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This episode contains discussion around grief, loss, relationships, attachment, and food psychology.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by TAC Training School. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a therapist or are looking to enhance your clinical skills, TAC Training School offers a complete, supportive pathway into the profession. From foundation-level counselling courses to their BACP-accredited Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Diploma in Clinical Supervision, their programmes are led by expert tutors and designed to help you grow into a confident, ethical, and skilled practitioner. To find out more, visit http://www.tactrainingschool.com/ and take the next step in your therapy journey.

🎧 Join us for an entertaining and enlightening conversation with academic, cook, Financial Times Book of the Year Author and psychotherapist Dr Andrea Oskis as she shares insights from her new book 'The Kitchen Shrink: How the food we eat is the key to how we love', exploring how food stories from therapy reveal the deeper truths about our relationships and psychological wellbeing.

This thought-provoking discussion explores how food is fundamental to our emotional lives, profoundly affecting how we deal with life's big challenges - love, loss, separation and jealousy.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Dr Oskis openly shares:
• How food stories told by clients in therapy explain how we form and sustain relationships
• The 'fried egg theory of grief' and what it reveals about loss
• The 'hot sauce paradigm' and its connection to relationship dynamics
• Combining storytelling, recipes and Attachment Theory in therapeutic practice
• How food affects our psychological wellbeing beyond basic nutrition
• Understanding the emotional connection between what we eat and how we love
• Practical insights for grieving partners and parents of picky eaters
• Why there's a lot of discussion about eggs in this episode
• How academic research, cooking and psychotherapy intersect
• Recognising food as more than just sustenance in our emotional lives

This essential conversation offers valuable guidance for anyone interested in the psychology of food, attachment patterns in relationships, or understanding how our eating habits reflect our emotional world.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• The intersection of food, psychology and relationships
• Attachment Theory and how we form connections with others
• The 'fried egg theory of grief' explained
• The 'hot sauce paradigm' and relationship dynamics
• How food stories reveal deeper psychological truths
• Using recipes and storytelling in therapeutic practice
• Food as a lens for understanding love, loss and separation
• The emotional significance of what and how we eat
• Consoling grief and supporting parents through food psychology
• Why eggs feature so prominently in food and relationship narratives

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This episode discusses childhood hardship, caring responsibilities, racism, perfectionism, overwork, stress, and serious health issues.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by TAC Training School. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a therapist or are looking to enhance your clinical skills, TAC Training School offers a complete, supportive pathway into the profession. From foundation-level counselling courses to their BACP-accredited Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Diploma in Clinical Supervision, their programmes are led by expert tutors and designed to help you grow into a confident, ethical, and skilled practitioner. To find out more, visit http://www.tactrainingschool.com/ and take the next step in your therapy journey.
 
🎧 Join us for an honest and inspiring conversation with counsellor, coach and public speaker Maryane Mwaniki as she shares her journey from growing up with constant money struggles and caring for her mother from a young age, to becoming a high achiever in a demanding professional world before being forced to confront the cost of overwork.

This thoughtful discussion explores how childhood experiences can shape perfectionism and work addiction, and why slowing down can be the beginning of a more balanced and fulfilling life.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Maryane openly shares:
• Growing up in a family affected by ongoing money struggles
• Caring for her mother, who lived with chronic ill-health and did not speak English as a first language
• Advocating for her family from a young age
• Becoming highly driven and high-achieving at work
• Studying English and going on to work in Higher Education
• Being the only young, Black female in a space dominated by older White men
• Building a successful career at pace
• Reaching a point of personal stress and overwork that led to serious health issues
• Being forced to slow down and re-evaluate her priorities
• Addressing what she describes as 'a work addiction'
• Retraining as a counsellor after her recovery
• Choosing to live a 'softer life' centred more on balance than perfection
• Working now as a counsellor, coach and public speaker with individuals, couples and groups

This essential conversation offers valuable insight for high achievers struggling with perfectionism, overwork, and the pressure of trying to 'have it all'.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Childhood hardship and early caring responsibilities
• Growing up with financial pressure and family advocacy
• The roots of perfectionism and overachievement
• Navigating race, gender and identity in professional spaces
• The impact of chronic stress and overwork on health
• Recognising and addressing work addiction
• Slowing down and re-evaluating priorities
• Recovery and career change
• Retraining as a counsellor
• Living a softer, more balanced life
• Supporting individuals, couples and groups through counselling and coaching

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This episode contains discussion around high control organisations, cults, religious trauma, coercive control, and therapeutic harm.

Join us for an eye-opening and deeply personal conversation with counsellor Bruno Nice as he shares his extraordinary journey from being born into a high control religious group to becoming a therapist specialising in cult recovery and organisational trauma.

This powerful discussion explores how surviving coercive control can inform therapeutic practice, and why understanding these dynamics is essential for helping others break free from harmful systems.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Bruno openly shares:
• Growing up in a high control religious sect from the 1980s
• How the group controlled every aspect of his life - music, relationships, movement and identity
• Feeling 'different' and struggling to fit in within the group's rigid framework
• His parents' concern and encouragement to seek therapy
• A traumatic experience with an unethical therapist who later abused other young men
• The brave decision to leave the religion and his family home
• How his negative therapy experience inspired him to train as a person-centred counsellor
• Understanding coercive, threatening and exploitative group behaviours
• Specialising in working with current and former cult members
• Recognising the signs of high control organisations - religious and secular
• The journey from survivor to healer and expert

This essential conversation offers profound insights for anyone affected by high control groups, religious trauma, or seeking to understand cult dynamics and recovery.

Key Topics Discussed:
• What defines high control organisations and cults
• Coercive control tactics used to demand total loyalty
• The psychological impact of growing up in restrictive religious environments
• Identity suppression and the struggle to be yourself
• Recognising red flags in religious and secular organisations
• The lasting effects of religious trauma
• Therapeutic harm and unethical practitioner behaviour
• Finding courage to leave family and familiar systems
• Person-centred counselling as a healing approach
• Supporting survivors of cults and high control groups
• From victim to expert: using lived experience in therapeutic practice

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This episode contains discussion around burnout, anxiety, workplace stress, redundancy, and career transitions.

Join us for an inspiring and honest conversation with corporate executive coach and mentor James Gellatley as he shares his transformative journey from a successful 25-year career in the City to discovering his true calling after burnout and redundancy.

This thought-provoking discussion explores how personal crisis can lead to profound self-discovery, and why vulnerability and self-awareness are essential for genuine wellbeing and leadership.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, James openly shares:
• His 25-year career trajectory in banking, rising to senior level at Credit Suisse
• The hidden cost of outward success and the burden of maintaining a professional image
• Struggling with burnout whilst hiding health challenges from colleagues and clients
• Experiencing long Covid symptoms and the impact on his wellbeing
• The fear of vulnerability damaging his reputation in the corporate world
• How Credit Suisse's collapse became an unexpected turning point
• Facing redundancy, financial responsibilities and loss of identity
• Enrolling in a Foundation Course in Counselling at the Awareness Centre
• The transformative power of personal therapy and self-reflection
• Retraining as an Executive and Teams Coach
• Using decades of banking experience to help others find happiness and productivity
• Breaking free from workaholism and rediscovering purpose
• Living in the here and now and reconnecting with personal needs

This essential conversation offers hope and practical insights for anyone struggling with burnout, workplace anxiety, perfectionism, or searching for greater meaning in their career and life.

Key Topics Discussed:
• The psychology of burnout in high-pressure corporate environments
• Maintaining a facade of success whilst struggling internally
• The impact of long Covid on mental and physical wellbeing
• Fear of vulnerability in professional settings
• Career identity and loss of purpose following redundancy
• Therapy as a catalyst for career transformation
• Transitioning from corporate executive to executive coach
• Reconnecting with personal values and needs
• Breaking patterns of overwork and self-neglect
• Male vulnerability and emotional honesty in the workplace
• Finding authentic purpose beyond job titles and status
• Mindfulness and living in the present moment

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This episode contains discussion around ADHD, cultural expectations, gender inequality, relationship breakdown, depression, and career transitions.

Join us for an inspiring and honest conversation with counsellor and former DJ Joy Zheng as she shares her transformative journey from struggling with self-worth in a society that valued boys over girls, to building a thriving private practice in London.

This compelling discussion explores how overcoming cultural expectations, navigating ADHD, and embracing therapy can lead to profound personal reinvention and professional fulfilment.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach & Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Joy openly shares:
• Growing up in China and internalising messages about her worth as a girl
• Being diagnosed with ADHD and struggling through school
• Finding creative escape through music and the DJ scene
• Building a successful career as a DJ in Shanghai
• Meeting her husband through the music industry and moving to London
• The devastating impact of relationship breakdown and lost dreams
• Experiencing depression and feeling lost after separation
• A pivotal conversation that sparked her interest in therapy
• Training as a therapist whilst managing ADHD and learning in English
• Overcoming academic and group work challenges
• Building and growing her private practice in London
• Redefining self-worth beyond societal and relationship expectations
• Creating a new life on her own terms

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone struggling with self-worth, navigating ADHD, recovering from relationship loss, or considering a career transition into therapy.

Key Topics Discussed:
• Cultural gender expectations and internalised feelings of inadequacy
• ADHD in school settings and the lack of support
• Using creativity as a coping mechanism
• Career building and finding your place in the world
• Relationship breakdown and grief
• Depression and the journey towards recovery
• The transformative power of therapy
• Training as a therapist with ADHD and language barriers
• Redefining identity after major life changes
• Building a successful private practice
• Self-worth beyond external validation

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This episode contains discussion around relationship breakdown, low self-esteem, vulnerable young people, gang involvement, and creative therapy approaches.

🎧 Join us for an inspiring and deeply personal conversation with Child, Adolescent and Family Therapist ShediYah HatNebMaoo as she shares her unconventional journey from struggling in a turbulent relationship with low self-esteem to becoming a compassionate therapist who helps vulnerable young people imagine new possibilities for their lives.

This honest discussion explores how therapy can transform our confidence and self-belief, and why creative, person-centred approaches are so powerful when working with young people facing difficult circumstances.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, ShediYah openly shares:
• Her unconventional journey into therapy as a young mother
• Struggling in a turbulent relationship with low self-esteem
• Being encouraged to try therapy by her partner's probation officer
• Feeling unsafe leaving her children with someone else
• Finding a therapist who allowed her to bring her children along
• How therapy helped her rebuild her confidence
• Contemplating a career change whilst raising young children
• Spending 4 years volunteering before committing to training as a counsellor
• Working with children and young people, many of whom are vulnerable
• Supporting young people with experience of gangs
• Using gentle, person-centred approaches in her work
• Incorporating creative therapy and dreamwork into her practice
• Helping young people to 'imagine something else for themselves'
• Her role as a lecturer and Clinical Supervisor

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone working with vulnerable young people, navigating difficult relationships, or interested in creative therapeutic approaches.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Seeking help whilst managing childcare responsibilities
• The impact of turbulent relationships on self-esteem and confidence
• Therapy as a catalyst for personal transformation
• The power of person-centred approaches
• Creative therapy and dreamwork with young people
• Supporting vulnerable young people and those affected by gangs
• Building hope and possibility with young people facing adversity
• The journey from client to therapist
• Volunteering and career transitions
• Clinical supervision and training others
• Reimagining futures for young people in difficult circumstances

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This episode contains discussion around child loss, cancer, bereavement, grief, family resilience, and rebuilding after tragedy.

🎧 Join us for a deeply moving and inspirational conversation with psychotherapist Charlotte Allocca as she shares her extraordinary journey through unimaginable loss, from the devastating diagnosis of her daughter Rose's rare bone cancer to rebuilding her life and finding profound purpose through helping others navigate grief.
This gripping and honest discussion explores how loss can transform us, and why finding the right support and community is essential for healing after bereavement.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Charlotte openly shares:
• Becoming a mother in her late 20s filled with anxiety and self-doubt
• How she embraced motherhood with confidence by the time her daughter Rose was born
• The shock of Rose's diagnosis with a rare and aggressive form of bone cancer
• Two years of hospital visits, surgeries and intensive treatment
• Witnessing her daughter's remarkable resilience throughout her illness
• The moment doctors declared nothing more could be done
• Rose passing away at home aged 8
• The profound grief and loss that followed
• Facing additional difficult challenges whilst trying to rebuild her family's life
• Struggling to find the right therapeutic help during her bereavement
• Finding solace in volunteering for a bereavement charity
• The decision to train as a therapist herself
• Running a private practice in London and the Isle of Wight
• Using her experience to support others through loss and grief

This essential conversation offers invaluable guidance for anyone navigating child loss, bereavement, grief recovery, or seeking to rebuild their life after tragedy.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• The journey into motherhood and early parenting anxieties
• Childhood resilience and coping with serious illness
• The impact of child loss on families
• Navigating grief and bereavement after losing a child
• Finding appropriate therapeutic support during loss
• The role of community and bereavement charities
• Rebuilding family life after tragedy
• Training as a therapist following personal loss
• Using personal experience to support grieving clients
• Finding purpose and meaning after loss
• The healing power of helping others

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This episode contains discussion around ADHD, overwork, male vulnerability, family trauma, ancestral trauma, and career transitions.

🎧 Join us for a wide-ranging and deeply personal conversation with Gestalt psychotherapist Simon Jacobs as he shares his remarkable journey from building a highly successful advertising business to discovering his true calling in therapy, uncovering how childhood competitiveness and hidden family trauma shaped his adult struggles with overwork and perfectionism.

This honest and inspiring discussion explores how becoming a father can trigger profound personal transformation, and why understanding ancestral trauma is essential for breaking free from inherited patterns of behaviour.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Simon openly shares:
• Growing up as an artistic child with a high-achieving mother
• Struggling at school because of his ADHD
• Finding solace and expression through creativity
• Building a highly successful career in the advertising industry
• Being encouraged to be competitive from childhood
• Overworking and obsessing over failures in his business
• The overwhelming pressures of work, relationships and fatherhood
• His transformative experience seeking help from a therapist
• Making the bold decision to pivot careers within weeks
• Beginning his own therapy training and leaving advertising behind
• Running a successful private practice and long-running men's therapy group
• Becoming a facilitator in Family Constellations therapy
• Addressing ancestral trauma and difficult family dynamics
• Breaking down barriers around male vulnerability

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone struggling with overwork, competitiveness, ADHD, or the pressures of balancing career success with family life and personal wellbeing.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Living and thriving with ADHD
• The impact of high-achieving parents on childhood development
• Competitiveness and perfectionism in business
• Overwork, burnout and obsessing over failure
• Male vulnerability and seeking help
• The transformative power of fatherhood
• Career transitions from corporate success to therapeutic practice
• Men's therapy groups and creating safe spaces for vulnerability
• Family Constellations therapy and ancestral trauma
• How hidden family dynamics affect present-day behaviour
• Breaking free from inherited patterns and family trauma
• Using creativity as a coping mechanism and form of expression

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This episode contains discussion around family relationship breakdown, young people's mental health (including self-harm and suicide ideation), body-based therapy approaches, and post-pandemic challenges.

🎧 Join us for an insightful and compassionate conversation with Gestalt psychotherapist, trainer and supervisor Jo Small as she shares her journey from growing up in a northern town before mental health was widely discussed to becoming a specialist in body-based therapy and working extensively with young people.
This essential discussion explores how our bodies communicate what words cannot, and why understanding the physical language of emotions is crucial for healing troubled relationships and supporting young people in today's challenging world.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Jo openly shares:
• Growing up in a northern town before mental health was widely discussed
• How she would have benefitted from therapy during her parents' relationship breakup
• Her transformative experience working with a Gestalt therapist
• Using specific techniques to repair troubled relationships, particularly with her father
• Training as a Gestalt therapist, trainer and supervisor
• Working extensively with the body to understand emotional communication
• How gesture, posture and physical feelings reveal what clients are experiencing
• Her work in schools supporting young people's mental health
• How challenging life has become for children and teenagers post-pandemic
• The impact of social media on young people's wellbeing
• Recognising and interpreting the language our bodies speak

This essential conversation offers valuable guidance for anyone curious about body-based therapeutic approaches, working with young people, or understanding how thoughts and feelings manifest physically.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• The importance of mental health support during family breakdown
• Gestalt therapy techniques for repairing damaged relationships
• How the body communicates emotions through gesture and posture
• Working therapeutically with physical feelings and sensations
• Young people's mental health in schools
• The post-pandemic impact on children and teenagers
• Social media's effect on young people's wellbeing
• Body-based approaches to therapy and healing
• Training and supervising in Gestalt therapy
• Recognising what your body is telling you about your emotional state

Chapters:

00:00 From Difficult Childhood to Becoming a Therapist
02:36 Addressing Self-Harm and Post-Pandemic Challenges in Schools 08:50 The Here and Now: Awareness and Relational Patterns
14:57 Using Gestalt to Repair a Difficult Father Relationship
18:28 How Embodied Practice Reveals Emotions and Anxieties
26:18 Marathons, Authenticity, and Social Media's Impact
30:22 The Value of Self-Disclosure in Podcast Conversations

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This episode contains discussion around anxiety, depression, male vulnerability, and pandemic mental health experiences.

Join us for a thoughtful and wide-ranging conversation with counsellor, business-owner and economist Sorin Floti as he shares his unconventional journey from post-communist Romania to becoming a therapist in London, sparked by his own mental health struggles during the pandemic.

This inspiring discussion explores how personal crisis can lead to profound career transformation, and why understanding our own mental health challenges is often the first step towards helping others.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Sorin openly shares:
• Growing up in post-communist Romania and moving to the US for university
• Working towards a Masters Degree when Covid disrupted everything
• Being removed from usual routines and coping mechanisms during the pandemic
• Experiencing anxiety and depression for the first time
• His transformative experience with phone therapy and a skilful practitioner
• How therapy helped him manage his mental health during lockdown
• Recognising the potential for a counselling career through his own healing
• Balancing his practice in London with work as a business-owner and economist
• The challenges of overachieving and self-criticism
• Breaking down barriers around male vulnerability
• Why men often struggle to seek help and express emotions

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone who has experienced pandemic mental health challenges, career transitions, or struggles with perfectionism and self-criticism.

Key Topics Discussed:
• The mental health impact of pandemic disruption and isolation
• How personal therapy experiences can inspire career changes
• Overachieving, perfectionism and the pressure to succeed
• Self-criticism and developing self-compassion
• Male vulnerability and breaking down emotional barriers
• Why men find it difficult to seek mental health support
• Balancing multiple careers and finding your calling
• The transformative power of skilled therapeutic intervention
• Cultural perspectives on mental health and therapy
• From client to practitioner: using personal experience professionally

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This episode contains discussion around nomadic childhood experiences, career transitions, therapy training, and alternative therapeutic approaches.

Join us for an inspiring and wide-ranging conversation with psychotherapist, executive coach and businessman Ben McKie as he shares his remarkable journey from the music business to founding innovative therapeutic projects that blend Eastern wisdom with Western psychological practice.

This thought-provoking discussion explores how following your calling can lead to unexpected paths, and why stepping outside traditional frameworks can create profound opportunities for healing and growth.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC). 

In this compelling episode, Ben openly shares:
• How his nomadic childhood shaped his worldview and approach to life
• His journey into therapy as a young father working in the music business
• The pivotal moment of turning down a lucrative job to follow his therapeutic calling
• Building and running a successful private practice for several years
• Growing frustrated with traditional therapeutic approaches and seeking alternatives
• Founding innovative projects that integrate Eastern wisdom with Western psychology
• Juggling private client work with desert retreats in Egypt
• Developing social impact projects across the UK
• The lies we tell ourselves and how to recognise them
• What really happens when we courageously leave our comfort zone
• Why doubt can actually become our greatest ally in personal growth

This essential conversation offers profound insights for anyone questioning conventional paths, seeking deeper meaning in their work, or curious about innovative approaches to healing and personal development.

Key Topics Discussed:
• The impact of nomadic childhood experiences on adult perspectives
• Career transitions and following your authentic calling
• Integrating Eastern wisdom with Western therapeutic practice
• Building alternative therapeutic frameworks outside traditional models
• The role of doubt in personal and professional growth
• Creating meaningful work that aligns with your values
• Desert retreats and experiential therapeutic approaches
• Social impact projects and community healing
• Recognising and challenging the lies we tell ourselves
• The transformative power of leaving your comfort zone

Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:40 Why Ben went into therapy 
05:00 Believing fabricated stories about yourself that are different from the truth 
06:45 Growing up in different countries
08:03 Ben’s Dad who was a monk 
10:44 Setting up desert retreats 
14:45 Sitting in an Oasis
15:36 The beginning of the desert retreats
19:35 The transformation that happens in the desert
20:43 Therapy alone isn’t enough
21:55 Eastern philosophy, medicine and wisdom
23:00 Returning from the desert and working online 
27:20 Working in the music industry 
28:38 Ben’s career change 
30:00 Pushing against authority 
31:25 The newer generation coming to therapy 
32:54 Ben’s values as a therapist and being brave 
33:51 The Greater Good Consultancy 
38:00 Exposing ourselves to other ways of seeing and being 
39:28 Ben’s final message 
39:54 Outro

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This episode contains discussion around boarding school experiences, grief, attachment trauma, addiction, and toxic relationships.

🎧 Join us for a profound and insightful conversation with Counselling Psychologist Dr Jane Halsall as she shares her transformative journey from career change to specialising in grief and attachment, uncovering how early boarding school experiences shaped her ability to trust and form meaningful relationships.

This honest and enlightening discussion explores how personal therapy can reveal hidden trauma, and why understanding our attachment patterns is crucial for breaking free from toxic relationship cycles.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Dr Halsall openly shares:
• Her mid-twenties career pivot from her original path to studying Psychology
• Training in Addiction Counselling and working at a women-only rehab facility
• How witnessing trauma in others revealed her own unresolved issues
• The profound impact of boarding school on her ability to trust and form relationships
• Using personal therapy to understand her own attachment patterns
• Specialising in grief and attachment as a Counselling Psychologist
• Working with clients who struggle to form and maintain relationships
• The psychology behind toxic relationships and why they're so difficult to escape
• The art of sitting with yourself and developing self-awareness
• Practical insights for breaking destructive relationship patterns

This essential conversation offers valuable guidance for anyone struggling with relationship difficulties, trust issues, or the lasting effects of early separation and institutional experiences.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• The long-term psychological impact of boarding school experiences
• How early separation affects adult attachment and relationships
• Recognising and addressing unresolved trauma through therapy
• Understanding the psychology of toxic relationships
• Why we repeatedly find ourselves in harmful relationship patterns
• The role of grief in attachment and relationship healing
• Developing the capacity to sit with difficult emotions
• Career transitions and finding your therapeutic calling
• Using personal experience to inform professional specialisation
• Practical strategies for building healthier relationship patterns

Chapters:
00:00 Intro 
01:03 How Jane found herself in the world of therapy 
02:36 Jane’s placement in a women’s only rehab centre
05:01 Treatment centres being geared towards men 
05:44 Jane’s own challenges surfacing 
08:10 Jane’s experience at boarding school
10:30 Struggling to fit in, bullying and feeling isolated
11:40 Attachment Style and being ‘hard’ in relationships
12:50 Is everyone traumatised?
13:40 The traits of being traumatised
15:34 Feeling guilty about being privileged and traumatised
16:26 How Jane’s family and friends viewed her going to therapy 
17:56 What Jane has learnt from the world of therapy 
18:34 Grief and the different types of loss
21:30 Is phone use and social media problematic?
22:35 How working with grief has changed Jane as a person and as a single parent 
24:26 Toxic relationships and the subtle changes 
26:30 Attachment styles 
28:16 Family trauma and recreating patterns
32:04 Jane’s final message to viewers and listeners
33:30 Outro 

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This episode discusses sex therapy, compulsive sexual behaviours, relationship dynamics, monogamy, conversion therapy, sex education, and pornography.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by The Awareness Centre, a leading counselling and psychotherapy practice in London with over 300 therapists, offering therapy both in person and online. With a range of fee options designed to make support more accessible, no GP referral needed, no waiting list, and appointments available seven days a week. Visit https://https://theawarenesscentre.com/ to find the right therapist for you.

🎧 Join us for a refreshing and insightful conversation with sex and relationships therapist and author Silva Neves as he shares his transformative approach to understanding compulsive sexual behaviours through psychotherapy rather than addiction frameworks.

This honest discussion explores how childhood experiences shape adult patterns, and why compassion and non-judgment are essential when working with complex relationship and sexual issues.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Silva openly shares:
• His radical approach to treating compulsive sexual behaviours
• Why addiction frameworks don't fit sexual behaviour patterns
• Using psychotherapy to understand root causes formed in childhood
• The stories behind compulsive behaviours
• His perspective on monogamy
• Thoughts on conversion therapy
• Sex education and its impact
• The role of pornography in relationships
• Working with clients with compassion and non-judgment

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone interested in sex therapy, relationship dynamics, or understanding compulsive behaviours from a psychological perspective.

Key Topics Discussed:
• Compulsive sexual behaviours and psychological roots
• Childhood experiences shaping adult patterns
• Moving beyond addiction models in sex therapy
• Monogamy and relationship structures
• Conversion therapy and its implications
• Sex education and awareness
• Pornography and relationships
• Compassionate, non-judgmental therapeutic approaches
• Understanding clients' stories and experiences

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This episode contains discussion around childhood bullying and stammering.

🎧 Join us for an extraordinary conversation with Professor Windy Dryden, one of the most influential figures in modern psychotherapy, as he shares his remarkable 50-year journey from a bullied schoolboy with a stammer to becoming a pioneering force in CBT and creator of revolutionary ONEplus therapy.

This fascinating and wide-ranging discussion explores how personal adversity sparked a lifelong passion for understanding human psychology, leading to groundbreaking contributions that have shaped therapeutic practice worldwide.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Professor Dryden openly shares:
• How childhood bullying and stammering ignited his interest in feelings and motivations
• His transformative experience on a kibbutz in Israel
• The early development and evolution of CBT as a therapeutic approach
• Creating ONEplus therapy - a revolutionary single-session therapeutic method
• His prolific writing career spanning 290 books on psychotherapy
• The crucial difference between self-esteem and self-acceptance
• Tackling procrastination through innovative 'anti-crastination' techniques
• What can realistically be achieved in just one therapy session
• Insights from five decades at the forefront of therapeutic innovation

This essential conversation offers invaluable insights for therapists, students, and anyone interested in the evolution of modern psychotherapy and the power of turning personal challenges into professional purpose.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• The origins of CBT and its development over the decades
• How personal adversity can fuel professional innovation
• ONEplus therapy and single-session therapeutic interventions
• Self-acceptance versus self-esteem in therapeutic practice
• Procrastination and practical strategies for overcoming it
• The academic journey from personal struggle to professorship
• Writing and sharing knowledge across 290 published works
• What makes therapy effective in different timeframes
• The evolution of psychotherapeutic approaches over 50 years

Chapters:
00:00 Guest Introduction
01:10 How Windy got into the world of psychology through having a stammer 
03:09 Windy’s father's relationship with money and deciding Windy’s career
04:00 Dropping out of University and going to Israel to a Kibbutz
04:40 Returning to University and beginning his career as a therapist 
08:35 Rational Emotive Psychotherapy
09:58 Windy’s career progression
11:28 Windy’s experience at Goldsmiths and being turned down for lecturing jobs 
14:10 Windy’s stammer
15:15 Going to America for CBT training 
19:14 Rational Emotive Psychotherapy being ‘wiped out’ in the UK
20:25 Writing 290 books 
22:46 Single session therapy
30:53 Windy’s current writing 
31:46 Building a relationship with a client during single session therapy

37:27 Windy’s thoughts on the NHS’ first contact being an assessment

38:12 Windy’s one piece of advice for listeners

39:02 Outro 

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This episode contains discussion around sex, shame, intimacy, and relationship diversity.

🎧 Join us for the second part of our fascinating conversation with psychosexual psychotherapist and trainer Julie Sale as she tackles the big questions about love, intimacy, and what's truly 'normal' in relationships.

With her trademark irreverence and humour, Julie addresses some of the most common concerns people have about sex and relationships, offering expert insights that challenge conventional thinking about intimacy and connection.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Julie openly discusses:
• Why there's so much secrecy and shame around sex in our society
• What actually constitutes 'normal' when it comes to relationships and intimacy
• Whether your sex life is over if you don't share a bed with your partner
• Understanding and embracing relationship diversity beyond traditional models
• How shame impacts our ability to connect intimately with others
• Practical insights from her work as founder of CICS (The Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology)
• Breaking down myths and misconceptions about sex and relationships

This essential conversation offers valuable perspectives for anyone questioning what's 'normal' in their relationship or struggling with shame around intimacy and sexual expression.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Challenging societal norms around sex and relationships
• Understanding the roots of sexual shame and secrecy
• Exploring different relationship models and what works for different people
• Practical advice for couples navigating intimacy challenges
• The impact of shame on sexual and emotional connection
• What psychosexual therapy can offer individuals and couples
• Redefining 'normal' in relationships and sexual expression
• Julie's irreverent and humorous approach to serious topics

Chapters:
00:00 Intro 
01:22 Training as a Sex Therapist 
01:46 Why specialising in fertility wasn’t the right decision for Julie 
04:07 Training as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist 
04:35 Setting up The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology (CICS)
07:28 You can’t avoid yourself in the subject of sex and relationships 
08:24 What is sex and relationship therapy, and how is psychosexual therapy different from psychotherapy? 
09:48 What is ‘good sex’ and what are the external factors impacting our sex lives?
10:39 Why sex carries a lot of shame, according to Julie 
13:34 Where do you go to learn about sex?
14:38 Psychotherapy is obsessed with trauma, not shame
15:55 Older generations vs younger generations 
16:30 The loss of relational connection 
17:41 One relationship can’t meet all our needs 
17:58 The Romance Myth 
19:09 Sex doesn’t always happen at bedtime
20:53 Having more than one intimate relationship 
22:41 Outro

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This episode contains discussion around mental health in the family, bipolar disorder, coming out, and psychosexual therapy.

🎧 Join us for a wide-ranging and fascinating conversation with psychosexual and relationship counsellor Hilton da Silva as he shares his journey from Brazil to London, navigating family mental health challenges, and finding freedom to be his authentic self.

This honest and inclusive discussion explores how early experiences with mental health in the family shaped Hilton's path to becoming a specialist in psychosexual and relationship work, offering valuable insights for people in relationships of all kinds.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Hilton openly shares:
• Growing up in Brazil and experiencing mental health problems in his family from a young age
• How his brother's bipolar disorder and erratic behaviour impacted the entire family
• Moving to live with a relative as a teenager due to family circumstances
• Finding his way as a queer person and the challenges of growing up LGBTQIA+
• His decision to move to London where he felt freer to be his true self
• Training to become a therapist and specialising in psychosexual and relationship work
• Supporting clients with sexual dysfunction, shame, intimacy, and communication issues
• Working as Team Leader for Wandsworth Talking Therapies

This essential conversation offers inclusive and sound advice for people in every sort of relationship, however they identify, and valuable insights into how personal experiences can inform therapeutic specialisation.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• The impact of family mental health challenges on young people
• Navigating cultural and family expectations around sexuality and identity
• Finding freedom and authenticity through geographical change
• How psychosexual and relationship therapy works in practice
• Supporting clients with sexual dysfunction and intimacy issues
• Addressing shame and communication problems in relationships
• Conflict avoidance and its impact on relationships
• Creating inclusive therapeutic spaces for all relationship types
• The connection between personal healing and professional calling

Chapters:
00:00 Intro 
1:15 Why Hilton went to therapy and his brother's journey to being diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder 
06:54 Hilton’s decision to move away as a teenager 
09:35 Hilton’s experience as a gay, cisgender man living in Brazil and hiding his sexuality as a teenager 
10:13 How Hilton’s mum discovered his sexuality 
11:35 The fear of being asked to leave your home because your sexuality isn’t accepted 
12:10 Hilton’s first experience of therapy at 33
13:00 Why Hilton came to London 
14:07 Hilton’s unexpected journey to becoming a therapist 
15:30 Hilton’s best therapist and the importance of finding the right therapist as being part of a marginalised community
16:17 How Hilton knew he was gay and dating girls 
17:29 Making LGBTQ+ friends and the freedom they feel to be open in London
18:52 Transphobic crime in Brazil 
20:00 Hilton’s journey to training to become a therapist 
21:32 Hilton’s marriage to a fellow therapist 
22:24 What is Psychosexual Therapy 
22:47 Vagnismus
24:26 Couple’s Therapy common challenges  
25:05 Relationship Problems
25:38 The benefit of going to therapy 
27:38 Avoidant-Conflict 
28:24 How Hilton works now 
30:15 Working with the LGBT community, keeping up with the younger generation and different identities
32:20 The most common issue that people bring into the therapy room with Hilton 
34:00 Hilton’s final message for listeners 
35:15 Outro 

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This episode contains discussion around addiction, cancer, grief and loss, and bullying.

🎧 Join us for an incredibly moving and inspirational conversation with businesswoman and mindset coach Nina Stephenson-Camps as she shares her profound journey through addiction recovery, devastating loss, and the resilience required to rebuild life in the worst possible circumstances.

This open, emotional and wide-ranging discussion explores how Nina transformed her life twice - first overcoming addiction whilst building a successful PR career, and then facing the ultimate test when her husband was diagnosed with late-stage cancer, leaving her to raise two young daughters alone.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Nina openly shares:
• Recognising that addiction issues had taken control despite career success in PR
• The pivotal moment of seeking help from a life coach
• Making the brave decision to quit her job and travel the world for a year
• Getting clean and sober and the role therapy played in her recovery
• Pivoting from high-pressure corporate PR to freelance mindset coaching
• Her husband's devastating late-stage cancer diagnosis
• Exhausting all treatment options and facing the reality of terminal illness
• Supporting her husband through his final months at home
• The unimaginable challenge of single parenting two young daughters through grief
• Rebuilding life and finding hope after the worst possible loss
This essential conversation offers profound insights into resilience, hope, and the human capacity to survive and thrive after life's most devastating challenges.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Recognising and addressing addiction whilst maintaining professional success
• The role of life coaching in early recovery
• Using travel and new experiences as part of healing
• Transitioning from corporate life to meaningful work
• Supporting a partner through terminal illness
• Helping children understand and process bereavement
• Single parenting whilst processing your own grief
• Finding strength you didn't know you had
• Building a new life from the ground up
• The importance of professional support during crisis

Chapters: 

00:00 Intro 
1:25 Why Nina Went into Therapy
06:10 Being Promoted While Working in PR and Having a Breakdown
07:37 Nina's Solo Travelling and Stopping Drinking 
10:20 Nina's Dynamics with Female Bosses
13:00 Nina's Transition to Freelancing and Using Meditation Techniques
15:28 Not Being Concerned By Others Perception 
17:28 How Nina Works with Teams and Organisations
19:20 Developing Compassion in a Corporate Space
20:20 Nina's Husband's Diagnosis 
26:50 Nina and her Families Conversations About Death
29:50 Nina's Husbands Death
30:50 Nina's Experience of Grief and Navigating Other Peoples' Projections
33:00 Watching Her Daughters' Go Through The Grief of Losing Their Dad
38:55 Nina's New Capacity Levels for Work 
40:00 The First Year of Grief Isn't the Hardest
41:05 Nina's Advice for Listeners
42:40 Outro

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🎧 Join us for a fascinating and frank conversation with psychosexual psychotherapist and trainer Julie Sale as she shares her remarkable journey from working-class roots in the Midlands to becoming a specialist in sex and relationship therapy. 

This honest and wide-ranging discussion opens up important conversations about class, guilt, irrational beliefs, and the true price of success.

In this compelling episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Julie openly shares:
• Her near-death experience as a child and its lasting impact on her worldview
• Struggling with class identity whilst building a successful corporate career
• How past experiences resurfaced during her fertility journey in adulthood
• Being overwhelmed by irrational beliefs and the stress of infertility
• Her transformative therapy experience and decision to retrain as a psychotherapist
• Specialising in psychosexual therapy after her own healing journey

This profoundly insightful conversation offers valuable perspectives for anyone interested in class identity, fertility struggles, career transitions, or understanding how our past experiences shape our professional calling.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• Navigating class identity and imposter syndrome in professional settings
• The connection between childhood trauma and adult fertility challenges
• Reframing fear and anxiety as excitement and anticipation
• Experiencing both good and bad therapy - and knowing the difference
• How personal struggles can inform therapeutic specialisation
• Practical advice on finding the right therapist and knowing when to leave

00:00 Intro
01:00 Julie's Journey to Becoming a Therapist 
02:29 The Perception of Counselling Before The Age of Social Media 
03:40 Julie's Yorkshire Working Class Background 
05:29 Julie's Approach to University and Work 
06:45 A Disappointing Experience in the Corporate World 
07:29 Transitioning from a Working Class Family to a Middle Class Lifestyle
09:40 Julie's Experience in Hospital at 5 
10:50 Experiencing Infertility 
12:48 The Realities of Discussing Your Parents and Family in Therapy 
15:20 Rebranding Feeling Terrified to Excited 
16:16 Therapy Isn't About Other People - It's About You 
17:25 Experiencing Infertility in a Corporate Setting and IVF Treatment
19:18 The Psychological Componenet of Infertility 
20:50 Going to Counselling for Infertility and Having a 'Bad' Therapist
22:39 Starting Psychotherapy Training
25:00 How to Find a Good Therapist and When to Leave A 'Bad' Therapist 
28:30 Outro 

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🎧 Join us for a personal and moving conversation with therapist and Counselling Manager Seda Albay as she shares her powerful journey from being targeted by bullies to becoming a therapist for others with similar experiences. 

This honest and courageous discussion opens up vital conversations about bullying, shame, isolation, and the long-term impact of childhood trauma on our ability to communicate and connect.

In this compelling episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Seda bravely shares:
• Her transformation from an outgoing child to becoming isolated after experiencing secondary school bullying
• The shame that prevented her from telling her family about her struggles
• How the trauma manifested physically, leading to a Colitis diagnosis and hospitalisation
• Her journey of becoming self-reliant whilst struggling to communicate her needs
• Finding healing through university friendships and therapy training
This profoundly insightful conversation offers valuable perspectives for anyone interested in bullying recovery, understanding shame, or exploring how personal experiences can inform therapeutic practice.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• The devastating impact of bullying on childhood development
• How shame prevents us from seeking help when we need it most
• The connection between emotional trauma and physical health conditions
• Learning to express repressed emotions through therapy and friendship
• From isolation to connection: rebuilding trust and communication
• Using personal experience to help clients with similar struggles

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🎧 Join us for a deeply moving and inspiring conversation with integrative counsellor Amy Sharpe as she shares her remarkable journey from an unconventional adoption story to discovering her true calling in therapy. This honest and heartfelt discussion opens up important conversations about family, belonging, anxiety, and the transformative power of human connection.

In this touching episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Amy openly shares:
• Her unique adoption story - raised by extended family before being adopted by her godparents at age 11
• Growing up with absent birth parents and the impact on her sense of identity
• Struggling with anxieties around the concept of 'home' and belonging
• Discovering her vocation through a counselling taster course in her thirties
• How therapy helped her understand the root causes of her distress
This profoundly insightful conversation offers valuable perspectives for anyone interested in adoption experiences, anxiety management, or finding purpose through helping others heal.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• Navigating unconventional family structures and adoption
• The lasting impact of early childhood experiences on adult anxiety
• From career dissatisfaction to discovering a therapeutic calling
• How personal therapy informed professional practice
• The importance of processing difficult emotions rather than avoiding them
• Creating safe spaces for others to explore their full range of feelings

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This episode discusses supporting survivors of sexual abuse, undiagnosed dyslexia, overcoming adversity, football, youth work, and vulnerability.

This episode is sponsored by The Awareness Centre.  The Awareness Centre offers counselling and psychotherapy in a way that feels genuinely accessible. From NHS talking therapies, private therapy, and a low cost counselling service, we love that they're making good therapy available to more people. To find out more about their services, please visit https://https://theawarenesscentre.com/

🎧 Join us for an inspiring conversation with Humanistic Integrative Psychotherapist Anthony Bedward. Once a promising footballer, Anthony’s journey took a dramatic turn after an injury forced him to leave the sport behind. Facing undiagnosed dyslexia and leaving school unable to read or write, he went on to build a career as a youth worker and mentor before finding his calling in therapy. Anthony shares the emotional and financial challenges of training as a counsellor, the struggle with vulnerability, especially for young Black men, and his dedication to supporting survivors of sexual abuse and promoting emotional literacy.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Anthony openly shares:
• Growing up with undiagnosed dyslexia and leaving school without qualifications
• His early promise as a footballer and the impact of injury
• Building a career as a youth worker and mentor
• Facing redundancy and choosing a new path in counselling
• Overcoming emotional and financial barriers as a student therapist
• The challenge of vulnerability for young Black men
• His work supporting survivors of sexual abuse
• Advocating for emotional literacy in young men

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone overcoming adversity, navigating career changes, or interested in the importance of vulnerability and emotional support.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• The impact of undiagnosed learning difficulties
• Football, identity, and life after sport
• Youth work as a foundation for therapeutic practice
• Navigating redundancy and career transition
• Barriers to training as a therapist
• Emotional literacy and vulnerability in men
• Supporting survivors of sexual abuse
• Advocacy and private practice

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🎧 Join us for a powerful and inspiring conversation with trainee integrative counsellor Neil Bennett as he shares his transformative journey from personal struggle to passionate advocacy. This honest and compelling discussion opens up crucial conversations about anger, addiction, racism, and the importance of culturally sensitive mental health services.

In this moving episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Neil courageously shares:
• Growing up in South London witnessing his community and parents struggle with racism and ostracisation
• The disconnect he felt between his parents' immigrant experience and his own identity as a black Londoner
• How anger and confusion manifested in addiction and his path to recovery
• His transition from service user to volunteer to qualified Health and Social Care professional

This deeply insightful conversation offers valuable perspectives for anyone interested in community mental health, addiction recovery, or creating inclusive therapeutic services for marginalised communities.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• The impact of racism and community ostracisation on mental health
• Navigating identity as a second-generation immigrant
• From addiction to advocacy: a personal transformation story
• The importance of addressing root causes rather than symptoms
• Creating culturally sensitive services through ARC project
• Training as an Integrative Counsellor whilst building community services

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🎧 Join us for a wide-ranging and insightful conversation with psychotherapist, teacher, clinical supervisor and businesswoman Amy Launder as she shares her journey from teenage aspiration to successful multi-faceted practice. This engaging discussion opens up crucial conversations about the business of caring, emotionally immature parents, loneliness, and the benefits of long-term therapy.

In this comprehensive episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Amy openly shares:
• Her journey from deciding to be a therapist as a teenager to qualifying in her mid-20s
• Early struggles with being taken seriously by clients and herself
• Successfully juggling a thriving private practice with other business interests
• Her specialisation in treating children of emotionally immature parents

This deeply informative conversation offers valuable insights for anyone interested in building a sustainable therapy practice, understanding family dynamics, or exploring the benefits of long-term therapeutic work.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• Building credibility as a young therapist
• The business approach to therapy practice
• Treating children of emotionally immature parents
• Navigating difficult family relationships
• The origins and meaning of 'Flying Monkeys'
• Benefits of long-term therapy relationships

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🎧 Join us for a fascinating and inspiring conversation with psychotherapist and fitness instructor Claudine van de Vyver as she shares her remarkable journey from experiencing crippling post-natal depression to becoming a therapist who uniquely combines body and mind work. This honest discussion opens up crucial conversations about post-natal mental health, dyslexia, and body dysmorphia.

In this powerful episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Claudine courageously shares:
• Her experience of crippling post-natal depression over two decades ago
• How life-changing therapy sparked her ambition to become a counsellor
• Overcoming dyslexia fears to complete counselling training
• Simultaneously training as both a therapist and yoga teacher

This deeply inspiring conversation offers valuable insights for anyone exploring the mind-body connection, working through post-natal challenges, or interested in overcoming academic fears to pursue their dreams.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• Post-natal depression and seeking therapy
• Overcoming dyslexia to complete counselling training
• The connection between body and mind in healing
• Combining therapy practice with fitness instruction
• Creating safe spaces in both therapy room and fitness studio

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🎧 Join us for an insightful and honest conversation with Mandy Wax, Senior Course Lead at The Awareness Centre Training School in London, as she shares the realities of learning to become a counsellor. This candid discussion opens up crucial conversations about the intellectual, emotional, and practical challenges of counselling training.

In this essential episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Mandy openly shares:
• Her transition from schoolteacher to psychotherapist
• Leading students through three years of intensive integrative counselling training
• The transformative yet challenging nature of counselling education
• Real struggles students face in their training journey

This deeply informative conversation offers valuable insights for anyone considering counselling training or currently navigating their studies in the field.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• The reality of counselling training challenges
• Finding work-life balance during study
• Struggles with finding placements
• The pressure to work for free 
• The joyous and transformative aspects of learning therapy

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🎧 Join us for a profound and moving conversation with integrative counsellor and trauma therapist Philippa Madden as she shares her extraordinary journey from the music business to becoming a specialist in trauma work. This raw and honest discussion opens up crucial conversations about grief, career transitions, and finding purpose through healing.

In this powerful episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Philippa courageously shares:
• Her transition from music industry to therapy after a relationship breakup
• Processing the loss of her father who died when she was just three years old
• Her transformative work with violent criminals in the prison system
• How conversations at The Awareness Centre sparked her therapeutic journey

This deeply moving conversation offers valuable insights for anyone exploring career changes, working through grief, or interested in trauma therapy and rehabilitation work.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• Career transition from music business to therapy
• Processing childhood grief and father loss
• Working with offenders and complex PTSD
• The role of personal therapy in professional development
• Lola, Philippa's dog's, training as a therapy dog 

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🎧 Join us for an extraordinary conversation with Michaela McCarthy as she shares her journey from therapy client to CEO of The Awareness Centre in London. If you're interested in going behind the doors of the therapy room, this is your chance. 

In this debut episode of A Bunch of Therapists podcast, Michaela authentically shares:
• Her personal experience navigating addiction and mental health
• The transformative impact of her 27-year therapy journey
• Her transition into psychotherapy as a profession
• The story behind founding The Awareness Centre

This episode offers valuable insights for anyone interested in mental wellbeing, considering therapy, or curious about what therapy is really like.

🔍 Episode Highlights:
• Personal experiences with addiction and recovery
• The client-to-practitioner journey
• Building a leading London therapy centre
• Mental health advocacy and awareness

Connect with Michaela:
The Awareness Centre: https://theawarenesscentre.com/  
The Awareness Centre Training School: https://tactrainingschool.com/ 

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This episode discusses eating disorders, cultural stoicism, vulnerability, depression, and body image.

🎧 Join us for an inspiring and deeply personal conversation with Dance Movement Psychotherapist and Transactional Analyst Sabine Tendas as she shares her transformative journey from struggling with an eating disorder in a culture that valued toughness to becoming a therapist who heals through the power of movement and embodied expression.

This honest discussion explores how vulnerability and self-compassion can transform our relationship with our bodies, and why integrating movement into therapy offers profound possibilities.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Sabine openly shares:
• Growing up in Sardinia in a culture that encouraged stoicism and toughness
• Struggling with an eating disorder as a young woman
• The shame and isolation of her eating disorder
• Seeking therapy and experiencing the power of being supported and held
• Learning to embrace vulnerability through her therapeutic relationship
• The inspiration to train as a psychotherapist herself
• Being a keen dancer throughout her life
• Experiencing the healing power of movement during a period of depression
• The realisation that dance could be integrated into therapeutic practice
• Training internationally in Dance Movement Therapy
• Her journey from Sardinia through Spain and Brazil to the UK
• Developing a unique approach combining talking therapy with movement and bodywork
• Working with clients to heal distress through physical expression
• Using embodied therapy to access what words alone cannot reach
• Transforming her own pain into compassionate therapeutic practice

This essential conversation offers invaluable insights for anyone struggling with eating disorders, body image issues, depression, or interested in somatic and movement-based approaches to healing.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Cultural messages about stoicism, toughness and emotional expression
• Eating disorders as a response to emotional pain
• The mind-body connection and embodied trauma
• The healing power of being held and supported in therapy
• Learning vulnerability and self-compassion
• Depression and finding solace through movement
• Dance and creative expression as therapeutic tools
• Somatic therapy and body-centred approaches
• Training in Dance Movement Therapy internationally
• Integrating multiple therapeutic modalities
• Accessing emotions through the body
• Healing distress through physical expression
• Using lived experience to support clients authentically
• The transformative power of movement and embodiment

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This episode contains themes of around racism, colourism, shame, educational inequality, and systemic discrimination.

🎧 Join us for a powerful and deeply personal conversation with psychotherapist Dr Derek McKenzie as he shares his extraordinary journey from facing severe racism and internalised colourism in 1970s South London to becoming a doctor who challenges Eurocentric norms in the therapy world.

This honest discussion explores how childhood adversity and systemic barriers can be transformed into purpose, and why centring Black voices and experiences is essential for authentic therapeutic practice.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Derek openly shares:
• Growing up in South London during the 1970s
• Facing relentless racism on the streets as a child
• Internalising colourist messages from family and society
• Experiencing shame at being darker skinned and African
• Struggling in school and leaving without learning to read and write
• Becoming a young father at 16
• Working hard to support his family from a young age
• Training as a youth worker
• Learning to read and write in his 30s
• Aspiring to become a social worker
• Excelling in exams but being rejected for a university degree in social work
• The pivotal decision to train in counselling instead
• Building a private practice as a psychotherapist
• Completing a doctorate in recent years
• Centring Black authors and voices in his PhD research
• Challenging Eurocentric norms in the therapy world
• Using his lived experience to transform therapeutic practice

This essential conversation offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating racism, colourism, educational barriers, or interested in decolonising therapy and creating more inclusive mental health spaces.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Racism and racial trauma in childhood
• Colourism and internalised shame about skin colour and heritage
• The intersection of racism and educational inequality
• Systemic barriers to education and professional advancement
• Young parenthood and early responsibility
• Resilience and self-education despite institutional rejection
• Career pivots and finding your path
• The importance of representation in therapy training
• Decolonising therapeutic practice
• Centring Black voices and Black authors in academia
• Challenging Eurocentric norms in mental health
• Using lived experience to transform systems
• Building authentic therapeutic relationships across difference

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This honest discussion explores how early experiences of not belonging can shape our sense of self, and why therapy became the catalyst for understanding and embracing her unique identity.

This episode explores themes of dual heritage identity, racial identity, belonging, feeling like an outsider, and cultural displacement.

🎧 Join us for an inspiring and deeply personal conversation with psychotherapist and trainer Mary-Claire Wilson as she shares her transformative journey from feeling like an outsider in two different worlds to becoming a specialist who helps others navigate the complexities of dual and multi-heritage identity.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Mary-Claire openly shares:
• Growing up in a village in Nigeria with her mother's family
• The experience of dual heritage in a Nigerian community
• Moving to the UK with her White father to a small village in Norfolk
• Being singled out as the only person of dual heritage in both environments
• Asking herself as a child: 'what's wrong with me?'
• Feeling profoundly different and like an outsider
• Studying at Oxford University and continued feelings of not belonging
• Training as a primary school teacher
• Experiencing a persistent feeling of emptiness she couldn't shake
• Seeking therapy to address her emotional struggles
• The transformative and healing power of her own therapeutic journey
• The decision to change careers and train as a psychotherapist
• Specialising in dual and multi-heritage identity work
• Lecturing for various counselling and psychotherapy organisations
• Running workshops on inclusion and social equity
• Using her lived experience to support others navigating identity

This essential conversation offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating dual or multi-heritage identity, struggling with belonging, or seeking to understand how cultural displacement shapes our sense of self.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Dual heritage identity and cultural displacement
• Feeling like an outsider in multiple environments
• The impact of being visibly different in predominantly White spaces
• Racial identity development and self-perception
• Childhood experiences of not belonging
• Identity struggles at university and in professional settings
• The persistent feeling of emptiness and disconnection
• Therapy as a path to understanding and accepting yourself
• Career transition from teaching to psychotherapy
• Specialising in dual and multi-heritage therapeutic work
• Creating inclusive spaces and challenging social inequity
• Using lived experience to support clients authentically
• Finding belonging and peace with your identity

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This essential conversation offers invaluable insights for anyone struggling with abandonment fears, anger management, relationship difficulties, or seeking to understand how early experiences shape our adult lives.

🎧 Join us for a warm and deeply personal conversation with integrative therapist Alina Badescu as she shares her transformative journey from childhood abandonment and anger issues to becoming a counsellor who helps others heal through understanding attachment.

This honest discussion explores how early childhood experiences shape our relationships, and why discovering Attachment Theory became the catalyst for profound personal and professional transformation.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Alina openly shares:
• Growing up in Romania in the countryside with her grandmother and aunt
• The shock of being reclaimed by her mother and moving to town
• Struggling to adjust to living with parents she barely knew
• Developing abandonment and anger issues in childhood
• How these unresolved issues impacted her romantic relationships
• The strain on her bond with her own children
• Facing workplace challenges stemming from unhealed trauma
• Coming to England in 2013 and working a succession of dead-end jobs
• Hitting crisis point during the Covid pandemic
• Discovering a Facebook video about Attachment Theory that changed everything
• The pivotal decision to train as a counsellor
• How therapy transformed both her personal and professional life
• Using her lived experience to support clients with similar struggles
• Finding compassion for herself and others through healing work

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Early childhood separation and its lasting impact
• Abandonment trauma and attachment patterns
• How unresolved childhood issues affect romantic relationships
• The impact of parental trauma on parenting your own children
• Anger as a response to unmet emotional needs
• Career and workplace challenges rooted in trauma
• Life transitions and crisis as catalysts for change
• The transformative power of understanding Attachment Theory
• Training as a therapist following personal healing
• Using lived experience to support clients authentically
• Breaking cycles of trauma through therapeutic work
• Finding hope and healing after crisis

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This episode contains discussion around homophobia, family dynamics, identity, feeling different, sexual health, heteronormative standards, and therapeutic practice.

🎧 Join us for an inspiring and deeply personal conversation with psychosexual therapist and author Silva Neves as he shares his extraordinary journey from feeling like an outsider in a tiny rural French Alpine community to building a thriving practice in London challenging conventional approaches to sex and relationship therapy.

This engaging discussion explores how feeling different can become your greatest strength, and why seeking out environments where you truly belong is essential for personal and professional fulfilment.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Silva openly shares:
• Growing up as an only child in a complex family dynamic in the French Alps
• Feeling different from an early age and longing to 'see the horizon'
• Discovering a diverse London environment on a school trip aged 15
• The bold decision to leave home at 18 with just £50 and a one-way ticket
• Working a succession of low-paid jobs whilst building a new life
• Finding his calling supporting schizophrenic patients in the community
• Discovering a capacity for listening and curiosity about clients
• Training as a therapist and specialising in psychosexual therapy
• Challenging heteronormative standards in sex and relationship therapy
• Building a successful practice and becoming a published author
• The transformative power of seeking out where you belong

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone feeling like an outsider, navigating identity, or interested in progressive approaches to sex and relationship therapy.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:
• Growing up feeling different in a small community
• Family dynamics and early identity formation
• The courage to leave home and start afresh
• Finding your people and your place in the world
• Career discovery through meaningful work
• Psychosexual therapy and relationship dynamics
• Challenging conventional approaches to sex and intimacy
• The role of curiosity and listening in therapeutic practice
• Building a successful therapy practice
• Using lived experience to inform professional work

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This episode contains discussion around migration, language barriers, childhood responsibilities, cultural identity, and personal therapy experiences.

Join us for a moving and insightful conversation with therapist, psychologist and researcher Ezgi Erik as she shares her transformative journey from arriving in the UK at age 6 speaking no English to becoming a qualified therapist who specialises in reading the unspoken language of her clients.

This powerful discussion explores how early adversity and cultural displacement can become unexpected strengths in therapeutic practice, and why understanding our own migration story is crucial for healing and connection.

Hosted by:
Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Ezgi openly shares:
• Arriving in the UK from Turkey at age 6 with no English language skills
• Struggling to understand teachers, classmates and school routines
• Mastering English largely through watching British soap operas
• Becoming a family interpreter and advocate whilst still in primary school
• Managing doctors' appointments, bills and adult responsibilities as a child
• The profound impact of early childhood displacement and responsibility
• Processing her migration experience through personal therapy during counselling training
• Discovering how her unusual childhood shaped her therapeutic abilities
• Developing exceptional skills in reading body language, tone and non-verbal cues
• The advantages of being a non-English speaker in developing emotional intelligence
• Launching a career in clinical psychology and running a private practice
• Balancing therapy work with psychology research

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone who has experienced migration, cultural displacement, childhood responsibilities, or who is curious about how our early struggles can become our greatest strengths.

Key Topics Discussed:
• The experience of arriving in a new country as a young child
• Language barriers and the challenge of fitting in at school
• Parentification: children taking on adult responsibilities
• Cultural identity and belonging in a new country
• Using unconventional methods to learn language and culture
• Processing childhood trauma through personal therapy
• How non-verbal communication skills develop in multilingual environments
• The connection between migration experiences and emotional attunement
• Reading body language and tone as therapeutic superpowers
• From struggling child to skilled clinician
• Integrating personal experience into professional practice
• The role of psychology research in understanding migration and identity

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This episode discusses anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, ADHD, Bipolar Affective Disorder, and psychosis.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by The Awareness Centre, a leading counselling and psychotherapy practice in London with over 300 therapists, offering therapy both in person and online. With a range of fee options designed to make support more accessible, no GP referral needed, no waiting list, and appointments available seven days a week. Visit https://theawarenesscentre.com/ to find the right therapist for you.

🎧 Michaela and Dipti meet Consultant Psychiatrist Dr Soumitra Burman-Roy to ask vital questions and challenge myths about mental health, neurodiversity and more.

Born into a family of doctors, Soumitra joined the medical profession as a young man, but it was only when he walked into a psychiatric ward that he realised he'd found his calling. Having spent his young life 'trying to connect with people', he enjoyed the challenge of engaging with people with difficult or confusing behaviours and trying to understand and help them.

He now works with patients and their families to tackle common and complex mental health problems including anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, ADHD, Bipolar Affective Disorder and psychosis.

In this fascinating and informative episode, Soumitra explains what psychiatrists do, how psychiatrists and therapists work together, what a diagnosis is (and when you might need one), why ADHD is on the rise, how our culture and our genes influence our mental health, and how to stay sane when it seems like the world has gone crazy.

Hosted by:

Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach & Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Soumitra shares:

• How he found his calling in psychiatry

• Why he was drawn to understanding difficult or confusing behaviours

• What psychiatrists do

• How psychiatrists and therapists work together

• What a diagnosis is - and when you might need one

• Why ADHD is on the rise

• How culture and genes influence mental health

• How to stay sane when the world has gone crazy

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• Psychiatry and how it supports mental health

• Working with patients and families

• Understanding diagnosis and when it can help

• ADHD and why more people are talking about it

• Anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, Bipolar Affective Disorder and psychoses

• The role of culture and genetics in mental health

• Making sense of mental health myths and misconceptions

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This episode discusses betrayal, infidelity, self-abandonment, body dysmorphia, IVF, fertility struggles, shame, emotional disconnection and rebuilding your life after the end of a marriage.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by TAC Training School. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a therapist or are looking to enhance your clinical skills, TAC Training School offers a complete, supportive pathway into the profession. To find out more, visit http://www.tactrainingschool.com/ 

🎧 In this episode, Dipti is joined by Love and Relationships Coach Alex Croxford for an honest conversation about the life that looks “right” from the outside, and what can happen when you feel disconnected underneath.

Alex shares her journey from a successful career in TV, marriage, body image struggles and IVF, to facing betrayal, shame and the patterns of self-abandonment that shaped her relationships.

This thoughtful conversation explores infidelity, emotional intimacy, perfectionism, self-forgiveness and what it can take to rebuild a more honest relationship with yourself.

Hosted by:

Dipti Solanki, Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC.

This episode also includes an introduction from Michaela McCarthy.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• Betrayal and infidelity

• Self-abandonment

• Body dysmorphia and perfectionism

• IVF and fertility struggles

• Shame and self-forgiveness

• Emotional disconnection in relationships

• Rebuilding your life after divorce

• Therapy, coaching and personal development

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#TherapyUK #Relationships #Infidelity #SelfAbandonment #BodyDysmorphia #IVFJourney #EmotionalWellbeing #Counselling #Psychotherapy #PersonalGrowth

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This episode discusses gambling addiction, shame, co-dependency, self-esteem and masculinity.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by The Awareness Centre Training School. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a therapist or are looking to enhance your clinical skills, TAC Training School offers a complete, supportive pathway into the profession. From foundation-level counselling courses to their BACP-accredited Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Diploma in Clinical Supervision, their programmes are led by expert tutors and designed to help you grow into a confident, ethical and skilled practitioner.

To find out more, visit www.tactrainingschool.com and take the next step in your therapy journey.

🎧 Join us for a fascinating and refreshingly honest conversation with therapist and coach Joel Bild as he shares his journey from a teenage gambling addiction that spiralled out of control, to finding his way through years of self-exploration and ultimately training as a therapist.

This compelling discussion explores the shame and co-dependency that can underpin addiction, and why that elusive sense of “feeling good enough” is so central to our wellbeing.

Hosted by Michaela McCarthy, Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Michaela is a Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader. Also hosted by Dipti Solanki, Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC.

In this compelling episode, Joel openly shares:

• His first encounters with gambling during his school years

• Spending his bus money on fruit machines and the gradual pull of addiction

• His family recognising the problem and referring him to therapy in his teens

• The addiction spiralling out of control by the time he reached university

• The long and non-linear journey of overcoming addiction through self-exploration

• Waiting until he felt “grown up enough” to train as a therapist

• Working with clients on confidence, self-esteem and addiction

• His thoughts on co-dependency and the role it plays in addictive behaviours

• Unpacking shame and how it keeps people stuck

• Exploring masculinity and vulnerability

• The search for that elusive feeling of being “good enough”

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone navigating addiction, struggling with shame, or on their own journey towards self-worth and confidence.

🔍 Key topics discussed:

• Gambling addiction and how it can take hold from a young age

• The role of shame in addiction and recovery

• Co-dependency and its connection to addictive behaviour

• Family intervention and the introduction to therapy

• The long road of self-exploration and personal growth

• Masculinity, vulnerability and emotional honesty

• Confidence and self-esteem in recovery

• Feeling “good enough”: what it means and why it matters

• Using lived experience to inform therapeutic practice

• Working with clients on addiction and self-worth

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This episode discusses childhood trauma, disordered eating, neglect, abuse, PTSD, narcissistic abuse, self-harm and suicide.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by The Awareness Centre Training School. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a therapist or are looking to enhance your clinical skills, TAC Training School offers a complete, supportive pathway into the profession. From foundation-level counselling courses to their BACP-accredited Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Diploma in Clinical Supervision, their programmes are led by expert tutors and designed to help you grow into a confident, ethical, and skilled practitioner. To find out more, visit https://tactrainingschool.com/ and take the next step in your therapy journey.

🎧 Join us for a fascinating and deeply personal conversation with psychotherapist Domenica Stilwell as she shares her journey from a childhood marked by anxiety, neglect and abuse to finding safety through therapy and becoming a specialist in trauma.

This honest and illuminating discussion explores how disconnection from the body can be a response to childhood trauma, and why working with the nervous system is so powerful in facilitating healing.

Hosted by: Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach & Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Domenica openly shares:

• Growing up in Poland and the traumatic experiences she faced in the family home

• Developing an eating disorder at an early age as a response to anxiety, neglect and abuse

• Living so disconnected from her body that she didn't notice a burn turning septic

• A visit to her GP becoming the unexpected catalyst for beginning therapy

• Working with a therapist to understand the roots of her disconnection

• Discovering how her childhood experiences had shaped her relationship with her body

• Finding a sense of safety through therapy that she had never felt in childhood

• Being inspired by her own healing journey to train as a psychotherapist

• Working as a lecturer and therapist specialising in trauma

• Supporting clients experiencing PTSD and narcissistic abuse

• Using nervous system work to facilitate healing in others

This essential conversation offers valuable insights for anyone exploring childhood trauma, disordered eating, body disconnection, or the healing power of therapy.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• Childhood trauma and its lasting impact on the body

• Disordered eating as a response to anxiety, neglect and abuse

• Disconnection from the body and somatic awareness

• The role of the nervous system in trauma and healing

• How an unexpected moment can become a turning point

• Therapy as a path to safety and self-understanding

• PTSD and the effects of narcissistic abuse

• Training as a therapist following personal experience of healing

• Working with trauma in a therapeutic setting

• The journey from surviving to helping others heal

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This episode discusses anxiety, alcohol as a coping mechanism, narcissistic relationships, emotional manipulation, difficult experiences in therapy, non-monogamy, insecurity, authenticity and healing.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by TAC Training School. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a therapist or are looking to enhance your clinical skills, TAC Training School offers a complete, supportive pathway into the profession. To find out more, visit www.tactrainingschool.com

🎧 In this episode, Dipti is joined by psychotherapist, counsellor and mental health writer Amy Sutton for an open conversation about anxiety, relationships and learning to live more authentically.

Amy shares her experience of living with a constant sense of dread and using alcohol to calm her anxiety. She also reflects on narcissistic relationships, emotional manipulation and a difficult experience in therapy that left her questioning her own reality.

This thoughtful conversation explores insecurity, the expectations placed on relationships, opening up a relationship, non-monogamy and what it can mean to move towards greater freedom, honesty and self-understanding.

Hosted by:

Dipti Solanki, Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC.

This episode also includes an introduction from Michaela McCarthy.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• Anxiety and constant feelings of dread

• Using alcohol to manage anxiety

• Narcissistic relationships

• Emotional manipulation and gaslighting

• Difficult experiences within therapy

• Insecurity and relationship expectations

• Monogamy and non-monogamy

• Opening up a relationship

• Authenticity, freedom and healing

• Therapy and self-understanding

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#TherapyUK #Anxiety #NarcissisticRelationships #Gaslighting #NonMonogamy #EmotionalWellbeing #Counselling #Psychotherapy #MentalHealth #Healing

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This episode discusses addiction, recovery, emotional rock bottom, trauma, EMDR, flow states, boarding school, music, substance abuse and the possibility of profound change.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by The Awareness Centre, with over 300 therapists offering online and in-person appointments, a range of fee options, no need for a GP referral and no waiting list. To find out more, visit https://www.theawarenesscentre.com/

🎧 In this episode, Dipti is joined by psychologist and recovery specialist Josh Dickson for an honest conversation about addiction, recovery and the power of finding flow states.

Josh shares how his unsettled childhood, boarding school years, music career and the rock ’n’ roll lifestyle eventually led him into substance abuse, emotional rock bottom and recovery.

He speaks openly about the pull of belonging, the shame that can surround addiction, the grief of letting go, and why rock bottom is not always the dramatic moment people imagine.

This thoughtful conversation also explores trauma, EMDR, addiction counselling, recovery work and how surfing, movement and flow states can support healing.

Hosted by:

Dipti Solanki, Therapist, Coach and Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC.

This episode also includes an introduction from Michaela McCarthy.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• Addiction and recovery

• Emotional rock bottom

• Shame and belonging

• Boarding school and early life experiences

• Music and the rock ’n’ roll lifestyle

• Substance abuse and self-soothing

• Trauma and EMDR

• Addiction counselling

• Flow states and surfing

• Resurface and trauma recovery

• Healing, change and hope

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#AddictionRecovery #TherapyPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #EMDR #TraumaRecovery #FlowStates #RecoveryJourney #Counselling #Psychotherapy #ABunchOfTherapists

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This episode discusses childhood trauma, parental violence, homelessness, narcissistic abuse, and relationship breakdown.

This episode of A Bunch of Therapists is proudly sponsored by The Awareness Centre, a leading counselling and psychotherapy practice in London with over 300 therapists, offering therapy both in person and online. With a range of fee options designed to make support more accessible, no GP referral needed, no waiting list, and appointments available seven days a week. Visit https://theawarenesscentre.com/ to find the right therapist for you.

🎧 Join us for a warm, candid and eye-opening conversation with psychotherapist, writer and media personality Kathleen Saxton as she shares her difficult childhood in Gravesend, her journey from corporate career to therapy room, and the inspiration behind her powerful new book 'My Parent The Peacock'.

This compelling discussion explores how growing up with a narcissistic parent shapes us, and why helping victims recognise and validate their experiences is such vital therapeutic work.

Hosted by: Michaela McCarthy (Founder of The Awareness Centre, The Awareness Centre Training School, and Creator and Host of A Bunch of Therapists Podcast. Senior BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Influential Leader) and Dipti Solanki (Therapist, Coach & Consultant, Mental Health Trainer and Founder of Grief Matters 4 All CIC).

In this compelling episode, Kathleen openly shares:

• Growing up in Gravesend, Kent with an absent father and a violent mother

• Her family being made homeless when she was just 11 years old

• How that turbulent childhood drove her to become a high achiever

• Succeeding in education and building a successful corporate career

• The decision to retrain as a psychotherapist

• Becoming engaged during her training to someone she later recognised as a narcissist

• How that experience led her to pursue specialist training in narcissism

• Finding the clarity and strength to end the relationship

• Recognising the number of children of narcissists appearing in the therapy room

• Writing 'My Parent The Peacock' to help victims name and validate their experiences

• Helping readers begin to reckon with the damage caused by a narcissistic parent

• Her work as a presenter and media commentator, including appearances on ITV's This Morning, The Times and Stylist

This essential conversation offers invaluable insight for anyone who grew up with a narcissistic parent, has experienced narcissistic abuse in relationships, or is seeking to understand the lasting impact of narcissism on family dynamics.

🔍 Key Topics Discussed:

• The impact of a violent and emotionally unavailable parent in childhood

• Homelessness and instability in early life

• High achievement as a response to childhood trauma

• Recognising narcissistic behaviour in close relationships

• Specialist training in narcissism and its application in therapy

• Children of narcissists in the therapy room

• Validating the experiences of those raised by narcissistic parents

• The healing power of naming what happened to you

• Writing accessible, warm therapeutic resources for the public

• Transitioning from a corporate career to a career in therapy

• The overlap between personal experience and therapeutic specialism

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