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| 38% Membership Growth From A Platform Migration | 03 sept. 2026 | 00:09:54 | |
One of my favorite projects this year was moving a 100-member community from Slack and ThriveCart to one seamless experience on Circle. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how the migration went: 96% of members came over, only four cancellations even while switching payment platforms, and 38% membership growth because we treated the migration like a relaunch moment. But here's the thing I want you to take away: a migration is not a copy paste project. It's one of the biggest opportunities you'll ever get to redesign your member journey. I walk through what we changed for our client, including a custom quiz-based onboarding flow, eight personalized courses, and a content structure that finally reduced overwhelm. Plus, when it actually makes sense to stay on Slack (or whatever platform you're on). Links:
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| How To Revive A "Dead" Community In 14 Days | 27 août 2026 | 00:06:29 | |
If your community feels dead, you don't need a massive revamp. You need one focused moment. In this episode, I walk you through how to re-engage a dead community in 14 days using a short-term activation plan: a challenge, bootcamp, or event series designed as a pattern break. I cover why one-on-one member conversations are the first step, how to design an experience around what your members actually need, and how to personally invite people back in a way that builds momentum. I also share why I recommend running a re-engagement experience every quarter to drive retention, engagement, and membership growth, even if your community isn't in crisis. If it's crickets in there, this is your plan. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| 6 Things I Review Before Redesigning Any Community | 20 août 2026 | 00:08:05 | |
Before you redesign anything in your community, you need a membership audit. In this episode, I break down the six things I check before making any recommendations to a membership owner, starting with the one thing too many "experts" skip: actual member feedback. I walk through my full audit checklist, including onboarding, structure, content, programming, and forum engagement, and share why onboarding and structure are the two areas I pay closest attention to in every single audit we do. If your community feels quiet, overwhelming, or hard to navigate, this episode will help you figure out where to look first and why data driven decisions matter more than anyone's opinion, including mine. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Listen to the episode about meaningful engagement – A New Way To Think About Community Engagement Let's be friends:
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| More Content Won't Fix Your Community | 13 août 2026 | 00:05:58 | |
I'm breaking down why adding more value is rarely the answer when members stop logging in, stop engaging, or start canceling. At Affinity Collective, we review a lot of exit surveys for our clients, and the most common reason people leave a membership is overwhelm. There's too much content, they can't find what's for them, and they can't be bothered. I share what your members are actually paying for, plus practical ways to fix content overwhelm: setting expectations up front, building personalized roadmaps, simplifying your content library, and using an information architecture exercise with your own members to learn how they actually think about your content. If your membership has a big backlog and engagement is slipping, this one's for you. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| 1.77M In Revenue From A 5% Retention Lift | 06 août 2026 | 00:06:06 | |
Retention can feel like a nerdy, abstract word, so in this episode I put real dollars behind it. I walk through three scenarios showing exactly what a 5% retention lift is worth in a monthly membership: a 100 member community at $80 a month, a 500 member community at $50 a month, and a real client example with 1,000 members at $1,000 a month. Across every scenario, five points of retention adds up to 27% more annual revenue and roughly twice as many original members still around at the end of the year. I also share how I increased retention at Bossbabe by 5% through programming changes, and why focusing on member journey and member experience turns your programming into your marketing strategy. If you want to know what a few percentage points of retention could be worth in your community, this is the math episode for you. Links:
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| 12-Week Community Growth Challenge | 30 juil. 2026 | 00:07:04 | |
I'm about to do something I've never done before: step away from my business for my first maternity leave. But I'm not disappearing, the show will continue to drop weekly on Thursday! In this quick personal update I share the free 12-week community growth challenge I built to run inside my newsletter while I'm out. It's based on our 7-Figure Connected Community Model, the exact framework we use at Affinity Collective on every client project, from brand-new memberships to one with 80,000 paying members. I walk through all three phases, Architect, Activate, and Amplify, what each week actually asks you to do, and why doing the homework will grow your community in real time. If you want your membership to keep growing this season, subscribe to the newsletter and start here. Links:
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| Communities Are Built On Networks | 23 juil. 2026 | 00:08:50 | |
Here's the question I ask every founder who tells me they want to build a community: how many people can you write down right now, by name, who you know would join? Most people can't answer it and that's the real reason their launch stalls, and no marketing funnel is going to fix it. In this episode I get into why the very beginning is the hardest part of building a community, and why your first members won't say yes until they know who else is in the room. I share what happened when we ran this exact exercise at Affinity, what an invite-only strategy actually looks like in practice, and how one client is filling her membership before the doors even open. If you're building something and it feels like you're pushing a boulder up a hill, this one is for you. Interested in working with my team? Book a free discovery call Links:
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| Content Isn't Enough Anymore: How Substack Creators Are Making Subscriptions Sticky | 17 juil. 2026 | 00:11:50 | |
I'm seeing a big shift with content subscription products: creators and brands with podcasts, YouTube channels, and Substack newsletters are adding community experiences to make their memberships more sticky. Because content isn't enough anymore, and ad free content isn't enough either. In this episode I break down what my team found when we dug into how paid Substack subscriptions are growing retention beyond bonus content. I walk through real examples (all the Substacks linked below), and I share the trends showing up across all of them: programming, community forums, in person events, resources, and access. I also get honest about the 10% platform fee question, why we're seeing creators move away from Patreon, and how to decide whether Substack is the right home for your paid membership. If you're a creator who wants to grow revenue from your content subscription, this one's for you. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Substacks Mentioned:
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| How Simplifying A Membership Drove $2,600 In New MRR | 09 juil. 2026 | 00:06:15 | |
Most memberships aren't struggling because they offer too little. They're struggling because they offer too much. In this episode, I break down a recent strategy session with my client Matt, whose membership had four tiers, an overwhelming content library, and way too much decision friction in the buying process. We simplified everything: two tiers instead of four, one central hub for connection, and a searchable workshops library. Less than a month after implementing, he had 21 new signups and $2,600 in new monthly recurring revenue. I also share why personalization belongs inside the membership, not before someone buys, and how Matt uses an onboarding quiz plus AI and the Circle MCP to build personalized 3 month roadmaps for new members. If your membership feels complicated or convoluted, this one is for you. Interested in our strategy process? Book a free discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Community Lessons From Jessi Jean's 6M Yap Challenge | 03 juil. 2026 | 00:12:03 | |
I just wrapped up day three of Jessi Jean's YAP Challenge training and I have thoughts. Her launch numbers are wild (over $6 million and 22,000+ customers), & so far I have loved how much of her content advice translates directly to community building. In this episode I'm breaking down what nervous system regulation, attracting the right people, leading with service, and making things fun have to do with growing a thriving membership. If you've ever felt burned out on your own community or wondered why some groups just have a better vibe than others, this one's for you. Check out my previous episode – Breaking Down Jessi Jean's 1.2M Product Launch Interested in working with my team? Book a free discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Communities Grow At The Speed Of Trust | 25 juin 2026 | 00:12:06 | |
Something unexpected happened recently that reconnected me to a version of myself I had almost forgotten. In this episode, I share how a conversation with Aarron and Eli from the Design Better podcast led me back to my creative roots. I share my favorite insights from their interview with CreativeMornings founder Tina Roth Eisenberg, and her philosophy on community growth. I break down a principle I keep coming back to with clients right now: community is not a community until it self-organizes. I talk about why every client I work with needs an in-person strategy, why hyperlocal is the future of community, and how you can design your member experience to create serendipity, ownership, and the conditions for people to genuinely co-create alongside you. Links to all the things:
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| My Honest Takes On Circle's Eclipse Launch | 16 juin 2026 | 00:09:50 | |
Circle just dropped their biggest product launch of the year, and I have thoughts. In this episode, I'm breaking down Circle's Eclipse launch, what the new features actually mean for community builders and admins, and where I think you should pump the brakes. I'm genuinely excited about what Circle AI could do to speed up execution and free up creative bandwidth — but I also want to be real with you about the risk of outsourcing your strategy to AI. The value in your community comes from understanding your people, and no tool changes that. I'm also sharing my takes on Circle Discover, Circle Studios, updated Courses, and the new Inbox feature.
