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| Does Your Horse Still Want to Do Their Job? | Ep 68 | 09 Sep 2026 | 00:41:14 | |
When does your horse stop loving their job — and how do you know when it’s time to listen? This week on the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Kelly and Alexis are back with one of those conversations that starts in one place and somehow ends up everywhere. 😂 We’re talking about horses, riding, confidence, and the questions adult amateurs eventually have to face: How do you know when you’re asking too much? When is it time to change the plan? And how much should your horse’s happiness factor into the decisions you make as a rider? We also get a little personal about how much has changed since starting the podcast nearly two years ago — from being uncomfortable on camera and worrying about what everyone else thought to becoming a whole lot more comfortable simply showing up as ourselves. As always, there are plenty of tangents, laughs, horse stories, questionable commentary, and the completely unfiltered conversations you’ve come to expect from us. In this episode: If you’re an adult amateur trying to figure out horses, riding, life, and everything that comes along with it — you’re in the right place. 🎧 Subscribe and join us every week for honest conversations about life in the horse world. And tell us in the comments: How do YOU know when your horse is telling you they need something different? | |||
| Is Your Trainer Toxic — Or Are You? | Ep 67 | 04 Sep 2026 | 00:36:21 | |
Toxic trainers. It's the conversation flooding our DMs and the Adult Amateur Lounge — and this week we finally sat down and got into all of it. We start where it usually starts: the line between business and friendship, and how completely this sport blurs it. Your trainer is your coach, your confidant, and the person you write a very large check to every month — so what happens when your feelings get involved, your horse gets involved, and you don't agree? We talk about why communication (early, honest, uncomfortable communication) fixes about 90% of it, and why trainers are stuck in an impossible spot: speak your truth, protect your client, and protect your business, all at the same time. Then we get into the barn ecosystem — the teacher's-pet dynamic, everyone competing to be the favorite, and what happens when a trainer talks negatively about a client. Because your other clients are watching, and they will follow your lead. That's how the outcast thing starts. And if your trainer is saying it about her, she's saying it about you. We also flip it, because this episode is not one-sided. Clients can absolutely be the toxic ones. Sometimes "my trainer is toxic" actually means "my trainer won't let me jump the three foot" — and a trainer telling you no is often a trainer protecting you, your horse, and her own reputation. We're both honest about being against barn hopping: the first hop might be a toxic trainer, but by the fifth barn, it might be you. Your horse suffers, your riding suffers, your reputation suffers. And we get into the gray area we both actually live in: the amateur who has researched every single thing about her horse's nutrition and has to figure out how to say that to a professional who's been doing this for thirty years. Plus the honest trade-off nobody wants to hear — if you can't keep your horses at home and manage them yourself, you can't expect to check every single box at a boarding barn. Our gut check for when it's time to go: if you get a pit in your stomach pulling into the barn, if you're anxious every single time, it's not worth it. That doesn't make your trainer bad. It doesn't make you bad. It just isn't the right fit — so leave respectfully, and do not burn the bridge. Kids happen. Divorce happens. Life happens. That barn could be exactly right for you again in five years. Have you been in a toxic barn situation? We want to hear it. 👇
🎧 New episodes weekly. Subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss one.💬 Drop a comment: have you left a toxic barn situation? What was your final straw?👍 Like & share if this one hit a little too close to home. #TheEquestrianAdultAmateur #EquestrianPodcast #ToxicTrainer #BarnLife #AdultAmateur #HunterJumper #HorseGirl #EquestrianLife #BarnDrama #HorseTrainer #ShowJumping #HorseWorld Chapters | |||
| Is The Horse World A Battlefield? | Ep 68 | 27 Aug 2026 | 00:39:51 | |
Social media has changed the equestrian world—but has it actually made us better at communicating with each other?In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Kelly and Alexis dive into the good, the bad, and the downright exhausting side of equestrian social media. From viral clips and comment sections to influencer culture, unsolicited opinions, and conversations being taken completely out of context, we’re talking about what happens when the horse world goes online.We share some of our own experiences creating content, including the behind-the-scenes reality of shooting for the Equestrian Adult Amateur Collective, and talk about how quickly one photo, video, or short clip can become an entirely different story once it reaches social media. We also get into the growing divide between different corners of the equestrian community—professionals versus amateurs, disciplines versus disciplines, different training philosophies, and the constant pressure to pick a side. Why does disagreement so often turn into personal attacks? And when did having a different opinion mean someone had to be “wrong”? This conversation is about more than mean comments. It’s about **context, accountability, empathy, and the responsibility we all have in shaping the culture of the equestrian community online.**As always, expect plenty of side stories, laughs, strong opinions, and the candid conversations you’ve come to expect from us. 🎧 In this episode: • Equestrian social media and influencer culture • Viral clips and conversations taken out of context • Online criticism vs. constructive conversation • Adult amateurs and representation in the horse world • Why equestrians are so quick to divide into “sides” • The responsibility of both content creators and viewers • Remembering there’s a real person behind the screen Whether you create equestrian content, consume it, or have ever found yourself reading a comment section thinking, “How did we get here?”—this episode is for you.Follow, subscribe, and join the conversation. What do you think social media has done for the equestrian community—for better or worse? | |||
| Building Better Hunters w/ Katie Armstrong LIVE 🔴 | EP 67 | 19 Aug 2026 | 00:58:30 | |
This episode dives into a conversation that started online and quickly sparked a much bigger discussion about horsemanship, training, genetics, and the relationship we have with our horses. Katie shares how a life-changing rotational fall—and the loss of use of her left arm—completely shifted the way she approached horses and ultimately led her toward teaching better horsemanship. We talk about why giving horses more tools, confidence, and education can make them safer and happier partners, and why conversations around training methods can sometimes become so controversial. We also revisit a recent viral clip and unpack some of the reactions surrounding it, including the debate over genetics versus training, the role riders and trainers play in a horse’s behavior, and why some behaviors may be managed or improved but never completely disappear. From groundwork and emotional awareness to choosing the right horse for the rider in front of you, this conversation is ultimately about asking better questions, staying open-minded, and continuing to learn—for ourselves and for our horses. It’s an honest conversation about the topics that aren’t always easy to talk about in the equestrian world, but probably need to be. | |||
| Horses Take Flight with Equijet | Ep 66 | 12 Aug 2026 | 00:37:51 | |
Ever wondered what it actually takes to fly a horse across the world? In this episode, we sit down with Bastian Schroeder from EquiJet to talk all things international horse transportation. Bastian shares how his love for logistics turned into a career helping horses travel between Europe and the United States, and gives us a behind-the-scenes look at what really goes into getting a horse safely from one country to another. We talk about the importing process, required paperwork, flights, designated airports, quarantine, costs, and how horses are cared for throughout their journey. Bastian also explains what goes into keeping horses comfortable while traveling and helps make a process that can seem incredibly intimidating feel a whole lot easier to understand. Whether you've considered importing a horse from Europe or you've simply wondered how in the world horses travel on airplanes, this episode gives you a fascinating look at a side of the equestrian industry most of us don't get to see! 🐴From Europe to the U.S., we're talking horses, airplanes, quarantine, logistics, and everything in between. | |||
| We Need An Update | Ep 65 | 05 Aug 2026 | 00:33:34 | |
In this fun and candid episode, we catch up on everything from life outside the barn to the latest happenings in the show ring. What starts as a lighthearted conversation about getting nails done quickly turns into a recap of a busy weekend at the horse show, where we celebrate a successful first big class, share memorable family moments, and laugh through the unexpected challenges that come with horse show life. We also dive into the performances of our horses, discussing what went well in the ring, a few moments that raised questions, and how closely we pay attention to the small details that can tell us how our horses are feeling. From evaluating movement and conformation to preparing for the upcoming fall season, this episode is an honest look at the highs, lows, and constant learning that comes with owning and competing horses. If you love authentic horse show conversations, behind-the-scenes updates, and the everyday realities of life with horses, this episode is for you! 🐴✨ | |||
| Media, Leadership, and Community | Ellie Morris | Ep 64 | 30 Jul 2026 | 00:53:04 | |
Navigating the Future of the Horse Industry: Media, Leadership, and Community Join Kelly and Ellie Morris as they discuss the evolving landscape of the horse world, touching on leadership transitions, the power of media in sport perception, and building a united community. This episode offers deep insights into the challenges and opportunities shaping our sport’s future.In this episode:
Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction and episode overview | |||
| Has Horse Showing Gotten Too Expensive? | Ep 63 | 16 Jul 2026 | 00:35:06 | |
Is horse showing becoming too expensive for the average adult amateur? In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Alexis and I dive into one of the biggest conversations happening in the equestrian world today: the rising cost of horse ownership and competition. From skyrocketing horse prices to training, boarding, travel, and show expenses, we explore how the sport has changed—and what that means for everyday riders trying to stay in the game. We also discuss the pressure social media has created, the rise of luxury "Instabarns," and how privilege and financial resources can shape opportunities within the industry. Most importantly, we talk about how these challenges affect adult amateurs, why so many riders feel isolated, and how we can start having more honest conversations about making equestrian sport more accessible. Whether you're showing locally, competing on the national circuit, or simply trying to make your horse budget work, this episode is for you. In this episode we discuss:
We'd love to hear from you! How has the cost of horse showing affected your journey? What tips or strategies have helped you stay in the sport? Share your thoughts in the comments below. If you enjoy honest conversations about horses, horse showing, and life as an adult amateur, don't forget to like, subscribe, and join our growing equestrian community. | |||
| Building Better Hunters with Katie Armstrong | Ep 62 | 08 Jul 2026 | 01:23:21 | |
Are we giving young horses the foundation they actually need to succeed? In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we sit down with Katie Armstrong, founder of Building Better Hunters, to talk about one of the most important conversations happening in the hunter/jumper industry today: how we start young horses.Katie has dedicated her career to improving the way young horses are developed, believing that a horse's future is shaped long before it ever steps into the show ring. From building confidence and trust to establishing clear boundaries and safe handling practices, she shares why horsemanship—not shortcuts—is the key to creating successful hunter horses. We also dive into the differences Katie has observed between imported and domestic horses, the importance of reading a horse's mind instead of just its movement, and why so many behavioral issues can be prevented with the right foundation. If you've ever wondered what separates a horse that's truly confident from one that's simply coping, this conversation is for you. Whether you're an amateur rider, trainer, breeder, or simply passionate about better horsemanship, Katie's perspective offers valuable insight into developing horses that are happier, safer, and more successful throughout their careers.In this episode, we discuss: * Katie Armstrong's philosophy behind Building Better Hunters * Why foundation is everything when starting young horses * Building confidence, trust, and respect from day one * Preventing behavioral issues through better horsemanship * The differences Katie has noticed between imported and domestic horses * How to recognize when a horse feels overwhelmed or unsafe * Why consistency creates confident, reliable hunter horses * The future of young horse development in the hunter/jumper industry If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe and leave a comment with your thoughts. We'd love to hear what you think makes a great young horse and how we can continue improving the future of our sport. #Equestrian #HunterJumper #KatieArmstrong #BuildingBetterHunters #YoungHorseTraining #HorseTraining #Horsemanship #HunterHorses #EquestrianPodcast #HorsePodcast #USEF #YoungHorses #HorseDevelopment #HorseRiding #EquestrianLife | |||
| Developing Young Horses: Is it a lost art?| Hannah Bedwell Stone | Ep 61 | 01 Jul 2026 | 00:59:39 | |
In this episode of the **Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast**, Alexis and I sit down with our longtime trainer, Hannah Stone of Stone Performance Horses, for one of our most honest conversations yet. Hannah has spent years developing hunters, jumpers, and all-around horses in both the USEF and AQHA worlds, and she's sharing what she's learned from training horses—and riders—at every level.We talk about Hannah's journey into professional horse training, what she looks for when matching horses with adult amateurs, and why temperament is often more important than raw talent. We also dive into the realities of developing young horses, building confidence in the saddle, and the daily work that happens long before anyone steps into the show ring.Whether you're an adult amateur, a young rider, or simply passionate about horses, this conversation offers an inside look at the challenges, rewards, and relationships that define life in the equestrian world.In this episode, we discuss:• Hannah's journey from junior rider to professional horse trainer• The differences between the AQHA and USEF hunter/jumper worlds• What makes a great horse for an amateur rider• Developing green horses with confidence and consistency• Why personality and temperament matter more than talent alone• Building trust and communication between horse and rider• The "homework" riders should be doing between lessons• How confidence affects both horses and riders• Motherhood, business, and balancing life as a professional trainer• Behind-the-scenes realities of training horses for a livingIf you've ever wondered what separates a good horse trainer from a great one—or what professionals really think about developing horses and riders—this episode is for you.Be sure to subscribe for more conversations about horse showing, the hunter/jumper world, Quarter Horses, training, and the real experiences of adult amateur equestrians.#Equestrian #HorseTrainer #AdultAmateur #HunterJumper #AQHA #USEF #HorseTraining #YoungHorse #GreenHorse #ShowJumping #HorseShow #EquestrianPodcast #HorseRiding #Confidence #HorseLife | |||
| What The Horse World Needs More Of | Wyatts Hope | Ep 60 | 24 Jun 2026 | 00:42:13 | |
What happens when everyone tells you it's over? In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur, we share the incredible story of Wyatt, a Thoroughbred who suffered a devastating injury that many believed would end his career for good. Faced with difficult decisions, discouraging prognoses, and multiple professionals advising against continuing, Wyatt's team chose a different path. They chose patience, faith, and the willingness to trust the process. What followed was a journey filled with setbacks, uncertainty, sacrifice, and determination. Through careful management, unwavering support from his owner, trainer, and community, Wyatt not only recovered but returned to the show ring and reminded everyone exactly who he was. But this episode is about much more than one horse's comeback. We dive into the realities of the equestrian world, the pressure many riders feel to appear successful, the role social media plays in shaping perception, and the lack of support that adult amateurs often experience. We talk about why the sport needs more real stories, more vulnerability, and more conversations about the challenges behind the highlight reels. This episode is a reminder that horses don't care about followers, ribbons, or appearances. They care about partnership, trust, and showing up every day. Sometimes the greatest victories aren't championships—they're simply getting back in the ring when nobody thought you could. Whether you've experienced a setback with your horse, struggled with confidence, or needed a reminder of why you fell in love with horses in the first place, Wyatt's story is one you won't want to miss. In this episode: If Wyatt's story resonates with you, we'd love to hear about a horse that changed your life. Share your story in the comments. #EquestrianAdultAmateur #HorseRecovery #Thoroughbred #HorseShowLife #AdultAmateur #EquestrianPodcast #HorseTraining #HorseRiding #HorseCommunity #ComebackStory #HunterJumper #EquestrianLife | |||
| Why Confidence Matters In The Show Ring | Bonus Episode | 22 Jun 2026 | 00:36:51 | |
This week on The Equestrian Adult Amateur, I'm sharing a horse show weekend recap as Sunny and Ollie continue preparing for one of our biggest goals of the season—the Big A Quarter Horse Show in Conyers, Georgia. Going into the weekend, I felt like we were in a really good place. Sunny had some great trips, Ollie had been working well at home, and I was feeling excited about the progress we've been making. But as every equestrian knows, horses have a way of reminding us that confidence can change in an instant.After what felt like a great schooling session, Ollie stopped at the first jump during one of our rounds. Suddenly, all the confidence I thought I had built started to disappear. What followed wasn't really about the refusal itself—it was about the mental game of horse showing. The self-doubt, the frustration, the second-guessing, and ultimately learning how to move forward. In this bonus episode, I'm talking about the reality of developing a young horse, managing horse show nerves, building trust in the saddle, and why confidence is one of the most important skills an adult amateur rider can develop. Whether you're preparing for your next horse show, riding a green horse, or working through your own confidence struggles, I think you'll relate to this conversation. Horse showing isn't always about championships and blue ribbons. Sometimes the biggest wins happen when you learn to trust yourself, trust your horse, and keep showing up after things don't go according to plan.If you've ever dealt with a horse refusal, struggled with confidence in the show ring, or found yourself replaying a round over and over in your head, I'd love to hear your story in the comments. 🎙️ Topics Covered:* Preparing for the Big A Quarter Horse Show* Developing a young horse* Building confidence in the horse show ring* Horse show nerves and mental preparation* Horse refusals and setbacks* Trust between horse and rider* Adult amateur riding experiences* Lessons learned from horse showing#EquestrianAdultAmateur #HorseShow #QuarterHorseShow #BigAQuarterHorseShow #HorseShowRecap #HorseTraining #YoungHorse #HorseRefusal #HorseShowNerves #AdultAmateur #HunterJumper #AQHA #HorseRiding #EquestrianLife #ConfidenceInTheRing | |||
| The Bitterness No One Talks About in Equestrian Sport | Ep 59 | 17 Jun 2026 | 00:37:42 | |
Why does it feel like no one outside the equestrian bubble cares about our sport? In this episode, we get honest about the stuff most riders only whisper about — the bitterness, the inequality, and the quiet competition between disciplines that nobody wants to admit is there.We dig into the hunter ring and the subjective side of judging, the "horse girl" stereotype, and why so many of us feel judged differently depending on what we ride. From there we get into the big one: why equestrian events struggle for attendance and attention, and how that's really a marketing and community problem more than a sport problem. (Yes, we bring up F1 and Boyd Martin's personal branding — because it proves this CAN change.)We also talk honestly about the dark side of being online in this community: trolling, the fear of speaking up, and how the internet makes the horse world look way worse than it actually is. Our take? Context matters. Know the people behind the video before you judge the clip. Is there bias in judging? Sometimes. Corruption? It exists in every industry — but it's not as rampant here as people love to claim.Then we get into amateurs vs. pros in show jumping — the stricter rules amateurs play by, the looser ones pros seem to get, and that uncomfortable conversation about money buying wins and how fairness actually gets enforced. We close on bias, gender inequality, and why the sport desperately needs more storytelling and more people willing to tell the truth.If you've ever felt like an outsider in your own sport, this one's for you.🎧 New episodes weekly. Subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss one.💬 Drop a comment: do you think money buys wins in our sport? We want to hear it.👍 Like & share if this hit home.#TheEquestrianAdultAmateur #EquestrianPodcast #HorseGirl #HunterJumper #AdultAmateur #EquestrianLife #ShowJumping #HorseWorld #Dressage #Eventing | |||
| What Makes A GOOD Horse Trainer? From An Amateurs Perspective | Ep 58 | 10 Jun 2026 | 00:48:42 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we dive into one of the most debated topics in the hunter/jumper world: when is someone truly ready to call themselves a professional?We discuss the differences between amateurs and professionals, the challenges young trainers face when building a business, and the realities of managing horses, clients, staff, and expectations. From developing a client base and earning trust in your local community to handling the long hours, travel, and sacrifices that come with the profession, we explore what life as an equestrian professional really looks like behind the scenes.We also tackle the subjective language often used in the horse industry—terms like "green," "broke," and "trained"—and why experience, horsemanship, and problem-solving are often more important than titles alone.Whether you're considering becoming a trainer, currently building your business, or simply curious about what goes into making a career out of horses, this conversation offers an honest look at the rewards and realities of the profession.### In this episode:* What separates an amateur from a professional* The challenges of starting a training business* Building a client base and earning trust* Why reputation matters in the horse world* The importance of grooms, barn staff, and support teams* Long hours, travel, and the sacrifices trainers make* Should horse trainers be certified?* The pressure facing young professionals today* Why choosing the right lifestyle matters more than chasing money* The skills every successful trainer needs to developAt the end of the day, horses aren't just a job—they're a lifestyle. This episode explores what it takes to turn a passion into a profession and whether becoming a pro is the right path for everyone.🎙️ Listen, subscribe, and let us know your thoughts in the comments:**Should there be more standards or certifications for equestrian professionals?** | |||
| Breed For The Adult Amateur | Ashley Adler | Ep 57 | 03 Jun 2026 | 00:49:42 | |
What does it take to breed a horse that can truly succeed in the hunter ring?In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Kelly sits down with Ashley Adler of Oasis Sport Horses, along with trainer Josh Dolan, to talk about breeding, temperament, and the journey behind one of the hunter world's most recognizable palomino stallions, Kiss of Gold.Ashley shares how a childhood dream of owning a stallion eventually led her to build a breeding program centered around producing horses with not only beauty and athletic ability, but the kind of minds that amateur riders can trust. Together, they discuss the stigma surrounding stallions, why temperament should be a breeder's top priority, and how Kiss of Gold has helped challenge traditional ideas about color in the hunter ring.The conversation also dives into the realities of breeding horses, foaling season, selecting mares, raising young horses, and the emotional investment that comes with creating future equine partners from the ground up.Whether you're interested in breeding, own a young horse, or simply love hearing the stories behind successful horses and the people who raise them, this episode offers a fascinating look into a side of the industry many riders never get to see.In this episode:🐴 The story behind Kiss of Gold and Oasis Sport Horses✨ Breaking color barriers in the hunter world🧠 Why temperament matters more than talent alone🏆 Breeding horses for amateur riders👶 Foaling season and raising young horses🤝 Trusting trainers and building successful partnerships🌟 The realities of owning and standing a stallion💛 Following a childhood dream and building a breeding businessIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to like, subscribe, and share it with a fellow horse lover.Kiss Of Gold | |||
| The Dark Side Of The Equestrian Sport | Ep 56 | 27 May 2026 | 00:27:07 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Kelly and the crew dive into the controversial Netflix documentary surrounding the shocking shooting at a horse farm and the media storm that followed. The conversation unpacks the highly produced nature of the documentary, the unanswered questions left behind, and how the portrayal of the equestrian world has sparked major discussion both inside and outside the industry. The episode explores the complicated trainer-client relationship between Michael and Lauren, the red flags viewers noticed throughout the series, and the way the documentary dramatized key moments while leaving out important context. Kelly discusses how the production seemed to prioritize entertainment over accuracy, creating confusion around what really happened and whether viewers were given the full story. Beyond the crime itself, the conversation turns toward the bigger issue of how equestrian sports are represented in mainstream media. The hosts discuss the damage that sensationalized storytelling can do to the perception of the sport, especially for people unfamiliar with the horse world. They also reflect on the importance of communication, boundaries, and professionalism within trainer-client dynamics and why these relationships can become emotionally complicated. This episode is an honest and unfiltered discussion about media bias, controversy, mental health, and the uncomfortable reality of watching the equestrian industry become the center of a true-crime spectacle. | |||
