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| Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine | 11 Dec 2025 | 00:50:27 | |
TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body. In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide. We talk about:
Listen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires. Connect with Sharon Marie Scott Website: https://www.sharonmariescott.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedon TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Substack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescott Sharon Marie’s Castor Oil Pack Instructions: https://sharon-marie-scott.kit.com/castor-oil-packs Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| The Secret to Mind-Blowing Pleasure with Pleasure Dom Sir Marvelous | 04 Dec 2025 | 00:46:28 | |
There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body. In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever. If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in!
Website: www.SirMarvelous.com Reviews: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/reviews Ebooks: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/shop-with-sir/ebooks Instagram: www.instagram.com/sirmarvelouskinks LoyalFans: https://www.loyalfans.com/sirmarvelouskinks Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Relationship Anarchy: Love Unbound (Featuring Adriana Smith) | 29 Aug 2025 | 00:36:44 | |
What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥 In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours. Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is your wild invitation. Connect with Adriana Smith https://www.instagram.com/adrimundo43 https://www.tiktok.com/@adrimundo43 Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Anarchy 02:11 Understanding Relationship Anarchy 04:34 Communication and Agreements in Relationships 06:31 Exploring Intimacy and Connection 12:04 Pleasure and Sexuality in Relationship Anarchy 16:08 Self-Discovery and Understanding Needs 17:41 Understanding Intentions in Relationships 20:05 Navigating Relationship Challenges 22:22 Communicating Compatibility and Connection 23:16 Exploring Relationship Anarchy 23:59 Applying Relationship Anarchy to Life 25:41 Coming to Completion | |||
| Desire Doesn't Have Flaws - It Has Flavors (Featuring Angie Enger) | 21 Aug 2025 | 00:54:58 | |
Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint. Connect with Angie Enger https://www.angieenger.com/consultation-request-form https://www.angieenger.com/resources https://www.instagram.com/angieengercoach https://www.tiktok.com/@angieengercoach Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Intimacy and Desire 01:11 Understanding Desire Types 02:56 Exploring Arousal and Sensation 06:16 Personal Experiences with Desire 07:56 The Impact of Life Changes on Desire 11:37 Desire Types and Their Misunderstandings 14:08 The Role of Communication in Relationships 17:51 Shame and Societal Expectations 21:33 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations 23:40 Navigating Different Desire Types in Relationships 27:15 Exploring Myths of Desire 29:08 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact 33:04 Understanding Desire Types 38:11 Communication in Relationships 42:21 Nervous System and Trauma 44:38 Self-Assessment of Desire 49:29 Reconnecting with Desire 51:40 Coming to Completion | |||
| 40 Ways To Come (Featuring Amari Leigh) | 08 Aug 2025 | 00:48:13 | |
Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential? In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it. You’ll learn:
Whether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen. Connect with Amari Leigh https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com/sex-guides-for-everyone/p/types-of-orgasms https://www.instagram.com/sxcoachingbyamari https://www.tiktok.com/@sxcoachingbyamari Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Orgasms 11:14 Understanding the Types of Orgasms 15:21 The Pressure of Climaxing 16:57 Distinguishing Orgasm from Ejaculation 18:39 Exploring Lesser-Known Orgasm Types 22:45 Energy and Cervical Orgasms 24:43 Overlapping Orgasms and Their Experiences 26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience 27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration 29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey 31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction 33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap 36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos 38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure 39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences | |||
| Why We Should Be Talking Butt Stuff At Brunch (Ft. Whitaker Cohen) | 31 Jul 2025 | 00:51:27 | |
We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨ Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you. We get into: Why anal play is about more than penetration How to center female pleasure in anal sex Talking about butt stuff with your partner & besties (yes, even at brunch) Emotional safety, boundaries, and anal prep basics And so much more! Connect with Whitaker Cohen https://loveamorsui.com/ https://loveamorsui.com/collections/all https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/ Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Chapters 00:00Introduction to AmorSui and Whitaker Cohen 02:00The Inspiration Behind AmorSui 04:07Breaking the Taboo: Conversations Around Anal Play 10:09Understanding the Stigma of Anal Play 13:23Education and Unlearning Shame 16:18Exploring Pleasure: The Journey of Anal Play 18:46Getting Started with Anal Play 20:27Supporting Partners in Exploration 24:39The Role of Products in Enhancing Pleasure 28:39Creating an Approachable Brand for Anal Play 29:20Cultural Expectations and Women's Pleasure 30:05Empowerment Through Open Conversations 31:57Claiming Anal Pleasure 32:27Inclusivity in Anal Play 33:36Brunch Conversations About Butt Stuff 38:23Myth Busting in Anal Play 42:10The Importance of Aftercare 47:39 Come To Completion AKA Rapid Fire Questions on Anal Play | |||
| Regulation: The Real Foreplay | 24 Jul 2025 | 00:45:14 | |
Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway. In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on. We dive into:
