Why do bad things happen to good people?  Sometimes the answer can only be seen through the perspective of time ⏳.

Hi Neighbor!

In this episode, we’ll dive into the story of Joseph in Genesis 📖 and see how time gave him clarity on why he suffered the things he did.

We’ll also explore 1 Corinthians and Romans to discover 3 powerful benefits of why good people and especially adoptive parents walk through seasons of suffering. 💔

Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim 💙

P.S. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

As an adoptive parent, the way you were parented may or may not be the best approach in parenting your adopted child.

Hi Neighbor!

When what you’re doing as a parent 🚫 isn’t working, how do you flip the script 🔄 and approach parenting differently? 🤔

In this episode, one of the individuals who helped my son Jonny navigate the challenges of residential treatment joins the show.

My neighbor 🏡 Erich Nelson shares a script 📝 that adoptive parents can use to de-escalate a volatile situation ⚡ by empowering their children 💪.

Grab a pen ✍️ and paper 📄 — this is definitely an episode for which you’ll want to take notes.

Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

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Sometimes, life has a way of knocking the wind out of us, suddenly and without warning.

Hi Neighbor,

How do you navigate those unexpected changes or losses that shake your world?

Over time, I’ve learned to find steady ground through simple practices, prayer, journaling, or even a quiet walk outside. In the midst of grief, these anchors have become pockets of peace.

I’ve also come to lean on the people in my life, my anchors. Friends who listen, support, and encourage me when life is difficult.

In today’s episode, I reflect on the sudden loss of a dear friend, Shannon, one of those anchors who passed away without warning.

His life reminds me of the kind of steady, hopeful presence, and anchor we all need.

Anchors of hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S My thoughts and prayers are with Shannon’s wife, Dana, and the entire family. Though there will be tears, sorrow, and pain now, Shannon knew that one day God will wipe away every tear.

You’re not alone in this journey. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you’re going through.

The most healing moment for me was actually getting my adoption file from the authorities and reading a letter from my birth mother about the teddy bear. It became abundant to me that the teddy bear was a symbol of her love, not a consolation prize.

Hi Neighbor,

Trauma can lie dormant for a long time, even decades. Unexpectedly, trauma can be triggered by the most seemingly innocent things.

Joining me today, is my neighbor from Great Britain, Simon Benn. Simon is an adoptee. The insights that he shares from his journey, I believe, will not only help those of us who are adoptive parents but will help our adopted children as well.

I want to encourage you to grab a pen and paper. There are so many nuggets in this episode, From the story about a teddy bear to a metaphor of a diamond. And then in the Daily Doable, Simon gives those of us who are adopted parents An amazing gift.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Simon Benn Contact Information: Podcast Website Instagram Facebook

Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

Hi Neighbor,

Do you ever feel weighed down with negative thoughts running through your mind? Maybe you even feel overwhelmed or even stuck.

Wouldn’t it be nice if you could do something and poof, those negative thoughts would just go away? 

Grab a pen and paper, because today, I’m going to share with you a tool that will let you do just that.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

“My message to parents is this is okay. These things will work out over time. This is going to happen. This is not personal. That's not a personal attack on your cooking or anything. These are messages. These are ways in which the child perhaps needs to assert herself or communicate her initial reluctance.... 

(Today) she’s a college graduate. She has a wonderful job, and she’s a productive member of this community. She’s loving and caring.

All of these things took time, but these were the hurdles that we were seeing and not reacting very well to.”

Hi Neighbor,

Today, it’s my pleasure to introduce you to my neighbor from Philadelphia, Anna Maria DiDio. Anna Maria is an adoptive mother and children’s author whose adoption-themed books encourage open and honest conversations between parents and children. 

Grab a notebook and pen. This is a much-needed conversation in the adoption space. Check out the links below to connect with Anna Maria and purchase her books.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Website and Free Resources

Love at the Border: An Adoption Adventure and Memoir

Many People to Love: Understanding Adoption Trauma (L.I.F.E.* Adventures series Book 1)

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Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

Some of the links I include in my emails may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

Hi Neighbor,

Are your holidays ever sad? I understand. Mine have been too.

In this episode, I want to share Psalms 136 and 143 with you. I lean on the truths in these Psalms to shift my perspective when life gets tough and the holidays are sad. I pray this blesses you.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,
 Tim

P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Hi Neighbor,

In this third of a 3-part series, I want to consider with you an audio clip taken from my interview with Dr. Rick Morton of Lifeline Children’s Services. You can hear that interview in Episode 93.

Today, I’m going to share a story with you about why the easy part of adoption happens before the papers are signed. The hard part actually begins when you bring your child home. 

We’ll also consider 4 ways to flip the script on hard and make it doable by following the invitation of Jesus in Matthew chapter 11, verses 28-30. I pray this episode blesses you.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Miss part 1? You can catch it here. Miss part 2? You can catch it here. Also, would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Hi Neighbor,

In this second of a 3-part series, I want to consider with you an audio clip taken from my interview with Dr. Rick Morton of Lifeline Children’s Services. You can hear that interview in Episode 93.

Today, I’m going to share with you a tool that can help adoptees revisit and process their grief. It’s a tool I’ve talked a lot about on this podcast… journaling. We’ll consider 5 steps to apply this tool. I pray this episode blesses you.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Miss part 1? You can catch it here. Also, would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Hi Neighbor,

In this first of a 3-part series, I want to consider with you an audio clip taken from my interview with Dr. Rick Morton of Lifeline Children’s Services. You can hear that interview in Episode 93.

Today, we’re going to consider adopted children as heroes and 4 different ways to apply this concept. I pray this episode blesses you.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Can people REALLY count on you?

Hi Neighbor,

I want to share with you a bonus episode of Anchors of Encouragement today. You might be able to tell that I’m outside. It’s a fall day. The leaves are falling. It’s raining. 

I’m one of those individuals who likes to actually walk in the rain. There's something soothing about it. 

The question I asked at the beginning is based on the song, Count on Me by Jefferson Starship. I pray this episode blesses you.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

The ability to have conversations with the different groups that make up the adoption triangle was very beneficial for me in forgiving my birth mom for this initial rejection. I think it also helped us when she did change her mind and we entered reunion. I had a lot of compassion for what she went through.

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me in this episode is, Julie Ryan McGue. Julie is an American writer, a domestic adoptee, and an identical twin. She explores the topics of finding out who you are, where you belong, and making sense of it.

A personal health crisis motivated Julie to pursue her story. A story she pieced together through conversations, genealogists, and journaling.

Julie has a powerful story to share with us.  

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Get Julie’s Books: Twice a Daughter: A Search for Identity, Family, and Belonging Belonging Matters: Conversations on Adoption, Family, and Kinship Bookshop.org Barnes & Noble

Contact Julie: Facebook

Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

Some of the links I include may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

Had my birth mother chosen abortion, I would not be sitting here talking to you… the reality is had she gone through with that decision, I would not be here nor would I have a son or a daughter… her decision is a generational decision.

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me in this episode is, Kathryn Barnhill. Kathryn is a pregnancy counselor at Lifeline Children’s Services, the largest evangelical Christian adoption agency in America.

Kathryn has a powerful story to share with us. A story that will inspire you. Kathryn’s birth mother changed her mind about having an abortion at the last minute. Years later, Kathryn was able to put the pieces together and see how God was working His plan all along.

“For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord. They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” Jeremiah 29:11

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Lifeline Children’s Services

Online Learning Portal

Lifeline Pregnancy Counseling

Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

When your adopted child is struggling, how can you support them while being okay yourself?

Hi Neighbor,

Ever felt like your adopted child was stuck in an emotional ditch?

Today’s segment, Getting Out of the Ditch, comes from Episode 183. Jane Baker uses a powerful metaphor: if your child is down in a ditch, you can’t help them by jumping in after them. 

I want to encourage you to listen, take notes, and sit with the idea or ideas that speak to you. You can be okay even if your kids aren’t.   Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. You’re not alone in this journey. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

Listen to today’s episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.

Contact Jane: • Phone Number: (256) 353-8528 • Email: jbaker@adoption-associates.com • Website: Adoption Associates

I look at my kids and the things that they’ve had to adapt to in culture and learn language. It’s heroic to do what they’ve done. And so as a parent, I really felt our responsibility as parents is to step into that challenge and to just try to help them to negotiate that as much as we possibly can.

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me in this episode is, Dr. Rick Morton. Rick is the Senior Vice President of Engagement at Lifeline Children’s Services, the largest evangelical Christian adoption agency in America.

Rick is also an adoptive parent of 3 children, all of whom were adopted internationally.

If you are considering international adoption, this is an episode you don’t want to miss. Grab a notebook and pen. 

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Lifeline Children’s Services

Online Learning Portal

Orphanology: Awakening to Gospel-Centered Adoption and Orphan Care

Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

Some of the links I include may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

Fostering is not about our own desires, but about serving children in need. How can foster parents manage their expectations and trust in God’s plan when it comes to fostering with the hope of adopting? 

Hi Neighbor,

In this episode, Trish Zenczak returns to the show to share her wisdom, experiences, and insights about navigating the foster system and adopting through it. 

Whether you’re interested in fostering or adoption, or simply looking for encouragement on your own journey, this episode is for you. 

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Books mentioned in this episode:

The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family

Help for Billy: A Beyond Consequences Approach to Helping Challenging Children in the Classroom

Listen to Trish in Episode 89 – From Abuse & Rejection to Hope: The Story of a Foster & Adoptive Mom with Trish Zenczak

Disclaimer: Some of the links I include may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

How can adoptive parents respond in a positive way to the trauma responses from their children? 

Hi Neighbor,

In this episode, David Dodd returns to the show to discuss ways adoptive parents can navigate some of the challenges parenting their children can present, especially when they are responding to their trauma in negative ways.

Sometimes their responses are directed at you and that can hurt. I know. 

But I also know that if you will put these principles we talk about into play, they will help you respond in a positive way to your children.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. If this episode has inspired you, please share this with a friend. Would you also please consider leaving a review for the show?

Here is a short video to show you how.

We’ve got to learn to depend on each other. Find those anchors of encouragement that you can turn to when your day is crumbling and you begin to question, is it really me? Or is what they’re saying really true? And how do I do it? We can turn to each other and gain encouragement there. 

Hi Neighbor,

When your day is crumbling, how can adoptive parents effectively navigate trauma-related responses and let them roll off of them like water off a duck's back?

I'd like to explore two aspects of this question:

First, how to handle negative responses from people outside your family regarding your child or your parenting.

And second, when your child’s trauma responses manifest as negative behavior or when they aim hurtful comments at you.

These kinds of responses are discouraging. I know!

In this episode, we’ll look at the first aspect. Joining me to discuss this, is my friend, brother, and anchor of encouragement, David Dodd.

David and I have had hours of conversations like the one you’re about to hear. There have been times when my day was crumbling and David was there as my anchor of encouragement to pick me up.

Here are the scriptures David referenced in this episode: 1 Peter 4:12 Matthew 5:12 John 15:20 2 Corinthians 4:8 Psalm 116 2 Peter 1:3 Psalm 37

Daily Doable: Pick one of these verses and sit with the text. Write it down in your journal. I know from my own personal experience, that this practice of meditating and journaling will give you peace beyond comprehension. And it will encourage you on those difficult days.

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. If this episode has inspired you, please share this with a friend. Would you also please consider leaving a review for the show?

Here is a short video to show you how.

It was important to me as a foster mom for my kids, if at all possible, and if it wasn’t dangerous to them to sacrifice my wants, needs, and desires to be able to let them know their story.

Hi Neighbor,

Today it is my privilege to share with you the story of my friend and neighbor, Trish Zinczak. Trish is a foster child, foster mom, and adoptive mom. 

Trish has the unique perspective to talk about fostering and adoption from both the child’s and parent’s perspectives. She has lived it and she understands it. 

This is a real and raw conversation from a very brave woman. Trish was willing to be vulnerable because she understands the importance of knowing and making sense of the stories of adopted and foster kids. 

Trish's story is compelling. 

Hope and healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. If Trish’s story has inspired you, please share this episode with a friend. Would you also please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

There have been times when I have said to my husband, I kind of feel like today somebody rubbed sandpaper on my soul. There’s just pain and I don’t always know how to deal with it… This just stands out to me as a way to put balm on that raw soul.

Hi Neighbor,

Today, I want to share with you a conversation I recently had with my friend Katie Keane. This conversation will be a little bit different than what you’re accustomed to hearing on this podcast. Because I was the one being interviewed. I was privileged to be on Katie's podcast, Her Home and Heart. 

You might remember Katie was on this show in Episode 78. Katie’s audience is made up of parents of special needs children. One of the things parents of special needs children desire just happens to be the same thing adoptive parents have told me they want. That thing is respite. 

In this interview, I share how it is possible to achieve respite through journaling. It can really be the balm to heal your hurting soul. 

Grab a pen and paper because Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

“I try to give them space, especially on a day that they are having a really bad day, that they can’t function in the classroom. Perhaps they’ve thrown a book across the classroom and a teacher calls me to come in. And I need to get that child away from that situation as quickly and as calmly as I possibly can.” 

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me is my neighbor from Indiana, Sherry Green. Sherry is an educator with over 30 years of experience serving junior high students with disabilities. She understands the challenges of trauma in the classroom.

In this episode, Sherry will discuss the effects of trauma on learning and share some of the tools she uses to support children with trauma and help them feel safe.

Grab a pen and paper. This is a very tactical conversation.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Contact Sherry: sherryg210@gmail.com

Books mentioned in this episode: Sherry’s Journal: My Daily Journal The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

Disclaimer: Some of the links I include in my emails may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter why, because it doesn’t change the fact that it hurt. I think we do get invested in why people do what they do and why people turn on us… as if we could answer that question. But there’s not an answer to that question or an explanation that’s going to make it hurt less.

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me again is my neighbor from Alabama, Jane Baker. Jane was one of the individuals responsible for helping my son Johnny navigate the challenges of his adoption trauma while he was in residential.

Adoption trauma is very difficult, not only for the adopted child but the adoptive family. Unfortunately, there can be other challenges too because of adoption trauma.

That’s what Jane is going to talk with us about in this episode. It’s something she sees in her practice. It’s something that I have experienced myself. The topic for today is “When Friends Fail You.”

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Listen to Jane’s previous episodes. EP 8 – Adoption Trauma Defined! Part 1: How to Understand Its Causes and Effects EP 9 – Adoption Trauma Defined! Part 2: How to Find Help and a Good Therapist

Contact Jane Baker Website: Adoption Associates Email: jbaker@adoption-associates.com info@adoption-associates.com Phone: 1.256.353.8528 

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. 

Tell a friend about the show. Take a screenshot of this episode, share it in your Instagram stories, and tag me @TimMaudlin. 

You can also connect with me on my free and private Facebook Group: Anchors of Encouragement

Contact: Tim@AnchorsOfEncouragement.com

Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always consult your healthcare provider with your health questions and concerns.

As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

Most people attack things like anxiety or any sort of grief or an adoption process or anything that we’ve all been through. They try to go to the skills first. And that’s what I talk about in Bad Apples, I flip it around. 

No, we have to work on our anchoring first and get our mindset right before we even think about implementing a skill and hence an anchor. So that’s the importance of it.

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me again is my neighbor from Hawaii, Dr. Lisa Hartwell. Dr. Hartwell is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in anxiety assessment and treatment. She is also a published author. 

In her latest book, “Cultivating Professional Success: Grow Even When High Functioning Anxiety Drives You To The Edge,” Dr. Hartwell proves once again why she is a trusted authority on anxiety and personal growth.

She takes many of the concepts from her earlier book, “Bad Apples: How to Feel Good Even When Rotten Things Happen,” and goes much deeper to show individuals how to work with their high-functioning anxiety.

Her expertise, combined with her compassionate approach, makes this book a must-read for anyone who wants to harness the power of high-functioning anxiety and achieve professional success while prioritizing their well-being.

If you’re someone who wants to embrace personal growth, achieve professional success, and conquer high-functioning anxiety, you need to check out “Cultivating Professional Success,” available now.

It’s an absolute game-changer! Enjoy the interview.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Get Dr. Hartwell’s books at these links:

Cultivating Professional Success Bad Apples

Disclaimer: Some of the links I include in my emails may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

“I could not picture myself being exposed to trauma again. I just couldn’t. And you're talking to somebody who was very adept at managing exposure to trauma as an emergency nurse, as a flight nurse, and as a psychologist in prisons… So I’m pretty good and adept at it. But boy, it emptied my cup!”

Hi Neighbor,

Returning as a guest on this episode of Anchors of Encouragement is my neighbor from Hawaii, Dr. Lisa Hartwell. Dr. Hartwell is trained to identify and help others heal from their trauma. But even she personally understands how emotionally draining trauma can be.

I hope you’ll listen to our conversation as Dr. Hartwell shares her story, defines secondary trauma, and shows us 3 ways you can begin to navigate the challenges it presents.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. If you found the information in this episode helpful, please share the podcast with a friend. Thanks, Neighbor!

Dr. Hartwell was also a guest on Episode 50 – How to Understand Grief In Your Adopted Children and How To Love Them

Get Dr. Hartwell’s FREE Anxiety Assessment and connect with her on her website.

Disclaimer: As I said, Dr. Hartwell is a licensed professional. However, on this podcast, she is not providing therapy or medical treatment. The content of this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always consult your healthcare provider with your health questions and concerns.

As adoptive parents, we often face incredibly challenging moments, especially when our kids are struggling or make choices that push us to the brink.

Hi Neighbor,

When things go south, what can you do? You can call the therapist, the case worker, or sometimes, even the police. But what’s next? How can you be okay even if your kids aren’t?

Today’s segment, Call for Pizza, comes from Episode 183. I want to encourage you to listen, take notes, and sit with the idea or ideas that speak to you.

You can be okay even if your kids aren’t.

Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. You’re not alone in this journey. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

Listen to today’s episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.

Contact Jane: • Phone Number: (256) 353-8528 • Email: jbaker@adoption-associates.com • Website: Adoption Associates

Hi Neighbor,

Welcome to Day Four of our birthday celebration for Anchors of Encouragement. This bonus series began in Episode 80. In that episode, I shared with you ten of the more popular episodes from the first year of this podcast. 

In Episode 81, we talked about the mantra for this podcast… Biblical Mindset Support for Adoptive Parents. 

In Episode 82, we talked about how you can support yourself through journaling.

Today, I want to share with you 3 reasons why your voice matters. I’ll do that by first sharing 3 reviews left for this podcast by listeners like you. And then I’ll share the way you can share your voice for the show.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. Here is a short video to show you how to leave a review on Apple Podcasts.

Anchors of Encouragement Trailer Episode 80 and the list of the ten more popular episodes from the past year.

You can think a feeling. You can speak a feeling. But if you want to touch a feeling, you need to write.

Hi Neighbor,

Welcome to Day Three of our birthday celebration for Anchors of Encouragement. In Episode 80, I shared with you ten of the more popular episodes from the first year of this podcast. 

In Episode 81, we talked about the mantra for this podcast… Biblical Mindset Support for Adoptive Parents. I showed how you can use Psalm 77 to navigate the challenges you face in life.

Today, I would like to focus on one of the BEST ways you can support yourself. Not only can you receive biblical mindset support, but you can also offer support for yourself anytime and anywhere you need it. It’s as simple as W-R-I-T-E.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Episodes About Journaling: EP 68 – The Power of a Mother’s Love: Live Coaching with Tim Maudlin

EP 47 – How Journaling Helped My Son Like Himself Again with Jonny Maudlin

EP 4 – 3 Benefits of Taking Out Your Frustrations On Paper?

EP 28 – Want Hope & Healing? 2 Journaling Prompts for Struggling Adoptive Parents

EP 32 – 3 Journaling Prompts to Help Adoptive Parents Become a Conduit for Kindness

The adoption journey is very rewarding, but at times, it can be very challenging, especially when you factor in adoption trauma.

Hi Neighbor,

Welcome to Day Two of our birthday celebration for Anchors of Encouragement. In the previous episode, Episode 80, I shared with you ten of the more popular episodes from the first year of this podcast. 

In this episode, I would like to look back to the very beginning of this podcast and to the reason and purpose it exists.

Please consider with me, Biblical Mindset Support for Adoptive Parents from Psalm 77.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. This short video shows you how.

This is the one-year anniversary of this podcast. And because of that, I wanted to do something special for you, Something special for the next few days as we celebrate this one-year anniversary.

Hi Neighbor,

I want to take a moment to thank those of you who have been here from Day One. There are several of you who encouraged me to do this podcast. You’ve listened to these episodes. You’ve shared them with others, and you’ve even left reviews for the show. 

Thank you so much. You are true anchors of encouragement for me.

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I would like to share with you a list I put together. A list made up of 10 of the more popular episodes from this past year. 

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Here’s the list: EP 1 – 5 Ways to Love a Child of Adoption Trauma | Anchors of Encouragement 

EP 8-9 – Adoption Trauma Defined! Parts 1 and 2: How to Understand Its Causes and Effects with Jane Baker

EP 53 – Want to Resolve Conflict? Empower Your Adopted Child With This Simple Tool with Erich Nelson

EP 17 – Struggling Adoptive Parents? 3 Ways To Restore The Sparkle In Their Eyes

EP 20 – When Adoptive Parents Feel All Alone? 7 Reasons Why To Grab An Anchor

EP 40 – 7 Ways for Adoptive Parents to Find Support and Achieve Respite

EP 47 – How Journaling Helped My Son Like Himself Again with Jonny Maudlin

EP 16 – The $89,000 T-Shirt: How One T-Shirt Inspired and Healed a Broken Community

EP 50 – How to Understand Grief In Your Adopted Children and How To Love Them with Dr. Lisa Hartwell

EP 14 – 10 10 10: An Effective Tool for Adopted Children with Jonny Maudlin

The reason this is important for us as adopted and foster families is this is so prevalent in our homes. And we don’t talk about it. We don’t know about it. 

One in twenty children has some form of FASD. That’s a lot of kids. It’s two and a half times more than autism. And we DON’T talk about it!

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me on this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, is my neighbor from Dallas, Texas, Laura Hernandez. Laura is a wife and mama to ten amazing people. 

She is the founder of Mama Systems, a coaching business that helps Mamas bring peace to their homes through systems, so they can be intentional with their people and show up as the best mama possible.

Laura is going to talk to us today about a topic she knows and lives with every day, FASD, Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders.

It’s a conversation that’s really needed today.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always consult your healthcare provider with your health questions and concerns.

As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

In those moments when you’re overwhelmed and you can feel the stress rising, oftentimes that can lead to the temptation to yell or to parent inappropriately.

As an adoptive or special-needs parent, what do you do?

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me on this episode of Anchors of Encouragement is my neighbor from Washington D.C. Katie Keene. Katie is the wife of a military officer (ret.), and mama of 5 treasures. Some of which are special needs.

She is also the host of Her Home and Heart Podcast, a Top 1% globally-rated show designed to teach Christian Homeschooling Moms with a special needs kiddo in the bunch how to live a holistic life of home stewardship that is filled with joy and peace.

In those moments of overwhelm and stress, Katie knows, and more importantly, her family knows exactly what she will do.

Listen as Katie describes the systems she has developed so her family can have a solid, peaceful, and joyful foundation at home.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Contact Katie: Podcast Facebook Facebook Community Health and Energy Boost for Moms

Listen to Katie interview Tim on Her Home & Heart Podcast

There has been something on my mind for quite a while, and I realized the only way I’m going to get the answers that I need is to ask you.

Hi Neighbor,

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I talk about the ONE episode that has outpaced all the others. It’s Episode 17, Struggling Adoptive Parents? 3 Ways to Restore the Sparkle in Their Eyes.

This episode has been the top downloaded episode every month, and I’m not sure why. I have some ideas, but I don’t know with certainty why this episode is resonating with so many listeners.

That’s why I need your help and I’ll tell you how you can help me in the Daily Doable. The reason I'm asking for feedback is because it will help me to produce more content that will encourage you. 

This feedback is priceless for me because as I've said many times on this podcast, the goal of this is to be an anchor of encouragement for adoptive parents.

I want to thank you in advance for helping me understand what it is about Episode 17 that has spoken to so many of you.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor, Tim

Daily Doable: 1. Listen to Episode 17. 2. Answer the 0ne-Question Survey and/or 3. Leave a Voicemail.

Biblically, we were not created to do life alone. We were not created to do it in silos, and unfortunately, so many families feel like they’re alone. They’re in a silo, and they don’t want to admit that things are hard and that things are messy. But the first thing and the first road to finding some relief and healing is to say, things are messy and hard and I need help.

Hi Neighbor,

Joining me on this episode of Anchors of Encouragement is Herbie Newell. Herbie is the president and executive director of Lifeline Children’s Services, the largest Evangelical Christian adoption agency in America.

He is the host of The Defender Podcast and author of the book, “Image Bearers: Shifting from Pro-Birth to Pro-Life.” He is a true expert in adoption and child welfare.

Adoption and foster care often come with their own unique challenges. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness or defeat. In fact, it’s a necessary step in supporting adoptive and foster families.

In the adoption world, life can be messy and hard, but with the right support and acknowledging your need for help, you can overcome any challenge.

As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage you to do your due diligence. Listen to the information. Check out the resources and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

Tim

Lifeline Children’s Services

Website

205-967-0811

Herbie Newell: President & Executive Director

Lynn Beckett: parent coaching program

Angela Mains: Counselors

Ann Maura Hinton: Bridge Educational Services

Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always consult your healthcare provider with your health questions and concerns.

As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.

One of the biggest dreams my wife and a lot of women want to realize is to fulfill the desire that God put in their hearts to be a mother. When that doesn’t happen and infertility becomes a challenge in your marriage, husbands, please don’t do what I did.

Hi Neighbor,

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share a personal story. It’s a story I’m not proud of, but I think it’s a story that needs to be told. It’s my hope that by my sharing what I did wrong in my marriage, it will help other husbands to avoid doing what I did.

In addition to my blunder, we’ll seek Biblical guidance from passages in the books of Genesis, 1 Samuel, Psalms, Proverbs, and 1 Peter.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks, Neighbor!

Something wasn't right. I had all these mixed emotions and feelings running through my head. Things were going okay, but I found myself feeling gloomy, restless, and even anxious. It was so confusing. 

On top of that, I felt edgy. I knew something was off but I couldn’t put my finger on it, then it dawned on me. Oh, that’s what it is.

Hi Neighbor,

Have you ever felt gloomy, restless, or maybe even anxious at times? Or maybe you felt confused and even edgy. Maybe not all of these at once, but chances are you felt these at some point in your life. 

Recently, I was feeling all of these. Things were going well, and then it dawned on me. That’s what it is. My body remembered something I wanted to forget.

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to consider with you 5 ways you can show grace to yourself when you’re feeling out of sorts.

Most people, me included, are willing to show grace to everyone but ourselves. When someone is going through a difficult time, be it trauma or grief or whatever, we’re willing to show grace to them, but not to ourselves.

Why is that? I'm not sure that I have a good answer for you, but I want to stress to you that whenever you're going through difficult times, trauma, grief, or whatever, you need to show grace to yourself. 

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks, Neighbor!

He was called son. He was called grandson. He was called nephew. He was called cousin, and he was called brother.

But he was never called husband. He was never called daddy, and he was never called grandpa because he never came home.

I hope when I’m finished telling you his story, you might consider calling him hero.

Hi Neighbor,

This episode was recorded as we prepare to celebrate Memorial Day in the United States. The federal holiday for honoring and mourning the U.S. military personnel who have died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.

In this episode, I share the story of my hero, Uncle Lloyd. A hero I only knew from a picture on a wall.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. You’re not alone in this journey. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

Listen to today’s episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.

Dear Birth Mother, our relationship began with a letter nine years ago… So as we continue to realize our dream of a family, I find myself again writing to someone I don't know to try and convey our thoughts and dreams.

Hi Neighbor,

As I look back on my life, some of the most significant things that have happened to me began with a handwritten letter. 

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share with you five different stories in my life, all paralleled with events that were affected by letters.

By the end, I hope you’ll consider writing a letter to yourself.

Check out the episodes mentioned about my son, Jonny: EP 1, and EP 47.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. I would like to encourage you to write a letter for the show. For those of you who haven’t left a review yet, just think of it as writing a letter for the show. It will not only bless me, but it will bless those who haven't heard the podcast yet. Thanks Neighbor!

What do you do for respite? Sometimes for me, respite means I’m walking in the rain.

Hi Neighbor,

In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to encourage you to identify times in your life when you need to take a moment for respite. Whatever respite looks like for you and whenever you need respite, make sure you make the time to do that for yourself. 

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and need a break, I hope this message finds you at the perfect time.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks, Neighbor!

What do you do when life is coming at you from all different directions? Life is tough. Storms in life are inevitable. What do you do when those storms are bearing down on you? May I suggest you sit with the text?

Hi Neighbor,

Welcome to an unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. The fact that we are living on this planet means that we can’t escape storms. They’re a fact of life. But how do you deal with those storms? 

In this episode, we’ll sit with the text and consider verses from Psalm 31, Psalm 121, and Psalm 143.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

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If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

He was called son. He was called grandson. He was called nephew. He was called cousin, and he was called brother.

But he was never called husband. He was never called daddy, and he was never called grandpa because he never came home.

I hope when I’m finished telling you his story, you might consider calling him hero.

Hi Neighbor,

This episode was recorded as we prepare to celebrate Memorial Day in the United States. The federal holiday for honoring and mourning the U.S. military personnel who have died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.

In this episode, I share the story of my hero, Uncle Lloyd. A hero I only knew from a picture on a wall.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!

When we recognize something in our environment that is not only harming us but causing anxiety, stress, and overwhelm in our lives, we want to remove it. Whatever it is.

What about when that same thing is affecting our children in a negative way? We will do whatever it takes. Period!

Hi Neighbor,

I’m pleased to bring you my friend and podcasting sister, Emily McDermott.

Emily hosts the top 1.5% globally ranked podcast, Moms Overcoming Overwhelm, where she helps moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts.

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, Emily will discuss a topic that may initially seem unrelated to adoptive parents. 

However, it holds relevance for many individuals in our society and particularly resonates with adoptive parents who face unique challenges associated with adoption.

I pray you’ll be encouraged by our conversation.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!

Connect with Emily: Podcast Website Instagram Facebook Group Freebie

Say it to Mom While You Can. Discover the words inside you to share with the woman who holds your heart forever.

Hi Neighbor,

Welcome to a special episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Today you’re going to hear a coaching session I recently had with my neighbor Kim. Kim is a lifelong friend and the closest neighbor I’ve ever had on the show.

In this coaching session, I asked Kim a series of questions and then gave her time to write down her answers.

I would like to invite you to grab a pen and paper and participate too. Feel free to pause the episode when the music starts, and once you have your answers written down, resume the episode. 

Make sure and stay until the end because I have a special gift not only for Kim but for you too.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

If you would like to receive the Heartbook I gave Kim, click this LINK. It has the prompts I read to Kim, space to write your answers, and a script to compose your message. There’s also a special card you can print and write your message on.

By downloading your Heartbook, you’ll also become a member of our Anchors of Encouragement Community and receive regular updates about the show.

I couldn't believe what Blue allowed me to do. Bleu’s kittens were not safe, leaving my wife and me with a tough decision to make. We hoped that Bleu would cooperate with us, but what happened next was beyond belief. I was able to do something that I never thought possible.

Hi Neighbor,

Join us in this special unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement as we continue to explore the heartwarming story of my cat Bleu and her kittens. This is not your typical adoption story that you usually hear on our podcast, but it's a tale that will warm your heart nonetheless.

Bleu's story provides an important illustration of how building trust, whether it’s with animals or adopted children, takes love, compassion, and grace.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

Have you ever thought about creating your own podcast but don’t know where to begin? That was me until I discovered Stefanie Gass and her excellent training.

I started with Clarify Your Calling and then took Podcast Pro University.

Now, I have a Top 2.5% Global Podcast in over 60 countries. Stef shows you how. This episode is an example of how easy it can be. If I can do it, you CAN too.

Disclaimer: The links I include in my show descriptions may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for listening to Anchors of Encouragement. 

I went over to the area of the barn where I suspected they were, when all of a sudden, I heard a sound. It was a growl. Bleu was letting me know, you are not welcome here!

Hi Neighbor,

Could you use a break from all of the negativity in the news? I know I can. Don’t let the growl in the intro scare you off. This story has a happy ending… promise.

In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share a story with you, an adoption story, but not the typical adoption story you are used to hearing on this podcast.

I’ll also share with you how easy it is to become a podcaster using JUST your phone. 

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

Have you ever thought about creating your own podcast but don’t know where to begin? That was me until I discovered Stefanie Gass and her excellent training.

I started with Clarify Your Calling and then took Podcast Pro University.

Now, I have a Top 2.5% Global Podcast in over 60 countries. Stef shows you how. This episode is an example of how easy it can be. If I can do it, you CAN too.

Disclaimer: The links I include in my show descriptions may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for listening to Anchors of Encouragement. 

Hi Neighbor,

Have you ever had a friend going through difficult times? We all have. Maybe they have health issues. Maybe there has been a death in the family. Maybe they are struggling with their adopted child. Whatever it is, you want to help them.

When you do reach out, the conversation usually goes something like this. “Let me know what I can do.” I’ve said that before and I’ve had it said to me. And more times than not, that’s where it ends. Nothing happens.

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, we’re going to consider a topic that has really frustrated me in the past.

But when you consider it through the anchor of a kind gesture, that frustration goes away.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!

When the final curtain drops on your life, how do you want to be remembered? It ultimately will be based on the choices you made.

Hi Neighbor,

In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, we’ll consider the anchor of choice and the tragic story of John Wilkes Booth, the assassin of President Abraham Lincoln. Despite gaining critical acclaim for his acting abilities, Booth's last words are a chilling reminder of the consequences of bad choices.

Also, regardless of your background, you get to write your own story. Don't let someone else's opinion define you. Ensure that people remember you for your good choices.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!

Feeling overwhelmed as an adoptive parent? You can’t pour from an empty cup!

Hi Neighbor,

Parenting, especially in adoptive families, can be overwhelming. There’s only so much you can give before you have nothing more to offer.

Today’s segment, The Magic Is in Nurturing Your Relationships, comes from Episode 183. I want to encourage you to listen, take notes, and sit with the idea or ideas that speak to you.

What fills your cup? 

Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. You’re not alone in this journey. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

Listen to today’s episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.

Contact Jane: • Phone Number: (256) 353-8528 • Email: jbaker@adoption-associates.com • Website: Adoption Associates

Hi Neighbor,

In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share a story about the hardest first in a year of firsts following the passing of my Mom.

I believe this perspective can help you and I encourage adopted children. 

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!

How can adoptive parents who are exhausted and stressed out feel comfort and support? A young teenage girl shared one way to do this over 70 years ago.

Hi Neighbor,

The release date for this episode is March 31st. That is the day recognized by Dutch authorities as the day Anne Frank and her sister Margot died in the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp in 1945.

I want to remember Anne Frank and share 3 entries from her diary with the hope that they will encourage you to take up the practice of journaling.

We’ll consider those entries with the concept of a paper anchor. 

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!

The car ride to visit Jonny at residential treatment took four hours.. one-way. Those trips were usually emotional and exhausting. For my wife and me, the staff encouraged us to make sure and take care of ourselves. But we weren't our number one focus. Our focus was on him. Thankfully, we had anchors who cared and focused on us.

Hi Neighbor,

Today I want to speak primarily to those of you who are friends of adoptive parents and encourage you to throw a lifeline to them. 

The story I’m going to share is about when our anchors showed compassion and care for us in a very simple, encouraging, and doable way.

Hope and Healing are on the way.

Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim

P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Thanks Neighbor!