| Who Is The Adult Amateur? | Orchid Bertelsen | Ep 55 | 21 May 2026 | 00:56:26 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Kelly sits down with Orchid In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Kelly sits down with Orchid Bertelsen to talk about returning to the horse world after a 25-year break, rediscovering passion as an adult, and navigating the realities of balancing horses, motherhood, work, and personal identity. With a background in digital marketing, Orchid opens up about leaving her career to pursue something that truly fulfilled her and how documenting her equestrian journey online has helped her reconnect with the sport in an entirely new way.The conversation dives deep into the emotional side of being an adult amateur rider — the guilt of taking time for yourself, the pressure to “have it all together,” and the struggle to balance family responsibilities while still pursuing personal goals. Kelly and Orchid discuss how horses become more than just a hobby; they become therapy, connection, and a way to reconnect with yourself outside of everyday life.They also unpack the realities of modern equestrian culture, from the financial commitment of the sport to the elitism and pressure often felt within the industry. Together, they explore why horsemanship, community, and inclusivity matter more than appearances or status, and why newcomers to the sport deserve encouragement rather than judgment.This episode is an honest conversation about passion, identity, self-care, and what it really means to be an adult amateur equestrian in today’s world.to talk about returning to the horse world after a 25-year break, rediscovering passion as an adult, and navigating the realities of balancing horses, motherhood, work, and personal identity. With a background in digital marketing, Orchid opens up about leaving her career to pursue something that truly fulfilled her and how documenting her equestrian journey online has helped her reconnect with the sport in an entirely new way.The conversation dives deep into the emotional side of being an adult amateur rider — the guilt of taking time for yourself, the pressure to “have it all together,” and the struggle to balance family responsibilities while still pursuing personal goals. Kelly and Orchid discuss how horses become more than just a hobby; they become therapy, connection, and a way to reconnect with yourself outside of everyday life.They also unpack the realities of modern equestrian culture, from the financial commitment of the sport to the elitism and pressure often felt within the industry. Together, they explore why horsemanship, community, and inclusivity matter more than appearances or status, and why newcomers to the sport deserve encouragement rather than judgment.This episode is an honest conversation about passion, identity, self-care, and what it really means to be an adult amateur equestrian in today’s world. | |||
| Why Does No One Care About Equestrian Sports? | Ep 54 | 13 May 2026 | 00:24:40 | |
Or maybe more specifically… why does nobody outside of our world care about the top athletes in our sport?In every major sport, there are household names.Golf has Tiger Woods.Gymnastics has Simone Biles.Swimming has Michael Phelps.These athletes became bigger than their sports because media, storytelling, sponsorship, and marketing dollars were invested into making people care.So why hasn’t that happened in equestrian?In this episode, I talk openly about why I personally believe the horse world struggles to grow outside its own bubble — and why even riders *within* the sport often don’t feel connected to the top-performing athletes. We discuss the lack of mainstream media coverage, the absence of long-form storytelling surrounding riders and horses, and how little financial support exists for creating meaningful media around the sport.Because the reality is:People care about stories before they care about results.And if nobody is investing in showcasing the personalities, struggles, journeys, and humanity behind these athletes… how can we expect new audiences to connect with them?This conversation also dives into why projects like **Inside The Ingate** became so important to me personally, and why I believe storytelling is one of the only ways equestrian sport can truly grow beyond its current audience.This episode is opinionated, honest, and probably a little uncomfortable — but I think it’s a conversation our industry desperately needs to have.🤍 Media & storytelling in equestrian sport🎥 Why audience connection matters🐴 The future of equestrian media📈 Why the sport struggles to grow outside its bubble | |||
| Horses Have Set Backs Just Like We Do | Ep 53 | 06 May 2026 | 00:34:33 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Alexis and I are sitting down for a real life update — and it’s one of those conversations that feels a little messy, a little emotional, and very real.We talk about what’s been going on behind the scenes, especially with my young horse, Oli. After being in training while I was recovering from a broken leg, he’s come back struggling with anxiety and spookiness in a way I didn’t expect. It’s been frustrating, overwhelming, and honestly has pushed me to question what the right next step is — including the possibility of selling him.We also get into the ups and downs of training in general — from regressions in new environments to working through things like lead changes, confidence, and consistency. It’s a reminder that progress isn’t always linear, and sometimes the setbacks hit harder than expected.Outside of the barn, life has been just as full — from navigating big personal decisions, to the stress of everyday responsibilities, to trying to balance it all while still showing up for our horses.This episode is a little bit of everything:The emotional side of owning and training young horsesDealing with setbacks and uncertaintyThe pressure we put on ourselves as adult amateursAnd the reality of trying to hold it all together when things feel a little chaoticIt’s not polished. It’s not perfect. But it’s honest — and sometimes that’s exactly what we need. | |||
| Equine Massage with Mel Hitchcok | Bonus Episode | 29 Apr 2026 | 00:50:18 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, I’m sitting down with Mel, an equine massage therapist whose journey in the horse world started early — from caring for horses at 13 to studying biblical counseling with a minor in equine studies, and eventually building a career centered around helping horses feel and perform better. Mel shares how her time as a working student in Pennsylvania shaped her understanding of the importance of grooming, muscle care, and truly knowing your horse’s body. We dive into how she transitioned into equine massage therapy, her love for dressage, and why bodywork plays such a critical role across all disciplines — from performance horses to broodmares. We talk about:
Mel also shares her approach to preventing injuries, her thoughts on supplements, and why taking care of your horse should always be a team effort — not a one-size-fits-all solution. This episode is a reminder that understanding your horse’s body goes far beyond riding — and that sometimes the smallest details make the biggest difference in their comfort and performance. | |||
| Equestrian Apperal HOT Takes | Ep 52 | 27 Apr 2026 | 00:17:49 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re diving into one of my favorite (and slightly controversial) topics — equestrian fashion, brands, and the trends we love… and the ones we don’t.We get into some honest opinions on brands like Cowgirl Up and Charles Owen, and talk through what we’re actually drawn to when it comes to style in the ring. From rust-colored breeches to helmets with a little bit of shine, we break down what feels elevated versus what might be trying a little too hard.I also share my take on why I’ll always lean toward classic white breeches that can cross between hunter and jumper rings, and how practicality plays a bigger role than people think when it comes to what we wear.We also talk about the comeback of full chaps — yes, they’re back — and how trends in the equestrian world tend to cycle in ways that are both nostalgic and slightly chaotic. And beyond the ring, we get into brands that are doing a really good job of blending barn life with everyday wear, like Solid Citizen, and why that shift matters for adult amateurs.This episode is fun, opinionated, and very real — because style in this sport isn’t just about how you look, it’s about how you feel when you walk into the ring. | |||
| Adult Beginner Equestrians | Ep 51 | 15 Apr 2026 | 00:38:09 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re joined by Michelle, an adult amateur rider whose story is one so many of us can relate to. Michelle started riding as a kid, but like a lot of us, life got busy and horses had to take a back seat. It wasn’t until years later — after her fiancé surprised her with a trail ride — that she found her way back into the saddle. From there, everything changed. She opens up about what it felt like coming back as an adult — being surrounded by younger, more experienced riders, feeling intimidated, and still choosing to keep going (even after a couple of falls). What started as beginner lessons in 2020 turned into a genuine love for the process, where the goal shifted from competing to simply enjoying the ride. We talk about: Re-entering the horse world as an adult Balancing “barn life” with real life and career responsibilities Sharing the journey on social media — the good and the hard Navigating confidence while learning skills like posting and cantering And the transition from lesson program to leasing and exploring new disciplines Michelle also shares her experience building a presence on TikTok, the support she’s found within the equestrian community, and the challenges that come with putting yourself out there online. This episode is a reminder that it’s never too late to come back to horses — and that you don’t need to have it all figured out to belong here! | |||
| Did We Say Amateurs Are The Problem? Ep 49 | 03 Apr 2026 | 00:37:47 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re addressing something that’s been coming up a lot lately — the conversation around how adult amateurs are portrayed, both online and within the horse world. If you’ve seen our skits, you know we lean into humor. Yes, they’re exaggerated. Yes, they’re satirical. But they’re also rooted in very real experiences — things I’ve felt, things I’ve seen, and moments that so many of us as adult amateurs can relate to (even if we don’t always want to admit it out loud). Recently, there’s been some backlash — not just toward us, but across the space — about how adult amateurs are represented. In this episode, we talk about that openly. We discuss the criticism, the stereotypes, and the tension between sharing relatable content and being misunderstood. We also touch on conversations happening across other podcasts in the equestrian space — including differing opinions on whether humor like this reinforces negative narratives or simply reflects reality. And instead of avoiding it, we lean into it. Because here’s the truth: We talk about:
This episode is not about calling anyone out. It’s about opening the door for better conversations, more understanding, and a stronger, more supportive community. And to anyone who’s had a different perspective — you’re welcome here. The conversation isn’t closed… it’s just getting started. | |||
| Are Adult Amateurs The Problem In The Horse World? | Ep 48 | 10 Mar 2026 | 00:36:10 | |
What does it really mean to be an adult amateur in the equestrian world? In this episode, we dive into the complicated, hilarious, and sometimes misunderstood life of the adult amateur rider. From juggling careers, families, and finances to managing the emotional investment we place in our horses, being an amateur rider comes with its own unique set of challenges. We talk about why amateurs often get labeled as “high-maintenance,” why trainers and barn managers sometimes feel like they’re under attack, and how most of the time it simply comes down to one thing: communication. Adult amateurs care deeply about their horses and the sport, and that passion can sometimes come across in ways that aren’t always understood. Throughout the conversation, we share personal experiences, discuss the pressure and comparisons that exist in the equestrian community, and explore how balancing real life with a demanding sport can create both stress and humor. We also highlight the importance of friendships and support systems within the adult amateur community — the people who understand exactly what it’s like to love this sport while navigating everything else life throws at you. At the end of the day, being an adult amateur may be chaotic, emotional, and occasionally dramatic… but it’s also one of the things that makes the equestrian world so entertaining and full of life. | |||
| Drugging Horses For Performance | Ep 47 | 18 Feb 2026 | 00:39:23 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re having a conversation that isn’t always comfortable — but it’s necessary. We talk openly about the pressure to be perfect in today’s equestrian world and how that pressure has evolved over the years. The horses are more athletic, more powerful, and the expectations — from judges, trainers, owners, and even social media — are higher than ever. Somewhere along the way, flawless rounds became the standard instead of the goal. We dive into the very real and serious issue of performance-enhancing drugs in our sport. Why does it happen? Where does the pressure come from? And how do amateurs — often unintentionally — contribute to the culture that prioritizes winning over well-being? This episode isn’t about pointing fingers. It’s about accountability, awareness, and responsibility. We discuss:
Most importantly, we talk about advocating for our horses. As adult amateurs, we have more power than we think. We can set boundaries. We can accept mistakes. We can redefine what success looks like. And we can choose to prioritize our horses’ health and long-term happiness over ribbons. Drugging and doping are not just rule violations — they are welfare issues. And if we truly love this sport, we have to be willing to have hard conversations about it. This episode is about protecting the horses, supporting ethical horsemanship, and remembering why we started in the first place. | |||
| Horse Girl Life Lessons | Live With Maxi Witrak | Ep 46 | 04 Feb 2026 | 00:43:00 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, I’m joined by Maxi Witrak — a comedian, actor, and lifelong horse girl whose story perfectly blends humor, heart, and honesty. Maxi grew up riding horses in Seattle before moving to Los Angeles, where she built a career in comedy and acting. We talk about how her mom first introduced her to the horse world, the many disciplines she explored growing up — from Arabians and Morgans to hunter-jumper and Western — and why she still dreams of owning a cutting horse someday. She opens up about a formative and traumatic childhood experience of having her pony sold, how that moment shaped her emotionally, and why horses continue to teach empathy, responsibility, and care for something bigger than yourself. We also dive into the contrast between performance nerves on stage versus in the show ring, and how she ultimately realized her path was always meant to be in art and performance rather than professional riding. Maxi shares what it’s like to be an equestrian in the comedy world, how leaning into horse-related humor on social media helped her grow a following, and the challenges of maintaining realness as an audience gets bigger. We talk candidly about dealing with online criticism — especially when it comes from people close to you — and her advice for anyone trying to build a personal brand online. And yes… we absolutely get into the story of an LA trail ride with bottomless mimosas that went wildly off the rails. This episode is funny, vulnerable, and incredibly relatable for anyone navigating creativity, visibility, and staying gro tunded while chasing big goals. | |||
| Lets Bring In The New Year | Ep 45 | 26 Jan 2026 | 00:34:44 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, I’m taking a step back to reflect on a year that stretched me in ways I didn’t expect — personally, professionally, and within the horse world. 2025 was hard. I struggled, I questioned myself, and I watched so many other adult amateurs go through similar seasons. I even managed to break my ankle in a ball pit while playing with my nephew — a reminder that life doesn’t always slow down when you need it to. But through all of it, I’ve chosen to see 2026 as a year of opportunity, growth, and intention. I talk openly about the evolution of my brand, KB Media Equine, and why taking the risk to produce a docuseries felt scary — but ultimately became one of the most fulfilling things I’ve ever done. We dive into what it really means to think bigger than your fear, face insecurities head-on, and stop shrinking your dreams to feel safe. This episode also touches on real conversations happening in the horse world — including trainer-client dynamics, unspoken power struggles, and my long-term goal of building a community that feels honest, supportive, and grounded in shared experience. I reflect on my two horses, the lessons 2025 forced me to learn, and the direction I’m intentionally stepping into for 2026. At its core, this episode is an invitation: ✨ to dream louder ✨ to pursue the goals you’ve been putting off ✨ and to reconnect with why horses matter so deeply to us Thank you for being here and for supporting this podcast. I’m endlessly grateful for this community, and I’d love to hear what you’re calling in for the year ahead — share it in the comments and let’s move forward together. | |||
| Horse Show Season Is Over, Let's Talk About it | Ep 44 | 10 Dec 2025 | 00:48:54 | |
In today’s episode, I’m catching you up on a very full couple of weeks — from local horse shows to scary moments, derby fun, and prepping for GHJA Finals with Ollie and Sunny. I talk about my love for local shows and our most recent derby event, plus how I use forage-based diets to keep my horses feeling their best. If you’ve been here awhile, you already know how much I swear by Standlee — their Timothy pellets and compressed bales have been total game-changers, especially for picky eaters. We even did a photo shoot with them recently, which was so much fun! Before the show, I had a pretty frightening moment while hacking Ollie — he tripped hard and almost fell, and it took the wind out of both of us. Because of his past EPM struggles, anything like that sends my anxiety through the roof. The next day, Sunny and I showed… and let’s just say I briefly forgot how to ride 😅 But we pulled it together and ended up placing 4th in the hack. Both boys made me proud, as always. I also talk a bit about vulnerability, communicating openly in this sport, and how important it is to share the real moments — the wins, the fear, the frustration, and everything in between. If you’re an adult amateur juggling life, overbooking yourself (hi, it’s me 🙋🏼♀️), and still doing your best with your horses every day, you are absolutely not alone. Let me know your thoughts on Standlee, how your show season went, and what goals you're setting for next year. I love hearing from this community, and I’m so grateful we get to do this together. 🫶 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe — and share your own horse show stories with me! WATCH Here | |||
| Horse Show LIVE | Ep 43 | 25 Nov 2025 | 00:25:57 | |
In this episode, we’re recording right from the horse show grounds—Hannah isn’t with us today—so it’s Alexis and her horse stepping into a flat class together. Alexis opens up about the nerves that come with putting a horse in the ring for good, confidence-building experiences, even when you’re not totally sure what’s going to happen. We talk about how differently we ride now compared to when we were juniors: more grace for ourselves, less pressure to be perfect, and a deeper focus on creating positive moments for our horses. We dive into the unique pressure that comes with riding seasoned horses, the expectations adult amateurs carry, and how much support from the community means in this sport. Alexis also shares the real-life balancing act of being a mom and a rider—and how learning to ask for help has become part of her growth both inside and outside the arena. This episode is a celebration of the real equestrian life—the nerves, the joy, the community, the parenting juggle, and the constant balancing act of chasing your passion while caring for the horses you love. It’s a reminder that we’re all doing our best, and none of us are doing it alone. | |||
