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In this episode, I give you 10 ways to improve your critical thinking skills and become harder to manipulate, no matter who you are dealing with. 

The ep covers a range of topics, from the dangers of loaded analogies and the importance of distinguishing between familiarity and understanding, to the pitfalls of extreme black and white thinking and the halo effect.

 By the end of the ep you will have a better understanding of how to navigate complex conversations and make more informed decisions.

If you're looking to improve your critical thinking skills and become more confident in confrontation, this episode is a must-listen. So, tune in to this episode and discover how to become a more critical thinker and a more confident, empowered human BEAN.

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Head noise / Advice questions! 

We have: 

1. From olympic medals to starting again
2. Is my best friend gaslighting me?
3. How to feel complete as a person. 
   
   If you would like to send in your life DILEMMA, just email me at info@dyfmpod.com 
   
   Danke! 

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Discover the 5 Simple Steps to Stop Spiralling!

Have you ever found yourself in a state of emotional overwhelm, feeling like you're spiraling out of control? You're not alone. We've all been there, and it's normal to feel like you're drowning in a sea of stress and anxiety. But it is possible to break free from this cycle and find a sense of calm and clarity.

 In this episode, I share with you five simple yet powerful steps to help you stop spiralling and regain control of your emotions.

Hope you try it and it helps. 
Alexis 

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Welcome to the episode of today! 

We are talking ageing, the fear of ageing, feeling left behind, and that timeline that we all compare ourselves too. How can we overcome that and feel good about the season we are in, and be able to let go of the external pressures and comparisons? 

I have six steps that you can start using TODAY that will help make a difference and leave you feeling more fulfilled in who you are, no matter your age, no matter where you sit currently on this 'timeline'. 

Thank you for tuning in! DANKE 

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Bonjour 

Are you tired of feeling stuck in your potential, constantly thinking about all the things you could do, but never actually taking action? Do you feel like you're waiting for the perfect moment or the right resources to start pursuing your goals? In this ep, I talk about the importance of taking action with the resources you already have, rather than waiting for more knowledge, motivation, or potential.

This episode is all about helping you stop wasting your potential and become a person who actually gets things done. The speaker discusses the difference between what you're capable of doing and what you're actually doing, and how to bridge that gap. You'll learn how to make an inventory of your current capabilities, identify the resources you're not using, and start taking action towards your goals.

Try out the challenge at the end of the episode and start taking action with the resources you already have. 

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Life Advice Episode!

(Trigger warning) In this episode we cover dealing with infant loss and friends and family who did not provide support, how to forgive them? (IF you can forgive them). 

Then we talk about how to take on information from a psychic, is it set in stone? Is it a self fulfilling prophecy? 

Lastly I answer a listener question around learning how to be funny. Is it possible to teach this or is it a personality trait you either have or don't. 

One of the key takeaways from this episode is the importance of self-awareness and being able to read the room. I discuss how humor can be a powerful tool for coping with mental health and building connections with others.

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Are you tired of counting down the days until the weekend, only to feel anxious and overwhelmed when Sunday evening rolls around? Do you dread the start of the week, feeling like you're just going through the motions until you can escape to a holiday or vacation? This episode is for you. 

One of the key takeaways from this episode is the importance of being intentional with your time and energy. I talk about setting small goals and making plans for the week ahead, whether it's as simple as getting your outfit ready for the next day or deciding on a fun activity to look forward to. 

Listen now and and discover how to turn your Sundays (or the end of your holidays) into a source of excitement and anticipation, rather than dread.

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Welcome to day 5! the final day of the Self Love Mini Series. 

In this episode, I will teach you about the importance of independence in cultivating self-love and self-respect. Independence is often misunderstood as being the same as being hyper-independent, but the two are actually quite different. One  is a fear response that can lead to an inability to trust oneself and others, whereas the other is about trusting oneself and being open to vulnerability and connection.

By building healthy independence, you can start to prioritize yourself, set your own standards, and open yourself up to connection and vulnerability. 

Hope you have enjoyed this mini series! So excited to bring it back. 

Alexis 

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In today's ep of the pod,  Jake and Otti from the Relatables join me to discuss the Modern Dating Survival Guide. We dive into the world of relationships, sharing their thoughts on what men and women often get wrong in their pursuit of love.

We talk about the importance of emotional maturity to the dangers of societal expectations, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the dating scene.

Jake and Otti bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing topics like the things men think women care about that women actually don't, and the red flags that might indicate a partner is not the right fit. 

I had the best time with these guys chatting all things dating and misconceptions. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did making this episode. 

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WELCOME to day 4 of our self love mini series (hope you are loving it and thriving so far). 

In today's episode, I talk about the importance of self-efficacy, a crucial component of self-love that lets us to believe in our ability to handle challenges, learn new skills, and bounce back from setbacks.

Self-efficacy is not just about feeling good about ourselves, but about taking action and making progress, even if it's imperfect. You will learn about the difference between high and low self-efficacy, and how people with high self-efficacy are more likely to take risks, stay calm under pressure, and enjoy the process of learning and growing. 

Enjoy! 

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Bonjour and welcome to day 3 of my self love mini series. 

How we are going to FIND self love. that is the focus today. 

In this episode you will learn how to reset your self-worth by leaving behind unhealthy relationships and how to stop beating yourselves up over past mistakes by turning them into valuable lessons. 

We often seek validation and love from others because we don't give it to ourselves first. By learning to provide ourselves with love, safety, and security, we become more attractive to others who share similar qualities. 

So dive in, grab a notepad and get cracking. 

Alexis 

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Welcome to day 2 of our Self Love Mini Series.

In this ep we explore the importance of self worth when it comes to increasing self love. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that we're enough just as we are, but the truth is, feeling good about ourselves is often tied to the value we provide to ourselves and others. No matter how many times someone tells you you are good enough, if you do not feel it, it won't help. This episode focuses on HOW to find ways to feel that. 

Thank you for tuning in! 

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Bonjour and welcome to the ep of today. 
I am going to give you a (long) pep talk about how to know if you should walk away from a relationship (without feeling as if you are giving up). 

I cover an array of key points to consider, including how problems are resolved in relationships, how to know if you are being manipulated or if the relationship has run its course, and how to not be so riddled with guilt. 

Brain fact: Insulin on the brain. 

Brain fact studies to read into further:

Benedict, C., Hallschmid, M., Hatke, A., Schultes, B., Fehm, H. L., Born, J., & Kern, W. (2004). Intranasal insulin improves memory in humans. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 29(10), 1326–1334. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psyneuen.2004.04.003

Benedict, C., Hallschmid, M., Schmitz, K., et al. (2007). Intranasal Insulin Improves Memory in Humans: Superiority of Insulin Aspart. Neuropsychopharmacology, 32(1), 239–243. https://doi.org/10.1038/sj.npp.1301193

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Bonjour!!! it is time to bring back the Self Love mini series. 

This is a much loved series encore from last year.

5 days of actionable, practical tools and mindset shifts to start improving how you are feeling about yourself.

In the first ep, we talk about the importance of your relationship with yourself and how self worth really plays into self love. I also touch on Neuroplasticity and how you can begin to rewire your brain for some positive change. 

Thanks for tuning in! 

Alexis 

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Bonjour and welcome to head noise Friday where I give life advice and we unpack all the crazy things you are going through and try to get as close to a solution or close to making sense as possible. 

We have three email questions today. 

We talk about if you really need to chase change when its not something that excites you, and what to do when a great freindship turns one sided and goes south? do you let it die or try to resurrect it from the near dead? 

All this and more. 

AND if you want to send in your head noise, please do at info@dyfmpod.com 

Danke! 

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Determination is a crucial aspect of achieving our goals and living a fulfilling life. But what drives determination, and how can we cultivate it? In this ep we are diving into the neuroscience behind determination, exploring the brain regions and neurochemicals involved in this complex process.

Determination is not just about motivation, but about having the staying power to see things through, even when faced with challenges and setbacks. I also talk about the need to identify what's holding us back, such as inconsistency, lack of clarity, and distractions.

This ep covers the brain regions involved in determination, including the prefrontal cortex, basal ganglia, and amygdala, and how these regions work together to drive persistence, goal-directed behavior, and resilience. And the role of neurochemicals like dopamine, serotonin, and cortisol in motivation and determination.

By the end of this episode, you will have a deeper understanding of the neuroscience behind determination and practical strategies to help them overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.

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In today's episode, I talk about the concept of decision fatigue and how it affects our daily lives. Being bombarded with choices, from what to wear to what to eat, and it's easy to get caught up in the overwhelm. But what if you could simplify your decision-making process and make choices with confidence?

One of the key takeaways from this episode is the importance of automating repetitive choices, such as creating a morning routine or deciding on a limited number of breakfast options, deciding earlier, whether it's booking a trip or making a big decision, and creating rules for yourself to avoid procrastination. 

Tune in to learn how to navigate the paradox of plenty and make better decisions in your daily life.

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In this episode, I delve into the psychology of luck and give you some practical tips on how to become a luckier person. I talk about the concept of beginner's luck to reframing failures, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you shift your mindset and attract more good fortune into your life.

I also touch on a study on the psychology of luck, which demonstrates that people who believe they are lucky tend to have higher levels of optimism, hope, and confidence in achieving their goals.

Tune in to this episode to discover the eight points that will help you become a luckier person. From reframing failures to cultivating a positive attitude, this episode is packed with practical advice that will leave you feeling motivated and empowered to take control of your luck.

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In this head noise episode, I respond to a listeners question around coercive control and I go further in depth, covering the complex and often subtle signs of coercive control in relationships, and offers guidance on how to support loved ones who may be experiencing it. Coercive control is a form of psychological abuse that can be just as damaging as physical violence, and it's essential to recognise the signs and take action.

I share advice on how to approach conversations with loved ones who may be experiencing coercive control, including how to bring up the topic gently and avoid being judgmental or accusatory. This is focused on providing them with opportunities to regain their independence and autonomy.

If you or someone you know is experiencing coercive control, this episode is a must-listen.  By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of coercive control and learn how to support those affected by it.

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In today's episode (a specialized head noise ep), I go into the importance of having a gap between relationships,  the benefits of taking time to heal and focus on personal growth before jumping into a new partnership. 

Key takeaways from this episode include the importance of recognising patterns in relationships, learning to provide your own happiness, and developing emotional resilience. 

If you're someone who's struggling to move on from a past love or finds themselves constantly jumping from one relationship to another, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of rebound relationships and cultivate a healthier approach to love and relationships.

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Intrusive thoughts - those unwanted, distressing, and often disturbing mental images or urges that pop into our minds without warning. They're a common experience for most people, but for some, they can be debilitating and all-consuming. In this episode, I take you through the neuroscience behind intrusive thoughts, exploring what they are, why they happen, and how to deal with them.

Intrusive thoughts are not just random occurrences; they're a natural response to our brain's threat detection system, which is always on the lookout for potential dangers. This system can sometimes get a bit creative, leading to hypothetical scenarios that may seem disturbing or violent.

I also go into the difference between intrusive thoughts and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), where these thoughts can become all-consuming and lead to compulsive behaviors. T

By the end of the episode, you will have a better grasp of the neuroscience behind intrusive thoughts and some practical tips on how to deal with them.

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In today's episode, I'm going to take you through 16 actionable tips to help you "unrot" our brains, including doing a daily brain training game, carrying a book or kindle, and setting a time limit on passive social media consumption. These tips are designed to be achievable and accessible, making it easier for us to make positive changes in our lives.

If you're feeling stuck or struggling with brain rot, this episode is a must-listen to help you take control of your mental health and cognitive abilities. So, tune in to learn how to unrot your brain and start living a more fulfilling life.

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In this ep I talk about the complex world of cognitive fatigue, going into the neuroscience behind why we feel drained, demotivated, and disconnected from life. We're not just talking about being tired, but a state of being that's often misunderstood. 

This ep also covers the intricate mechanisms behind our brain's response to stress, inflammation, and disrupted circadian rhythms, the difference between being tired and being fatigued, and how fatigue is a biological response that's not just about sleepiness or physical exhaustion.

I also cover the role of dopamine, inflammation, and circadian rhythms in contributing to fatigue, as well as the importance of sleep quality, physical activity, and mental stimulation in maintaining our energy levels. Also the impact of phone addiction, social media, and multitasking on our mental fatigue, highlighting the need for a more mindful approach to our digital lives.

If you're feeling drained, demotivated, or disconnected from life, this episode is a must-listen. I offer practical advice and insights to help you understand the neuroscience behind cognitive fatigue and provides tools for making positive changes to improve your mental well-being. 

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Welcome to your Head Noise Episode where we cover all kinds of questions from YOU. 

Today I cover 4 questions, topics range from dealing with a partner who is refusing to pull his weight, choosing between your home town that you love or moving away to find love, timing dating someone new and more. 

To have your questions answered, send your question to info@dyfmpod.com 
Danke!

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In this episode, we explore the neural basis of self-esteem and low self-esteem. With a focus on the brain's physical changes that can impact our moods and self-perception, this episode will help you understand the complex relationship between our brains and our sense of self-worth.

The episode also covers the importance of affect regulation, pride, and self-talk in building high self-esteem. How to manage and respond to emotions, identify your strengths, and how to cultivate positive self-talk.

If you're struggling with low self-esteem or simply want to understand the science behind this complex topic, this episode will be helpful! 

Danke for listening. 

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In this episode, i talk about the concept of survivorship bias, a logical error that occurs when we focus on successful outcomes and ignore failures, leading to skewed conclusions. This phenomenon is all too common in our daily lives, from the way we perceive success stories to the way we make decisions about our own futures.

Something to learn from this episode is the importance of considering the entire data set when making decisions. We need to look at both the successes and failures, and not just focus on the former. We need to be aware of our own biases and to take calculated risks, rather than relying on the idea that hard work alone will guarantee success.

If you're looking to make more informed decisions and avoid the pitfalls of survivorship bias, this episode is a must-listen. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better understanding of how to navigate the complexities of success and failure, and how to make choices that serve you best.

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In this episode, I share 10 ways to fall in love with your life again, from rethinking the first three minutes of your day to becoming an expert in a new topic each month. We are going on a journey to rediscover the joy in everyday moments.

One of the key takeaways from this episode is the idea that happiness is not just about achieving big milestones, but also about finding joy in the small, everyday moments.  

If you're feeling stuck or disconnected from your life, this episode is a must-listen.  So, take a few minutes to listen to this episode and discover the simple yet powerful ways to fall in love with your life again.

Danke and enjoy!

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Welcome to head noise. (I know I am a day late)

In this episode we cover 

• What to do when you leave a marriage and then your partner makes all the changes you wanted them to make while you were together, in order to get back with you.
• How to deal with narcissistic mother in law and her friends.
• And how to navigate fears around pregnancy and deciding if it is the path you want to go on. 

If you would like to send in your question, email at info@dyfmpod.com 

Danke!

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In this episode, I delve into the world of miserable people and how they can be a drain on our lives. We've all met that someone who seems to thrive on negativity, always finding fault in others and themselves, and making us feel like we're stuck in a never-ending cycle of misery. But what drives these people to be so consumed by negativity, and how can we deal with them?

I talk about the concept of misery as a choice, rather than a condition, and how it can be an addictive behavior that people fall into. You will also learn about the concept of "misery loves company" and how it can be a major driver of this behavior.

I also give you key points on how to deal with miserable people, including stopping making negativity your personality, practicing gratitude, and being careful what you rehearse. By the end of the episode, you'll have a better understanding of what drives miserable people and how to navigate these relationships.

If you're tired of being drained by someone else's negativity, or if you're a miserable person looking to make a change, this episode will help! Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of misery and start living a more positive, fulfilling life.

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Enclothed Cognition: 

In today's episode, I delve into the fascinating concept of enclothed cognition, which shows us how the clothes we wear can significantly influence our minds, moods, and behaviours. This idea is rooted in a study by Adam and Glinsky, published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, which explores the relationship between clothing and psychological processes.

The episode explores the idea that our clothing choices can be a powerful tool for self-expression and personal growth. By dressing in a way that aligns with our goals and aspirations, we can tap into our inner selves and cultivate the mindset and behaviors necessary to achieve them. 

If you're interested in learning more about how enclothed cognition can transform your life, tune in to this episode to discover the simple yet profound ways in which your wardrobe can influence your mind and behavior.

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BONJOUR! IT IS TIME to unlock the power of positive self-talk

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a rut, replaying negative thoughts and emotions that hold you back from living the life you want? You're not alone. In this episode, I go into the neuroscience of positive self-talk and how it can transform your brain, outlook, and interactions with the world.

We explore the concept of self-talk, how it shapes our interpretation of events and influences our identity, and how our upbringing and past experiences can impact our internal dialogue.   

The episode covers the science behind affirmations, why they often fail, and how to make them work by focusing on believable statements and emotional engagement. I share practical tips on how to rewire your brain through self-directed neuroplasticity, and the importance of visualization in making positive self-talk effective. 

Tune in to this episode to discover the tools and strategies you need to start making changes and influencing your brain to respond to the world in a more positive way. Listen now and start your journey to a more confident, resilient, and empowered you.

DANKE

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Bonjour and welcome to a listener advice episode (Head Noise) 

Today we talk about Friendship icks, dealing with friends who always cancel, how to move on after being cheated on (even when you are doing all the right things), and dealing with your boyfriend liking provocative photos of their friends online. 

Danke for tuning in! 

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The Power of Showing Up

In this episode, I talk about importance of showing up for others and ourselves and how this concept can lead to stronger relationships, increased self-esteem, and a greater sense of purpose.

I talk about the benefits of showing up for others, including releasing neurochemicals that boost our mood and sense of purpose. And the importance of being consistent in our relationships, not just with grand gestures, but with small, everyday actions that make a big difference. 

I also cover the importance of showing up for ourselves, including the idea that it's not about being perfect, but about being consistent. From studying to working out, and how it leads to increased self-esteem and confidence.

If you're looking to build stronger relationships, increase your self-esteem, and live a more purposeful life, this episode is a must-listen. 

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In today's episode, I talk about the importance of letting go of certain habits that can hold us back from living life in a cool calm and collected way. We're talking about the things that keep us stuck, anxious, and unhappy, and how releasing them can lead to a more fulfilling and peaceful existence.

I go into TEN things to let go of in order to feel happier. So remind yourself of these things often to keep them top of mind. 

If you're feeling stuck, anxious, or unhappy, this episode is a must. 

To hear more about imposter syndrome listen to this episode : 
"Imposter Syndrome Be Gone!"

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In this episode, I delve into social anxiety disorder (SAD). I go into the differences between social anxiety and shyness, and the neuroscience behind social anxiety, including the role of the amygdala and the impact of serotonin and dopamine on our behavior.

The episode covers the DSM-5 definition of social anxiety disorder, and I share practical advice on how to manage social anxiety, including exposure therapy, cognitive reappraisal, and social skills practice.

If you're struggling with social anxiety, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips to help you understand and manage your symptoms. 

Danke! 

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Bonjour!

This is a crowd fave so thought I would bring it back in all its glory. (also got a heap of interest about the MSG science fact!) 

This ep will challenge your perspective on life and help you cultivate a more mindful approach to the ups and downs that come our way.

by accepting these five simple things today you will notice a weight drop off your shoulders, you will feel lighter, and more in control of your life circumstances and where you are headed. 

Enjoy! 

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In this episode,I delve into the concept of a regulated nervous system and how it can be achieved. We're not talking about being a calm and serene person all the time, but instead, learning to navigate our emotions and respond to situations in an appropriate way. 

This ep explains what a regulated nervous system is and how it differs from an unregulated one, and how a regulated nervous system is not about being immune to stress or emotions, but rather about being able to respond to them in a way that allows us to maintain balance and well-being. I discuss the biological mechanisms involved, including the autonomic nervous system, the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems, and the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis.

I then give strategies and tools that can be used to achieve a regulated nervous system, including cognitive reappraisal, attentional shifting, and physical techniques such as deep breathing, digital blackout, and weighted blankets.  You will see that you can learn to train your brain to respond to stress and emotions in a healthy way, and how this can be done through conscious and intentional actions that eventually become automatic.

If you're interested in learning more about how to regulate your nervous system and improve your emotional well-being, tune in!

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In this episode, I answer three listener questions. From the impact of artificial intelligence on future generations to navigating toxic relationships and setting boundaries with family members, this episode covers it all.

I talk about how to find hope in a world where technology is rapidly changing the way we live and work and how important it is to teach children to be adaptable and independent. When to know when it's time to let go of a toxic partner and how to set healthy boundaries with family members who may be causing emotional distress. 

Tune in to hear the full conversation and discover how to take control of your life and make the choices that are right for you.

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A Marriage on the Brink: Navigating Porn Addiction and Relationship Dynamics

Episode 503

In this episode, I delve into a deeply personal question from a listener who's struggling to cope with her husband's porn addiction. I talk about the devastating impact of this addiction on relationships, and the importance of prioritising your own own well-being.

This ep covers the complexities of porn addiction, its effects on intimacy and trust, and the challenges of recovery. I go into the need for accountability, therapy, and a willingness to confront the underlying issues driving the addiction. AND the importance of setting boundaries and communicating needs clearly in a relationship, and the dangers of gaslighting and manipulation.

A key takeaway from this episode is that recovery from porn addiction is a long-term process that requires effort, commitment, and support. 

If you're struggling with a partner's porn addiction or feeling trapped in a toxic relationship, this episode offers a much-needed dose of reality and hope. 

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In a world where social media reigns supreme, it's easy to get caught up in the endless scroll and lose sight of what truly matters. But what if you could break free from the cycle of comparison and distraction, and find a sense of calm and clarity in a world that's increasingly chaotic?

This episode is all about the psychology of the slow life, where we're talking about moving away from addictive content and towards longer, more intentional forms of media. In this episode I talk about the benefits of stepping away from social media, including improved focus and attention, lower anxiety and stress, and a greater sense of presence and connection with the world around us.

I also go into the importance of being mindful of our attention and how it's being used, and how we can start to make changes to our social media habits to prioritize what's truly important to us. And of course some practical tips and advice for anyone looking to start their own journey towards a slower, more intentional life.

If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of social media and want to find a more balanced way of living, this episode is a must-listen. Join me over the next 30 days to explore the benefits of a slower pace of life, and discover how you can start to make changes to your own social media habits to focus on what truly matters.

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Ahhhh Insecurities. I feel like they are used against us in all areas of life. 
Advertising, social media, internet trolls, trends, unhealthy relationships and even well meaning friends and family! 

this ep uncovers what insecurities actually are, the common behaviors to look out for in yourself, and how to learn to live with, embrace or change (in a healthy way) the things that you are insecure about so they no longer control you and how you move forward in life. 

Secure people are not those with zero 'flaws' or things that they don't love, they are people that despite these 'things' are able to love who they are and be comfortable with that. and when that happens, no one can use your insecurities against you. 

Brain Fact - Fen Phen and why it got discontinued. 

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Head Noise today! 
Episode 500!

I have your voice note listener questions (love them and your voices SAAAAAAAA much). 
The questions and titles are perfection and I hope to give you some food for thought to get you closer to your answer. 

1. At what point do I walk away?
2. Abrupt ending to a relationship
3. Attachment Style (How to stop protectively detaching?)

We talk all things break up, heart break, ultimatums, communication, closure, healing and rebuilding yourself after a breakup. 

Hope you and your brains enjoy!

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Bonjour beans, and welcome to the episode today. - Episode 499.

We go into a sort of 'bingo' of things that may be said by a narcissistic family member. I gathered a lot of this information thanks to you guys, my audience and what you have written in in response to my questions around dealing with difficult family members. 

I also do a pharmacology fact (Quaaludes) and a listener question at the end where we discuss when you have a friend who is imitating your every move - what can you do? 

Hope you enjoy! 

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Bonjour and welcome to the episode of today! 

Given that I am on the brink of losing my voice I thought I would bring back a crowd favourite with this episode I released a while back. 

In this episode I have my brain fact of the Swimmers Body Illusion, and then I go into why it is so hard to let someone / something go and ways to feel more empowered to do that thing. 

Danke and enjoy 

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The episode I mentioned on How to Make Friends in your 20s, 30's and beyond here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6iY0XkqmrtIuCHfJ95UUAD?si=zqjCSkW8QB-FOTM4rj38ew 

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Part 2 of the neuroscience of making and breaking habits.

Here I delve into the best and most effective ways to break a habit, and I give options to try depending on what kind of habit you want to stop.

Take notes, write it all down and see if it helps you.

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