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Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/XTcjzHDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language EvaluationSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-004-25This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence.0:00 - Intro0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love7:16 - The Burden Test 8:18 - How to offer support8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing12:07 - Want more?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandEdited by:Ryan D'SouzaAndre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/gQT6DNElliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate AnyoneNeil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks.In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more.Those tips are, in short1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and styleEnjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos!Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/011-25Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them.0:00 - Intro2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort 3:27 - Over explaining and rambling 4:42 - Seeking approval 6:46 - Roping in other people9:08 - Resentment12:51 - Compliment sandwichingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/D6dy72Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About YouSee how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjPWhy People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the exercise to build enthusiasm and commitment in under 1 minute: https://goo.gl/Hg42MiKevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious StorytellingKevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes.It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces.While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft. These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny storiesSo if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nWDgDgThe Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye ContactBill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive. On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room. Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with." It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot.A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact. And that is the main focus of this video. We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze. Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes. You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George Bush Sr. who lost the 1992 debate and maybe the election because of the way he handled this question.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/COC-009-25Zelensky’s negotiation with Trump went off the rails. In this video, we break down the key mistakes, what he could have done differently, and how you can win high-stakes negotiations.0:00 - Intro0:35 - Caveat1:04 - Who makes the first offer?2:08 - Zelenskyy fumbled this essential point3:55 - Do not beg to get your needs met4:30 - Employ the "friendly f***k no"5:32 - Don't push back in other ways7:16 - The part where things break down8:07 - The Karen Technique8:24 - Zelenskyy gets into it with Vance9:26 - How to recover from these moments10:45 - Unprocessed contempt12:15 - Always have a second option13:27 - Zelenskyy's Fox interview14:09 - Remember that you can walk out14:46 - Learn to master your soft power skillsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2E8YitbRobin Williams' #1 Tip To Becoming FunnierRobin Williams was absolutely hilarious. His mental quickness was second to none and people often commented on what a raw natural comedic talent he was. The truth is though, Robin Williams honed his skills over many years. And one of those skills in particular can be applied by anyone to make themselves funnier almost immediately. It's a humor technique called playing a character and it can make even things that are unfunny seem hilarious.So check out this tip and use it in your own jokes and stories. I can't promise you'll become as funny as Robin Williams, but if you do it with conviction, you'll see people respond with way more laughter than you may be used to.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nASteve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate PeopleWhen Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad. But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence BreakdownGet INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCCConor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University today!https://bit.ly/017-25My original Jordan Peterson video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nS9W-wlJHPAJordan Peterson has delivered some of the internet’s most iconic debate moments. But his Surrounded video doesn’t quite reach that same level.Many will dissect the substance of the debate—the semantic haze, the definitions, the back-and-forth. That’s not where I want to focus.What matters most in a debate, if your goal is to actually change someone’s mind, isn’t clever semantics, gotcha moments, or even airtight logic. It’s the emotional connection you build through rapport and charisma. That human link is what opens the door to real persuasion.0:00 - Intro1:04 - Focus on amusement3:06 - Use a receptive style of listening6:41 - The Anti NBA Rule10:11 - This makes everything easierSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandEdited by:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.0:00 - Intro0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending1:00 - The context3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame6:20 - It can get worse...7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo Editing:SkyeAndre RingkjoebHenry Houpert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma BreakdownHow to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTtHow To Influence People (And What Not to Do)Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-013-25Most people spend their lives bouncing between pleasing others and chasing freedom—never realizing both paths can feel like a trap. This video breaks down the psychological tug-of-war between ego and superego, inspired by a powerful scene from Shogun. If you've ever felt stuck between doing what you should do and what you want to do, this might reframe everything.00:00 - Intro00:23 - Shogun00:59 - The Scene01:56 - Living Ego 03:03 - The Dilemma 03:35 - Super Ego04:44 - Coping05:57 - Finding The Truth06:58 - The Middle Way08:03 - 3 Powerful Questions08:50 - What Happens Next09:30 - Living Your Path Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghIkjotChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00 - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting:👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTysonWhy did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart.You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression.0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and PresentSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/lWf9gAVocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation?👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStoryWatch the full podcast episode here:👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAgMost people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.__________________0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster9:22 The Power of the False Ending13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story__________________Subscribe to Charisma On Command:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

100,000 Subscriber Thank You + GiveawayDidn't think I'd get to do this soon! We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel. Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict. It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship.So if you're interested in participating, here's how:1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook2) Make sure to tag Charisma on CommandThat's it. We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week. The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st. We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days.Thanks for making this possible :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-007-25Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect. In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro0:43 - Phrase #12:25 - Phrase #23:28 - Phrase #34:38 - Phrase #45:56 - Boundary Poking7:08 - Phrase #57:56 - How to redeem yourself11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo edited by:Andre RingkjoebIntro edited by:Barcuch & Ikjot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCkSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhendersonSometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.0:00 - Intro1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status8:15 - The Direct Route8:41 - The Indirect Route9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating StoriesJennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Donald Trump Is Actually A Master PsychologistLink to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/dqNQawCould Donald Trump really win in 2016??It seems like a ridiculous question, but Donald Trump's 2016 campaign has defied all the expectations from the pundits. Initially considered a joke candidate, he now leads the Republican pack in most national polls and the polls for the most important caucuses. At the same time, a huge portion of America would be mortified if Trump were to win. He's made remarks about Muslims and Mexicans that many have found offensive and those same people are baffled about how he could be the Republican frontrunner. It's no accident though. Trump has an incredible amount of charisma and an intuitive understanding of human psychology. We'll dive into how he's used it to garner support in what many thought was an impossible campaign. We'll see Donald Trump can take the nomination for presidency in 2016.