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154 From Their Perspective: Adjusting to a Bigger Family, Luke Landwer30 Dec 202400:25:18

Luke Landwer was young when his parents divorced, and he enjoyed time with just his mom for many years. When she remarried to a man with six kids, the adjustments for Luke were many. At just 11 years old, his conversation with Ron Deal is insightful as he articulates how adjusting to new rules, a new house, new people, was a challenge. He yearns for more time with his dad, but distance prevents it at times. He recognizes the blessings of a large family, however, with step-grandparents who love him and siblings around who prevent the loneliness he experienced in days past.

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153 From Their Perspective: Talking With A Young Adult, Amelia Dellaripa16 Dec 202400:35:22

Living in a blended family as a young adult can bring challenges and blessings. For Amelia Dellaripa, it brings many more blessings. In this podcast episode, Ron Deal talks with Amelia about her blended family of seven and how they developed love and acceptance for one another over time.

Amelia talks about how there was seldom any divisiveness or difficult interactions with her stepmom or stepbrother from the beginning. They were always welcoming toward her, and it seemed that everyone was on the same team and wanted to do their part in building relationships. Although she was young when her dad remarried and understanding new family dynamics was hard, she’s now thankful for her big, blended family.

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152 From Their Perspective: Losing a Dad and Life with a Stepdad with Davis & Campbell Faulkner02 Dec 202400:50:10

What’s it like to be a teenager in a blended family? How do you manage the confusing emotions of your childhood and teenage years while also adjusting to new family dynamics? Davis and Campbell Faulkner lost their dad in a traffic accident when they were very young. Their mom remarried and they’ve navigated feelings of loss, fear, anxiety, grief, abandonment, and more as they’ve adjusted to a new stepdad and life in a blended family. Listen to their insightful conversation with Ron Deal and learn how they’ve coped and found gratitude for their current journey in the midst of loss.

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151 Practicing Gratitude in Your Blended Family18 Nov 202400:32:46

Gratitude doesn’t always happen naturally in blended families, but it is worth pursuing and can move us toward unity in relationships. As we take every thought captive (2 Corinthians 10:5), consider our perspective about the circumstances we find ourselves in, and allow ourselves to be transformed by the renewing of our minds (Romans 12:2), we posture ourselves toward an obedient heart that discovers blessings, even in hard seasons.

In this podcast episode, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about intentional ways to create a heart full of gratitude that pursues love with others and more easily moves our relationships toward connectedness.

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150 Parenting Foster Kids & Adopted Kids04 Nov 202400:54:14

Foster care and adoption present difficult dynamics with issues similar to blended families. How do you help a child cope with ambiguous loss or connect as a parent when children act out from prior wounds? The loss that results from separation from a first family carries deep wounds that manifest themselves in misbehavior. Many children can’t verbalize their hurts, and families don’t have access to all the pieces of the puzzle. Love isn’t enough to fix the brokenness in a child, particularly when trauma is part of the story. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Jenni Lord for answers to these complex issues.

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149 A Special Edition: Growing Up Blended After Parental Loss: Laura Husband21 Oct 202400:53:51

Laura Husband, daughter of Columbia astronaut Rick Husband, was 12 years old when she endured her dad’s very public death. Laura shares with Ron Deal the layers of grief that followed with the lingering effects and expectations after an astronaut dies. When her mom began dating three years later, she felt abandoned and without a voice to the changes in her life. Her mom later remarried and Laura began an adjustment to blended family life with her new stepdad, Bill. Laura shares the loving relationship she and Bill eventually formed and how Bill chose a path, separate from her dad, that drew her in.

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148 Dealing With A Narcissist07 Oct 202400:44:21

How do you identify narcissism or cope with a narcissist? Ron Deal talks with counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner about strategies in a relationship when someone seeks to control, manipulate, shift blame, gaslight, or behave in other narcissistic ways.

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147 Reimagining Christian Sabbath23 Sep 202400:49:19

Does your family have a designated Sabbath? How do you spend that day? Author Kathi Lipp shares with Ron Deal her suggestions for reimagining Christian Sabbath that is a meaningful day with the Lord and one another as you prioritize rest and share a meal together. On Sabbath, we want to focus on who God is and His provision for us as we rest and connect with one another.

Lipp suggests that food provides the platform to linger in relationships, and feeding your family shows you care for them. She shares recipes from her new book, Sabbath Soup, and offers ideas on preparing for Sabbath and creating a special day each week.

