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Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine11 Dec 202500:50:27

TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST 


There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.


In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide. 


We talk about: 

  • untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followed

  • reclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body again

  • unlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensation

  • using sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformation

  • embodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicine

Listen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.


Connect with Sharon Marie Scott 

Website: https://www.sharonmariescott.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedon

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Substack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescott

Sharon Marie’s Castor Oil Pack Instructions: https://sharon-marie-scott.kit.com/castor-oil-packs


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The Secret to Mind-Blowing Pleasure with Pleasure Dom Sir Marvelous04 Dec 202500:46:28

There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.


In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.


If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in! 


Connect with Sir Marvelous

Website: www.SirMarvelous.com

Reviews: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/reviews

Ebooks: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/shop-with-sir/ebooks

Instagram: www.instagram.com/sirmarvelouskinks

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Relationship Anarchy: Love Unbound (Featuring Adriana Smith)29 Aug 202500:36:44

What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.

Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is your wild invitation.


Connect with Adriana Smith

https://www.instagram.com/adrimundo43

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Anarchy

02:11 Understanding Relationship Anarchy

04:34 Communication and Agreements in Relationships

06:31 Exploring Intimacy and Connection

12:04 Pleasure and Sexuality in Relationship Anarchy

16:08 Self-Discovery and Understanding Needs

17:41 Understanding Intentions in Relationships

20:05 Navigating Relationship Challenges

22:22 Communicating Compatibility and Connection

23:16 Exploring Relationship Anarchy

23:59 Applying Relationship Anarchy to Life

25:41 Coming to Completion

Desire Doesn't Have Flaws - It Has Flavors (Featuring Angie Enger)21 Aug 202500:54:58

Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.


Connect with Angie Enger

https://www.angieenger.com/

https://www.angieenger.com/consultation-request-form

https://www.angieenger.com/resources

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Self-Intimacy and Desire

01:11 Understanding Desire Types

02:56 Exploring Arousal and Sensation

06:16 Personal Experiences with Desire

07:56 The Impact of Life Changes on Desire

11:37 Desire Types and Their Misunderstandings

14:08 The Role of Communication in Relationships

17:51 Shame and Societal Expectations

21:33 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations

23:40 Navigating Different Desire Types in Relationships

27:15 Exploring Myths of Desire

29:08 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact

33:04 Understanding Desire Types

38:11 Communication in Relationships

42:21 Nervous System and Trauma

44:38 Self-Assessment of Desire

49:29 Reconnecting with Desire

51:40 Coming to Completion

40 Ways To Come (Featuring Amari Leigh)08 Aug 202500:48:13

Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?

In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.

You’ll learn:

  • The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)

  • Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge it

  • How to communicate your desires with more confidence

  • Why your body holds more pleasure than you’ve been taught

Whether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen.


Connect with Amari Leigh

https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com

https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com/sex-guides-for-everyone/p/types-of-orgasms

https://www.instagram.com/sxcoachingbyamari

https://www.tiktok.com/@sxcoachingbyamari


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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Orgasms

11:14 Understanding the Types of Orgasms

15:21 The Pressure of Climaxing

16:57 Distinguishing Orgasm from Ejaculation

18:39 Exploring Lesser-Known Orgasm Types

22:45 Energy and Cervical Orgasms

24:43 Overlapping Orgasms and Their Experiences

26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience

27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration

29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey

31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction

33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap

36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos

38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure

39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences



Why We Should Be Talking Butt Stuff At Brunch (Ft. Whitaker Cohen)31 Jul 202500:51:27

We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨

Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.


We get into:

Why anal play is about more than penetration

How to center female pleasure in anal sex

Talking about butt stuff with your partner & besties (yes, even at brunch)

Emotional safety, boundaries, and anal prep basics


And so much more!


Connect with Whitaker Cohen

https://loveamorsui.com/

https://loveamorsui.com/collections/all

https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/


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Chapters

00:00Introduction to AmorSui and Whitaker Cohen

02:00The Inspiration Behind AmorSui

04:07Breaking the Taboo: Conversations Around Anal Play

10:09Understanding the Stigma of Anal Play

13:23Education and Unlearning Shame

16:18Exploring Pleasure: The Journey of Anal Play

18:46Getting Started with Anal Play

20:27Supporting Partners in Exploration

24:39The Role of Products in Enhancing Pleasure

28:39Creating an Approachable Brand for Anal Play

29:20Cultural Expectations and Women's Pleasure

30:05Empowerment Through Open Conversations

31:57Claiming Anal Pleasure

32:27Inclusivity in Anal Play

33:36Brunch Conversations About Butt Stuff

38:23Myth Busting in Anal Play

42:10The Importance of Aftercare

47:39 Come To Completion AKA Rapid Fire Questions on Anal Play

Regulation: The Real Foreplay24 Jul 202500:45:14

Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway.


In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on.


We dive into:

  • How nervous system regulation sets the stage for deeper connection

  • Why some bodies shut down—and how to invite them back online

  • Using sex as a tool for nervous system regulation

  • Somatic practices to shift from freeze to flow


Whether you’re craving more connection or curious about why you feel “off” in the bedroom, this episode is your roadmap. Because regulation is the real foreplay—and sometimes, pleasure is the medicine.


🎧 Listen now and come talk.
Subscribe, share, and review if it hit home.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Polyvagal Theory

01:00 Understanding the Nervous System States

01:41 The Impact of Trauma on Sexuality

04:20 Exploring Co-Regulation and Connection

06:42 Rewiring the Nervous System for Pleasure

07:41 Navigating Consent and Safety

09:38 Practical Tools for Nervous System Regulation

21:30 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) in Therapy

22:51 Supporting Partners with Trauma Histories

25:12 The Importance of Relationship Check-Ins

29:16 The Role of Aftercare in Intimacy

30:52 Navigating Communication in Relationships

32:40 Exploring Erotic Styles and Nervous System Regulation

37:18 Coming to Completion


Connect with Meryl Victoria

https://www.verymeryl.com

https://www.instagram.com/soverynmeryl

https://substack.com/@verymeryl


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Pleasure In The Pause with Brenda Braxton19 Jun 202500:51:57

🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton


What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning?


This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift.


From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body at every stage.


🎭 Aging doesn’t mean fading. It means rising—with style, swagger, and yes… plenty of orgasms.


Hit play, share with a friend, and don’t forget to follow the show for more unfiltered intimacy realness.


Connect with Brenda Braxton

https://pausebybbraxton.com/home

https://pausebybbraxton.com/pause-shop

https://www.instagram.com/pausebybbraxton_


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Boundaries Are Hot. Confusion Is Not - with Dakota Ramppen12 Jun 202500:33:25

Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth.


If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes."


Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck.


Connect with Dakota Ramppen

https://www.getrealwithdakota.com/

https://www.instagram.com/getrealwithdakota/

https://www.tiktok.com/@grwdakota_

https://open.spotify.com/show/3Gl2gUCoogXP1e8eBas1Px?si=0cfa8210490f4567


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Chapters

00:00 Welcome and Intro to Dakota

00:48 Challenging Societal Norms Around Sex

01:30 Understanding Boundaries and Personal Desires

03:35 The Role of Safety in Sexual Relationships

06:41 Navigating Sexuality and Self-Worth

10:08 Intentional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

13:50 The Journey of a Lover Girl

19:23 Embracing Queer Joy and Community

21:19 Creativity in Pleasure and Relationships

25:43 Be Gentle with You 28:50 Coming to Completion - Just To Be Queer

31:53 Come Again, Come Again, Come Again

Love Without the Ladder 06 Jun 202500:53:05

Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy?


In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout.


But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and intimacy.


Adam brings a powerful lens to how queer relationships challenge the default and lean into non-hierarchical structures that center freedom, autonomy, and deep connection across many forms.


This one’s for anyone ready to build love that’s grounded, expansive, and rooted in more than just one person.


Because love without the ladder?That’s where the good stuff lives.


Chapters

00:00Happy Pride Month and Intro

02:53Understanding Relationship Hierarchy

07:10Exploring Codependency

10:20The Impact of Codependency on Relationships

12:16Correlation Between Relationship Hierarchy and Codependency

12:46Navigating Loneliness in Relationships

14:12The Importance of Maintaining Individuality

15:29Compassion and Self-Discovery

17:27Understanding Codependency

18:08Queerness and Relationship Structures

21:00Breaking Down Relationship Hierarchies

23:17Exploring Non-Traditional Relationships

27:41The Role of Community in Healthy Relationships

30:52Understanding Healing and Triggers

32:34Navigating Codependency and Interdependence

35:05Building Community Beyond Relationships

39:29Self-Reflection in Relationship Dynamics

40:16Exploring Alternative Relationship Structures

46:45Embracing Queer Joy

47:41Navigating New Queerness

48:20Defining Queer Identity

50:02Coming to Completion AKA Just So We're Queer

52:00Come Again, Come Again, Come Again


Connect with Adam Fitzgerald

https://www.instagram.com/directorfitz1

https://www.adamsexcoach.com


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Banned, Blocked, But Not Broken30 May 202500:47:05

Apparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged.


We're breaking down shadowbans, community guidelines that aren't so "community-friendly," and why sexual freedom is free speech. This convo? It's bold, unflitered, and absolutely necessary.


Grab your headphones, your sass, and your side-eye - because we're not here to whisper.


Chapters

00:00 Episode Intro - Banned, Blocked, But Not Broken

02:36 Understanding the Woodhull Freedom Foundation

04:45 Defining Sexual Freedom

06:40 Censorship and Its Impact on Sexual Freedom

10:31 Current Trends in Censorship

15:02 The Pendulum of Progress in Sexual Freedom

17:38 Who is Most Affected by Censorship?

21:49 The Ripple Effect of Censorship

23:24 Understanding Sexual Freedom

24:54 The Censorship Series

28:24 Engaging with Woodhull Freedom Foundation

32:12 Becoming an Advocate

35:00 International Perspectives on Sexual Freedom

36:30 Masturbation and Sexual Freedom

37:28 Celebrating Masturbation May

41:49 Coming to Completion

46:21 Come Again, and Again, and Again


Connect with Woodhull Freedom Foundation

https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/

https://www.instagram.com/woodhullfreedom/

https://www.linkedin.com/company/woodhullfreedom

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https://www.youtube.com/@WoodhullSFA


Connect with Mandy Salley

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Lube Your Life22 May 202500:40:30

Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone.


From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partnered play.


Expect myth-busting, shame-shedding, and plenty of juicy conversation about drips, squirts, and everything in between.If you’ve ever thought lube was optional, think again.


Let’s make it wetter, better, and way more fun.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Orla McGuire and Lubify

02:26 From Mascara Mogul to Lube Luminary

04:24 The Philosophy Behind Lubify

06:40 Understanding Different Types of Lubes

09:05 The Importance of Scent in Lubes

11:16 Choosing the Right Lube for You

13:24 The Role of Lube in Sexual Health

15:20 Demystifying Lube and Pleasure

17:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Pleasure

19:39 Communication and Intimacy

21:49 Future of Lubify and Upcoming Products

30:47 Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy

32:36 The Role of Lubrication in Self-Pleasure

33:03 Coming to Completion

35:16 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexuality

36:24 Communication and Overcoming Shame

38:42 The Importance of Conversations

39:40 Come Again, Come Again, and Come Again


Connect with Orla and Lubify

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Giving, Receiving, and Saying No With Confidence | Quickie Episode27 Nov 202500:15:48

There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.


In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened.


This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power.


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Making an Impact15 May 202500:47:00

What does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture?

In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work.


We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and political power of consensual exchange. Steph shared how her work in sexuality and social justice intertwines, how pleasure can be radical, and why healing doesn't have to be soft to be sacred.


Whether you're in to the sting of the paddle or the spark of revolution - this conversation will leave a mark.


A must-listen for kink lovers, educators, and change makers. From sensation to systems change, this episode hits hard - in the best way.


Episode Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Transformative Sex Education03:06 Radically Intentional Sexuality Education05:13 The Journey into Sexuality Education07:27 Exploring Kink and Dom/Sub Dynamics09:46 Reframing Shame and Embracing Play12:19 Understanding Impact Play14:34 Communication and Consent in Impact Play16:58 Instruments of Impact Play19:24 Safety and Considerations in Impact Play21:41 Choosing Kink Partners24:44 Exploring Play Parties and Safety25:52 The Birth of SLAM: A New Movement28:04 Anti-colonial Sex Education31:38 Reimagining Pleasure and Sexual Liberation34:20 The Upcoming SLAM Conference38:23 Coming to Completion43:48 Closing Thoughts on Pleasure and Communication46:13 Come Again, and Again, and Again


Connect with Steph

https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/

https://www.tiktok.com/discover/rise-w-steph


Explore the SLAM Conference

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/theslamcon

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/event-details/s-l-a-m-presents-sex-ed-vs-project-2025


Grab Tickets toThe Pleasure Lab: Where Women Explore and Elevate Desire (May 17th, NYC)

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Shining a Light on Shame08 May 202500:48:49

Sexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve us. It's time to rewrite the story -and it starts here.

💥💥💥💥


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Find the Yes, No, Maybe list here: 🫦

https://sexwithemily.com/yes-no-maybe-the-list-every-relationship-needs

Learning The Patterns That Reveal Domestic Abuse with Eunice Brownlee20 Nov 202500:51:51

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence 


There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.


In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.


This conversation is an offering of validation and understanding for anyone who has ever felt confused, unsafe, or unsure of their own perceptions. If you are navigating a complicated relationship, healing from one, or loving someone who is, may this episode remind you that your intuition matters, your story is real, and there is nothing wrong with you for surviving the way you had to.


Connect with Eunice Brownlee: 

Website: https://eunicebrownlee.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eunicebrownlee/


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Shedding Shame And Prioritizing Play And Pleasure with Bre Green23 Oct 202500:42:37

There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink.


In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge.


From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre breaks down what safe, intentional exploration really looks like. We also talk about how kink can be a space to rebuild confidence, learn your desires, and reconnect with your body after shame or suppression. This is an invitation to unlearn the guilt, lean into play, and give yourself permission to explore what feels good because pleasure is your birthright.


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Website: asesexualwellness.com

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What Kink Taught Me About Safety, Power, and Self-Love with Lacey Bond15 Oct 202500:52:56

What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?

In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.

If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what aftercare really looks like, or how consent can change everything, then this conversation is for you.

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Touchy Feely: A Game for Guiding Good Talk, Good Touch & Good Vibes with Candace Johnson 09 Oct 202500:56:03

What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.


In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.


This game (and this conversation) is flirty, it’s soulful, and it might just change the way you think about connection.


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Website: touchyfeelygame.com

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How To Leave Without Ghosting Yourself with Naomi Hattaway18 Sep 202500:43:01

Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?


In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.


Naomi breaks down the difference between kindness and niceness, how to spot when power dynamics get in the way of leaving, and why “quiet power” can be your strongest tool during a breakup or transition. From ghosting and breadcrumbing to breakup rituals and friendship fades, this conversation is packed with real talk on how to stop overexplaining, honor your truth, and leave without ghosting yourself. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, a situationship, a friendship, or even leaving a job, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself and move forward without shame.


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Better Orgasms Start With Your Pelvic Floor (Featuring Elyse Sparkes)11 Sep 202500:52:12

What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.

In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for all.

Elyse shares how to spot the red flags of pelvic floor issues, why “tight is right” is a damaging myth, how breath and movement play into better sex, and what simple exercises can reconnect you to your body. Whether you’re looking to reduce pain, improve sensation, or just turn up the heat, this conversation will change the way you think about your pleasure.

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The Ex Factor: Behind The Blindfold (Feat. Catherine Drysdale and Amanda Dames 04 Sep 202501:08:26

What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex? 

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage.

We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating.

Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked. 


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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Guests

01:03 The Concept of The Ex Factor

02:59 Dynamics of Blind Dating with Exes

04:44 The Role of Blindfolds in Dating

06:50 Creating a Unique Dating Experience

08:30 Kink and Sexuality on Stage

10:57 The Importance of Kink Education

13:35 Understanding Kink Dynamics

15:13 Sexual Compatibility in Relationships

17:43 Breaking Down Societal Norms

21:47 Navigating Rejection and Societal Expectations

21:47 Empowerment in Dating: Flipping the Script

22:24 Redefining Relationships: The Role of Community

24:50 The Experiment: Revisiting Past Relationships

27:33 The Reality of Dating: Chemistry vs. Compatibility

33:50 Changing the Narrative: Dating in Modern Culture

40:05 The Role of Influencers in Dating Dynamics

42:45 Catherine's Journey as a Host

45:15 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility

47:47 Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships

50:08 The Power of Communication in Kink

56:34 The Role of Family in Relationships

56:41 Future Plans for The Ex Factor

57:53 Coming to Completion: Kink or Cringe?

Ovulation & Main Character Energy: Understanding Your Body's Sexual Rhythm 05 Mar 202600:50:04

What if understanding your cycle could make you better in bed, more confident in your body, and more connected to your pleasure?


In this episode, I sit down with fertility awareness educator Kate Douglas to explore how tracking your cycle isn't just about baby-making or avoiding pregnancy, it's about understanding when you're at your most creative, confident, and yes, turned on. Kate breaks down how hormones affect everything from your libido to your skin to who you want to have sex with, and why knowing where you are in your cycle can transform your intimate life.


This conversation goes beyond basic biology into why cervical fluid is nature's lube and how becoming cycle literate can help you communicate what you need in and out of the bedroom.

We talk about

  • how your hormones affect libido, who you're attracted to, and when you're most turned on

  • why cervical fluid is nature's lube and what it tells you about your body

  • the two biomarkers you need to track: cervical fluid and basal body temperature

  • ovulation as creative and sexual energy, not just a fertility event

  • how cervical fluid is literally a sperm snack (you'll never forget this)

  • myth busting: day 14 ovulation, feeling ovulation, and textbook cycles

  • why hormones don't make you unstable (they make you dynamic and cyclical)

If you've ever wondered why your sex drive changes throughout the month, felt disconnected from your body, or want to understand what your hormones are doing to your libido and confidence, this episode is your invitation to start listening to what your body is telling you.

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Website: https://helloearthbody.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helloearthbody

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6aga7AGBMwRfJA4g3dmjZ0?si=2ba47da338cf4327


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When Your Mind Says Yes But Your Body Says No: Understanding Embodied Consent with Arielle Zadok26 Feb 202601:05:49

Your body is always talking to you. The question is, are you listening?


In this episode, I sit down with intimacy coordinator, sexologist, and podcast host Arielle Zadok to explore embodied consent, the practice of checking in with not just your mind, but your entire body when it comes to desire, boundaries, and sexual experiences. Arielle breaks down what it means to truly listen to your body's signals, why silence is never consent, and how stress responses like fawning can complicate our ability to advocate for ourselves.


This conversation goes beyond the bedroom into play parties, film sets, and everyday interactions, showing us how consent is a practice that requires slowing down, getting curious, and honoring what our bodies are telling us, even when our minds want something different.


We talk about

  • embodied consent and the difference between what your mind wants and what your body is saying

  • physical signs to look for in yourself and your partners (breath, tension, engagement)

  • the four stress responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn

  • how to practice saying no in low-stakes situations before high-stakes ones

  • consent at play parties and how structured consent talks create safer spaces

  • intimacy coordination on film sets and protecting actors' boundaries

  • why "maybe" is always a no until it becomes a clear yes

  • repair over punishment in consent violations


If you've ever said yes when your body was screaming no, if you struggle with people-pleasing in sexual situations, or if you want to understand how to create truly consensual experiences, this episode will shift how you think about consent forever.


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Website: www.thepleasureproducer.com

Podcast: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com 

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Unbed Men, Incels, and the Crisis of Male Connection with Robyn Silber 18 Dec 202500:37:54

Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.


We talk about:

  • why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters
  • how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible
  • why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection
  • how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation
  • where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacy


Listen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.


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Pussy Worship: Stop Settling for Mediocre Sex with Alexa Andre19 Feb 202600:51:23

Pussy worship isn't just about technique. It's about enthusiasm, devotion, and creating a space where pleasure is mutual and unapologetic.


In this episode, I sit down with psychologist, sexologist, and host of In Bed with Alexa, Alexa Andre. She talks about what real pussy worship looks like, why enthusiasm beats technique every time, how to identify true eaters versus people just going through the motions, and what it takes to receive pleasure without guilt or performance anxiety.


This conversation is a permission slip to want more, ask for more, and settle for nothing less than worship.


We talk about

  • ​identifying red flags versus green flags in sexual partners
  • ​how to receive pleasure without getting in your head
  • ​the play lab concept for exploring techniques and preferences together
  • ​reassurance, communication, and creating safe spaces for pleasure
  • ​integrating toys into pussy worship
  • ​why "are you satisfied?" is the most important question after sex
  • ​raising your standards and refusing to settle for mediocre sex

If you've been settling for obligation when you deserve devotion, or if you've been wondering whether real pussy worship even exists, this episode will change how you think about pleasure, reciprocity, and what you deserve in the bedroom.


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Turned On by the Truth: The Power of Real Erotica with Carly Pifer12 Feb 202600:48:31

What happens when we stop whispering about desire and start telling the truth about it?

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I’m joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore, a platform dedicated to sharing real, confessional erotica. Not fantasy wrapped in perfection, but honest stories about sex, longing, curiosity, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human in a body.

We talk about why storytelling can be such a powerful gateway to understanding our desires, how writing about pleasure can shift shame into self-awareness, and why seeing real experiences reflected back to us can feel both liberating and deeply validating.

This conversation explores how erotica can be more than entertainment. It can be a tool for self-discovery, communication, and reclaiming pleasure on our own terms.

In this episode, we talk about:

  • What makes real erotica different from traditional romance or fantasy

  • Why writing about sex can be a powerful form of self-discovery

  • The connection between storytelling, desire, and empowerment

  • How reading real experiences can normalize pleasure and reduce shame

  • What happens when women start telling the truth about their sexuality

If you’ve ever been curious about erotica, or wondered why stories can feel so powerful when it comes to desire, this episode opens the door to a whole new way of thinking about pleasure.

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Website: https://readaurore.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/readaurore 


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Stepping Into Your Pleasure Power | Quickie Episode 05 Feb 202600:25:24

What does it actually mean to step into your pleasure power?


In this quickie episode, I'm getting personal and sharing my own journey from purity culture to tapping into my pleasure power. I’m pulling back the curtain on how I reclaimed my pleasure and share about how I went from thinking "sex isn't fun" to discovering what my body is truly capable of. 


This is the story of how I went from having painful, controlled sex in my marriage to fully owning my erotic self. It's about the 3 P's that changed everything for me: Permission, Presence, and Play.


We talk about

  • growing up in purity culture and the mixed messages I received about sex

  • my marriage, mismatched desire, and painful sex that I thought was "normal"

  • the conversation with a friend that gave me permission to want pleasure

  • my first vibrator and the moment everything changed

  • why masturbation isn't just for single people

  • tools for exploring your erotic self, including erotica, ethical porn, and toys

  • stepping into kink and exploring my edges


If you've ever felt disconnected from your pleasure or been told that sex is supposed to hurt, this episode is your permission slip to want more.


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Rewriting Your Sex Script: Letting Go of Performance and Reclaiming Pleasure with Ian Kerner29 Jan 202600:48:54

So, tell me about the last time you had sex… 


In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing New York Times bestselling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner, whose books She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex have deeply influenced how I think about pleasure, intimacy, and sexual connection. Ian joins me for a grounded, refreshing conversation about sex scripts, performance pressure, desire, and why so many people feel disconnected from pleasure even when they’re doing everything “right.”


We talk about

  • sex scripts and how they quietly shape desire and arousal

  • performance anxiety and why it shuts down pleasure

  • receiving pleasure without feeling like you have to perform

  • why intercourse-centric sex limits intimacy

  • psychological arousal, fantasy, and creating the right conditions for desire

  • how communication becomes a form of foreplay


If you’ve been craving intimacy that feels less pressured, more connected, and actually pleasurable, this episode offers a new way to understand what great sex really requires.


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Website: https://www.iankerner.com/


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Behind the Scenes of a Fun, Safe, and Well-Vetted Play Party with Le Organizer22 Jan 202600:47:30

If you have ever been curious about play parties but also slightly terrified, confused, or convinced it is just one big chaotic orgy, this episode is for you. Consider this your permission slip to get informed before you go out to play. 


In this episode, I sit down with Le Organizer, a longtime play party host and event producer, for a no-BS conversation about what actually happens at play parties and how to navigate them safely. We break down the biggest misconceptions, why most play parties are far more social than sexual, and how consent, communication, and aftercare are taken seriously in well-run spaces.


We talk about

  • Vetting events and reading descriptions like your safety depends on it

  • Navigating scenes and knowing when to watch and when to join

  •  Saying no without guilt, using consent advocates, and why you never owe anyone play just because you showed up

  • Swinger culture versus play parties

  • Why education and community matter more than ever  in sex-positive spaces

Listen in for an honest and informative conversation that demystifies play parties and puts consent, safety, and pleasure back where they belong. Whether you are just curious or thinking about buying your first ticket, this episode will help you walk in informed, confident, and grounded.


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Instagram: http://instagram.com/le_organizer


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Why Women Are Obsessed with Heated Rivalry with Rebecca Giguere15 Jan 202600:57:29

If you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers. 


In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere, intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losing their minds over this show, from the slow burn tension and locker room glances to the emotional vulnerability, tenderness, and male softness we rarely get to see on screen. We get into masculinity, taboo desire, emotional safety, and why watching men be both strong and gentle at the same time is doing things to us.


We talk about:

  • Why yearning is hotter than instant gratification

  • Male vulnerability and why it feels rare and electric to watch

  • Queer love, representation, and the relief of no male gaze

  • Female allyship and the power of safe women in men’s lives

  • Why this show quietly raises your standards without you realizing

Listen in for a swoony, chaotic, emotionally unhinged breakdown of Heated Rivalry that will make you want to rewatch the entire series, text someone you miss, and rethink what you actually want from love, sex, and connection.


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Instagram: www.instagram.com/unscripted.intimacy

Website:  www.unscriptedintimacy.com


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Women-Led Casual Sex: Getting What You Actually Came For with Jordan D'Nelle08 Jan 202600:48:31

Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.


We talk about:

  • How to define casual sex in a way that centres women’s pleasure, agency, and desire

  • Knowing your intentions before you get naked and why it changes everything

  • Setting boundaries around overnights, cuddling, kissing, communication, and aftercare

  • Knowing the red flags, green flags, and why chemistry makes us ignore what we should not

  • Keeping yourself safe from STI’s 

  • How to stop chasing approval and start choosing yourself

Listen in for a real, unfiltered conversation that gives you permission to enjoy casual sex with confidence, self-respect, and zero shame.


Connect with Jordan D’Nelle

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/

Jordan’s Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/


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When Making People Laugh is Almost as Good as Making Them Come with Rick Younger25 Dec 202500:44:25

Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac. 


We talk about: 

  • Building a positive online community through his Low Budget Morning Show while calmly disarming trolls and racist comments.

  • Why humor is a powerful tool for confidence on stage and a genuine asset for connection in the bedroom.

  • Debunking the idea that every vagina works the same and how men can move beyond a one size fits all approach.

  • Challenging pleasure taboos around topics like anal stimulation and nipple play for men and women.

  • Navigating racial stereotypes in comedy and how being a Black man shapes the perception of his sexual material.

Listen in for a laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred conversation that blends street-smart wisdom with Broadway flair, and proves that the best intimacy is built on humor, honesty, and a willingness to learn.


Connect with Rick Younger: 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RickYounger/

Instagram: https://instagram.com/rickyounger

Facebook: https://facebook.com/rickyoungerpage

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rickyounger


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