Whether you’re craving more connection or curious about why you feel “off” in the bedroom, this episode is your roadmap. Because regulation is the real foreplay—and sometimes, pleasure is the medicine. 🎧 Listen now and come talk. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Polyvagal Theory 01:00 Understanding the Nervous System States 01:41 The Impact of Trauma on Sexuality 04:20 Exploring Co-Regulation and Connection 06:42 Rewiring the Nervous System for Pleasure 07:41 Navigating Consent and Safety 09:38 Practical Tools for Nervous System Regulation 21:30 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) in Therapy 22:51 Supporting Partners with Trauma Histories 25:12 The Importance of Relationship Check-Ins 29:16 The Role of Aftercare in Intimacy 30:52 Navigating Communication in Relationships 32:40 Exploring Erotic Styles and Nervous System Regulation 37:18 Coming to Completion Connect with Meryl Victoria https://www.verymeryl.com https://www.instagram.com/soverynmeryl https://substack.com/@verymeryl Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Pleasure In The Pause with Brenda Braxton | 19 Jun 2025 | 00:51:57 | |
🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning? This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift. From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body at every stage. 🎭 Aging doesn’t mean fading. It means rising—with style, swagger, and yes… plenty of orgasms. ✨ Hit play, share with a friend, and don’t forget to follow the show for more unfiltered intimacy realness. Connect with Brenda Braxton https://pausebybbraxton.com/home https://pausebybbraxton.com/pause-shop https://www.instagram.com/pausebybbraxton_ Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Boundaries Are Hot. Confusion Is Not - with Dakota Ramppen | 12 Jun 2025 | 00:33:25 | |
Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth. If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes." Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck. Connect with Dakota Ramppen https://www.getrealwithdakota.com/ https://www.instagram.com/getrealwithdakota/ https://www.tiktok.com/@grwdakota_ https://open.spotify.com/show/3Gl2gUCoogXP1e8eBas1Px?si=0cfa8210490f4567 Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Intro to Dakota 00:48 Challenging Societal Norms Around Sex 01:30 Understanding Boundaries and Personal Desires 03:35 The Role of Safety in Sexual Relationships 06:41 Navigating Sexuality and Self-Worth 10:08 Intentional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics 13:50 The Journey of a Lover Girl 19:23 Embracing Queer Joy and Community 21:19 Creativity in Pleasure and Relationships 25:43 Be Gentle with You 28:50 Coming to Completion - Just To Be Queer 31:53 Come Again, Come Again, Come Again | |||
| Love Without the Ladder | 06 Jun 2025 | 00:53:05 | |
Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy? In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout. But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and intimacy. Adam brings a powerful lens to how queer relationships challenge the default and lean into non-hierarchical structures that center freedom, autonomy, and deep connection across many forms. This one’s for anyone ready to build love that’s grounded, expansive, and rooted in more than just one person. Because love without the ladder?That’s where the good stuff lives. Chapters 00:00Happy Pride Month and Intro 02:53Understanding Relationship Hierarchy 07:10Exploring Codependency 10:20The Impact of Codependency on Relationships 12:16Correlation Between Relationship Hierarchy and Codependency 12:46Navigating Loneliness in Relationships 14:12The Importance of Maintaining Individuality 15:29Compassion and Self-Discovery 17:27Understanding Codependency 18:08Queerness and Relationship Structures 21:00Breaking Down Relationship Hierarchies 23:17Exploring Non-Traditional Relationships 27:41The Role of Community in Healthy Relationships 30:52Understanding Healing and Triggers 32:34Navigating Codependency and Interdependence 35:05Building Community Beyond Relationships 39:29Self-Reflection in Relationship Dynamics 40:16Exploring Alternative Relationship Structures 46:45Embracing Queer Joy 47:41Navigating New Queerness 48:20Defining Queer Identity 50:02Coming to Completion AKA Just So We're Queer 52:00Come Again, Come Again, Come Again Connect with Adam Fitzgerald https://www.instagram.com/directorfitz1 https://www.adamsexcoach.com Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Banned, Blocked, But Not Broken | 30 May 2025 | 00:47:05 | |
Apparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged. We're breaking down shadowbans, community guidelines that aren't so "community-friendly," and why sexual freedom is free speech. This convo? It's bold, unflitered, and absolutely necessary. Grab your headphones, your sass, and your side-eye - because we're not here to whisper. Chapters 00:00 Episode Intro - Banned, Blocked, But Not Broken 02:36 Understanding the Woodhull Freedom Foundation 04:45 Defining Sexual Freedom 06:40 Censorship and Its Impact on Sexual Freedom 10:31 Current Trends in Censorship 15:02 The Pendulum of Progress in Sexual Freedom 17:38 Who is Most Affected by Censorship? 21:49 The Ripple Effect of Censorship 23:24 Understanding Sexual Freedom 24:54 The Censorship Series 28:24 Engaging with Woodhull Freedom Foundation 32:12 Becoming an Advocate 35:00 International Perspectives on Sexual Freedom 36:30 Masturbation and Sexual Freedom 37:28 Celebrating Masturbation May 41:49 Coming to Completion 46:21 Come Again, and Again, and Again Connect with Woodhull Freedom Foundation https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/ https://www.instagram.com/woodhullfreedom/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/woodhullfreedom https://www.tiktok.com/@woodhullfreedom https://www.youtube.com/@WoodhullSFA Connect with Mandy Salley https://www.instagram.com/_mandy.salley/ https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/team/mandy-salley/ Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Lube Your Life | 22 May 2025 | 00:40:30 | |
Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone. From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partnered play. Expect myth-busting, shame-shedding, and plenty of juicy conversation about drips, squirts, and everything in between.If you’ve ever thought lube was optional, think again. Let’s make it wetter, better, and way more fun. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Orla McGuire and Lubify 02:26 From Mascara Mogul to Lube Luminary 04:24 The Philosophy Behind Lubify 06:40 Understanding Different Types of Lubes 09:05 The Importance of Scent in Lubes 11:16 Choosing the Right Lube for You 13:24 The Role of Lube in Sexual Health 15:20 Demystifying Lube and Pleasure 17:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Pleasure 19:39 Communication and Intimacy 21:49 Future of Lubify and Upcoming Products 30:47 Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy 32:36 The Role of Lubrication in Self-Pleasure 33:03 Coming to Completion 35:16 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexuality 36:24 Communication and Overcoming Shame 38:42 The Importance of Conversations 39:40 Come Again, Come Again, and Come Again Connect with Orla and Lubify https://ilubify.com https://www.instagram.com/lubify https://www.tiktok.com/@ilubify Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Exclusive Lubify Discount Use AIMEE2O at checkout https://ilubify.com | |||