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146 Stepfamilies: Stepparent Dynamics and Your Marriage09 Sep 202400:30:54

The intersection of marriage and parenting often creates tension for stepcouples that leads to disagreements and, as a result, slows down relationship building.

Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace give valuable input on how to become a parenting team and strengthen your marriage in the process as you cope with common stepfamily dynamics such as: different parenting styles, co-parenting struggles, rejection from stepchildren, stepparent ambiguity, fear of failure, a paralyzed biological parent, a stepparent who oversteps their place, guilt from the past and fear to parent well because of what the children have already walked through, and other challenging dynamics.

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145 Physical Intimacy Issues for Stepfamily Couples26 Aug 202400:30:17

As a blended family couple, it’s not uncommon to experience sexual pitfalls that bring additional stress to your relationship. How do you prevent physical intimacy issues and work through those that have shown up?

In this episode, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about how to build trust and emotional safety to overcome common pitfalls such as: the comparison trap, fear and insecurity from "ghosts" of marriage past, unlearning old rhythms of sexual practice and learning new ones, and lingering messages from prior sexual experiences that can inhibit healthy physical intimacy in marriage. In addition, you’ll understand more about the biblical view of healthy sexuality and why God established boundaries around it.

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144 Hope Is What the Dr. Ordered12 Aug 202400:48:46

The dynamics of blended family life can bring hopelessness, and we lose the ability to see a future where God can make our situation better. But there’s always hope for a brighter tomorrow. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon who has experienced personal trauma and loss, and explains the difference between our mind and our brain and how to use our mind to face hard things in a constructive manner. As we transform our thoughts and consider our feelings against the Truth of what God’s Word says, we find hope again for healing, for purpose, for change.

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143 Ghosts of Marriage Past—Dealing with Relationship Baggage29 Jul 202400:27:44

Ghosts of marriage past—triggers from past hurt that we carry into a new relationship—are common for blended family couples. But emotional ghosts don’t just appear from relationship baggage. We can be triggered by childhood wounds, grief, or other hurts that leave a residue on our heart and create hypersensitivity to getting hurt again. As a result, we guard our heart and resist vulnerability in our relationships.

In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Gayla Grace about how to recognize our ghosts and take responsibility to move past our fears. Ron and Gayla both share ghosts they’ve wrestled with and how to have conversations with your partner that build trust in your relationship.

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142 Troubled Teens & Addiction Help15 Jul 202400:44:28

How do we help kids who are struggling with addictive behaviors? Ron Deal speaks with Dr Adrian Hickmon, who says we start by understanding the pain and void underneath their addiction, and then we must face the facts and determine the help they need.

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141 Overcoming Stepparenting Myths01 Jul 202400:25:49

Stepparenting myths have been around a long time, and they can negatively impact stepparents if not understood well. Although there might be some truth to them, the non-truth messages create tension and confusion for us. Ron Deal talks with Gayla Grace about how to sort through the reality and false messages of myths such as: All stepmothers are wicked and all stepfathers are abusive, stepparents can easily take on a high parental role, stepfamilies can behave as traditional families, we will love biological and stepchildren the same, and if you call them "my children," they will like being your children.

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140 A Home Built From Love & Loss17 Jun 202400:47:18

After losing her husband in a tragic accident, Sabrina McDonald looked forward to her young kids having a dad again. But she wasn’t prepared for the challenges that followed. Her kids felt threatened by her new spouse and competed for her attention. Her dream of being part of a family again didn’t happen quickly. And stepparenting felt awkward and unfamiliar in the beginning.

In this episode, Sabrina shares her lessons of love and loss with Ron Deal and how God met her in the wilderness, showed her that brokenness didn’t mean ugliness, and encouraged her to keep going despite her fears and uncertainty about the future. Today, she rejoices to have found familyness again after remarriage.

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139: Growing Up Blended: My Stepdad03 Jun 202400:37:30

Growing up blended often includes hard transitions and isolation for those involved. But Marshall West's story is different. He shares with Ron Deal the beauty of God's provision for two families coming together after loss, giving him a dad he never had and two brothers who were never considered “step.”

Marshall was 12 when his mom married his stepdad, a pivotal point for him. Marshall had been praying to have brothers join his family, and his stepdad had been praying for a Mom for his two boys. Marshall credits the Lord and His goodness for bringing two broken things together and creating a family.


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138: Cancer, NFL, and Family20 May 202400:38:22

Ex-NFL football player Devon Still and his wife Asha married shortly after Devon's young daughter, Leah, went into remission from stage four cancer. While rejoicing over Leah's healing, they were soon blindsided by blended family struggles.

Devon and Asha talk with Ron Deal about how they had both been raised in divorced homes and didn't understand how to create a lasting marriage. They began to learn about blended family dynamics and take intentional steps toward harmony in their relationship. They quit avoiding hard conversations, listened to each other's feelings, and created new habits in their communication to connect well. They also leaned into their faith to work through misguided expectations and move toward love and trust, ultimately finding hope in a long-term relationship.
Show Notes and Resources

Get this month's premium offer with a donation! 
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Check out the blended small group map
Listen to Devon and Asha's podcast
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137: Broken: Help for Family Problems06 May 202400:41:58

God understands broken people. He sent His son to die for us. Even when we feel beyond help, He meets us where we are, He loves us, and He redeems us. He sent the Holy Spirit to be our counselor and our guide. In our messiness, God wants to use our stories and our brokenness to minister to others.
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Get The Smart Stepfamily as your free gift when you donate to FamilyLife Blended.
Get the Blended and Blessed All-Acess Digital Pass
Learn more about resources for blended families.
More info for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry in October.
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136: Help Me with My Finances22 Apr 202400:46:08

Help for your finances! Money matters can be a hot topic for blended families, creating strife and inequity if not handled well. Listen in as Ron Deal speaks with Gayla Grace and financial expert Greg Pettys about how couples can make wise decisions on financial issues that benefit all members of their blended family.
Gain insight from listener questions such as: Should my spouse and I carry separate bank accounts? How do we spend our money equitably with “his and her” kids? Why do blended families need to do estate planning? What budgeting tools do you recommend? How do we share our resources? And more great topics applicable to every blended family.

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Learn more about resources for blended families.
You can watch the podcast on YouTube.
You can still join the Blended and Blessed Livestream!
Look for a small group in your area.
Get your copy of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning
Make a donation to FamilyLife Blended.

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135: Growing Up Blended: Kim Walker Smith’s Story08 Apr 202400:58:15

Singer/songwriter Kim Walker-Smith grew up in a blended family with multiple stepparents, instability, abuse, and isolation. She shares her story with Ron Deal in this podcast episode, beginning with her mom’s first divorce when she was a young child. It didn’t take long for her mom to marry again, divorce, and marry again.
Eventually, her mom married a stable, loving man who wanted to be a father to Smith when she was a young teenager. Hungry for his love but scared it wasn’t real, Smith rejected him over and over again. But this stepdad kept coming back, faithful and steadfast in every way and, eventually, a stabilizing force for Smith.
Although Smith experienced hardship and adversity as a child, as an adult, she came to know a loving, redeeming God, who she now sings about all over the world, testifying of His love.

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Register for Blended and Blessed!
Learn more about Kim.
Hear Kim's song, "On My Side".
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134: Being a Stepparent: Is it a Blessing?26 Mar 202400:30:35

Are there blessings in blended family life? Yes! But they might not show up in ways we expect or as quickly as we’d like. In this 2023 Blended and Blessed presentation, Cheryl Shumake talks about the many bonus blessings she has experienced and the strength God gave her during seasons of weariness to keep going when she wanted to quit.
Cheryl says, “God meets us in the waiting to strengthen us for the walking.” God wants to guide our steps when we face challenges. He knows that our convictions of creating long-term relationships can waver when weariness sets in. But our biggest blessings are waiting for us in the later years if we persevere.

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133: Remarrying After Loss11 Mar 202401:08:46

Remarriage after widowhood carries unique challenges and unwanted transitions. Expectations that aren’t realistic often show up, creating even more grief and heartache. But hard dynamics in the beginning can move toward bonded relationships and family unity with time and effort. In this podcast episode, Ron Deal talks with Rod and Rachel Faulkner Brown about their blended family challenges after Rachel was widowed twice, had two children with her second husband, and then married Rod with two young children in tow.
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Blended and Blessed Info
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Rachel's widow ministry
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132: Growing Up Blended: Navigating Loss26 Feb 202400:40:33

Our past affects our present. And when we experience complicated blended family dynamics as a child, we're forever changed. Listen to Scott Kedersha share with Ron Deal how his blended family upbringing has impacted his parenting and marriage as an adult.

