Colorado Child Support Statute Updates: What Changes in 2025 and 2026 Mean for Families

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha and associate attorney Kate Mulholland break down major updates to Colorado’s child support statute. They explain how House Bill 25-1159 changes the treatment of extraordinary medical expenses, tax credits, retroactive child support, low-income calculations, and parenting-time credits. The conversation focuses on what family law practitioners and parents need to know as the new rules take effect in phases across 2025 and 2026.

Guest Information

Kate Mulholland is an associate attorney at Kalamaya Goscha, where she practices primarily family law and also handles criminal defense and civil protection order matters. She joined the firm in August 2024 and works on contested family law issues, post-decree disputes, motions practice, and cases involving the overlap between family law and criminal law.

Episode Highlights

Why Colorado overhauled its child support framework
Kate explains that House Bill 25-1159 is the most significant child support update in more than a decade. The goal is to modernize the statute to reflect current cost-of-living realities, address low-income situations more fairly, clarify medical expense handling, and align state practice with IRS guidance on tax benefits.

Medical expense changes effective May 31, 2025
One of the first major updates eliminated the old $250 threshold that each parent had to meet before being reimbursed for extraordinary medical expenses.

Ordinary vs. extraordinary medical expenses are now defined
The statute now clearly distinguishes between ordinary and extraordinary medical expenses. Extraordinary expenses include co-pays, deductibles, uninsured out-of-pocket expenses, prescription medication, medical equipment, orthodontia, and dental treatment.

Why this matters in real life
Amy and Kate use Eric and Melanie Wolf as an example. Before the update, Melanie might have had to spend $250 of her own money on the children’s extraordinary medical expenses before she could seek reimbursement.

The statute now creates more predictability for reimbursement
Kate notes that the updated law also gives structure to reimbursement timing. A parent seeking reimbursement must provide proof within a reasonable time, and if proof is not provided by July 1 of the following year.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Meet Associate Kate Mulholland: Family Law, Criminal Defense, and Supporting Clients Through Crisis

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha introduces associate attorney Kate Mulholland and discusses her background, her path into law, and the perspective she brings to family law cases. They explore her experience in divorce, parenting disputes, civil protection orders, and criminal defense, along with the importance of communication, managing expectations, and supporting clients through high-stress situations.

Guest Information

Kate Mulholland is an associate attorney at Kalamaya Goscha, focusing primarily on family law while also handling criminal defense and civil protection order matters. Originally from Ohio, Kate moved to Colorado for law school and gained extensive early experience through internships, trial work, and clinical programs. Her practice includes contested divorce issues, post-decree modifications, mediation, and cases involving the intersection of family law and criminal law.

Episode Highlights

Kate’s path into family law
Kate shares that personal experiences with family members going through divorce inspired her to pursue family law, where she can make a meaningful impact during critical moments in clients’ lives.

Early hands-on legal experience
From working with the Denver Municipal Public Defender to participating in DU’s criminal defense clinic, Kate gained trial and appellate experience early in her career, shaping her litigation skills.

The firm’s team-based approach
Amy and Kate discuss the partner-associate-paralegal model, emphasizing how collaboration improves strategy, efficiency, and client outcomes.

How Kate supports clients in high-stress situations
Kate focuses on meeting clients where they are emotionally while ensuring they have a full support system, including therapists, financial professionals, and co-parenting coaches.

The importance of early intervention
Addressing issues early in a case especially those involving children and finances can prevent escalation and lead to better long-term outcomes.

Managing client expectations realistically
Kate emphasizes transparency from the beginning, helping clients understand both the strengths and limitations of their case and the realities of the legal system.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Divorce and Real Estate: What Your Attorney May Not Tell You

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Karla Kyte, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional, to discuss one of the most overlooked parts of divorce: real estate and mortgage planning. They break down the costly mistakes people make when they assume keeping or buying a home will be simple after divorce, and why involving a divorce mortgage expert during settlement negotiations can make a major difference.

Karla explains how child support, spousal maintenance, temporary orders, refinancing, equity buyouts, and loan assumptions can all impact whether a divorcing spouse will actually qualify for a mortgage.

Guest Information

Karla Kyte is a Denver-area lender with more than 27 years of experience and has been a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) since 2017. In addition to her lending work, she now runs a fee-based divorce mortgage planning business focused on helping divorcing individuals and attorneys structure settlements that can actually be executed after decree.

Episode Highlights

Why Real Estate Is So Often Mishandled in Divorce
Karla explains that many divorcing spouses ask, “Why didn’t my attorney tell me this?” The reason is not that attorneys are doing something wrong, but that mortgage planning is its own specialty.

How Child Support and Maintenance Affect Mortgage Qualification
One of the biggest issues is timing. To use support income for mortgage qualification, the receiving party must usually have both a court order and a documented payment history.

Why the Length of Support Matters More Than People Realize
Karla points out that if support ends too soon, it may not count at all for mortgage qualification. That means even a person receiving significant monthly support might not be able to use it if the support term is too short.

The Importance of Temporary Orders
Temporary support orders can start the clock for mortgage qualification. If support is being paid during the divorce and documented correctly, it can later help a spouse qualify once permanent orders are entered.

Why Payments Must Be Set Up Properly
Support payments must be traceable. Karla explains that support should be paid from one spouse’s individual account into the other spouse’s individual account. If parties simply move money around informally or through joint accounts.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Maximizing Your Options: What to Do with the Marital Home in Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha welcome Jeff Landers, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP), to discuss one of the most pivotal questions in divorce—what to do with the marital home. Jeff provides expert advice on navigating the complex decision of whether to keep, sell, or co-own the home post-divorce. He shares his insights on managing the financial implications, especially for divorcing individuals who wish to maintain stability for their children.

Guest Information
Jeff Landers is a seasoned expert in divorce financial matters, with a background that includes being a licensed mortgage and real estate broker. He founded Next Act Properties, a company dedicated to providing real estate and mortgage solutions for divorcing individuals. With a wealth of experience, including his role as the author of seven divorce-related books, Jeff specializes in offering guidance on what to do with the marital home during divorce.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Marital Home Dilemma
Ryan and Amy introduce Jeff Landers and discuss the common dilemma faced by divorcing couples: what to do with the marital home.

Should You Sell, Keep, or Co-Own the Home?
Jeff explains the three main options—selling, keeping, or co-owning the home—and why co-owning post-divorce is generally not advisable.

Financial Implications of Keeping the Home
Jeff discusses the financial challenges of keeping the marital home, including the need to buy out the other spouse's share and the difficulty of qualifying for a mortgage post-divorce.

Mortgage Refinancing and the Six-Month Rule
Jeff dives into the mortgage refinancing process, detailing how spousal support and child support may affect the ability to qualify for a mortgage.

Planning for the Future: Fractional Ownership and Sell-Leaseback Options
Jeff talks about fractional ownership and sell-leaseback options for those who may not be able to afford to buy out their spouse or refinance the home.

The Importance of Planning Early in the Divorce Process
Jeff emphasizes the importance of getting professional advice early in the divorce process to avoid costly mistakes later on.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Maximizing Efficiency: Time Management Tips for Family Law Attorneys

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha welcome Marco Brown, a renowned Family Law attorney from Salt Lake City, Utah. Marco shares valuable insights on time management for attorneys, specifically focusing on Family Law practices. He discusses how to manage distractions, handle time vampires, and implement strategies that help lawyers bill more hours while maintaining a work-life balance. Marco also talks about his personal journey from starting a law firm with no clients to becoming a recognized Family Law expert.

Guest Information

Marco Brown is a highly respected Family Law attorney based in Salt Lake City, Utah. He is the founder of Brown Family Law, a firm that has helped over 4,000 individuals navigate the challenges of Divorce and Family Law. Marco's journey is one of resilience and success, as he grew his firm from scratch while managing significant student loan debt and operating from the floor of his Honda. Today, he runs a thriving firm and has earned recognition as Utah Family Law Attorney of the Year, voted by his peers in the Utah Bar.

Episode Outline

Introduction to Time Management in Family Law
Ryan and Amy introduce Marco Brown and the topic of time management for Family Law attorneys.

The Trick to Billing More Hours Without Spending Extra Time in the Office
Marco reveals an easy trick to bill 192 more hours per year without working extra hours: stop checking social media!.

The Impact of Social Media and Distractions on Legal Work
Ryan and Marco dive into the research on how distractions, including social media, affect lawyers’ productivity. 

Managing Emails and Calls Effectively
Marco provides practical advice for attorneys on how to manage emails and calls without letting them disrupt their flow.

The Importance of Client Communication
Marco talks about the importance of setting clear communication expectations with clients, explaining how limiting interruptions can ultimately lead to better service and higher quality work for clients.

How to Run a Law Firm Efficiently and Make More Money
Marco emphasizes the importance of building an efficient law firm that serves clients well while providing a fulfilling work environment for attorneys.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Common Law Marriage in Colorado: What You Need to Know | Episode 140

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the complexities of common law marriage in Colorado, a state where common law marriages are legally recognized. They delve into what constitutes a common law marriage, the factors that courts consider, and the financial implications of being deemed common law married. Amy also provides insight into how common law marriage can impact property division, spousal support, and child support during divorce proceedings.

Episode Outline

Introduction to Common Law Marriage
Ryan and Amy introduce the topic of common law marriage, explaining its historical context and how Colorado recognizes it.

What Makes a Common Law Marriage in Colorado?
Amy explains the two main elements required for a common law marriage in Colorado: mutual consent and the open assumption of a marital relationship.

The Legal and Financial Implications of Common Law Marriage
Ryan and Amy discuss why someone might claim a common law marriage, particularly in divorce cases where property division and spousal support are at stake.

Disputes Over Common Law Marriage
The hosts discuss how disputes arise when one party denies the existence of a common law marriage.

Cohabitation Agreements and Unmarried Couples
Amy talks about the rise in cohabitation agreements for couples who want to clarify their status and intentions, particularly when they don’t wish to be seen as common law married.

Case Law Examples
Amy references the Salzman v. Backrack case, where the court found that property improvements made during a relationship could lead to a claim of unjust enrichment, even if the couple wasn't married. They also discuss the People v. Lucero case, which further defines the criteria for common law marriage in Colorado.

The Process of Litigating Common Law Marriage
Ryan and Amy walk through how common law marriage cases are litigated, emphasizing the fact-intensive nature of these cases. They discuss how a party seeking to establish a common law marriage might need to provide witnesses and extrinsic evidence.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Inflation and Its Impact on Divorce Valuations and Settlements | Episode 139

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by financial expert Andy Baum, who shares insights on how inflation affects divorce settlements, valuations, and maintenance payments. Andy explains how inflation can alter property valuations, impact the cost of spousal support, and shift the financial landscape of divorce cases. He also discusses the current economic climate and how the Federal Reserve's actions are influencing interest rates and inflation.

Guest Information

Andy Baum is a financial expert and associate at Harper, Hofer, and Associates. He has significant experience in financial forensics, business valuation, and economic analysis. Andy has presented to the Family Law Bar in Denver on the topic of inflation's impact on divorce valuations and has worked with numerous clients to navigate complex financial issues in divorce proceedings.

Episode Outline

Introduction to Inflation and Divorce
Ryan and Andy discuss the definition of inflation and its impact on purchasing power, setting the groundwork for how inflation affects divorce financials.

The Federal Reserve's Role in Inflation
Andy explains how the Federal Reserve uses interest rates to control inflation, and how recent hikes have impacted the economy.

The Impact of Inflation on Property Valuations
Ryan and Andy discuss how inflation affects property valuations, particularly for assets like real estate.

Business Valuations During Inflation
Andy explains how inflation influences business valuations, particularly for closely held businesses.

Equalization Payments and Inflation
Andy talks about how interest rates tied to equalization payments (the money owed to one spouse to equalize the division of assets) need to reflect inflation to maintain fairness over time.

The Impact of Inflation on Separate Property
Ryan and Andy discuss how inflation affects separate property during a divorce, particularly when there are increases in the value of assets like investments or real estate.

The Future of Inflation and Divorce Settlements
Andy offers insights into future inflation trends and how it may continue to impact divorce settlements, spousal support, and business valuations.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Challenges in Business Valuations in a Divorce with Ron Seigneur

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by business valuation expert Ron Seigneur, who discusses the complexities of business valuations in divorce cases, particularly when it involves closely held businesses. Ron provides insights on how to determine the value of a business, the different types of valuation standards, and the legal challenges that often arise in these cases. Whether it's determining fair market value or investment value, Ron explains the nuances that attorneys and clients need to be aware of during the divorce process.

Guest Information

Ron Seigneur is a founding partner of Seigneur Gustafson, a Colorado-based firm specializing in financial forensics, business and intellectual property valuation, and exit planning services. He has written numerous articles on business valuation and is an adjunct professor at the University of Denver, Daniels College of Business. Ron also serves as the vice-chair of the Business Valuation Committee for the American Society of Appraisers.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Episode
Ryan introduces Ron Seigneur and discusses the significance of business valuations in divorce cases, particularly those involving closely held businesses.

Understanding Business Valuations in Divorce
Ron breaks down the different types of business valuation metrics used in divorce, including fair market value, fair value, and investment value.

The Importance of Standard of Value
Ryan and Ron discuss the legal distinction between fair market value and investment value, and how this impacts the valuation of a business in divorce.

Discounts in Business Valuations
Ron dives into the importance of discounts, such as the minority interest discount and lack of marketability discount, particularly when valuing a minority stake in a closely held business.

Goodwill in Professional Businesses
The conversation turns to the concept of goodwill in professional businesses.

How Volatility Affects Business Valuations
Ron addresses how economic volatility, such as market fluctuations or industry disruptions, influences business valuations.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Today, we delve into our top five episodes from 2022. Tune in to hear which episodes we found most enriching and what you can learn from them, as practitioners or as someone going through a divorce. We share powerful insights from each conversation, along with practical resources from each of our guests. So tune in today for an overview of the best of 2022, as we look forward to an enriching and growth-filled 2023. Thanks for listening! 

Key Points From This Episode:

• An into to Ryan's top episodes of 2022.
• Episode 94: Divorcing a Narcissist with Tracy Malone.
• Different types of narcissists, how a divorce plays out with a narcissist and their need to win.
• Episode 120: Enforcing Court Orders Without Filing for Contempt with Halleh Omidi.
• Alternative remedies to contempt of court as outlined by Halleh Omidi.
• Episode 113: Navigating a High Conflict Divorce with Les Katz.
• Dr. Katz weighs in on how often high conflict in a divorce can be attributed to one person.
• Episode 116: Forensic Accounting & the Divorce Money Guide with Tracy Coenen.
• The need to critically go through your financials as a client of divorce and how her Divorce Money Guide  came to be. 
• Episode 115: Taking the High Road with Andy Heller.
• What led Andy to write Taking the High Road.
• The research process that led him to compile the best practices on how to get through a divorce process.

Thank you to our listeners for your support in 2022!

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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How to Pick the Best Divorce Lawyer in Colorado

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha delve into the critical topic of selecting the best Divorce lawyer in Colorado. As January is known as "divorce month," the duo discusses strategies for choosing the right lawyer for your situation, whether you're a business owner like Eric Wolf or navigating a more straightforward divorce. They emphasize the importance of finding a lawyer with expertise in family law, understanding your approach to divorce, and ensuring that the lawyer is someone you can trust to represent your interests effectively.

Ryan and Amy outline several important factors to consider when hiring a Divorce lawyer, from specialization in family law to understanding the lawyer's approach to negotiation and litigation. They also touch on the importance of setting clear expectations regarding the costs of legal services and how to navigate potential expenses during the divorce process.

Episode Outline

Introduction
Ryan and Amy introduce the topic of selecting the right Divorce lawyer in Colorado. They highlight the importance of making an informed decision, especially in emotionally and financially challenging divorce cases.

Specialization in Family Law
Amy explains the significance of hiring a lawyer who specializes in family law, particularly divorce cases. She cautions against hiring general practitioners and emphasizes the importance of finding someone with the right expertise.

Identifying the Right Approach
Ryan and Amy discuss different approaches to divorce law, such as collaborative law, litigation, and mediation. They stress the need for clients to understand a lawyer's approach and ensure it aligns with their desired outcome for the divorce.

Referrals and Research
Ryan advises listeners to ask friends, family, and other professionals for referrals when looking for a Divorce lawyer. He emphasizes that trusted recommendations often lead to the best matches for clients.

Meeting with Lawyers
Ryan and Amy talk about the importance of meeting with multiple lawyers to find the best fit. They share personal insights and recommend asking key questions during consultations to gauge how well the lawyer will represent your interests.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Empowering Women Post-Divorce: A Journey to Healing and Transformation

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by Hasana Elamin, a Divorce coach and life coach, who shares her inspiring journey of overcoming the challenges of divorce and the strategies she uses to help women navigate similar experiences. Hasana discusses her background as an expat, her personal experiences with narcissistic abuse, and how she transformed her mindset to build a successful coaching business.

Hasana's coaching program empowers women to take control of their lives, heal their emotional wounds, and gain the clarity needed to make empowered decisions. Through personal experience and client success stories, Hasana highlights the importance of mindset, boundaries, and actionable steps for rebuilding life after divorce.

Guest Information

Hasana Elamin is a Divorce coach dedicated to helping women overcome overwhelm, gain clarity, and create the life of their dreams. She became a coach after experiencing a difficult divorce while living overseas as an expat. With a background as a personal trainer and Pilates instructor, she combines physical wellness with mindset coaching to guide women through emotional recovery and personal growth.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Episode
Amy introduces Hasana Elamin, a Divorce coach, and explores the impact of mindset and personal growth after a divorce.

Overcoming Overwhelm and Gaining Clarity
Hasana discusses how she helps women gain clarity and overcome the emotional overwhelm that often comes with divorce.

The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse and Financial Control
Amy and Hasana talk about the emotional and financial abuse often experienced by women in narcissistic relationships.

Setting Boundaries and Protecting Yourself
Hasana emphasizes the critical role of setting boundaries, particularly when dealing with narcissistic ex-spouses.

Coaching Through the Divorce Process
Hasana walks through the steps of her coaching program, which helps women heal emotionally, set goals, and create a vision for their future.

Supporting Children Through Divorce
Hasana discusses how women can support their children through the challenges of divorce, particularly when one parent is narcissistic.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Investing in Divorce: How to Handle Financial Assets Post-Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Austyn Garcia, a financial advisor at Denver Wealth Management. Together, they discuss the various financial considerations individuals face after a divorce, focusing on the decision-making process regarding investments, asset allocation, and tax implications.

Austyn offers valuable insight into how couples can make sound financial decisions during a divorce, taking into account the long-term impact of taxes and market volatility. The discussion also delves into behavioral economics and the psychological aspects of money during a stressful time like divorce.

Guest Information

Austyn Garcia is a financial advisor at Denver Wealth Management, specializing in investment management, cash flow management, and tax mitigation strategies. He has been in the financial industry for over four years and transitioned from a marketing role to financial advising. Austyn holds a degree in economics and has certifications in the financial advising space.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Episode
Ryan introduces Austyn Garcia, a financial advisor at Denver Wealth Management, to discuss the financial implications of divorce and the strategies that can help clients navigate post-divorce asset management.

Types of Financial Accounts and Their Tax Implications
Austyn explains the different types of financial accounts that may come into play during a divorce, such as IRAs, Roth IRAs, 401(k)s, and savings accounts.

The Importance of Asset Allocation in Divorce Settlements
Ryan and Austyn dive into the complexities of asset allocation, particularly when it comes to real estate and investments.

Managing Real Estate Post-Divorce
Austyn addresses the emotional and financial considerations that come with keeping or selling real estate post-divorce.

Financial Decision-Making for Melanie: What Should She Do with Her Money?The episode concludes with a discussion on what Melanie should do with the settlement money she receives from the divorce.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Managing Lifestyle and Finances During Divorce: Insights from a Financial Expert

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by financial expert Olivia Summerhill to discuss the financial concerns that high-net-worth women like Melanie Wolf face during a divorce. Olivia provides valuable insights on how to manage the financial side of divorce, including lifestyle changes, moving, refinancing, and the importance of having the right experts on the team.

Episode Highlights

Introduction to Olivia Summerhill
Olivia is a financial consultant specializing in advising ultra-high-net-worth women going through or post-divorce. She brings extensive experience from her previous roles at JP Morgan and in wealth management.

The Pre-Divorce Phase: Preparing for Change
Melanie Wolf is used as a hypothetical example of a woman considering divorce. Olivia talks about common fears such as where the money is, what assets exist, and how the lifestyle will change post-divorce.

Lifestyle and Expectations During Divorce
Melanie, like many women, fears losing her country club lifestyle and the social connections associated with it. She stresses that it’s crucial for Melanie to have a clear understanding of her values and priorities before making any financial decisions.

Financial Implications: Moving and Refinancing
Olivia talks about the challenges Melanie faces when considering moving and refinancing, especially in the context of rising interest rates and volatile housing markets.

Handling Asset Valuations and Divorce Strategies
When Eric suggests to Melanie that they can “cut out the lawyers” and she should just “tell me a number,” Olivia discusses the financial strategies involved.

Spousal Support and Inflation
The hosts talk about how inflation impacts the long-term sustainability of spousal support (alimony) and how Melanie should approach negotiations. She also touches on how a lump-sum payment might be an option for some, especially in cases where long-term support isn’t in the best interest of both parties.

Post-Divorce: Guiding Melanie with Her Values
Melanie’s post-divorce life should be guided by her values. Olivia explains how understanding personal values, such as family, independence, and philanthropy, helps shape Melanie’s decisions going forward.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Property Division and Spousal Maintenance in Colorado: How They Work Together

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha break down an issue that confuses many people going through divorce: how property division affects spousal maintenance in Colorado. They explain that there is no bright-line rule saying a spouse automatically receives or does not receive maintenance based on a certain amount of property. Instead, courts look at the full picture, including the size and nature of the marital estate, the parties’ incomes, their lifestyle during the marriage, and whether the spouse receiving property can use that property to meet their reasonable needs.

Ryan and Amy also discuss why the type of asset matters just as much as the value. A spouse receiving liquid, income-producing assets is in a very different position than one receiving a business interest, retirement funds, or a house with substantial equity but no immediate cash flow. The conversation highlights why divorce negotiations involving both property and maintenance require careful planning and often financial expertise.

Episode Highlights

Colorado Is an Equitable Distribution State, Not a Strict 50/50 State
Ryan and Amy explain that Colorado divides marital property equitably, which often starts near a 50/50 framework, but not always.

There Is No Set Dollar Amount That Eliminates Maintenance
One of the biggest misconceptions is that if a spouse receives a certain amount of property, they automatically lose any claim to maintenance. Ryan and Amy make clear that Colorado law does not set a threshold where maintenance automatically disappears.

Property Is Divided Before Maintenance Is Awarded
A major theme in the episode is that courts first determine how property is divided, and only then decide whether maintenance is appropriate.

Liquid Assets Versus Illiquid Assets Matter a Great Deal
Amy and Ryan explain that not all assets are equal. A spouse receiving stocks, bonds, or other income-producing assets may be in a stronger financial position than one receiving a house or a share of a business that cannot easily be converted into income.

A Business Interest Can Complicate Maintenance
If one spouse keeps a closely held business that makes up most of the marital estate, the other spouse may need to be paid through a promissory note over time.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Depositions in Divorce: A Guide to the Process

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha take a deep dive into the world of depositions, a critical component of the discovery process in divorce cases. Ryan and Amy explain what depositions are, when they're used, and how they help both sides gather crucial information.

They also provide insight into the different types of depositions, from fact-finding to trial preparation, and discuss the strategy behind using depositions in divorce litigation. With a focus on both practical tips and legal considerations, this episode offers a clear understanding of how depositions can be leveraged to secure a favorable outcome in a divorce case.

Episode Outline

What is a Deposition?
Ryan and Amy provide an overview of what a deposition is, explaining that it’s a formal process where one party is questioned under oath by the opposing party’s attorney. The answers are recorded by a court reporter and can be used in court later.

When are Depositions Used in Divorce?
The hosts discuss how depositions typically take place after initial disclosures and written discovery are exchanged. They help clarify facts and are used when there’s a need for deeper exploration of issues, such as hidden assets or business ownership.

The Deposition Process
Amy explains how depositions are typically held in-person or via video conferencing (Zoom), with both parties and their attorneys present. The court reporter records everything said, and objections can be made by attorneys during the deposition if needed.

Cost and Preparation for Depositions
Ryan and Amy discuss the cost-benefit analysis of depositions, explaining that while they can be expensive due to preparation and time, they can also be extremely valuable in uncovering information and preparing for trial.

How Depositions Impact Settlement
The hosts explore how depositions can encourage settlement by locking a party into a certain narrative and exposing discrepancies between their deposition and potential trial testimony.

Handling Difficult Deposition Scenarios
Amy talks about how to handle tough questions or objections in depositions, including how to manage objections related to privilege or relevance, and the importance of maintaining composure.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Discovery in Divorce: Navigating the Process and Uncovering Hidden Assets

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha delve into the intricacies of the Discovery process in divorce cases. Discovery is a critical phase where both parties are required to provide full and fair disclosure of their financial and personal circumstances. Ryan and Amy explain how this process helps attorneys uncover hidden assets, debts, and income, and the tools used to gather this information.

They explore the difference between initial disclosures and formal discovery requests, including interrogatories, requests for documents, and subpoenas. The episode also covers challenges that arise during the discovery process, such as disproportional requests and the importance of following the guidelines for relevance and scope, all framed by Colorado Rule of Civil Procedure 16.2.

Episode Outline

Introduction to Discovery in Divorce
Ryan and Amy discuss the importance of discovery in divorce cases, where both parties must fully disclose their assets, debts, and income to ensure fair property division, alimony, and child support calculations.

Initial Disclosures
Amy explains the initial disclosure process under Colorado Rule 16.2, where both parties must provide basic financial documents like tax returns, bank statements, and property information without needing to be formally requested.

Formal Discovery Requests
Ryan and Amy outline the formal discovery process, which includes interrogatories (written questions), requests for production of documents, and subpoenas. They also touch on non-pattern requests tailored to specific cases.

Scope and Proportionality of Discovery
Amy highlights the importance of keeping discovery requests proportional to the case, referencing the landmark GarCo case that provides guidance on how broad or invasive requests should be.

Depositions in Discovery
Ryan shares his experience with using depositions as a discovery tool, explaining how they can be a powerful method to get to the heart of a case and uncover information that documents alone might not reveal.

Conclusion and Key Takeaways
Ryan and Amy summarize the key points discussed, emphasizing the importance of thorough and honest disclosure during the discovery phase to ensure a fair resolution for both parties.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Parenting Contracts and the Future of Family Law

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Boulder-based mediator and lawyer John Hoelle to discuss the future of family law, specifically focusing on the emerging concept of parenting contracts and values-based agreements for couples. They dive into how these agreements, which outline parenting plans in advance, can help avoid future conflicts during a divorce and provide clarity for both parents regarding their children’s future. The conversation also explores mediation’s role in helping families navigate divorces with minimal conflict.

John shares his experience of transitioning into family law after a career as a mediator and highlights the importance of creating contracts before the need arises, especially when it comes to parenting time, lifestyle, and other values.

Guest Information
John Hoelle is a Boulder-based mediator and family law attorney. He is the founder of Conscious Family Law and Mediation and specializes in helping families navigate divorce with a focus on mediation, collaborative law, and parenting agreements. John is passionate about empowering clients to make their own decisions, avoiding conflict, and creating sustainable solutions for families post-divorce.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Episode
Ryan introduces the topic of parenting contracts and the future of family law, alongside his guest, John Hoelle.

Parenting Contracts and Values-Based Agreements
John explains the concept of parenting contracts, including the importance of couples setting values and parenting goals before a divorce or separation occurs.

Challenges and Benefits of Parenting Contracts
Ryan and John discuss the potential benefits of a system that enforces agreed-upon parenting time schedules and how it would benefit families in the long term.

The Role of Mediation in Family Law
John explains the mediation process and how it empowers clients to take control of their own divorce process by focusing on solutions that work for their family.

Addressing Complex Issues and Incorporating Other Experts
Ryan and John explore the potential benefits of incorporating other experts, such as child specialists or financial planners, into the mediation process for complex cases.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Holiday Parenting Time: Navigating the Challenges of Divorced Families During the Holidays

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the complexities of holiday parenting time for divorced families. As the holiday season approaches, many divorced parents are grappling with how to manage parenting time, school breaks, and travel arrangements. Ryan and Amy share tips for parents navigating these challenges, emphasizing the importance of planning ahead to avoid conflicts during this busy time.

They explore various approaches to holiday parenting time, from alternating holidays every other year to splitting them in half or assigning fixed holidays. Amy offers practical advice for parents in the midst of divorce or those preparing to negotiate a parenting plan, highlighting the importance of looking at long-term consequences and making detailed arrangements to ensure fairness and stability for the children.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Topic
Ryan and Amy set the stage for discussing holiday parenting time, explaining the importance of preparing early for holiday arrangements during and after a divorce.

Regular vs. Holiday Parenting Time
Amy defines the difference between regular parenting time and holiday parenting time, which takes precedence over regular schedules during school breaks.

Common Approaches to Holiday Parenting Time
Discussion on how parents typically handle holiday parenting time, such as alternating holidays every other year, splitting the holiday in half, or assigning fixed holidays.

The Importance of Looking at the Long-Term Calendar
Ryan emphasizes the importance of looking at the calendar when negotiating holiday schedules, especially with school breaks and how they may affect the regular parenting time schedule.

Modifying the Parenting Plan for the Holidays
Discussion on how parents should modify their parenting plan to reflect the unique circumstances of holiday schedules, such as travel or long-distance parenting.

Final Thoughts on Holiday Parenting Time
Amy gives final tips on how parents can make the holiday season smoother by staying flexible and keeping the children's best interests at the forefront.

Conclusion
Ryan wraps up the episode by encouraging parents to plan ahead for holiday parenting time and to seek help when needed to avoid last-minute disputes.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Professional Athletes, Entertainers, and Divorce: What You Need to Know

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by New York City divorce lawyer, Evan Schein, who specializes in cases involving professional athletes and entertainers. They dive into the unique aspects of divorce when it comes to high-earning public figures like athletes and entertainers, with a particular focus on the financial, child support, and spousal maintenance challenges they face during a divorce.

Evan, who has an extensive background working with athletes, explains how contracts, endorsement deals, and post-retirement plans can all influence divorce settlements. He shares valuable insights into how such cases differ from typical divorces, and how the complexities of public life, social media, and high asset divisions must be carefully navigated.

Guest Information

Evan Schein is a seasoned divorce attorney and partner at Berkman Bacher Newman & Schein in New York City. He specializes in high-profile divorce cases involving professional athletes and entertainers. With a background as an NFL sports agent, Evan brings a unique perspective to family law cases involving large contracts, endorsements, and other complexities of public figures.

Episode Outline

Introduction to the Episode
Ryan introduces the topic and special guest, Evan Schein, a New York City divorce lawyer with experience handling high-profile divorce cases involving athletes and entertainers.

Case Study: Steve Sewell's Divorce
Ryan and Evan discuss the case of former NFL player Steve Sewell, highlighting the challenges of dividing incentive-based compensation in divorce.

The Differences Between NFL and MLB Contracts
Evan contrasts the NFL's non-guaranteed contracts with MLB's guaranteed contracts, explaining how this affects divorce settlements in each sport.

Working with Athletes and Entertainers During Divorce
Evan outlines the team of professionals that divorce attorneys typically work with when representing an athlete or entertainer.

Managing the Risk of Losing Income After Retirement
Ryan and Evan talk about the risks involved in representing athletes who might not have long-term savings, as their earnings decline after retirement.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Spousal Maintenance and Retirement in Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, family law attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss how spousal maintenance (also known as alimony) is handled in divorce, particularly when retirement is a factor. They break down how the court considers various factors such as the marital property, gross income, and the ability to pay when deciding on spousal support, with a special focus on how retirement age and plans can impact maintenance decisions.

Ryan and Amy also explore the guidelines for spousal maintenance in Colorado, how a long-term marriage versus a short-term marriage affects maintenance decisions, and the role of life plans in spousal maintenance. They discuss recent trends in how the courts handle retirement-age spouses and modifications to maintenance when one spouse reaches full retirement age.

Episode Outline

Introduction to Spousal Maintenance and Retirement
Amy and Ryan introduce the topic and discuss the importance of understanding spousal maintenance in the context of divorce, particularly for clients nearing retirement.

General Factors for Determining Spousal Maintenance
Amy explains the key factors considered by the court when awarding spousal maintenance, including income, property division, reasonable needs during marriage, and ability to pay.

Advisory Guidelines for Spousal Maintenance
Amy elaborates on the advisory guidelines in Colorado for combined gross income under $240,000 and how the court applies these guidelines.

Challenges with Retirement and Maintenance
The difficulty of modifying maintenance based on retirement and income is explored. Ryan shares examples of real cases where retirement age and ongoing work conflict with maintenance.

Considering the Life Plan
Amy emphasizes that the court will look at the life plan of each spouse, especially if one spouse is planning to retire and the other isn’t. The differences in lifestyle and expectations are discussed.

Court’s Perspective on Retirement and Maintenance
Amy discusses the court’s view on forcing a spouse to work after retirement or to stop working if they’re capable of earning. 

Conclusion and Takeaways
Ryan and Amy wrap up by emphasizing the importance of understanding how retirement affects spousal maintenance and planning ahead for clients who are nearing retirement age or contemplating early retirement.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Cryptocurrency and Divorce in Colorado: What You Need to Know

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya is joined by cryptocurrency attorney Anthony A. Garcia to discuss how Bitcoin, Ethereum, NFTs, and other digital assets are handled in a Colorado divorce. As cryptocurrency becomes more mainstream, it is increasingly showing up in property division, child support, and maintenance cases.

Ryan and Anthony break down the fundamentals of blockchain technology, explain the difference between public addresses and private keys, and discuss the risks associated with hot wallets, cold wallets, and crypto exchanges. They also explore how cryptocurrency can be hidden, how attorneys can uncover undisclosed digital assets, and the potential tax and valuation issues that arise when dividing volatile assets.

Guest Information
Anthony A. Garcia is a Colorado and California licensed attorney who focuses on commercial and probate litigation. He advises clients and attorneys on cryptocurrency-related legal issues and has been actively involved in the crypto space since 2017. Anthony regularly consults on matters involving blockchain, decentralized finance (DeFi), decentralized autonomous organizations (DAOs), and digital asset security.

Episode Outline

Understanding Cryptocurrency and Blockchain
Anthony explains cryptocurrency as a distributed ledger system and distinguishes between blockchain technology and digital currencies like Bitcoin and Ethereum.

Public Addresses, Private Keys, and Wallets
A breakdown of public addresses versus private keys and the difference between hot wallets (internet-connected) and cold wallets (hardware-based storage).

Hidden Cryptocurrency in Divorce
How one spouse may conceal crypto assets and the challenges attorneys face in identifying undisclosed Bitcoin or other digital holdings.

Valuation Challenges
The volatility of cryptocurrency and how fluctuations impact property division in Colorado divorce proceedings.

Tax Implications of Cryptocurrency Division
Whether crypto transfers in divorce trigger taxable events and how capital gains may affect settlement strategy.

Crypto Income and Support Issues
How staking, mining, or decentralized finance returns could impact child support or spousal maintenance calculations.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Top 7 Questions in a Colorado Divorce Consultation

In this Episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha walk through the seven most common questions people ask during an initial divorce consultation in Colorado. Using the familiar story of Eric Wolf as the lens, they explain what clients can realistically expect at the start of a case and how Colorado law addresses the issues that usually create the most fear: parenting time, property division, moving out, and spousal maintenance.

Ryan and Amy also discuss why some questions matter legally while others matter emotionally, and how the first meeting is often about triage, clarity, and creating a plan so clients can move forward with less uncertainty.

Episode Outline

Does the reason for the divorce matter in Colorado?
Colorado is a no-fault divorce state, so the “why” usually does not affect property division, but it can still influence strategy, settlement dynamics, and parenting issues in certain situations.

Does it matter who files first?
In most Colorado cases, filing first does not provide a major legal advantage, but it can impact the tone of the case and how cooperative or contentious the process becomes.

How is custody decided in Colorado?
Courts focus on the best interests of the children, with practical factors like schedules, routines, and the ability to support the child’s relationship with the other parent.

When can I start dating?
There is no legal rule against dating during divorce, but Ryan and Amy explain why it can create complications, especially with children, finances, and conflict escalation.

How do we decide who gets what property?
They break down separate vs. marital property, why title alone often does not control ownership, and how businesses and homes are typically handled in equitable division.

Should I move out of the house?
They discuss the real-world considerations: finances, safety, parenting time concerns, living arrangements during the case, and why the “never move out” advice is not always the right fit.

Am I going to pay spousal maintenance (alimony), and for how long?
They explain how Colorado approaches maintenance, including the role of property division first, guideline limits, and factors courts consider when income exceeds the advisory cap.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Trusts and Divorce in Colorado: Property, Income, and Economic Impact

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha unpack one of the most complex financial issues in Colorado divorce cases: how trusts are treated under Colorado family law. Many families create trusts for estate planning and asset protection, but when divorce arises, questions quickly follow. Is a trust interest considered property? Is it marital or separate? Can trust income affect spousal maintenance or child support?

Ryan and Amy break down the difference between revocable and irrevocable trusts, vested versus discretionary interests, and how Colorado courts analyze trust interests under key cases like In re Marriage of Balanson and In re Marriage of Jones. They also discuss strategic litigation tools such as declaratory judgments, how courts handle trust income in support calculations, and why economic circumstances matter even if a trust is not technically divisible property.

Episode Outline

Property vs. Not Property
Why classification matters in Colorado divorce and how courts determine whether a trust interest qualifies as property before it can be divided.

Types of Trust Interests
Remainder interests, income interests, discretionary trusts, powers of appointment, and governing law provisions and why the trust document is critical.

Balanson vs. Jones
How Colorado’s leading cases distinguish between vested interests that may be property and discretionary interests that are generally not.

Declaratory Judgments and Bifurcation
When attorneys ask courts to decide the trust classification issue early to avoid unnecessary valuation costs and negotiation gridlock.

Trust Income and Support
How distributions from a trust can be considered income for purposes of spousal maintenance and child support, even if the trust itself is not property.

Economic Circumstances in Property Division
Why courts may consider the existence of a trust when dividing marital property, even if the trust is not divisible.

Tracing and Valuation Issues
How courts analyze commingled funds, entity versus asset approaches, and the practical challenges of valuing trust-related interests.

Post-Divorce Estate Planning Considerations
Why updating estate planning documents after divorce is critical to avoid unintended financial consequences.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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How to Know When It’s Time for Divorce or Time to Save Your Marriage

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya explores one of the most common and emotionally difficult questions people ask: How do you know when it’s time to get a divorce, and when is it time to try to save your marriage? Ryan is joined by relationship experts Lori Kret and Jeff Cole, founders of the Aspen Relationship Institute and creators of Functional Love, an integrative model for helping couples rebuild connection and clarity.

Lori and Jeff explain that many couples assume something is “broken” when conflict shows up, especially in a world where relationships are often portrayed as effortless. In reality, they normalize that long-term relationships are hard and that disconnection does not always mean the marriage is over.

Guest Information

Lori Kret and Jeff Cole are licensed therapists and board-certified coaches, and the founders of the Aspen Relationship Institute. They developed Functional Love, an integrative approach that combines self-awareness with practical action steps to help couples rebuild trust and emotional connection. They also write relationship columns for the Aspen Times and speak at wellness and community events.

Episode Outline

When It’s Time to Try Saving the Marriage
Why many relationships can be repaired when both partners are willing to explore deeper needs, take accountability, and rebuild emotional safety.

Why “Communication Problems” Are Usually Not the Real Problem
How communication issues often reflect deeper unmet needs, emotional loneliness, resentment, or lack of appreciation.

The Myth of the Honeymoon Phase as a Standard
Why “being in love” changes over time, and what long-term intimacy looks like when the relationship is healthy.

Functional Love: Awareness + Action
Why tools and strategies do not stick unless couples understand their triggers, protective patterns, and emotional fear responses.

Reconciliation After Divorce Is Filed
Why “trying again” only works with structure, therapy, and real accountability, not temporary promises.

Repair After a Major Transgression
What rebuilding trust looks like after an affair, including grief for the old relationship, emotional repair, and creating a new foundation.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Colorado Family Law Rule Changes: What Divorcing Families Need to Know

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss major proposed changes to Colorado’s family law procedural rules. Amy shares insight from her two years of work on the project, explaining why Colorado is moving toward a more family-specific set of court procedures and how these changes could affect divorcing parents, attorneys, self-represented parties, and other family law professionals.

Ryan and Amy break down why the current civil rules often do not fit family law cases well, especially when children are involved, and how the proposed rules aim to make the system more efficient, more understandable, and more responsive to the realities of divorce and parenting disputes.

Episode Highlights

Why Colorado Is Updating Family Law Rules
Amy explains that the main motivation behind the project is recognition that families entering the court system have different needs than parties in general civil litigation.

The Problem With Using General Civil Rules in Family Law Cases
Colorado currently relies heavily on broader civil procedure rules, even though family law disputes are fundamentally different from construction, business, or personal injury cases.

How Other States Influenced the Project
The committee looked closely at states like Arizona, which has had separate family law procedural rules in place since 2006. Those rules have been well received and helped inform Colorado’s proposed reforms.

The Large Number of Self-Represented Litigants
A major driver of the changes is the fact that a very high percentage of people in family court do not have lawyers. The new rules are intended to make the process easier to understand and navigate for those individuals while also helping courts manage cases more effectively.

A Broad and Diverse Committee Worked on the Changes
Amy describes how the project involved judges, attorneys, court facilitators, dispute resolution professionals, and others. The goal was to include multiple perspectives so the rules would be practical for everyone who works in or relies on the family court system.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Eric Wolf’s Divorce Story: The Emotional and Financial Crossroads of a Colorado Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya shares the powerful and relatable story of Eric Wolf, a successful business owner facing the unraveling of his marriage. Through Eric’s experience, listeners gain insight into the emotional, financial, and legal realities that often surface at the beginning of a Colorado divorce.Eric and his wife, Melanie, have grown distant. What once felt like a strong partnership now resembles a strained business arrangement. Work has become Eric’s escape, while resentment and silence fill their home. After a tense counseling session, Melanie announces she has hired a divorce lawyer. Eric is left reeling, confronting the uncertainty of what comes next.

As Eric processes the news, his thoughts turn to the real-life divorce questions many Colorado spouses face: How will we tell the kids? Who stays in the house? What happens to the business? How will property be divided? What about child support, college expenses, and long-term financial security? Can I protect my company? Where will I live?This episode serves as a reminder that divorce is not just a legal process. It is an emotional turning point that impacts children, finances, property division, parenting time, and future stability. Ryan uses Eric’s story to highlight the importance of thoughtful planning, professional guidance, and understanding Colorado family law before making critical decisions.

Episode Outline

The Breaking Point in a Marriage
Eric and Melanie’s emotional distance and the counseling session that changes everything.

The Immediate Questions After Divorce Is Announced
Concerns about children, housing, finances, business ownership, and property division.

Financial and Business Uncertainty
Protecting a closely held business and understanding how Colorado divides marital property.

Emotional Impact on Parents and Children
How divorce affects family dynamics and long-term stability.

The Need for Guidance in Colorado Divorce
Why experienced legal advice matters when facing major life transitions. In future episodes, Divorce at Altitude will explore Melanie’s perspective and continue unpacking the complex legal and emotional issues that arise in Colorado divorce cases.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Colorado Licensed Legal Paraprofessional (LLP) Program Update

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha welcomes Denver family law attorney Maha for an important update on Colorado’s Licensed Legal Paraprofessional (LLP) program. This follow-up conversation builds on their earlier discussion and highlights the significant progress made since the Colorado Supreme Court adopted the LLP concept and moved into the implementation phase.

A key milestone discussed is that the LLP implementation proposal was accepted by the Colorado Supreme Court for public comment through September 14, 2022. Maha explains how the public comment process works, why it matters, and how individuals can submit feedback. She emphasizes that support from both lawyers and the community is critical to ensure the program moves forward.The episode also addresses common questions from the media and legal community. Topics include how LLPs differ from attorneys, whether LLPs will compete with lawyers, projected timelines for launch, and the anticipated 2024 goal for accepting applications. 

Guest Information

Maha is a Denver-based family law attorney and founder of Colorado Family Law Project. She practices primarily in the Denver metro area and focuses on sliding scale and unbundled services. She is actively involved in access-to-justice initiatives and co-chairs the LLP Education and Outreach Committee working with the Colorado Supreme Court.

Episode Outline

What Has Happened Since the Initial LLP Episode
Update on the implementation proposal and Colorado Supreme Court review process.

Public Comment Process Explained
How the public comment period works and why feedback is essential.

Addressing Attorney Concerns
Clarifying that LLPs are not replacing attorneys but serving currently unrepresented litigants.

Projected Timeline for LLP Launch
Implementation steps, rule changes, exams, and the goal of accepting applications around 2024.

LLPs and the Access-to-Justice Gap
How LLPs can support self-represented litigants in Colorado family law cases.

Practical Support for Clients
Examples of how LLPs can assist with sworn financial statements, procedural guidance, and navigating court expectations.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Enforcing Colorado Divorce Court Orders Without Filing Contempt

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Denver attorney Halleh Omidi to discuss how to enforce divorce court orders without filing contempt. While contempt is often the first remedy clients think of, it is not always the most efficient or strategic option. Ryan and Halleh walk through several powerful alternatives available under Colorado family law.

They begin with a Motion to Enforce Parenting Time under C.R.S. 14-10-129.5. This remedy allows a parent to address denied parenting time with tighter statutory deadlines and a broad range of remedies. Unlike contempt, it can result in makeup parenting time, attorney’s fees, counseling requirements, bond postings to ensure compliance, civil fines, and even modifications to existing orders when appropriate. Finally, they explain Rule 70 motions under the Colorado Rules of Civil Procedure. When a party refuses to sign deeds, vehicle titles, tax returns, or other required documents, the court can authorize the clerk to sign on behalf of the noncompliant party.

Guest Information

Halleh Omidi is a Denver-based family law attorney at Hogan Omidi, P.C. She has practiced since 2011 and focuses exclusively on family law, including complex asset division, parenting disputes, post-decree modifications, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. She is a University of Colorado graduate and regularly handles high-asset and high-conflict cases.

Episode Outline

Motion to Enforce Parenting Time
Faster alternative to contempt with broad remedies, including makeup time, attorney’s fees, and bond requirements.

Entering a Support Judgment for Unpaid Child Support or Maintenance
How unpaid support becomes a money judgment and the collection tools available, including wage garnishment and bank levies.

Enforcing Separation Agreements
Using statutory authority to enforce financial terms and mediation clauses incorporated into a divorce decree.

Rule 70 Motions
Allowing the court clerk to execute deeds, titles, tax returns, or other documents when a party refuses to comply.

Status Conferences as a Strategic Tool
When informal court intervention may resolve enforcement issues without the expense of contempt proceedings.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Divorcing a Narcissist in Colorado: Codependency, Boundaries, and Co-Parenting Strategies

In this popular re-release episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha sit down with divorce coach Karen McMahon, host of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast. Together, they unpack one of the most challenging scenarios in Colorado family law: divorcing a narcissist while navigating codependency, setting healthy boundaries, and co-parenting with a difficult ex.

Karen shares how her own high-conflict divorce shaped her coaching practice and why so many clients feel emotionally overwhelmed during separation. She explains the common patterns seen in narcissistic relationships, including black-and-white thinking, revisionist history, deflection, and manipulation. Just as important, she highlights the other side of the dynamic: codependency, or what she calls “self-love deficiency,” where one partner consistently sacrifices their own needs to maintain the relationship.

Guest Information

Karen McMahon is a certified divorce coach and founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. After navigating her own high-conflict divorce, she created a coaching program to help clients move from emotional chaos to clarity and confidence. She hosts the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast and works with clients across the English-speaking world.

Episode Outline

What Is Divorce Coaching?
How a divorce coach helps clients move from emotional overwhelm to clarity during separation.

Recognizing Narcissistic Traits in Divorce
Common behaviors such as manipulation, deflection, and high conflict that surface in Colorado divorce cases.

Understanding Codependency
How self-sacrifice and fear can keep someone stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics.

Setting and Upholding Boundaries
Practical tips for managing communication, reducing reactivity, and protecting your emotional space.

Parallel Parenting with a Difficult Ex
Why high-conflict situations often require structured communication and detailed parenting plans.

Healing and Breaking Generational Patterns
How personal growth during divorce can lead to healthier co-parenting and stronger outcomes for children.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Psychological Testing in Colorado Custody Cases: What PEs, CFIs, and Lawyers Need to Know

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha welcome back John Zervopoulos to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in Colorado custody litigation: psychological testing in Parenting Responsibilities Evaluations (PREs). John is uniquely qualified to explain this issue from both sides, as a licensed psychologist and a licensed attorney who consults with lawyers on mental health evidence, expert reports, and testimony in parenting disputes.

Ryan and John explain the key difference between a CFI (Child and Family Investigator) and a PRE in Colorado. CFIs cannot perform psychological testing, while PREs may include testing when conducted by a qualified psychologist. The conversation focuses on how tests like the MMPI, PAI, and MCMI are actually used, why they are not “mental health X-rays,” and how test results must be interpreted alongside interviews, collateral information, and case facts.

Guest Information

John Zervopoulos is both a licensed psychologist and a licensed attorney. He has experience conducting child custody evaluations and now consults with family law attorneys to help them understand mental health issues, manage psychological evidence, and evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of expert reports and testimony.

Episode Outline

PRE vs CFI in Colorado Parenting Disputes
Why PREs can include psychological testing and CFIs generally cannot, and how testing may be outsourced.

Why Psychological Testing Is Not an X-Ray
Test results do not “prove” diagnoses like bipolar disorder or narcissism and must be interpreted in context.

What Psychological Tests Are Common in Custody Evaluations
Overview of common tools such as MMPI, PAI, MCMI, and the difference between tests and screening inventories.

The Three-Legged Stool Framework
How evaluators combine interviews, testing, and collateral sources to form opinions, and what happens when one leg is weak.

Six Keys for Understanding Test Results
Response style, standardization samples, reliability, validity, sensitivity/specificity, and computer-generated reports.

Risks of Overreliance on Computer Interpretations
How canned language can appear scientific while still requiring clinical judgment and outside verification.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Co-Parenting Coaching in a Colorado Divorce: Tools, Communication, and Kids First

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha sit down with co-parenting coach and mediator Jackie Deam to talk about co-parenting during and after a Colorado divorce. When kids are involved, parenting plans are only part of the solution. The bigger challenge is communication, conflict, and how parents show up in a new lifelong partnership.

Ryan and Jackie break down what a co-parenting coach does, how coaching differs from therapy, and why many parents need a team to make better decisions during separation. Jackie offers practical strategies like transition emails, communication audits, quarterly co-parent “business meetings,” and child-centered messaging. The goal is not perfection. The goal is reducing conflict, protecting kids, and building a workable co-parenting relationship that lasts beyond age 18.

Guest Information

Jackie Deam is a Colorado-based co-parenting coach, mediator, and attorney. She began her career as an elementary school teacher, earned her law degree from Pepperdine, and worked in child advocacy before moving to Colorado. She previously served as a family court facilitator in Colorado’s Ninth Judicial District and now supports families through mediation and co-parenting coaching.

Episode Outline

Jackie’s Path: Teacher to Attorney to Co-Parenting Coach
How her experience in education and child advocacy shaped her approach to co-parenting support.

The Child of Divorce Perspective
Why divorce itself does not harm children, but ongoing conflict and putting kids in the middle can.

What a Co-Parenting Coach Does
A practical definition of co-parent coaching and why it can support parents during and after divorce.

Solo Coaching vs Joint Co-Parent Coaching
How coaching helps even when only one parent is willing to participate, with a focus on controlling the controllable.

Communication Tools That Reduce Conflict
Transition emails, communication audits, child-centered language, co-parenting apps, and structured “business meetings.”

Resources for Parents
Recommended parenting tools and education, including positive discipline frameworks and child development guidance.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Divorce Money Guide: How to Spot Hidden Assets and Financial Red Flags

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by forensic accountant Tracy Coenen to discuss hidden assets, financial red flags, and how forensic accounting plays a critical role in a Colorado divorce. Many spouses, like the hypothetical “Melanie Wolf,” worry about a partner controlling the finances or hiding money during divorce. Tracy explains what a forensic accountant actually does, how bank statements and credit card records are analyzed, and when it makes financial sense to hire an expert. With typical forensic accounting costs ranging from $10,000 to $25,000, not every divorce case can justify a full investigation.

That’s why Tracy created the Divorce Money Guide, a practical, step-by-step resource designed for spouses who suspect hidden assets but cannot afford a forensic accountant. The guide walks listeners through financial discovery, identifying red flags such as unusual cash withdrawals, missing bank statements, backdated documents, and sudden changes in financial behavior.

Guest Information

Tracy Coenen is a Milwaukee-based forensic accountant with more than 25 years of experience in fraud investigations and financial analysis. She works nationwide on divorce and corporate fraud cases and is the creator of the Divorce Money Guide.

Episode Outline

What Does a Forensic Accountant Do in Divorce?
Tracing bank accounts, credit cards, business records, and cash transactions to uncover hidden assets or improper spending.

When Is Forensic Accounting Worth the Cost?
Understanding the financial threshold and balancing expert fees with potential recovery.

Top Financial Red Flags in Divorce
Unusual cash withdrawals, disappearing statements, hidden accounts, excessive spending, and financial control tactics.

The Divorce Money Guide Explained
A 10-step system that empowers spouses to gather financial documents, assess fraud risk, and work more effectively with their divorce attorney.

Peace of Mind Through Financial Knowledge
Why understanding your financial picture is critical in any Colorado divorce, even if no fraud is ultimately found.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Andy Heller, author of Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family. Andy shares valuable insights from his own divorce journey and how his book can guide others through the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce. With practical tips, stories, and expert advice, Andy discusses how to navigate difficult conversations, protect your children, and achieve a healthier post-divorce life. His approach focuses on the importance of communication, understanding, and empathy, providing a roadmap for managing the divorce process while minimizing emotional harm.

Guest Information:
Andy Heller is the author of Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family. With a background in business and real estate investing, Andy brings a unique perspective to the divorce process. After going through his own divorce, Andy recognized a gap in the self-help space for those navigating divorce and wrote this book as a give-back effort to help others avoid common pitfalls.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Andy Heller and His Book
Ryan and Andy introduce Andy’s journey and why he decided to write Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family.

The Role of Empathy and Personal Experience in Writing the Book
Andy shares how his personal divorce experience led to the creation of his book.

How Divorce Affects Communication and Decision-Making
The impact of stress and emotion on decision-making during divorce.Andy’s advice on how to manage emotional responses and focus on practical solutions.

The Importance of Therapy and Co-Parenting Coaches
Andy discusses the role of therapy and co-parenting coaches in navigating the divorce process, especially for children.

Mistakes to Avoid During Divorce Negotiations
Common mistakes people make during divorce negotiations, such as lacking focus or allowing emotions to dictate decisions.

The Role of Co-Parenting and Maintaining a Healthy Relationship Post-Divorce
The importance of maintaining a cooperative relationship with your ex-spouse for the well-being of the children.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Understanding Net Spendable Income in Divorce: Insights from a Financial Expert

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by financial expert Boris Sobolev from Cornerstone CPA Group to discuss the critical concept of net spendable income in the context of divorce. As part of the financial analysis that impacts alimony (maintenance) and child support, Boris explains the complex process of determining an individual’s true disposable income, including how to account for taxes, required expenses, and business income. They also delve into the importance of business valuations and how these elements come into play when determining fair financial obligations in a divorce. This episode provides essential insights for anyone involved in a divorce case, especially when complex financial issues are at stake.

Guest Information:
Boris Sobolev is the Managing Partner of Cornerstone CPA Group, a Denver-based firm specializing in divorce-related financial services. With nearly two decades of experience, Boris is an expert in business valuations, gross income determination, forensic accounting, and the analysis of trust interests. He regularly works with divorce attorneys to evaluate income sources, determine net spendable income, and provide expert testimony in high-net-worth divorce cases.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Net Spendable Income in Divorce
Ryan and Boris introduce the topic of net spendable income and its importance in divorce cases.

What is Net Spendable Income?
Definition of net spendable income in the context of divorce.

The Relationship Between Business Valuations and Net Spendable Income
How business valuations are tied to determining an individual’s income in divorce cases.

Retained Experts vs. Joint Experts
Differences between retained experts hired by one party vs. joint experts in divorce cases.

Factors Affecting Net Spendable Income
Common deductions in a net spendable income analysis: taxes, health insurance, debt service, and child support.

Real-Life Examples of Net Spendable Income Analysis
Case scenarios of business owners, including real estate brokers and doctors, who have varying income sources.

Challenges in Determining Maintenance and Support
How net spendable income impacts decisions around spousal maintenance (alimony) and child support.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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No divorce is easy, but some are a lot more challenging than others. Exceptionally difficult divorces are referred to as high conflict, and in today’s episode, we are joined by an expert on this topic, Dr. Les Katz. Les is a psychologist who spent many years as a therapist working with families, and who now focuses on conducting evaluations to determine which actions would be in the best interests of the children in a divorce case. 

Children are very negatively affected by destructive conflict (as opposed to constructive conflict, which is actually beneficial for children to witness), and the impacts of a high conflict divorce can result in major internal (such as depression) and/or external (such as aggression) problems. Listen today to hear the common causes of a high conflict divorce, the importance of always listening to both parent’s story before jumping to conclusions, the role of medical professionals in a high conflict divorce, and what you can do to make things easier on your children if you are going through a high conflict divorce yourself!

Key Points From This Episode: 

• The trajectory of a “normal” divorce (as opposed to a high conflict divorce).
• Characteristics that can be used to identify a high conflict divorce.
• Three common causes of a high conflict divorce (according to the Impasses of Divorce theory).
• The importance of being open to both parents’ side of the divorce story. 
• Emotions that people commonly experience when dealing with a divorce. 
• Exploring constructive versus destructive conflict.
• Examples of the impacts that destructive conflict can have on children.
• The role of mental health professionals in high conflict divorces. 
• Why parents should get to know an evaluator prior to hiring them. 
• Navigating parental relocation in a high conflict divorce. 

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injury, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude,

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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High Conflict Divorce: How to Navigate Conflict Without Making It Worse

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by divorce mediator and coach Liz Merrill to discuss one of the most challenging areas in family law: high conflict divorce. Liz shares both her professional experience and her personal perspective after going through a high conflict divorce herself, explaining why these cases are so difficult and why traditional divorce processes often fail to address the real dynamics at play.

Amy and Liz explore what “high conflict” actually means, how it differs from ordinary divorce conflict, and why understanding the psychological patterns behind a high conflict spouse is so important. They also discuss practical tools for people dealing with an abusive or escalated partner, including boundary-setting, de-escalation techniques, and how to decide whether mediation is realistic or whether litigation and legal support are necessary.

Guest Information
Liz Merrill is a divorce mediator and divorce coach based in the Fort Collins area. She specializes in high conflict divorce cases and helps clients navigate separation in a way that reduces escalation and protects their long-term ability to co-parent.

Episode Highlights

What High Conflict Divorce Really Means
Liz explains that high conflict divorce can look different depending on the couple. Sometimes both spouses are escalated and difficult, but often one spouse is the true high conflict individual while the other is reacting to years of dysfunction, abuse, or control.

Traits of a High Conflict Person
High conflict individuals often show patterns such as extreme self-focus, black-and-white thinking, emotional reasoning, dishonesty, rule-breaking, and a willingness to use children as pawns.

Why Mediation Is Not Always the Right Fit
Many people, especially those leaving abusive or high conflict marriages, want mediation because they are afraid of litigation and want to avoid a battle.

How a Divorce Coach Helps Before the Divorce Is Filed
For clients like “Melanie,” Liz helps create a plan before announcing the divorce. That can include gathering financial documents, locating passports and Social Security cards, preparing for possible retaliation.

The Importance of Safety Planning
If there is any threat of physical violence or severe emotional abuse, Liz says the first priority is safety.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Trust Interests and Property Division in Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by estate planning expert Gerard Deffenbaugh to explore the complexities of trust interests in Colorado divorce cases. They delve into the key aspects of how trust interests can be categorized as property, whether separate or marital, and how to approach the valuation of these interests. With a focus on irrevocable trusts, powers of appointment, and discretionary trusts, Gerard shares valuable insights on navigating these financial complexities in divorce proceedings, offering both legal and practical perspectives for attorneys and clients alike.

Guest Information:
Gerard Deffenbaugh is an experienced estate planning attorney based in Denver. He specializes in estate planning, trust administration, and divorce cases involving trust interests. Gerard regularly consults with divorce attorneys, offering expert opinions on the valuation and division of trust interests, including handling complex issues such as powers of appointment and mandatory income interests.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Trust Interests in Divorce
Overview of the role trust interests play in Colorado divorces.

What Are Trust Interests?
Understanding what constitutes a trust interest and how it can affect property division.

Irrevocable Trusts and Remainder Interests
Explanation of irrevocable trusts and what a remainder interest means.

The Impact of Trust Terms on Property Division
Key considerations when determining the marital property component of trust interests.

Powers of Appointment in Trusts
Defining powers of appointment and how they affect the distribution of trust assets.

Discretionary vs. Mandatory Income Trusts
Understanding discretionary trust interests and how trustees control income distributions.

Contingencies and Valuation in Trust Interests
The concept of contingencies in trust interests and their impact on valuation.

Valuation of Trust Interests in Divorce
How estate planning experts work with valuation experts to assess trust assets.

Practical Considerations for Dividing Trust Interests
How divorce attorneys can navigate the complexities of trust interests and property division.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Navigating Stock Options in Divorce

 In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by financial expert Ken Nayes, CPA at Cornerstone CPA Group, to discuss the complexities of valuing and dividing stock options during divorce. They explore the key issues surrounding stock options in divorce cases, including how vesting periods, taxes, and company valuation can impact the division of assets. 

Ken shares his insights into how divorce attorneys and financial experts assess the value of stock options, both for publicly traded and privately held companies, and how to navigate the challenges of allocating these assets between spouses.

Guest Information:
Ken Nayes is a financial expert and CPA at Cornerstone CPA Group, specializing in business valuation and divorce financial matters. With extensive experience in dealing with closely held businesses, complex financial issues, and executive compensation, Ken provides invaluable assistance in valuing stock options, determining the marital and separate portions of these assets, and understanding the tax implications of stock compensation during divorce proceedings.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Stock Options in Divorce
Overview of stock options and why they matter in divorce cases.

What Are Stock Options?
Defining stock options, strike price, and vesting periods.

Public vs. Private Companies
Differences in valuing stock options for publicly traded versus privately held companies.

The Vesting Process and Risk
How vesting schedules affect the valuation of stock options.

Valuation of Stock Options
The process of valuing stock options during divorce, including the time rule for marital and separate property.

Tax Implications of Stock Options
How taxes impact the value of stock options and why they are important in a divorce settlement.

In-Kind Distribution of Stock Options
What happens when stock options are awarded in an in-kind distribution during divorce?

Practical Considerations in Divorce Cases Involving Stock Options
Real-life examples of how stock options are treated in high-asset divorces.

Conclusion and Key Takeaways
Final thoughts on how to approach the division of stock options in divorce.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Witness Preparation in Divorce: Insights from an Expert

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Jessica Brylo, a seasoned litigation consultant and expert in witness preparation. Together, they dive into the crucial role of witness preparation in divorce cases, focusing on how witnesses should present themselves during evaluations, depositions, and court hearings. Jessica explains how emotional triggers, biases, and effective communication can significantly influence the outcome of a case. 

With her expertise, Jessica provides invaluable strategies for ensuring that witnesses—especially those dealing with anger, anxiety, or high conflict—are well-prepared to navigate the high-stress environment of divorce proceedings.

Guest Information:
Jessica Brylo is a litigation consultant and the owner of Trial Dynamics, a national trial consulting firm specializing in helping clients in both civil and family law cases. She holds both a master's degree and a Juris Doctor (JD) and has a wealth of experience in trial consulting. Jessica is particularly renowned for her work in preparing clients for high-stakes family law cases, including divorce and custody battles.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Witness Preparation
Overview of the importance of witness preparation in divorce cases.

Why Presentation Matters in Divorce
Discussing the significance of how clients present themselves in a divorce case, particularly in front of a judge and parenting evaluators.

Biases and First Impressions
How biases impact family law cases and the importance of making a positive first impression during parenting evaluations and divorce hearings.

Emotional Triggers and Their Impact
Identifying emotional triggers like anger and anxiety and strategies to reframe emotions for more effective testimony.

Common Pitfalls in Witness Testimony
Analyzing common mistakes witnesses make, such as oversharing or becoming too emotional, and how to avoid them.

Techniques for Effective Communication
How to answer questions clearly and avoid getting sidetracked during cross-examination.

Real-Life Examples of Testimonial Success
Jessica shares case studies and examples where effective witness preparation made a significant difference in the outcome of a divorce case.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Divorce and Illiquid Assets in Colorado Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya discusses the complexities of dividing illiquid assets during a Colorado divorce. Using a hypothetical example of Eric and Melanie, who are splitting $10 million in assets, with $7.5 million in the form of a patent, Ryan explores how illiquid assets like patents, real estate, and rare collections can impact property division. He explains the concept of liquidity, how assets are valued, and how a divorce court may deal with assets that are not easily liquidated.

Ryan walks through practical issues faced by spouses when one party holds illiquid assets and the strategies used to ensure fair property division, including using payment schedules or property offsets. He emphasizes the need for careful planning and consideration of liquidity, taxes, and timing in divorce settlements.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Illiquid Assets in Divorce
Overview of illiquid assets and how they affect property division in Colorado divorces.

Liquidity Defined
Explanation of liquidity with real-world examples, including rare book collections and patents.

Examples of Illiquid Assets
Common examples such as houses, cars, art, and private business interests that are often involved in high-asset divorces.

How Courts Handle Illiquid Assets
Understanding how divorce attorneys and courts approach the division of illiquid assets.

Dealing with Patents and Other Intellectual Property
Case study of a $7.5 million patent and how such assets may be handled in a divorce, including offset payments.

Impact on Divorce Agreements
The role of timing, liquidity, and taxes in negotiating property settlements and payments.

Final Considerations
Practical tips for managing and negotiating the division of illiquid assets to ensure a fair divorce settlement.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Invalidating and Challenging Marital Agreements in Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by James Bailey, a prominent and experienced divorce attorney, to tackle the complex issue of challenging and invalidating marital agreements in divorce cases. They break down the critical elements that make or break the enforceability of these agreements, including financial disclosures, the concept of duress, and how voluntary agreements are determined. 

Using a detailed hypothetical example of Eric and Melanie, Ryan and Jim delve into the real-world implications of marital agreements, exploring what can happen when one spouse contests the validity of the agreement. They discuss the legal framework surrounding marital agreements in Colorado, how courts assess their fairness and enforceability, and the pivotal role expert testimony plays in navigating these cases. 

Guest Information:
James Bailey is an experienced divorce and family law attorney, specializing in high-net-worth divorce litigation and the challenges associated with marital agreements. He is known for his expertise in handling complex divorce cases, including those involving intricate financial disputes, business valuations, and the enforcement or invalidation of marital agreements. With his in-depth knowledge and strategic approach, James provides invaluable insight into navigating these high-stakes matters.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Challenging Marital Agreements
Overview of the process when a premarital agreement is challenged during divorce, including the potential issues and risks.

Key Aspects to Examine
Key points to review in a premarital agreement such as signatures, financial disclosures, and validity concerns.

Voluntariness vs. Coercion
Exploring the distinction between voluntary agreements and those signed under duress or coercion.

Discovery Process and Legal Steps
The steps involved in gathering information to challenge a marital agreement, including requesting files and performing due diligence.

The Role of Experts in Divorce Cases
How expert testimony can help assess the validity of premarital agreements and how experts are involved in these cases.

The Impact of Invalidated Marital Agreements
What happens if a marital agreement is deemed invalid and how it impacts the division of assets, maintenance, and child support.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Ryan Kalamaya defines tangible and intangible assets to help understand how the court decides to divide property in a Colorado divorce. 

Key Points in This Episode

• Defining "Property"
• What is not "property."
  • Term life insurance policy
  • Leased vehicle
  • Discretionary trust
  • Gifts not yet received
  • Social Security benefits (they can be an economic circumstance)
  • Education degree (such as a law or medical degree)
  • Military disability benefits 
• Tangible vs. Intangible
  • Tangible: 
    • real estate
    • cash
    • bank accounts
    • investment accounts
    • cryptocurrency
    • retirement plans
    • furniture
    • Household goods
    • Automobiles
    • Livestock
    • Gold
    • Art
    • Wine
• Grey area - NFT for tangible assets
• Intangible
  • Cryptocurrency
  • Franchises
  • Patents
  • Copyrights
  • Mineral rights
  • Goodwill in a business
• Division of property can be impacted if, for example, the marital estate is 75% of intangible assets.

Step by Step Colorado Divorce Guide

The initial thought of trying to file for divorce can be overwhelming and emotionally exhausting. 

Ryan Kalamaya, one of the founding partners of innovative law firm Kalamaya | Goscha, has created a simple, step by step guide to the Colorado divorce process, so you know what to expect and how to best protect yourself and your assets.  

Each 5-minute episode will cover the process for divorce, parenting in a divorce, property division, and more. To watch the videos of each episode, click here.

About Kalamaya | Goscha

Kalamaya | Goscha is an innovative law firm with an award-winning team of trial lawyers specializing in highly personal disputes — divorce, child custody, property division, maintenance/alimony, pre-marital and marital agreements, and

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Ryan Kalamaya explains what happens in a divorce if  part of your income consists of stock options, restricted stock units (RSUs), restricted stock and deferred compensation.

Key Points:

• Income vs. Property
• Look at the contract to see if there is a presently enforceable right. 
• It is true, however, to state that vested options during the marriage is property 
• How timing is important when it comes to these issues
• For exec comp when there is a combo of marital and separate, there are a couple different ways to divide the income
• Different Valuation Methods used Similar to Episode 73 with dividing qualified retirement plans in a divorce
  • Present valuation
  • Deferred Distribution
  • Retained Jurisdiction
• For more info:
  • Property Division in Episode 56
  • Marital & Separate Property in Episode 58
  • Dividing Marital Property in Episode 61
  • Taxes Implications in a Colorado Divorce in Episode 97

Step by Step Colorado Divorce Guide

The initial thought of trying to file for divorce can be overwhelming and emotionally exhausting. 

Ryan Kalamaya, one of the founding partners of innovative law firm Kalamaya | Goscha, has created a simple, step by step guide to the Colorado divorce process, so you know what to expect and how to best protect yourself and your assets.  

Each 5-minute episode will cover the process for divorce, parenting in a divorce, property division, and more. To watch the videos of each episode, click here.

About Kalamaya | Goscha

Kalamaya | Goscha is an innovative law firm with an award-winning team of trial lawyers specializing in highly personal disputes — divorce,

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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High Asset Divorces: Unique Issues and Challenges

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the complexities of High Asset Divorces, focusing on issues like valuation of assets, property division, and the involvement of experts. Ryan explains how high-value assets such as real estate, closely held businesses, and trusts complicate divorce proceedings, requiring special attention to detail. 

The discussion also covers the role of prenups, maintenance, child support, and the importance of private judges in maintaining privacy and efficiency. The episode provides invaluable insight for both attorneys and clients navigating these high-stakes divorce cases.

Episode Outline:

Defining High Asset Divorce
Overview of the $5-10 million threshold and what constitutes a high asset divorce.

Challenges with Asset Valuation
Complexities in valuing real estate, closely held businesses, and private investments.

Estate Planning & Trust Interests
The role of estate planning in High Asset Divorces and the impact of trusts and life insurance policies.

Marital vs. Separate Property
How to determine whether assets are marital or separate and their impact on the division of property.

The Liquidity Issue
Challenges in paying equalization payments and the role of liquidity in High Asset Divorces.

Unique Parenting Issues
Parenting concerns in High Asset Divorces, including private school, travel, and child support.

Role of Experts
Financial experts, forensic accountants, and appraisers in complex divorce cases.

Maintaining Privacy
Options like private judges and arbitrators to ensure privacy and efficiency in High Asset Divorces.

Handling Complex Legal Issues
The involvement of third parties like business partners and asset protection strategies in divorce cases.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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The Modern Family Law Firm: Adapting to New Challenges

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha dive into what defines a "modern" family law firm. As the legal industry evolves, they discuss how technology, automation, and new legal programs are reshaping the way family law is practiced. 

With their own firm's experiences as a backdrop, Ryan and Amy explore how lawyers can embrace digital tools, adapt to changing client expectations, and implement efficient workflows that promote work-life balance. They also touch on the rise of alternative legal services, such as the LLP program, and how these innovations are bridging the gap in access to justice. The episode offers valuable insights for legal professionals seeking to stay competitive in an ever-changing landscape.

Episode Outline:

Embracing Technology in Law
The role of digital tools and virtual platforms in modernizing family law practices.

The Modern Firm Mindset
Shifting from traditional practices to digital-first approaches while maintaining quality client service.

The Importance of Work-Life Balance
How the modern firm integrates flexibility and well-being for lawyers and staff.

Automation in Legal Workflows
Streamlining repetitive tasks to enhance efficiency and reduce overhead.

Client Communication in the Digital Age
The importance of regular check-ins and the shift towards virtual consultations.

Flexible Legal Models: Limited Scope & Flat Fees
The rise of alternative fee structures and how they improve client accessibility.

Managing Digital Evidence and Documents
Tips for maintaining organization and managing electronic case files effectively.

Virtual Hearings & Mediation
How remote hearings are changing the dynamics of family law cases and improving access to justice.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Property Division and Equalization Payments in Colorado Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya discusses the complexities of property division payments, focusing on a hypothetical case involving Eric and Melanie Wolfe. Ryan explains the legal considerations when one party owes a significant payment to the other after dividing assets in a divorce, emphasizing promissory notes, security, and how these payments are structured. 

He provides an overview of the different options available, including interest rates, amortization schedules, and potential security measures like liens or life insurance to ensure payment.

Episode Outline

Understanding Property Division Payments
Ryan discusses what property division or equalization payments are, especially in high-value divorces, and why they are critical to a fair division of assets.

Promissory Notes and Terms
The role of promissory notes in ensuring a fair and enforceable property division payment is explained, including interest rates and repayment schedules.

Interest Rates and Repayment Terms
How to structure payments, including options for interest-only payments, amortization, or balloon payments, and the potential tax implications of these arrangements.

Collateral and Security for Payments
The importance of securing payments with collateral, such as liens on property or businesses, and how life insurance can secure payments in case of death.

Options for Post-Divorce Buyouts
Ryan explains the potential for buyout agreements after the divorce is final, including the need for amendments to the separation agreement to avoid tax issues.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Financial Abuse in Divorce: Recognizing the Signs and Protecting Yourself

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by New York matrimonial attorney Lisa Zeiderman to discuss the often overlooked but highly damaging issue of financial abuse in marriage and divorce. Lisa explains how financial abuse is rooted in control and can take many forms, from withholding access to money and financial information to restricting credit, hiding tax returns, and forcing one spouse into complete financial dependence.

Ryan and Lisa explore how financial abuse can affect both lower-earning and higher-earning spouses, why many victims do not recognize it until they are deep into a divorce, and what practical steps people can take to protect themselves. The episode focuses on empowering listeners to understand the warning signs, seek support, and take action before or during a divorce proceeding.

Guest Information
Lisa Zeiderman is the Managing Partner of Miller Zeiderman LLP in New York. She regularly handles complex financial and custody matters for high-net-worth individuals and is widely recognized for her work in matrimonial law. In addition to her legal practice, Lisa writes on legal and psychological issues, contributes to financial publications.

Episode Highlights

What Financial Abuse Really Means
Lisa defines financial abuse as a form of control. It happens when one spouse is denied access to money, credit, financial records, tax returns, or decision-making power, leaving them dependent and disempowered.

The Difference Between Disinterest and Abuse
Ryan and Lisa discuss the distinction between a spouse who simply chooses not to engage in the family finances and a spouse who is actively excluded from them.

Warning Signs to Watch For
The episode identifies key red flags, including not being allowed to see tax returns, being told to “just sign here,” not having access to bank accounts or credit cards, having passwords changed, being unable to pay for basics.

Financial Abuse Can Affect Breadwinners Too
Lisa points out that financial abuse is not limited to the lower-earning spouse. In some relationships, even the primary breadwinner can be manipulated into surrendering control of their income and finances.

Why Transparency Matters in Marriage
Ryan and Lisa emphasize that both spouses should understand the financial picture of the household.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Understanding Limited License Paraprofessionals (LLPs) in Family Law

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by Maha Kamal, founder of the Colorado Family Law Project, to discuss the role and impact of Limited License Paraprofessionals (LLPs) in Colorado family law. Maha explains the history and current status of the LLP program, its purpose in improving access to justice, and how it provides a middle ground between paralegals and attorneys.

The discussion explores the process to become an LLP, the cap on assets for which they can provide services, and how this initiative can help those who cannot afford traditional legal representation. Maha also shares her perspective on the future of the LLP program and its potential to revolutionize the way family law services are delivered, especially in divorce and custody cases.

Guest Information

Maha Kamal is a family law attorney and founder of the Colorado Family Law Project. With a focus on making legal services more accessible, she has been instrumental in the development of Colorado's LLP program. Maha’s work includes providing sliding scale services and advocating for greater access to legal representation for individuals unable to afford traditional legal fees.

Episode Outline

What is an LLP?
Maha explains the concept of Limited License Paraprofessionals (LLPs), their role in family law, and how they differ from traditional attorneys and paralegals.

Access to Justice
Discusses how the LLP program addresses the access to justice crisis by providing affordable legal services to individuals who otherwise would not be able to afford a lawyer.

The LLP Program's History and Development
Maha shares the journey of the LLP program, from its inception in 2015 to its current implementation phase, and how it aims to make family law more accessible.

LLP's Role in Family Law Cases
Maha explains the types of family law cases LLPs will handle, focusing on simple divorce cases and custody matters, while outlining the restrictions they face regarding complex litigation.

The $200,000 Asset Cap
Discusses the asset cap for LLPs in divorce cases and how it ensures that LLPs handle only simpler cases with fewer financial complications.

The LLP Qualification Process
Maha describes the educational and licensing requirements for LLPs, including exams, supervised work, and the training that prepares them

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Dealing with Undisclosed Assets in Colorado Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya dives into the complex issue of undisclosed assets during a divorce. Using a hypothetical case involving Eric and Melanie Wolfe, he explores the serious consequences when a spouse fails to fully disclose their assets, such as a hidden Bitcoin account or offshore funds.

 Ryan explains the legal steps involved in uncovering these assets, the role of financial transparency in a fair divorce process, and how Colorado law offers remedies for victims of financial deceit. He also discusses what options are available if assets are discovered after the divorce is finalized, emphasizing the importance of full disclosure to avoid lengthy and costly legal battles down the line.

Episode Outline

Duty of Disclosure
Overview of Colorado’s Rule 16.2 on financial disclosure requirements in divorce.

Hidden Assets
What happens if assets like a Bitcoin account are hidden during the divorce process?

Non-Disclosure Impact
Legal consequences when assets are not disclosed, including property division and remedies.

Rule 60 & Rule 16.2
How Rule 60 and Rule 16.2 provide options for recovering undisclosed assets within a specific timeline.

Recovering Hidden Assets
Steps for uncovering and valuing hidden assets in a divorce.

Preventing Future Disputes
How to ensure full financial disclosure to avoid post-divorce issues.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Divorce at Altitude: Juvenile Delinquency and Family Law in Colorado

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by Elizabeth Hardman, a family law attorney at Kalamaya | Goscha, to discuss the intersection of juvenile delinquency and family law. Elizabeth shares insights on how juvenile issues can impact family law cases, including the role of juvenile defense attorneys, the complexities of handling a juvenile case, and the potential consequences for parents involved in such proceedings.

Guest Information

Elizabeth Hardman is a family law attorney at Kalamaya | Goscha. She has extensive experience in juvenile law and criminal defense, having worked as a public defender in Weld County and specializing in juvenile delinquency cases.

Episode Outline

What is Juvenile Delinquency?
Elizabeth explains juvenile delinquency, where minors are accused of committing acts that would be crimes if done by adults, typically involving children between the ages of 10 and 17.

Key Players in Juvenile Cases
Overview of the key figures in juvenile court, including defense attorneys, prosecution, judge, and potential involvement of a DHS caseworker.

Juvenile Delinquency Process
A summary of the juvenile court process from detention hearings to advisement and the role of caseworkers in evaluating placements.

Impact on Family Law
How juvenile delinquency intersects with family law, particularly in divorce cases. Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of considering family dynamics, including issues like substance abuse.

Protecting Juvenile Rights
The importance of legal protections for juveniles, such as access to an attorney, and how statements can be protected from being used against them in family law cases.

Collaboration Between Courts
Elizabeth discusses the need for coordination between juvenile and family courts to ensure that the child's best interests are prioritized in both systems.

Advice for Parents
Tips for parents navigating juvenile delinquency cases, focusing on legal representation and protecting the child’s interests.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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