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Your closet is full, but you wear the same few things all the time. In this episode I break down the two biases behind that: the endowment effect and the fear of scarcity, and give you the questions and one travel exercise to cut through them.

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Part 1 questions: 

• If I didn't own this, would I buy it today, and what would I pay for it?
• If my luggage disappeared with this piece inside, would I replace it?
• If a friend with great taste offered me this from his closet, would I take it?
• Does this piece earn its place, or is it here because it's mine?

Part 2 questions:

• When did I last wear this? If it's been a year or more, realistically, when will I?
• What's the worst that happens if I let it go?
• If that day comes, would I even want this exact piece?

The "Paris" question:

• If this bag disappeared tomorrow, would I buy all of this again, and what would I pay for each piece?
• What would I buy first instead?

More about building your wardrobe on Style Overlap: 

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You decided to finally sort out your style, so you did what everyone does: opened your phone and started saving looks. Nothing wrong with that. But a saved folder only shows you the arrival, the end result. Never all the things and actions it took to get there.

This episode is about exactly that. There are 5 traits the most style-settled men all share. The good news is you'll probably recognize yourself in more of them than you expect.

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In this episode I answer your questions: I start with the one underneath most men stuck in style no man's land: why evolving your look as you age has nothing to do with the birthday.

Other topics the questions cover are the style "rules" worth keeping versus the BS, what's worth investing in, and how to style for your build, dates, and the life you're living now.

Links:

• Grab my free guide on investing in your wardrobe here: https://thecuratedoutfit.myflodesk.com/investmentplaybook 
• Episode 22 goes deeper on Style Overlap: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3urshwsVj71HzaOINS4M37?si=59fc297744f6497a
• For more about uncovering your taste, episode 20 is where it's at: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0ulc01iN0UzCZJqadJWOXk?si=a46f4baf0a614269

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Most men who want to dress better aren't lazy about it. They buy things, save references, notice the guy who's clearly figured "it" out. But none of it moves the needle. 

In most cases, that's the Default Loop, and about 75% of the men I speak to are or were in it. The way out isn't more options but fewer decisions, made earlier.

In this episode I break down the pattern that keeps wardrobes stuck, why input alone never solves it, and the system I use to rebuild my clients' wardrobes: Style Overlap. What it is and how to find yours.

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Last year one of my reels went viral; the argument that clothing is your most powerful yet underused tool for communicating what you stand for. And this episode is the follow-up I never put online.

Clothes aren't just garments. They shift (with) your mood, they change how you perform, and they send a message whether you're aware of it or not. For most, it's the latter.

In this episode, I'm sharing the three ways to use this deliberately. But none of them work until you've pinpointed one thing (it's what we start with).

Links:

• Wearing your values: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJGMmU8Sc8u/
• Enclothed cognition (PubMed): https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37458322/
• De Stijl (MoMa): https://www.moma.org/collection/terms/de-stijl

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Most men I work with already have good taste. They know which restaurants to send food back at, their favorite 6AM workout, and so on. Until they open their wardrobe and that judgment disappears.

It doesn't actually though. They stop trusting it, because algorithms came and decided your taste in aesthetics is what you download instead of build over time. Scroll enough outfits, save enough references, and it appears. It doesn't work that way with food, and it doesn't work that way here.

In this episode I explain the why, what your taste is made of, and how to start trusting it again, successfully.

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Secure one of the last Q3 Styling Spots or my Fall Waitlist: DM me on Instagram

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If you've ever felt hesitant to improve your style because life changes make it challenging to determine the best steps, this episode is for you. This week, Rinske breaks down how to approach wardrobe renewal while navigating weight fluctuations, lifestyle shifts, or age milestones—so you can look and feel your best at every stage.

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In just 16 minutes, we're cutting through the noise about "finding" personal style and focusing on what truly matters: showing up in a way that reflects your success, credibility, and values. Your image is a business asset.. So here's how to make sure it's not holding you back with simple, actionable steps.

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Are trends ruining your style, or are you just using them wrong? This week, we break down the truth about trends, why “timeless” isn’t a style, and the one non-negotiable when upgrading your wardrobe.

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Should you wait until you reach a certain point in your life to improve your style? If you’ve been postponing the next step because you feel you aren't yet where you strive to be—whether physically, professionally, financially, or socially—this one is for you.

Discussed in the show:

• Enclothed cognition
• Neil Patel's experiment (Forbes)
• DOAC Podcast episode with Charlie Houpert, The Charisma Teacher

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A phenomenon not just for those who never buy new clothes or don't enjoy it — this happens to the best of us, including those who enjoy shopping occasionally. 

In this episode, the exact strategy a personal stylist would go at this.

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Why investing in your wardrobe goes beyond the cost of an item.

Discussed in this episode:

• @twinbrett for sustainable fashion
• @outfitnarrative for conscious brands & styling
• @jeeves_ny for garment care

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How to make your great style even greater, even more you, and even more stylish.

Discussed in this episode:

• Blog: How to Know if A Trend is For You
• Reel: Vintage watch inspiration 
• Pinterest: Menswear Inspration board

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Either got a closet full of expensive bad buys or rather an empty closet out of fear of making the wrong investments? This is by far the #1 strategy that will change this for you.

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A story about appearance and human evolution.

Questions:

• What does your daily life look like? Activities, events, family (small children?)
• What kind of man is your ideal self?
• Who is the type of guy you're impressed by in terms of style?
• What kind of clothes or aesthetics are you naturally drawn to?
• What about your current wardrobe do you like? And what stays behind?
• What's comfort to you?
• What are, and what fit highlights the bodily features you're proud of?
• What's just on the cusp of your comfort zone?

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Video: using Style Inspiration to gain clarity on your personal style
Download: purge your wardrobe cheat sheet

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What a Style Coach can do for you 101.

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Where to start when you're ready to invest in your wardrobe & how to approach the concept of "timeless."

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Here's how to start creating better looks every day.

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Why color isn't so complicated and, of course, how to get started with injecting some color into your daily outfits.

• Itten's color wheel
• More about Itten, Bauhaus, and color wheel variations

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Get your first style win today by implementing these highly effective tips.

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If you're feeling like your appearance doesn't quite match who you are on the inside, and you're ready to make a change, this one is for you.

My 9 tried and tested, hands-on tactics to start elevating your style & dress better today without taking up hours of your time. Cause I know you've got bigger things to worry about!

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Welcome to the first episode of the show, in which I'm talking about how important it is to take your age as a pointer for determining your style direction. Does it really help to focus on your age when you're figuring out your personal style?

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