Show Notes and Resources

Join us for Blended and Blessed to learn how to build unity in your family!
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131: God’s Purpose and Intent for Sexuality12 Feb 202400:44:55

Do you wonder about God's purpose and intent for marital sexuality within marriage? What about the symbolism the Bible presents on this topic? Do you need help on how to nurture and protect this aspect of marriage? Listen to Ron Deal's message: God's Purpose and Intent for Sexuality.
Show Notes and Resources

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See where Ron will be speaking.
Resouces for blended families
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130: Coping With Traumatic Events29 Jan 202400:51:33

Trauma and suffering can impact families in unexpected ways. Joel and Vaneetha Risner share with Ron Deal the positive effects of loss and suffering and how it helped to ground their faith, trust God in deeper ways, and bond their blended family.

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129: Stepparent Vs Bio Parent: Seeing Conflicts Differently15 Jan 202400:34:11

Conflicts are inevitable on family journeys. Rodney and Annetta Whitney share their journey, confusing dynamics, and their light bulb moments with Ron Deal. Stepparent, if you feel like an outsider, keep having hard discussions and don't give up.

Show Notes and Resources

Grab your copy of The Smart Stepfamily
Check out where Ron will be speaking.
The Smart Stepfamily series free on Right Now Media!
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128: Organize Your Life01 Jan 202400:48:27

Do you have trouble organizing your life? Your family calendar? Well, help is on the way! Ron Deal speaks with James and Ginger Dellaripa about challenges of blended family management including schedules, co-parenting, custody, and more. Listen to gain valuable insights in getting your life organized.

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Learn more about our Blended resources
Ron's speaking schedule
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127: Getting Remarried?18 Dec 202300:43:03

Getting remarried in later life after the death of a spouse or divorce? How do you know if you’re ready? Should you consider the feelings of your adult children? Ron Deal talks with Jim and Shirley Mozena about the risks, as well as rewards, of a later-life remarriage and what to consider as you date.

Show Notes and Resources

Access The Smart Stepfamily for free!
More about Jim and Shirley and their book, Second Chance At Love
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More FamilyLife Blended resources
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126: Strained Relationships with Adult Kids04 Dec 202300:44:53

When relationships with our adult kids and stepkids become strained or estranged, our hearts hurt. How did we get here? How do we fix it? Ron Deal talks with Dr. Charlotte Melcher Smith about common themes that contribute to strained relationships and what parents can do to help.

Show Notes and Resources

Dr. Charlotte Melcher Smith's book, Life's Third Tri
Blended resources and events
Send a matching gift to say "thank you" to FamilyLife Blended.
Send us a suggestion for a future podcast.
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125: How To Be Thankful in a Blended Family20 Nov 202300:29:10

Have you ever wondered how to be thankful in a hard season in your blended family? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about finding joy, regardless of our circumstances, as we focus on God’s faithfulness, His provision, and His promises.
Show Notes and Resources

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Send us your review via email: blendedquestions@familylife.com or voicemail: 407-826-2606.
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124: Helping Your Kids With Their Emotions06 Nov 202300:53:34

Helping your kids with their emotions is a critical life skill, yet we often don’t equip kids with these valuable skills. Ron Deal speaks with Michelle Nietert, LPC, about common feelings kids in blended families experience and how parents can help.

Show Notes and Resources

Michelle Nietert, M.A., LPC-S

Learn about our blended events and resources.

Ron's personal speaking schedule.

Find a counselor.

Give a tax-deductible donation to FamilyLife Blended ministry.

Register now for Blended and Blessed Live Event and Livestream.

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123: How To Overcome Co-parenting Conflict23 Oct 202300:56:52

High-conflict co-parenting is a common struggle in blended families. Ron Deal speaks with Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles on how to improve co-parenting conflict as you prioritize what you're fighting for, change your response, and consider your kids first.
Show Notes and Resources

List of counselors
Register for Preparing to Blend
Co-parenting Dilemmas podcast
Get the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry All-Access Digital Pass.
Ron's personal speaking schedule.
Send a gift to FamilyLife Blended.
Email a comment about this show or call to share your thoughts. blendedquestions@familylife.com or 407-826-2606

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122: Blending a Family: Where Do I Start?09 Oct 202300:43:51

When we blend two families, what's the goal and how do we get there? Do we focus more on parenting or our marriage? Do I parent my stepchild or build a relationship first? How do we manage a difficult former spouse? Ron Deal answers these questions and more about the critical tasks of parenting in a blended family.
Show Notes and Resources

You still have time to join the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry!
The Online Certificate in Blended Family Ministry
Get monthly encouragement for your blended family
FamilyLife Blended Resources
Get the Summit All-Access Digital Pass
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121: Lessons from Adoptive Parents25 Sep 202300:53:44

