Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Ageing Honestly
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| Why That Coffee Mattered More Than I Realised | 11 Sep 2026 | 00:06:45 | |
An ordinary coffee after fitness class turned into something I'm still thinking about weeks later. Losses big and small shared out loud, a closed bakery, a bad knee, a friend who's gone. In this episode, I share what that coffee taught me about connection as we age, the research linking isolation to a significantly higher risk of dementia, and a simple practice called No Agenda you can try this week with just one person, no plan required. I'm Penelope, a clinical psychologist and fitness trainer helping women over 60 age in ways that work with their bodies and minds, not against them. | |||
| Invisible After 60? Here's What I Discovered About Being Seen | 27 Aug 2026 | 00:06:30 | |
Do you ever feel invisible as you get older? Overlooked at the shop counter, dismissed in meetings, or unseen by the people closest to you? It does happen, so you’re not just imagining it. | |||
| 3 Things Making Ageing Harder Than It Needs to Be. | 16 Aug 2026 | 00:08:53 | |
Learn how ancient teachings can help women over 60 reduce suffering and improve daily mental well-being with clinical psychologist Penelope. | |||
| Who Am I When I Can't Be Strong Anymore? | 29 Jul 2026 | 00:07:30 | |
Managing online business failure while dealing with grief is overwhelming. I was the strong one. Strong, capable, independent, that was the story I told myself for decades. | |||
| I Was Completely Dependent. I Was Still Me | 18 Jul 2026 | 00:07:49 | |
Are you struggling with the quiet fear of being a burden to your family? | |||
| You Don't Have to Choose Between Happy & Alone | 03 Jul 2026 | 00:09:01 | |
Can you love your independence and still feel alone? I explore why feeling alone is different from being lonely when living independently. | |||
| After 60? Cancer, Pain, and the Fragility Nobody Talk About | 20 Jun 2026 | 00:11:26 | |
I woke up one morning in terrible pain, leading to disc bulge exercises to manage it. | |||
| 38 Years of Being Needed, Now What? Finding Yourself After Empty Nest | 29 May 2026 | 00:08:56 | |
After a recent phone call with my son, I found myself reflecting on the sense of "motherhood and identity" and the experience of "losing yourself in motherhood." | |||
| Resistance Keeps You Stuck | The Ageing Truth Nobody Speaks | 08 May 2026 | 00:09:40 | |
After 60, what we resist persists, while what we acknowledge has the opportunity for personal growth and self-improvement. | |||
| The Paradox of Ageing: Why You Can Hate It and Love It? | 28 Apr 2026 | 00:07:53 | |
Explore the paradox of ageing—why you can hate getting older while loving who you're becoming. Discover the truth about ageing honestly. | |||
| Chronic Pain Doesn't Define Me — Here's How I Thrive at 68 | 18 Apr 2026 | 00:12:54 | |
As a 68-year-old woman living with multiple chronic conditions, I've learned a thing or two about managing chronic pain and navigating the complexities of ageing and illness. In this podcast, I share my personal journey of living with chronic pain and the strategies I've developed for pain management and maintaining an honest mindset. 🖊️🌷 I write a bi-weekly letter called Ageing Honestly — no fluff, no forced positivity, no anti-ageing nonsense—just honest conversations about this stage of life. | |||
| Why I Quit Ageing Gracefully (And What I Do Instead) | 10 Apr 2026 | 00:13:15 | |
"Aging Gracefully" is exhausting. And fighting your age is a war you'll always lose. | |||
| Exhausted But Can't Rest: The Paradox Women Over 60 Face | 24 Mar 2026 | 00:12:24 | |
Are you exhausted but feel guilty whenever you try to rest? In this episode, I explore the complex paradox women over 60 face: the battle between an ageing body’s need for recovery and a lifetime of conditioning that ties worth to productivity. Decades of conditioning have taught many women that their worth comes from productivity, making rest feel like failure. At the same time, ageing bodies need more recovery and care. This honest conversation looks at the emotional, cultural, and physical reasons behind this struggle. Instead of forcing drastic changes, this episode encourages small, gentle steps toward rest. If you feel tired but can’t stop, you’re not alone—and learning to rest is possible. | |||
| Invisibility After 60: Rage at Being Ignored, Freedom in Not Caring | 17 Mar 2026 | 00:12:38 | |
Why do many women feel invisible after 60? Discover the painful truth of being ignored—and the unexpected freedom that comes with no longer caring what others think. From being ignored in shops to feeling unheard in conversations, the experience can be painful and frustrating. But invisibility also carries an unexpected gift—freedom. Freedom from constant judgement, expectations, and the pressure to perform. This honest conversation explores the paradox of rage and liberation that comes with ageing. If you’ve ever felt unseen or dismissed as you age, this podcast invites you to explore a new perspective on identity, strength, and authenticity. | |||
| After 60: You Did Everything Right… So, Why Did You Still Get Sick? | 09 Mar 2026 | 00:11:52 | |
After 60, doing everything right doesn’t always prevent illness. Learn why whole strength—body, mind, heart, soul—matters more than fitness alone. | |||
| Strong, Capable Women Need Help Sometimes | Why That Is Not a Weakness? | 05 Mar 2026 | 00:10:30 | |
What happens when a strong, capable woman admits she needs help? | |||
| Regrets After 60: Living with Choices You Can’t Undo | 26 Feb 2026 | 00:14:31 | |
Facing regrets after 60? I share my journey of mistakes, lost opportunities, and how I’m learning to carry regret without letting it define me. | |||
| Stop Fighting Ageing: How Fighting Ageing Makes You Age Faster? | 21 Feb 2026 | 00:09:30 | |
Stop ageing yourself faster through resistance. Learn the "Two Arrows" teaching and the science of how acceptance lowers cortisol to slow biological decline. | |||
| Tired of Anti-Ageing Pressure? Why I'm Choosing Vitality Over Youth | 21 Feb 2026 | 00:22:26 | |
Standing in front of the mirror, barely recognising myself, googling skin clinics within minutes. At 67, recovering from injury, I booked an anti-ageing procedure, got excited about it, then cancelled two days before. Why? Because I heard my deeper intuition telling me something else. This episode is about the two forces crushing us - the anti-ageing industry and bandaid positivity - and why neither one helps. I t's about building whole strength: body, mind, heart, and soul working together. And why the real alternative isn't choosing between looking younger or feeling positive about looking older, but building a life so rich the mirror becomes irrelevant. For health-conscious women over 60 tired of anti-ageing pressure and fake cheerfulness. Real talk about choosing vitality over youth. | |||
| The Truth About Aging After 60: Exercise Is Not Enough | 11 Feb 2026 | 00:35:51 | |
At 3:00 a.m., many women over 60 lie awake with the same quiet fear: | |||
| Does Memory Loss terrify You? | 17 Jan 2026 | 00:32:15 | |
Memory Loss Terrifies You? Honest Talk on Normal Ageing vs. Dementia and What Actually Helps Every forgotten word feels like evidence you're losing your mind. You introduce someone you've known for years and blank on their name. Walk into a room with purpose and stand there thinking, 'Why am I here?' And in the back of your mind: 'Is this normal or is this dementia?' If you've ever googled "early Alzheimer's symptoms" at 3 am, this episode is for you. In this episode, you'll discover:
This isn't about pretending memory changes don't happen or Band-Aid positivity about ageing. It's about understanding what's actually happening, calming the panic that makes it worse, and building genuine brain health through your whole system. If you're terrified every memory slip is the beginning of dementia, or if you have a family history that makes every forgotten word feel like a warning sign - this episode offers practical wisdom without the panic. For women over 60 navigating memory fears with honesty, not hype. Subscribe to Ageing Honestly for real talk about building whole strength: body, mind, heart, and soul. | |||
| I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore | 14 Jan 2026 | 00:29:33 | |
"I Don't Know Who I Am Anymore" - Finding Yourself After 60 Waking up one day and not recognising yourself? Feeling lost after retirement, empty nest, or widowhood? You're not experiencing a personal failing—you're experiencing an identity crisis our generation wasn't prepared for. In this episode, I explore what happens when the roles that defined you—wife, mother, professional, caregiver—shift or end. Not because you're broken, but because you've spent decades being everything to everyone else. I share why this exhaustion isn't permanent, the two practices that changed everything for me (acceptance and self-compassion), and how to rediscover who you are underneath all those roles. This isn't about becoming someone new. It's about uncovering who you've always been. If you've ever whispered "I don't know who I am anymore" or "nobody needs me now," this episode is for you. | |||
| Can't Do What You Used To Do? | 11 Jan 2026 | 00:21:51 | |
Had a health scare? Terrified you’ll lose your independence? | |||
| All About Intermittent Fasting | 20 Nov 2024 | 00:08:47 | |
Learn how to gently start with a 12-hour fasting window, manage hunger, and nourish your body for energy, vitality, and strength. Perfect for beginners, this episode is packed with tips and inspiration to help you thrive! | |||
| The 4 Common Patterns That Hinder Consistency in Exercise and Diet | 22 Aug 2024 | 00:12:40 | |
In this episode, we dive into the struggles many women face when it comes to staying consistent with exercise and healthy eating. Consistency is key to achieving long-term health goals, but often, certain patterns of behavior can hold us back. I explore four common types of behaviour that can derail your health journey and discuss strategies for overcoming these barriers. Whether you identify as a Motivated Starter, a High Achiever, a Hesitant Planner, or a Selfless Caregiver, this episode offers insights and practical advice to help you create sustainable health habits for life. | |||
| Avoiding Falls with the Power of Mindfulness | 25 Jul 2024 | 00:21:15 | |
Have you ever tripped or fallen and injured yourself? Or maybe you’ve had a close call where you almost did. These experiences can be especially frightening as we age. In this episode, join me, Penelope, as we explore the powerful role mindfulness can play in preventing falls and accidents. Maintaining balance and avoiding falls becomes increasingly important as we grow older. Falls are a leading cause of serious injuries and hospitalisations among older adults. However, the good news is that there are many strategies we can employ to reduce our risk. Among these, mindfulness stands out as a particularly effective tool. Mindfulness is about being present and fully aware of our bodies and surroundings. By practising mindfulness, we can enhance our body awareness, identifying potential issues before they lead to accidents. For example, noticing tightness or discomfort in our joints can prompt us to address these issues proactively, improving our balance and stability. Additionally, being mindful of our environment helps us identify and mitigate hazards like clutter or poor lighting. In this episode, we’ll delve into practical exercises that incorporate mindfulness into your daily routine, such as the "Heel, Ball, Toe" exercise. This simple yet powerful practice can significantly improve your balance and coordination. Tune in to learn how integrating mindfulness into your life can help you stay steady, safe, and fabulous as you age. Stay mindful, stay safe, and stay fabulous! | |||
| Managing Hypertension Beyond Medication | 27 Jun 2024 | 00:15:01 | |
In this episode, we dive into the critical topic of managing hypertension for women over 55. While medication is essential, it's not the only tool in the arsenal. Discover how exercise and diet can play a transformative role in controlling high blood pressure and improving overall health. Join me as we explore practical strategies and lifestyle changes to help you take control of your health and live a vibrant life. | |||
| Change How You Age By Changing Your Thoughts | 10 Jun 2024 | 00:14:36 | |
In this episode I explore how transforming your relationship with your thoughts can positively impact how you age. Discover how silencing your inner critic can lead to less stress, improved self-confidence, a happier mood, and healthier habits. Learn about the nature of thoughts, the story-telling mind, and how mindfulness practices can help you see thoughts for what they truly are—just thoughts, not facts. Join me as we dive into a practical mindfulness exercise designed to help you navigate and manage your thoughts more effectively. Tune in to understand how a positive mindset can shape your journey through life, making every year a little more fabulous. | |||
| 7 Steps To Get You Exercising in a Group and Reap the Benefits | 28 May 2024 | 00:10:52 | |
In this empowering episode, we address the challenges many women face as they age, particularly when it comes to maintaining an active lifestyle. Discover practical solutions to common obstacles that prevent you from joining group exercise classes, and learn how to add not just years to your life, but vibrant life to those years. Key Takeaways:
Join us to uncover seven psychological strategies to support your journey into group fitness, from setting realistic goals to practicing self-compassion. It's never too late to prioritize self-care and embrace an active lifestyle with resilience and optimism. Tune in and take the first step towards a fitter, happier you! | |||
| Turn Exercise From a Chore Into Something Your Body Craves | 16 May 2024 | 00:13:59 | |
Exploring the love-hate relationship many women have with exercise. In this episode, Penelope shares insights on overcoming common fears and barriers, boosting exercise motivation, and making exercise enjoyable for women over 55. With practical tips and expert advice, you will learn how to transform exercise from a chore into a treat their bodies crave. Tune in to discover a holistic approach to fitness and well-being that's tailored to your stage of life. | |||
| A Matter of Health or Illness- Strength Training | 02 May 2024 | 00:12:13 | |
Join me for an empowering episode where I debunk the myth that strength training is just for the gym buffs or the younger crowd. Today, I’m spotlighting why strength training is an absolute game-changer for fabulous women over 55. We'll kick things off by delving into the startling fact that only 20% of women over 60 are giving their muscles the TLC they deserve. That's right—80% of us are missing out on the chance to keep our bodies strong and vibrant as we age. But fear not; I’m here to arm you with some seriously empowering insights. Discover why muscle loss (sarcopenia) isn't just a distant concern—it's a real issue that starts as early as our 30s. But armed with knowledge, we can tackle it head-on and reclaim our strength. I also explore the myriad benefits of strength training beyond just toning those bingo wings. From weight loss and improved metabolism to reduced inflammation and stronger bones, the perks are endless. Plus, who wouldn't want to lower their risk of taking a tumble? Addressing the elephant in the room, we'll tackle common reservations about strength training. Spoiler alert: it's all about shifting our mindset and embracing strength as an act of self-care. And let's not forget about the real health villain—insulin resistance. But fear not, because strength training is our superhero. By making our cells more sensitive to insulin, it helps us better control blood sugar and keep those pesky pounds at bay. So, it's time to unleash your inner Wonder Woman and embrace the strength within. Whether lifting weights, doing squats, or busting out some push-ups, every rep brings you one step closer to a healthier, happier you. So grab those dumbbells and show them who's boss! And if you're unsure where to start, don't hesitate to reach out to a fitness professional or join a group class. We've got this! | |||
| Celebrating Your Brain's Vitality & Wisdom | 18 Apr 2024 | 00:16:07 | |
Is your forgetfulness causing you embarrassment? Are you noticing it takes much longer to figure things out in your head Maybe you worry about Dementia or Alzheimers. In this episode of No Nonsense Aging, I explore what's considered normal and what cognitive changes might signal a cause for concern. There is a recognition that there are many things we can do to mitigate and even reverse cognitive changes, empowering women to lead vibrant lives. It should be acknowledged also that with age comes wisdom, enriching cognitive processes and enhancing emotional intelligence. To finish up I share a poignant poem I wrote reflecting on the journey of a beloved aunt battling Alzheimer's, a testament to the strength and resilience of the human spirit in the face of so much suffering. | |||
| Embracing Getting Older: The Power of a Positive Perspective | 26 Mar 2024 | 00:24:57 | |
Join me in this enlightening episode as we delve into the profound impact of attitude on aging and discover strategies to cultivate a positive outlook. Recent research reveals a remarkable correlation between positive attitudes toward aging and longevity, showcasing the key to a longer, happier life. | |||
| How To Embrace Self-care With the Power of Self-compassion | 11 Mar 2024 | 00:21:01 | |
In this episode, we delve into the common challenges women face in prioritising self-care and confidence, particularly as they age. We examine how societal expectations and upbringing often undermine self-worth and hinder efforts towards self-care. Discover why traditional approaches to self-care often fall short and leave many women feeling guilty or inadequate. We explore the concept of self-compassion as a transformative solution, highlighting its scientifically proven benefits in nurturing confidence and overall well-being. Contrary to common misconceptions, self-compassion doesn't breed selfishness or weakness; instead, it fosters resilience and inner strength. Learn practical techniques to cultivate self-compassion in daily life, such as mindfulness, self-kindness, and recognising common humanity. Find out how integrating self-compassion into wellness practices, like fitness and mindfulness, enhances engagement and satisfaction. Join us on a journey towards greater self-compassion, unlocking your full potential for a confident and fulfilling life. | |||
| 5. Unlocking the Power of Mindfulness: Transform Your Well-being with No Nonsense Mindfulness | 06 Mar 2024 | 00:30:37 | |
Welcome to a special episode on mindfulness! Whether you're new to mindfulness or seeking a fresh perspective, this podcast is for you. Today, we're exploring a dynamic approach to mindfulness that can transform your well-being. | |||
| 4. Confessions of a Fitness Trainer: Unveiling Inner Strength: From Resistance to Resilience | 22 Feb 2024 | 00:20:36 | |
Are you one of the many women who struggle with exercising regularly? Studies show that only 25% of women over 55 meet the recommended weekly dose of exercise, including both cardio and strength training. As a fitness trainer, this statistic is both sobering and alarming.
But let's clarify this. Around 70% of older women do get enough aerobic activity, but the uptake of strength training remains worryingly low. Why? There are various reasons, from lack of awareness about its benefits to misconceptions about bulking up and fear of injury or societal expectations.
In this episode, I draw from psychology, my personal experience, and the inspiring stories of women just like you. To discuss the importance of making exercise a pleasure rather than a chore. My life's work is about making exercise enjoyable for women over 55, inspiring them to be active regularly and sufficiently. I'm not here to guilt or shame you into it. Instead, I want you to celebrate what your body can do and inspire you to prioritize your health and well-being.
Through the stories of inspiring women, we'll explore the transformative power of cardio and strength training, witnessing remarkable transformations from sedentary lifestyles to active ones.
What's a way that you could make exercise a pleasure rather than a chore. Share your thoughts, stories, and reflections in my Facebook page>> Fit and Fabulous Over 55.
Show notes: https://primeactive.com.au/episode4 | |||
| 3. Aging with Confidence: A Holistic Approach to Controlling How You Age. | 08 Feb 2024 | 00:20:06 | |
Ready to take control of your health with positivity and vitality?
In this episode we address genuine concerns like chronic health conditions and fears of dementia, fostering a supportive environment with actionable tips.
We discuss the power of a holistic approach to health, uncovering eight factors for a fulfilling life.
Discover how mindfulness during exercise boosts well-being and learn the role of self-compassion in enhancing motivation and life satisfaction.
What’s the number one thing you worry about as you age? Share your thoughts on my Facebook page, Fit and Fabulous Over 55. Let's connect, inspire, and embark on a fit and fabulous adventure together!
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| 2. A Journey to Fit and Fabulous Over 55 | 08 Feb 2024 | 00:15:04 | |
Why do you want to be fit and healthy?
In this episode I tell you about my personal journey and what fuels my passion for guiding and supporting women over 55 on their health and wellness journeys.
We’ll touch on exploring the emotional struggles that shaped my path and led me to a holistic approach that combines mindfulness, self-compassion, and cognitive training.
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| 1. Fit and Fabulous Over 55: Unveiling the Secrets | 08 Feb 2024 | 00:12:36 | |
Ever wondered how to transform your life after 55, defy aging myths, and live a fit, fabulous, and empowered existence?
Join me in this episode as I share my personal journey and tell you the secrets to embracing holistic well-being, proving that it's never too late to rewrite your story.
Over the past 35 years, I've connected with incredible women, and I'm here to share the wisdom, motivation, and empowerment that comes from embracing a fit and healthy lifestyle, no matter your age. In this episode, I peel back the layers of my own journey, from nursing rebel to a passionate advocate for physical, emotional, and cognitive well-being. At 66, I'm proof that it's never too late to transform your life.
What's a pivotal moment in your life that sparked significant change? Share your thoughts, stories, and reflections on my Facebook page, Fit and Fabulous Over 55.
Show notes: https://primeactive.com.au/fit-fabulous-and-over-55-unveiling-the-secrets/ | |||