| Inside the Innovation: Garmin’s New Blaze | Ep 42 | 12 Nov 2025 | 00:34:57 | |
In this episode, we chat with a Product Marketing Manager from Garmin about their groundbreaking new wearable for horses — the Garmin BLAZE Smart Heart Rate & Health Monitor. They share the behind-the-scenes story of how this revolutionary product came to life — from testing on horses across different disciplines to uncovering new insights about equine health and fitness. The BLAZE tracks your horse’s heart rate, temperature, activity levels, and recovery, helping riders make data-driven decisions about training and wellbeing. We also get a sneak peek at Garmin’s next innovation, the Garmin™ Wearable GPS, which takes equine health monitoring even further with features like sleep tracking, fitness metrics, and recovery data. If you’re passionate about horses, tech, or performance tracking — this episode is a must-listen! 👉 Check out their amazing product! Xoxo, | |||
| Toxic Horse Trainers | Ep 41 | 04 Nov 2025 | 00:44:16 | |
In this episode, Alexis and I dive into a topic that so many riders can relate to — dealing with toxic trainers in the equestrian world. We’ve all either experienced it ourselves or watched someone else go through it, and it’s time to have an open, honest conversation about it. We share our personal experiences and unpack what really makes a trainer “toxic,” from emotional manipulation to poor communication and blurred boundaries. We also talk about the responsibility that both trainers and clients share in keeping relationships professional and healthy — and why setting boundaries, being honest, and communicating clearly matter so much in this sport. We even touch on whether horse trainers should be regulated, how to find the right fit for you, and how to protect your mental health and peace in a sometimes chaotic industry. At the end of the day, we both believe that training should be something you enjoy — not something that causes stress — and, as we like to say, communication is lubrication. | |||
| What Is You Horse Telling You? | Kali Crosby Animal Communicator | Ep 40 | 28 Oct 2025 | 01:19:24 | |
In this special one-year anniversary episode, we celebrate a full year of being on air and building an incredible equestrian community! Joining us for this milestone conversation is Kali Crosby, a gifted animal communicator who helps her clients connect with their animals on a deeper level to uncover what they truly need. Kali shares how she discovered her unique ability to speak with animals, the process she uses to tune into their emotions, and how her work has transformed relationships between horses, pets, and their people. From solving behavioral challenges to helping owners better understand their animals’ emotional and physical needs, Kali’s insights are both fascinating and heartwarming. We reflect on the journey this podcast has taken over the past year—every story, laugh, and connection that’s brought our community closer together. It’s a celebration of growth, purpose, and the magic that happens when passion meets authenticity. We love you guys and happy 1 year together! | |||
| Filming the Devon Horse Show: The Realities of Creative Production | Ep 39 | 21 Oct 2025 | 00:38:01 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Brad DiMaggio from Scrapyard Media to talk all things filmmaking, pre-production, and the chaos of shooting in the performance boating world. Brad and I first met while working for a mutual client — and let’s just say, things got a little wild when we got kicked out of a boat race mid-filming! From there, we dive into what makes great content actually work: planning, teamwork, and the power of good pre-production. We also chat about our shared experiences filming the Devon Horse Show, dealing with unpredictable weather, troubleshooting on the fly, and why great audio can make or break a story. Brad shares how Scrapyard Media started, their goals for the future, and what it’s like balancing creative vision with real-world logistics. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to pull off a big production—or just want some behind-the-scenes laughs from the field—you’ll love this one. | |||
| Have Neck Injuries Increased In The Horse World? Frida’s Story | Ep 38 | 14 Oct 2025 | 00:34:08 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, I sit down with Courtney, who opens up about the emotional journey with her mare, Frida. When Courtney first brought Frida home, she couldn’t quite shake the feeling that something wasn’t right, even though the mare had passed a pre-purchase exam. Over time, that intuition proved true. Frida was later diagnosed with multiple neck injuries, including internal stenosis and a fractured bone. Courtney shares the long and difficult road of seeking answers, advocating for her horse, and ultimately making the decision to pursue multiple surgeries to help Frida breathe and live comfortably again. This conversation is raw, honest, and filled with hope, a reminder that sometimes, listening to your gut can make all the difference! | |||
| LIVE Plaidcast: The Story of Wills Park with Cheryl Sims | Ep 37 | 07 Oct 2025 | 01:09:24 | |
Hosting a live episode of The Plaidcast during the Inside the Ingate Season Finale Watch Party was such a special moment for me. There’s something about being surrounded by my local horse people community — sharing stories, laughter, and memories — that reminds me why I love doing this! For this episode, I had the chance to talk with Cheryl Simms, the Horse Show Manager at Wills Park Equestrian Center, and Piper Klemm, Publisher of The Plaid Horse. Wills Park has been a vital part of the Atlanta horse community for decades, and hearing Cheryl share its history and her vision for its future was truly inspiring. We discussed how the park has evolved, the renovations and fundraising efforts that sustain it, and Cheryl’s mission to ensure it remains affordable, welcoming, and community-driven. Piper brought great insight into why it’s so important to preserve spaces like this — places where riders can grow, connect, and feel at home in the sport. For me, this conversation really highlighted the heart behind what we do. Wills Park isn’t just a showgrounds — it’s a reflection of how much love and dedication go into keeping equestrian life alive at every level. | |||
| Can I Be Happy, Have Horses, And Be A Good Mom? | Ep 36 | 29 Sep 2025 | 00:21:44 | |
In this heartfelt episode, Alexis opens up about the challenges of being a new mom while also balancing life as an adult amateur rider and equestrian enthusiast. She shares the guilt she often feels for not being able to spend as much time with her horses as she once did and reflects on how motherhood has shifted her priorities and daily rhythms. Alexis also discusses the difficulty of finding joy outside of being a mom, reminding herself and listeners of the importance of prioritizing their own happiness and well-being. She speaks candidly about feelings of inadequacy and guilt, but also emphasizes the importance of giving oneself grace during this season of life. Throughout the episode, Alexis encourages other moms in the equestrian community to find small, meaningful ways to keep horses in their lives, even if it looks different than before. She also invites listeners to share their own experiences, advice, and encouragement, highlighting the strength of community and shared understanding. | |||
| Motherhood, Riding Nerves & Barn Life Unfiltered | Ep 35 | 24 Sep 2025 | 00:31:34 | |
In this episode, Alexis and I finally got to catch up after being apart for a bit! We started with some updates, including hair, a new Garmin watch, and the fact that Alexis has been getting very little sleep, before diving into what’s new in our horse lives. Alexis opened up about how challenging it’s been to ride regularly since becoming a mom, and what it felt like to ride her friend’s very well-trained horse. She shared how fun it was, but also how nerve-wracking it can be riding someone else’s horse when you don’t want to mess anything up. Of course, we couldn’t resist a little barn talk, everything from horse trailer prices (and my “trailer anxiety” story) to a horse-shaped pipe cleaner that turned out to be a total fail. We even touched on footing. If you’re an adult amateur balancing real life with barn life, this episode will feel all too familiar. 🐴💬 | |||
| The Message Behind Inside the Ingate | Ep 34 | 09 Sep 2025 | 00:23:55 | |
In this episode, I reflect on the incredible experience of premiering Season 2 of Inside the Ingate at the Devon Horse Show. From seeing the show on the big screen to watching riders and viewers react, it was a moment full of pride, nerves, and excitement. I dive into the mission behind the series—showcasing the behind-the-scenes world of equestrian sports, giving riders and participants the chance to tell their own stories, and exploring the challenges, nerves, and triumphs that often go unseen. I hope you guys enjoy! | |||
| Getting Local at the Wills Park Foundation Benefit Show | Ep 33 | 28 Aug 2025 | 00:45:38 | |
This week on The Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re at the Wills Park Benefit Show and sitting down with some incredible guests who are shaping the equestrian community in unique ways!