Blended families come in all shapes and sizes. Each family is unique with its own complexities. Chris and Yodit Brooks share their stories growing up in a blended family as well as wisdom they've gained from raising both their adopted and biological children. Family stories matter.
Show Notes and Resources

The Smart Stepfamily on Right Now Media
Get a copy of The Smart Stepfamily
Summit on Stepfamily Ministry: Registration and Information
Listen to Equipped with Chris Brooks.
Ron's personal speaking schedule.
Support the FamilyLife Blended podcast
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120: Blended Family Christmas: Tips to reduce holiday stress11 Sep 202300:38:56

The holidays can be a stressful time juggling visitations, planning family activities, and managing all the feelings in the Christmas season. Emotions in blended families are often magnified during Christmas. Gayla Grace and Ron Deal offer practical ways to be sensitive and promote positivity so your holiday can be a truly joyous time.
Show Notes and Resources

Gift a copy of The Smart Stepfamily
More Blended Family Resources
Ron's upcoming events
Send a gift to FamilyLife Blended
Leave us a review voicemail at 407-826-2606 or email us: blendedquestions@familylife.com

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119: Parenting Teens During the Loneliness Epidemic28 Aug 202300:44:22

Children want to be heard and seen. Ron Deal had a conversation with Dr Mark Mayfield about how parents can help teens with loneliness. They offer wisdom and practical help for sensitive, serious topics such as suicide and address the role parents have as children navigate their overwhelming feelings and confusing thoughts.
Show Notes and Resources

Blended Family resources
Smart Stepfamily on Right Now Media
Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry
Dr. Mark Mayfield
The Path out of Loneliness and The Path to Wholeness
Donate to FamilyLife Blended
Leave us a review voicemail at 407-826-2606 or email us: blendedquestions@familylife.com

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118: Blended Family Dynamics – The Enneagram Types Explained14 Aug 202301:13:46

The enneagram gives us insight into our unique gifts and the contributions we can make with those around us. But it shouldn’t be the ultimate source of our identity. Ron Deal talks with Jeff and Beth McCord about interpreting core enneagram types alongside the truth of the Gospel as we relate to others.

Show Notes and Resources

Dive deeper into the 9 different Enneagram types
Free downloads from Jeff and Beth
Blended Family Resources
Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry
Join us on the cruise!
Thank you for your support!
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117: Trusting God in Difficult Times31 Jul 202300:55:27

No one wants to walk through grief and suffering. But God uses hard times to grow our character, develop perseverance, and find hope in Him. Ron Deal talks with Davey and Kristi Blackburn about how to trust God's faithfulness during painful seasons and find healing and restoration through Him.

Show Notes and Resources

10th Anniversary DVD Edition of The Smart Stepfamily
Women and Blended Families
Davey and Kristi Blackburn and their Pain to Purpose resources
Leave us a review voicemail at 407-826-2606 or email us: blendedquestions@familylife.com
Support FamilyLife Blended
The Summit on Stepfamily ministry

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116: Divorce Grief– Breaking Soul Ties17 Jul 202300:58:14

Do you have wounds from a previous relationship that you carried into your new family? We call these ghosts of marriage past. Unresolved residue also happens with our kids and affects our ability to form trust and intimacy with others. Ron Deal speaks with Moe and Paige Becnel about how to wrestle with our ghosts and lessen their power.

Show Notes and Resources

The Smart Stepfamily online series
More about the Becnels and their book
Join this year's VIRTUAL Summit on Stepfamily Ministry.
Add your blended small group on the searchable map.
Make a tax deductible gift.
Ask a question and submit a review at blendedquestions@familylife.com or call 407-826-2606.

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115: Stepchildren and Marriage: How to Build Trust03 Jul 202300:46:12

Blended family life doesn't often start with every relationship experiencing harmony. But it's not unusual to develop it along the way. Listen to Ron Deal speak with Gil and Brenda Stuart about how disappointment and confusion in their family relationships with 7 kids eventually morphed into redemption and joy.
Show Notes and Resources

Gil and Brenda Stuart
Get a copy of Restored and Remarried, workbook or small group bundle.
Blended ministry map
Make plans for The Summit on Stepfamily ministry.
Send a gift of support to help us expand our reach.
Call or email us with your ideas! 407-826-2606, blendedquestions@familylife.com

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114: Men in Blended Families: Why You Need a Strong Support System19 Jun 202300:40:52

Former NFL player Jeff Kemp has spent decades connecting with men. He understands the common struggles which include insecurity, comparison, and shame. He shares with Ron Deal how men can best cope by understanding their identity in our Father God, and why healthy male friendships are valuable in everyday life.
Show Notes and Resources

