Burnt Pancakes: Momversations | Conversations for Imperfect Moms, Chats About Mom Life & Interviews with Real Mamas – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Have you ever looked at your child’s report card and thought, “I know they’re capable of more… so what’s going on?”

You’re not alone. So many parents are raising kind, hardworking kids who still struggle in school and it can feel confusing, frustrating, and even scary.

In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I’m joined by Dr. Linda Silbert, an educational expert with more than 40 years of experience helping students who struggle with anxiety, ADHD, and learning differences like dyslexia, dysgraphia, and dyscalculia. She’s also the co-author of the bestselling book Why Good Kids Get Bad Grades: What Parents Need to Know and Do.

Together, we talk about what’s really behind poor grades, how to support kids without damaging their confidence, and the practical steps parents can take when school becomes a daily battle. This conversation is full of reassurance, real strategies, and hope for families who are navigating academic struggles.

Whether your child is falling behind, avoiding homework, lying about assignments, or simply feeling discouraged, this episode will help you better understand what they need—and how to show up for them in a way that builds trust and resilience.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• Why good kids sometimes get bad grades
• What parents can do when their child is struggling in school
• How to protect your child’s self-worth during academic challenges
• The lasting impact of the pandemic on students
• What to do if your child has dyslexia, dysgraphia, or dyscalculia
• Supporting children with ADHD and daily school routines
• How to respond to a poor report card without shame or panic
• Study skills strategies that actually work
• How to make homework less stressful for everyone
• Building trust when kids lie about homework or tests

Connect with Linda:

Website: https://www.stronglearning.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stronglearningcenter
YouTube: https://youtube.com/https://www.Youtube.com/@stronglearning
Her Book: Why Good Kids Get Bad Grades
Book: Berticus: How I Survived School! And Bullies! and Farley Finnigan!

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

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If you’ve ever created a routine on Sunday night only to abandon it by Wednesday morning, this episode is for you. 🙋‍♀️

We’re talking all about routines and why they matter, why they’re so hard to keep, and how to finally create systems that support you instead of stress you out. Because let’s be honest, most moms aren’t lacking motivation… they’re lacking routines that actually work for real life.

I’m joined again by mom of three and life coach Tanya Valentine, and she’s breaking down the biggest reasons routines fail and what moms can do differently. 

We also talk about what life looks like when routines aren’t in place, why so many moms feel overwhelmed and behind, and how small, realistic changes can make a big difference in your daily life.

Tanya shares her practical approach to building routines that stick, including her DAD Method, designed to simplify your day and reduce the mental load that so many moms carry. And if you’re the mom who feels like you’ve tried every planner, checklist, and schedule out there—she has encouragement and actionable steps just for you.

Connect with Tanya:

IG and FB: @tanyavalentinecoaching.
Website: tanyavalentinecoaching.com

Sign Up for Tanya's upcoming workshop here: https://www.tanyavalentinecoaching.com/routines

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

If you are raising boys, you already know life is never boring. It is loud, messy, chaotic, and somehow always sticky. In today’s episode, Katie shares the hilarious story of the mystery smell that took over her house and how it all led back to one very suspicious backpack.

From fermented milk cartons to random pocket treasures, we are talking about the everyday chaos that comes with raising boys. This episode is full of funny boy mom moments, relatable parenting struggles, and the sweet reminders that even in the madness, these boys are pure joy.

Katie also shares a Listener Mail segment featuring real boy mom stories submitted by listeners, proving once again that we are all living the same life.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• The mystery smell in the house and the backpack discovery
• Why boy backpacks should come with warning labels
• The strange things boys collect and carry around
• The nonstop noise and why silence is terrifying
• Boy humor and why they think everything is hilarious
• How boys can be both indestructible and dramatic
• Listener Mail boy mom stories that will make you laugh out loud
• The sweet side of raising boys and why it is worth every messy moment

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

You are invited as I celebrate the Burnt Pancakes podcast's first candle on the cake. 

I'm your host, Katie Fenske, and today marks more than just an anniversary—it's a journey from a former teacher to a mom-on-a-mission, connecting with others through the airwaves. 

I will walk down the memory lane of this podcast's origins, from a fledgling blog to a flourishing community. I'll share how a supportive mastermind group helped turn my aspirations into reality, and how each episode has become a testament of the joy, struggles, and motherly pride. 

Looking ahead, I'm setting my sights on the horizon, where retreats, a potential book club, and workshops await to draw us together in this digital village we've created. 

Your voices and stories have been the cornerstone of this podcast, and I invite you to continue shaping our future content.

So here's to the memories we've made and the adventures that await in the next chapter of Burnt Pancakes—where every mom's voice can find a place at the table.