It’s a fun, insightful, and heartwarming look at how fashion, finance, and animal rescue all connect within the equestrian lifestyle. | |||
| Perfection In Our Riding Is NOT the Goal | Ep 32 | 20 Aug 2025 | 00:37:49 | |
This week has been a whirlwind! Episode 3 of Inside the Ingate premiered at the Will’s Park Benefit Show, and I’m so grateful for the incredible support this community has shown. In this episode, you’ll also see Nick and Matthew in the International Derby at the Devon Horse Show; their rides reminded me of the importance of patience, partnership, and listening to our horses. I also open up about my own training journey with my horse. Riding hasn’t been easy lately. Between old fears, PTSD, and the pressure I put on myself, I’ve had to really focus on giving my horse positive rides even when I feel anxious or insecure. This podcast is about honesty, growth, and remembering why we ride in the first place. I hope sharing my journey reminds other adult amateurs that you’re not alone! 💙 | |||
| Mental Barriers, PTSD, And Trauma | Haleigh Holom | Ep 31 | 11 Aug 2025 | 00:56:18 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Haleigh Holom, a mental performance coach who helps riders push past mental and physical barriers so they can reach their goals. We talk about some of the biggest challenges adult amateurs face—things I’ve struggled with myself—like comparison, performance anxiety, and fear in the saddle. I open up about my own journey with comparison, especially the frustration I used to feel when I couldn’t afford a “fancy” horse and would measure myself against others. Haleigh explained that the first step to breaking free from that cycle is recognizing when comparison sneaks in and then shifting the focus back to my own goals. We also dive into performance anxiety. I share my experiences with pre-show nerves, worrying about letting others down, and that mental spiral that can hit before a big ride. Haleigh talks about how she works with her clients—and how I can apply this myself—through:
We also talk about how past traumas can show up in the arena, and how signs like body tension, agitation, or trouble focusing can mean I’m sliding into anxiety. Haleigh reminded me how important it is to have a strong support system at the barn, and I’m so grateful for my trainers and barn family who encourage me every step of the way. Haleigh also shared about her workshops for riders, trainers, and parents, as well as her virtual coaching, clinics, and horse show support. I wrapped up the conversation feeling inspired and excited to have her back on the podcast in the future. My Biggest Takeaway: | |||
| Plaidcast Live Pregame | Piper Klemm & Geoff Case | Ep 30 | 05 Aug 2025 | 00:42:22 | |
In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur, I sit down with Piper Klemm, the powerhouse behind *The Plaid Horse Magazine*, to dive deep into her journey through equestrian journalism and what continues to inspire her work in the horse world. Piper shares what it’s been like navigating the industry as a young woman, building credibility, and staying authentic in a space that’s often slow to change. She also opens up about being featured on our very own Docuseries *Inside the Ingate*—a vulnerable moment that brought both nerves and excitement. Her hope? That by telling her story, she can inspire and educate others in the equestrian community. We’re also joined by Geoff, a respected hunter and equitation judge, who brings his insight into what really matters in the ring. From memorable rounds to major pet peeves (like riders sitting the trot on their entrance), Geoff offers a candid look behind the judge’s booth. Together, we discuss: * The high cost of competing at elite shows like Devon—and why it’s time to debunk the “only billionaires can afford it” myth * The mental game behind showing and how to balance your passion with real life * The pressures of horse life and what it means to have a life *outside* the barn * The importance of building a career in all areas of the horse industry—from judging to teaching to course design We wrapped the episode with a little hype for the upcoming *Inside the Ingate* live show, and a powerful reminder: our stories matter. Whether you're in the big leagues or riding in your own backyard, your journey is valid—and worth sharing. | |||
| How Teamwork Wins Championships: With Nick Haness, Traci Brooks, & Carleton Brooks I Ep 29 | 29 Jul 2025 | 00:38:18 | |
This week on the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, I sit down with three of the biggest names in the hunter ring: Nick Haness, Traci Brooks, and Carleton Brooks. Together, we talk about what it takes to build a winning program — from horse selection and team dynamics to mentorship, mental preparation, and behind-the-scenes organization. Nick opens up about what allows him to focus fully in the show ring, trusting that everything behind the scenes is taken care of. Traci and Carleton dive into their detailed approach to planning, communication, and developing top hunters and clients across the country. We also reflect on some of our funniest memories, career highlights (like winning at Devon), and what keeps them motivated for the future. | |||
| Building Brands & Balance: Ina Forssén on POMME, Amiko and Friends, and Real Life In the Saddle I Ep 28 | 24 Jul 2025 | 00:43:25 | |
In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Alexis and I sat down with the incredibly inspiring Ina Forssén—the founder of equestrian fashion brand POMME and co-founder of Amiko and Friends. If you’ve ever dreamed of starting your own business, struggled to balance your barn life with your real life, or felt the pressure to fit into traditional equestrian style boxes, this conversation is for you. Ina has been riding since she was a kid and always had a passion for fashion alongside horses. She wanted something more modern, colorful, and expressive than what she was seeing in the equestrian world—so she built it. In 2019, she and her friend Pernilla launched POMME, a brand that's now known for bold, high-quality designs and standing out. But the road wasn’t easy. Launching right before the pandemic meant dealing with shipping delays, product challenges, and plenty of uncertainty. On top of that, Ina and her team faced criticism for doing things differently—especially online. Pernilla has received her fair share of unkind comments for simply being visible and confident in her marketing. But instead of backing down, they leaned in. They listened to their customers, stayed true to their brand, and kept showing up. As a fellow adult amateur, I couldn’t help but admire how Ina manages it all—riding, running businesses, motherhood, and everything in between. She credits her supportive husband and staying focused on what matters most. It was such a refreshing reminder that while we may not be able to do everything, we can do the things that count—with heart. Recently, Ina and Pernilla launched a new venture: Amiko and Friends, a membership-based platform offering high-quality equestrian products at more accessible prices. It’s their way of bringing transparency and affordability into a space that often feels intimidating or exclusive—and it’s all rooted in community, connection, and real-life rider needs. This episode was a reminder that there’s space for more color, more creativity, and more realness in the equestrian world. Ina’s story is proof that carving your own path—no matter how unconventional—can lead to something truly special. | |||
| Stereotypes & Pressures Of The Horse Community | Ep 27 | 16 Jul 2025 | 00:30:36 | |
Alexis and I are back—with a new recording location but the same honest conversations you’ve come to expect from us. In this episode, we dove into some of the real-life challenges we’re facing with our horses, especially Alexis’s gelding who’s been dealing with some tough hoof issues. That naturally led us into the hot topic of farrier fees, expectations, and the controversy surrounding the value of their work. I also shared a few listener comments that added even more depth to the conversation. We got real about the struggle of balancing horse life with the rest of life—trying to find time to ride, dealing with the relentless summer heat, and staying on top of hoof care. One listener sent in a beautiful message about being an adult amateur in the horse world, and we read it on air because it captured so much of what many of us are feeling. We also talked about competition—how our definitions of “success” in the saddle have changed over time. Whether you’re chasing ribbons in the show ring or just enjoying a quiet ride in the field, there’s space for every version of joy in this sport. As we wrapped up, we reflected on the pressures and stereotypes that exist in the equestrian world—and how important it is to support one another, no matter where someone is in their journey. We all make sacrifices to be here. Let’s choose to lead with empathy and respect. And finally, we gave a little teaser for an upcoming documentary that we’re really excited to talk more about soon. As always, thanks for listening—and remember to protect your peace and lift up your community. 💛 | |||
| Let's Be Honest | Ep 26 | 11 Jul 2025 | 00:39:12 | |
In this episode, I opened up about something really personal: the backlash and negativity I’ve been facing online and in my local equestrian community. As someone who’s always approached content with creativity and humor—often poking fun at myself and the culture around us—it’s been disheartening to see how easily that can be misunderstood or twisted. I talked about the weight of rumors, judgment, and the frustration that comes with feeling like you’re constantly defending yourself while just trying to build something meaningful. I’ve worked hard to grow a business I believe in, and like many of you, I’ve poured my heart into it. So when people turn on you or question your character, it stings deeply. I also addressed a specific recent situation where I made a comment that sparked some controversy. I took responsibility for it and offered a genuine apology—but I also want to make space for real conversations. I believe we should be able to speak up about issues that matter without tearing each other down. There’s no room for cruelty—especially when it comes to our horses. I’ll never support anything that condones harm or abuse. But I also won’t stand by while our community eats its own. Instead of dividing ourselves, let’s focus on connection, support, and growth. I ended the episode by inviting Anna—the person behind some of the public criticism—to come on the show and have an open conversation. My door is open, and my hope is that Safehouse EQ can continue to be a space where we build bridges, not burn them. Let’s be better. Let’s lift each other up. And let’s remember why we’re here: for the horses, and for the love of this community. | |||
| Equestrian Marketing 101 | Ep 25 | 08 Jul 2025 | 00:29:41 | |
In this episode, I talked about some of the real challenges equestrian brands—especially in the apparel and clothing space—are facing right now when it comes to marketing. For a long time, our industry has relied heavily on reputation and word of mouth. But with the way technology and consumer behavior have evolved, that just isn’t enough anymore. I pointed out how, unlike other industries (like cookies—yes, cookies!), equestrian brands often look and sound the same online. There’s a lack of originality and a real missed opportunity to create distinction. We’re not just selling breeches and boots—we’re selling an identity, a lifestyle, an experience. I emphasized the importance of building strong editorial campaigns that tell a story and create emotional engagement. It's about more than just product shots—it's about painting a picture and connecting with your audience on a deeper level. Of course, I also know this isn’t easy. There’s a lot of fear and uncertainty around doing something different or innovative. But if you want to stay relevant, you have to be willing to evolve and meet your audience where they are—especially online. We also touched on how helpful it can be to bring in a professional—someone who understands both the industry and modern marketing strategy—to guide you. And I stressed the importance of first impressions on social media. That digital storefront matters. Ultimately, the takeaway from this episode is that equestrian brands need to embrace creativity, lean into storytelling, and make their content fun, engaging, and current. Social media isn’t just a place to sell—it’s where your brand builds trust, identity, and community. | |||
| Equestrians, what is behind the highlight reel? | Ep 24 | 25 Jun 2025 | 00:37:26 | |
In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur , hosts Alexis and Kelly provide a heartfelt update on their lives, sharing the latest happenings with their horses and how they’ve recently settled into a busy yet fulfilling routine. They dive deep into the challenges faced in the equestrian community, particularly the unrealistic expectations and pressures exacerbated by social media. Kelly opens up about the constant comparison to elite riders and trainers, emphasizing the need to uplift the stories of everyday riders—those who balance jobs, families, and financial limitations—bringing a more relatable perspective to the sport. They passionately discuss the importance of showcasing not only the successes but also the struggles and realities encountered by top riders. Throughout the conversation, they address the pressure to present a perfect, curated version of oneself online, highlighting the often-ignored struggles and setbacks that come with pursuing equestrian goals. Kelly encourages listeners to embrace their imperfections and set realistic expectations for themselves. The hosts also connect with two adult amateur riders, who share their personal journeys, discussing the delicate balance of their love for horses with everyday life demands. They touch on the complexities of being a business owner and the unique challenges that come with having a spouse involved in the riding world. Join us for this insightful and authentic conversation, as we keep it real about the highs and lows of equestrian life. Tune in for relatable stories and encouragement to embrace your own journey! Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and share your thoughts with us! | |||
| Calling All Adult Amateurs w/ Leslie Segars | Ep 23 | 17 Jun 2025 | 00:31:55 | |
In this episode of our podcast, I’m Kelly Berry, and I’m thrilled to welcome my co-host, Alexis, along with our special guest, Leslie Segars. Leslie is the trainer and owner of a barn specifically catered to adult amateurs, and she shares her inspiring journey in the horse world, highlighting her passion for creating a supportive environment for fellow riders. Leslie emphasizes the importance of having fun in this sport. She reminds us that there’s no pressure to compete if it’s not something we truly enjoy. Our conversation focuses on fostering genuine connections with our horses and cherishing the moments spent riding instead of getting caught up in the pressures of competition on fancy horses. We dive into the vital role Leslie plays in shaping a positive training atmosphere for her clients, ensuring they find joy in their riding journeys. This episode also highlights Lindsay Campbell, a hunter trainer who works with adult amateurs. Lindsay’s experience underscores the sense of community within the equestrian world, where clients support one another, regardless of their backgrounds. Additionally, Alexis and I share our own experiences as adult amateurs, discussing the challenges of balancing life and horses. I reflect on my journey toward becoming a professional, offering valuable tips for others navigating similar paths. We even brainstorm exciting plans for organizing a horse show designed to cultivate a fun and relaxed atmosphere for adult amateurs. Join us for this enlightening conversation filled with insights, laughter, and a reminder that the love of horses should always come first! Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and share your feedback with us! | |||
| Devon Deets & Season 2 Highlights | Ep 22 | 09 Jun 2025 | 00:38:44 | |
In this heartfelt episode of The Equestrian Amateur, I take you along on my recent trip to the beautiful Devon Horse Show, a place that holds a special significance for me. As I filmed season two of *Inside the Gate*, I encountered a whirlwind of highs and lows that shaped my experience. I’m so excited to share the relatable and down-to-earth stories of both top riders and amateur athletes, emphasizing the importance of showcasing the real struggles and joys of the equestrian sport. I also introduce the two incredible amateur riders featured in this season, Piper and Hannah, who add their unique perspectives and challenges to the mix. Filming was both exhilarating and exhausting, and I candidly discuss the difficulties of being away from home for an extended period, along with the frustrations I faced while trying to work with sponsors who didn’t fully support our vision. One of the key points I touch on is the need for a shift in equestrian marketing. I believe brands should represent their target demographic authentically instead of relying on the same old generic formulas. I encourage our community to voice their feelings about the current state of equestrian marketing and how we can collectively push for positive change. I also dive into a serious topic—the impact of internet bullying within our community. This negativity creates a fear that stifles brands and individuals from taking creative risks. I urge everyone to rise above the trolls, stay true to their values, and create content that aligns with their authentic messaging. Throughout this episode, I share my passion for Inside the Gate and my commitment to standing up against bullying to support my fellow equestrians. I recount how I overcame my fears and insecurities during my time at the Devon Horse Show and encourage you to believe in yourselves and your dreams, no matter how crazy they may seem. Be sure to tune in for this empowering conversation, and don’t forget to subscribe and join the email list for updates on future episodes. I can’t wait to share more stories with you! | |||