Get Jeff Kemp's Men Huddle Playbook
Online Certificate course in Blended Family Ministry
Tips to a deeper friendship
Easy steps to friendship and huddling
The Smart Stepdad: Steps to Help You Succeed
Make a tax deductible donation.
Call with your question: 407-826-2606, email a podcast topic suggestion: blendedquestions@familylife.com
The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry

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113: Bonus Dad Pro Tips from Mike05 Jun 202300:47:59

Men want harmony in their homes, but the dynamics of blended family life can threaten peaceful relationships. Mike Haney speaks with Ron Deal on how stepdads can create meaningful connections with their stepchildren through warm and inviting behavior, a perspective for long-term bonds, and mindfulness toward a role that less is more.
Show Notes and Resources

The Summit on Stepfamily ministry
Info and booking for the Love Like You Mean It Marriage Cruise
Mike Haney’s Courageous Stepdad Coaching Program
Podcast #38- Daily Practices for Happy Stepcouples
Get your copy of The Smart Stepdad
Support the Blended podcast with a gift
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112: Stepmom Help: Pro Tips from Jen & Bill22 May 202300:57:24

Do you struggle with 2nd wife syndrome? Are you confused with your role and often feel you can't measure up to the expectations? Ron Deal speaks with Bill and Jen Rogers on the valuable role stepmoms play and offers encouragement and pro tips for those stuck in the trenches.
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Free download: Top 10 Pro tips
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111: Custody Battles and Court Conversation08 May 202300:52:16

Litigation creates stress and anxiety for stepfamilies, but there are ways to experience peace and bring kindness to others in the midst of it. Listen to Ron Deal with Scott and Vanessa Martindale on how to resist negative emotions and find resolution in custody cases that best meets the needs of your child.
Show Notes and Resources

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110: Growing Up Blended: Dr. Darrell Bock24 Apr 202300:59:36

When complicated circumstances show up in blended families, relationship-building slows down. Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Darrell Bock about how the death of his mom when he was a teenager, a dad who traveled weekly with work, and a new stepmom with three kids created tension and uneasiness for everyone.
Show Notes and Resources

Blended and Blessed information and registration
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109 Who Comes First in a Blended Family?10 Apr 202300:57:18

Stepfamilies are fundamentally different than biological families, which can create tension and ambiguity for everyone involved. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Patricia Papernow about key principles for healthy relationship building in blended families which navigating complex dynamics and competing priorities between the marriage and the children.
Show Notes and Resources

Step-Insiders and Step-Outsiders
Validating Children in Stepfamilies

Dr. Papernow's website
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108: Prioritize Marriage in Your Home27 Mar 202300:47:18

How can you establish your marital relationship as the foundation for the home when children preceded your union? It starts by understanding that a strong marriage contributes more significantly to the stability of the home than any other factor—including the children. In this episode, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace offer practical tips on how to put your spouse in the front seat of your heart while still prioritizing your children.

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107: Blending a Family: Strategies that Don’t Work13 Mar 202300:44:48

Blending isn't the goal for stepfamilies; it suggests the family becomes one in a relational sense, which rarely occurs. Other cooking strategies that stepfamilies try, such as the instapot, food processor, or pressure cooker, don't work well either. Then what does? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace discuss how crockpot cooking is the key.

Show Notes and Resources

Get your copy of The Smart Stepfamily
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106: Scripture for Families in Need of Encouragement27 Feb 202300:39:33

Do you have a roadmap to follow on your blended family journey? We'd like to encourage using God's Word to guide you, encourage you, and empower your steps. Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace, along with stepcouple guests, talk about the value of scripture for families who are in need of hope, guidance, comfort, and encouragement in their homes.
Show Notes and Resources

We would love to hear about your family's "Promised Land Moment!" Call 407-826-2606 or write to us at blendedquestions@familylife.com
Epsiode 97: Protecting Your Kids From Porn
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105: Stepfamily Relationship Building: Stepping Stones for Success13 Feb 202300:41:00

What are key stepping stones every stepfamily needs that will lead to healthy relationship building? Ron Deal and Gayla Grace discuss how perseverance, flexibility, commitment, Christ-likeness and other core attributes work together to create familyness.
Show Notes and Resources

Share a positive moment in your family's journey with others. Write to us at BlendedQuestions@familylife.com or call 407-826-2606 to share a positive moment for your family!
Blended Family Events and Resources
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