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You weren't just having a baby. You were becoming someone new.

 

What if the hardest part of motherhood isn't the sleepless nights... but the fact that no one tells you that **you are changing too**?

 

We prepare women for pregnancy. We prepare them for birth. We even talk about postpartum.

But almost no one talks about matrescence.

Matrescence is the profound physical, emotional, psychological, social and identity transformation of becoming a mother. It's as significant as adolescence—yet most women have never even heard the word.

Maybe that's why motherhood can feel so confusing.

One moment you're overflowing with love. The next you're grieving your old life. You feel stronger than ever, yet strangely unfamiliar to yourself.

You're not doing motherhood wrong.

You're experiencing one of the biggest human transitions there is.

When mothers understand matrescence, they stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" And start asking, "Who am I becoming?"

That shift changes everything.

In this episode, we unpack what matrescence really is, why every mother deserves to know about it, and how understanding this hidden transition can replace guilt with self-compassion.

Because motherhood isn't just about raising a child.

It's also about the birth of a new version of you.

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Anea shares her journey to motherhood, and the process of finding out that her second child has West Sydrome (a rare form of infantile epilepsy). She talks through the balance of working through pregnancy, as well as working full time with a child who has unconventional needs. She details the highs and lows and what has kept her mind, and her marriage strong through it all. This story is honest, inspirational, and well worth the listen.

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Anne's story shares the depth of a lived experience through pregnancy loss that you may never before have heard so openly shared.

Anne takes us through her turbulent journey to motherhood: after planning a pregnancy through PCOS, she takes us through the decision to terminate the pregnancy due to extreme fetal anomaly. Being in faith based circles, she highlights the tensions and conflicts in this process as well as her subsequent miscarriage. She then describes her turning point to healing before two spontaneous pregnancies and caesarian sections. Her summary, and the healing experience of C-sections after two deliveries of miscarried babies in hospital, is truly worth the listen.

Let her story bring you to your own turning point of healing, and find common ground when it feels like no one knows what to say.

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Ilse takes us through discovering that they would need an assisted fertility route, the route itself, and deciding to stop trying. She then takes us through her spontaneous and unexpected pregnancies, and her two caesarian sections. Her open discussion on the emotional journey of IVF and the joy of being pregnant, is truly a precious resource worth listening to. 

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In this beautiful story Sam shares her journey to motherhood. She takes us through an unexpected pregnancy loss, and her subsequent pregnancy. Sam elected to birth in a Midwife unit and she details this process with care. Join us as we follow along on this uplifting and encouraging story.

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Nomzamo is a mom of two. In this episode she opens up to us about her journey to motherhood and raising two children as a single mom. She walks us though her two pregnancies and deliveries, including a planned caesarian section for breech at term, and an unintentional VBAC. We discuss stigma and challenges facing single moms, as well as the importance of self advocacy. Her story also touches on many of the difficulties that we face in obstetric care in the public system, and the healing power of story telling.

 

In today's episode Jess takes us through waiting to fall pregnant, battling pregnancy symptoms, and mapping out her birth plan for an un-medicated vaginal delivery in private care. We talk through the importance of self advocacy and holding the space during labour, and the fine line between advocacy and responding to the moment during labour. In this honest account, Jess shares her journey to motherhood.

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Danelle is a Midwife and nursing educator. She takes us through her birthing experiences; where book knowledge became wisdom through her lived experience of birth. Danelle had two caesarian sections despite planning otherwise for both births. She shares with us the emotional journey of learning to go with the flow when pregnancy and birth just doesn't conform to what you expected or dreamed of. Her story includes her experience of pre-eclampsia, Unexpected C-section, NICU, and adjusting to motherhood.

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Elbé passionately takes us through her experience of three vaginal births. One in Australia, one in a private hospital in South Africa, and the third - the redemptive experience of a water birth, lotus delivery in Midwife care. Her story is firmly grounded in her faith, and includes her reasoning behind desiring vaginal deliveries and advocating for a birth plan. She also takes us through her experience of deciding not to test for chromosomal abnormalities in pregnancy, being a parent in Neonatal ICU and the open heart surgery of her son. 

Although a bit longer, this episode is jam packed with experience and food for thought

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In this honest account, Marie takes us through waiting to conceive and her three subsequent pregnancies and deliveries. We touch on her experience with epidurals and delve deeper into her stories of delivering three vaginal births in private care; the expectations, her highs and lows.

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In this episode I chat with Queen, a medical doctor and Mom of three. She takes us through her first two pregnancies and natural births while still a medical student. She also shares the experience of having had a baby with a cleft palate, the journey to diagnosis, repair and the support which got her through such an intense year of her life. 

Queen runs Minority Doctors Forum South Africa, you can find her on tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@minority.doctors.f?_r=1&_t=ZS-91w5tkggTFi

to hear more about her ventures as a working mother in medicine.

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In this episode, I chat with Dr Amy Berlyn. She takes us through her pregnancy and planned caesarian section at term. We delve deeper into the emotions surrounding amniocentesis and the fine line between baby blues and full Postpartum depression. We also talk through the adjustment from high paced workspace to becoming a mother and how to make the call to scale down at work.

Amy is a GP working in functional and aesthetic medicine, you can contact Amy @dr.amyberlyn on Instagram.

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