| Giving, Receiving, and Saying No With Confidence | Quickie Episode | 27 Nov 2025 | 00:15:48 | |
There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud. In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened. This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power. JOIN MY BLACK FRIDAY GIVEAWAY: https://www.patreon.com/c/cometalkwithaimee/membership Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6
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| Making an Impact | 15 May 2025 | 00:47:00 | |
What does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture? In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and political power of consensual exchange. Steph shared how her work in sexuality and social justice intertwines, how pleasure can be radical, and why healing doesn't have to be soft to be sacred. Whether you're in to the sting of the paddle or the spark of revolution - this conversation will leave a mark. A must-listen for kink lovers, educators, and change makers. From sensation to systems change, this episode hits hard - in the best way. Episode Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Transformative Sex Education03:06 Radically Intentional Sexuality Education05:13 The Journey into Sexuality Education07:27 Exploring Kink and Dom/Sub Dynamics09:46 Reframing Shame and Embracing Play12:19 Understanding Impact Play14:34 Communication and Consent in Impact Play16:58 Instruments of Impact Play19:24 Safety and Considerations in Impact Play21:41 Choosing Kink Partners24:44 Exploring Play Parties and Safety25:52 The Birth of SLAM: A New Movement28:04 Anti-colonial Sex Education31:38 Reimagining Pleasure and Sexual Liberation34:20 The Upcoming SLAM Conference38:23 Coming to Completion43:48 Closing Thoughts on Pleasure and Communication46:13 Come Again, and Again, and Again Connect with Steph https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/discover/rise-w-steph Explore the SLAM Conference https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/theslamcon https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/event-details/s-l-a-m-presents-sex-ed-vs-project-2025 Grab Tickets toThe Pleasure Lab: Where Women Explore and Elevate Desire (May 17th, NYC) https://posh.vip/e/the-pleasure-lab Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee/ https://www.youtube.com/@ComeTalkwithAimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Shining a Light on Shame | 08 May 2025 | 00:48:49 | |
Sexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve us. It's time to rewrite the story -and it starts here. 💥💥💥💥 Connect with Rebecca 💗 https://www.instagram.com/unscripted.intimacy Connect with Come Talk with Aimee 💋 https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Find the Yes, No, Maybe list here: 🫦 https://sexwithemily.com/yes-no-maybe-the-list-every-relationship-needs | |||
| Learning The Patterns That Reveal Domestic Abuse with Eunice Brownlee | 20 Nov 2025 | 00:51:51 | |
TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life. In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse. This conversation is an offering of validation and understanding for anyone who has ever felt confused, unsafe, or unsure of their own perceptions. If you are navigating a complicated relationship, healing from one, or loving someone who is, may this episode remind you that your intuition matters, your story is real, and there is nothing wrong with you for surviving the way you had to. Connect with Eunice Brownlee: Website: https://eunicebrownlee.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eunicebrownlee/ National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ JOIN MY BLACK FRIDAY GIVEAWAY: https://www.patreon.com/c/cometalkwithaimee/membership Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6
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| Shedding Shame And Prioritizing Play And Pleasure with Bre Green | 23 Oct 2025 | 00:42:37 | |
There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink. In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge. From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre breaks down what safe, intentional exploration really looks like. We also talk about how kink can be a space to rebuild confidence, learn your desires, and reconnect with your body after shame or suppression. This is an invitation to unlearn the guilt, lean into play, and give yourself permission to explore what feels good because pleasure is your birthright. Connect with Bre Green: Website: asesexualwellness.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bre.ase/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bre_ase Don’t miss the Candlelit Connection: A Massage Candle & Waxplay Workshop November 2nd 2-4 PM in Dallas, TX Join us for a wellness experience where you can create your own massage candle & learn fun, safe ways to explore sensual wax play! Limited seats available, save your spot now! Tickets at candlelitconnection.eventbrite.com Take the BDSM Quiz! https://bdsmtest.org/select-lang
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| What Kink Taught Me About Safety, Power, and Self-Love with Lacey Bond | 15 Oct 2025 | 00:52:56 | |
What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure? In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself. If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what aftercare really looks like, or how consent can change everything, then this conversation is for you. Connect with Lacey Bond Website: https://www.intimacylacey.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/intimacylacey TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@intimacylacey
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| Touchy Feely: A Game for Guiding Good Talk, Good Touch & Good Vibes with Candace Johnson | 09 Oct 2025 | 00:56:03 | |
What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again. In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener. This game (and this conversation) is flirty, it’s soulful, and it might just change the way you think about connection. Connect with Candace Johnson Website: touchyfeelygame.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/touchyfeelygame/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@touchyfeelygame LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/touchyfeelygame/
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| How To Leave Without Ghosting Yourself with Naomi Hattaway | 18 Sep 2025 | 00:43:01 | |
Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process? In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity. Naomi breaks down the difference between kindness and niceness, how to spot when power dynamics get in the way of leaving, and why “quiet power” can be your strongest tool during a breakup or transition. From ghosting and breadcrumbing to breakup rituals and friendship fades, this conversation is packed with real talk on how to stop overexplaining, honor your truth, and leave without ghosting yourself. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, a situationship, a friendship, or even leaving a job, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself and move forward without shame. Connect with Naomi Hattaway Website:https://www.naomihattaway.com Transition Archetype Quiz:https://www.naomihattaway.com/quiz Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/naomihattaway Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Better Orgasms Start With Your Pelvic Floor (Featuring Elyse Sparkes) | 11 Sep 2025 | 00:52:12 | |
What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level. In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for all. Elyse shares how to spot the red flags of pelvic floor issues, why “tight is right” is a damaging myth, how breath and movement play into better sex, and what simple exercises can reconnect you to your body. Whether you’re looking to reduce pain, improve sensation, or just turn up the heat, this conversation will change the way you think about your pleasure. Connect with Elyse Sparkes https://elysesparkes.com https://www.instagram.com/elysesparkes Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| The Ex Factor: Behind The Blindfold (Feat. Catherine Drysdale and Amanda Dames | 04 Sep 2025 | 01:08:26 | |
What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex? In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage. We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating. Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked. Connect with Catherine Drysdale hi@catherinedrysdale.com https://www.catherinedrysdale.com/ https://www.instagram.com/iamcatherinedrysdale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@iamcatherinedrysdale Connect with Amanda Dames https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Guests 01:03 The Concept of The Ex Factor 02:59 Dynamics of Blind Dating with Exes 04:44 The Role of Blindfolds in Dating 06:50 Creating a Unique Dating Experience 08:30 Kink and Sexuality on Stage 10:57 The Importance of Kink Education 13:35 Understanding Kink Dynamics 15:13 Sexual Compatibility in Relationships 17:43 Breaking Down Societal Norms 21:47 Navigating Rejection and Societal Expectations 21:47 Empowerment in Dating: Flipping the Script 22:24 Redefining Relationships: The Role of Community 24:50 The Experiment: Revisiting Past Relationships 27:33 The Reality of Dating: Chemistry vs. Compatibility 33:50 Changing the Narrative: Dating in Modern Culture 40:05 The Role of Influencers in Dating Dynamics 42:45 Catherine's Journey as a Host 45:15 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility 47:47 Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships 50:08 The Power of Communication in Kink 56:34 The Role of Family in Relationships 56:41 Future Plans for The Ex Factor 57:53 Coming to Completion: Kink or Cringe? | |||
| Ovulation & Main Character Energy: Understanding Your Body's Sexual Rhythm | 05 Mar 2026 | 00:50:04 | |
What if understanding your cycle could make you better in bed, more confident in your body, and more connected to your pleasure? In this episode, I sit down with fertility awareness educator Kate Douglas to explore how tracking your cycle isn't just about baby-making or avoiding pregnancy, it's about understanding when you're at your most creative, confident, and yes, turned on. Kate breaks down how hormones affect everything from your libido to your skin to who you want to have sex with, and why knowing where you are in your cycle can transform your intimate life. This conversation goes beyond basic biology into why cervical fluid is nature's lube and how becoming cycle literate can help you communicate what you need in and out of the bedroom. We talk about
If you've ever wondered why your sex drive changes throughout the month, felt disconnected from your body, or want to understand what your hormones are doing to your libido and confidence, this episode is your invitation to start listening to what your body is telling you. Connect with Kate Douglas: Website: https://helloearthbody.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helloearthbody Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6aga7AGBMwRfJA4g3dmjZ0?si=2ba47da338cf4327 Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| When Your Mind Says Yes But Your Body Says No: Understanding Embodied Consent with Arielle Zadok | 26 Feb 2026 | 01:05:49 | |
Your body is always talking to you. The question is, are you listening? In this episode, I sit down with intimacy coordinator, sexologist, and podcast host Arielle Zadok to explore embodied consent, the practice of checking in with not just your mind, but your entire body when it comes to desire, boundaries, and sexual experiences. Arielle breaks down what it means to truly listen to your body's signals, why silence is never consent, and how stress responses like fawning can complicate our ability to advocate for ourselves. This conversation goes beyond the bedroom into play parties, film sets, and everyday interactions, showing us how consent is a practice that requires slowing down, getting curious, and honoring what our bodies are telling us, even when our minds want something different. We talk about
If you've ever said yes when your body was screaming no, if you struggle with people-pleasing in sexual situations, or if you want to understand how to create truly consensual experiences, this episode will shift how you think about consent forever. Connect with Arielle: Website: www.thepleasureproducer.com Podcast: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/thepleasureproducer TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thepleasureproducer $99 Program: https://www.thepleasureproducer.com/fck Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Unbed Men, Incels, and the Crisis of Male Connection with Robyn Silber | 18 Dec 2025 | 00:37:54 | |
Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills. We talk about:
Listen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy. Connect with Robyn Silber Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deprogramm.r TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deprogramm.r Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Pussy Worship: Stop Settling for Mediocre Sex with Alexa Andre | 19 Feb 2026 | 00:51:23 | |
Pussy worship isn't just about technique. It's about enthusiasm, devotion, and creating a space where pleasure is mutual and unapologetic. In this episode, I sit down with psychologist, sexologist, and host of In Bed with Alexa, Alexa Andre. She talks about what real pussy worship looks like, why enthusiasm beats technique every time, how to identify true eaters versus people just going through the motions, and what it takes to receive pleasure without guilt or performance anxiety. This conversation is a permission slip to want more, ask for more, and settle for nothing less than worship. We talk about
If you've been settling for obligation when you deserve devotion, or if you've been wondering whether real pussy worship even exists, this episode will change how you think about pleasure, reciprocity, and what you deserve in the bedroom. Connect with Alexa Website: https://sexwithalexa.co/ Patreon: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/in-bed-with-alexa-have-better-sex/id1721576655 Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Turned On by the Truth: The Power of Real Erotica with Carly Pifer | 12 Feb 2026 | 00:48:31 | |
What happens when we stop whispering about desire and start telling the truth about it? In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I’m joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore, a platform dedicated to sharing real, confessional erotica. Not fantasy wrapped in perfection, but honest stories about sex, longing, curiosity, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human in a body. We talk about why storytelling can be such a powerful gateway to understanding our desires, how writing about pleasure can shift shame into self-awareness, and why seeing real experiences reflected back to us can feel both liberating and deeply validating. This conversation explores how erotica can be more than entertainment. It can be a tool for self-discovery, communication, and reclaiming pleasure on our own terms. In this episode, we talk about:
If you’ve ever been curious about erotica, or wondered why stories can feel so powerful when it comes to desire, this episode opens the door to a whole new way of thinking about pleasure. Connect with Carly Pifer Website: https://readaurore.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/readaurore Join The Galentines Giveaway! https://www.instagram.com/p/DUO-b_5FvHB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Stepping Into Your Pleasure Power | Quickie Episode | 05 Feb 2026 | 00:25:24 | |
What does it actually mean to step into your pleasure power? In this quickie episode, I'm getting personal and sharing my own journey from purity culture to tapping into my pleasure power. I’m pulling back the curtain on how I reclaimed my pleasure and share about how I went from thinking "sex isn't fun" to discovering what my body is truly capable of. This is the story of how I went from having painful, controlled sex in my marriage to fully owning my erotic self. It's about the 3 P's that changed everything for me: Permission, Presence, and Play. We talk about
If you've ever felt disconnected from your pleasure or been told that sex is supposed to hurt, this episode is your permission slip to want more. Join The Galentines Giveaway! https://www.instagram.com/p/DUO-b_5FvHB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join
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| Rewriting Your Sex Script: Letting Go of Performance and Reclaiming Pleasure with Ian Kerner | 29 Jan 2026 | 00:48:54 | |
So, tell me about the last time you had sex… In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing New York Times bestselling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner, whose books She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex have deeply influenced how I think about pleasure, intimacy, and sexual connection. Ian joins me for a grounded, refreshing conversation about sex scripts, performance pressure, desire, and why so many people feel disconnected from pleasure even when they’re doing everything “right.” We talk about
If you’ve been craving intimacy that feels less pressured, more connected, and actually pleasurable, this episode offers a new way to understand what great sex really requires. Connect with Ian Kerner Website: https://www.iankerner.com/ Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join
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| Behind the Scenes of a Fun, Safe, and Well-Vetted Play Party with Le Organizer | 22 Jan 2026 | 00:47:30 | |
If you have ever been curious about play parties but also slightly terrified, confused, or convinced it is just one big chaotic orgy, this episode is for you. Consider this your permission slip to get informed before you go out to play. In this episode, I sit down with Le Organizer, a longtime play party host and event producer, for a no-BS conversation about what actually happens at play parties and how to navigate them safely. We break down the biggest misconceptions, why most play parties are far more social than sexual, and how consent, communication, and aftercare are taken seriously in well-run spaces. We talk about
Listen in for an honest and informative conversation that demystifies play parties and puts consent, safety, and pleasure back where they belong. Whether you are just curious or thinking about buying your first ticket, this episode will help you walk in informed, confident, and grounded. Connect with Le Organizer Instagram: http://instagram.com/le_organizer Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join
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| Why Women Are Obsessed with Heated Rivalry with Rebecca Giguere | 15 Jan 2026 | 00:57:29 | |
If you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers. In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere, intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losing their minds over this show, from the slow burn tension and locker room glances to the emotional vulnerability, tenderness, and male softness we rarely get to see on screen. We get into masculinity, taboo desire, emotional safety, and why watching men be both strong and gentle at the same time is doing things to us. We talk about:
Listen in for a swoony, chaotic, emotionally unhinged breakdown of Heated Rivalry that will make you want to rewatch the entire series, text someone you miss, and rethink what you actually want from love, sex, and connection. Connect with Rebecca Giguere, Instagram: www.instagram.com/unscripted.intimacy Website: www.unscriptedintimacy.com Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join
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| Women-Led Casual Sex: Getting What You Actually Came For with Jordan D'Nelle | 08 Jan 2026 | 00:48:31 | |
Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have. We talk about:
Listen in for a real, unfiltered conversation that gives you permission to enjoy casual sex with confidence, self-respect, and zero shame. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/ Jordan’s Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/ Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join
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| When Making People Laugh is Almost as Good as Making Them Come with Rick Younger | 25 Dec 2025 | 00:44:25 | |
Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac. We talk about:
Listen in for a laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred conversation that blends street-smart wisdom with Broadway flair, and proves that the best intimacy is built on humor, honesty, and a willingness to learn. Connect with Rick Younger: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RickYounger/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/rickyounger Facebook: https://facebook.com/rickyoungerpage TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rickyounger Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Throw Out the Script: Neuroqueer Sex, Desire & Intimacy with Emily Zawadzki | 18 Jun 2026 | 00:44:01 | |
The script you were handed about sex and relationships was never written for you. And if you are neuroqueer, it probably never even came close. In this episode, I sit down with Emily Zawadzki, also known as Emily Zed Sex Ed, a Canadian queer sex educator, coach, and support worker with over 10 years of experience supporting kinky neuroqueer folks. We talk about what it means to be neuroqueer, how social conditioning shapes the way we think about sex and relationships long before we even start having them, and how masking shows up in the bedroom in ways we might not even recognize. Emily also shares how her wife's ADHD diagnosis transformed the way they communicate and connect, and why redefining what intimacy looks like is one of the most liberating things a neuroqueer person can do. We also talk about:
If you have ever felt like you were performing in your relationships, or wondered why the standard relationship script never quite fit, this episode is your permission slip to throw it out and write your own. Connect with Emily Zawadzki Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyzedsexed/ Website: https://www.emilyzedsexed.com/ From Awkward to Assured Webinar: https://www.emilyzedsexed.com/neuroqueer-webinar Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| The Art of Receiving: Somatic Healing and Expanding Your Pleasure Threshold with Lorina Manzanita | 11 Jun 2026 | 00:44:23 | |
What if the reason you struggle to receive pleasure has everything to do with how your nervous system was wired? In this episode, I sit down with Lorina Manzanita, somatic intimacy coach, somatic experiencing trauma resolution practitioner, author, and educator with over 25 years of experience in the healing arts. We get into why so many empaths, caregivers, and people pleasers have a hard time receiving, how your nervous system sets your pleasure threshold, and how to expand your capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and connection through somatic practices. Lorina also introduces us to the savoring practice, the Wheel of Consent, and her own framework called the Four Rs of Fulfillment, all of which are practical tools you can start using right now. We also talk about:
If you have ever deflected a compliment, tolerated less than you deserve, or felt uncomfortable the moment things started to feel really good, this episode is your permission slip. You do not have to nibble on scraps. The full course meal is available, and you are allowed to receive it. Connect with Lorina Manzanita Website: https://www.lorinamanzanita.com/ Held and Fulfilled: A 6-week small group program for professional empaths who struggle with owning our desires & boundaries: https://integratingeros.com/ Nourished: The Neuroscience of Receiving Beautifully http://www.integratingeros.com/nourished-mini-course Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| How to Navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy and Build a Stronger Relationship | 09 Apr 2026 | 01:01:13 | |
Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding. In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it is not just about having more options, and how it requires way more communication, clarity, and emotional awareness than people expect. Dr. Lee shares his own experience navigating an open marriage, the realities of jealousy, and why most people get into trouble when they try to open a relationship from a place of disconnection instead of stability. We also get into dating apps, emotional availability, boundaries, and the difference between fear and caution when navigating new connections. We talk about:
If you have ever been curious about ethical non-monogamy, already exploring it, or questioning whether it could work for you, this episode will give you a much more honest picture of what it actually requires. It is not about more people, it is about more honesty, more communication, and a whole lot more self-awareness. Connect with Dr. Lee Phillips https://www.drleephillips.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drleephillips/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Safe Slut Energy: Rewriting Sex, Stigma & STI Shame with Tricia Wise | 02 Apr 2026 | 00:41:08 | |
What if the thing you were taught to fear most about your sex life is actually… not a big deal? In this episode, we are dismantling one of the most overblown, misunderstood, and unnecessarily stigmatized topics in sex: herpes. And no, your sex life is not over. Not even close. I’m sitting down with the iconic Tricia Wise, also known as Safe Slut, for a bold, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about what it really means to navigate dating, sex, and identity after a herpes diagnosis. We talk about how she coined “Safe Slut” the same day she was diagnosed, how she turned that into a platform that educates and empowers thousands, and why herpes is way more common and way less dramatic than we have been led to believe. From disclosure and dating to sex work, stigma, and reclaiming the word “slut,” this conversation is equal parts liberating and real. We talk about:
If you have ever felt shame around your body, your desires, or your sexual history, this episode is your reminder that you get to define your own narrative. Sex can still be hot, fun, and deeply connected, and honestly, maybe even better when you stop buying into the fear. Connect with Tricia: OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/safeslvt Twitter: https://twitter.com/safe_slut IG: https://www.instagram.com/safe.slut/?hl=en Substack: https://safeslut.substack.com/ Shop: https://www.safeslut.shop/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/safeslut Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk7lX24XQC8CckzeknAhQ9A Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@safe.slut?_t=8UuUIhvr2be&_r=1 Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Compulsory Sexuality: You Don't Have to Want Sex with Jamie Azar | 26 Mar 2026 | 00:48:02 | |
What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live? In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need. I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms. We talk about: - what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere - why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you - the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation - how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship - expanding your definition of sex and intimacy - centring pleasure over performance If you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good. Connect with Jamie Azar: https://linktr.ee/eroticexpressionsedu Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Bad Bitch In The Streets And The Sheets with Brittany Brave | 19 Mar 2026 | 00:40:29 | |
Being a bad bitch isn't just about looking cute and doing self-care. It's about showing up for what you think is right, walking away from what's not working for you, and speaking the fuck out. In this episode, I sit down with comedian, actress, and Bad Bitch Brunch creator Brittany Brave to talk about what it really means to embody confidence in every area of your life, including the bedroom. Brittany shares how she took back Bad Bitch Brunch from a misogynistic business owner, why she's an advocate for intimate partner violence survivors, and what she'll teach her future daughter about sex, agency, and consent. This conversation gets real about domestic violence, sexual performance pressure, and betting on yourself as the foundation for everything. We talk about
If you've been performing instead of enjoying, people-pleasing instead of speaking out, or wondering what confidence actually looks like in practice, this episode will remind you that being a bad bitch starts with betting on yourself. Connect with Brittany Brave Website: https://www.brittanybrave.live/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanybrave TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brittanybravecomedy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoP2EnIzaiO5EC0UjyQQ7VA Watch Bad Bitch Brunch Live: https://linktr.ee/brittanybravecomedy Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Busting Common Sex Myths and Getting Cliterate with Dr. Sonya Maya | 12 Mar 2026 | 00:51:27 | |
From vibrator myths to dating app disasters, we're breaking down what sex education actually missed. In this episode, I sit down with licensed psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Sonya Maya to bust myths, challenge performative sexuality, and talk about what real pleasure actually looks like. Sonya breaks down why chemistry does not equate to compatibility, how vibrators actually build nerve endings (not numb them out), and why that whole "if he wanted to, he would" narrative is more nuanced than what other “experts” are trying to put it. This conversation gets into the science of hormones during sex, the difference between swingers spaces and ethical non-monogamy communities, and why social media is both helping and hurting our sex lives. We talk about
If you've been scrolling TikTok for sex advice, watching porn as your primary sex education, or trying to figure out why your dating life feels hollow, this episode will shift your perspective on what good sex actually requires. Connect with Dr. Sonya Maya Website: https://www.sonyamaya.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sonyamaya/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonya_maya?lang=en YouTube: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonya_maya?lang=en Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee | |||
| After Hours with Steph Zapata | 04 Jun 2026 | 00:17:21 | |
How well do you know your finger techniques? In this second anniversary episode, I’m sharing another After Hours moment with you! This time, it’s with Steph Zapata, sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We kick things off with a game called Fingering It Out, where Steph schools us on fingering techniques, erogenous zones, and why lube is always the answer. Then we get real and go deeper into Steph's personal journey from years of shame and disconnection to reclaiming their body, their pleasure, and themselves. We also talk about:
If you have ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in your head during sex, or like pleasure is something you have to earn, this episode is your reminder that becoming whole is a process, shame is not yours to keep, and dirty talk might just be the hack that changes your sex life. Connect with Steph Zapata https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph/ https://www.tiktok.com/@risewsteph Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| After Hours with Orla Maguire of Lubify | 28 May 2026 | 00:14:47 | |
Did you know that different kinds of lube are designed for different sensitivities, toys, and sexual activities? Because yes, your lube actually matters more than you think. In this anniversary episode, I’m sharing an After Hours moment with previous podcast guest and founder of Lubify, Orla Maguire. We break down the differences between water-based, silicone, oil-based, and organic lubes, how to know which one works best for your needs, and why ingredients matter when it comes to intimate care. We also talk about:
If you have ever grabbed a random bottle of lube without thinking twice, this episode might completely change the way you think about pleasure products. Your body deserves care, attention, and products that actually support your pleasure instead of working against it. Connect with Orla Maguire https://www.instagram.com/lubify https://www.tiktok.com/@ilubify Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Sacred Sexuality: Your Pleasure is Your Birthright with Elizabeth Hudson | 21 May 2026 | 00:37:00 | |
Your sexual energy is not dirty, shameful, or something you need to suppress. It is life force, creativity, connection, and one of the most powerful expressions of being human. In this episode, I sit down with transformational life coach, Kundalini yoga teacher, and Sacred Alchemy podcast host Elizabeth Hudson for a deeply expansive conversation about sacred sexuality, shame, spiritual connection, and reclaiming pleasure. We talk about the ways religion, purity culture, trauma, and societal conditioning disconnect people from their bodies and desires, and why so many people carry shame around the very energy that created them. Elizabeth breaks down the sacral chakra, sexual energy as creative force, and the connection between spirituality, embodiment, pleasure, and healing. We also talk about:
If you have ever struggled with shame around your body, your pleasure, or your desires, this episode is your reminder that there is nothing inherently wrong with your sexuality. Your body is not something to disconnect from. It is something to come home to. Connect with Elizabeth Hudson https://www.instagram.com/elizabeth.hudson11/ https://elizabeth-hudson.com/sexual-alchemy-podcast/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Erotic Bodywork, Consent, and Learning to Feel Safer in My Body | 14 May 2026 | 00:27:47 | |
What exactly happens in an erotic bodywork retreat? In this solo episode, I take you behind the scenes of my experience attending a seven-day Back to the Body retreat in Sicily with Pamela Madsen. Ten days after interviewing Pamela on the podcast, I booked a flight to Italy and found myself immersed in somatic work, erotic touch, sisterhood, consent conversations, breathwork, body-based healing, and some of the most profound nervous system regulation I have ever experienced. I share what the retreat structure actually looked like, what surprised me the most, the emotional and physical shifts that came up during the experience, and why this work was about so much more than orgasms. I talk about:
If you have ever been curious about erotic bodywork, somatic sex education, or retreats like Back to the Body, this episode is an honest look at what these spaces can actually feel like from someone who experienced it firsthand. This conversation is not about shock value or fantasy. It is about embodiment, consent, safety, pleasure, and what becomes possible when you finally allow yourself to fully drop into your body. Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Abortion Positivity: Dismantling Shame and Stigma with Sophie Nir | 07 May 2026 | 00:45:19 | |
Abortion is not shameful, controversial, or up for debate. It is normal, common, and a fundamental part of healthcare. In this episode, I sit down with Sophie Nir, co-founder and CEO of the Abortion Positivity Project, for a bold, unfiltered, and deeply necessary conversation about abortion, stigma, and reclaiming the narrative. We talk about what abortion positivity actually means, why abortion is not a political issue but a politicised one, and how shame has been intentionally taught and reinforced in both culture and policy. Sophie breaks down the language we have been using for decades, from “pro-choice” to “safe, legal, and rare,” and why those frameworks actually distance us from abortion instead of supporting it. We also get into the real-life impact of abortion access, why abortion is overwhelmingly common and supported, and what it looks like to move from apologising for abortion to proudly standing behind it. We talk about:
If you are ready to drop the shame, question the narratives you have been taught, and start speaking about abortion with clarity and confidence, this episode is your permission slip. You do not need to soften it. You do not need to apologise for it. You can support it, talk about it, and stand behind it fully. Connect with Sophie Nir https://www.abortionpositivity.com/, https://www.instagram.com/abortionpositivity/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen | 30 Apr 2026 | 00:39:09 | |
What if the reason your desire feels confusing, inconsistent, or even absent… is because it is not actually aligned with who you think you are? In this episode, I sit down with the OG in the sexual wellness space, somatic sex educator, and founder of Back to the Body Retreats, Pamela Madsen, for a bold and deeply eye-opening conversation about sexual identity and what it really means to live in alignment with your desire. We talk about the sexual authenticity model, the tension between who you believe you are, what you actually want, and how you show up in your relationships. Pamela shares her journey from being the “good girl” who had the perfect life on paper to confronting desire that did not fit her identity, and how that misalignment became the catalyst for everything that followed. We also get into why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies, how desire gets suppressed over time, and what it takes to reconnect with your pleasure in a real, embodied way. We talk about:
If you have ever felt like your desire does not match the life you are living, or like you are playing a role instead of actually experiencing pleasure, this episode is your invitation to get honest about what you want and start aligning your life around it. Your desire is not random. It is information. And when you learn how to listen to it, everything begins to shift. Connect with Pamela Madsen https://www.instagram.com/backtothebodyorg/ https://www.facebook.com/BacktotheBody/ https://www.instagram.com/thepamelamadsen/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee | |||
| Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon | 23 Apr 2026 | 00:47:37 | |
What if the end of your marriage is actually the beginning of your best sex life? In this episode, I sit down with Amber Joy Simon, founder of QUIVR, for a real, funny, and deeply validating conversation about sex after divorce and what it actually means to choose pleasure over pressure. We talk about how so many women leave long-term relationships disconnected from their bodies, stuck in routine, and performing instead of actually experiencing pleasure. Amber shares her own journey from being in a formulaic sex life to rediscovering desire, safety, and curiosity, and why divorce can be the moment where everything finally opens up. We also talk about:
If you are navigating life after divorce, feeling unsure about intimacy again, or ready to experience sex in a completely different way, this episode is your reminder that this is not the end, it is a reset. You get to rewrite the script, choose yourself, and build a sex life that actually feels good in your body. Connect with Amber Joy Simon https://www.instagram.com/quivr_method/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||
| The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers | 16 Apr 2026 | 01:11:21 | |
What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself? In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours. Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency. We talk about:
If you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own. Connect with Lauren Elise Rogers https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ https://sexedforyou.com/connect Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee | |||