Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast But also, get therapy
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|---|---|---|---|
| But also, to be loved is to be considered | 02 Jun 2025 | 01:31:01 | |
Our season finale!!! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, I'm funding my therapist's soft life | 19 May 2025 | 01:10:35 | |
Halima's mum learns the lesson of her life, returning to therapy after our therapists have toured the world and why Halima doesn't give people their flowers. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, transport for lusting | 05 May 2025 | 01:23:15 | |
Halima saw a dead mole, which tube line has the buffest people and discussing trans masc identities in football. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, bank holiday blues | 21 Apr 2025 | 01:10:01 | |
Halima started boxing, the UK Supreme Court's decision is disgusting and harassment on the Victoria line. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, move to my girl then | 07 Apr 2025 | 01:12:25 | |
Mel's use of the word voluptuous, what it's like being 'well into your 30s' and relationship to family. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, a cheeky bit of transphobia | 25 Mar 2025 | 01:28:21 | |
Would we 'let' our parents date again, are we living our dream lives and why Halima will not drop me home. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, too busy crying outside the club | 11 Mar 2025 | 01:27:40 | |
Mel's has indigestion, Halima's back from South Africa and feeling vulnerable to ask for help. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, what's the return policy on kids? | 25 Feb 2025 | 01:26:35 | |
Our book and music recommendations, Mel returns to therapy and how to know if you want to have kids! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, do you wanna be mates? | 11 Feb 2025 | 01:05:43 | |
Making up songs for your voice memos, guessing each other's daily meals and the continuation of Halima's friend making journey! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, foes to friends | 28 Jan 2025 | 01:35:02 | |
All the excuses we have for not uploading for an entire year! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, the Ghost-ing of Christmas Past | 25 Dec 2024 | 01:03:03 | |
Happy festive season! Hope everyone has had a great year! We are so sorry for our absence this year but we are back and better! Here's a little Christmas gift from us to you. Another episode of hypotheticals! | |||
| But also, breast milk butter | 25 Dec 2023 | 01:08:10 | |
Breast milk vs breast butter, the return of Kimchi the dog and lots of cheating hypotheticals! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, thank you for your review | 21 Nov 2023 | 01:17:12 | |
Our season finale! Halima's dog nibling, family therapy and a special friend challenge. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, what's the 'crack' | 14 Nov 2023 | 00:58:50 | |
Halima's office gremlin, Mel's trip to Portugal and more friendship anxiety! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, jeggings were never in | 07 Nov 2023 | 01:07:47 | |
Halima's dry microwaveable dinner, Lipstick Alley and our experiences going out out! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, needs? I don't know her | 31 Oct 2023 | 01:04:12 | |
Mel's anxious attachment resurfaces, we went to watch Mahalia and people pleasing to our detriment! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, get racist | 23 Oct 2023 | 01:05:45 | |
Accidentally calling your friend 'baby', friends with different political views and gentrifiers can go to hell. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, do you even lift, bro? | 16 Oct 2023 | 01:14:36 | |
Halima is back from Brazil, navigating the gym as a femme person and feeling unsafe as a trans person. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, gripse thy neighbour | 09 Oct 2023 | 01:22:30 | |
Our love child (Plant Club), how do you go about finding community and feeling lonely in a big city. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, 'your inner child' joined the chat | 02 Oct 2023 | 01:14:01 | |
Do you man want a patreon, doing up baby voices in front of your friends and what parts of your inner child are you still trying to heal? Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, June in September | 25 Sep 2023 | 01:23:00 | |
Our first guest ever! We have @Junebellebabe with us this episode discussing running away from London, dating men as a non-binary trans femme person and what our types really are! We want to apologise for the sound quality this episode, it's our first time recording with 3 people in the same tiny room! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy June: @junebellebabe Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, a friend of a friend of a friend | 18 Sep 2023 | 01:11:22 | |
We are back with SEASON 4!!! This week we're talking all things friends of friends! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, we'd prefer if you didn't | 10 Jul 2023 | 01:06:17 | |
Boundaries, boundaries, and more boundaries! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, should I unblock you? | 03 Jul 2023 | 01:09:53 | |
Mel's love for brick phones, M&S has boooookey white staff and and how to have love for exes and ex-friends. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, hbd lol | 26 Jun 2023 | 01:04:16 | |
Thanking people at zebra crossings, Father's Day was shit and how we want to be celebrated! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, content with resent | 19 Jun 2023 | 01:05:23 | |
Our weekend in Cornwall, Halima surfing and our feelings of resent in life! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, old buddy old pal | 12 Jun 2023 | 01:12:36 | |
Would we ever date, what can garlic NOT save and what we bring to friendships! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, divorce is always on the table | 05 Jun 2023 | 01:07:53 | |
Wearing the same outfit three days in the row, how being alone makes us feel and asking for space from your partner! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, is your mum home? | 29 May 2023 | 01:08:22 | |
Showing up at your friend's house unannounced, meeting your friend's parents and navigating relationships with your partner's parents. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Han's Tattoo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/han.gunji/ (@han.gunji) Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, come as you are | 22 May 2023 | 01:07:06 | |
Dating someone who can't sing, feeling ugly and unlearning our fatphobia! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, working 9 to Fine | 15 May 2023 | 01:19:09 | |
Halima's work crush, our first jobs and imposter syndrome! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, call me when it gets better | 08 May 2023 | 01:19:09 | |
What we've been up to over the last 6 months, grief, loss and how expensive funerals are! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D Follow @han.gunji on instagram if you want a tattoo! | |||
| But also, enjoy your Christmas bonus | 25 Dec 2022 | 00:55:52 | |
Merry Christmas from us to you! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, I did nothing wrong this year | 12 Dec 2022 | 01:19:31 | |
Happy season finale! Today we talk about shit sunday roasts, reflecting on our year in 2022 and our hopes for the coming new year! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, you're on smoke | 05 Dec 2022 | 01:13:00 | |
LinkedIn wankers, dealing with anger and how to self-regulate! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, wtf is bubble and squeak? | 28 Nov 2022 | 01:12:31 | |
Halima never getting the ick, how we assimilated in this england and a disclaimer to white people! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, two break-ups away from peace | 21 Nov 2022 | 01:15:05 | |
Toilet etiquette, how to know when to break up and checking in on our friendship! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, forgive yourself | 14 Nov 2022 | 01:09:53 | |
Stalking your friends, things we still can't forgive ourselves for and tips on how to forgive yourself! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, I'm sorry about last night | 07 Nov 2022 | 01:13:29 | |
Which colour would Halima move to, our relationship to alcohol growing up and surface level friendships! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, it's okay if they leave you | 31 Oct 2022 | 01:29:28 | |
What we brought to therapy this week, cleaning your airpods and attachment styles part 2! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, transfer me 12p | 23 Oct 2022 | 01:18:18 | |
Our relationship to money individually, in a relationship and with friends! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, do your parents lipse? | 16 Oct 2022 | 01:18:42 | |
Mel gets recognised, parents showing affection and our first break up message! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, 23kg of emotional baggage | 09 Oct 2022 | 01:16:13 | |
Holidaying with friends, chicken kievs and Halima's evil ring! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, anyone can get it | 03 Jul 2022 | 01:11:35 | |
OUR SEASON FINALE! Body image and gender dysphoria during sex, sexuality and masturbation! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, they're evil eyeing you | 26 Jun 2022 | 01:17:57 | |
Lipsing your dog, comparing yourself to your friends and judging your partner on their job. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, gender is fake | 19 Jun 2022 | 01:17:05 | |
What our first learned ideas of gender were, being misgendered and accepting you're transphobic! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, when will you love me? | 12 Jun 2022 | 01:25:30 | |
Our anxious attachment styles, white people at christmas and is liking someone only because they're buff a bad thing? Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, your parents should get therapy | 05 Jun 2022 | 01:12:24 | |
Our relationship to our parents and their mental health, Halima's Geordie accent and another listener letter! TRIGGER WARNING TIME STAMPS: 41:30 - Suicide Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, eat it, it's good for you | 29 May 2022 | 01:27:53 | |
Our family dynamic around food, fat-phobia and being a French rat. Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||
| But also, it's probably a fetish | 22 May 2022 | 01:15:27 | |
Interracial dating, loving missionary and "I don't find my partner attractive". Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D | |||