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In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with a pioneer and leader in the overcoming in this rewind episode, Host Paola Soares revisits a powerful and timeless conversation on how to permanently overcome limiting beliefs with renowned belief expert Shelly Lefkoe.

Shelly Lefkoe is a pioneer in the field of belief elimination and the co-founder and President of the Lefkoe Institute. Her science-based method has helped over 200,000 people across more than 120 countries experience lasting change by identifying and eliminating the root cause of limiting beliefs—rather than simply learning how to cope with them.

Unlike traditional mindset or personal development tools that focus on managing thoughts, the Lefkoe Method is designed to address why limiting beliefs form in the first place and why they continue to show up in our lives, even when we're highly motivated or self-aware.

In this conversation, Paola and Shelly explore:

• Why limiting beliefs feel so real—and so hard to shake

• How beliefs are formed early in life and carried into adulthood

• Why willpower, affirmations, and mindset shifts often aren't enough

• What it actually takes to create lasting inner freedom

Shelly's work has been endorsed by some of the most respected voices in personal development, including Jack Canfield, Janet Attwood, Dr. Joe Vitale, Lisa Nichols, and more.

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133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful

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In this episode, host Paola Soares explores why so many goals and dreams quietly stall—not because of a lack of motivation, but because of unseen roadblocks most people aren't prepared for. If you've ever started the year feeling hopeful only to feel stuck, overwhelmed, or discouraged weeks later, this conversation will feel deeply familiar.

Paola reflects on what truly gets in the way of follow-through and why clarity, encouragement, and accountability play a much bigger role in personal growth than willpower alone. She invites listeners to slow down, ask better questions, and consider what support might look like in this next season.

This episode also shares details about an upcoming guided reflection experience for listeners who feel drawn to pause, get clear, and approach the new year with greater intention and community.

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In this Thanksgiving-themed episode, host Paola Soares guides listeners through a powerful "heart reset" using reflective gratitude journal prompts designed to help you slow down, breathe, and reconnect with what truly matters this season.

Whether you're navigating uncertainty, feeling stretched thin, or craving clarity about your next step, this episode will help you pause, reflect, and tap into a deeper sense of peace and purpose.

These prompts are perfect for your morning routine, your quiet time, or anytime you need to reconnect with yourself and God in the middle of a busy season.

If you've been feeling behind, overwhelmed, or unsure about your next chapter, this episode will help you return to center and rediscover what's already good, already working, and already growing in your life.

Paola is hosting the final free Accountability Community Call of the year on December 15 — a reflective Dreaming Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like.

During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to:
📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026
📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to
📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season
📝 Release what's no longer serving you
📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention

This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community.
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Spots are limited — the link is in the show notes.

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares continues talking about one's calling and purpose work. She dives into why finding clarity around "Your Thing" a.k.a. Your calling will completely change your life.

If you are someone that isn't quite clear on what you are called to with your life we encourage you to listen to this episode. Whether you have your own business but don't feel fulfilled, or you're in the corporate world and feel bored with your career trajectory we encourage you to listen to this episode. 

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with highly sought-after Clarity and Podcast Coach Stefanie Gass.

Stefanie is the host of the top rated and Top Globally ranked podcast, The Stefanie Gass Show.

Stef is also a Clarity Coach and has helped hundreds of women find clarity around their calling and purpose to launch successful businesses. 

She is also a Top Podcast Coach where she dedicates her time and talents to helping women successfully launch and Scale their own Podcasts into profitable businesses.

In this episode she shares how to find clarity around your purpose and calling, why podcasting might be the very thing you need to propel your business forward As well as a surprise announcement at the end so make sure to listen through, this and so much more…

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares dives into the topic of clarity around your calling. She discusses what is a "calling" and how it is unique for every individual. She also goes into The importance of knowing ones calling and having clarity around ones calling.  She discusses why it could be the very thing that will lead to your breakthrough and give you clarity on the life of your dreams.

In today's episode we are discussing the meaning of a calling and why clarity around your calling is so important. This and so much more.

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares dives into the topic of bad habits. This is something that affects us all, whether the bad habits we struggle with are major ones or ones that are less obvious to other people we all struggle with somehow… But have you ever thought about how bad habits could be impacting your career, business or personal life?

In today's episode we are sharing 8 Tips For Overcoming Bad Habits For Good…This and more…

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares dives into the topic of bad habits. This is something that affects us all, whether the bad habits we struggle with are major ones or ones that are less obvious to other people we all struggle with somehow… But have you ever thought about how bad habits could be impacting your career? 

In today's episode we are discussing 5 bad habits that block your career growth and ruin your credibility…This and more…

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares dives into the topic of bad habits. This is something that affects us all, whether the bad habits we struggle with are major ones or ones that are less obvious to other people we all struggle with somehow… But have you ever thought about how bad habits could actually be keeping you from the breakthrough you are looking to get? Whether it's in our professional or personal life bad habits have a way of affecting whether through our health, reputation, self esteem or productivity.

In today's episode we are discussing 3 reasons why bad habits could be the very thing that is holding you back from the breakthrough you are looking for… This and more…

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In this episode, Host Paola Soares talks with international speaker, media expert, and business mentor who has helped hundreds of visionaries and entrepreneurs build influential brands and businesses with heart, Keri Murphy.

Keri is a veteran of television with 3 decades of experience and with appearances on MTV, E!, Fox and NBC among others. Keri couples that with her extensive entrepreneurial knowledge to help entrepreneurs learn how to stand out on-line, authentically show up on camera and become an industry leader in their space.

Her signature "It Factor" training is one of the most sought-after on-camera training programs for entrepreneurs in the U.S. and has been featured on CNN, ABC, Fox and NBC among others.

In this interview she shares why it's important that entrepreneurs position themselves as experts in their industry and what it can do for their business, Why and how to show up authentic on-camera as well as advice for overcoming imposter syndrome when it comes to being on-camera. This and so much more.

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