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| Ep 63 Sometimes "just one more" is all we need with Brooke McIntosh | 29 avr. 2026 | 00:57:23 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Brooke McIntosh - speaker, endurance runner, and founder of the Just One More movement - for a raw, powerful conversation about mental health, courage, healing, and the ripple effect of choosing to speak when silence feels safer. Brooke shares the deeply personal story behind her decision to run 14,000 kilometres around Australia - a journey born from suicidal ideation, unspoken trauma, and a life-changing car accident that forced her to confront the reality that she was not okay, despite appearing strong on the outside. Together, Kristi and Brooke explore how “just one more” - one step, one breath, one conversation - became a lifeline, not only for Brooke, but for countless people she encountered along the road. What began as a mission to spark conversation within FIFO, mining, and construction communities quickly revealed a much wider truth: mental health struggles do not discriminate. They exist everywhere - across families, generations, genders, and professions. This episode dives into the cost of emotional shutdown, the normalisation of masking pain, and how generational silence around trauma, addiction, and abuse shapes the way adults cope - or don’t cope - later in life. Brooke speaks candidly about childhood sexual abuse, substance use, shame, and the long-term impact of carrying stories alone for decades. Kristi and Brooke also reflect on the power of vulnerability to break cycles - from the unexpected moment Brooke’s father felt safe enough to say “I’m not okay”, to the way children who saw Brooke running began asking questions that opened conversations within their families. This is not a conversation about toughness or pushing through at all costs.
So many people are surviving - not living. They show up, work hard, care for others, and appear “fine”, while silently carrying trauma, grief, shame, and exhaustion. This episode reminds us that strength is not found in silence or self-abandonment - it’s found in honesty, courage, and asking for support. Brooke’s story shows how quickly things can change when someone chooses to speak - and how one brave conversation can unlock many more. You don’t need to run around Australia to make a difference. Brooke McIntosh is an endurance runner, speaker, and founder of the Just One More movement, using lived experience to spark honest conversations about mental health, suicide prevention, and emotional wellbeing. Through her run around Australia and her ongoing work in communities, schools, and workplaces, Brooke encourages people to build mental fitness, challenge silence, and remember that pain never gets the last say. Follow Brooke McIntosh on her socials: 👉 Instagram - Facebook Brooke McIntosh website: 👉 https://brookemcintosh.com.au/ Practical Support & ResourcesIf this episode has brought up big feelings or difficult memories, Kristi offers trauma-informed education and resources to support healing, prevention, and connection. 🔗 Explore education and resources: Resources include:
This episode includes discussion of:
Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Support Services (Australia)If you or someone you love needs support, help is available:
If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services. | |||
| Ep 62 The Value of a Gap Year with Dr. Justin Coulson | 15 avr. 2026 | 00:46:20 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi sits down with Dr. Justin Coulson to explore a topic that feels increasingly urgent for parents today: raising boys. Together, they dive into why so many young men are struggling to find their footing and what it actually takes to raise a generation that is resilient, purposeful, and grounded. Dr. Coulson shares his own "failure to launch" story-from failing school to a decade-long radio career before finding his true calling in psychology-and explains why the path to adulthood isn't a race. They unpack the "Hope Theory," the dangers of "vanity careers," and the power of "Autonomy Support," providing a roadmap for parents who want to move from controlling their kids to guiding them. This is a candid, insightful conversation about shifting the narrative for our sons and helping them become men who make the people around them feel "safer and stronger".
We often expect too much from our little kids and not enough from our teenagers. As Dr. Coulson explains, our job as parents is not to slay the dragons for our children, but to prepare them to be "dragon slayers" themselves. Many young men are failing to thrive because they lack a sense of worthiness derived from doing hard, productive things. By fostering "Autonomy Support," we can guide our children toward financial viability and personal fulfillment without resorting to "victimhood" or blaming external labels for a lack of progress. This conversation challenges parents to step up, have the hard conversations, and model the character we want our children to inherit. About Dr. Justin Coulson Dr. Justin Coulson is one of Australia’s most trusted parenting experts. He is the co-host of Channel 9’s Parental Guidance, the host of the #1 parenting podcast in Australia (The Happy Families Podcast), and the author of 11 books. After a successful radio career, Justin returned to university as a mature-age student, earning first-class honors in psychology and a PhD. He is a father of six daughters and is dedicated to helping families flourish through evidence-based psychological principles. Connect with Dr. Justin Coulson: Dr. Justin Coulson’s latest book, "Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out," is a culmination of four years of work. It provides a framework for raising boys who are confident, kind, and capable of navigating the complexities of modern masculinity.
If this episode has inspired you to start more meaningful conversations with your kids, Kristi provides trauma-informed education and practical tools to help you guide them toward a life they can be proud of. 🔗 Explore education and resources: If this episode has raised difficult feelings or if you need immediate support:
If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services (000). | |||
| Ep 61 The challenges parents face discussing tough topics with Kimberly King | 01 avr. 2026 | 00:49:02 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Kimberly King - author, educator, and founder of Tough Topics Mom - for a candid and deeply informative discussion on child safety, prevention, and fostering open communication with children. Kimberly shares her personal journey that led her to advocate for body safety, including a formative experience with her son that resurfaced memories from her own childhood. She reflects on the importance of early conversations about consent, boundaries, and safe adults, and how these conversations can empower children to recognize and respond to unsafe situations. Together, Kristi and Kimberly explore: the challenges parents face in navigating “tough topics,” the role of repressed memories in adult perspectives on child safety, and why prevention strategies are more effective when implemented early. They also discuss the unique risks posed by online spaces, how technology affects children’s development and safety, and practical tools for teaching kids about safe interactions in both real-life and digital environments. Through stories, practical advice, and evidence-based insights, this episode highlights how consistent, thoughtful conversations can make children less vulnerable to harm, support early disclosure, and strengthen parent-child relationships. Content Warning:This episode includes discussion of:
Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Key Themes Covered:
Why This Conversation Matters: About Kimberly King: 🔗 Learn more about Kimberly King: 👉 www.toughtopicsmom.com 🔗 Tough Topics Mom Books: 👉 www.toughtopicsmom.com/books Practical Support & Resources: Support Services (Australia):
If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services. | |||
| Ep 60 Your Baby Isn’t Giving You a Hard Time - They’re Having a Hard Time with Monique Christidis | 18 mars 2026 | 01:00:13 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Monique Christidis - registered nurse, child health nurse of 30+ years, and founder of BaaBaa Baby - for a grounded, compassionate conversation about infant development, sleep, regulation, and the foundational role of connection from birth. Monique brings a wealth of clinical expertise alongside deep empathy for parents navigating the often overwhelming early years. Together, Kristi and Monique explore how babies communicate through behaviour, why crying is not manipulation but communication, and how understanding brain development can radically shift the way parents respond to sleep, distress, and big emotions. This episode gently challenges outdated behaviourist approaches to parenting and sleep, unpacking why concepts like “self-soothing” and “cry it out” can be misunderstood when we don’t fully understand infant brain development. Monique explains how safety, consistency, and presence support a baby’s nervous system - and how regulation always begins with the adult. Kristi and Monique also discuss the immense pressure placed on modern parents, the loss of the “village”, and how comparison culture and unrealistic expectations can leave parents feeling isolated, guilty, and exhausted. The conversation reinforces that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting - and that learning to trust your intuition is a powerful protective factor for both parents and children. This is a reassuring, science-informed, and deeply validating episode for parents, carers, and professionals - reminding us that connection, not perfection, is what children need most. Key Themes Covered
Babies and young children rely entirely on safe, attuned adults to help them regulate, feel secure, and make sense of the world. When parents are overwhelmed, unsupported, or unsure - often due to conflicting advice or unrealistic expectations - it can erode confidence and connection. This episode reframes parenting through a trauma-informed, developmentally accurate lens, offering reassurance that responding with presence, curiosity, and compassion is not “spoiling” a child - it’s building safety. By understanding how children’s brains develop and how behaviour communicates need, parents can move away from fear-based approaches and toward connection-led care that supports both child wellbeing and parental mental health. About Monique Christidis - BaaBaa BabyMonique Christidis is a registered nurse and child health nurse with over 30 years’ experience supporting families. She is the founder of BaaBaa Baby, a private child health service in Western Australia, where she provides individualised support for families from birth to five years. Monique specialises in infant development, sleep, emotional regulation, and early attachment, offering practical, compassionate, and evidence-based guidance tailored to each family’s unique needs. Learn more about Monique and BaaBaa Baby: If this episode has raised questions about infant sleep, regulation, or building stronger connection with your child, Kristi offers trauma-informed education and practical resources for parents and carers. 🔗 Explore education and tools: Resources include:
If parenting stress, exhaustion, or emotional overwhelm feels unmanageable, support is available:
If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services. | |||
| EP 59 Why Connection Comes Before Protection with Neil Milton | 04 mars 2026 | 00:53:59 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Neil Milton - founder of The Table Talk Project, advocate, and survivor - for a powerful and deeply human conversation about connection, prevention, and the role safe relationships play in protecting children and strengthening families. Neil shares his lived experience of growing up without a voice at home, the long-term impact of childhood sexual abuse, and how unaddressed trauma shaped his relationships, sense of safety, and ability to ask for help. He reflects on how becoming a parent - and later recognising his own experiences as abuse - became a catalyst for creating spaces where children are heard, believed, and supported. Together, Kristi and Neil explore how everyday disconnection within families can increase vulnerability to harm, why children often communicate distress through behaviour rather than words, and how something as simple - and intentional - as sharing a meal can create profound protective factors. This episode unpacks how grooming can occur in plain sight, the dangers of “busy” culture, and why having a designated space for conversation matters. It also explores the ripple effects of connection - from improved mental health and resilience, to early disclosure of harm and strengthened family bonds. This is not about perfection. This episode includes discussion of:
Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Support resources are listed below. Key Themes Covered
Child sexual abuse and emotional harm thrive in silence, secrecy, and disconnection. Many parents and carers deeply care about protecting children but feel overwhelmed, unsure, or stretched thin. This episode reminds us that prevention does not require perfection, expertise, or constant vigilance - it requires presence, listening, and relationship. By creating regular opportunities for connection and normalising conversation, adults can interrupt grooming, support disclosure, and ensure children know they are not alone. Prevention is possible - and it begins with being heard. About The Table Talk ProjectThe Table Talk Project is a family-centred initiative designed to help households create intentional spaces for connection through shared meals and guided conversations. By encouraging families to come together regularly and engage in meaningful dialogue, the project supports emotional wellbeing, strengthens relationships, and creates protective environments where children feel safe to speak. 🔗 Learn more about The Table Talk Project: 👉Back at The Table Web App: https://thetabletalkproject.org/at-the-table/ 👉Latest Blog Post: https://thetabletalkproject.org/category/the-table-talk-news/ 👉Book our services: https://thetabletalkproject.org/speaking-engagements-and-presentations/ Practical Support & ResourcesIf this episode has raised questions about how to build safer, more connected environments for children and families, Kristi has created practical, trauma-informed resources to support parents and carers. 🔗 Explore education and tools: Resources include:
If you or someone you love needs support, help is available:
If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services. | |||
| Ep 58 Supporting our neurodivergent families with Sharon Collon | 18 févr. 2026 | 01:11:39 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Sharon Collon - ADHD educator, coach, speaker, and founder of The Functional Family - for an honest and practical conversation about neurodiversity, online safety, learning differences, and what actually helps families thrive. Sharon is also host of the ADHD Families Podcast, where she supports parents navigating life with ADHD and other neurodivergent profiles. Having supported tens of thousands of families, Sharon’s work focuses on turning overwhelming information into clear, doable strategies. Together, Kristi and Sharon unpack what parents are truly crying out for - not more theory, not more labels - but practical tools that make everyday life easier. This episode weaves together neurodiversity, digital safety, emotional regulation, learning styles, rejection sensitivity, impulsivity, and body safety education - highlighting how prevention and support must be adapted for how children actually process the world. This is not a conversation about fear. Sharon shares her own journey of receiving her son’s diagnosis - including the overwhelm of being handed outdated information and left to figure it out alone. She explains why families don’t need more generic ADHD content online - they need:
Sharon explains that children process information in different ways, including:
When parents rely only on talking, many children simply don’t absorb the message - especially neurodivergent children. This becomes particularly important when teaching:
Kristi shares how role play - not just verbal instruction - helped her daughter internalise body safety rules. Sharon reinforces the importance of repetition and experiential learning over lecture-style conversations. 3. Online Safety, Gaming & NeurodivergenceKristi and Sharon have a grounded conversation about what’s actually happening in online spaces — especially for neurodivergent kids. They explore:
Sharon strongly encourages parents to understand RSD - explaining that for many children with ADHD, rejection can feel like physical pain. Rather than banning technology outright, Sharon recommends:
This episode reframes tech supervision as relationship-based guidance - not surveillance. 4. Social Skills & Emotional SafetySharon explains that social skills are not intuitive for everyone - and many adults would benefit from explicit social skills training. They discuss:
Kristi highlights something powerful: sometimes children - and adults - need a hug before they can process words. Key Themes Covered
Many parents feel:
This episode reminds us: Children don’t need perfect parents. When we understand how a child processes information, we can teach safety, boundaries, and skills in ways that actually stick. Prevention doesn’t start with fear. Sharon Collon is an ADHD educator, family coach, speaker, and founder of The Functional Family. She supports parents to move from confusion and overwhelm to clarity and confidence through evidence-informed, practical strategies. She is also the host of the ADHD Families Podcast, where she explores neurodiversity, regulation, parenting tools, and family wellbeing. Her work focuses on helping families:
Create Your Family’s ADHD Roadmap – FREE Coaching Week The ADHD Family Quest The ADHD Families Podcast If this episode has raised questions about neurodiversity, safety education, or regulation, Kristi provides trauma-informed education and tools for families. 🔗 Explore resources: Resources include:
If you or someone in your family needs support:
If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services. | |||
| Ep 57 The Ripple Effect of Abuse with Rosalia Rivera | 04 févr. 2026 | 00:52:49 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Rosalia Rivera - founder of Consent Parenting, consent educator, and survivor advocate - for a deeply important conversation about prevention, healing, and the responsibility adults hold in protecting children. Rosalia shares her lived experience of childhood sexual abuse and how becoming a parent resurfaced memories she didn’t yet have language for. Together, Kristi and Rosalia explore why so many parents avoid child safety conversations - whether through fear, overwhelm, or the belief that “this doesn’t happen in our family” - and how both avoidance and overprotection can leave children vulnerable. This episode unpacks how grooming operates in plain sight, why children communicate harm through behaviour, and how trauma-informed, age-appropriate conversations can dramatically reduce risk. It’s a hopeful, empowering discussion that centres education as a form of freedom - not fear. This is not about paranoia. This episode includes discussion of:
Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Support resources are listed below. Key Themes Covered
Child sexual abuse thrives in silence, stigma, and discomfort. Many parents avoid these conversations - not because they don’t care, but because they feel overwhelmed, triggered, or unsure where to start. This episode reminds us that education doesn’t create harm - it reduces it. By noticing behaviour, asking questions, and having ongoing, age-appropriate conversations, adults can interrupt grooming, support disclosure, and create environments where children feel safe to speak. Prevention is possible - and it starts at home. Practical Support & ResourcesIf this episode has raised questions about how to start protective, trauma-informed conversations with children, Kristi has created practical tools to support parents and carers. 🔗 Explore resources and education: 👉 www.kristimcvee.com Resources include:
You can also explore Rosalia Rivera’s work at: If you or someone you love needs support, help is available:
If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services. | |||
| Ep 56 When adults stay silent, kids pay the price with Andrew Goss | 21 janv. 2026 | 00:52:18 | |
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi speaks with Andrew Goss about the lifelong impact of childhood abuse - and the role silence, minimisation, and adult neutrality play in allowing harm to continue. Andrew shares his lived experience of family violence, sexual abuse (including female offending), and the repeated moments where warning signs were visible - but not acted upon. Together, Kristi and Andrew explore why children often try to communicate harm through behaviour, how grooming operates across different contexts, and why asking questions early can interrupt abuse before it escalates. This is not a sensational conversation. This episode includes discussion of:
Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and step away if needed. Support resources are listed below. Key Themes Covered
Most abuse doesn’t continue because no one notices. This episode invites parents, carers, and professionals to reflect on the small moments where intervention matters, and how noticing, listening, and responding early can disrupt harm. Practical Support & ResourcesIf this episode has raised questions about how to start calm, age-appropriate safety conversations with children, Kristi has created practical tools to support parents and carers. 🔗 Explore resources and education: Resources include:
If you or someone you love needs support, help is available:
If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services. | |||
| S3 Ep14 - Parental Awareness on Child Safety with Vanessa Hamilton | 07 janv. 2026 | 00:32:44 | |
Episode Summary: The conversation delves into the alarming risks that young people face regarding sexual violence, emphasizing the lack of awareness among parents about these issues. It highlights the prevalence of unwanted sexual encounters and the disturbing trend of children perpetrating sexual violence against their peers. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to the Conversation on Sexual Education | |||
| S3 Ep13 - Navigating the Digital Landscape with Trent Ray | 17 déc. 2025 | 00:38:11 | |
Episode Summary: The conversation explores the challenges faced by the digital generation as they navigate technology independently. It emphasises the importance of introducing technology in a safe manner, akin to teaching children to swim, where they gradually gain skills and independence. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Cyber Safety | |||
| S3 Ep12 - The Rise of AI Deepfakes and Child Exploitation with Ben Gillenwater | 03 déc. 2025 | 01:08:02 | |
EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of "Conversations with Kristi," Kristi discusses the alarming rise in online child exploitation with Ben Gillenwater, an IT and cybersecurity expert. They explore the challenges parents face in protecting their children from digital dangers, emphasising the importance of education and proactive parenting. Ben shares his personal journey of becoming the "family IT guy" and offers insights into managing children's online presence safely. KEY TAKEAWAYS:
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For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/8dg5zBwZKhs To learn more and connect with Ben, head over to his LinkedIn page at https://www.linkedin.com/in/bgilly/ or connect with him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/family_it_guy | |||
| S3 Ep11 - The Impact of Trauma on Identity with Jessica Ella | 19 nov. 2025 | 01:17:00 | |
Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we delve into the profound impact of trauma on identity, particularly for women as Jessica Ella shares her profound journey of healing from childhood sexual abuse. Jess discusses her unique approach to trauma recovery, emphasising the importance of understanding complex trauma and its impact on identity. She recounts her personal experiences of abuse, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the power of disclosure. The conversation highlights the flaws in the justice system and the necessity of support systems for survivors. Ultimately, Jessica's message is one of empowerment and hope, encouraging others to reclaim their power and heal from their past. Takeaways:
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For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/zl2VFsIw8qA To learn more and connect with Jess please head to her Instagram @iamjessicaella and you can grab a copy of the book "Secret or Surprise" at https://www.secretorsurprise.com.au | |||
| Series 3 - Special Episode, Child Safety in Early Education: A Critical Discussion with Chey Carter | 02 sept. 2025 | 01:01:10 | |
Summary In this special episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi McVee and Cheyenne Carter discuss the critical issues surrounding child safety in early childhood education. They explore Chey's journey in the field, the impact of COVID on childcare quality, and the importance of transparency and communication between parents and childcare providers. The conversation delves into the dynamics of grooming and abuse, the psychological aspects of offenders, and the need for better training and support for educators. Parents are encouraged to be vigilant and proactive in ensuring their children's safety, while also understanding the systemic challenges faced by educators. The episode concludes with actionable steps for parents to take in assessing childcare environments and reporting concerns. Takeaways
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For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at To learn more and connect with Chey please head to https://www.divergented.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/cheyannecarter/?originalSubdomain=au | |||
| S3 Ep10 - From Survivor to Advocate: Jeanie Dean's Journey | 04 août 2025 | 01:22:39 | |
Episode Summary: In this heartfelt conversation, Kristi McVee and Jeanie Dean discuss Jeanie's journey from being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse to becoming an advocate for child safeguarding. They explore the challenges of coping with trauma, the impact of addiction, and the importance of supportive relationships. Jeanie shares her experiences working with sex offenders and in child protection, emphasising the need to see the person behind the behaviour. The conversation also touches on parenting through trauma and the struggle to break cycles of abuse, ultimately highlighting the journey of self-discovery and healing. In this conversation, Jeanie and Kristi delve into the complexities of child protection, discussing systemic failures, personal trauma, and the importance of creating safe environments for children. They emphasise the role of organisations and parents in safeguarding children, the need for open communication, and the community's responsibility in ensuring child safety. The discussion highlights the challenges faced by professionals in the field and the necessity for proactive measures to protect vulnerable individuals. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Personal Challenges For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/GGJWDiFTm9Y To learn more and connect with Jeanie please head to https://safeguardingsolutions.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/jeanie-dean-90a46483 | |||
| S3 Ep9 - Empowering Children Through Storytelling with Kerri Sloper | 21 juil. 2025 | 00:43:13 | |
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kerri Sloper shares her journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and her mission to empower children and parents through her children's books. Kerri discusses the healing power of music and writing, the importance of speaking out, and the role of parents in preventing abuse. She emphasises the need for open communication about good and bad touching and how her books serve as tools for healing and understanding. The conversation highlights the significance of breaking the cycle of abuse and fostering a safe environment for children. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Kerri Sloper and Her Journey For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/O12JXIWLDDw To purchase Kerri's books please head to https://www.amazon.com.au/s?i=books-single-index&rh=p_27%3AKerri%2B%2BJ%2BSloper&s=relevancerank&text=Kerri++J+Sloper&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1 and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/kerri-sloper-a56420253 | |||
| S3 Ep8 - Navigating Self-Development with Susan Dunlop | 07 juil. 2025 | 00:56:46 | |
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi we catch up with Susan Dunlop, Susan discusses her journey through self-development, the challenges of family dynamics, and her understanding of avoidance in personal growth. She reflects on her childhood experiences and the conscious choices she has made to improve her relationships and emotional well-being. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Child Development and Healing For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/hWvGKx-e8vg To learn more and connect with Susan please head to https://susandunlop.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/susan-dunlop-641526142 | |||
| S3 Ep7 - Navigating Trauma: A Journey of Healing with Diane Tarantini | 23 juin 2025 | 01:22:41 | |
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, I speak with Diane Tarantini, a body safety educator and author, about the critical importance of conversations surrounding child safety and trauma. We discuss Diane's personal journey as a survivor of childhood abuse, the significance of body safety education, and the alarming statistics regarding child sexual abuse. The conversation emphasises the need for open discussions about difficult topics, the impact of pornography on youth, and the role of therapy in healing. Diane shares valuable tips for parents on how to create safe spaces for their children to talk about their experiences and feelings, highlighting the importance of consistent communication and education in preventing abuse. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Connection Across Borders For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/MboNI4FsHAY To learn more and connect with Diane please head to https://dianetarantini.com/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/diane-tarantini-b883938a | |||
| S3 Ep6 - Hope and Forgiveness in Parenting with Nikki Butler | 09 juin 2025 | 01:04:25 | |
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Nikki Butler to discuss the importance of teaching protective behaviours to children and instilling a sense of hope for parents who may feel they have missed opportunities in their children's upbringing. She discusses the significance of recognising non-verbal cues and behaviours that indicate harm, and encourages parents to forgive themselves for past mistakes, highlighting that it is never too late to start making positive changes in their parenting approach. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Child Protection and Safety For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/6FiPVbiu4sI To learn more and connect with Nikki please head to www.nikkibutler.com.au and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikki-butler-577132149/ | |||
| S3 Ep5 - Empowering Children: The My Body Tells the Truth Program with Colleen Murphy | 26 mai 2025 | 01:01:02 | |
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Colleen Murphy to discuss the importance of teaching children to trust their bodies and recognise their own signals, especially in environments where they may feel uncertain. Colleen discusses the role of adults in fostering this trust and provides practical strategies for empowering children to navigate their feelings and experiences. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Colleen Murphy and Her Journey
For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/fZJUcbJkXjg To learn more about Colleen and her mission, head to her LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/colleen-murphy-17416a182/ | |||
| S3 Ep4 - The Fear Behind Parental Anger with Andy Briercliffe | 12 mai 2025 | 01:06:06 | |
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Andy and Kristi delve into the emotional dynamics of parenting, particularly focusing on how parents react to situations involving their children, emphasising the importance of remaining calm and understanding the underlying fears that often drive parental anger. They discuss strategies for effective communication and the need for support in navigating challenging conversations with children. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Online Harms and Child Safety For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/3hcCp_Nq2Ug To access the Global Child Safety List that Andy speaks about in his interview, please go to - Global List - Online Child Safety.xlsx - Google Sheets or follow Andy on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-briercliffe-760621191/ | |||
| S3 Ep3 - Understanding Child-on-Child Sexual Abuse with Lauren B | 28 avr. 2025 | 00:52:55 | |
Episode Summary: This episode of Conversations with Kristi delves into the sensitive topic of child-on-child sexual abuse, highlighting the experiences of individuals involved in the ABAR project. It emphasises the misconceptions surrounding children's behaviour in such situations and the importance of recognising the seriousness of these incidents rather than dismissing them as mere experimentation or curiosity. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjvH4Rc4aT0 | |||
| S3 Ep2 - Confronting Motherhood: A Journey of Fear with Danielle Cheeseman | 14 avr. 2025 | 00:50:38 | |
Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Danielle Cheeseman shares her profound fears and anxieties about motherhood, particularly her concerns about raising daughters. She reflects on her own experiences and the challenges she anticipates in preventing her children from facing similar struggles. Key Takeaways:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/ncx4a4odqpg To learn more about Danielle you can find her details on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-cheeseman-15b3b89a/ | |||
| S3 Ep1 - Understanding Grooming: A Call to Action with Anna Sonoda. | 31 mars 2025 | 00:52:11 | |
Summary: In this episode of "Conversations with Kristi", Anna Sonoda discusses the grooming process that can occur with children and emphasises the critical role that adults play in recognising and interrupting this harmful behaviour. She highlights the importance of legal consequences and the need for adults to be vigilant in protecting children from potential harm. Key Takeaways: Every adult can interrupt the grooming process. Grooming often starts off appearing sweet. Grooming involves pulling children away from normal activities. Adults must be vigilant in recognizing grooming behaviors. Legal consequences are necessary for protecting children. Extended family may not always act in the child's best interest. Creating space between a child and their support system is a red flag. Opportunities to break rules can be a grooming tactic. Awareness of grooming is crucial for all adults. We must be the cornerstone of support for children. Podcast Chapters:
For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/qBVVrNlK804 | |||
| S2 Ep20 Breaking down offender behaviours with Kelly Jackson | 18 déc. 2024 | 01:13:48 | |
CONTENT WARNING - discussion about offender behaviours and methodology In this episode, Kristi interviews phD candidate, criminologist and psychologist Kelly Jackson. Kelly and Kristi discuss the research around offender behaviours and methodologies used in the commission of child sexual abuse and the many ways offenders groom children. This is a must listen episode for anyone who loves to dive deep into the psychology of offenders. Connect with Kelly via her LinkedIn here: linkedin.com/in/kelly-jackson-b49a57150 If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
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| S2 Ep18 Protecting our First Nations families with Rachel Dunn | 20 nov. 2024 | 01:03:35 | |
CONTENT WARNING - language warning, discussions around child sexual abuse, domestic violence of First Nations peoples In this episode, Kristi talks with proud Palawa woman Rachel Dunn, about the impacts of domestic violence and child sexual abuse on First Nations families and the difficulties in calling-out these tragedies in culture and family. Rachel shares her story and her experience in calling out abuse within her family unit, as well as trying to advocate and protect other First Nations children and women, against the prejudice and beliefs that perpetuate and prolong harm and trauma within community. Connect with Rachel via her LinkedIn here: www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-dunn-7a6060229 If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 13Yarn - 13 92 76. or www.13yarn.org.au Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep17 Unpacking coercive control and the impacts on families with Kate Fylan | 06 nov. 2024 | 00:59:49 | |
CONTENT WARNING - language warning, discussions about domestic violence and trauma In this episode, Kristi speaks with Kate Fylan who has over 20 years experience with a Diploma in Social Worker, a qualified Counsellor and Play Therapist, primarily working within in the domestic violence, childhood sexual abuse and harmful sexualised behaviours spaces and portfolios. Kate offers an interesting viewpoint around gendered based parenting, coercive control, domestic violence, how to have conversations with your kids around these topics and repair your relationships with your children when we make mistakes. This is a great conversation for parents of children of any age about the importance of being real with them and how to have conversations with your kids around important social topics. You can follow or connect with Kate via LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/kate-fylan-41829aa2. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep16 Why families protect child abusers with Deb Aldrick | 23 oct. 2024 | 01:05:15 | |
CONTENT WARNING - Talk of child sexual abuse, intra-familial abuse, control and manipulation Deb wrote the book, 'Circling the Wagons' about the different ways in which families hide and protect abusers with control and manipulation and how it effects survivors. This episode breaks down the effect and impacts of child sexual abuse and why the lack of protection and belief within our families often creates greater trauma than the abuse itself. Deb's book - Circling the Wagons by Deborah Aldrick is available via Amazon and Barnes & Noble or via Deb's website: www.dragonflyadvocacy.com.au or via LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/deborah-aldrick-188b4530b If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep14 The 3 easy steps to child safety with John Cardamone | 25 sept. 2024 | 00:49:06 | |
Content Warning - talk around child sexual abuse In this episode, Kristi talks about child sexual abuse and child safety with survivor, child safety advocate and parent, John Cardamone. John shares his own survivor story of child sexual abuse at 6 years old where his perpetrator threatened him and his family to keep it a secret. John's story highlights the importance of body safety education, believing kids and being an approachable parent. This podcast episode underlines the 3 important steps of protecting kids and how EVERY parent can keep their kids safe. Connect and learn more about John via his LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-cardamone-86632738/ If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep 13 Considering our kids in regards to family violence with Shannon Miller | 11 sept. 2024 | 01:03:17 | |
Content Warning - discussions about domestic and family violence, suicide and self-harm In this episode, Kristi talks with Shannon Miller, a disability and family violence practice leader from the Centre Against Violence, gender-based violence advocate and father about the lack of visibility for children and young people in the conversations around domestic and family violence and gendered based violence. During this episode, Kristi and Shannon discuss the lack of consideration of the impacts of family violence on children and young people, the lack of support of children as their own victim in family violence as well as how to talk to our kids about these topics and issues. This is a great conversation for ALL families whether family violence has impacted you or NOT. For more information about Shannon, check out his LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannon-miller1984/ Check out the Centre Against Violence here: https://centreagainstviolence.org.au
If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep 12 Teaching body safety to children living with a disability with Holly ann Martin | 27 août 2024 | 01:03:14 | |
In this episode, Kristi speaks with veteran Protective Behaviours educator Holly-ann Martin about teaching body safety education to children living with a disability or where english isn't their first language. Holly-ann shares a wealth of knowledge on how to simplify the body safety messages to ensure our most vulnerable children understand their body safety rights and education. This is a fantastic podcast episode in which even Kristi learnt some valuable and life saving lessons. Be sure to share this episode with your friends and family so that we can all ensure our children, especially those children living with a disability are protected from abuse. For more information or to find Holly-ann's resources, go to her website at www.safe4kids.com.au
If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Sexual Violence Services in WA - Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
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| S2 Ep11 I want to go home with Renee Marie Simpson | 14 août 2024 | 01:15:33 | |
CONTENT WARNING - Talk about sexual abuse, child sexual abuse and the death of a perpetrator. In this episode, Kristi talks with author, youth activist, sexual abuse survivor, sexual assault group facilitator and coach, Renee Simpson. Renee is the author of the book 'I want to go home' - a book which explores and shares about her trip across the world on a sailing boat, where she sailed through storms, nearly starved from a lack of food and her journey recovering from child sexual abuse and rape. Renee now facilitates sexual assault support groups through The Survivor Hub and trauma informed coaching for sexual abuse survivors where she encourages survivors to write their own stories and heal their own lives via her 'Shake the Walls' writing course. This is a very interesting conversation about recovering from sexual abuse, exploring trauma and the ways we process trauma and recovery. You can find Renee via her social media @reneemariesimpsonauthor. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep10 A guide to sleepovers and school camps | 31 juil. 2024 | 00:46:02 | |
In this episode, Kristi talks about sleepovers and school camps from her experience as a detective and police officer, as well as a parent. There is a lot of pressure on parents from many sources about sleepovers, so it is important that we take the time to consider all risk factors of where your child may be sleeping overnight. Kristi breaks down her latest blogs and goes through some of the risk factors, sharing stories that have made her reconsider her stance on both school camps and sleepovers. Check out both blogs via www.cape-au.com/blog If you want help in talking about body safety with your kids, grab a copy of the Conversation with Kids 'Body Safety' cards via www.cape-au.com/conversations-with-kids-body-safety Want to deep dive into child sexual abuse prevention, grab a copy of Kristi's book, Operation KidSafe - a detective's guide to child abuse prevention from Amazon via www.cape-au.com/book
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| S2 E9 Keeping Consent Education Simple with Kate Raston | 17 juil. 2024 | 00:51:40 | |
In this episode, Kristi speaks with We are Womxn co-founder, post-graduate Sexology student and 2024 Young Australian of the Year nominee, Kate Raston. Kate talks about her experiences as a consent and healthy relationships educator, working with young people in schools where she helps facilitates safe and open conversations around sex and consent. Follow We are Womxn via social media especially Instagram or check out their website at www.wearewomxn.com.au. Other resources mentioned is the 'Talk soon, Talk often' book by WA Department of Health. Get your FREE PDF here: https://www.healthywa.wa.gov.au/articles/s_t/talk-soon-talk-often
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| S2 Ep8 Broken and lost in Kings Cross with Glen Fisher | 19 juin 2024 | 00:56:14 | |
Content Warning - Child Sexual Abuse, Substance Abuse, Suicide and Self-Harm - If any part of this episode causes distress, please see the resources below for support services and help. In this episode, Kristi talks with child sexual abuse survivor and advocate Glen Fisher, author of the book Predators Paradise. Glen shares his story of resilience through a childhood of child sexual abuse and neglect from so many predators, which left Glen to a road of self harm, violence and substance abuse. Glen shares his journey from broken little boy to fierce fighter, advocate and father and the steps he has taken to reclaim his life, recover from addiction and bring some of his abusers to justice. This episode is for all the survivors out there, especially men struggling with demons that haunt them, needing to know that 'YOU ARE NOT ALONE'. Please check out Glen's Tiktok at: www.tiktok.com/tiger664life66 Glen's FB group Predators Paradise here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/498114067677692/?ref=share&mibextid=K35XfP&rdid=rGKVHZOKQ5ZpMLz3&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F6KGFHDBqDatS4bmA%2F%3Fmibextid%3DK35XfP%26wtsid%3Drdr_040VmOAWpiUByCJSR%26_rdr If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep 7 Is it safe to share photos of your kids online? | 05 juin 2024 | 00:29:51 | |
Episode 7 - Is it safe to share photos of your kids online? In this episode, Kristi answers a parents question and does a deep dive into her knowledge, thoughts and experience around the topic of sharing photos of our kids on our social media and online. Kristi goes through 3 considerations for deciding whether to post that photo of your kids or not and 7 tips on posting photos of your kids safely based on her recent blog post. If you have a question you want answered, you can always email Kristi via admin@cape-au.com or check out the FREE resources on the website at www.cape-au.com.
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| S2 Ep 6 My daughter's sextortion stole her life with Carol Todd | 22 mai 2024 | 01:12:53 | |
CONTENT WARNING - This episode talks about sextortion, cyberbullying and suicide. In this episode, Kristi speaks with Carol Todd, founder of the Amanda Todd Legacy not-for-profit organisation based in British Columbia, Canada. Amanda was 15 years old when she took her own life by suicide due to being sexually exploited and cyber-bullied online which led to physical abuse and alienation by her peers. You can learn more about the Amanda Todd Legacy or watch Amanda's last video via the www.amandatoddlegacy.org. For more information on Sextortion and how to help your child check out the Australian Centre to Counter Child Exploitation (ACCCE) at https://www.accce.gov.au/sextortionhelp If you want any further resources on helping you keep your kids safe online, check out my FREE resources on www.cape-au.com. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Sexual Violence Services in WA - Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 | |||
| S2 Ep5 From child abuse survivor to prison guard with Mel Watson | 08 mai 2024 | 00:48:41 | |
CONTENT WARNING - This episode talks about child sexual abuse, mental health and suicide. Please listen with caution. In this episode, Kristi talks with former prison guard, domestic violence and child sexual abuse survivor Mel Watson. Mel talks about surviving childhood domestic violence, incidents of child sexual abuse by multiple perpetrators, conquering depression and suicidal ideation as an 18 year old and her experience working in the NSW prison system dealing with child sex offenders and inmates. Mel opens up about how dangerous grooming is by both predators and prisoners, the court systems and all the things she wished her parents had done when she was a child. Kristi's book, Operation KidSafe - a detective's guide to child abuse prevention can help parents identify the signs of grooming and child sexual abuse as well as teaching prevention strategies and lessons. Check out the website to purchase. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Sexual Violence Services in WA - Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| S2 Ep3 Not my Kid with Jen Hoey | 10 avr. 2024 | 01:03:29 | |
In this episode, Kristi talks with online safety educator and founder of 'Not My Kid', Jen Hoey. Jen shares the story of her 11yo daughter being groomed online by a predator despite her hypervigilence and the impact that experience had on her daughter and family. Jen turned her families tragedy into helping and supporting other families through her online facebook group and extremely helpful content online. Check out Jen's website at www.notmykid.com.au or via her social media on Facebook @notmykid and Instagram at @notmykid_ever. If you are also looking for help with managing your child's online usage, check out our website at www.cape-au.com where we have FREE guides, a device controls webinar or a jam packed self-paced online course so you can know EVERYTHING Kristi knows. Please also don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if you love this episode! | |||
| S2 Ep2 Breaking the cycle of Domestic Violence through therapy with Alison D'Vine | 28 mars 2024 | 01:02:55 | |
In this episode, Kristi speaks with Alison D'Vine, founder and CEO of SagencyWA, a men's behaviour change and family therapy clinic in Perth WA. Alison and Kristi discuss the challenges that couples face when dealing with domestic violence and explore the many reasons for domestic violence including unpacking the 'man box' and societal ideas and pressures on men and families that contribute to the domestic violence cycle. For more information about the Sagency's 22 week program, please check out their website at www.sagencywa.com.au If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Sexual Violence Services in WA - Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com. | |||
| Surviving Child Sex Trafficking a story of handing the shame back with Gloria Masters | 14 mars 2024 | 00:47:50 | |
Welcome back to Season 2 of The CAPE podcast - a child abuse prevention and education podcast. CONTENT WARNING - This episode talks about Gloria's experience as a survivor of child sex trafficking and abuse. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode, Kristi speaks with Gloria Masters, founder and CEO of Handing The Shame Back, a podcast and Youtube channel with resources, survivor interviews and information for Child Sexual Abuse survivors. Gloria shares her personal story of surviving child sex trafficking as a child transforming it into her personal mission of raising awareness and helping survivors heal from their abuse. Check out Handing the Shame Back's website at www.handingtheshameback.org or via their social media on Instagram and Youtube with the same name. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Sexual Violence Services in WA - Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
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| Episode 21 The impacts of pornography on our children with Kayelene Kerr | 08 déc. 2023 | 00:59:19 | |
Episode 21 The impacts of pornography on our children In this episode, Kristi speaks with ex-WA Police Officer of over 20 years, Kayelene Kerr where she talks about the impacts of pornography on our children and what we as parents should be talking about with our kids. This is a MUST listen podcast for parents of girls and boys with young children and teens especially those parents with children from 8 onwards. Kayelene and Kristi leave the podcast with ways to talk with your kids about pornography from little people all the way up to teens and how to help our kids identify why pornography is not a safe 'sexual education' tool. Check out Kayelene's website at www.esafekids.com.au or via esafekids on Instagram and Facebook.
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| Episode 20 Navigating Social Media as parents with Maddie Graham | 01 déc. 2023 | 00:51:13 | |
Episode 20 Navigating social media as parents with Maddie Graham In this episode Kristi speaks with Maddie Graham, co-founder of Changing the Conversation where they talk about Maddie's unique experiences with social media, stalkers, oversharing information and the effects of social media on young people. Maddie is a third-year psychology student at the University of Wollongong and also runs Changing the Conversation. Her heart is deeply invested in community development, encompassing school workshops, community engagement, and teaching social and emotional skills. Her mission is to create spaces where authentic conversations flourish, utilising her expertise in human behaviour and social dynamics to make positive impact. Maddie and Kristi dive into the risks with 'sharenting' and the need for more social media education and awareness. Check out Changing the Conversation via instagram www.instagram.com/changingtheconversationn/
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| Episode 19 Divorce and Separation support with Becca Maxwell | 26 nov. 2023 | 00:45:16 | |
Episode 19 Divorce and separation support with Becca Maxwell In this episode, Kristi speaks with Becca Maxwell from Do Divorce Right about the struggles and challenges of separation and divorce when dealing with children and keeping them safe. Becca is a divorce coach who coaches women through navigating the choice to separate or in the process of separation and divorce and the conversations and choices that are necessary through the process. Kristi & Becca discuss the many aspects of separation from what to consider and managing children in two homes. Becca can be found at www.dodivorceright.com or via her Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/dodivorceright. For further details about Kristi and her work go to www.cape-au.com
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| Episode 18 Cyberbullying solutions and prevention with Maggie Ciobanu from YooChooz | 14 nov. 2023 | 00:33:30 | |
Episode 18 Cyberbullying solutions and prevention with Maggie Ciobanu from YooChooz In this episode, Kristi speaks with mother Maggie Ciobanu who turned her own daughters cyberbullying into an app to help prevent kids from sending abusive message and make better choices before they engage in cyberbullying. Maggie explains her own daughters and family's experiences that led her to try and help other kids from becoming a statistic and victim of abuse online through the app YooChooz. Check out the Yoochooz app via the Apple store or via their website www.yoochooz.com.au You can also follow Maggie and YooChooz via Instagram at www.instagram.com/yoochooz/ For any further enquiries about this podcast episode, contact via our website at www.cape-au.com. Also check out our Device Safety 101 self-paced online course for more in-depth advice and help around keeping kids safe at www.cape-au.com/device-safety101.
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| Episode 17 Educate 2 Empower our children with Jayneen Sanders | 07 nov. 2023 | 00:33:29 | |
Episode 17 Educate to Empower our children with Jayneen Sanders In this episode, Kristi speaks with Jayneen Sanders aka Jay Dale, an author of over 100 stories and educational books for kids aged from 3 and up, covering topics such as body safety, consent, inclusion, feelings, respectful relationships and other important conversations for our children in the prevention of child sexual abuse and healthy childhoods. Jay is an active advocate who has spent her life ensuring parents and educators have the resources available to help keep kids safe and in this episode she discusses the power of education in empowering children and how simple body safety, consent and respectful relationships education can make a huge difference. You can follow and purchase Jay's books here: www.e2epublishing.info For any further information or to speak with Kristi, you can reach out via the CAPE-AU website - www.cape-au.com
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| Episode 16 The Better Sex Ed project with Jess Douglas-Monks | 31 oct. 2023 | 00:56:12 | |
Episode 16 The Better Sex Ed Project with Jess Douglas - Monks In this episode, Kristi talks with Jess from The Better Sex Ed Project about the importance of open discussions around sexuality education with your children, starting at a young age in age appropriate ways. Jess discusses the importance of correct anatomy and how good sexuality education can improve relationships and enhance their life experiences. Jess is studying psychology and is a sexuality and consent educator. You can find Jess on Instagram via www.instagram.com/thebettersexedproject/ | |||
| Episode 15 How to have better conversations with your kids with Mike Dyson | 26 oct. 2023 | 00:50:26 | |
Episode 15 - How to have better conversations with your kids with guest Mike Dyson. In this episode, Kristi talks to legendary human Mike Dyson. Mike is a social and emotional intelligence educator and corporate speaker who facilitates group conversations around mental health and suicide prevention, education wellbeing, healthy masculinity and corporate culture and wellbeing. In this conversation, Mike shares his 'Better Conversations with Young People' framework in which he encourages parents to 'lean in' and listen to our young people and help them explore the ideas and topics around what it means to be a human in order to create a much more connected connection with our kids. This is a highly informative and inspiring chat that will leave you with tools to help you have better conversations with your kids! Mike can be found here: https://www.mikedyson.com.au and Mike's social enterprise Good Blokes Co can be found here: https://www.goodblokes.co | |||
| Episode 14 - The Cyber Safety Project with Trent Ray | 15 oct. 2023 | 00:43:57 | |
Episode 14 - The Cyber Safety Project with Trent Ray In this episode, Kristi talks with co-founder Trent Ray of the Cyber Safety Project based in the East Coast of Australia about why he started this social enterprise to educate children and young people about digital citizenship and online safety. Trent shares his experiences as a teacher along with first hand stories of online child abuse and how parents can prevent their kids from online grooming and protect them with his simple advice. Find more information about The Cyber Safety Project here: www.cybersafetyproject.com.au
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| Episode 13 - The battle to protect your kids online with Sergio Zaragoza | 04 oct. 2023 | 01:08:41 | |
Content Warning - Discussions about Child Sexual Abuse, Online Child Exploitation and Child Sexual Abuse Material Episode 13 - The battle to protect your kids online with Sergio Zaragoza In this episode, Kristi interviews Sergio Zaragoza, an advocate and online child exploitation educator living in Spain. Sergio worked as an investigator and moderator for big tech companies YouTube and Google among other social media companies where he was exposed to Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) for over 5 years, classifying content. There is a battle going on between law enforcement, child safety and online safety advocates and educators, parents, big tech companies and legislators in this space and during this conversation, Kristi & Sergio discuss the loop holes and what parents need to know in this fight to keep our kids safe. This is a real conversation about the truth of child sexual abuse material, sextortion, self-generated child sexual abuse and computer generated CSAM. You can connect with Sergio on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sergio-zaragoza-752680201/ If any part of this discussion was upsetting or overwhelming, please check out the resources on our website for support: www.cape-au.com. Please reach out to Kristi via email on admin@cape-au.com. | |||
| Episode 12 - Stranger Danger, Tricky Behaviours and how to prevent your child from being groomed! | 29 sept. 2023 | 00:36:47 | |
Episode 12 - Stranger Danger, Tricky Behaviours and 'how to prevent your child from being groomed' Content Warning: Child Sexual Abuse and Swearing In this episode, Kristi talks about how to talk to your child about Stranger Danger and Tricky Behaviours after her Sunrise interview 2 weeks ago. Kristi also discusses her time in Darwin presenting to the Australian College of Children and Young People's Nurses as well as her 'How to prevent your child from being groomed' workshop on Tuesday night. This episode is a collaboration of information and thoughts from Kristi from the last few weeks of news and information as well as what people are asking about in her every day. If you want to know more about any of the information mentioned in the podcast episode, check out the website at www.cape-au.com.
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