Our first episode since before the world turned upside down, thanks for still being here!

We're coming back on the scene by hosting a kink contingent July 23-28 at Swingtopia 2022, at our favorite place to get freaky in paradise, with our good friends at Char Travel!

We're confirmed for one of our signature Dungeon Nights in the disco, we'll be doing a demo as usual, and the mini dungeon will be available for casual play at all hours.

To learn more about the trip, visit http://www.chartravel.com/groups and click on Swingtopia Desire 2022!

To celebrate our 100th episode, our sexy friends from Life on the Swingset come by to talk shop and swap stories.

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While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves. 

They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we'd seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as getting up to their usual shenanigans.

Many thanks to Sexypixie, Knotty's Pet and Gabriella for joining in on this episode!

Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us in paradise! SSDesire.com

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Welcome to the inaugural episode of Ending the Sexual Dark Age, a lighthearted yet serious podcast dedicated to the unvarnished truth about sex in the modern world.  We're educated from an early age about everything we'll need to know as an adult, except for the gaping hole in that education regarding sex.  Every generation is left to fend for themselves, leading us to a point at which we've launched a space station, virtually mastered the atom, and gone from the phonograph to the iPod in about a hundred years...but we still have 70% of women faking orgasms.  This show aims to put a dent in that obscene statistic.

Despite what most men (and women) are led to believe, the female orgasm is far simpler than nuclear physics or mechanical engineering.  This show will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sex that your parents should have given you.  From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you'll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn't demean or coddle.  

The Sexual Dark Age has been upon us for centuries, and despite the glut of sexual imagery we're bombarded with our attitudes toward sex are just as self-destructive and backwards as they were 300 years ago.  In some cases we're worse off now, and this show aims to beat back the darkness with plain, honest talk and info about how we got here in the first place; and how to reverse the lifetime of unhealthy sexual attitudes inflicted on us by a culture too ashamed to have honest, open dialog about something we're all biologically programmed to love.

This show will typically be between 20 and 30 minutes in length depending on the topic, and new episodes will be released every 2 or 3 weeks.

Send questions, comments, requests, tirades, and insults to jvaltharas[at]gmail[dot]com, and thanks for listening.

 

Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it.

This episode was originally intended mostly be about ethical pornography, on which Tristan is also an expert, but we had a little too much fun talking kink so we're going to save that topic for a later episode, maybe even for some spontaneous podcasting on resort.

Less than 15 rooms left for the takeover everyone. Come play with us!

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We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard

 

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While in San Francisco, we sit down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it.

Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way that empowers you.

Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in San Francisco August 5-6, 2017 and New York City October 28-29, 2017

ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Weekend Intensive coming up in San Franciso August 11-13, 2017 and New York City October 6-8, 2017

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Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, "Approaching The Swingularity."

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We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at:

Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago

Choice Social Club in Rhode Island

We were also honored to be present for the closing night of Alter Ego in Rhode Island, and we're pleased to report that a filthy, kinky time was had by all.

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In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary!

The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279.

Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.

 

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During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's weekend intensive on female dominance.

But, we start by discussing Shara's newfound desire to be gang-topped (which JV learned about while recording), and our new toys from Fetish Fair Flea.

If you'd like to learn more about Midori and her course offerings (and you should):

Rope Dojo: 2 day rope bondage intensive in San Francisco April 1-2, 2017 and Baltimore September 16-17, 2017

ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Weekend Intensive coming up in San Franciso May 19-21, 2017 and New York City July 14-16, 2017 (more info on this one in the conclusion of the interview).

Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in New York City March 18-19, 2017 and San Franciso Fall 2017

Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.

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During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week).

We talk about lead/follow archetypes that can assist us deconstructing our kinky tendencies and desires in a way that allows for superior communication, followed up by a great conversation on her definition of BDSM, which is far more insightful than mere discussion of the words behind the acronym.

If you'd like to learn more about Midori and her course offerings (and you should):

Rope Dojo: 2 day rope bondage intensive in San Francisco April 1-2, 2017 and Baltimore September 16-17, 2017

ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Weekend Intensive coming up in San Franciso May 19-21, 2017 and New York City July 14-16, 2017 (more info on this one in the conclusion of the interview).

Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in New York City March 18-19, 2017 and San Franciso Fall 2017

Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.

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Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question.

Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the Skype recording of our interview and thus do not have the benefit of the new studio's awesomeness.

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This show is our annual Dungeon Night Debrief episode, recorded with a live audience at Desire Resort in Riviera Maya (Cancun)

This is also the last of the old recordings, so we're caught up! Tune in next time for our centennial episode, when we'll be joined by our best friends in podcasting from Life on the Swingset.

 

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After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think!

This is a laid back episode full of sexy stories about sexy friends, as well as the announcement of our April group vacation, the Dark Side of Desire, from 4/15 to 4/20. Contact Jim@chartravel.com for pricing and more info!

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On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album

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A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online.

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A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one.

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Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November

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For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us.

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This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence of good times had and great ideas for next year's full-resort takeover.

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Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery.

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Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming trips in November 2015 and April 2016. 

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A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery.

Interview Guests:

Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal experience with rape and sexual assault. She is also co-host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast

Megan Allen is a sex educator friendly to all types of adult sexuality and owner of the Facebook sex education page The Downstairs. She also works at Forbidden Fruit Toys in Austin, TX and is a survivor of sexual abuse and also a victim's advocate.  

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In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2

 

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This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow @TrainPrivateGym on twitter or check them out on Facebook 

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A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time!

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Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter

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Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March.

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This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show.

See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode.

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9th Circuit Court Rules LA Condom Mandate Doesn't Violate First Amendment

Semen Is Good For Women's Health & Helps Fight Depression

Going Off The Pill Could Affect Who You're Attracted To, Study Finds 

The Science Of Orgasms (Video from IFL Science)

Supreme Court Declines To Block Florida Same-Sex Marriages

Naked Revenge: Wife Leaves Naked Husband And Twin Sister In Parking Lot After Catching Them Cheating

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Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor problem he's not sure exists

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This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited.

We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion (giggity).

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A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually.

This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which have now been corrected.

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Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time. 

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A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging.

JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics.

JV and Shara are confirmed for Swingset Takes Desire this November. WOOHOO! Looking forward to a week of fun in the sun and sexy new friends!

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In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2

 

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We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds.

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We finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on the swingset very soon. Overall this episode was just a light, fun way to get back to recording. It's great to be back!

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A concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to bring sexy back to her marriage by bringing the kink back.

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Topics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on muscle relaxers who might be incapable of feeling pleasure from her orgasms because of them.

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Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives.

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Helpful Books for Newbie Dominants (and submissives) (at Amazon):

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism

The Loving Dominant

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Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives.

If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out.

If you know of major fetish publications that are looking for models, please comment below to assist another listener.

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Xklusiv Lounge Bizarre - Fetish club/event in Hannover, Germany

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Indeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in.

In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tuned for more info on that).

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We discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so many levels.

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Topics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to break the ice without being embarassed, thoughts for a girl whose younger brother asked for a pair of her panties to keep, and the possibliity of having vaginal orgasms for the first time by doing your kegel exercises so you can clamp down on your playmate.

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Two listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :)

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After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we're podcasting again! We've missed you, sexy friends!

 

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We begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 year old newlywed can battle her loss of focus during sex. No, it isn't an urban legend that some women thing about doing the laundry during sex. Yes, there are things that can be done about it, and most of them are a lot of fun.

All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Facebook page (along with a lot more), so please stop by and "Like" it next time you have a chance.

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From ABC News: Women Are "Duped" In Quest For Perfect Vagina, Says Doctor
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We talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup.

Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass tickler Shara picked to be spanked with (well played, slave ;0)

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We review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt.

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