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Imagine unlocking the treasure chest of a debt-free college education for your child. That's precisely what Dave Peterson, fondly known as Dave the scholarship coach, has mastered. Join us as the Burnt Pancakes family welcomes this sage of scholarships to share his journey from a worried parent to a beacon of hope for families striving to sidestep the student loan pitfall. Dave's son's staggering $95,000 scholarship bounty is a testament to the power of early and strategic planning, and throughout our conversation, Dave unveils the map to this hidden treasure for your own college-bound buccaneers.

What's the early bird's reward in the world of scholarships? A veritable worm feast, it turns out! High school juniors and their parents, perk up your ears as Dave guides us through the prime time for scholarship hunting. We spotlight exclusive opportunities for juniors, dissect the fine print of scholarship terms, and underscore the importance of organization and prompt communication. Ever heard of the VFW Voice of Democracy scholarship? This could be the perfect steppingstone for your student's scholarship quest, and we're here to tell you why.

In our final chapter, we pull back the curtain on the staggering $100 million in unclaimed scholarships and arm you with Dave's battle-tested strategies for standout applications. From leveraging the personal touch in recommendation letters to maintaining a meticulous volunteer record, these insights can help your student's application shine. We also navigate the complexities of scholarship policies at various colleges and emphasize the importance of flexibility as students journey through their college years—my own son's pivot from history to economics is a case in point. So, join us for this transformative talk, and let's chart a course toward a debt-free diploma!

(00:09) - College Tuition and Debt-Free Scholarships

(11:15) - Navigating Scholarship Opportunities for Juniors

(21:04) - Maximizing Scholarship Opportunities for Students

(25:57) - Navigating College Scholarships and Applications

Connect with Dave:

Podcast - Your Daily Scholarship Podcast
Instagram - @davethescholar1
Newsletter - https://substack.com/@nodebtcollege.com

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Ever pondered the possibility of globetrotting with your tots in tow? It's a daunting thought for many parents, but our guest, Lee Friedman of Mango Tree Travel, turns that challenge into charming chronicles of exploration. She's traded her corporate law briefcase for a passport full of stamps and a wealth of knowledge on family travel. Join us as Lee debunks myths about vacations being on hold until the kids are older, revealing instead how these escapades can deepen the parenting experience and create indelible bonds.

Embarking on a family journey often seems like navigating a maze without a map, but that's where the expertise of modern travel advisors comes in. This episode peels back the curtain on the meticulous planning that goes into tailor-made vacations that cater to the pint-sized traveler without sidelining the parents' desire for luxury. We cover everything from the nitty-gritty of starting a travel-focused business to the joy of incorporating your own family into the research process. It's an insightful look at how the right advisor can turn your family holiday from a logistics nightmare into a dreamy escape.

Wrapping up with practical pointers, we crack the code on choosing the perfect locales for both tiny explorers and teenage adventurers. Find out why shallow pools and calm beaches are the secret ingredients for toddler-friendly trips or how a villa in Grenada can teach you a lesson or two about childproofing on the fly. Plus, she'll share a sneak peek into my own family's travel bucket list, stirring up wanderlust for safaris, Caribbean escapes, and European adventures. So tune in, and let's chart a course for family travels that are not just manageable, but magical.

(00:09) - Traveling With Kids

(06:37) - The Rise of Modern Travel Advisors

(16:02) - Traveling With Toddlers and Teens

(23:50) - Tips for Traveling With Kids and Dream Vacation Spots

(28:32) - Traveling With Kids

You can connect with Lee here:
https://mangotreetravel.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mango_tree_travel/

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Experience the raw, transformative journey of motherhood with my special guest Sarah Parise, the heart and soul behind Great Days by Sarah, as we share the highs and lows of our postpartum adventures. Imagine laughing, crying, and nodding in agreement as you join our momversation on the unspoken hardships and the powerful connections we forge through the trials of motherhood. This episode promises to wrap you in a warm embrace of camaraderie, whether you're cradling your first baby or guiding your last one out the nest.

Can the way we care for ourselves during the postpartum period truly shape our families for the better? Sarah and I answer with a resounding yes, delving into the importance of self-care, establishing nurturing routines, and the incredible impact of community support. From the physical recovery of our bodies to the emotional restoration of our souls, we share personal stories and practical advice that will inspire you to prioritize wellness and find your tribe.

By the end of our chat, you won't just be listening to another podcast episode; you'll be part of a movement celebrating the resilience and beauty of motherhood. Sarah's insights into creating life-changing programs for moms and my reflections on body image and self-care forge a path for any mother to reclaim joy and well-being. This isn't just a conversation—it's a call to action for self-love and mutual support that will resonate long after the last minute of the podcast.

Facebook Group, Time Out For Moms - https://www.facebook.com/groups/timeoutformoms

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/greatdaysbysarah/

[FREE Guide} How Busy Moms Prioritize Their Own Wellness

https://pages.sarahparise.com/guide-1

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Ever find yourself tiptoeing around the topic of sexual desire? Courtney Boyer, the mental health and sex therapist, is here to walk us through the intimate labyrinth of womanhood and motherhood, where the conversation is overdue. 

On this momversation, we're peeling back the curtain on the realities of waning sexual interest, the journey of reclaiming that fire, and the tools necessary for fostering a sex-positive environment in our families. From the conservative to the empowered, Courtney's personal evolution serves as an inspiring backdrop for our candid discussions on marriage, parenting abroad, and the importance of love-based guidance over shame.

As our heart-to-heart unfolds, we're tearing down myths about sexual intimacy and expectations within relationships, emphasizing that it's not about the quantity but the quality of connections. We introduce you to the idea of a "relationship audit"—an invaluable strategy for couples to regularly assess their satisfaction in both their sexual and emotional bonds. Our chat navigates the tricky waters of body image, life changes, and menopause, reminding us that our sexual desire is an evolving journey, one that can indeed flourish with age and self-love. This episode is a testament to the powers of communication, understanding, and the dedicated effort to foster a fulfilling sexual partnership.

Lastly, we acknowledge the importance of embarking on these potentially challenging conversations, as they are key to growth and empowerment. We're determined to offer a fresh perspective on educating our young ones about sexuality, inclusivity, and the various relationship models, all within the family fold and beyond. So, gather 'round and join in as we bring these vital topics to the table. Your thoughts and connections fuel the Burnt Pancakes community, and I am eager to hear how this episode resonates with you. Share, engage, and let's continue to light up these essential discussions with the warmth and grace they deserve.

You can connect with Courtney here:

Instagram: @courtneyboyercoaching

Website: www.courtneyboyercoaching.com

Books: Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don't want sex and what we can do about it https://amzn.to/3wfGoR9

Check out here Huffington Post article: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/relationship-expert-reveals-the-10-questions-you-should-ask-your-

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Unlock the power of healing through breathwork with Jennifer Henkle, a mother who has turned her personal trials into transformative triumphs. As a breathwork facilitator, Reiki master, and Soul Work coach, she shares an incredible journey of transformation from witnessing her daughter's health scare to becoming a healer who now guides others through their own emotional journey. Our momversation not only highlights Jennifer's inspirational story but also introduces you into the emotional liberation that comes from intentional breathing.

I share my own experience with breathwork under Jennifer's guidance and we journey together into understanding the science of stored trauma within our bodies. Breathwork has become for me a way to release, to transform, and ultimately to embrace a new approach to stress management and well-being. Jennifer's dedication to creating healing spaces touches upon the collective power of breathwork, especially in settings where women support and uplift each other through shared vulnerability.

Be prepared to be inspired by tales of empowerment and how these practices can guide us to our inner strength and wisdom, even encouraging me to launch this very podcast. Jennifer's reach extends beyond the physical realm, touching lives through virtual sessions that connect and catalyze personal breakthroughs for women and mothers across the globe, all of which are accessible through her platform, highestsourcehealing.com. Join us on this journey and discover how reclaiming your breath can lead you back to your most authentic self.

You can find Jennifer at:
Her Website: https://www.highestsourcehealing.com/
Instagram: @highest_source_healing
SPECIAL: Use code breath10 for 10% off an individual breathwork session

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Every mother has felt the heat of anger bubble up in a moment of overwhelm, and if you've ever found yourself shouting before you even realized you were raising your voice, you're not alone. I sat down with Rachel Chote, a life coach whose mission is to empower moms to turn their rage into redemption. Our conversation pulls back the curtain on mom rage, a topic shrouded in silence, and we share personal experiences and strategies to help you navigate these turbulent waters.

Facing the guilt that follows losing our temper with our children can be daunting, but understanding the signals of rising anger can be a game-changer. Rachel and I dive into the importance of acknowledging and naming our emotions to keep the yelling at bay and really dissect the deeper roots of our outbursts. Whether it's the hidden stress of finances or the irritation of feeling ignored, we explore ways to reclaim serenity and provide actionable advice to help you regain control of your emotional responses within your family dynamics.

We also know that apologies, while simple in concept, can be complex in execution, especially for moms who've just weathered a storm of emotions. In our heart-to-heart, I share how genuine apologies have the power to transform our relationships with our children and the household environment. By embracing self-compassion and modeling accountability, we light the path towards a more connected and understanding family life. This episode is an open invitation to all moms ready to learn from their missteps and join a community that supports growth, understanding, and the journey toward a more peaceful parenting experience.

Connect with Rachael Choate on Instagram at @rachaelchoate_

Sign up for From Rage to Redemption HERE

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.