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| Community Features I Love: Member Week | 11 juin 2026 | 00:04:42 | |
I'm starting a new series highlighting membership features I see working out in the wild, and this first one comes from my client Molly Balint of the Soft Business Club. She experimented with something called a "member week," a dedicated week of events tied to a new member launch, and the results were impressive. In this episode I break down how she structured it, why it works as both an onboarding tool and a re-engagement strategy for existing members, and how you can adapt the concept for your own membership. If you've been looking for a way to build culture, celebrate your members, and create a meaningful pattern break from your regular programming, this one is worth a listen. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Breaking Down Jessi Jean’s $1.2M Product Launch | 04 juin 2026 | 00:12:12 | |
Everybody is talking about Jessi Jean’s $1.2 million launch, but most people are talking about the marketing. I want to talk about the $297 product that 3k people bought in ONE week. In this episode, I break down why her 40-Day Yap Challenge resonated so deeply, what her launch reveals about product-market fit in 2026, and why community-driven experiences are outperforming traditional online courses. We’ll explore what happens when you build trust with an audience, create experiences people want to participate in together, and stop relying on complicated funnels to drive results. If you're building a membership, course, community, or digital product, there are some important signals worth paying attention to right now. Interested in working with my team? Book a free discovery call here Links:
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| Why Most Alumni Communities Fail | 28 mai 2026 | 00:07:06 | |
Most alumni communities fail because they remove all structure after the program ends. In this episode, I break down why engagement drops off after a cohort experience, how we’ve been designing a highly engaged alumni community for Beyond Connections, and why more content is not the answer. I share the lightweight programming, connection rituals, and community experiences we’ve tested to maintain over 60% monthly active users in a free alumni community and how this approach creates a huge opportunity for retention, referrals, and increasing customer lifetime value. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The Design Choices Behind Great Community Culture | 21 mai 2026 | 00:09:05 | |
People love to talk about “community culture” like it’s something magical that just happens naturally when you attract the right people. But culture is designed. In this episode, I’m breaking down why the best communities are intentionally facilitated, how clear expectations actually increase engagement, and why psychological safety often comes from structure, not the absence of rules. I also share examples from client communities, mastermind retreats, and my own experience in architecture and product design that completely shaped how I think about designing interactions inside memberships. If your community feels quiet, surface-level, or inconsistent, this episode will help you rethink what’s actually driving member behavior and connection. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| How To Create Real Urgency To Join Your Membership | 14 mai 2026 | 00:08:55 | |
One of the biggest challenges with scaling a membership is enrollment. When doors are always open, people assume they can always join later… which usually means they never join at all. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to create real urgency inside a membership model without relying on fake scarcity, countdown timers, or constant discounting. I share examples from clients and creators like Jay Clouse and Dreamers & Doers to show how kickoff dates, live programming, challenges, masterminds, and in-person events can naturally drive enrollment. I also talk about why your programming calendar should shape your marketing strategy, and why the best urgency comes from designing experiences people genuinely do not want to miss. Links:
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| Should You Add AI Agents To Your Community? | 07 mai 2026 | 00:08:41 | |
I’ve been seeing more and more creators experimenting with AI agents inside their memberships and communities, and I finally have enough thoughts to share my perspective. In this episode, I break down where I think AI can actually improve the member experience… and where I think it completely misses the point of community. I talk about why I’m skeptical of “AI clones” of creators, what actually makes memberships sticky in 2026, and the operational use cases for AI that I’m genuinely excited about. If you’re thinking about adding AI into your community experience, this episode will help you think more critically about the tradeoffs. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Let's Talk About Membership Revenue | 30 avr. 2026 | 00:07:41 | |
Memberships are often positioned as the ultimate recurring revenue solution, but what most people don’t realize is how long it actually takes to replace existing income. In this episode, I break down why memberships are not a quick win, how to think about revenue projections, and what’s really happening in those early months after you launch. I walk through the innovation adoption curve, why only a small percentage of your audience joins at first, and how to use your early members to build momentum toward sustainable growth. Interested in working with my team on your launch or growth strategy? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends!
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| The 5 Types of Emails Membership Founders Should Be Sending | 23 avr. 2026 | 00:12:37 | |
You should probably be sending more emails to your members. In this episode, I break down why email is one of the most powerful tools for driving engagement, retention, and growth inside your membership. I walk through the five types of emails I recommend every community or program includes, from onboarding sequences that build habits to curated newsletters that reduce overwhelm and bring members back into the experience. I also share why email matters more than your platform when it comes to attention, and how even simple, consistent communication can dramatically improve your member experience. Get Our Communication Strategy & Email Templates: Book a free discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| How Frameworks Drive Membership Growth | 16 avr. 2026 | 00:11:40 | |
In this episode, I’m sharing why frameworks are one of the most powerful tools you can use to design a stronger membership. I break down how frameworks act as the backbone of your community, helping members understand where they are, where they’re going, and what to do next. I also walk through a real example of how a friend redesigned her entire membership around a framework and saw massive growth, plus how I’ve applied the same thinking inside my own programs. If your membership feels overwhelming or hard to market, this is where I would start. Links I mentioned:
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| Why “Another Community” Won’t Work in 2026 | 09 avr. 2026 | 00:09:39 | |
I had one of those voice note spirals with my friends recently about AI, social media, and where all of this is heading, and one idea really stuck with me. What happens when the internet becomes AI talking to AI? In this episode, I’m unpacking why I believe we’re going to see a massive shift away from traditional social platforms and even “standard” online communities. People aren’t just looking for access anymore, they’re looking for connection, and not in a copy-paste, join-another-platform kind of way. I talk about why quality and personalization matter more than ever, why out-of-the-box communities won’t cut it, and what it actually takes to build something people want to come back to every day. If you want your community to stand out in the next wave of the internet, this is the work. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Why You’re (Secretly) Afraid to Scale Your Community | 03 avr. 2026 | 00:11:34 | |
Community builders say they want to grow, but when it actually comes down to it, they’re hesitant to scale. Because growth changes things. When your community gets bigger, the culture shifts. The way you serve people has to evolve. And the systems that worked at 50 members will not work at 500. In this episode, I break down what it really takes to scale your community without losing the sense of belonging that makes it work in the first place. I walk through four key strategies we use with our clients to grow memberships while protecting culture. From creating advanced pathways for long-term members to encouraging sub-communities, designing small group experiences, and evolving your team structure. If you’ve been feeling capped or unsure how to grow without breaking what you’ve built, this episode will give you a new way to think about it. Want help with your scale strategy? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| How to Create Organic Word-of-Mouth Marketing | 26 mars 2026 | 00:08:58 | |
I see program and membership founders asking their members to constantly post testimonials or share about the experience on social. And honestly, it’s not the word-of-mouth growth strategy people think it is. In this episode, I share why forced testimonials can actually hurt trust and why your best marketing shouldn’t feel like an obligation for your members. Instead, I walk through a simple mindset shift and a real example from the Beyond Connections program, where we created a 10-day connection challenge that re-engaged past members, sparked organic sharing, and drove real buzz without asking for it. If you want more word of mouth growth, it starts with creating an experience worth talking about. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The 2026 Live Learning Membership Opportunity | 19 mars 2026 | 00:08:43 | |
I recently saw a post from Miss Excel about hiring corporate trainers and it sparked something I have been thinking about a lot. We are in a moment where software, AI, and technology are evolving so quickly that traditional on-demand courses are struggling to keep up. In this episode, I share why I believe there is a massive opportunity to shift from course-based models to live, membership-driven learning experiences. I talk about the rise of rapid learning communities, the role of corporate training, and why bringing people together to practice, experiment, and share what is working is more valuable than ever. I also break down how having a strong framework allows you to lead even when you do not have all the answers. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| What Does It Mean To Be A "Good Member"? | 12 mars 2026 | 00:08:14 | |
One of the biggest reasons people cancel memberships is overwhelm. Members feel like they’re not using everything available to them, which leads to the feeling that the membership isn’t worth it. But the truth is that being a “good member” doesn’t mean consuming every resource inside the community. In this episode, I share a conversation I recently had with Jay Clouse on the Creator Science podcast about how membership leaders can reduce overwhelm by clearly defining what good engagement actually looks like. We talk about why onboarding plays such a critical role in retention, how to show real examples of how top members use a community, and why collecting behavioral stories from members can dramatically improve your onboarding and product design. Listen to my interview on Creator Science – #295: Community Building Trends For 2026 Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Why Most Courses Fail (The Feedback Loops You're Missing) | 05 mars 2026 | 00:07:19 | |
I recently went on my friend Joe Casabona’s show Streamlined Solopreneur and he shared a story about teaching a university class where the students were supposed to have certain prerequisites… except they didn’t. He had built the entire curriculum based on assumptions that simply weren’t true. It’s such a perfect example of what I see happening inside memberships and online programs all the time. We pre-build the curriculum, map out the syllabus, and record all the videos. And then we never stop to ask: Are people actually getting it? In this episode, I’m sharing why feedback loops are the most overlooked growth lever inside your community, how I learned to build real-time iteration into my teaching at General Assembly, and why treating your community like a product is the key to better engagement, stronger retention, and faster member results. I also share why I believe this is the core issue with most on-demand courses and why so many creators are shifting from course models to membership models in 2026. If you’re teaching live, running a membership, or designing a program right now, this one will help you rethink how you measure what’s actually working. Listen to my interview on Streamlined Solopreneur: Your Members Don't Want More Content Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The 5 Things Everyone Is Missing In Their Onboarding Process | 26 févr. 2026 | 00:08:00 | |
What most founders don’t realize is that onboarding is directly tied to retention. If your members do not see value quickly and understand exactly how to engage, they are far more likely to disengage and cancel. In this episode, I walk through the five elements I believe every strong onboarding experience needs:
Throughout the entire experience, personalization matters. The more tailored the path feels to the member’s goals, the stickier your community becomes. If you want stronger engagement and longer retention, your onboarding flow is one of the highest leverage places to start. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Everything You Need To Know About A Community Migration | 19 févr. 2026 | 00:11:36 | |
If you’re thinking about migrating your community, I want you to think about it as a strategic redesign, not a tech project. A migration should significantly improve the member experience. If it doesn’t, it’s not worth the risk. But if it does, it can unlock better onboarding, clearer upsells, stronger engagement, and a much stickier subscription product. At Affinity, we handle a lot of community migrations, most often to Circle. But we don’t recommend migration for everyone. In this episode, I walk through how I evaluate whether a migration is necessary, what makes one successful, and why this is actually one of the biggest opportunities you’ll ever have to improve your member experience. I share case studies from moving course creators off Teachable and Facebook into one streamlined ecosystem, migrating actor communities out of Slack and ThriveCart, and redesigning a contractor membership that previously lived on Hivebrite. Considering a migration? Book a free discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Drive Engagement With 8 Types Of Programming | 12 févr. 2026 | 00:13:19 | |
Your rigid community calendar is quietly killing your engagement. In this episode, I break down why over-prescriptive programming actually hurts engagement and how to design experiences that balance ritual and variation. I share lessons from my time at bossbabe, explain why generic Q&As and coaching calls quietly fail, and walk through programming formats that are easier to run and more valuable for members. We talk about topic-specific coaching calls, responsive Q&As, socials, co-working sessions, challenges, roundtables, and welcome calls and how each one serves a different member need. I also explain why lower attendance doesn’t always mean lower value and how measuring the right feedback helps you iterate your programming without rebuilding everything from scratch. If you want stronger engagement, better retention, and programming that actually reflects what your members need right now, this episode will help you rethink how you design your calendar. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| It's A Great Year To Be Building Community | 07 févr. 2026 | 00:08:17 | |
Education has never been easier to access. Answers are instant and content is everywhere... but people feel more isolated than ever. In this episode, I unpack why that tension is exactly why 2026 is one of the best years to be building community. As AI and technology continue to flatten access to information, the real differentiator for businesses is no longer content or education. It’s connection, belonging, and shared experience. I talk about why content subscriptions and standalone courses are getting harder to sustain, what we can learn from companies like Kit that invest deeply in community beyond their software, and why people are choosing where to spend their money based on values, relationships, and trust. I also share why I believe community is the antidote to isolation and why businesses built on community are the ones that will last. This is a bit of a soapbox episode, but if you’re building a business right now and wondering what actually creates longevity, this conversation will help you zoom out and see the bigger shift that’s already underway. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The Design Problems Blocking Your Membership Growth | 30 janv. 2026 | 00:09:16 | |
This week I’m sharing the 3 problems that show up right before you scale If growth has plateaued and selling feels harder than it should, engagement is inconsistent, or you’re feeling burned out because everything depends on you, these are not marketing or motivation problems. They’re design problems. I walk through how stalled growth is usually tied to member progress, why engagement drops when there’s no clear path forward, and how burnout shows up when the system relies too heavily on the founder. Whether you’re just getting started or running a large, established membership, these patterns surface at every level. The good news is they’re fixable when you focus on structure, member momentum, and designing journeys that work without you carrying all the weight. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The 3 Components Of A Sticky Membership | 24 janv. 2026 | 00:11:00 | |
In this episode, I’m breaking down the three core components every sticky membership needs in 2026. By sticky, I mean the kind of membership people naturally return to again and again because it feels like part of their routine. I’m sharing what I’m seeing across dozens of membership strategy sessions at Affinity, and why personalization, quick time to value, and human connection are the real drivers of engagement and retention right now. We talk about why onboarding matters more than ever, how to design for fast wins without overwhelming your members, and what it looks like to intentionally build belonging and connection instead of leaving it up to chance. If you’re building or updating a membership and want people to stay, participate, and actually get results, this episode will help you rethink what “value” really means in 2026. Join my free training on Thursday Jan 29 – Future-Proof Your Membership Let's be friends:
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| Podfest Recap + The Community Opportunity For Podcasters | 18 janv. 2026 | 00:08:35 | |
Podcasting is one of the most powerful relationship-building tools we have. Listeners feel deeply connected to hosts, but the relationship is still mostly one-to-many. In this episode, I talk about the opportunity podcasters are missing when they stop at downloads and ads, and why community and membership models can turn listeners into connected, supported groups working toward shared goals. I also share why so many podcast memberships fall flat, what makes a transformational membership different from bonus content or a Patreon-style model, and how podcasters can create recurring revenue and deeper impact without burning themselves out or becoming the bottleneck for everything. If you’re a podcaster thinking about community, membership, or how to make a bigger impact with the audience you’ve already built, this episode will spark some ideas. Want to chat about building a membership model for your podcast audience? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| 2026 Membership Predictions | 08 janv. 2026 | 00:15:24 | |
Every year, my predictions issue is one of the most shared pieces I publish, and this year I wanted to bring it to the podcast with more context, examples, and real-world nuance. In this episode, I break down my five predictions for how memberships, programs, and community-driven businesses need to evolve in 2026. I talk about why shorter, more personalized programs are replacing long courses, why unique frameworks matter more than ever in an AI-heavy world, why innovation is no longer optional, and why retention and trust are the real growth levers moving forward. I also dig into flexible programming, async engagement, and what platforms like Circle are seeing in terms of emerging community trends. This episode is about building better products, not just more content, and designing experiences that actually respect your members’ time. Check out the free 7-figure connected community assessment here Let's be friends:
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| Use The IKEA Effect To Scale Your Community | 23 déc. 2025 | 00:07:32 | |
I was reminded this week of one of my favorite cognitive biases: the IKEA effect. It’s the idea that we place a disproportionately high value on anything we helped create. And in community, this explains everything. When your members shape the programming, contribute ideas, share feedback, or help build the experience, they stay longer. They feel ownership& they feel belonging. And those two things drive retention more than any piece of content ever will. In this episode, I break down how the IKEA effect shows up inside community products, why co-creation is the ultimate retention strategy, and the simple ways you can give your members more authorship over their experience in 2026. I also share how we’re using this exact approach inside CreativeMornings Baltimore and why it works every time. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Why Rituals Matter in Memberships | 17 déc. 2025 | 00:07:38 | |
In this episode, I’m diving into the idea of your membership becoming a true third space for your people. Sociologist Ray Oldenburg coined the concept to describe the places we gather outside of home and work. Today, community builders have the opportunity to create those spaces online and in-person. I share a personal story about a Denver dive bar that became my own third place, plus an example from my friend Ellen Frost, whose members start their day with “bloom scrolling.” We talk through why some members naturally log in every day, how to identify those daily active users, and what their behavior can teach you about designing rituals that make your space feel like home. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The Two Types Of Memberships | 11 déc. 2025 | 00:09:06 | |
I have been seeing the same pattern across so many memberships this year. Community builders are trying to offer everything at once and accidentally blend two very different product types. It always leads to overwhelm, both for the members and the people running the program. In this episode, I break down the two core membership models I see most often, how to tell which one you are actually building, and why mixing them almost always creates retention and engagement challenges. If your membership feels heavy, complicated, or hard to maintain, this framework will help you get clarity fast. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Your 2026 Community Glow-Up Starts With This | 07 déc. 2025 | 00:07:35 | |
January is always the strongest growth month for memberships, programs, and community-driven offers. People come in with fresh momentum, new goals, and a desire to recommit to the things they said they would do in the fall. The best thing you can do to capture that momentum is walk into the new year with a refreshed, data-backed plan. In this episode, I share the exact research process I use with my clients and how I applied it to the CreativeMornings Baltimore volunteer retreat. I break down how I structure year-end surveys, what metrics I review, and the “quick, scrappy” research sprint any community builder can run to design smarter programming and reengage members going into 2026. Interested in a 2026 review & strategy? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| Future Of Community Summit – My Take On Circle's Trends Report | 18 nov. 2025 | 00:14:33 | |
Today I’m breaking down the trends Circle shared at the Future of Community Summit and what they signal for community-driven businesses in 2026. After listening to hours of presentations and digging through their new report, I pulled together the themes that matter most to your work: why member transformation is becoming the number one growth strategy, how retention-first communities are winning, what flexible participation models mean for your programming, and why emotional safety is emerging as a non-negotiable design choice. I also share small but powerful examples you can apply right away, from personalized onboarding to identity-based milestones and success pathways. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Checkout Circle App with a free trial here (using this link supports my business, thank you!) Let's be friends:
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| Maybe Don't Call It A Course? | 14 nov. 2025 | 00:07:46 | |
Courses are getting harder to sell, not because people do not want to learn, but because they want results faster than ever. I talk about recent conversations with clients, why even leaders like Amy Porterfield are shifting away from traditional courses, and how the market now expects fast track systems, short actionable lessons, and coaching experiences that prioritize time to value. I also share how we are redesigning onboarding, personalizing member journeys, and rethinking the word course entirely. If your course sales have slowed or your completion rates are stalling, this episode will help you rethink your positioning. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| How I Design A Community Strategy | 06 nov. 2025 | 00:09:36 | |
Every client we work with at Affinity starts with a Community Strategy Intensive. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what actually goes into that process and how we design strategies that drive both engagement and business results. I’ll walk you through the core questions we ask to uncover the right focus, how we collect member data to inform decisions, and why every great community strategy needs to connect member goals with business goals. You’ll hear exactly what happens inside our 90-minute strategy session, what you walk away with, and how it becomes the roadmap for every build or upgrade we take on. If you’re ready to improve or launch your community, this episode will help you start asking the right questions. If you'd like to see if a Community Strategy Intensive is right for you, book your discovery call with Affinity Collective here. Let's be friends:
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| The Future Of The Membership Model | 31 oct. 2025 | 00:07:12 | |
Memberships are shifting — and the old evergreen sales model isn’t converting like it used to. In this episode, I share what’s actually working right now: blending cohort-style programs with ongoing community memberships. This hybrid model gives you the best of both worlds — urgency for conversions and momentum for retention. I break down why this approach works, examples from client strategies, and how to layer a short program or challenge into your own member journey to create stronger activation and long-term engagement. Interested in working with my team? Book a discovery call here Let's be friends:
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| The Launch Strategy Behind A 1000+ Member Community | 24 oct. 2025 | 00:10:18 | |
This week I’m sharing a behind-the-scenes look at how we recently migrated more than 1,000 members into a new custom Circle app for a client. If you’re getting ready to launch a new community or move your existing customers onto a new platform, this episode walks you through exactly what to plan for. I share the full list of what we did to make this migration a success — from member interviews and beta testing, to communication plans, onboarding emails, DM automations, and how we used ambassadors to model engagement. Whether you’re scaling an existing program or adding community to your offer suite, these are the steps that make members excited to log in and stay engaged. Links: Let's be friends:
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| A New Way To Think About Community Engagement | 09 oct. 2025 | 00:09:14 | |
We talk a lot about increasing engagement, but not enough about defining what meaningful engagement actually looks like. In this episode, I break down a smarter way to think about engagement beyond likes, posts, and comments. You’ll learn how to:
If you’ve been wondering how to move your members from passive to active participation, this episode will help you rethink your approach to engagement entirely. Want to work on this strategy with my team? Book a discovery call here. Mentioned on this episode:
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| The Simple Survey Question That Can Boost Engagement | 02 oct. 2025 | 00:08:46 | |
When I’m working with a client on engagement and retention, one of the first things I like to do is run a member survey. There’s one deceptively simple question I always include: What’s your favorite part of the membership? In this episode, I share why this question is so powerful, a story from my time at Bossbabe when it completely changed our retention strategy, and how you can use the answers to shape both your short-term programming and your long-term membership design. Sometimes the insights point to easy wins... and sometimes they reveal that it’s time to rebalance your entire strategy. Let's be friends:
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| Listener Q: Pricing Models and Churn Rates for Memberships | 25 sept. 2025 | 00:10:31 | |
Cheyenne asked me two questions: what’s a normal churn rate for a membership, and do I recommend monthly, quarterly, or annual pricing? In this episode, I walk through how to decide on pricing models based on the transformation your program delivers, why quarterly pricing can sometimes backfire, and what red flags to look for in your retention charts. I also share the churn benchmarks I use with clients and examples of when monthly, annual, or seasonal pricing makes the most sense. Let's be friends:
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| Listener Q: How to Get Members to Share Knowledge | 23 sept. 2025 | 00:07:41 | |
Today I’m answering a question from Cepee, founder of She Hit Refresh. She asked how to encourage members to share knowledge with each other beyond the community chat. In this episode, I walk through practical examples of peer-to-peer events like Lunch & Learns, roundtables, and member-led AMAs. I also share ways to incentivize participation using social currency, recognition, and rewards. If you’ve ever wondered how to get members contributing more actively, this episode is for you. Let's be friends:
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| Listener Q: Using AI In Your Programs | 18 sept. 2025 | 00:08:45 | |
In this episode, I answer Amanda’s question about how to use AI inside your programs. I share real examples I’ve seen like surprise and delight GPTs, prompts that support programming, and creative tools that make content stronger, as well as the risks and caveats you need to consider. As community builders, our job is to help members reach their goals as quickly and safely as possible, and AI can play a powerful role in that if we design it with care. Let's be friends:
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| Listener Q: How do you put your health first AND build your community? | 16 sept. 2025 | 00:13:08 | |
In this episode I’m answering a listener question from Leslie, who asked how I prioritize my health while running a business. Over the past 18 months, I’ve been on a major health journey that’s transformed not only my body but also my energy, confidence, and ultimately my business growth. I share my personal routines, the boundaries I’ve set with my calendar, and the tactical practices that keep me regulated and focused. This isn’t medical advice – I’m not a health coach – but I walk you through what’s worked for me, from movement and meal prep to nervous system regulation and saying no to false urgency. For community builders especially, prioritizing your health matters, because you can’t create a thriving member experience if you’re drained and running on empty. Let's be friends:
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