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Dr. Alex Bailey, PsyD, challenges the myth of finding the "perfect" match. Discover why lasting love and meaningful connections are actually built through the everyday choice of embracing our imperfections. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

In this episode, Daniella Rudoff, founder of The Marriage Architect, shares thoughtful insights on how to cultivate and maintain connection, momentum, and genuine interest throughout the dating journey. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad and co-founder of DateWell, explores the role of awkward and difficult conversations in dating. She discusses why these conversations matter, and how to approach them in ways to encourage honesty, emotional safety, and deeper connection. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Marc Eichenbaum, PsyD, unpacks why doubt, anxiety, and fading excitement often show up right before commitment — and when not to mistake them for signs to walk away. Marc can be reached at mheichenbaum@gmail.com. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Ariella Azaraf Schur, LCSW, champions the development and maintenance of healthy boundaries in relationships and within our broader support network. Ariella is licensed in New York and New Jersey and can be reached at AriellaAzarafLCSW@gmail.com. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Bassie Taubes, Founder of Wellness Motivations LLC and Director of Community Outreach for Ematai, explores the uncertainty that can arise at any stage of dating, emphasizing well-being and personal growth as the keys to becoming our best selves — even when life feels out of our control. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Kestenbaum, author and Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshiva Gedola Ohr Yitzchok in Passaic, NJ, discusses the importance of refining our middos to best prepare for marriage and long lasting relationships. Rabbi Kestenbaum is the author of Olam Hamiddos. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Yisrael Motzen presents 'Invisibility' a thoughtful overview of initiatives spearheaded by the Kol Echad department of the Orthodox Union (OU) as well as in Baltimore, aimed at fostering understanding and responding meaningfully to single men and women in our communities. Rabbi Motzen is the Director of Kol Echad at the OU and Rabbi of Ner Tamid in Baltimore, MD. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Michelle Chavkin, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in NYC, delves into how to approach dating with positivity and openness. She offers practical tools to help build awareness and confidence in relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz. 

Level 3 certified IFS therapist, clinical consultant, and co-author of Part and Soul, Shira Fruchter, MSW, explores how self-awareness can support a more grounded and connected dating journey. She shares ways to be authentic and vulnerable without focusing on imperfections. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

In conversation with dating coach and RelationShift founder Sara Gita Soble, we explore how our assumptions and desires shape the way we experience our dates. Sara Gita invites listeners to pause, acknowledge, and turn around unhelpful thinking patterns. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Today we're celebrating our 100th episode by rewinding to the one that started it all: our first episode. Rabbi Dr. Ari Sytner “cracks the code” for mastering our relationships. Hear his simple, yet winning, advice for every couple.

• How to send the perfect text.
• Should we always resolve our conflicts?
• What is the secret key to lasting intimacy?

Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs.

Rav Judah Mischel, Executive Director of Camp HASC, reflects on the natural flow of changes within relationships, and why they should be embraced. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

Listen as Mindy Eisenman, MSW, discusses boundaries, bonding and breaking stereotypes.

Host: Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Rabbi Aryeh Cohen, Mashgiach Ruchani at DRS High School, eloquently explores the transformative role of emunah in the dating journey, drawing on profound insights to inspire and elevate the entire process. 

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Avi Rosalimsky shares insights from his personal dating journey, highlighting valuable lessons he learned along the way. He reflects on the unexpected twists that made all the difference in finding the right match. Rabbi Rosalimsky is the Executive Director of Yeshivat Sha’alvim and is pursuing a Doctorate in School Administration from Azrieli Graduate School.  

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Lisa Twerski, LCSW, discusses how couples who are dating can take steps toward emotional openness to deepen their connection. She maintains a private practice, lectures internationally, and provides training on marriage, parenting, domestic violence, and other mental health topics. Her latest publication, Me and You – What I Wish I Knew, is a marriage education workbook for Orthodox couples.
Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Elyan Rosenbaum, LMHC, NCC, founder of Rosenbaum Therapy, discusses how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helps uncover the relevance of past trauma on dating and relationships. She offers valuable opportunities for personal growth and healing.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Introducing the Preserving Our Future Initiative — adding a discrete icon on resumes to increase dating opportunities for women. Our guests:

• Rachel Burnham, founder of the initiative
• Dr. Aimee Baron, founder of I Was Supposed to Have a Baby
• Jackie Glaser, psychologist and new mother

Together, they explore sensitivities of egg-freezing, share personal stories, and offer practical guidance. For more information, visit pofuture.com.
Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Scott Linton, a marriage and family therapist, shares valuable insights into the roots of communication pitfalls. Learn about the dynamics of the "Pursuer" and the "Withdrawer" as Dr. Linton offers practical tools to help couples recognize and shift their communication patterns toward more conscious and healthier connections.
Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Linton may be contacted 

✉️ Email: slintonmd@gmail.com
📬 Voicemail: (262) 404-7889

Anyone curious about Dr. Linton’s couples therapy practice can visit the website: lintontherapy.com

In this episode, Channah Cohen skillfully shares practical, research-based insights to enhance the dating experience. Channah Cohen serves as an adult educator for the OU's ECP and Yavneh Young Professionals of JLIC. Previously, she worked at the Center for Communal Research as the applied researcher on their large-scale, mixed-methods study on dating in the American Orthodox Jewish community. She is also the author of Guardians of the Flame, a historical novel about the Chanukah story.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Mordechai Burg examines how understanding fears associated with the dating process can lead to greater success in relationships. Rabbi Burg serves as the Menahel of Yeshivat Shaarei Mevaseret Zion, and Mashpia of Nitzotzos and NCSY Summer.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Erica Brown eloquently conveys how a wedding is the beginning of a lifelong journey and how couples can use the celebration as an opportunity to reflect their values. 

Dr. Erica Brown is the Vice Provost for Values and Leadership at Yeshiva University and the founding director of its Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks-Herenstein Center for Values and Leadership (yu.edu/sacks-center). Her latest book is Morning Has Broken: Faith After October 7th (Toby/Koren). For more information, visit her website at ericabrown.com. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Michael Bleicher, LCSW, Director of Clinical Training at Achieve Behavioral Health, and therapist specializing in reproductive mental health in private practice in NY and NJ, discusses how all relationships face unexpected challenges, including ambiguous ones. He shares strategies for coping and moving forward after encountering obstacles. You can contact Rabbi Bleicher via PsychologyToday.com or BleicherLCSW@gmail.com. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Lisa Rabinowitz, MA & LCPC, explores neurodiversity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding each partner. She shares practical strategies for overcoming challenges and offers expert advice for strengthening relationships. Lisa is a Certified Gottman Therapist and PACT Level 3. She can be reached at https://counselorforcouples.com/
Hosted by Anna Krausz, LMSW

Aliza Schulman, LCSW and Psychotherapist, explores the unique factors to help second-time singles with children navigate dating again. She offers guidance on building healthy relationships and fostering positive dynamics between new partners and children. Hosted by Anna Krausz, LMSW.

Rabbi Dr. Jonathan Schwartz, PsyD, Clinical Director at the Center for Anxiety Relief, addresses challenges of freezing during dates, emotional struggles in relationships, and cold feet before commitment. He emphasizes that these feelings, often driven by anxiety and fear of judgment, are common and offers tips for overcoming them while accepting that every meaningful relationship requires work and growth. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Dr. Tali Wigod, Clinical Psychologist and Board Certified DBT Clinician illustrates how validation can be used to turn down the intensity of emotions to help us progress in developing our relationships.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Board Certified and Licensed Organizational Psychologist, Dr. Elly Lasson, Ph.D., ABPP, draws parallels between his work in HR and the dating world to highlight the significance of first impressions. He outlines key factors that influence these impressions and offers practical tips for fostering meaningful relationships.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Adir Pinchot, drawing on his clinical expertise, explores the impact of doubts and anxiety on relationships and shares successful treatment approaches and practical tips for how to manage anxiety as one moves toward deeper connection and commitment.

Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovich.

Glean from the invaluable insights of Mrs. Miriam Zeitlin, renowned dating coach and kallah teacher, as she delves into the power of authenticity and the crucial role of open communication in establishing relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Dr. Stephen Glicksman, a licensed developmental psychologist and the director of clinical innovation at Makor Care and Service Network, dives into the complexities of how attraction develops and grows throughout relationships. He offers insights into the psycho-emotional factors that contribute to a lasting and fulfilling partnership. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Mrs. Sarah Pachter, author and renowned speaker, exposes the power of technology as a tool, capable of bringing dating couples closer or driving them apart. She shares insights on how to harness technology to have a positive impact on modern relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Clinical psychologist, Dr. Leah Knapp brings a refreshing perspective to the dating process by emphasizing its potential for self-discovery. By actively engaging with the opportunities presented in dating, individuals can gain profound insights into themselves. Knapp's approach underscores the importance of adopting a mindset that values self reflection and growth. 

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Mrs. Devorah Kigel, dating and marriage coach & inspirational speaker, skillfully offers practical tips and profound wisdom to streamline the dating journey. Visit devorahkigel.com for more relevant content. Her new book will be available on amazon next week: Marry a Mensch: Timeless Jewish Wisdom for Today's Single Woman. Hosted by Anna Krausz

Zehava Graber shares her personal experience of dating with a terminally ill parent. She relays heartfelt and important pieces for daters, matchmakers, and community members to support people like her through the journey. This episode is dedicated l'iluy nishmas her father, Avraham Yaakov Ben Meshulam Dov z’’l.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.
 

Dr. Shuli Sandler, a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst, discusses the role of healthy conflict and resolution in laying the foundation of a strong, trusting, relationship. She offers practical tools for couples to engage in conflict in a loving and conscientious way. www.shulisandlerpsyd.com
Hosted by Anna Krausz

Rabbi Tzvi Sytner explores relationship dynamics, highlighting the importance of flexibility, compromise, empathy, and active listening for building strong connections. Transitioning from the H.E.A.R. to the H.E.A.R.T. model, he unveils a transformative secret code, inviting us to embrace these virtues to cultivate profound harmony.

Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Discover Rabbi Yitzchak Shurin's insightful perspective on fostering strong relationships and marriages.

Hosted by Anna Krausz

Embark on a journey with Rabbi Beny Rofeh, MSW as he shares invaluable insights. Discover how to cultivate heartfelt connection and team building without an urge to change your partner. Learn the importance of self-reflection and being fully present in every interaction to foster long lasting relationships. Rabbi Rofeh is Director of the Isaac Breuer College and Mashgiach Ruchani at Yeshiva University as well as a PhD candidate.
Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Rabbi Dr. Chesky Gewirtz, PsyD, delves into the nuances of natural anxiety, emphasizing the importance of embracing uncertainty and acknowledging the potential advantages anxiety brings.

Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Rachel Burnham, a seasoned dating coach of d8gr8.com reflects upon her extensive experiences with those whose dating journeys have taken a longer path. Among her several insights, she explains the differences between pickiness and authenticity and how to truly enjoy the process as we become our best selves.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Sheindy Gross, an educator for over 30 years and relationship coach of Head2Heart, applies a Torah perspective to Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages.  She offers practical steps for best understanding one’s own needs while meeting the needs of a significant other. Hosted by Anna Krausz. You can hear more from Sheindy at Tehila Torah: https://open.spotify.com/show/0IG0qsVpZFuL8TvSWXZ7YF?si=-QOA9H3TRLCQTJp9TZjjGA and an episode of Head2Heart: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Mh0jM4mygblYE9A8yYVdq?si=rUrGh_j5QX6eR0WgEnus6g&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A4GXnFn7clmGogzcFau0Yl5

... from a thoughtful couple. Listen to Rabbi Dr. Jacob J. & Shana Yocheved Schacter, a revered couple, as they draw upon their many professional and personal experiences.

Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Rabbi Donny Frank, LMFT and Dating Coach, differentiates between values, character and personality, and explains which is key for a lasting marriage. He is the author of newly released “The Making of a Dynamic Duo.” www.donnyonmarriage.com

Hosted by Anna Krausz

Rabbi Elan Segelman, Rabbinic Director of PUAH in America, educates us on scientific & halachic developments in the field of fertility preservation. He explains why both men and women should be informed about this very sensitive and impactful subject. Rabbi Segelman is also the Rabbi of the Young Israel of Hancock Park, CA.

Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

Shoshannah Frydman, PhD, LCSW identifies the true red flags in relationships as she highlights the signs that should not be ignored in a potential partner. Dr. Frydman is Executive Director of Shalom Task Force.

Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Beni Krohn, LCSW relays the importance of keeping a relationship pressure-free. He offers sound advice for daters and parents. Rabbi Krohn is a Mashgiach Ruchani at RIETS and serves as Rabbi of the Young Israel of Teaneck, NJ.

Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Rabbi Danishefsky, LCSW explains how overthinking affects relationship development and shares positive decision-making guidelines. www.mindbodychicago.com
Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Dr. Naomi Rosenbach analyzes the qualitative responses of single men and women from the DAAS study. She suggests practical changes to our communal approach.

Hosted by Anna Krausz