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:https://bit.ly/002-26Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.0:00 - Intro0:47 - Offer help before they ask1:25 - Offer help without hooks4:37 - Honor their boundaries7:23 - Support them without this...8:55 - See them as mid-storySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-courseOr if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3hMost men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.0:00 - Intro1:37 - Lie 18:12 - Lie 214:41 - Lie 321:09 - Lie 427:11 - Lie 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Watch my King Archetype video:https://youtu.be/Qe3moydLS8wTry the Warrior Breathwork:https://youtu.be/aelfMAhl2hgIf you want to build unshakable confidence and reconnect with your full potential, check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/018-25In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire.0:00 - Intro0:58 - Archetypes explained1:46 - The final masculine archetype2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude5:25 - Part III: Take Risks6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of DeathSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdownhttps://goo.gl/qgN8BYWatch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BYConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any AudiencePublic speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnOIn this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)You can watch the full speech here:https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8sFor the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgXAdele: How to Be AuthenticAdele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion.Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better.James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B...The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are:1) Smiling Genuinely2) Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings3) Praising Others Openly And FreelySubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/001-26If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments6:59 - The essential mindset7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/012-26-CenaMost people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect.You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range.0:00 - What is secure confidence?1:53 - Sign 13:27 - Sign 26:04 - Sign 37:35 - Sign 49:05 - Sign 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2H1opA6Donald Trump's Debates: 5 Mental Tricks You Didn't NoticeDonald Trump has proven himself to be a master persuader. His unlikely rise to prominence in the Republican primaries has riden on the fact that he knows how to work the media during interviews as well as his performances in the GOP debates against the likes of Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz.When watching the debates, many of his detractors criticize Trump's apparent lack of substance. For instance, he ducked Megyn Kelly's question about sexism with a joke about Rosie O'Donnell. He seems to repeat buzz words more than other candidates and often justifies his positions by referring to other people who support his stances, rather than defending them outright. While this may seem like weak arguments, Donald Trump's debate strategies actually align perfectly with the way humans think and process information. For that reason, Trump's arguments tend to sink in more than his opponent's (like Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz) do.In this video we'll look at the top 5 relatively unknown psychological truths that Trump exploits to get his point across during interviews and debates.Link to Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpOHow To Smile Perfectly For MenWill Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.Check out our book:http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:https://bit.ly/004-26Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.0:00 - Intro0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive1:10 - Escape the frame2:07 - Follow the shiny thing2:50 - Open the circle4:22 - Imply friendship fast4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Simba MahachiDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28YAs soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/UHklkpThe Core of Self-ConfidenceSelf-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it. The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident.But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long. The leave us searching for the next hit. What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem. Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem.Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you. If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem. If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship. Your have low self esteem.This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2Bimt5J4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your CharismaI often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma.The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were 1. Improv comedy 2. Toastmasters3. Martial Arts4. Mini experiments in normal social environments.Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma. So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/KevVsClavMost people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it.Timestamps:0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You"6:33 The Characters We All Play7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First8:28 Nothing Left To Protect10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular16:29 Try This YourselfSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2GY7lebThe 5 Charismatic Habits Of The Rock (Dwayne Johnson)Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock) has been successful in 3 very different careers. He was an excellent football player at Miami (until he injured himself). Then he made the transition to the WWE where he became famous as "The Rock." And then he made an even more incredible career leap to movies, starring in the Fast and Furious franchise. Now he is moving into the comedy real in a new movie called Central Intelligence with Kevin Hart.To be successful in all of those careers, particular the second two, where he was the most successful, you need a great deal of charisma. The wrestling fans need to like you. People need to want to see your movies. And Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson has been able to accomplish that.So in this video we explore what makes Dwayne Johnson so charismatic. Starting back in his WWE days we can see exactly how he learned to gesticulate, to command the attention of a crowd and then moving on, we see how he also learned to show leadership and vulnerability. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2C4Crx5Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word ChoiceDonald Trump and Russell Brand are two very influential people with devoted followings. Yet they have nearly opposite styles of speaking. Trump uses simple words. His announcement speech for his presidential bid came in at a 4th grade reading level according to the Flesch - Kincaid readability test. Russell Brand, on the other hand, speaks using words that you're unlikely to ever hear in normal conversation and may need a thesaurus just to understand.So after watching how effective Trump has been in his campaign I began to ask myself: which is better? Big words or small ones? Short words or long words? Have I been mistaken in trying to expand my vocabulary?In this video, I explore the different speaking styles of Trump and Brand and try to answer those questions.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/026-25There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context0:41 - His voice is constricted1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills:https://bit.ly/005-26Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire.In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect.0:00 - Intro0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves0:40 - Respect killer #11:22 - The body language that earns respect2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires2:51 - Respect killer #23:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause5:03 - The Joffrey Rule5:51 - Respect Killer #36:51 - How to handle underhanded comments7:31 - When to walk away8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect9:41 - How to build self-respect11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com)Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand)Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices