the importance of feeling valued, redefining success, and the power of choice. With a blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and practical advice, Jim and co-host producer Mr. Mike engage listeners in a journey towards self-awareness, balance, and empowerment, urging them to make incremental changes and embrace life's challenges with an open heart and mind.

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Jim Ellermeyer, a behavioral health therapist, and producer Mike, discuss significant issues such as work-related stress, relationship challenges, and the essence of human happiness, referencing psychological theories and personal anecdotes. They delve into the distinctions between love and work, joy versus pleasure, and the importance of emotional expression and health, particularly in men. The discussion also covers how to manage negative people and environments, aiming to inspire listeners towards mindfulness and positivity in their lives.

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In this episode of "Fishing Without Bait," host Jim Ellermeyer and guest Santina Grace explore profound themes such as the acceptance of death, the beauty of life, and the significance of living without regret. They delve into the importance of peace, forgiveness, and gratitude, discussing personal experiences and societal issues. The conversation also touches upon the value of human connection, the impact of fear and politics on society, and the spiritual journey towards understanding and kindness. The episode encourages listeners to embrace life fully, emphasizing mindfulness, compassion, and the pursuit of genuine happiness.

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In this episode of "Fishing Without Bait," host Jim Ellermeyer welcomes guest Santina Grace to explore themes of connection, awareness, and spiritual understanding. Santina shares her insights on the importance of connecting with nature and oneself, the interpretation of energy fields and colors, and her ability to sense the nearing end of life through energy observation. They delve into personal experiences that highlight the significance of mindfulness and the interconnectedness of all things. The conversation also touches on cultural and spiritual beliefs about life, death, and the afterlife, advocating for a mindful approach to life that honors the natural world and our place within it.

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Jim Ellermeyer is joined once again by clairvoyant Santina Grace to delve into the essence of living a fulfilling life through mindfulness. Discover practical advice for incorporating joy into your daily routine and learn how to navigate life's challenges without definitive expectations.

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Jim Ellermeyer with pro wrestling Ryan Zane about his journey through wrestling and mental health, focusing on self-discovery, the ongoing nature of personal work, and the importance of mental health support. It emphasizes self-creation over finding oneself, advocating for honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness as the only requirements for participation. Ryan discusses the challenges and growth he has experienced, including dealing with mental health issues, the therapeutic process, and the role of pro wrestling in his personal development and expression.

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Jim Ellermeyer is joined by special guest, pro wrestler Ryan Zane. Together, they dive deep into Ryan's personal journey, discussing the intersections of wrestling, mental health, and the path towards self-improvement. Through candid conversations, they explore themes of forgiveness, the power of apologies, and the importance of encouragement over sympathy. This episode promises to inspire listeners with insights into overcoming life's challenges with mindfulness and resilience, reflecting on both the physical and emotional aspects of wrestling with life's adversities.

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This week we feature host Jim Ellermeyer in conversation with guest Ryan Zane, a professional wrestler. The episode delves into Ryan's personal experiences with wrestling, mental health, and his journey through life. Key topics include the interplay between anxiety and gratitude, the impact of childhood trauma, and personal growth. Ryan shares his struggles with generalized anxiety and how medication has helped him. He also reflects on his family dynamics, the challenges he faced, and how these experiences shaped his perspective and coping mechanisms.

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In Fishing Without Bait Episode 496 – *Clearing the Etch-A-Sketch: Letting Go of What Isn’t Ours, we continue Part 3 of our conversation with returning guest and Clairvoyant **Santina Grace. This episode focuses on healing trauma without rewriting or reliving the past. Through grounding visualizations, breathwork, and recovery-based insights, Santina and the *Fishing Without Bait team discuss how emotional experiences can be deconstructed so they no longer control our present moment. Using metaphors like clearing an Etch-A-Sketch or rooting into the earth through mindful breathing, the conversation highlights how releasing emotional energy that doesn’t belong to us creates space for clarity, neutrality, and joy. We also explore recovery as a universal human process — because everyone is in recovery from something — and how honoring yourself begins with learning to listen. 🎧 Subscribe to Fishing Without Bait on your favorite podcast player 💙 Support the show on Patreon for ad-free episodes: https://www.patreon.com/c/fishingwithoutbait 📘 Pick up our book Learn to Fish Without Bait: A 365-Day Mindfulness Journal and Adult Coloring Book: https://www.lulu.com/shop/james-ellermeyer-lpc-ma-ncc-lpc/learn-to-fish-without-bait/paperback/product-6n9rd8.html?page=1&pageSize=4

Join us in this captivating episode of our podcast where Jim Ellermeyer, a seasoned behavior health therapist, engages in a profound dialogue with Ryan, a passionate professional wrestler performing as Ryan Zane. Dive into their discussion that traverses the intricate paths of self-discovery, personal development, and the nuances of mental health. Discover how Ryan's intriguing journey into professional wrestling, driven by a mix of curiosity and ambition, parallels the broader challenges of balancing a regular day job with the pursuit of a passion. The episode delves into the metaphorical concept of 'wearing masks' – a theme prevalent in wrestling and in the everyday struggle of aligning one's public persona with their true self. Gain insights from Ryan's reflections on his heroes, particularly Mick Foley, and how they've shaped his aspirations in wrestling and beyond.

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Jim Ellermeyer is continuing his conversation with Andrew DiNardo about his weight loss and continuing to deal with body images as he adapts to losing 200 pounds after gastric bypass surgery. They discuss his battling with depression, a time when he had legally died in the back of a church, surrounding ourselves with positive people, and keeping attention completing your task.

Stay tuned for more of our chat with Andrew Dinardo in future episodes.

Find out more about Andrew’s story with his interview on KDKA’s Pittsburgh Today Live.

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Jim Ellermeyer and Producer Mike, discuss the topic of "filtered reality" portrayed on social media. They talk about how social media influencers and platforms like TikTok present an unrealistic, glamorized version of life that negatively impacts young people's self-image and mental health. The hosts criticize "wannabe mental health professionals" on TikTok offering advice without credentials. They advise listeners to consume social media mindfully, understanding much of what they see is carefully curated rather than real life. Jim shares his perspective as a therapist, noting patients have body image issues influenced by media. They encourage listeners to share their own related anecdotes.

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Jim Ellermeyer and Mike discuss life, death, spirituality, and recovery. Jim shares his recent brushes with death and how he faced them without fear due to his spiritual grounding and making amends through recovery. They talk about the importance of living fully in the present moment rather than worrying about the future or past. Jim stresses the value of empowering oneself, identifying fears, always telling the truth, treating people with respect, and carrying positive messages to help others. 

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Jim Ellermeyer discusses setting realistic intentions rather than unrealistic new year's resolutions that set us up for failure. The hosts explore how taking responsibility for the choices we make shapes our lives, emphasizing that we have the power to recreate ourselves every day. Suggest shifting perspective to a beginner's mindset and highlight the importance of motivation, gratitude and forgiveness in setting empowered intentions. With insightful perspectives on cultivating mindfulness, this podcast offers thoughtful food for self-reflection as we embark on a new year.

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Jim Ellermeyer is gearing up for the holidays as we discuss the hurried nature everyone is in, we go back and look at what humanity means. Treating others with compassion regardless of how you know them or your pre conceived notions. Two hosts have a thoughtful discussion about what it means to be human, touching on spirituality, compassion, and our shared humanity. They challenge listeners to consider different perspectives, reflect on how we treat each other, and make the most of our time on Earth.

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Jim Ellermeyer continues his discussion with massage therapist Laura Pickens.  They discuss starting with good eating and exercise before building to the emotional side of what makes you happy.  They discuss how young females lose their notion of self concept.  Laura explains the use of Chakras and how we block the energy flows and resetting our mind. 

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Intro music: “Life” by Tobu.

Jim Ellermeyer is joined by massage therapist Laura Pickens to discuss her philosophy of helping people becoming “unstuck” and the stresses stored in your muscles. Why we need to take care of ourselves first and how to change that thinking in parents.

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Join host Jim Ellermeyer and guest Regina Badger as they have an insightful discussion touching on spirituality, mental health, psychedelics, pro wrestling, and more. They explore the uncertainty in life and the call to cultivate community. Regina shares her passion for building a new future centered around meaning and purpose and experience using DBT and Ayahuasca. Tune in to hear Regina's uplifting life perspective rooted in letting go, forgiveness, and doing good for ourselves and others.

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Jim Ellermeyer and Producer Mike discuss the expectations that cause anxiety around Christmas and the misnomer of Jesus’s birthday.  We discuss why we established December 25 as the holiday. What is important in this season when we are missing our loved ones? 

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In this episode of Fishing Without Bait, we welcome back our imaginative, energetic returning guest Santina Grace for Part 2 of a deeply insightful conversation about mindfulness, self-awareness, grounding practices, and the inner battles so many of us face every day. Together, Santina and Jim dive into themes of anchoring thoughts, depersonalization, perspective shifts, emotional resilience, and reclaiming personal agency.


Santina shares a powerful example of using sensory-based anchors—in this case, strawberry essential oil—to help a client overcome cravings by reconnecting with a memory tied to freedom, comfort, and identity. The discussion expands into how grounding techniques and sensory awareness can support those dealing with derealization or feeling out of place in their own lives.

Jim and Santina also explore how filtered media realities and comparison culture distort our self-worth, leading many to believe they don’t belong. They remind us that turmoil has always existed in every era, and the real work is nurturing compassion—for ourselves first, and then for others whose perspectives differ.


Together they unpack:
• The difference between worry (paralyzing) and concern (actionable awareness)
• How every moment is a choice point
• The importance of checking in with ourselves mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually
• How meditation can look like focus, creativity, movement, or music—not silence
• How the mind’s chatter creates most internal conflict
• The dynamic between the “I-self” and “my-self”
• How befriending your “inner critic” or “inner witch” can reveal unmet needs and opportunities for self-care


This conversation is rich with humor, honesty, and the kind of grounded wisdom that encourages us not to “find ourselves,” but to create ourselves with intention, compassion, curiosity, and joy.

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Regina Badger shares her spiritual journey through psychedelics and how embracing life's challenges leads to growth. She and Jim discuss how we're all connected energetically and the importance of self-forgiveness. They talk about avoiding materialism and social media pressures, instead finding success through community and nature. Though their paths differ, they agree stepping into the unknown with beginner's mind opens us to possibilities. Overall, an insightful discussion on spirituality, letting go of control, and being open to life's journey.

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Regina "Honey" Badger returns to the podcast to discuss her journey back to Christianity. She describes how Jordan Peterson's lectures helped lead her back to God. Regina talks about developing a personal relationship with God, not needing church for that connection. She and Jim discuss the meaning behind Bible stories and not taking them literally. They agree Jesus' message was love and compassion. Regina explains her pro-choice views despite being Christian now, showing complexity around the issue.

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As we continue our 400th episode celebration, we take a moment to reflect on our second episode of the show!

James Ellermeyer explores more into the idea of our lives as Human Beings versus ending up being Humans Doing. How do we move our minds from thinking we have to do something and deciding to do the things we need to from day to day. Episode 2 Human Being vs Human Doing

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As we prepare for our 400th episode, we take a moment to reflect on our first episode of the show!

In this introductory episode, Jim Ellermeyer shares some of the principles in our practice including a Human Being vs Human Doing, knowing how to analyze a situation in your life, how we all time travel in our minds and how we can live in right now.

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After an extended break, Jim Ellermeyer returns to the Fishing Without Bait podcast. He discusses dealing with a recent health issue and hospitalization. Jim emphasizes having a positive attitude, treating staff with kindness, and following medical advice. He reflects on practicing what he preaches about self-care. Jim and co-host Mike share thoughts on reacting well to life's challenges, trusting others, accepting help, and making changes. They express gratitude to listeners and preview upcoming 400th episode celebrations. The hosts promote recovery and living fully.

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Jim Ellermeyer talks with us about our Gratitude Ratio in our lives, looking in the right place, increasing energy levels, and more. 

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Jim Ellermeyer discusses a concept from Gestalt theory and How to survive emotional quicksand as we try not to fall into the trap of looking at who we are not rather than accepting who we are.

From this episode:

"Gestalt Therapy Verbatim"  by Frederick S. Perls 

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How to survive quicksand : a guide to uncomfortable feelings http://head-heart-health.com/6773/a-guide-to-uncomfortable-feelings

Jim Ellermeyer reflects on the words of Mister Rogers in a time of unrest and analyzes the Parable of the Good Samaritan from the Jesus of the Christian Bible. 

"When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, 'Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping." — Mister Rogers

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Jim Ellermeyer discusses the “nose blindness” you have on your own life and hitting that reset button with a personal “Spa day” to reset your internal senses.  How are our lives like planting flowers? 

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Intro music: “Life” by Tobu.

Jim Ellermeyer is talking with us today to help out those who are in recovery during this tough time. We discuss how we can still move forward if it feels like we’re standing still in our homes, navigating the hallway of life, and identifying just how important you and those around you are.

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In Episode 494 of Fishing Without Bait, we welcome back returning guest and clairvoyant medium Santina Grace for the first part of a warm, insightful, and deeply grounding conversation on reconnecting with joy, presence, and peace in today’s chaotic world.

Jim and Santina explore some of the most important emotional and spiritual challenges of our time, including:
• Finding joy in a world that feels overstimulated and overwhelming
• The myth of productivity and how tying your value to output diminishes your sense of self
• How fear fuels anxiety, and why anxiety can only live in the future—not the present moment
• Honoring the small comforts we take for granted—warmth, food, connection, breath
• How to protect your energy from negative media and emotional overload
• The difference between pleasure and true joy
• How children naturally process emotion with immediacy, and why adults lose that instinct
• Using memories and sensory anchors to return to peace during difficult times
• The illusion of separateness and the importance of compassion
• Breaking generational patterns of unworthiness
• Choosing where to place your attention—and therefore your experience

Santina shares wisdom from her years of intuitive work, helping listeners understand how to stay grounded, grateful, and connected even when the world feels chaotic.

Whether you’re struggling with stress, fear, productivity pressure, or just the pace of modern life, this episode offers comfort, clarity, and actionable mindfulness tools you can use right now.

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Jim Ellermeyer, host of the mindfulness podcast "Fishing Without Bait", interviews pro wrestler Jessie Notarius, known in the ring as Tatiana The Unwilting. They discuss Jessie's experiences as a female wrestler, including dealing with inappropriate fans, respect from male wrestlers, and her career goals. Jessie talks about her current feud with Valerie Vermin and gives advice to young women pursuing their dreams. She promotes her upcoming match and invites listeners to connect on social media. The episode provides an insightful look into the world of women's professional wrestling.

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Join mindfulness guide Jim Ellermeyer as he delves into the world of professional wrestling, interviewing the delightful flower child Tatiana on her journey from rookie to bold persona.

Hear Tatiana's captivating stories of battling misperceptions about women in wrestling, bringing her floral fantasies to life in the ring, and her Zen philosophies on performance. Jim artfully coaxes insights from her on being present and embracing the theater of wrestling.

From her double elbow break to memories of stars like "Stone Cold" Steve Austin, this unlikely duo finds common ground in their openness to new experiences.

Tune in as they have a thoughtful discussion on living in the moment - you may not expect a mindful meditation on life to blossom from a wrestling podcast, but that's the beauty of fishing without bait.

Join us as we explore the intersections of discipline and creativity, performance and authenticity, and more. You'll come away entertained and enlightened, and may even want to add floral prints to your wardrobe!

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In this episode of "Fishing Without Bait," host Jim Ellermeyer chats with Jessie Notarius, aka "The Unwilting Tatiana" in pro wrestling. Discover how she entered wrestling when theater closed, her training with Quinn Magnum, the physical demands, and her remarkable journey to her first official match.

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Join host Jim Ellermeyer in this episode of "Fishing Without Bait" as he sits down with special guest Jessie Notarius, also known as "The Unwilting Tatiana" in the world of pro wrestling. Together, they dive into Jessie's unique path – from discovering her love for singing and theater design to overcoming college admission challenges and finding a new passion in theater painting at Point Part University. Don't miss this inspiring conversation about resilience, managing disappointment, and the importance of seeking help. Tune in for a journey from setbacks to triumphs on "Fishing Without Bait."

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Welcome to "Fishing Without Bait," where hosts Jim Ellermeyer and Producer Mike dissect the recent WWE SummerSlam in Detroit and the curious habit of fixating on flaws. They explore why we tend to concentrate on negatives, discuss the challenge of understanding others' lives, and question why some have more passion for their work than others. Join the conversation for insights that will broaden your perspective on human experiences and passions.Are you finding benefit from this show?  We appreciate any support with our Patreon page!  Pledge as little as $1 a month for extra clips, behind the scenes and more at www.patreon.com/fishingwithoutbait !

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Join host Jim Ellermeyer and artist Mallory Sherman on 'Fishing Without Bait.' Explore growing up with Social Media, handling backhanded compliments, and fueling art and passion in this environment. Discover self-worth and creativity in today's interconnected world. Tune in for an enriching exchange on resilience and embracing your artistic spirit.

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In this episode of "Fishing Without Bait," host Jim Ellermeyer welcomes artist Mallory Sherman to discuss her experiences growing up with social media and the FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) it brought as a teenager. They explore the impressions of social media influencers and the effects of information feeds and TikTok on our brains. Join them for a thought-provoking conversation on the impact of social media on our lives.

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Tune in to this enlightening episode of "Fishing Without Bait" as Jim Ellermeyer skillfully navigates through the intriguing landscapes of choices, self-trust, and the complex world of self-help. Prepare to be inspired and motivated to embrace your own power and embark on a journey of self-discovery.

Join host Jim Ellermeyer as he delves deeper into the world of artist Mallory Sherman in this captivating podcast episode. Discover more about Mallory's incredible body of work and the moments of anxiety and happiness that serve as her muse. Gain insights into Mallory's personal journey as she shares her methods for coping with emotions beyond the realm of art. Uncover the motivations behind Mallory's decision to showcase her art on Instagram and witness her growth and improvement through this powerful platform. Tune in for an engaging conversation that explores the intersection of art, emotion, and self-expression.

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Join host Jim Ellermeyer in the "Fishing Without Bait" podcast as he chats with artist Mallory Sherman. Explore the journeys of creative individuals, including actors and show creators, who have pursued their passions and forged meaningful connections. Discover advice for young girls, the importance of self-care, and the art of weeding out negativity. Learn from Mallory's experience of receiving poor advice on her art and the "No Advice, No Judgement" rule. Uncover the secrets to attracting like-minded individuals who meet your standards. Tune in and be inspired to embrace your true potential.

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 Fishing Without Bait 389: Manifesting Self Confidence with Mallory Sherman

In Episode 493 of Fishing Without Bait, we continue our powerful two-part conversation on the lifelong impact of religiously reinforced guilt, shame, and fear. Building on the foundation set in Episode 492, Jim Ellermeyer and host Mike Sorg peel back the layers of how religious structures shape personal identity, relationships, sexuality, and self-worth.

This episode dives deep into how early conditioning around sin, purity, and punishment affects the human psyche for decades — especially for women, LGBTQ+ individuals, and anyone raised in shame-based environments. We explore how these rigid systems influence romantic relationships, create lifelong anxiety, damage self-esteem, and push people into cycles of self-criticism and fear of judgment.

Jim shares personal stories from his upbringing, his time teaching within the Church, and the pivotal moment he challenged the doctrine of baptism and walked away. Together, he and Mike examine how religious authority has historically been used to suppress autonomy, silence questioning, control sexuality, and maintain power structures.

Listeners will discover:
• How guilt and fear are used as behavioral tools
• How shame becomes internalized as a “harsh inner critic”
• Why religious control disproportionately targets women
• How cycles of guilt affect sexuality and relationships
• How these systems contribute to depression, anxiety, and trauma
• Why many still struggle with worthiness, identity, and self-acceptance
• How to reclaim your inner authority, self-compassion, and spiritual autonomy

This episode challenges harmful narratives—but does so with sincerity, honesty, and compassion. As always, we end with our free prescription: Fruits, nuts, and vegetables. Unplug your television and take up fishing. Forgive yourself and forgive another.

Till all are free, none are free.
Namaste, my friends.

Join host Jim Ellermeyer in another engaging episode as he delves deeper into the world of local student artist, Mallory Sherman. In this installment, Jim and Mallory explore a captivating array of her artwork samples, sparking an enlightening conversation about how we can approach art and life with renewed perspectives. Discover Mallory's inspiring journey as she shares her experiences in preparing to take that crucial first step and embracing feedback, regardless of its nature. Tune in to gain valuable insights on embracing fresh perspectives and navigating the artistic process.

Discover more of Mallory’s art at www.instagram.com/galleryof.mallory

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Join host Jim Ellermeyer in this captivating episode as he sits down with the talented artist Mallory Sherman. Delve into Mallory's journey of discovering her passion for art and uncovering the self-imposed barriers that hindered her creative exploration. Together, they explore Mallory's transformative process and the valuable lessons she learned along the way. Tune in to discover the profound impact Mallory's work aims to have on people and the powerful messages she hopes to convey through her art.

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